Conscience ♥ May, Myself and I #16
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Chidi from the Good Place --- incapacitated with fear of doing wrong
As a child people used to tell my mom “oh she’s so well behaved and mature for her age!”. Little did they know I was just living in utter terror of being told off!
Absolutely the same and it is exhausting
“There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must take it because conscience tells him it is right.”
― Martin Luther King Jr., A Testament of Hope: The Essential Writings and Speeches
So I just recently discovered your channel and I love how honest and open your talk about all that stuff. Sometimes on youtube you just see a polished, perfected version of someone and that's absolutely not the case with your channel. You're so confident being yourself and that's so great and inspiring to see💜
watching this now, just after Carrie announced she'd been cast as Cinderella in the actual show
I came out of high school 6 years ago with A+ in guilt and anxiety! I hated getting into trouble and constantly apologised for even the mildest of inconveniences. It's amazing how you grow once you leave high school! Thank you so much for these videos Carrie. They are truly wonderful 💛
Carrie: a lot of good friends of mine... Like Oliver
Me: Oof! Friendzoned
(this is a joke) 😂
I think working with Andrew Loyd Weber is a good "excuse!"!! That is so amazing, congrats on the opportunity!
PS: I was SO terrified of being in trouble too! If I forgot a book it was the absolute end of the world! I had a gym teacher once who would sit the whole class in the middle of the room and tried to be like "we're going to stay here until someone confesses up to ____" and it was like I felt such anxiety that I almost wanted to be like "okay, I did it!" even though I not only did not but would never. It was awful, awful anxiety over being in trouble! I think it came from having brothers who were always in trouble- sometimes very big trouble!- and I was so determined to be the "good child"!
And you playing Cinderella in the workshop was just the beginning of a wonderful journey :)
Totally relate to the teacher bit! Glad someone understands the paralysing fear of forgetting something for school and it's not just my brain. The saying 'making mountains out of molehills' comes to mind ❤
Everytime Carrie said: the voice in my head
Me: "When the voice in your head says you're better off dead, don't open a VEEEEIIINNNNN!!"
Just me?
Excuse me, "Could we start again"? Did you say... ANDREW LLOYD WEBBER!? Are you kidding me? Holy schmoly, sweet "Jesus Christ Superstar"! Spending your days as a responsible human, working hard with Barron Lloyd Webber is the best get-out-of-jail-free-card your conscience will EVER have. "Everything is Alright", so "All I ask of you" is please do not apologize! Hun, you are an "Angel of music" and you've been a wee bit busy! UA-cam can just sit itself down and wait patiently until you're done with your responsibilities in your primary profession. Anyone that would have the teeniest issue with you missing a day is "At the point of no return" and has no concept of reality or SIR ANDREW LLOYD WEBBER! Wow! Clearly I'm a bit smitten with his talents! Congratulations on such an amazing opportunity... "Any dream will do"! Again... WOW!
I am not your usual demographic, Cats came on stage when I was a teenager and I fangirled so hard when you mentioned Andrew. I love his work and my husband and I are big Sarah Brightman fans, I never hear music from Phantom without thinking of Sarah. Carrie, congrats! You made my day! You have big things ahead - we we all knew that already. My congrats also to Oliver.
I wholeheartedly relate to this, I was the exact same as a child. I remember beating myself up a lot over little things that my conscience had told me were 'wrong' or were 'letting people down'. As I've grown up I think I've been able to show myself more kindness and I've become more comfortable with making 'mistakes' (we're only human!). Sometimes the hardest person to show kindness and love to is ourselves. As Cinderella's Mother would say "Have courage and be kind", make sure that includes yourself!
