A MATRIARCHAL LOOK AT THE HITTING THE WALL” MYTH: ADVICE FOR WOMEN. 🌻🌺🌷
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A video about the importance of not making finding a man a desperate end all be all goal, and embracing all seasons of her life WITH PURPOSE!🎯
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8:30 The men who say these kinds of things are spiritually numb, its literally painful to listen to them. Besides just their inability to appraise a woman properly, where else would that deficit flow? It would go to all their other relationships as well, most importantly their dealings in business and the world at large. They would miss opportunities that are not evident at first glance, have difficulty leading others in an effective manner, cause unnecessary strife because of low emotional intelligence, be less socially and politically astute ( and thus unable to guide the family safely in times of flux) and so on.
Really, now that I think about it, these types of men would most likely always be behind the cusp because they can't read a thing for what it really is.
THIS!!💡💗and that is why they are unattractive and not my type. It’s the shallow character for me.
@peachmari So well-said, aptly put, kindly articulated.
Thank you, Queen ❤
PS: #thesernotMen
At 32 with no kids I am the happiest I’ve ever been! I am attracting luxury and quality at this stage. Any man with that mindset is not in alignment with my journey❤
Yes girl same at 27 love it here keep it up 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@@meganhopkins9788 🤎🤎🤎🔥🔥🔥🔥
In my 40s and having a ball in my life than I did in my 20s and 30s combined. I am living the good and luxury life now as a single and beautiful Goddess ✨️
No baby and husband dramas over HERE. JUST PEACE and resting in my Divine Feminity ❤️
@@tamuz9633 🤎🤎🤎🔥🔥
My dad died when me and my 3 sisters were all teens and my mom was only 40. She never got into another relationship. She went in one date about 5 or 6 years later and I never forget she came home and said she will never go out with the man again. She said he asked her to go “Dutch” at the movies. She said my father would’ve never!!!! Then she never dated again. I asked her recently why she never remarried? She said because we were all young ladies she didn’t want to bring a man home and worry about whether he would be inappropriate in any way towards us. I truly respect that about her!
I love your Mother and don’t even know her! We must take care of protective Mothers!
@@AdunolatheOracle She would love you too! Because you’re so wise!
I love your mom too god bless her ❤
If only more women thought like that, however I am understanding that women are the most unloved in the world so if we don’t learn to love ourselves we’ll always be chasing love from someone else.
That is one AMAZING dedicated, RESPONSIBLE mother. God bless her.
As a woman who just turned 50, I can tell you that the "hitting the wall" narrative is an absolute lie! I've had success and gained wisdom in many areas of my life, I've enjoyed great success in my career, I've raised a successful daughter who is now 20 years old living her best life, I've taken great care of myself through exercise and healthy living, and I've remained happy for the most part and aged gracefully. I've been told by many that my energy is inspiring and I've remained physically attractive throughout the years! Self love and self care are very important to a woman embracing every stage of her life! I'm so looking forward to this next chapter! Thank you for your wonderful message Adunola! 🥰😘❤
At almost 39 I look and feel better overall. I love this age and I can say I truly love myself now. I was cute years ago but I look better with age. And now I have men of ALL ages (even early 20's) that want to court me. I am single but at the happiest I have ever been. Those guys who say that are dusties who no woman want so they use young ladies.
Amen!! I’m actually better at 42 than I was at 20.
@@AdunolatheOracle I always say that. It only gets better.... And thank you for the guidance. You have taught me so much. Bless/Bliss. ❤❤
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i really needed this as a 27 year old woman 😭 this fear mongering has gotten out of control! i just want to live a life of peace and enjoy the years God has graciously decided to give me!
I agree.
These men will try to scare you with timing- they are not God….
@@kadianedobor1715 yes you’re so right 🩷
If they really knew, they'd KNOW that when most ladies hit 40, that YONI is STRAIGHT POPPIN NONSTOP.
Exactly why I don’t want it. Jr college here I come as a 29 year old male 🤣
Sis!!!
@@MoeDoughAnother predator to watch out for.
@@_Ridethemaverick watch your daughter if she’s 18 and up ⬆️.. 🤡
@@_Ridethemaverick ironic coming from a Predator… 🤔
I had my first baby at 33 he’s 6 months and I’m so happy I am where I am mentally and emotionally. Being a young mother wouldn’t have been as much of a blessing for me as it is now
"On the wall is where masterpieces go." Yasss, gorgeous! Say that!
