Our First Time | WAS IT WORTH THE WAIT? | Honeymoon Story Time

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
  • By popular request, here is the story of Our first time "doing it" as "virgins" on our wedding night.
    This video took a lot (from me especially) lol, but as someone who watched them leading up to this time I know our transparency and authenticity will be encouraging to other virgins/those on a purity journey.
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  • @nyambujess2950
    @nyambujess2950 Рік тому +63

    I am a virgin turning 35 in January 2023. The purity journey hasn't been easy but I finally found someone and he also believes in sex after marriage. He is everything I've always prayed for. God is faithful guys. Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @blessedprincess1319
    @blessedprincess1319 2 роки тому +52

    Single, waiting. 28, still untouched. Praying for the right one. God continue to bless you both richly. Thanks for the encouragement 🙏

  • @torigrant4639
    @torigrant4639 2 роки тому +217

    To be young, patient and devoted to God and you are NOT IGNORANT SDA Christians; you guys give me hope... the wait is so worth it ! Thank you and God bless you both 🥺❤️

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +7

      Aww, we appreciate it love ❤️❤️

    • @dorretteperry8150
      @dorretteperry8150 2 роки тому +1

      So beautiful so adorable to watch you guys getting 😍❤married congratulations 👏to you both I gladly say who. God joined 🙏together let no break 🙏it so so happy for you guysi ❤blessing forever your bed is so clean on the file as old times people would say 😀I am one of those person put my ears to old times fairy tales heaven welcome you both in your life time of happiness forever stay bess keep it real romantic 😊love ❤you ❤guys I will never not praying for you 💘both one loves always

    • @christineshand1802
      @christineshand1802 2 роки тому +2

      Your comments on SDAs shows your ignorance

    • @torigrant4639
      @torigrant4639 2 роки тому

      @@christineshand1802 see my point , now you sound like 'the ignorant SDA Christian' always that one person in the comment section smh ... learn to not look, at just the surface of things. God bless you.

    • @torigrant4639
      @torigrant4639 2 роки тому +5

      @@kauaakauraisa1375 good day, I refer to SDA because they are. My comment was not referred to ‘abstinence for marriage’ I was speaking in general. I’ve been Adventist for two years and counting, I’m speaking from experience I had with SDA’s... Protestants/Remnant church all that. When the Lord revealed the he Sabbath to me... I was willing to learn. Started attending church on Saturdays... SDA’s treated me like an outcast, they ridiculed me because it was evident I came from a Sunday church... they held it over my head; they talked to me like i dont know God.. they always asked rhetorical questions like I’m a fool, just because of the books (spirit of prophecies), they are the remnant church and so-called Protestants. They behaved as if they went to Jerusalem High. Every Friday I would go on Fasten for God to give me the strength to face them... I should never be in a state of fear to enter the house of God, and it reached a point where I would volunteer in the church... decision were made that I should not be volunteering because of my Sunday background, (and God was the one who instructed me to do such thing in the church)... One day my patience ran out and I had to leave ; this did not happened once, it happened at small groups and churches. 5 in total. So when I say IGNORANT SDAs I’m not being disrespectful. You do have ignorant ones, who projects their beliefs on you and if you don’t receive it, they rebuke you. I stayed far away SDA’s for 3 years... but I never loose my faith- just stayed home and watch Pastor Henriques from Save to Serve Intl. and visits an SDA community church now and then. I discovered Zhara from one of my Law friends at uwi and from then I was hooked and I was in awe never knew Young and Faithful SDA’s existed. THEY GIVE ME HOPE AND I PRAY THAT GOD WILL BLESS THEM BOTH ON THEIR JOURNEY WITH GOD.

  • @iwalkawayfromlove3840
    @iwalkawayfromlove3840 2 роки тому +77

    Love how frank this was...Plenty ppl look at this topic as taboo and private... Seeing the joys and Bliss of waiting makes me appreciate the institution of marriage so much more...

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much for watching! ♥️💞 It's a sacred institution , and it should get the credit it deserves!

  • @maureengolding2980
    @maureengolding2980 2 роки тому +113

    You guys are not shy at all. I am having a ball listening and laughing!

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +6

      Nah we're not lol

    • @nikkic2710
      @nikkic2710 2 роки тому

      Mi seh....I enjoy every bit...laughed so hard😀😃😃😃😃

  • @neoladublin8440
    @neoladublin8440 2 роки тому +110

    congrats you two are a very great example for this generation, ps you guys are too funny

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +3

      Just doing the best we can for the tribe ❤️

    • @dorretteperry8150
      @dorretteperry8150 2 роки тому +2

      So so beautiful ur special wife waited on you so long you are lucky man blessing forever on your honeymoon ❤stay safe enjoy every moment of your life ❤live up

    • @antheasamuel8419
      @antheasamuel8419 2 роки тому

      6

  • @jessicam7426
    @jessicam7426 2 роки тому +37

    "All of a sudden people must know how to backflip" ikr! 🤣 As a mature SDA single I truly value this conversation! We definitely need more of those IN Church

    • @iwalkawayfromlove3840
      @iwalkawayfromlove3840 2 роки тому +4

      I agree.... The conversations need to be normalized...