My conscious is bigger than my entire career. Same Carrie, everything you said! I'm even scared of getting told off as a grown woman! 💜
Enjoying this series so much! Love the fact you got to play a princess this week ☺️ ❤️
Saw an article announcing the cast of Cinderella online by chance yesterday, and was thinking of tweeting my congratulations, and then here I am today catching up on all the May, Myself and I videos! 😊
Then fast forward a year later and you're officially Cinderella! I know this news has been around some time now but I have been watching these videos and its just funny to me hearing you be so excited about the workshop and then fast forward to now and you'll be working with ALW for a whole musical in which you are the lead. Also it's odd hearing you talk about doing things in the outside world while we are all in lockdown. Funny how much things can change in a year. If you do see this, I hope you had/will have a lovely day.
(Much love to you and anyone who may see this.)
I was completely the same way. Oh my goodness. I was never grounded or spanked or anything as a child because I hated even getting yelled at. It would bring me to tears too. So glad to know I wasn't alone in that!
I am like this too, Carrie could have been describing me and I have never grown out of it. You aren't alone, you have good morals, we all just need to be kind to ourselves. Have an awesome day.
@@catercoz2491 Thank you so much. Same to you too. (:
I am also that person who lays in bed at night thinking about things that happened 12 years ago. Our consciences are funny things! But I think having a big conscience is a good thing ❤
I relate to this so much. I was such a stress head when I was younger. I still am now but not as extreme. And now my little sisters in high school, and she tells me when she’s worried about forgetting her books or something, I’m always like why are you stressed about it, there’s no need. But I was exactly the same!
i relate to this video so much. i got in trouble ONCE in primary school and it wasn’t even my fault but i still cried my eyes out immediately!! my friend was the one who was talking when we weren’t supposed to but i still burst into tears before there teacher even said anything to us😂
You got to be a Disney princess!! I still love that song of yours lol
My brain immediately jumps to the worst case scenarios before they've even happened. Like your 15yr old self with your geography homework. And despite the fact that the worst case never happens I still get such bad anxiety preparing myself for it anyway
This series is so inspiring thank you Carrie ❤️
Congrats Cinderella!!! You go girl!!!
I feel exactly the same way as you did about getting in trouble in school (and the general mean voices in my head/being anxious) and it's nice to know I'm not the only one
Haha you and me both! Getting in trouble definitely strikes me fear as a kid. Frankly even to this day if I feel like someone is criticizing my work or I did something, my instant reaction is to start crying xD I try super hard to hold back tears knowing I don't need to cry and am self aware that I'm not actually that upset. It's just my bodies reaction even when my brain is like 'nah, don't be stupid, your not feeling this hurt' I've gotten better, but still working on it. Haha. I also cry when frustrated and if I confront someone about it I also get teary. It annoys me soooo much
Watching this video felt like listening to myself 😂😂😂 I never had to be disciplined when I was young bc I would just cry when I did something wrong! And I still sit in bed at night and think about the terrible things I did as a KID! Craziness.
Interesting take on conscience! I personally don't agree with yours because I feel like my conscience and my sense of guilt are separate. The voice in my head that tells me I shouldn't have done something/shouldn't do something is different than the voice that blames me. The voice that blames me tends to use my conscience to make itself louder. But they don't sound the same to me.
OMG Andrew Lloyd Webber is my favorite musical writer!!!!!! I love all his musicals and I can't wait for Cinderalla!!!!!
Oh my gosh that’s so exciting regarding the workshop! Hope you filmed some of it and we get to see that in the future at some point! 😊
If I could go back in time and talk to my younger self, the most important thing I'd say would be to CHILL OUT FFS. I spent SO MUCH time being anxious for NO reason! That story about your geography book is so relatable. And I can bet you that people who actually do things wrong maliciously never get so anxious about it.
I have a very long memory for my own wrongdoings. When I was 11, I was in the wrong hall in my school, and I was running. I don't remember why I went into that hall, but I knew i wasn't supposed to be there, and I knew I wasn't supposed to be running in the halls. A little 7-or-8-year-old girl came out of her classroom and I wasn't able to stop in time and I ran into her and knocked her down. 42 years later, she probably doesn't even remember that, but I do, and I still feel so guilty.
