Watch This If You Are Struggling To Lower Your Gaze!

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  • @frederikantonio5742
    @frederikantonio5742 2 роки тому +122

    10 Benefits of lowering your gaze:
    1. It cleans from your heart the feeling of sadness (12:20)
    2. It eluminates your chest and your eyes, face and limbs will be eluminated (14:30)
    3. It inherits a person al-Firaasa (insight; your gut feeling will work stronger) (16:30)
    4. It opens the path of knowledge for your (18:35)
    5. It makes you solid on what you believe (20:18)
    6. It brings happiness to the heart (21:15)
    7. It saves the heart from being a captive of your desires (23:35)
    8. The doors of Hellfire will be blocked from you (34:39)
    9. It sharpens your 'Aql (you will become smarter) (35:34)
    10. It gets rid of the agony of desire (38:30)

    • @0jassi786
      @0jassi786 2 роки тому +1

      Kindly post also the time stamps of the bad effects of not lowering the gaze

    • @az9324
      @az9324 2 роки тому

      Jazakallah
      May Allah SWT protect us all

    • @batuhan6949
      @batuhan6949 2 роки тому

      Jazakallahu Khayran

    • @FarukqO
      @FarukqO 2 роки тому

      Jazzakalahu khayran

  • @ahmedalmahdi9254
    @ahmedalmahdi9254 2 роки тому +40

    SubhanAllah, it's scary to think that there are married men who are struggling with haram videos when they have a halal wife to enjoy. I thought it was just single men struggling, but it's a greater issue, may Allah protect our gaze.

  • @frederikantonio5742
    @frederikantonio5742 2 роки тому +67

    Steps that help you lower your gaze:
    1. Know that Allah sees you (41:38)
    2. Increase in Dua', especially in seeking refuge from the evil (44:05)
    3. Giving importance to acts of worship (45:28)
    4. Having good friends (48:50)
    5. Coming to circles of knowledge (51:35)

    • @FarukqO
      @FarukqO 2 роки тому

      You just made me not watch the whole video again , Jazzakalahu khayran

    • @_zeeshannazir
      @_zeeshannazir 2 місяці тому

      These will help me to make a video InshaAllah, Jazakallah u Khairan

  • @Ali_Imran_Khan
    @Ali_Imran_Khan 2 роки тому +17

    10 Benefits of Lowering Gaze:
    (1) Remove Sadness from Heart
    (2) Bring Happiness to Heart
    (3) Illuminate Eyes, Face, heart and limbs
    (4) Free from the prison of Desires (if not slave of Allah, then slave of your desires)
    (5) Safe you from agony of desire
    (6) Shut doors to Hell fire
    (7) Open door for knowledge
    (8) Make you firm in what you believe
    (9) Makes your Insight (Firasa) strong
    (10) Makes your Aql strong
    ---------------------------------------------------------
    Summary:
    Benefits of lowering gaze
    (1) Remove Sadness and bring Happiness to Heart
    (2) Illuminate Eyes, Face, heart and limbs
    (3) Free from prison of desires and save you from its agony
    (4) Shut doors of Hell fire
    (5) open path of Knowledge, make your beliefs, Aql, Firasa strong
    ---------------------------------------------------------
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    How to lower gaze:
    (contain additional points for the purpose of sharing)
    (1) Know eyes are Blessing from Allah (use it in His Obedience)
    (2) Knows Eyes will testify against us on Day of Judgement.
    (3) You will be held accountable for how you use your Eyes in front of Allah.
    (4) Know that Allah is always watching you. He is Al-Khabir
    (5) Increase in Beneficial Knowledge & Righteous Actions.
    (6) Make Dua while coming with efforts
    (7) Be in Righteous company (Friends or Gathering of Knowledge)