    • @WanderlustDoc
      @WanderlustDoc 2 роки тому +1

      right. lol. Im curious as how it should be lol.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +4

      lol definitely ! We live a wholesome life, and God cares about every single aspect.

  • @jadabrown6063
    @jadabrown6063 2 роки тому +150

    😂😂Unu couldn’t tell we unu a comedian? This vlog was so funny. I love itttt!! Thank you for sharing your experience and just being genuine and transparent. I’m sure you’ve definitely enlightened a lot of viewers 💕 I’m so happy you guys enjoyed yourselves too lolll and I pray you’ll continue to do so❤️. God bless you guyssssss

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +9

      Aww, thanks so much Jada ❤️ We actually don't even try to be funny enuh lool, but life is too short to take things too seriously. I didn't realise the video was this hilarious until I was editing 😂

    • @nattyb2924
      @nattyb2924 2 роки тому +3

      Girl! I'm over here dying too! 😂

  • @jenniferwilliams1999
    @jenniferwilliams1999 2 роки тому +64

    Standing Ovations for this video! Happy for you both! Congratulations to you both! You are letting the world know the right way to do the right things of God.The marriage bed is to be kept pure or undefiled. In other words, the sexual intimacy shared between a husband and wife is to be reserved for that couple alone. God created the sexual union to be between a husband and a wife. Period. Only. No other use of sexuality is ever condoned in Scripture. To abuse or misuse God’s gift of sex is to defile the marriage bed.🙏💖😇

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +2

      Amen! We definitely agree with that. Thank you so much for your blessings and your kinds words 💖

    • @jenniferwilliams1999
      @jenniferwilliams1999 2 роки тому +6

      You’re most welcome! You are a beautiful couple. Put God first in your marriage and relationship and God will bless you abundantly.🙏😇💖

  • @markjohn58076
    @markjohn58076 2 роки тому +48

    I have mad respect for y'all...God is good 🙂 Happy y'all waited.... y'all give Young christians in dating and courtship hope in waiting until marriage....I'm happy to see this...God bless y'all ...it's very rewarding to do things Gods way..

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks so much for watching Mark! That's so true, God gives us a love letter called the Bible, and it really helps us to map out the best kind of life. 💗

    • @markjohn58076
      @markjohn58076 2 роки тому

      @@adventuresofxyz22 you're welcome zhara...thanks for the video it was very inspirational...it was funny but it made me reflect on Gods will for mankind.

  • @shadellekedene
    @shadellekedene 2 роки тому +74

    Okay, this is by far the best story-time of the Jerusalema experience ! Blessings on your journey! Continue to pursue each other, learn about each other and create spaces like these…it’s true, we really don’t talk about what need to be talked about in church ✌🏾!

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +4

      Thanks Shadelle, nuff energy it take lmao. First I had to convince myself that it was for the greater good 😂😂

    • @shadellekedene
      @shadellekedene 2 роки тому +5

      @@adventuresofxyz22 and you didn’t have to, but I’m glad you did. Not everyone will agree with your decision , but there are a lot of people who appreciate this, trust me ☺️

  • @tarinasimon4147
    @tarinasimon4147 2 роки тому +54

    Thank you for going against the grain and having this conversation for those of us who are waiting. 💜

  • @candaceobrian6302
    @candaceobrian6302 2 роки тому +8

    Y’all deff hit the nail on the head about the church individuals telling you inappropriate things the day of the wedding , girl I was scarred lol

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      lol like where dem going with it now? After all these yearrsss

  • @zarinelson8818
    @zarinelson8818 2 роки тому +29

    The best videos always come out when I should be studying 😭😭😭 #postnotificationgang

  • @hilzpirationwithcoachhilet1638
    @hilzpirationwithcoachhilet1638 2 роки тому +32

    Y'all are hilarious. Such a beautiful example to young people. #PurityAdvocates. Love it! "Jerusalema" 😂😂😂😂 The story sweet. Love unuh bad! Watch Xaundre face tho...😂😂😂🙈🙈🙈 Jerusalema did deh pon yuh mind...talk d truth!!!
    Love how the channel growing by the day. Road to 10k🎉🎉🎉💕💕💕💕🎈🎈💋💋

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      Definitely road to 10k , Thank you so much Hilette 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @Jlight127
    @Jlight127 2 роки тому +15

    God bless you both for sharing your story. I don’t regret having children out of Wedlock. But as a single mom trying to raise two kids by myself I truly encourage all those who are firm believers of no sex before marriage stick by it. I never dreamed I would be a single parent but now 49 I believe I’m reaping what I’ve sown and that’s why I’m still alone. My kids are now thriving adults but the pain I endured raising them in this cold world still exist.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +15

      Aww, I understand. I wish for you a prosperous new chapter. Although there are consequences for our actions God also gives second chances and grace. Age doesn't limit this, so I do hope that your next chapter will be filled with contentment!