Thank You Carrie, you’re the best person in my life right now!💜Congrats on Cinderella!!! My baby’s growing up!!!💜💜💜
Such a cool opportunity to do a workshop with ALW!
I was always (and still am) like this. So anxious about doing something wrong, getting stressed about little and big things equally. I still haven't mastered the skill of being vocal about when I'm wrong, and yes it IS a skill, and one we should all be practicing!
this reminds me of “voices in my head” of the be more chill cast album
Hi Carrie,
You will probably never read this but thank you for posting videos. I discovered your channel as i have to play Wednesday in a small production and you came up. You have been so helpful! If you do ever read this please let me know in some way, it would be much appreciated.
Chiana xx
I am exactly the same, always felt like im VERY self aware
OMG. This sounds an awful lot like me, only I still have to learn to be less angry and more forgiving with myself... thx Carrie :)
OH MY GOD, in my younger years of high school, that was SO ME as well!! I was TERRIFIED of getting in trouble from teachers - there were teachers I was SCARED OF WHO DIDN'T EVEN TEACH ME - people I'd just seen around the school that looked terrifying. Funny story though, by the time I was in my final year I gave zero shits. By that point, two of the teachers I had been once scared of were two of my favourites and 2 of the select few I actually got on with!! But in my last year, I used the staff corridor ON THE DAILY. I would have convos with my faves or else be ignored and not get in trouble cause I used it every day. But I could be a nightmare to teachers I didn't like when they tested my patience. One called me a liar twice when I wasn't and then was rude to me when I proved I was telling the truth and I told her to piss off LMAO. But in my first half of school, I wouldn't say boo to a mouse. I was terrified of getting in trouble even when I'd done nothing wrong. Like one unpleasant look from a teacher had me worried even if it was nothing to do with me. I remember in one assembly, a member of staff was telling my year group off for something because of what a select few were doing. And even though I wasn't one of the ones at fault, I convinced myself that I'd done something wrong!! But final year Emma was a completely different GAL LMAO. If you were on my good side then all good and fine but people that tested my patience got theirs tested right BACK LMAO. Think that was when I finally learned to stand up to myself and not take other people's bullshit as I'd done through most of the school. Apologies for the novel in your comments but this video has literally brought back SO MANY MEMORIES - I left over 6 years ago!!
Always love your videos always been a smile to my face even when I am having the most rubbish day.
Much lovexxx
I was the same way in school if not even more extreme. I'd have actual panic attacks for having forgotten to bring something in or missed a choir practice because I got the days mixed up. I had a panic attack in front of my head of year in sixth form because I'd missed a biology lesson and he wanted to see if I was okay 🤦 I wish I could say at 26 I was better, but with therapy and medication I can just about function 😅
Wow, hoping it'll come out in a theatre real soon. Wow, your job's amazing. Acting is life! Please, keep us posted about the production x
I really connected to this video! Thank you Carrie☺️
YOU WORKED WITH ALW OMG NO NEED TO FLEX LIKE THAT 😂😂😍😍😭😭 aspiring musical actress me is screaming for you right now 😍😍 well deserved as always ! ❤️❤️🌈🌈
I'd love to see you as Cinderella, this workshop sounds great
This just really strongly resonates with me!
I can relate to all of this. Great video :)
Thank you so much this has made me really relate!I've decided I have conscience anxiety Xx
I'm glad you had a great work week! Your conscience is probably a big part of why you're such a sweet, lovable person.
yay!!! another carrie video
I strongly relate to this!
enjoying these reflective videos
I always wanted you to be a Disney Princess :D
I do that too, just the other night I couldn't sleep because I thought of that time I said something to my friend that came out wrong and sounded rude and like I thought I was better than her, when really I meant to praise her for how hard she worked. It's been literally seven years, and I did apologize to her immediately, but it still eats at me lmao. I sometimes say stuff intending to be funny and sarcastic, and the moment I've said it I realize that it just sounded mean and I'm like "NOOOOOOOO", and even though I apologize I'll still think back for years and be like "NOOOOOOOO"
I love your top
I struggle with this so much. My inner voice can be so mean, and it's so difficult to quiet it sometimes. Takes practice, I guess!
