I have an older brother who I cut ties with because of his violent behavior. He is easily angered, he threatens people, he has attacked people, he constantly goes off on angry rants, he has an interest in guns that has little to do with self defense, and he is abusive towards animals. But I'm the exact opposite. I'm polite, calm, kind, empathetic, I rarely yell, I don't even curse, I love animals and I hate violence. We are both brothers and we shared the same childhood, so why did I turn out differently?
How was your childhood? I grew up with emotionally unavailable parents, today at 23 I struggle with depression, anxiety, maybe bpd and adhd also, but my brothers "seem' to be fine...
Nothing to do with childhoods, your brother has just been experiencing more violent people than you People who are violent will pass their violence to somebody else
@@funiguy2219 No he hasn't, I had noticed this since we were very young. At one point he was strangling our dog by stepping on his neck because he growled at him, which he only did because he wouldn't stop hitting him. When I pulled him off and after we fought, he threatened to shoot me with a gun. Violence makes him feel powerful. To be honest both my brothers are like this and even my sister, he is just the worst. Growing up the youngest in that house wasn't fun. It's had the opposite effect on me, it made me hate violence and people who get angry over everything and even somewhat bitter, but I NEVER passed it on to other people.
@@Eco-pu2zs If all of your siblings and other family are violent and you are being truthful about not being violent yourself you are most likely a genetic anomaly or something.
@@Eco-pu2zs powerful people dont get easliy angird powerful leaders actually have low stress levels even in the animal kingdom the alpha male always has high stress tolrence and the males below him get angried and emotional easily i was extremley aggressive when i first hit puberty i did that as a defense mechnsim agansit bullying bucuse i was afriad that served me well bucuse they were intimtied by me but as i got older and understood how th world works i become extremly calm i rarley get angry in fact i dont remeber the last time that i got angry
@Observer Can we though? If I punch someone in the face, can they truly control the pain or the anger it causes? It will depend purely on past exposure, which is also debatable in regards to how much control they have over that.
NO! Observe children when they’re together and you will realize that violence is much more a part of us than we want to admit . It is not a reaction to our environment.
Violent behavior that statistically "We know run in families", like addictions for example, are incredibly obfuscating notions which impede hard science. Correlation does not imply causation. This needs to be a modern mantra. Things that "run in families"- which are behavior-based alone- should not lead any scientist to conclude there is necessarily some hidden, inherited genetic factor at play. It's this kind of subjective guesswork that keeps Psychology from enjoying genuine mainstream acceptance among the Public at-large.
It’s hard to look at situations like family upbringing and successfully separate the genetic predisposition from the environment of one’s childhood, when the behaviours occur so close to birth that it can be pretty well impossible to find the origin of the behaviour. If your parent has PTSD and had it before you were born, and they pass it on to you, if genetics do pass on neural pathways in such a way, then you might find yourself born with it. Alternatively, if you’re born into a house with a parent who has PTSD, then their having it will influence your behaviour due to the mimicking nature of children and their guardians. It then becomes super hard to differentiate unless separation occurs, but results remain consistent, like two kids born to a parent with PTSD are raised in separate household, but both grow up with PTSD. I mention PTSD specifically, because, iirc correctly, a study was done on the children of Holocaust survivors and brain scans of the children showed neural pathways that indicated brains with PTSD, suggesting the traits were passed on. But I’m still left wondering if it was a “born with it” vs “took on the traits of those who raised them” situation.
This is incredible and I see how my own upbringing shaped my behavior and how I am aggressive but grew up with my mother who is very relaxed and chilled but in my youth I found environments that were aggressive such as boxing, I am very much like father who i didn't grow up with and is a very aggressive person... very interesting.
Honestly, I don’t like violent people and I want anything to do with them. If someone in my circle resorts do violence, I drop them as a friend immediately.
Wait a minute. What about a father who murders the guy who raped his daughter? What about a son who murders the guy who ruined his father's business? What about a father who murders the bully who drove his son to suicide? What about a son who murders his father because of years of sexual abuse? Life is not perfect and the legal system is not perfect either.
There may be persons whose behaviors are affected by nature or nurtured factors. In general, however, there is a known correlation between overpopulation and violence. Psychological experiments show this. In our lifetime we may expect to see more violence. In the 1960’s the earth population was about 3 billion, today it’s about 8 billion and life in urban areas is rapidly increasing.