That cackle that you let out is a masterpiece 🤣🤣
I thought that "hit a wall" meant that you've reached a dead-end with a problem. I never looked at age as hitting any kind of wall. 🤷🏽♀️
i been saying Adunola is funny on the low lol. she been on jokes more recently
43 no kids and living my best life. I get to travel and I'm so used to living in my space alone. Use my money for me. So unstressful 😊
I’m grateful for being 46 and my experiences and my VOICE & my LIFE!!! I’M GROWN, MATURED, and RIPE
Pardon the lighting. This video took me two hours (broken into part 2), and it was just too much to redo. Enjoy the info rather than the visuals. 💋
I was told by many readings that my twin flame will come in my mid 40s. I just turned 23 the end of May. Before I have a serious relationship and children; I want to work on my ancestral karma and my personal karma so my future generations will be pure. That's why I'm kinda glad he's coming later, cause it gives me time. And I just want to be free now.
So happy for you. You have time to prepare.
What all this really boils down to is men wanting to put limits on women. They want the authority to speak into and control women’s options for love, happiness, marriage just like they always desired to control our bodies and minds. However out of everything you said what really hit home was that if we grew up in Abrahamic faiths we’ve been conditioned to seek male approval. Accepting a male into our hearts and soul equates with salvation- Christianity. We cannot get “saved” until we make a male Lord over our lives- Christianity. We are essentially dammed and of reproach if we don’t accept this man into our heart- Christianity. The Church is the “bridegroom” of the male.- Christianity. These analogies of themselves can be beautiful when presented in the proper context but that’s not how the story has gone. So how do I reinterpret the whole “hit wall? thing? I say your right, “I have hit the wall.! I’ve reached a place in my life where men like yourself finally have no appeal or access to me. I haven’t hit the wall, you are just on the other side of what you can’t get.” Thank you again Queen!
Queen Adunola, this is such a timely (timeless) message - I’m turning 40 this year and I’ve been hearing this “hitting the wall” message and more for years online. It saddens me that at one point I even started to doubt my worth because of it - BUT NO MORE. I know who I am and know that I have so much more to contribute to the world than just my womb and my submission. And I pray more women start to untangle themselves from the so-called “relationship experts” online and heal their connection to their Soul and Source 🙏🏽❤️
What you said is so profound, especially to know that we are made to feel that all we have to offer is a womb and submission...you said this..yet so many women feel the same way.. Infanticide happened in ancient times, when the baby was discovered to be a female. Everything around us has taught us that all we have to offer is a womb and submission. To this end, my ex hated females so bad that he raped and killed my daughter just because she was female. She felt worthless due to all the abuse all her life. Her death finally explained why she was so depressed all that time (from rape and being made to feel worthless. I say all this to say men have to stop it with the hate for females. It ends in death, homicide and or suicide.
But even worst, these same men who hate women will have daughters who feel worthless because they are made to feel that all they have to offer is a womb and submission. Consider the following: traditionally, they are not to speak in church or tabernacle or mosque...yes society in general pushes this agenda that females are worthless. Ironically, these females are the ones raising the children, so if she feels worthless what kind of children do you think she will raise? Mr Misoginist I am speaking to you...what kind of children will you have if your women and women in general feel worthless??
"A Nation Can Rise No Higher Than It's Women" - - Elijah Muhammad. And he said this because the woman is the first teacher. But I guess men cannot make that connection because they are missing the empathic gene
How do we fix this? By creating or raising boys to be more educated when it comes to gender difference. They are to embrace the difference not repel it. And this is done by emphasizing what each brings to the table. Not what boys bring to the table and only what they bring. Not by teaching what women bring and only what women bring. But by teaching what each brings in equal amounts of lesson times. That way ,each feels important. In a Golden Age no one should feel left behind.
Yes to the part about feminism! I used to get triggered when women would say they’re not feminist, but I just recently realized that feminism’s problem is that it keeps trying to limit a woman’s power to whatever a man can do. That’s the downside of “equality.” I don’t care about whether I’m “equal” to a man; I want what I want!
But the women who are against feminism don't have your rationale, they seriously think like these males and would like to make the film "the handmaid's tale" a reality. Nop.
I attracted my partner at the age of 57 after divorcing my exhusband of 20 + years! We’re still together after seven years…
Men that say this are probably abusive- I know from experience
The more I learn about numerology, astrology, etc. the more I understand how dangerous it is to only push one certain lifestyle. I don't watch the men or women Podcaster going in on each other. It is all very weird to me. It came out of nowhere. Ive been proposed to more times than I can remember and only choose to walk down the aisle once and not sure ill do it again. I love, love and I love life. If I do it again so be it and if I don't oh well. Baby I be out here leaving life regardless. 💜💜💜💜
I hate for those wrapped up in these gender battles and allowing that noise to get into their subconscious. Wishing all well on their journey in life.