I relate to this soooo much
I would LOVE to see you and Ollie as Cinderella and the prince !!!!
Would love to see you as cinders!!! Hopefully the Lord is watching and reading the comments!!!
Wow, that's interesting, I literally just saw a Cinderella film (The Glass Slipper) a couple of days ago.
Also, I could definitely relate to you on this one (i.e. on conscience). My mum thinks I have a scrupulous conscience and that I'm always second-guessing everything that I'm doing. I often apologise for things that aren't even my fault.
Maybe one day you will be a theater producer ♥️
You’re a perfect Cinderella Carrie
Omg I would die. Andrew is my fave lol so jelly haha what a dream, honestly
Once I accidentally fell asleep In friends house and so was out of the house all night and when I came home I expected a massive telling off from my mum but she didn’t mind at all - I felt so guilty I wanted her to tell me off
so basicaly, my life. I am exactly like this.
Our minds are not always our friends 💕
With the geography book example is that your conscience or fear? When we go into fear mode the rational part of our brain is over taken by the primitive part and takes us usually into flight or fight. I think the mind saying ‘abort abort’ was trying tell you to take flight and get out of the situation like you would if you saw a lion in the Serengeti. I think the conscience is more to do with providing guidance on moral dilemmas. For example, in the geography example you could fabricate an elaborate lie to get yourself out of trouble or you could fess up about it. Usually your conscience would steer you to being honest. Curious to hear people’s thoughts on this distinction!
Always follow what rose and Rosie say- they are always right 👍🏻
❤️ ya!!!
I guess maybe Cinderella is going to tell her stepsisters off in the musical?
I love your necklace Carrie! Where is it from? xx
I try to not beat myself up but it's an easy thing
Where is that top from it looks gorgeous 😍😍
Where is your lipstick from? Its gorgeous xxx
Omg, seriously...we must've been twins in a previous life :p I'm totally the same. I can work myself up so much that I can almost physically make myself sick because I feel bad about something. My daughter has the same thing sadly :( I can lay awake for hours thinking about things that may have even happened when I was a child. Like, I once stole a little sweet in a shop in a themepark on a schooltrip. Some girls who were always bullying me were forcing me to do it and I have felt bad about it for years and years, even into adulthood. I was so scared that the police would find out and would come pick me up :p
I'm over that now thank goodness, but still... it can be about my behaviour or my reaction to something and I could hit myself in the head for it.
This is literally me! P.s you'd make a fabulous Cinderella xx
0:22 was gonna say serendipity/serendipitous 😊😅
Oh my god Lloyd-Webber😍 so jealous!
What does your conscience say about farm animals? 😊
WHERE IS THE CINDERELLA VLOG AT?
I don't think the anxiety voice your talking about is your conscience. I think it's actually your ego, let me explain. So your conscience tells you right from wrong. Your ego is always that aspect of you that identifies you as seperate from every other living thing, and thus will do anything it can to protect you. So If your ego thinks that causing you to put the blame on yourself first before anyone else can, it's going to perceive that as safer than someone else telling you off for the very same thing. There comes a time in all of our lives where we need to tell our ego's to sit the f*** down, and stop listening to it because it's stopped helping us. It's our survival mechanism, but it can and does go too far.
Just another comment to appease the UA-cam algorithm.
I do feel like, you do, as well. Tress and panick a lot
If the voice in your head is unkind to you and the voice is ultimately your own how do you deal with that wrongdoing?
I NEED TO SEE YOU IN CINDERELLA RIGHT NOW!!!
OMG a pinocchio mug, is she gonna play in that musical?. It's a hint
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It's a joke❤😄
You're an INFP right??? A strong consience is pretty much our defining feature 😂
first😂