I had some experiences in my childhood .. I was 14 years old the first time I got in a fight with a full grown man who had ptsd and just had came from Iraq .. from there the cops also beat me.. From there it was all downhill .. I had like lost the fear of fighting and it was more satisfying than anything.. I remember being in high school and I just had fun fighting. I can’t watch football or soccer because I find it boring.. I’m so intrigued by combat sports. Something about fighting just calms me. I do it legal now . I do kick boxing and jiu jitsu because it really has helped me calm down. I also do meditation. I still think one day I’ll move to Alaska and live in a log cabin off grid away from society until I die of old age .. I enjoy nature, being one in nature .. hiking, camping .. etc I think being exposed to nature elements really humbles me.
I hate living things I don't know why I tried to help my self but I can't I just love violent thing just animals or people dying painfully I'm a monster 😢😢😢
if you keep it in a safe space you're not a monster, and if you try your best to be good even with the violence inside you.. my fren you are brave and im proud of you, we can control it you are better than your violence 💜
Violence is an evil conductor, which conduct people to an early death and It is also a disease, It can be created by others in others, will depend in the immunity of the human which is target of this, there is no shield to avoid abstract violence, It is worse than any physical violence, at least in a physical aggression it will be simple to the target to avoid other kind of violence as this can lead the target to death, while in abstract violence the sequel may be worse which will lead the target to an abstract sequel, which may also create a physical sequel as the real violence. Creating a situation where a man is loving a woman, everything that comes from that woman is love, even bad thing, if the man loses his partnership with the woman he tends to keep the bad things on him until his death, so abstract violence is extremely more aggressive than physical violence, It can ruin the whole life of someone, as this is also a disease and the mind must have immunity to this, then to avoid abstract violence could be simple as giving it a new meaning by assign entertainment values to this, which is also a humiliation and the post effects of assign the violence the value of entertainment may be later worse, as explained by limits in math, it will tend to an infinite loop.
I wonder why a lower animal (bonobos) can get along with no violence, yet human beings commit all kinds of atrocities and etc. we humans are insane practically as governments.
Yeah, but that's the point. We don't have to fight over resources anymore. You could easily fulfill any basic human need with the technological knowledge we have today . And since we have to assimilate to the dos and don'ts of our respective cultures and legal systems for thousands of years now even if they go against our needs, I call bullshit on the "it's hard wired in us"-part. At least I don't feel an unrestrainable need to kill, torture, shame or rape any other human being. Today's war over resources is more like "who's going to get the most comfortable life" and people, who get into power are just carrying on the rules, which have once been established by people, who forced their needs on others without looking after the needs of those others. Even if it was of genetic origin: Like I said, I and a lot of other people don't have these needs or thoughts and are willing to take the difficult path and look for a solution that benefits all before just taking it from others. I don't blame a lion for wanting to kill me, but if I have a gun and he's attacking me, I'm going to shoot him.
hah yeah yeah and look at bonobos we cage them in zoos for pure pleasure violence is part of human nature the evidence is there is no time in human history were crimes were 0 percent and wars were absent and sometimes we do them for pure pleasure
@@vanyastaleva415 Totally agree with that -- parents can really damage a child if they are abusive. A lot of people should not have kids yet they do all the time.
@@brack25c damn right Many folks are too mindless and animalistic to not think about what they cause to their own offsprings future and mental health No wonder I was so violent with that monkey of a father I got
Most of this sort of behavior is due to alcohol and drug abuse, environment, such as coming from abusive families, also what they see in the media such as movies and video games.
Violence is the generator of subsequent descendents which may be Racism, Terrorism, Sexual Abuse, Bullying, or It can also be entertainment as represented by martial arts, or comedy movies, but even as an entertainment some will keep considering it as violence. In Brazil, the police use to struggle with drug dealers in favelas, both bandits and police are violents because they have their purposes which are different, so violence is generated by differences, both will be terrorists to these who want to have a good life, the main problem here is that violence has two distinct values which are real and abstract. The sound of a bullet may be terrorism for me, but for someone else this may be common thing. As the violence may also be abstract, whenever bullying is practiced, more violence tends to be created, even If it is created by self, as self underestimating. Violence will only have a value If a value is assigned to this. Creating a situation where a boy is bullied by his friends, he is only being bullied if first he understand the meaning of bullying, secondly he has to interprete the actions of someone as negative actions, otherwise It wont be violence, and as some feel for others, so abstract violence in this case will only exist If the coach, or professor, or family is creating negativity on it, and as in math limits tend to be positive or negative infinites, this may never end, humanly its called sequel, which is created by persistence where persistence may be positive or negative, the boy which is claimed by evil people bullied could persist in the friendship over self claiming bullied and creating on him a nightmare. So abstract violence is easier to avoid, otherwise it will become a sequel. What If he doesn't want to write about this, has his a chance to do this? He doesn't have because most people seems to be naturally evil, they will exclude the claimed bullied boy because He doesn't accept that he was bullied and he is denying the abstract violent generation and always persisting in hugging, handshaking and greeting each society member that he finds in the street, helping them with whatever he can. If he doesn't agree with bullying them, the descendents of the aggressors must not be part of this theme, but as I said before, most humans seems to be evil. There is terrorism in the beach of my town, where families and children are up there to have comfort and entertainment, the question is why are they evil? Why are they murdering? So I also want to be murdered, seems to be good thing in my town. This may also be violence, if interpreted as this. Better chain the only true sentence that must exist to this, violence doesn't exist and everything is product and descendent of love stories.
