Telling My NIGERIAN Dad I'm getting Married + My SHOCKING Igbo BRIDE PRICE LIST| STORYTIME & FOOTAGE

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    Hey UA-cam Family, Sending love and positive vibes. This video/vlog is another juicy storytime gisting you all about how i told my igbo dad i was getting married + my introduction and ridiculous bride price/Dowry list. what a time. Let me know what you think & if you like these kind of videos.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 613

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries Рік тому +183

    Its called “ikuaka in Igbo”-introduction in English. Whereby the two families meet and get to know each other well,whereby you point the man you want to marry,also discuss the way forward with the marriage date,bride price etc. congratulations vivikoks nwa❤️❤️❤️

  • @Christabelegbeama
    @Christabelegbeama Рік тому +102

    I just love how you're free with the whole process. It feels like I'm the one getting married, I'm so excited for this new journey 😂❤️. Congratulations again 🎉

  • @monologueswithmimi439
    @monologueswithmimi439 Рік тому +23

    I really want to attend an Igbo wedding. Their culture is so rich ❤. I love to see it

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries Рік тому +30

    There is someone coming to pluck a ripe flower from your compound,that is what every parents wants to hear and will make their day always🙏🙏🙏. Your father is legit is the best dad because that is the first question every parents should ask👌👌👌.

  • @eve_classic904
    @eve_classic904 Рік тому +12

    Most times our parents pretend like they don't know anything until when it comes to the matter of the heart 😁.. The kind of questions they ask will shock you😂.. God bless your beautiful union.

  • @aimaohi2667
    @aimaohi2667 Рік тому +18

    This video makes me want to get married but I’m just 21 😭😭😂

    • @maryammohammed7906
      @maryammohammed7906 Рік тому +1

      You can still get married if you are really ready to settle

    • @aimaohi2667
      @aimaohi2667 Рік тому

      @@maryammohammed7906 I’m not oh 😭😂

  • @AlmaNgur
    @AlmaNgur Рік тому +14

    Just see me smiling from ear to ear!!!!

  • @sincerelyajg5067
    @sincerelyajg5067 Рік тому +31

    Congratulations Vivi-koks! So glad that you are showing your cubbies this process. I believe Nigerian weddings are beautiful & I'm looking forward to seeing what you are willing to share.

  • @Susan_adike
    @Susan_adike Рік тому +42

    ✨ *Congratulations baby girlllll* 🎉
    My mum always say that once they’ve done the plucking flower thing “Iku-aka” which is introduction then you’re officially taken, and wedding ceremony can happen or not 😊
    So, our favorite Vivikokz is Married y’all 😢 Omg Congratulations babezzzz🎉🎊🍾

    • @VivianOkezie
      @VivianOkezie  Рік тому +5

      Yes oh! Thank you 😂❤

    • @griselleisara3799
      @griselleisara3799 Рік тому +1

      Congrats. I always said. To myself. When is Viví getting married. She will make a beautiful bride ❤️

  • @wineandwell-being
    @wineandwell-being Рік тому +5

    Your facial expressions after "Do you love him?" 😂😂😂😂 Congratulations sweet girl ! ❤️❤️

  • @kaylabrielle6968
    @kaylabrielle6968 Рік тому +6

    Is the marriage story time for me. I am looking more on the marriage series. From the how we met, to the wedding , settling down in ur hubby house♥

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 Рік тому +14

    Awnnn first wedding in ur nuclear family 💗💗
    Congratulations
    May ur wedding pave way to more weddings in your family 😉☺️☺️☺️
    Yes o we want sit down videos🥰

  • @Ovokeroh
    @Ovokeroh Рік тому +22

    Finally something to make us happy in Nigeria at the moment 🫶🏾🎉

    • @followGreatness
      @followGreatness Рік тому

      Haha...
      What of the igbo one that brought his American "Bestie".
      God help us ooo.

    • @VivianOkezie
      @VivianOkezie  Рік тому +1

  • @Euniceyahaya
    @Euniceyahaya Рік тому +5

    Okay, I'm so excited! Hay God! I can't wait for your outfits! Hay God! This excitement is tangible, body just dey sweet me.
    Lemme go before everyone will think I'm a lunatic. Oga di kpo kpo! Okay, bye.

