He Was Clueless, But She Didn't Stop Trying! | In Love or Not
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- Опубліковано 7 жов 2024
- Rohan and Aria may or may not still be together. Hear the story of their relationship and decide... do you think they are still in love?
Tell us what your vote is in the comments! Why did you make that choice? Was it body language or a look in their eyes? Or was it something they said and the way they spoke to each other? What clues do they give off?
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you can tell she loves him
but he is not
Mhhhhmmmm
because he wants blonde
I'm sure they'll figure it out eventually and have stories to tell their children. loll
This is a completely biased comment. They are both technically Asian based on U.S. census measures, although we all know many people consider East Indian to be a stand alone culture, as each country's culture is different. I honestly think to say " don't expect too much" is just as bad as saying " all men are dogs", both are huge generalizations.
U cannot find another girl who could love u like she does.
Old folks in my national origin would say, 'it's not who you like, it's who like you' or 'the gyal has to like you more than you like her!'
I don't believe that. If he is not inlove should he force it? He will not be happy for the rest of his life.
@@ragamuffinhooligan4019 it's interesting, because the reversed is believed in many other places......like the guy has to be in love more
@@Charlotte-oe3hl believe me it is easy to blend in.
@@ni3070 i believe this
Damn! The border tensions got to him
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
U nailed it dude😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🙏🙏
Hahahaha ❤️
@@ashilyjustin4748 lol
SoulPancake destroyed my whole knowledge of human nature. How should I ever trust myself again?
Haha happy to be of service.
U H Lol
Trust urself dont worry she is madly deeply in love with him
J Kim
Lol
i guessed correctly because the way he looked at her, there was no love in his look of his eyes speaking with her. Also she sounded strong woman which i sensed she had her heart broken but she moved on.
chiMarkgames that's exactly what I saw
I felt the same way. I even wondered if he ever truly was in love with her. Meaning, I am sure he cared about her but she had to chase him and he was just kinda like, "Alright, I guess we can kinda date." But he never felt comfortable saying I love you. I feel like deep down he doesn't see himself with her but she is nice to have around so they stay in each other's lives. Unfortunately, I feel like she keeps hope alive that he will one day realize he is in love with her and come back. I feel sad now...
+beyondallcontrol or maybe the guy is not so much comfortable in front of camera ! you know most of the people find it hard to utter the right words in front of camera , they are wanting to say one word and speak out the other in real !
Look at 2:44 she says that she can't remember every being able to easily say, "I love you" and before that he said he has always had a hard time expressing strong emotions like he needs her in his life. They have known each other for years and they still have uncertainty about how the other feels (which is what they have said) is a red flag. At 5:30 he says that he goes in an out of love, that is not love. Those are warm fuzzy feelings. Frankly, people will save themselves a lot of grief if they just live by this rule: If he or she has been with you for years and can't with certainty that they love you, MOVE ON!
Man, I feel exactly this case in my relationship. He says he loves me a lot but can never move it forward. I think deep down he's never let himself truly think that I'm it. That's why I absolutely had to breakup with my boyfriend last week.
Dude , you’ll miss her when she is gone. You’ll regret it. Its hard to find someone who loves you. When you do, hold on to them. Don’t let them go. Most likely you won’t find another who loves you as much as she does
it is what it is but, its his choice
It's not always the case. When someone loves you so much but you don't feel the same feeling, you cannot force yourself to love him/her back the way he/she does. You can try but you'll get tired. In the end, it's always better to be alone but genuinely happy than staying in a relationship for the sake of saving the "relationship" but you know deep in your heart you're not really happy.
Its a misconception that you can't find another person who would love you like someone already does.
Because people with similar personalities (16 in total) are similar and would end up with the personality they like if they chose their heart.
Its not that hard to love someone you genuinely like. And its not like people end up liking few people.
People are always looking out for better partners even while being in a relationship.
Bro...she is Chinese...few of the Chinese students in US are spys... Security ka sawal hay yaar...socho thora
I'll say what a stupid brain dead guy. Leaving a goddess like that for some stupid arranged marriage
THE GUY IS IN LOVE BUT IS AFRAID OF COMMITMENT, THE GIRL IS IN LOVE TOO & IS WAITING FOR HIM TO LET HER IN, IN HIS LIFE & HEART.
Exactly...it seems..
Commitment is very scary for me too
because Indians and chinese are very suspicious of each other
Bunty Pradhan can someone love someone if they don’t commit??
wow apko pata hai lol
I'm sad and you can see and feel their sadness at the end. It just seems that they are in love but their definitions are more than they need to be. Does that even make sense?
yes!!!