If everyone made the same amount of money no one would be violent violence is derived from greed and self desire to be better than your neighbor. I’m not even a doctor and I know that
Yes, let us split everything right down the middle and the underachievers gain from those who work hard and earn it. You fkn communist! Reasons why you shouldn’t be eligible to vote, fr.
i disagree,i think what triggers it if the agressor thinks someone is judging them,or being dismissive,or they have will attack a weaker person(if the father bullied them)
I will try to give you the best I can do to explain why humans are violent, give me a few minutes, I am a little busy at the moment, but this can also take a hour or two.
@@margaretwebb389 Wait a minute. What about a father who murders the guy who raped his daughter? What about a son who murders the guy who ruined his father's business? What a father who murders the bully who drove his son to suicide? What about a son who murders his father due to years of sexual abuse? Life is not perfect and the legal system is not perfect either.
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 No excuses! How dare someone rape another ! Allow the legal system to take care of it.Can’t blame a reaction from a loved one, however it can cost time served
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 We have a very screwed up system! But, when one retaliates, it comes back on them. Blessings being sent your way that you have never suffered criminal activity, nor your loved ones!
Supposing that when I was a children my father a few times while under effect of alcohol, and He doesn't drink, neither smoke, he used to hit me with his hands, supposing that I was instead of react with physical aggression as well as him, I was thinking why, or I was screaming for change, and If I was screaming that is because I have heard my mother screaming and I learned that to not hurt physically others I ll have to defend myself by screaming, then in this supposition I am also being violent, because the initiative is probably created to figure out until when the violence will run, while my father and my mother are the less violent people I met in my life, I have enough empathy to understand others which suffer from this. Yesterday, I read a BBC article in which there is a image where a sentence is written in a sign and It says: Don't hurt people(I can't believe I have to say this!). In this article the author explains sadism and psychopaths, the difference between both. My guess is, have you ever putted yourself in place of mine? And the answer I got is impressive, they never putted themselves in the place of mine, because It seems to be dangerous using empathy and as explained before, It is also violence and tends to be interpretative as presented in any kind of sense which descends of universe. Supposing that a word was created to mean a new hope, which represents the act of forgive, isn't this still violence? There will be remains which cannot be controlled as others wouldn't develop the sense of forgive so they would never forgive or understand it even if they aren't part of the relation as they are just spectators. So I know a little boy that was teached to understand that, there is nothing to forgive, and he accepted this, nothing bad was really done.
That's a bunch of crap, no one is born violent, it's lack of self control and also what they see in movies and video games thinking that kicking the crap out of someone is the answer.
By hacking a single word of your theme, for some it will become easier to understand why. Why _ aren't _ people violent? They are not violent because they have no social relations, as long they appear, their appearance may be violence for someone else, such as my beard or your hairstyle. You say that violence will depend in the ascendents and its descendents will probably has a predisposition to violence. That is a good point, we must not forget how we all were born, but again its interpretative, if the other part of the orange give it a mean that it isn't violence, then It wont be. There are a few words that by interpreting it as a result of its meaning then violence wont occur, giving a long range relation between both parts, these words name are peace and love, there aren't many, If I say that empathy is a word that will conduct a group out of a violence, I ll be wrong, because whenever I am using empathy to help someone, than another one will much likely dismiss my action, as I must not help someone which is begging for help such as a beggar or a street kid(there is a lot of these in brazil, specially in my town). I know a boy who used to give some food whenever asked to him, a few times he couldn't help them, once he told me that someone told him that it was wrong, he was throwing his money in the garbage, if this isn't an offense, or an attempt to try to manipulate this boy to take him out of the path of the empathy. I have also seem him cleaning the tables of a restaurant doing it for the others but he wasn't a costumer, he was just cleaning the tables so the costumers could attend rapidly their demands, in this occasion the client was also being a server, that is how it must be I guess, but for some this boy lacks of education, a client must never use his hands to do the job of others, again the implicity violence is present even in a good action, so denying is violence, once again interpretative, still abstract, and it break the heart in pieces.