    • @stephaniemclune2296
      @stephaniemclune2296 2 роки тому +3

      You are fine. These things happen although not ideal. The good thing is that God does not hold this against you if repented. Forgive yourself.....it is ok.

  • @zariaferguson8313
    @zariaferguson8313 2 роки тому +25

    Nah bcuz I couldn’t even get thru the 1st minute of this video🤣🤣 Y’all are HILARIOUS, had me cracking up the whole video🤣🤣🤣😭😭 The way you were both gushing throughout the whole video just shows how blissful it is to wait🥺 Love the transparency! And I do agree this a conversation the church needs to be more open about especially for our young people👌🏾

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      lol, Was it thattt obvious? I thought I was being discrete lmao. Thanks for watching hun!

  • @jhonellegreen
    @jhonellegreen 2 роки тому +17

    Jerusalemaaaa😂😂😂 Listennnn I laughed for this entire video.... Honesty see you guys as role models cause unuh just nice

  • @ordenconnell868
    @ordenconnell868 2 роки тому +21

    Yall talked about the time and I now feel super-encouraged😅 to stay Pure. Thank you Guys.

  • @godsvessel8834
    @godsvessel8834 2 роки тому +21

    New Subscriber here, I'm so happy that young Adventist are sharing their stories/journey. I'm very proud of you both and it's so true the church need to teach and educate young ppl about these things. I wish I could tell my story but I'm too shy 😂😂😂. The struggle was real no lie

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      Welcome to the tribe! There is so much to talk about for sure! Whenever you're ready to tell your story, you know you have a space!❤️

    • @purposefilledshan4905
      @purposefilledshan4905 2 роки тому

      God’s vessel I knw ppl need to hear n prepare trust me I’m struggling with anxiety and the whole wrks #LoveAndLight ❤️❤️🦋

  • @shyannrose9276
    @shyannrose9276 2 роки тому +33

    I'm cracking up over here 🤣 😂 😭 😆
    ..... you guys do not disappoint 👏. I pray your bond grows and strengthens every day hun.. much love to you both ❤

  • @princeofzion
    @princeofzion 2 роки тому +33

    This was tastefully done. Beautiful, you guys will be a great example to Christian youths trying to do things according to gods will. God bless you both.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      Thanks so much for watching! We really tried to make sure it was tasteful , Blessings 💗

    • @DG-sf8sm
      @DG-sf8sm 2 роки тому

      So true...

  • @luveniaparker6183
    @luveniaparker6183 Рік тому +2

    This was truly a blessing I'm 63yrs I have kept myself for over 30yrs and walking in freedom for the husband god has for me. I minister to young adults about this journey through my past mistakes. God is a start all over God when you repent surrender you life fully to God. The blessing are awesome 👌 keep shining and sharing God's words and yall life experiences the world needs it. Blessing to you both🙌👏👏👏👏🙏💋💞

  • @charmainelowrie-davis4023
    @charmainelowrie-davis4023 2 роки тому +21

    XyZ I absolutely love your openness. It's really true that much more could be done (especially as a church) in terms of having open conversations with young people about waiting and what to do when the emotions run high. It was just yesterday that a friend of mine (who is at pastor in CJC) sent me a zoom link to a rap session that MAYFED was having on "Dealing with urges while waiting". I hope these kinds of rap sessions can be spread across JAMU. The BEST thing to do is wait until marriage and I endorse that 100%....that can't be exchanged for anything else (it's 2nd to none). However, like Zhara implied, for those who might have gone that way before, just get up, brush yourself off and get refurbished. All the very best on your journey. Zhara & Xaundre, always remember that you have entered a school from which you will never graduate. By God's grace you'll make it. Thanks for sharing. Peace, love and blessings!

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      Thanks so much for watching! And yes, I've already been sharing that poster all around, because I can imagine how beneficial it will be. We appreciate your kind words and encouragement so much! 💗

    • @charmainelowrie-davis4023
      @charmainelowrie-davis4023 2 роки тому

      @@adventuresofxyz22 You're most welcome. Blessings!

  • @leeallen1556
    @leeallen1556 Рік тому +1

    You have changed my life at 60 years old. Thank you. Unfortunately some of us never had and will never have this experience because we were violated no fault of ours. Pray for us.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  Рік тому +1

      Aww, we're so happy to be a part of your journey. It indeed is so sad to hear about violations, sigh. It's even better to know that we're a new Creation through Jesus.