    • @VivianOkezie
      @VivianOkezie  Рік тому +1

      Ahhh 😂😂😂💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @n.o.atheexplorer
    @n.o.atheexplorer Рік тому +11

    I am having flashbacks to my own wedding. This bride price list caused me annoyance like for real I was so annoyed by the whole thing. Also if your husband is not Igbo, there is a different (more extensive) LIST! OMG My Edo husband certainly suffered. I fought with people this whole wedding process. It's too much. Maybe in the future I will laugh at it. But I am so happy for you and I am glad your process seems seamless so far!

    • @VivianOkezie
      @VivianOkezie  Рік тому +2

      I totally understand you. It’s very tricky & annoying sometimes. Thank you ❤️

  • @LivingMicaly
    @LivingMicaly Рік тому +18

    I’m so happy for you. I’ve been following you for years now so it’s amazing seeing the changes in your life. Congratulations again🎉

  • @ngozi2charp450
    @ngozi2charp450 Рік тому +1

    Indeed God works in mysterious ways, I tap for marital breakthrough

  • @mmesomakings
    @mmesomakings Рік тому +1

    I’m just blushing! Makes me remember my elder sister’s wedding!
    It’s the part where the umunnas and umuadas that you’ve never met get to have the largest share on the list.. lol

  • @benicesochima
    @benicesochima Рік тому +2

    Exactlyyyyy
    GOD WORKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS!!!
    Ok vivikoks we ready! Serve Us!

  • @preciousohagwu3200
    @preciousohagwu3200 Рік тому +26

    Congratulations ViviKoks!! Honestly, the Igbo tribe should re-evaluate this bride price practice. A woman is not for sale. No wonder some men think marrying you is buying you smh.

    • @thetruth6396
      @thetruth6396 Рік тому +8

      The same way a man who doesn't pay your bride price would not value you and can easily dump you and move on with next.

    • @maryammohammed7906
      @maryammohammed7906 Рік тому +2

      @@thetruth6396 God almighty will bless you

    • @uzorrachel8645
      @uzorrachel8645 Рік тому +1

      No one is complaining

  • @Ani89ottawa
    @Ani89ottawa Рік тому +10

    Such beautiful traditions, thanks for sharing!...there's nothing like an African wedding ❤

  • @CeeCee113
    @CeeCee113 Рік тому +2

    I’m happy you’re finally getting married

  • @Joy-kl6fz
    @Joy-kl6fz Рік тому +4

    I’m Zambian, this was interesting to know. Thank you for sharing and all the best with the wedding preparations and blessings to your home

  • @Christabelegbeama
    @Christabelegbeama Рік тому +10

    Thank you, Vivi 😍. This is something to lighten the mood cos my head is throbbing from all the news concerning the election that I've been seeing so far.

  • @glambyizie3052
    @glambyizie3052 Рік тому +2

    I love simple introductions. I am ready for the wedding series, I pray God blesses the preparation and make your big day memorable.

  • @udechukwunnedinma3485
    @udechukwunnedinma3485 Рік тому +1

    So beautiful🥺🥺. The main ceremony hasn’t happened and you’re all glowed up. Marriage will really be good on you🥳… I can now call you Mrs Vivikoks😉😁

  • @Ovokeroh
    @Ovokeroh Рік тому +9

    We are so happy about the new phase omgggg🎉🎉🎉🎉
    Yess and we can’t wait for wedding plans
    Please take us along 🧎🏾‍♀️

  • @thatnaijagirl
    @thatnaijagirl Рік тому +11

    Congratulations again, Vivian! You’re glowing and you look so happy. I am enjoying your sit-down videos. It shows a different side of you. I’m loving it!❤

  • @A-MA-RA-CHI-BETRAND
    @A-MA-RA-CHI-BETRAND Рік тому

    Congratulations dear. 🎉Tap in from your blessing. This will be me sharing mine soon

  • @mabelscorner20
    @mabelscorner20 Рік тому +7

    I'm enjoying this marriage episodes.... I love it, Vivian, and congratulations again

  • @Somikos_K
    @Somikos_K Рік тому

    Once I heard hat, walking stick , I just laughed out cos my dad is definitely not using those😅😅😅

  • @ifyodogwuumeh9321
    @ifyodogwuumeh9321 Рік тому +1

    I enjoyed this story time …. Congratulations 🍾 we have a wedding to plan yipeeee 💃

  • @oylegacy
    @oylegacy Рік тому

    I love how you simplify that bride price is the real deal, ceremony is for the people. Congratulations!! Nice to know more about our cultures and traditions.