Peace and Happiness are also violence, as It all tend to be interpretative, some people will judge others as these who dont deserve peace, and happiness will be violence as also an amazing word which name is Zeal, every word is interpretative and If It is coming from someone that push you into the hell and them bring you up to the sky with frequency, this will naturally generate a sequel. Zeal for brotherly love carefully and If someone feel that can zeal for self this will become an aggression. Few days ago I related violence creating situations that happened to someone very close to me, and now I am creating another situation, some people may absorb violence without hurting others physically, others don't need to absorb this, they are always trying to avoid violence by giving It new meanings or the real meanings of the words, also they accept this, which is very important to avoid violence. When violence comes from the family It is completely acceptable, as the family is showing off when violence may occur, but when violence is created by others this has to be severely analyzed, why are they being violent? The silence for example may represent peace for some, for others the silence may be an aggression, as well again interpretative. Let's say I suffered a lot, If I say that then someone made me suffer, and I was interpreting this as violence. I must not interprete this as violence, otherwise they may suffer, better me suffering than someone else, so even If It is extremely hard to accept that abstract violence is interpretative for me, others may don't suffer because they accept that this is interpretative. RIght now I am 34 years old man, and nobody never was violent to me. Pressuring someone is the worst action someone can do, we must not push them down in a hole, we must always send a rope to bring them to the surface. The word of the tool rope has similar phonetic to the most wonderful word, which is called hope, and well, what a beautiful world. What If I cannot be saved, as nobody sent me a rope and I lost my hope. For the humans there is always an alternative, so here we are praying for God, a rope that is tied for each human body, but even by praying we never find hope, then hope is dead and we must accept this, otherwise violence meaning will be the time. Some used to say that time is money, in this case money would be violence, and everything that you can consume by using money will produce it as well. Others use to say that the time is passing too fast, for me this is violence as I have adoration for the time and its descedence which is the whole universe, the only one universe that exists without new meanings such as multiverse or comparssions with the metaphora where each human is an universe, for me all of this represents violence, but nobody created this, I am suffering by myself, as being friend of the time, I couldn't use the time in my favor. So the time for me which I have adoration is also violence when It must not be, but It is because I gave the time a mean in my life, and I don't have this mean with me, and probably I wont have it, because I am interpreting the human being as the most disgraceful race of the universe, something that probably will never change, because in the middle of each kind of violence is a conductor called Manipulation, which is also a rope.
I Loved growing up and fighting.. Playing war, Shooting and killing things. Fighting with the friends and punch and kick as kids. We did it to tough'n up. We where wild!! and we used to be alot of punks. NOW there's to much" no touch laws".. but i really wanna hurt someone form time to time.
Because to survive it is nature of humans but families will not had tolerated violence need peace rather than war and violence what violence are u talking about
I am sure the Psychiatrist is not working for the people, I would guess that the level of Oppression and Profiling the Poor helps when most Criminal activity is done behind closed doors of the Wealthy. The Wealthy have money for Attorneys so the perfect Crime is never noticed.
I have an older brother who I cut ties with because of his violent behavior. He is easily angered, he threatens people, he has attacked people, he constantly goes off on angry rants, he has an interest in guns that has little to do with self defense, and he is abusive towards animals. But I'm the exact opposite. I'm polite, calm, kind, empathetic, I rarely yell, I don't even curse, I love animals and I hate violence. We are both brothers and we shared the same childhood, so why did I turn out differently?
How was your childhood?
I grew up with emotionally unavailable parents, today at 23 I struggle with depression, anxiety, maybe bpd and adhd also, but my brothers "seem' to be fine...
Nothing to do with childhoods, your brother has just been experiencing more violent people than you
People who are violent will pass their violence to somebody else
@@funiguy2219 No he hasn't, I had noticed this since we were very young. At one point he was strangling our dog by stepping on his neck because he growled at him, which he only did because he wouldn't stop hitting him. When I pulled him off and after we fought, he threatened to shoot me with a gun. Violence makes him feel powerful. To be honest both my brothers are like this and even my sister, he is just the worst. Growing up the youngest in that house wasn't fun. It's had the opposite effect on me, it made me hate violence and people who get angry over everything and even somewhat bitter, but I NEVER passed it on to other people.