  • @AH-il8sp
    @AH-il8sp 2 роки тому +32

    *Time stamps*
    *Introduction - the importance of Lowering one's gaze* ( 0:18 )
    The concept of Lowering the gaze from the Qur'an and Sunnah ( 2:29 )
    The Prophet Pbuh said to Ali Ibn Abi Talib, don't follow one look with another. The first one you will be exempt, pardoned and forgiven.. ( 5:41 )
    *Manners when we're on the streets* ( 6:53 )
    *10 benefits Ibn Al Qayyim mentions for the person that lowers their gaze:* ( 12:07 )
    1) Lowering the gaze cleanses from your heart from sadness and regret ( 12:21 )
    2) It illuminates your chest, eyes, face and even the limbs.
    The opposite is also true. Darkness appears on your limbs ( 14:31 )
    3) It inherits the person Al Firasah (to have insight) - your gut feeling works well. ( 16:22 )
    4) It opens the path of knowledge for you. - studying knowledge becomes easy for you and the means for knowledge becomes easy for you ( 18:32 )
    ● Side benefit - famous story of Imam ash-Shafii (18:55 )
    5) People who are strong minded, steadfast upon their religion, brave and corageous are people who lower their gaze. ( 20:19 )
    6) It brings to the heart happiness, excitement, joy. ( 21:15 )
    7) It saves the heart from being a captive to your desires. ( 23:35 )
    8) Lowering the gaze, it blocks from you the doors from the doors oh jahannam and you will be far from it. ( 34:39 )
    9) You become very smart ( 35:35 )
    ● the human is 2 things
    i) intellect
    ii) Emotions
    If you keep looking at things it increases your desires and reduces you akl.
    The more you suppress your desires the more it sharpens your akl.
    10) It gets rid of the agony of desires ( 38:32 )
    *Steps that you can take that will help you*
    1) You know that Allah can see you and that He see's everything. ( 41:35 )
    2) Dua
    To seek refuge in Allah from evil, especially the duas that have come from the Prophet Pbuh ( 44:05 )
    3) Giving importance to acts of worship and to increase in it. ( 45:30 )
    4) Having good friends ( 48:50 )
    ● A person is upon the religion of his friend.
    5) Coming to circles of knowledge ( 51:36 )

  • @Fatima-056
    @Fatima-056 2 роки тому +14

    Every words of Ustadth has benefit, No minutes....is baseless from his lectures. May Allah increase him in steadfastness and love for the Deen 📚

  • @mohamedconteh2663
    @mohamedconteh2663 2 роки тому +40

    I needed this bad. May Allah grants the ustadh more knowledge.

  • @MON98
    @MON98 2 роки тому +20

    This came at a time where i was litterally wondering why it's so difficult for me.

  • @procalla9107
    @procalla9107 2 роки тому +36

    This has actually come at a perfect time subhanallah Jazzakallah

  • @247daKiDd
    @247daKiDd 2 роки тому +9

    We need a playlist covering this topic in depth in shaa Allah. The importance of lowering the gaze is very high. Majority of sins committed start with what we see. Ustadh if you could make this a series I believe many will benefit bi’thnillah.

  • @Brother_mar
    @Brother_mar Рік тому +4

    SubhanAllah, the benefits in this video is life changing Wallahi. BarakAllahufeekum!

  • @Lzali10469
    @Lzali10469 2 роки тому

    Jazakllahu kharain

  • @hurayrah.1662
    @hurayrah.1662 2 роки тому

    بارك الله فيكم

  • @seedyodibba9883
    @seedyodibba9883 2 роки тому +1

    JazakAllahu Khayran Ustadh

  • @user-po2cv6ir4c
    @user-po2cv6ir4c 2 роки тому +1

    JazakAllahu Khairan Ustadh.

  • @manlikeak
    @manlikeak 2 роки тому

    Jazakallah khairun ustadh

  • @ibniqbal
    @ibniqbal 2 роки тому

    بارك الله فيك

  • @abdiladiifmohamud3272
    @abdiladiifmohamud3272 2 роки тому

    Amazing masha Allah

  • @ahyenmostofa3561
    @ahyenmostofa3561 2 роки тому

    جزاكم الله خيرا

  • @SLINGING_MUD_SINCE1994
    @SLINGING_MUD_SINCE1994 2 роки тому

    Amazing

  • @abdullahijama447
    @abdullahijama447 2 роки тому +2

    JazaakAllahu kheiran, ustadth❤️

  • @ronakram6690
    @ronakram6690 2 роки тому +1

    May allah bless you

  • @jebrilabdulazeez
    @jebrilabdulazeez 2 роки тому

    Very important&needed topic to talk about. Please keep on bringing topics like this.

  • @dianabdurrohman7508
    @dianabdurrohman7508 2 роки тому

    Jazakallahu khair from indonesia

  • @sahaaail6674
    @sahaaail6674 2 роки тому +4

    May allah bless you with al firdaus without hisab❤

  • @jackpaul8019
    @jackpaul8019 2 роки тому +3

    Powerful lecture.. and how relevant it is today may Allah have mercy on ibn qayyim he spoke to the truth

  • @Omar-jk8ny
    @Omar-jk8ny 2 роки тому +3

    May Allah bless you brother this video gave me the motivation to remove some apps that have fahisha

  • @asmile1116
    @asmile1116 10 місяців тому

    JazaakAllahu khieran, ❤

  • @mubasheerjaved
    @mubasheerjaved 5 місяців тому +1

    Jazakallah Khairan. Very beneficial lecture indeed.
    May Allah accept it from Sheikh Abdurrahman Hassan and from the people involved in bringing the lecture together and May Allah allow us to benefit more from the sheikh.
    Ameen.