  • @gracenwafor
    @gracenwafor Рік тому +1

    awwwww see me smiling so big i enjoyed every bit of it sis. congratulations once again sis

  • @RandomReddits24
    @RandomReddits24 Рік тому +1

    God really works in mysterious ways, and to think that peeps really bombarded you with the marriage questions in your last Q&A.

  • @sylvaekpendu1636
    @sylvaekpendu1636 Рік тому +10

    It’s always weird to discuss these kinda stuff with fathers 😂
    I don’t even know how to start the conversation 😂😂

  • @ucheokoye6744
    @ucheokoye6744 Рік тому +1

    Those questions there asked you is very important just to be sure you know what you are getting in to marriage no be joke ... Congrats dear 💃💃💃 the list no be here 🙊 here I was thinking that my own list way too much.

    • @VivianOkezie
      @VivianOkezie  Рік тому +1

      Ikr? and I didn’t even read everything 😭😭😭

    • @VivianOkezie
      @VivianOkezie  Рік тому

      Ikr? and I didn’t even read everything 😭😭😭

  • @Camillaiaa
    @Camillaiaa Рік тому

    Opens UA-cam and this video pops up.....I like what I see....amazing content. You can welcome your new member 🤗

  • @sashaisme2300
    @sashaisme2300 Рік тому

    much love from Kenya. The bride price is interesting wish we could know it all.

  • @anita_diamond
    @anita_diamond Рік тому

    Always here for the background music👌

  • @GeorgeGraceOfGod
    @GeorgeGraceOfGod Рік тому +3

    Not Village Elders, you should call them your *Dad's* *kinsmen* .
    Anyway, congratulations to you!!!🎉🎉

  • @madeidanimo8963
    @madeidanimo8963 Рік тому

    I love it and as a married woman cant wait to see all the juicy stufss

  • @linda_nenyeTV
    @linda_nenyeTV Рік тому +6

    Congratulations vivi❤️
    Super happy for you 🎉
    You saying the elders words in Igbo got me. 🤣🤣🤣and brought back memories of those days 😅

  • @emmasmukbang5804
    @emmasmukbang5804 Рік тому +6

    Wow. You’ve come a long way! Congratulations hardworking Vivian 🎉❤

  • @anieufia
    @anieufia Рік тому +1

    I loveee how you’re carrying us along & allowing us share in your joy. 🎉🎉❤️❤️❤️ I’m excited for future videos! Congratulations again 💃🏽

  • @ijigboeli
    @ijigboeli Рік тому +2

    Your dady is happy that a man wants to come pluck a beautiful flower from his blessed home. So happy for you vivikoks. Congrats girl. 😆vivian don't bite your tongue speaking igbo

  • @sunesis101
    @sunesis101 Рік тому

    Congratulations! God Bless your union and home.

  • @IdorenyinIbanga_
    @IdorenyinIbanga_ Рік тому

    The issue here is, those items will be used for entertainment during the ceremony

  • @janajj5273
    @janajj5273 Рік тому

    Knew you from Em Etetim's videos then (your trip to Mauritius) so happy for you ❤️❤️ I love weddings and can't wait to be part of this one

    • @deborahshemang967
      @deborahshemang967 Рік тому

      Congratulations 🎉🎉♥️♥️ Viv!!
      Am so happy for you and am wishing you the very best 💞.

  • @st.augustine7204
    @st.augustine7204 Рік тому

    Congratulations on your engagement. The guy is a lucky man to have you.

  • @Nyeres_foods
    @Nyeres_foods Рік тому +2

    The list merit it oooooo makana ichapuru achapu!!!
    Congrats once again vivikoks

  • @starrsteph
    @starrsteph Рік тому +1

    Can’t wait for ViviKoks’ wedding videos 🥹❤️

  • @Cakesbychidie
    @Cakesbychidie Рік тому +2

    😁😁😁😁 your igbo is funny sha. The eeh ( yes) sounded more hausa than igbo…but the message was passed 😂 that’s what matter. Congratulations vivikoksy (my version of your nickname)

  • @Life_With_Oge
    @Life_With_Oge Рік тому +1

    Lol reminds me of when my sister was getting married. Very exciting sturv. Ours is a list for the father and the mother.
    Listening to what’s on your list, una like to shayo oooo😭😂😂 It’s just drink, ours was outfits and outfits and etc. the mother’s list was similar, alongside stockfishessss. And no, it’s not a taboo to share the list.