I'm 42. No kids but I've been responsible all my life for my mentally ill mom. I've done motherhood in reverse and I've mothered myself. I am choosey about friends and I just lost interest in men. Too much foolishness and lack wisdom now from men. I love to perform open mic, I dance samba and value totally my spirituality. I value knowing myself well. Thank you for this video.
You are a remarkable woman sis!
@@sharonivy888 awww thank you so much. I just try to be a better and wiser person each day.
Literally thought she was 30 to 33 lol 🤯 love her!
Some of them want to ruin the young women! Be careful ladies! ❤
Absolutely they will prey on vulnerable girls who don’t know themselves or their value.
The recent wave of wisdom from our Big Sisters and Aunties is giving me new life. I never realized i was centering men until women said something - thanks, yall. I love us ❤
43, divorced and just now beginning to learn and explore different and new aspects of myself. And honestly younger and older men take interest. Its a mindset!
This was excellent Iya, I just turned 40, 3 weeks ago, and this advice is timeless. I got married at 22 and divorced by 30 and spent the last decade fumbling and learning about myself. Thank you again for this!
"On the wall is where Masterpieces go" Yessss!!!!!
I married a man who was 11 years older with me and he was the one who came with the issues. These single mothers have fathers and usually they go through a midlife crisis and get with a younger woman who usually leaves him when she turns 30 anyways😂. Same headache and they come to the women their age just to relate. A man who can't deal with a woman their safe is because he can't take the pressure. That grown woman pressure. I left him. After he drugged my life to the ground with his karma. I'm still a hottie. That man tried to drain my youth and beauty. Everytime I'm around him, I get sick.
I’m happily married and it’s not a fairytale 😅 at 42 I always joke around and say I have 9 lives like a cat because my life feels like different lives during my different ages…, you break this down perfectly 😊 thank you ❤
This was timely. I didn’t even know what hitting the wall was until I decided to look it up after seeing so many comments about women about to “Hit the wall” in their forties. It makes you feel like everything’s coming to a close for you. This is the mentality that had me so scared to enter my forties last year, especially without the family I planned on having by this age. Thank you for addressing this and reminding me of my worth at any point in my life. ❤
i’m glad you touched on this topic because it is inherently spiritual! i knew you would come with all the facts and a great perspective. every year older i get i feel more wise, more magical, more sexy, and more embodied into my femininity. i love being a woman now and at any age. i respect the seasons of my life and honor each stage! 🌙
By the way.. this info is backed by Developmental Psychology for those that are science minded. Some resources are in the description box.
I’m 41… Welcoming a new season as I close a chapter. I was in Oya Energy a lot… Been performing as a singer and actress for a long time… And now… I must live in Oshun and Yemeya Energy more… For my health… I love the ride! And this video was in alignment for me today… Just confirming everything.
Oya is about changes. She’s about cycles. How you talk about her is as if she’s a bad energy. She is a protective energy. She’s wise and represents the Crone aspect. She’s wise because she has the age of wisdom through experiences. She represents financial wealth of the markets because she in every exchange that takes place. She is always needed throughout our lives just as Oshun and Yemoja.
“You are not beyond redemption” I loved that, thank you so much for this video.
This message should be posted on the 10 o’clock “BREAKING NEWS” segment. 😂😂😂😂. Seriously, I love EVERYTHING you said. Thank goodness and thank God for you. ❤❤❤❤
Journeying my transition that has been raised around Christianity to now growing in deep connection with Spirituality, this video felt like a re-confirmation that I’m in alignment to my life in which I connect with Spirit/God and Guides into cultivating my femininity. Thank you Adunola and asé 🙏🏾✨
I'm so grateful and thankful to reach the age 51yrs old and I've never been attracted to younger men actually it's the opposite the younger men are attracted to me. I've been celibate for 5 years now and honestly, I'm good, I don't want dangerous soul ties or just any man. The new man that I meet will definitely be for me. I am taking care of my daughter and myself. Peace and love to all and thanks so much Goddess for posting this very vital knowledge and video 💞
Yes!! Same. Thank you for sharing, beautiful💗
@@AdunolatheOracle you're most welcome 🩷 beautiful
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Same here 51 and celibate for 5 yrs and now finally love myself for real and in love w my life now and family is even more of priority as well as myself. I see after 2018 relationship it is a global attack toward the divine feminine as well.