@@Eco-pu2zs If all of your siblings and other family are violent and you are being truthful about not being violent yourself you are most likely a genetic anomaly or something.
@@Eco-pu2zs powerful people dont get easliy angird powerful leaders actually have low stress levels even in the animal kingdom the alpha male always has high stress tolrence and the males below him get angried and emotional easily i was extremley aggressive when i first hit puberty i did that as a defense mechnsim agansit bullying bucuse i was afriad that served me well bucuse they were intimtied by me but as i got older and understood how th world works i become extremly calm i rarley get angry in fact i dont remeber the last time that i got angry
I can tell you from experience that violent behavior is a result of being disrespected, discarded or abuse. It's a natural reaction.
@Observer Sometimes it's best to leave the scene before you give them what they deserve.
@Observer Can we though? If I punch someone in the face, can they truly control the pain or the anger it causes? It will depend purely on past exposure, which is also debatable in regards to how much control they have over that.
NO! Observe children when they’re together and you will realize that violence is much more a part of us than we want to admit . It is not a reaction to our environment.
@@kennethosho3581 Indeed Man is by nature violent.
Violent behavior that statistically "We know run in families", like addictions for example, are incredibly obfuscating notions which impede hard science. Correlation does not imply causation. This needs to be a modern mantra. Things that "run in families"- which are behavior-based alone- should not lead any scientist to conclude there is necessarily some hidden, inherited genetic factor at play. It's this kind of subjective guesswork that keeps Psychology from enjoying genuine mainstream acceptance among the Public at-large.
P.S.: I like your video, I probably should have said that first. I can be such a bastard, I know. -S
It’s hard to look at situations like family upbringing and successfully separate the genetic predisposition from the environment of one’s childhood, when the behaviours occur so close to birth that it can be pretty well impossible to find the origin of the behaviour.
If your parent has PTSD and had it before you were born, and they pass it on to you, if genetics do pass on neural pathways in such a way, then you might find yourself born with it.
Alternatively, if you’re born into a house with a parent who has PTSD, then their having it will influence your behaviour due to the mimicking nature of children and their guardians.
It then becomes super hard to differentiate unless separation occurs, but results remain consistent, like two kids born to a parent with PTSD are raised in separate household, but both grow up with PTSD.
I mention PTSD specifically, because, iirc correctly, a study was done on the children of Holocaust survivors and brain scans of the children showed neural pathways that indicated brains with PTSD, suggesting the traits were passed on. But I’m still left wondering if it was a “born with it” vs “took on the traits of those who raised them” situation.
@@lordoa I think of the parents went through The Holocaust, predisposition or not they’ll end up with PTSD.
This is incredible and I see how my own upbringing shaped my behavior and how I am aggressive but grew up with my mother who is very relaxed and chilled but in my youth I found environments that were aggressive such as boxing, I am very much like father who i didn't grow up with and is a very aggressive person... very interesting.
Honestly, I don’t like violent people and I want anything to do with them. If someone in my circle resorts do violence, I drop them as a friend immediately.
Good, I'm exhausted by those people. I'm also very glad to get away.
Wait a minute. What about a father who murders the guy who raped his daughter? What about a son who murders the guy who ruined his father's business? What about a father who murders the bully who drove his son to suicide? What about a son who murders his father because of years of sexual abuse? Life is not perfect and the legal system is not perfect either.
There may be persons whose behaviors are affected by nature or nurtured factors. In general, however, there is a known correlation between overpopulation and violence. Psychological experiments show this. In our lifetime we may expect to see more violence. In the 1960’s the earth population was about 3 billion, today it’s about 8 billion and life in urban areas is rapidly increasing.
I had some experiences in my childhood .. I was 14 years old the first time I got in a fight with a full grown man who had ptsd and just had came from Iraq .. from there the cops also beat me..
From there it was all downhill .. I had like lost the fear of fighting and it was more satisfying than anything.. I remember being in high school and I just had fun fighting. I can’t watch football or soccer because I find it boring.. I’m so intrigued by combat sports.
Something about fighting just calms me. I do it legal now . I do kick boxing and jiu jitsu because it really has helped me calm down.
I also do meditation.
I still think one day I’ll move to Alaska and live in a log cabin off grid away from society until I die of old age .. I enjoy nature, being one in nature .. hiking, camping .. etc I think being exposed to nature elements really humbles me.