  • @JudithObu
    @JudithObu Рік тому +1

    Lol congratulations on your introduction, during my wedding ,when they brought the list and I saw it,I asked my mom ,those Keke riders and bike men who have wives are you saying that they paid everything completely ? She was like no you can negotiate the list and I was relieved and all .
    Well we later took some things off, Like my list had 100 tubers of yam and after the negotiations it was reduced to less than 50

  • @sandraudechukwu3751
    @sandraudechukwu3751 Рік тому

    My new UA-cam obsession ❤❤❤

  • @edeokao
    @edeokao Рік тому +1

    Vivian, you're so excited and I'm so happy for you. Thank you for sharing the journey with us.
    Please know that we're genuinely happy for you and praying with you ❤❤❤

  • @oluebubeokpaluba9130
    @oluebubeokpaluba9130 Рік тому

    Congratulations Vivkoks❤❤❤❤❤. Your home is blessed❤. God bless you

  • @beecherry3701
    @beecherry3701 Рік тому +1

    Omo as an igbo girl I know that bride price list dey always choke. God will help us. Congratulations nwunye nmadu💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

  • @lolamaven3971
    @lolamaven3971 Рік тому

    Hahahaa the she goat!!! Love this, the igbo culture is beautiful !!

  • @Cynthiaogbonne
    @Cynthiaogbonne Рік тому +1

    congratulation vivikoks, your joy shall know no bounds...i'm soo happy for you seriously

  • @lualih
    @lualih Рік тому +1

    Congratulations! It's the bottles of morning rose powder for me

  • @JohannaAnyiam
    @JohannaAnyiam Рік тому +2

    I’m speechless so teary watching this😭💙 so happy for you

  • @gistwithmerry
    @gistwithmerry Рік тому +1

    Congratulations Vivi koks i tap from your blessings 🥰🥰🥰

  • @IdleheadOluchi
    @IdleheadOluchi Рік тому +8

    I so so love how you recounted the whole experience. Makes me at ease for when I’d experience it too. And that’s good.❤

  • @mimiray
    @mimiray Рік тому

    Congratulations darling , Abia state my State. 🤗🤗 But the list shaa

  • @ogsspace8291
    @ogsspace8291 Рік тому +3

    I really enjoyed everything about this sit down video 🥰

  • @bestchristopher
    @bestchristopher Рік тому

    The output of this mic💯

  • @dorcasblossom
    @dorcasblossom Рік тому +1

    Ndi Abia nah Ndi Imo sharing almost the same Traditional List ...
    That's called "Ikuaka in Igbo"Introduction...
    The way I'm smiling ehnnn ❤️❤️❤️The story dey totori my belly ... Congratulations Asa Nwa and I pray Heaven perfect all that he alone started 🙏🙏🙏🙏...
    See me laughing out loud when you said ,you don't even know those men (Elders of your community)😅😅😅. Honestly we don't know them but once it's "Ikuaka"Introduction and collection of List ,you will see them 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅...
    I'm glued here Vivian ,keep them gist coming ,so so happy for you ....

  • @adaolisaadimora1273
    @adaolisaadimora1273 Рік тому

    Congratulations Vivian, your home is blessed and I wish you smooth preparations for the wedding

  • @ChisomAkahTV
    @ChisomAkahTV Рік тому

    This is so nostalgic for me and lovely. Happy married life VivyKoks

  • @TRACYPATRICKS
    @TRACYPATRICKS Рік тому

    Congratulations Vivikoks....God has beautiful things in store for you babyyyyy🥰💃🎉

  • @ini_mma
    @ini_mma Рік тому

    I like this new Vivian with all the tea

  • @CeeWhy___
    @CeeWhy___ Рік тому

    🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
    I am legit smiling from ear to ear... I am so happy for you Vivikoks... I really am 😍😍😍😍♥️

  • @divasmoothful
    @divasmoothful Рік тому +1

    So happy for you and the new beginnings 😍. You have the that glow sha!!!!