@nesswilliams6929 Yes, absolutely. I agree and feel that there's a satanic attack on women and children, especially women of color . There's a a strong disdain dislike for our beautiful women and children, black men as well. I used to wonder why Women are the ones that carries the seed and we're the most disrespected by so many. We have to continue to be supportive and encouraging to each other. I am so appreciative for this youtube channel and have learned so much
You’re so beautiful not just on the outside but the inside this was sooo gracefully and perfectly said. Thank you.
I’m in my mid 20’s and recently I tan I to two guys one with make up on and one with out and they both thought I was around 21-22 which is cool lol. However one of the guys was like man so many women usually at your age start to look old, which is obviously not true. Which basically goes to show how people are so programmed to believe things which causes the aging.
I remember watching videos of men bashing women who were 30+ and have a high body count or never married or had children and for a moment it deeply depressed me lol. But I have to understand that those men are projecting their own unrealistic standards onto women in a world where life is not a cookie cut place.
Any happy, self content man couldn’t care less to comment on women and their lives. He would just be living his best life not bothering to spout information irrelevant to him on the internet
Your messages always provide vital teachings to help us women on our journeys...may the Great Mother continue to keep tou safe...❤
When AMS of all people says "the Wall" is a myth, it's safe to say this is not an issue.
My Jupiter is in Cancer! In the 7th house 😂❤❤❤ But it opposes my MC. I’m happy single. Especially now that I have children! No random man is coming around my children.
It’s crazy cause I turn 30 next April and every sense I turned 27, I’ve been so eco for my 30s. I just feel it’s going to be a great decade 😂😊❤
Thank you so much for the message. I feel more free being single.
It's crazy how a lot of sad, divorced and lonely men are pledging the internet with their misery.
So glad you framed the analysis the way you did.. internet podcasts can be confusing.. you went above it scanned all the material and delivered Golden Truths🙏🏽
Beautiful video, so many women need to hear this and I hope it reaches many...thanks for posting 🥰🥰
You’re just so pretty been watching you for years ❤️
Golden! Everything, Golden. Thank you, you're so wise!
This is one of best responses I have heard to this craziness that’s going on about hitting the wall. I just started watching your videos and really resonate with a lot of the wisdom you share. Thank you for this great advice!
Thank you so much for this video!! I feel so confident and I’m so abundant at this age!! I’m excited to see what else life has to offer me!
I clicked so fast 😅 ❤ This is complete confirmation as I've been having this deep conversation with my higher self over this lately, and everything you're saying is what I've been feeling 💜 My Jupiter returned this year to my 7th house.. Thank you !! 💜
This video is incredible and right on time. I watch your channel at least twice a day. I learn incredible knowledge from your content. Especially since I discovered that you are also into Michael Newton. My life is interesting, yet “delayed”. But I have peace, which is priceless. I’m in my 30’s, fit and very attractive, whenever I run errands, both men and women interrupt me to chat with me. I also have a bubbly warm personality and yet my love life has been flat for a decade. I finally realized that it is not my time. Maybe I have a well meaning soul mate on the other side that doesn’t want me with anyone. Or perhaps as a soul, I choose to experience this. Either way I’m going to live my best life with joy!
Thank you, 💗
I need to interview you for my documentary, we’re I explore the “root causes” of why so many of us have bought into the Maya of getting old and not being good enough for a man.
#returnofthegreatmother 👑 💐
This video blissed me beyond measure. I’m going through a bad breakup. Thank you 🥹
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@@OneofTheMostHigh 💜💜💜
I'm going to rewatch this video and I just wanted to say how PLEASED I am that you not only are tapped in but you are truly living like a QUEEN of spiritual wisdom. YOU are my role model, seeing you volunteer and do all these cute events truly makes me happy and want to keep living life the RIGHT way, my spirit is in deep gratitude to have known that someone out there like you exists of wisdom, experience, beauty, confidence and class. I feel like I'm looking at me in some years to come, I'm 22 and completely restarting my life from complete scratch, a few older friends, my same ol job, however no men, and no more weed!!! Gonna focus on me and mastering this wisdom.
Love it. Marriage sure isn't "easy," even with the right person!
And I can't believe there is this trend out there... because in my circle, all of the single moms got married and the younger, single ladies are still waiting on their worthy partner!
Live life to the fullest ladies! And don't stop once you're married! 💖💖💖
(Oh.. And please believe all these "home skills" aren't necessary. If you and hubby can afford, hire help! You think Beyonce is in the kitchen every night?! Lol You think Jay is sitting there wondering why she isn't up at 5 am to clean the bathroom on a Saturday ? Lol)
I’m so glad TMH sent your page to me. This is the energy I need. I feel the way you feel but im almost 40 and I look 16. I am not allowed to say what you are because how Im perceived.