I don't watch football too
Fight Club with Brad Pitt! You have good outlets, kudos!!!
This man is underrated
I hate living things I don't know why I tried to help my self but I can't I just love violent thing just animals or people dying painfully I'm a monster 😢😢😢
Wow🙄
atleast u acknowledge that’s the first step
if you keep it in a safe space you're not a monster, and if you try your best to be good even with the violence inside you.. my fren you are brave and im proud of you, we can control it
you are better than your violence 💜
Violence is an evil conductor, which conduct people to an early death and It is also a disease, It can be created by others in others, will depend in the immunity of the human which is target of this, there is no shield to avoid abstract violence, It is worse than any physical violence, at least in a physical aggression it will be simple to the target to avoid other kind of violence as this can lead the target to death, while in abstract violence the sequel may be worse which will lead the target to an abstract sequel, which may also create a physical sequel as the real violence. Creating a situation where a man is loving a woman, everything that comes from that woman is love, even bad thing, if the man loses his partnership with the woman he tends to keep the bad things on him until his death, so abstract violence is extremely more aggressive than physical violence, It can ruin the whole life of someone, as this is also a disease and the mind must have immunity to this, then to avoid abstract violence could be simple as giving it a new meaning by assign entertainment values to this, which is also a humiliation and the post effects of assign the violence the value of entertainment may be later worse, as explained by limits in math, it will tend to an infinite loop.
Life is hell
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I wonder why a lower animal (bonobos) can get along with no violence, yet human beings commit all kinds of atrocities and etc. we humans are insane practically as governments.
Yeah, but that's the point. We don't have to fight over resources anymore. You could easily fulfill any basic human need with the technological knowledge we have today . And since we have to assimilate to the dos and don'ts of our respective cultures and legal systems for thousands of years now even if they go against our needs, I call bullshit on the "it's hard wired in us"-part. At least I don't feel an unrestrainable need to kill, torture, shame or rape any other human being.
Today's war over resources is more like "who's going to get the most comfortable life" and people, who get into power are just carrying on the rules, which have once been established by people, who forced their needs on others without looking after the needs of those others. Even if it was of genetic origin:
Like I said, I and a lot of other people don't have these needs or thoughts and are willing to take the difficult path and look for a solution that benefits all before just taking it from others.
I don't blame a lion for wanting to kill me, but if I have a gun and he's attacking me, I'm going to shoot him.
Our psychology is more complex, that's why stupid parents raise violent people.
hah yeah yeah and look at bonobos we cage them in zoos for pure pleasure violence is part of human nature the evidence is there is no time in human history were crimes were 0 percent and wars were absent and sometimes we do them for pure pleasure
@@vanyastaleva415 Totally agree with that -- parents can really damage a child if they are abusive. A lot of people should not have kids yet they do all the time.
@@brack25c damn right
Many folks are too mindless and animalistic to not think about what they cause to their own offsprings future and mental health
No wonder I was so violent with that monkey of a father I got
Environment is really important
Most of this sort of behavior is due to alcohol and drug abuse, environment, such as coming from abusive families, also what they see in the media such as movies and video games.
Wholly appreciate the "bling" reference. Not joking : ).
Funnily enough humans really love bling. In fact shiny and beautiful stuff makes us happy in some way
Does anyone recognise the comic panel on the mug behind him?
Violence is the generator of subsequent descendents which may be Racism, Terrorism, Sexual Abuse, Bullying, or It can also be entertainment as represented by martial arts, or comedy movies, but even as an entertainment some will keep considering it as violence. In Brazil, the police use to struggle with drug dealers in favelas, both bandits and police are violents because they have their purposes which are different, so violence is generated by differences, both will be terrorists to these who want to have a good life, the main problem here is that violence has two distinct values which are real and abstract. The sound of a bullet may be terrorism for me, but for someone else this may be common thing. As the violence may also be abstract, whenever bullying is practiced, more violence tends to be created, even If it is created by self, as self underestimating. Violence will only have a value If a value is assigned to this. Creating a situation where a boy is bullied by his friends, he is only being bullied if first he understand the meaning of bullying, secondly he has to interprete the actions of someone as negative actions, otherwise It wont be violence, and as some feel for others, so abstract violence in this case will only exist If the coach, or professor, or family is creating negativity on it, and as in math limits tend to be positive or negative infinites, this may never end, humanly its called sequel, which is created by persistence where persistence may be positive or negative, the boy which is claimed by evil people bullied could persist in the friendship over self claiming bullied and creating on him a nightmare. So abstract violence is easier to avoid, otherwise it will become a sequel. What If he doesn't want to write about this, has his a chance to do this? He doesn't have because most people seems to be naturally evil, they will exclude the claimed bullied boy because He doesn't accept that he was bullied and he is denying the abstract violent generation and always persisting in hugging, handshaking and greeting each society member that he finds in the street, helping them with whatever he can. If he doesn't agree with bullying them, the descendents of the aggressors must not be part of this theme, but as I said before, most humans seems to be evil. There is terrorism in the beach of my town, where families and children are up there to have comfort and entertainment, the question is why are they evil? Why are they murdering? So I also want to be murdered, seems to be good thing in my town. This may also be violence, if interpreted as this. Better chain the only true sentence that must exist to this, violence doesn't exist and everything is product and descendent of love stories.