  • @Okhgt
    @Okhgt 2 роки тому

    Salaamu 3alaikoum wa rahmatullaahi wa baraakatuh, how is the dua narrated from moraira ibn so'hba about what the prophet صلى الله عليه و سلم said after every prayer

  • @TheTarkik
    @TheTarkik Рік тому

    JajakAllahu khairan Sheikh...very important and beneficial lecture...there should be more religious lectures like this from other Sheikhs as well...May Allah protect us from not lowering our gaze...ameen

  • @jibraani10
    @jibraani10 Рік тому +1

    Subhanallah Alhamdulilah wa li ilaha iLilah Allah O Akbar peace and blessings of Allah swt be upon all the prophets and the muslim ummah Ameen yah rabbil alameen

  • @SLINGING_MUD_SINCE1994
    @SLINGING_MUD_SINCE1994 2 роки тому

    Subhanallah

  • @abuabdillahhadjiril1454
    @abuabdillahhadjiril1454 2 роки тому

    Allahu akbar 😭😭😭

  • @haych6782
    @haych6782 2 роки тому +11

    I’ve recently experienced this and everything he said is true the benefits are far greater than the 2 seconds of pleasure, some practical steps I took to overcome were daily freezing cold showers, fasting every other day, and high frequency callisthenics also other things.

    • @fastng
      @fastng 2 роки тому +4

      these are temporary solutions, the solution is Nikah.

    • @rashid6437
      @rashid6437 Рік тому

      @@fastng then why married men do it?

    • @fastng
      @fastng Рік тому

      @@rashid6437 idk. why married women don’t obey their husbands?

    • @rashid6437
      @rashid6437 Рік тому

      @@fastng men have to lower there gaze no matter what?

    • @fastng
      @fastng Рік тому +2

      @@rashid6437 married women have to obey their husband, as long as nothing is going against Allah and His Messenger, peace be upon him.

  • @omarsharif1301
    @omarsharif1301 2 роки тому +9

    Usthad , can u do a video about free mixing in families....?
    Can family mehram and non mehram together in one dining table..?

  • @justalaymangoodatthings
    @justalaymangoodatthings Рік тому

    Salam Aleikum Brethreen, where can i get the full nasheed from the beginning?

  • @Salafishinobi
    @Salafishinobi 2 роки тому +9

    JazakAllahu khayr Ustadh. Can you please advise our brothers who teach our honourable sisters and do so in a less respectable way, ie without a barrier and they do so whilst looking at them and making direct eye contact and at times cracking a joke or two. They forget the concept of lowering ones gaze in such scenarios and try to justify it subhanAllah😞.

    • @Salafishinobi
      @Salafishinobi 2 роки тому +4

      I make this comment as some organisations within the Uk sadly teach in this manner and sincerley want to follow the way of the salaf. At times they try to justify it with the actions of our beloved prophet SalAllahu alayhi wa salam. The prophet peace be upon him did teach women and talk directly at times but a key point is our prophets peace be upon hims desires were different and so his interactions too at times were different . Seccondly what husband with ghayrah would want a man teaching his wife in this manner and feel comfortable. I sincerley pray that those who need to see this do inshaaAllah. Because at the end of the day the etiquetes of modesty and mannerisms when dealing with women can easily be implemented with technology and facilities in masajid so it is more then possible for sisters to benefit inshaaAllah with a barrier and with more other respectable interactions. May Allah keep us all upon the right path ameen

    • @idreesabdallah.2664
      @idreesabdallah.2664 2 роки тому +5

      @@Salafishinobi Allahu Akbar! Barak Allahu feekum... :( Oh Allah make it easy on the men who have ghyrah and bless us with spouses and children who are the coolness of our eyes (religious affairs included) and make us leaders of the mutaqeen. And Guide the sisters to respect this and understand it and make the men who are weak and let desires control them to be guided and if they persist to not be in these positions.

    • @servantofallah6968
      @servantofallah6968 2 роки тому +1

      @@idreesabdallah.2664 ameen

    • @servantofallah6968
      @servantofallah6968 2 роки тому +1

      So true brother subhanAllah , why dont they just teach sisters behind a barrier and also lower their gaze! They have no need to look at women when they teach tbh

  • @user-df4pp9wp3o
    @user-df4pp9wp3o 2 роки тому +1

    53:29

  • @ibrahimadrameh7770
    @ibrahimadrameh7770 2 роки тому

    Assalamualaikum
    Can you please upload the duaas in the description so that we can memorize it and benefit from it. Barakallahu feek