  • @hopelewis1131
    @hopelewis1131 2 роки тому +27

    God bless your union. It's good to find a young couple so honest and open.

  • @tenishat1052
    @tenishat1052 2 роки тому +9

    Idk where to start ....you guys are so awesome in a world where most youngsters are lost and don't value themselves its refreshing to see and experience this journey. I pray God's richest blessing & guidance over your marriage...

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      We're just living the best we can in these days ❤️ Thank you so much

  • @kingkekek3825
    @kingkekek3825 2 роки тому +21

    I'm usually a silent viewer but I just had to comment on this one. You two are an adorable and blessed couple, I was looking on your wedding posts on Instagram the other day and I'm just so proud and happy for you both. I wish nothing but the best for your marriage, continue flourishing in Christ.❤❤

  • @Vanestaroi
    @Vanestaroi 2 роки тому +12

    When I tell you I was screaming with laughter 🤣🤣🤣 watching this, you guys are hilarious. Thank you for the transparency and yes we need to speak more about ‘Jerusulema’ in the church.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +3

      lol, 🤣🤣🤣🤣 A comedy buss this. Thanks for watching hun! 😍

  • @kathleenevers7016
    @kathleenevers7016 2 роки тому +11

    You guys are perfect for each other I pray my daughters would have these experience when God bless them with a Godly men.
    I almost cry when you shared your testimony of losing your dad I saw my oldest daughter in your story she was only 9 when my husband pass away suddenly I felt like she hated God no matter what I say, she’s an adult and it still haunts her. I continue to trust for her.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for watching Aunty. Continue praying over your daughters daily , and their relationship with God. Because when it comes to these things, only one's personal devotion to their relationship with God will matter 💗

  • @lansrobain8316
    @lansrobain8316 2 роки тому +57

    Listen I can’t say enough how I love you both! Your transparency and honesty is appealing. As I listen to your story time I’m just smiling thinking about when I have to go to as Xhandre says “Jerusalem” 🤣🤣
    I have 2 of those kind of friends who encourages (at times when the struggle gets real 😉) through God’s word. Thanks to you both for being real. May God continue to bind your union in Him and each other 🙏❤️

    • @neeshh384
      @neeshh384 2 роки тому +3

      Amen! Aren't just adorable? They are full of so much wisdom.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much to you both! We're so grateful that we can grow on this journey together and take you guys along with us! Much Love ❤️

  • @raymondsmith4254
    @raymondsmith4254 2 роки тому +9

    Thanks for keeping it so real. The body of Christ (churches) has been so closed-minded about intimacy, that's ordain by God. As trail blazer willing to push beyond the normal comfort zone, my prayers go with you both as you continue to impact this new generation.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      Thank u so much ☺️ We’re just doing our part on this side of the internet. We appreciate ur prayers and kind words 💕💕💕

  • @ricardodixon3212
    @ricardodixon3212 2 роки тому +51

    Thank you guys soooooo much for sharing your experience. This video was soooo HILARIOUS!!!!! LOL. I know this might not have been easy to talk about on social media but its definitely an encouragement for us to continue on the path of purity. Thank you both so much for your honesty, modesty of speech, transparency and just your willingness to share. I''ll definitely continue to pray you guys up. #JERUSALEM! #GOD'STIMING!!!!!!!!

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +3

      Aww Ricardo, we really appreciate this comment. And yes, it was not an easy video to record, but we knew how much we benefitted from these convos and knew the burden would be on our shoulders if we didn't allow others to benefit. Love Always 💗💗💗💗

    • @ricardodixon3212
      @ricardodixon3212 2 роки тому

      @@adventuresofxyz22 I definitely understand what you guys mean. Thanks again!!!

  • @lilacjazzy5510
    @lilacjazzy5510 2 роки тому +6

    I am newly married as well and I can attest to all of what you are saying. No guilt… I can’t even explain it. Mi bawl to

  • @hortensedockery800
    @hortensedockery800 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for such transparency I am now 73 years of age, and I am very grateful for the exposure to talk about this journey in life,I think if the church spoke to the young people and older women and men on the subject of real dating and the sexual aspects of dating and waiting I think it will be exciting for the marriage to have a lasting impact on our relationship,Blessings

  • @ihekaji
    @ihekaji 2 роки тому +3

    All I can say is glory to God for the both of you! So encouraging. Whenever God decides it’s time for my courting to advance to marriage I pray it’s a blessing! Thank God you’re not letting the fear of taboo silence us believers!!!