Interesting!
debbieomi couldn't agree more..
Agree.
I believe that LOVE is the only thing in the universe without an explanation.
If you're able to make sense of it, is not love.
Love is a choice, yes.
But the sometimes illogical force inside you that makes those decision, that's the inexplainable part. This relentless desire to make the other person happier than they were 5m ago. Specially when things go south.
That's Love.
That's so true. I so agree with ya!!
She is like the most perfect looking Chinese girl I've ever seen
Danielle Sewitt Yes! And so well spoken
Not even close to me
They all look same
She seems pretty average to me...
I guess you havent seen then😂😂😂
She still loves him, he doesn't. I could see that from the first 10 seconds of them talking
Yea.. I agree
that's exactly what i thought !
Maybe he is not in good mood. Uncomfortable At that time
She plays along just so that she can at least keep the friendship and communication going on. She is certainly in love. One can make out from the facial expressions and body language.
because Chinese products have no guarantee 😂😂😂
I was wrong....I got that she was still in love with him but him not as much as her
because he never was. You can see that she pursued him and he just went with the flow for the sake of it. He was never in love with her. He just loved the attention from her. He got tired of it. What a hole!
Destiny Bennett I know a guy in my friend circle and he's the kind of guy who'd take whatever comes, but never chase what goes.. but with guys like him it's hard to figure out what do they even want
because he really loved this one girl and still let her go
minilme: hahah, you just can't make assumptions like that, you don't know anything about their situation other then what they've told us..
Destiny Bennett I was wrong too. I feel like they made a really good couple.
PietreADI, what is your problem dude? Why do you bring stereotypes into this? They were together for 5 years and it doesn't sound like he harmed her like that.
Dude at the start said he saw his father always shower his mother with love whilst his mother barely responded with affection. I think deep down he has a fear of commitment because of how he perceives the dynamic of his parents. If he does express his love he feels like she will be apathetic towards him so he decides to be apathetic first to protect himself.
At least from my very arm chair psychologist view.
Meanwhile, she never deeply connected with her family, leaving a hole in her as far as familial bonding goes. The first person she could connect with so deeply was this guy. So it is obviously going to be difficult for her to let go of the first genuine bond she's made in her life.
classic case of an insecure avoidant type pairing with an insecure resistant type
I think he's acting like his mom in this case, I don't know why, and she's trying to keep inside her feelings for him, it's probably like the top comment here, he doesn't like her that much and so doesn't want to get in a relationship with someone he doesn't feel in love
See chanakya ,a great ancient Indian scholar told ..."to make a good society....u must remove the immoral and bad habits of the women of that society first.... otherwise the entire society degenerates "....I read it somewhere in the shrimad bhagvat Gita as it is by prabhupada....I think now how intelligent our scholars were....
He's avoidant she's anxious attachment. Those types attract and repel each other after connecting
Dammm she is in love with him. The way she said " close friends, very close friends". Her facial expressions were screaming out loud that I STILL LOVE HIM. I wish someone can look at me like she was looking at him.
Bhaii bahar chale jaa...wha bandiya pat jaegi...chinta mat kar
Who cares? She's my woman now!
@Heiwajima Shizuo She will be mine one day.
@Heiwajima Shizuo too bad because I like asian women
@@arterisdewberry9467 why do white men like asian women so much?
it is funny that almost none of the Indian chicks in the comment section find the guy good looking.. (i see one desi chick who commented that he is ugly..) . They seem to be noticing other things (like "I feel bad for the gurl".."the girl is pretty".."still in love"..etc etc..") .. But chicks from other ethnicities seem to think he is fine AF . I have seen sooo many brown chicks going gaga over an average looking latino/Arab/White dude ! Grass is always greener on the other side...lol
Hey I really find him good looking tho
He's better looking from afar.
karsh aps you r right ... I’m desi but I’m only into write Arab hotties ... kinda bored with desi guys tbh
Maybe because he is normal to them? They see desi dudes daily so what does this guy have that sets him apart from the rest of desi guys for them to ‘have to’ comment something? You’re looking into it too deeply, I’ve not seen what you have seen in the comments and tbh this is a stupid argument I don’t know why I’m entertaining it.
nik141991 i don’t know where you got that from. I’m sorry but Indians in the west are not the same as Indians in India. In the West they teach us about gender equality and how you should and should not be treated. Do you even blame them for not wanting to marry into a culture that might suffocate them?