That's such a blessing that you look 16 when you're 40!!
This message came at great divine timing, I really needed to hear it. Side note: whole video I was mesmerized by your beauty!☺️your glow is amazing✨🌸
My Jupiter is in Gemini and I have a strong 7th house (Taurus) with 4 placements.. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter. Romantic relationships are important to me. It’s nice to have someone to give and receive love with but I also understand that time to yourself or single is necessary too until you meet the right person for you.
Nonsense, All women are great!
I truly do thank you and appreciate you for your knowledge, wisdom and guidance.
Exceptional woman 🫶🏻
Wonderful Video. Thank you !
You are gold 💫👸🏾💝
Speak Sister Goddess! So wise🤍
I’m starting to look forward to turning 30 it can only get better I can leave the bs from my younger years behind and step into my true purpose and a better timeline so many don’t realize how blessed we are to still be on this journey esp when it ends so early for some 🙏🏽
Girl it gets better. All that stuff is lies. Your mind opens up and you know yourself more.
Aging is natural is to us women too.
The hilarious thing about men being old & turning to younger women is a big joke, cos they cannot even keep up with them &more likely to get a heart attack in bed with em lol.. Also most after say 35-40 taking viagra or similar cos things aint working so well as the ego that's controlling em.. I pay them no mind at all, they looking to have flings when they fail to satisfy even 1 woman, so the jokes really on them. Also the fact they won't even live to see these children grow up that they are fathering with young girls. Have they thought of this & is it fair on the child- especially on the school run when their friends tease em thinking that Dad is really a Grandad. Same scenario in bars clubs & restaurants nobody assumes your acouple but parent with their child point blank & simple..
Thank you 💕
My 30th birthday is next month.
Your messages are always on time 💕👯♀️
This was on point on all levels!!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Looking fabulous! 🤍🤍
This couldn’t have come at a better time. Just turned 30 and the shift has been interesting. I definitely feel more pressure. Thank you for sharing ✨
I love you sincerely. You regurgitate everything my soul has always know. For you to be such a luxurious entity in my eyes I feel like regurgitate is not appropriate but the only word I can think of
Im a matriarcach of 37yrs old, with a young daughter unmarried... Attracting a lot of younger men... So I am fine being very single😅😂🤗☀️💖.
Thank you for your very bright needed empathic and intelligent messages❤️
Amen and Ashe ❤🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️
Hey Twin, aka Sophia ! Please speak to the people I’ve been saying your whole video this last couple of years. Great mother is waking us up and that’s why so many queens are not ingesting the BS anymore.
I think Great Mother has had enough. She have patriarchy thousands of years to learn and catch up and it doesn’t look like they use that time wisely. The weather is changing. I’m in Texas and the night weather in July is far colder than it’s suppose to be. Subtle changes many aren’t paying attention to. When Mother Nature is pleased her water flows like the rivers. When she’s angry she freezes them out. Winter is coming.
@@sharonivy888 Girl, why am I hollering that texas is cold I am from Miami and yall are just as hot as us LOL. its hot as hell down here.
@@laudlevels9460 It’s usually hotter than this in Texas. July and August are brutal months with 100 plus temp 30 days in a row. And night temps usually in high 80s but now in 70s and low 80s.
@@mothermaat3258 i know yall heat is like dry heat and in miami we are more humid like sweaty. Ive been to h town for 2 secs my skin was sizzling.
Beautiful and inspirational video, thank u very much for the uplifting words!!! God bless you ❤👑💖
I love these videos-there's nothing like them online! I love pink and you look great in this color too!
Adunola, you are so inspiring
@BurbNBougie this video was great. She would be someone great for you to interview❤
You preached it today!!!!❤
Thank you for blessing us with this video ❤
If you are a BW, wtf is hit the wall? I’m 37 and ppl still think I’m 23-25. It just doesn’t even make sense if I’m viewed as in my 20’s, I can’t be jealous of those who are in theirs. We just know better than to fall for that crap.
Thank you so much from Cameroon
This is GOLD. Thank you beautiful goddess ♥️😘✨
I've learned SO much from you and it is profoundly healing. Thank you for your teachings
You're actually awesome
Your laugh in the beginning reminded me of Angela Bassett 😂❤ thank you for your wisdom!
Facts indeed 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯✅🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯❗❕❗❕❗❕❗❕❗❕❗❕❗
Thank you
I love that you created this video
Adunola, you are so bomb! I love your teachings🤍
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this video!!!!
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Oh you dropping viiideoss 🌊🙌🏿👏🏿
you're amazing 🎉 you hit all the star points.
This was so good❤