  • @colleenwint1
    @colleenwint1 2 роки тому +8

    The rewards of purity journey is really blissful. The journey is challenging yet the sacrifice of waiting does gives you a guiltless mind and a sense of peace.
    Blessings guys!!
    My face is fixed on smiles and laughters throughout this video!!❤❤🔥💯

  • @herbandspicekitchen
    @herbandspicekitchen 2 роки тому +14

    Congratulations to you guys. I found your channel recently and binge watch your videos. You are such a great role model to the younger generation. You guys makes me proud to 🇯🇲

    • @kmc4735
      @kmc4735 2 роки тому +2

      I found it Friday and I am binge watching too! Refreshing! Blessings on this union!

    • @herbandspicekitchen
      @herbandspicekitchen 2 роки тому +2

      @KMc once you start watching you have go back and catch up on the other video. Really is refreshing. Bless them.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      Awww thanks so much you two! We appreciate you here, please never leave lol ❤️

  • @kelmasabaroche9901
    @kelmasabaroche9901 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing example to what so many young SDA Youth yearn to hear….frank….motivating ,but not in no way bashing those who haven’t waited….such an encouragement.

  • @williams.t
    @williams.t 2 роки тому +25

    You both are so cute! Lol! Go through peeps! Young, married and freeeee! #LOVEIT

  • @deebestest100
    @deebestest100 2 роки тому +12

    I love y’all cute y’all are being about this 😂 Xaundre say “come” and y’all burst out laughing 😂😂😂😂

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I blushed this entire video

  • @shadellekedene
    @shadellekedene 2 роки тому +60

    3 mins in and I’m 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This was fun guys. If you do a survey, you’ll realize a lot of couples really are too tired on the actual night. My wedding was at 10 am so we had time to rest and still be ready for the actual day(night).Thanks for the entertainment and big ups for sharing this very special part of your ‘life’.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +5

      lol that's so true, so many people told us that. We had a friend that did a morning wedding too , got to rest 😂😂😂😂

  • @WhatsMaName911
    @WhatsMaName911 2 роки тому +12

    Woe this nice, I wasn’t prepared you guys are hilarious. But on a serious note conversations like these legit never happen. And honestly speaking I am grateful you guys shared and are open. I wish more people in the church were like this.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      Awww thanks so much hun, Don't worry, we'll share what's not in church always lol

  • @melmay3153
    @melmay3153 2 роки тому +17

    Always love your transparency. As someone who is waiting till marriage, I enjoyed the authenticity of this. Keep it up!

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      Aww, thank you! We wish you all the best on this journey! 💕

  • @rosemarietaylor9482
    @rosemarietaylor9482 2 роки тому +29

    I just can’t exaggerate how much I love and admire these 2 young people, they are the most realistic and outspoken couple. I’m here 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 my heart out. Xaundre and Zhara you’re epic and the best, great motivators 💝💖💞💕💓♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😍😍😍😍👏👏👏👏

  • @maureengolding2980
    @maureengolding2980 2 роки тому +7

    So happy that you all can represent Jamaica with such class, diplomatic skill(Jerusalem) lol. We abraod love Jamaica no matter how long we have been away. Please keep praying for our beautiful country as I and others will do the same. Blessings!

  • @ingridjackson7113
    @ingridjackson7113 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks to UA-cam for putting this for me to watch. As a much older "old time" SDA Christian, I am happy your channel is here. There was no discussion 40 years ago. The message was ONLY Abstinence. Why didnt they give us some tips and guidance?? So many of us could have benefited from a conversation. I didn't wait but wished I had, especially once I met my husband. I'm glad for this technology and hope young people like yourselves will continue on this platform so others can learn and grow on their journey. It's time Adventist stop dragging their feet with this topic cause no one else is. Thank you for being open and sharing your story so others can benefit. This is my first time watching your channel and I loved it. Laughter is good for the soul. Greetings from 🇨🇦. Happy Sabbath. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. I will SUBSCRIBE to your channel too.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much to watching and joining the family aunty Ingrid 💕 Yes there is a wide gap with the discussions that are out there publicly and although we may not always be right we’re trying to close that gap. Ur kind words mean a lot and I’m sure the young people who come across this video feel the same ❤️

  • @worshiprose3932
    @worshiprose3932 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for being transparent guys I really admire you guys. Churches really sugarcoat alot of stuff relating to sex and marriage but have encouraged me to keep waiting.