She’s so beautiful. Them cheekbones and dimples. Oh my heart 😍
What cheekbones 😂 she has a flat face
@@HAlimabushra123 she's cute.
ペラテルエレン she looks like every other chinese girl to me
Halima B hater you jealous of her
@@HAlimabushra123 Where are you from? You can't be Indian.. This from what I've seen South Asian, middle East women like to put down other women the most.. And it's funny you think having east Asian features is ugly?!! Racist much... idk this girl but I can bet she's 10 times less vain and not superficial like you
i thought my life was complicated but damn son, these 2 take it to another level.
probably his indian parents won't agree with this.. why else would he pass on such a good thing
Banks93 nah. he's American. so, technically it shouldn't be a problem. But damn, I bet he's cheating cuz that girl fine as hell.
Banks93 😂😂😂lol
MegaPrime Gamer so why would he cheat if she’s fine as hell...
his indian parents and relatives wont accept it
They spoke mostly in the past tense, so I figured their relationship had been over for a while. The fact that they were so comfortable in each others' personal space told me they were most likely in love at one point. The video is bittersweet. It shows how the end of something can make you grow as a person. A breakup does not need to be ugly. I love that they still respect and care for one another.
He was never in love with her. He was just infatuated to her and overtime the infatuation was gone. Meanwhile you can tell she really loves him after all this time. It's my biggest fear, to love someone who will never love me the way I will. Also I think it's good they separated. I hope he finds someone in his live who he will really love and I hope she finds someone who will love her as much as she does.
how did you know they separated
She's married 😂
The eyes Chico, they never lie
.....where did I hear this? oh God this will bother me.
M Hatter scarface
HAHA ur a legend for this comment, thought the exact same thing.
Noah Williams What did she mean by pushing buttons btw
rajesh raj Bhai it's called joking and acting like a normal male person .So tell me if I tell that she's ugly would you be happy.Reality is that because of guys like u everybody feels ashamed; hindering everybody's freedom of speech.I did not say anything that offensive.You can interpret it in anyway u want.I was just complementing her from a different point of view.P.S. If I say that in America they would really consider it as saying something positive about them
An Indian guy does not realize he is from Asia too...calling her an Asian girl hahah
He was saying indian girls too. Girls basically are not that good at driving. Fact
@@CherieShrimpzzz So, him being sexist means he should die? Or following your logic never have been born? Now that makes you an even bigger "douchebag". Yeah some people are racist, sexist, biased somehow or something, not saying it´s a good thing, but should they die because fo that?? I highly doubt it. Seems muricans nowadays get offenden by everything and anything..
@Shivan Anirudhra & Emperor Spriggan It doesn´t matter what Amercans think of when hearing or saying Asia. Asia is Asia and India is a part of it.. If most muricans think of something in particular that's their problem and certainly a topic that would need to be addressed at schools or, well somewhere..Being uneducated or foolish doesn´t justify altering stuff to fit your own world view..
Most western people... Really, how do you know that? Have you asked most western people what they think of when talking about Asia? At least where i come from people know pretty well that India is a part of Asia.
@@sasidharvivek5817 says who 'a sexiest moron ' .
Sasidhar Vivek that's what wrong with this world when you put someone down based on their gender. Make sure you let your views known to the girl you gonna date or marry..
I am an Indian and I absolutely find the guy Handsome.. They should have been a couple
Najee Sha I think he’s just worried about it changing into the relationship that his parents have
I am dating an Indian guy here I. The Philippines. He is hard to figure out. Maybe he is in an arranged marriage
@@Ricarica981 u r dating a married guy?
@@Ricarica981 wait you are dating a married guy
@@borgir8889 I think she wanted to say that her bf is "into" arranged marriage.
You just can't tell if the girl still loves him... He not so much! Kinda makes me sad😢
So interesting! Some people have been saying the opposite, that he's more in love than she is. Was there body language or an interaction that made you think that?
Soul pancake I'm not sure, probably because he seems more careful with his words, not putting all out... On the other hand She is more vocal, looks more comfortable and when she looks at him she smiles, he just avoided making eye contact, he was focused on the camera!
Maybe is just me!
that could just be their natural body language i'm not sure
I totally agree with you, in the end her smile was kinda unnatural, it was sad, while his face was indifferent
Kira yes the way she looked at him was filled with affection or maybe the friendly way you see someone and when he said we're not in love but I'm in love even through other things he was holding himself ... I mean I don't have exact words to put here of what I actually felt while watching the video but ...