If everyone made the same amount of money no one would be violent violence is derived from greed and self desire to be better than your neighbor. I’m not even a doctor and I know that
Yes, let us split everything right down the middle and the underachievers gain from those who work hard and earn it. You fkn communist! Reasons why you shouldn’t be eligible to vote, fr.
What a good video
i disagree,i think what triggers it if the agressor thinks someone is judging them,or being dismissive,or they have will attack a weaker person(if the father bullied them)
I will try to give you the best I can do to explain why humans are violent, give me a few minutes, I am a little busy at the moment, but this can also take a hour or two.
There is no excuse for violence. That's what a social worker told me.
Absolutely right !!! No excuses
Hmm yes kinda
@@margaretwebb389 Wait a minute. What about a father who murders the guy who raped his daughter? What about a son who murders the guy who ruined his father's business? What a father who murders the bully who drove his son to suicide? What about a son who murders his father due to years of sexual abuse? Life is not perfect and the legal system is not perfect either.
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 No excuses! How dare someone rape another ! Allow the legal system to take care of it.Can’t blame a reaction from a loved one, however it can cost time served
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 We have a very screwed up system! But, when one retaliates, it comes back on them. Blessings being sent your way that you have never suffered criminal activity, nor your loved ones!
It's another form expression
i try to keep the violence in a purple canvas instead of a red floor :c
Supposing that when I was a children my father a few times while under effect of alcohol, and He doesn't drink, neither smoke, he used to hit me with his hands, supposing that I was instead of react with physical aggression as well as him, I was thinking why, or I was screaming for change, and If I was screaming that is because I have heard my mother screaming and I learned that to not hurt physically others I ll have to defend myself by screaming, then in this supposition I am also being violent, because the initiative is probably created to figure out until when the violence will run, while my father and my mother are the less violent people I met in my life, I have enough empathy to understand others which suffer from this. Yesterday, I read a BBC article in which there is a image where a sentence is written in a sign and It says: Don't hurt people(I can't believe I have to say this!). In this article the author explains sadism and psychopaths, the difference between both. My guess is, have you ever putted yourself in place of mine? And the answer I got is impressive, they never putted themselves in the place of mine, because It seems to be dangerous using empathy and as explained before, It is also violence and tends to be interpretative as presented in any kind of sense which descends of universe. Supposing that a word was created to mean a new hope, which represents the act of forgive, isn't this still violence? There will be remains which cannot be controlled as others wouldn't develop the sense of forgive so they would never forgive or understand it even if they aren't part of the relation as they are just spectators. So I know a little boy that was teached to understand that, there is nothing to forgive, and he accepted this, nothing bad was really done.
do we have evidence of these "genetic factors"?
I am none of the above
But what makes you want to be a badass?
Immaturity, lack of purpose in life...
Evidence? Genetics?
That's a bunch of crap, no one is born violent, it's lack of self control and also what they see in movies and video games thinking that kicking the crap out of someone is the answer.
Why don't I call community housing Bendigo again? Perhaps because I never get anywhere
Isn't this eugenics ?