  • @yonelleanderson7342
    @yonelleanderson7342 2 роки тому +9

    “I never got a distinction in O&G for nothing” EYE YAM SCREAMINGGGG 😂😂😂😂 love you guys

  • @Delicieuxable
    @Delicieuxable 2 роки тому +9

    Transparency 10/10... I watch so many of these videos and I enjoyed y'alls soo much. Extra motivation, extra encouragement for me 😊😊😊

  • @sonyainspires8186
    @sonyainspires8186 2 роки тому +17

    This was just everything!! 😂😂😂😂😂 I laugh till I weak! Thanks for sharing! It really means a lot. This will definitely help us single ladies to wait 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @andreahowell8640
      @andreahowell8640 2 роки тому +3

      Oh I really love this chanel. I will never get tied of listening to you both. My favorite couple so far. I laugh all the way to the end. Thanks for sharing your experience. Grest example of christian love how God intended it. Blessing to u both and congrats once again🇱🇨

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      It'll be worth the wait hun, God has never failed us yet on anything, He won't fail you on this one 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      We appreciate you so much ! Blessings and love 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @roxanfoster-richards
    @roxanfoster-richards 2 роки тому +10

    I've been waiting for this all my life, OK, all my life...I'm about 30 seconds in and I'm sooo excited 😁😊😂...just realising the ads are running first but I'm being patient watching them, can I tell you how you have inspired me to be so intentional with things even as simple as liking each video I watch and watching the ads, it doesn't cost anything so why not help youtubers to earn eh...anyway can't wait for the video to start lool...'I come good'...'I had to suck it up' dwl I weakkkkkkk...context and language is so important 😂😂😂😂...OK I dome watching lol I loved this I can't stop smiling...blessings on your union XYZ ty for always keeping it real ♥

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂.😂😂😂😂 Roxan, you are the best lol. When you said been waiting all my life I screamed. Thanks for watching the ads, for liking and for being a constant part of this tribe. We appreciate you!

    • @roxanfoster-richards
      @roxanfoster-richards 2 роки тому

      @@adventuresofxyz22 you are most welcome, I gasped a few times shocked at some stuff and how transparent you guys are as a young Christian couple lool I can tell you really were intentional with it all and I love it, the topic of sex in church is so hushed lawdddd I love u guys for this. Xaun is a comedian u hear me, mi ago watch bk d video lol

  • @RichelleTHenry
    @RichelleTHenry 2 роки тому +8

    The random unexpected edits kill me DWL!!!! However this was fun and hailarious! Thanks for sharing guys.....
    By the way, lets talk about how the numbers of the tribe just been rapidly speeding. I come here every so often to rewatch (from my other account also subscribed) and each time I come I lose count

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      lol, ikr, we're so grateful and in awe at the growth. Thanks so much for always showing up Richelle! 😀

  • @danielleallen2874
    @danielleallen2874 2 роки тому +17

    1st time watching you guys and I love this for you! Y'all are so cute! ☺️ May God continue to bless your union 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @marybenoit6375
    @marybenoit6375 2 роки тому +6

    You both are so brave, I wish young people who are courting would watch your vlogs.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      We hope to share our story to young people all over the world

  • @annastacianash4375
    @annastacianash4375 2 роки тому +8

    I appreciate this content so much ,am reminded that having God as the center of one’s relationship is beneficial and worthwhile.thanks for sharing.❤️❤️

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      So happy to be the bearer of this reminder. Thank you so much for watching! Blessings 💕💕

  • @elsietagaloo1902
    @elsietagaloo1902 2 роки тому +16

    Who else is laughing from ear to 👂? U 2 r the best. So glad l subscribed .😃

  • @karina_iamlight
    @karina_iamlight 2 роки тому +5

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thank you for talking about this…..much needed conversation in the Christian community. And this relaxed chat so much fun to watch😂😂😂😂😂 learnt a lot.

  • @donnarodney7519
    @donnarodney7519 2 роки тому +5

    You guys are an inspiration to Christian youths. They can learn from you. May God continue to inspire both of you.

  • @maxinebeale4185
    @maxinebeale4185 2 роки тому +8

    OMG!!!! Listening to you both, I wish I could re live my life. OMG!!! Lovely. God richest blessings on you all.

  • @hyacinthreno
    @hyacinthreno 2 роки тому +2

    You’re blessed because the Lord has honored you because you’ve honored Him by waiting and doing it his way. I applaud your courage for coming forward and sharing this experience with young people. I’m really very proud of you, and I can’t even imagine how Heaven is rejoicing right now. Your journey is in for more blessings that you can’t even imagine. Shalom

  • @lillamitto8242
    @lillamitto8242 2 роки тому +7

    Beautiful story, I'm so impressed with your honesty and I'm glad you kept God in all your planning and giving Him all the credit. Love you 😊 💖 🙏🏿

  • @natoyagrant3231
    @natoyagrant3231 2 роки тому +8

    Awwhhh beautiful story. Thanks for sharing. Thanks for letting the world know it's okay to wait. I didn't wait though...but God forgives and at least I know waiting for my husband is worth it still. also now I can tell others about a great couple who did wait and it was a success...cause most people don't believe in waiting, but I do believe it's worth it and I encourage everyone to wait on God.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +4

      His grace is sufficient for you! Your value didn't fall because you didn't wait. I'm glad that you have accepted His forgiveness and most of all, have forgiven yourself. Thanks so much for watching 💗