    • @abdulazizosikoya
      @abdulazizosikoya 2 роки тому

      وَعَنْ شَكَلِ بْنِ حُمَيْدٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ ؛ عَلِّمْنِي دُعَاءً، قَالَ: « قُلِ : اللَّهُمَّ؛ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ سَمْعِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ بَصَرِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ لِسَانِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ قَلْبِي، وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَنِيِّي » رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُودَ، وَالتِّرْمِذِيُّ وقَالَ: حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ.
      Shakal bin Humaid (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: I asked: "O Messenger of Allah, teach me a prayer.'' He صلى الله عليه وسلم said, "Say: Allahumma inni a'udhu bika min sharri sam'i, wa min sharri basari, wa min sharri lisani, wa min sharri qalbi, wa min sharri maniyyi (O Allah! I seek refuge in You from the evils of my hearing, the evils of my seeing, the evils of my tongue; the evils of my heart and the evils of passions).''
      [Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi].

    • @abdulazizosikoya
      @abdulazizosikoya 2 роки тому

      وَعَنْ زِيَادِ بْنِ عِلاَقَةَ، عَنْ عَمِّهِ - وَهُوَ قُطبَةُ بْنُ مَالِكٍ - رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ: «اللَّهُمَّ ؛ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ مُنْكَرَاتِ الْأَخْلاَقِ وَالْأَعْمَالِ وَالْأَهْوَاءِ » رَوَاهُ التِّرْمِذِيُّ وقَالَ: حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ.
      Ziyad bin 'Ilaqah reported: My uncle Qutbah bin Malik (May Allah be pleased with him) said that the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم used to supplicate: "Allahumma inni a'udhu bika min munkaratil-akhlaqi, wal-a'mali, wal-ahwa'i (O Allah! I seek refuge in You from undesirable manners, deeds, and aspirations).''
      [At-Tirmidhi].

  • @fastng
    @fastng 2 роки тому +1

    wouldnt divert/distract your gaze be better?

  • @longegg-wind9577
    @longegg-wind9577 Рік тому

    25:07

  • @bintjamiel2873
    @bintjamiel2873 2 роки тому +5

    Wallahi it’s now hard even for us women to lower our gaze because it’s not only the women that are dressed yet naked but wallahi even the Men are dressed yet naked, it seams like now men are competing with women in this immorality!.
    Men now are wearing inner garments, trousers with thigh high slits, trousers with wholes, skinny jeans and walk out of their houses along with their women.
    Subhana’Allah have we lost haya and akhlaq??
    May Allah make it easy for us to lower our gaze Yaa’Rabb. Ameen

    • @abukitty
      @abukitty Рік тому +1

      For men, the greatest fitnah is women. Women don't get attracted by what they see. So, What's the _greatest_ fitnah for women?

  • @irmeen
    @irmeen 2 роки тому +1

    Is this a clip from amaujr class

  • @win7460
    @win7460 2 роки тому

    How to tie this kind of imaama?

    • @landon6054
      @landon6054 2 роки тому

      Do you know where Ustadh gets them from?

    • @win7460
      @win7460 2 роки тому

      @@landon6054 no i dont.

  • @ibniqbal
    @ibniqbal 2 роки тому

    Sheikh , which country ?

  • @arteliciousone1210
    @arteliciousone1210 2 роки тому +3

    Is it permissible to hang wall art with quran words or verses on it..?? Can it be hung as a piece of decoration? Please reply to this comment.I really need to know,as I sell these kind of wall art

    • @vost2916
      @vost2916 2 роки тому +1

      It is impermissible.

    • @AbdurRehmanBaig
      @AbdurRehmanBaig 2 роки тому

      Yes it can, @vost please dont make something haram that which is halal

    • @vost2916
      @vost2916 2 роки тому

      @@AbdurRehmanBaig The Quran was sent to guide mankind. It was not sent to decorate walls, that is disrespectful.
      Secondly, the Salaf Us Saliheen never did such a thing.

    • @AbdurRehmanBaig
      @AbdurRehmanBaig 2 роки тому

      @@vost2916 Yes, I agree Akhi but he can sell them with the purpose that the customer is ordering for a reminder and for reading purposes. If we go for questioning the customers intentions, then his business will flop. Isn't it the case for those who sell grapes, what if the one buying uses it to make wine? or those who sell knives, what if the person buying uses it to kill instead of buy food. We as business men must assume the best and make the sale

    • @user-yq2if6ld9h
      @user-yq2if6ld9h 2 роки тому

      Shaykh sulayman ar ruhayli said its not permissible. You can find the fatwa ok youtube

  • @oumernassir883
    @oumernassir883 5 місяців тому

    if owmen were to ooowere the lgave they would have never existed what best kind of poerfect medicine shakesper has with sekeo and roemo adont take a picture sigh sigh sigh sigh sigh lol i'm just kidding hgis hgis hgis why do we need to be perfect in an inticiding word called troi'ds judo center