By hacking a single word of your theme, for some it will become easier to understand why. Why _ aren't _ people violent? They are not violent because they have no social relations, as long they appear, their appearance may be violence for someone else, such as my beard or your hairstyle. You say that violence will depend in the ascendents and its descendents will probably has a predisposition to violence. That is a good point, we must not forget how we all were born, but again its interpretative, if the other part of the orange give it a mean that it isn't violence, then It wont be. There are a few words that by interpreting it as a result of its meaning then violence wont occur, giving a long range relation between both parts, these words name are peace and love, there aren't many, If I say that empathy is a word that will conduct a group out of a violence, I ll be wrong, because whenever I am using empathy to help someone, than another one will much likely dismiss my action, as I must not help someone which is begging for help such as a beggar or a street kid(there is a lot of these in brazil, specially in my town). I know a boy who used to give some food whenever asked to him, a few times he couldn't help them, once he told me that someone told him that it was wrong, he was throwing his money in the garbage, if this isn't an offense, or an attempt to try to manipulate this boy to take him out of the path of the empathy. I have also seem him cleaning the tables of a restaurant doing it for the others but he wasn't a costumer, he was just cleaning the tables so the costumers could attend rapidly their demands, in this occasion the client was also being a server, that is how it must be I guess, but for some this boy lacks of education, a client must never use his hands to do the job of others, again the implicity violence is present even in a good action, so denying is violence, once again interpretative, still abstract, and it break the heart in pieces.
Peace and Happiness are also violence, as It all tend to be interpretative, some people will judge others as these who dont deserve peace, and happiness will be violence as also an amazing word which name is Zeal, every word is interpretative and If It is coming from someone that push you into the hell and them bring you up to the sky with frequency, this will naturally generate a sequel. Zeal for brotherly love carefully and If someone feel that can zeal for self this will become an aggression. Few days ago I related violence creating situations that happened to someone very close to me, and now I am creating another situation, some people may absorb violence without hurting others physically, others don't need to absorb this, they are always trying to avoid violence by giving It new meanings or the real meanings of the words, also they accept this, which is very important to avoid violence. When violence comes from the family It is completely acceptable, as the family is showing off when violence may occur, but when violence is created by others this has to be severely analyzed, why are they being violent? The silence for example may represent peace for some, for others the silence may be an aggression, as well again interpretative. Let's say I suffered a lot, If I say that then someone made me suffer, and I was interpreting this as violence. I must not interprete this as violence, otherwise they may suffer, better me suffering than someone else, so even If It is extremely hard to accept that abstract violence is interpretative for me, others may don't suffer because they accept that this is interpretative. RIght now I am 34 years old man, and nobody never was violent to me. Pressuring someone is the worst action someone can do, we must not push them down in a hole, we must always send a rope to bring them to the surface. The word of the tool rope has similar phonetic to the most wonderful word, which is called hope, and well, what a beautiful world. What If I cannot be saved, as nobody sent me a rope and I lost my hope. For the humans there is always an alternative, so here we are praying for God, a rope that is tied for each human body, but even by praying we never find hope, then hope is dead and we must accept this, otherwise violence meaning will be the time. Some used to say that time is money, in this case money would be violence, and everything that you can consume by using money will produce it as well. Others use to say that the time is passing too fast, for me this is violence as I have adoration for the time and its descedence which is the whole universe, the only one universe that exists without new meanings such as multiverse or comparssions with the metaphora where each human is an universe, for me all of this represents violence, but nobody created this, I am suffering by myself, as being friend of the time, I couldn't use the time in my favor. So the time for me which I have adoration is also violence when It must not be, but It is because I gave the time a mean in my life, and I don't have this mean with me, and probably I wont have it, because I am interpreting the human being as the most disgraceful race of the universe, something that probably will never change, because in the middle of each kind of violence is a conductor called Manipulation, which is also a rope.
4:40 can't believe he cursed lol
I Loved growing up and fighting.. Playing war, Shooting and killing things. Fighting with the friends and punch and kick as kids. We did it to tough'n up. We where wild!! and we used to be alot of punks.
NOW there's to much" no touch laws".. but i really wanna hurt someone form time to time.
Touch me then? Let's see what u got big boy. I will make u lick my shoe 👞👦
Because to survive it is nature of humans but families will not had tolerated violence need peace rather than war and violence what violence are u talking about
Gene correlation find other genes
weak
So wrestling is example of violence????
It is interpreted as a martial art, may be violence for any interpreting this as violence which one isn't wrong as It is the top node of martial arts.
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Because they have wrong medication
Animahullu i dont belive in medication that is just something that makes more profit for the medecine companies
I am sure the Psychiatrist is not working for the people, I would guess that the level of Oppression and Profiling the Poor helps when most Criminal activity is done behind closed doors of the Wealthy. The Wealthy have money for Attorneys so the perfect Crime is never noticed.
I had wrong medication as a child which made me violent.
@@Animahullu how are u now?
😂 😂
Nothing new! You wasted your life!
Violent people finish first. Take a look at Jordan Peterson before becoming judgmental.