  • @waliatmotunrayo3905
    @waliatmotunrayo3905 Рік тому

    Congratulations Vivikoks
    God bless your home

  • @Susan_adike
    @Susan_adike Рік тому +2

    ✨Vivikokz if I no come your wedding I fit sick ohhhh😢
    This one wey you don do lowkey introduction😢 Don’t play with me like that oh💔

    • @VivianOkezie
      @VivianOkezie  Рік тому

      🤣🤣🤣 You’re in Dubai now 👀

  • @abdullahiaysha6544
    @abdullahiaysha6544 Рік тому +2

    aww congratulations once more Vivikoks!!!! I'm so excited for you ahhhhhhh Love you and wish you the absolute best in this New Chapter. As always here rooting for you!

  • @dubemaz
    @dubemaz Рік тому

    Clockinggggg in🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @salihuzainab5845
    @salihuzainab5845 Рік тому

    Congratulations babe welcome to club of married women

  • @ife_bee4424
    @ife_bee4424 Рік тому +1

    Married woman ❤so happy for you darling

  • @TheSamiat.Olabisi
    @TheSamiat.Olabisi Рік тому

    Congratulations 🎉❤
    THEEEE LIST 😂😂😂
    Tradition is really funny

  • @graceoffiong7525
    @graceoffiong7525 Рік тому +2

    Congratulations once again Vivian. You deserve all the beautiful things in life and your home is blessed ❤

  • @preciouschristian
    @preciouschristian Рік тому

    I know that feeling when you want to break that kind of news to an Igbo father

  • @Life_ofCeeka
    @Life_ofCeeka Рік тому +1

    I'm so happy for you vivikos😍😍😍been watching from day 1.. love the transitions and growth🥰🥰 Can't wait to see vlogs with you and your children 😍

  • @egboadanna1726
    @egboadanna1726 Рік тому

    Congratulations Viv, I wish you a beautiful marriage of bliss

  • @bbhairyfros1996
    @bbhairyfros1996 Рік тому +2

    You are the beautiful, glowing, flourishing flower they've come to pluck 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
    I love you Vivikok
    I'm soooo elated right now
    Congratulations once again

  • @gwatanagrace849
    @gwatanagrace849 Рік тому

    Congratulations Vivikoks.

  • @mira.J.
    @mira.J. Рік тому +1

    You marriage is blessed. Abia bride price can be very ridiculous omo. Anambra calls it ikuaka.

  • @tinaztouch9764
    @tinaztouch9764 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations Viv 🍾🍾

  • @mettylicious
    @mettylicious Рік тому

    Awww!
    I love how you’re free with this processssss❤❤❤❤

  • @winnerkokafor
    @winnerkokafor Рік тому

    This umu una list dey vex me pass, because these are literally people you don't know but you just have to follow tradition. I always joke to my mum that my husband won't do it 😂. Anyway, good luck with the wedding plans Vivian, your home is blessed ❤

  • @dorcasjatau
    @dorcasjatau Рік тому

    Screaming congratulations one of my fav youtubers

  • @priscangerem
    @priscangerem Рік тому

    She's soooo happy guysss
    Tears
    Happy tears🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @_ohdu
    @_ohdu Рік тому +1

    Looking forward to the Q&A💃🏾🔥

  • @jenniferoge
    @jenniferoge Рік тому +11

    Tradition is a beautiful thing 👏 Da’alu , not u doing justice to this Igbo 😂! This wedding is going to be ghen-ghen🔥can’t wait 💃

  • @winifredkal
    @winifredkal Рік тому +2

    My heart is doing me Totori🥰😍😂💃💃💃💃💃💃

  • @scholasticaokolo
    @scholasticaokolo Рік тому

    Heii
    Look who will soon be a MRS 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽☺️

  • @Gbemmikitchen1
    @Gbemmikitchen1 Рік тому +1

    Very big congratulations beautiful Vivian. So happy for you

  • @BongiCekuse
    @BongiCekuse Рік тому

    You n my culture we also have the tradition of paying bride price but I will say that the fact that people who didn’t contribute to your upbringing get to request things is crazy. Congratulations again