  • @alexiaheadlam2273
    @alexiaheadlam2273 2 роки тому +8

    Then look how Xaundre excited fi tell the story 😅😂😂
    Y’all are a whole mood

  • @nicolettejohnson8449
    @nicolettejohnson8449 2 роки тому +12

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 I cannot !! Y’all are hilarious beautiful transparent and real life situations continue teaching guys . We are here for the journey 🤗🤗❤️

  • @tishariwilliams787
    @tishariwilliams787 2 роки тому +13

    I truly appreciate you guys for being open, honest and transparent about your love for each other and your love for God❤🙏🏽❤🙏🏽💕

  • @pearlinekerr6687
    @pearlinekerr6687 2 роки тому +8

    May God continue to bless your marriage. I am so proud of you both. It is so good to know that there are still young people who are willing to wait. You both are the epitome of dedicated Christians. I am so glad when I found your channel.

  • @deneshiaforte7796
    @deneshiaforte7796 2 роки тому +12

    I love how both of you brust, laugh at the same time . It shows the bond you and hubby have ..

  • @mureenporter9981
    @mureenporter9981 2 роки тому +2

    You are open, honest and such a joy as a young married christian couple.

  • @mitsukanoel
    @mitsukanoel 2 роки тому +10

    I just love you guys’s energy!! This was such a funny story 😂. I completely understand straight knocking out after the wedding. I talked a BIG talk leading up to the night of, and couldn’t even back it up!! Even with advice, I realized that no one’s first time is the same. Lol Glad to hear hubby was patient because us ladies need that sometimes. Keep these videos coming guys!!

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      Aww, thanks so much for watching sis. And listen, Big Big talk I talk too lol 😂😂😂 Much love ❤️

  • @kathleenevers7016
    @kathleenevers7016 2 роки тому +13

    your husband is hilarious 😆
    spilling ALL the TEA ☕️😆

  • @jozanebryan503
    @jozanebryan503 2 роки тому +3

    I just started the video and i'm dyinnggg. ""Worrse like how mi love jerusalema." DWL. I know i'm in for a treat!
    So im back...mi just a dead with laugh the whole video....unuh mek the topic sound effortless. Really appreciate the authenticity, transparency and just real life. We young adventist youth really appreciate the representation and the time y'all take to break the ice with us on every video. Love you both.... #worththewait #Godsplan #adventistyouth #jerusalema

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      Awww, thanks so much Jozane! haha, it really was a comedy show that I didn't even realise. Blessings ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vloginthelyfofnica
    @vloginthelyfofnica 2 роки тому +8

    Congratulations guys 🥰😍 and praying for a long lasting marriage. Never leave God out of it

  • @lorrainep2135
    @lorrainep2135 2 роки тому +3

    Wonderful you both are an inspiration for the younger generations both in church and not in church to wait. These are the conversations churches should have with the younger teenagers in and out of church. Keep up the great work you are keeping it real. (Jeru into the lema)LOL so sweet

  • @nattyb2924
    @nattyb2924 2 роки тому +2

    I became celibate after pregnancy and it's the best feeling ever. No guilt or shame! Praying that I'll be able to hold it till marriage.

  • @rosemarietaylor9482
    @rosemarietaylor9482 2 роки тому +8

    You guys getting me so emotional🥲🥲🥲you were join together by God and I’m so overwhelmed with so much joy for you both. I’m encouraging all young people to walk into that direction you guys are walking into. So real and perfect. Welcome to Jerusalema 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much lol 😂😂😂😂. we accept the welcome!

  • @caribbeankpoplover
    @caribbeankpoplover 3 місяці тому

    As soon as you opened your mouth, I knew you guys were my people 😭 Can’t believe I’m just finding your channel but thank you so much for sharing! ❤

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  3 місяці тому +1

      Yay! Thanks for watching, and welcome to our family!

  • @dawnsalmon-palmer9968
    @dawnsalmon-palmer9968 2 роки тому +9

    Guys ....you did not disappoint . 🙌
    You both had me cracking 🤣 up. Thank you for sharing your most intimate experience with us. The church definitely needs to address this topic and be more open. I am happy for you both. May God continue to order your steps. 🙏 ♥️🦋💫👐

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much for watching! blessings ❤️❤️

  • @sherinegrant830
    @sherinegrant830 2 роки тому +2

    because you prayed thats why it went so well to God be all glory

  • @tiachante
    @tiachante 2 роки тому +7

    Hi guys. I really enjoyed watching this video and I’m so happy you both decided to share with us. I’ve been following your journey together on Instagram and finally made it over here. I’m 21 (turning 22 this year) and on my purity journey so this was really encouraging for me because I feel like I don’t have many friends (or know many people) that are still virgins. I’d like for my future partner to also be a virgin but given that so many men have sex from such a young age or in college I’m not even sure I will. This gives me a little hope though that I can find someone who genuinely loves me and not just wants to explore my body. Pray for me 🙏🏽

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +4

      Hey Tia, thank you so much for watching and your comment. It is true that sometimes only the females seem to be saving themselves, but there are several young men out there who also want to wait. The difference is between just being with a guy who goes to church vs a guy who truly wants to honour God. There is a difference

  • @glaciarichardson1901
    @glaciarichardson1901 2 роки тому +9

    Well said 👏 👌 👍 I really enjoyed this video 🔥🔥 Congratulations again 👏 Thank you so much for your transparency. Blessings ‼️

  • @taleciasolan4836
    @taleciasolan4836 2 роки тому +3

    Thrilling realistic story..I appreciate the fact that you openly shared your life experiences so that other young and not to mention older arthodox can know and grow. Continue to love, live and grow together XYZ❤️

  • @shayonrobinson
    @shayonrobinson 2 роки тому +9

    You two are hilarious. But very open and transparent at the same time. I loved this. I love this for you two. Loooooooooooooong life for you two and a whole lot of "Jerusalema"🤣

  • @popularloner8928
    @popularloner8928 2 роки тому +4

    girl thank you ❤️😌 this was amazing 👏 🙌 in this generation you can hardly find things like this and this really gave me a hope. This is just beautiful 💯

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому

      You're so welcome! We want to glamourise it in a world where it isn't glamourised, for those who desire a similar journey. Blessings ♥️♥️

  • @_dawneee
    @_dawneee 2 роки тому +6

    Xaundre is a whole vibe!😂😂 I love when you both do story times. Hilarious bad😅

  • @rhondagrant4808
    @rhondagrant4808 2 роки тому +10

    Absolutely love this vlog. Continue to be an example to the believers.

  • @ladyhbar_b
    @ladyhbar_b 2 роки тому +8

    My face hurt from smiling so much. I love the ❤ you share.

  • @sharianedwards783
    @sharianedwards783 2 роки тому +13

    Xaundre is a whole mood 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tiffanys.thomas8317
    @tiffanys.thomas8317 2 роки тому +2

    Self control and doing it God’s way. Love it! Thanks for being an example.

  • @rashanaprince4053
    @rashanaprince4053 2 роки тому +6

    Lovely. Patience is the key, I enjoyed this video. Can you do a budget video for married couples. Like tips on how to budget while being married.

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks love, and yes definitely, we'll share how we do it one of these days, as soon as we're in a stable rhythm

  • @khymskeete
    @khymskeete 2 роки тому +4

    “the bedroom is undefiled” HALLELUJAHHHHHHH🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 *praise break*

  • @jaymarshall6342
    @jaymarshall6342 2 роки тому +7

    I'm here for this 36 minute video! #Jerusalema!! Thank you for your honestly, clean and just to the point. #worththewait

  • @sharontrimmingham2766
    @sharontrimmingham2766 2 роки тому +6

    I’m so proud of you guys as a young couple is willing to make this video for couples coming behind you I wish they will learn.

  • @DT-ly8lx
    @DT-ly8lx 2 роки тому +6

    Much respect to you both. You did it GOD'S way. What a blessing!

  • @angellanicholas6022
    @angellanicholas6022 2 роки тому +10

    Beautiful example for this young generation god bless you both

    • @adventuresofxyz22
      @adventuresofxyz22  2 роки тому +1

      Just doing our thing on this side of the vineyard, blessings 💕

  • @cammason5541
    @cammason5541 2 роки тому +4

    That is why i love you guys so much.I want to hear how you "fight" it through with prayer and fasting. Just began and stay wrap in your 'single bed of love.' will always listen and watch.

  • @lifewithabz2714
    @lifewithabz2714 2 роки тому +5

    🤣 I love this ❤ it's good to know that you weren't hesitant in sharing your experience with us and it shows us younger persons that you do have show affection in a different form out of church ❤ love it and thank you 😊

  • @adelsjourney
    @adelsjourney 2 роки тому +7

    Love seeing other young couples share their stories of marriage, sex, etc. My husband and I got married when we were 22 and 24 and have been married for five years. We also waited and were happy we did. Curious to know how old you both are. New subbie ❤️

  • @marshaleechambers273
    @marshaleechambers273 2 роки тому +17

    Hear Zaundre nuh.... mi cyah believe the little boy from church turn big man and married all a do jerusalema. Y'all are hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @adriannasasha-gaye1084
    @adriannasasha-gaye1084 2 роки тому +11

    My face watching this video: ☺️🤣🤭😭. Congrats again guys! Cheers to many many many more Jerusalema’s! All day everyday, Everytime, any time.💅🏾 💕