I think the hardest part of losing someone, isn't having to say "goodbye", but rather learning to live without them. Always trying to fill the void, the emptiness that's left inside your heart when they go.
RyZe JuJu u definitely nailed it!
RyZe JuJu well said. Moving on can be really tough. Knowing that person is no longer the first person you tell whenever something happens.
@RyZe JuJu
I'm going through it right now and it hurts like hell, I miss her so much. It's essentially dealing with death because there now dead to you and you will never speak to them again.
solidn6
how you keeping up bruv?
@folatomi akeju
I'm doing much better now. Being away from her has made me realize she was very toxic, manipulative & controlling. She reached out to me a few times was stupid excuses to belittle me, and make me feel bad. I'm seeing a new side to her and slowly falling out of love with her. I know I can do better than her.
Hard to find girls who love you as much as this girl loves him
Dude why ? She's amazing ! Most men would kill to be with a woman so in love. You can tell the entire story just by observing how she looks at him. Those eyes have a lot of love but hurt as well.
He seems to be a arrange marriage guy. Mummy nahi mani sayad. Isliye most girls are not comfortable of dating an Indian guy, no commitment from the guys side.
@@goofygoofy6098 shut up
@@goofygoofy6098 you are confusing yourself with Pakistani and Chinese guys...
@@goofygoofy6098 not every ones a simp, no ones that desperate, maybe he doesnt like her.
Yeah
poor girl...... i really feel her love even in her stares
Chandini Mohan yes
Same here
PietreADI that's just not right man
lol yea true
me too
Man it's SOOOOO refreshing to see a unique mix of people like that! No matter how we look like or where you are from we #weareone
She's definitely not okay with 'only friend'
you could tell by the look of his face instantly
justine mckinzey skme people are just very vary of the camera.. i cud talk for hours.. but put me i front of camera.. ill talk like i have a gun pointed at myself..
sheetal jain good point, but he just looked a lil bummed out
I'm the same way. I think it's an Indian thing. We're just awkward and shy.
50 years from now, they'll meet each other and admit if it wasn't as complicated as what they made it out. You only live once, don't keep your feelings to yourself.
That sighing at the end...she's still hoping...
From the second they sat down together, I felt like they were, "Oh boy, here we go". Then when they talked about being together through their twenties and how you "learn so much about yourself," I figured they learned that they were not right for each other. Even with their friendship, I feel they are just hanging on out of history for each other. Once either of them meets someone else, I feel they will move on and apart from each other.
Wow, really interesting perspective!
Denise Moyer or maybe once they meet someone else , they'll realise that they were more comfortable when they were together as a couple ,but then u never know !
Denise Moyer: why did they sat closer to each other in the middle of the vid when they started to have fun...?
LionessProwess: I think it's just the history thing. When you start talking about all the fun you had together and your face-to-face with a person you had deep feelings for (they were together 5 years), I think you temporarily (at least) put any difficulties aside. The did have and on again off again relationship.
Rob: Sweet! Thank you.
Nobody gonna talk about how fine the guy is?.
Coz he's NOT! lol
@@arjunnair6023 pervert spotted😂😂
@@iitnakanpur.. do you even know meaning of pervert?
@@arjunnair6023 he is handsome
Average looking
The hottest love has the coldest end.
RyZe JuJu ...wow, you just said the most amazing comment. . I was at that situation, it ended exactly like that... hmmmm love! :-(
PietreADI hahahahahahaha
PietreADI, the pakistani dude with the name Farzad is a india hating bigot who's spamming the whole comment section.
www.nationmaster.com/country-info/stats/Crime/Rape-rate
India is 94th in rank in this international report on rapes per capita so shut your hole Farzad
Thats not true, dont say that. It just didnt work out.
Lol drake
It's so obvious he is NOT in love, but she is totally still in love. She f***ed up by pursuing him. He wasn't clueless, he just didn't like her. His love for her is solely because she loves him, not because he feels it. If someone really loves you but you don't return the same feelings you feel bad because they are a good person that loves you. So you feel you owe them something. You don't. She needs to move on. He won't love her the way she loves him ever.
Malini very correctly said
Malini so true
Malini I hate how he straight up says he wasn't into her at girst, in so many words and she just dismisses it...:/ehehe
well, here I got the expert advice...........thank you...........
Malini most women want what they can't have
Speaking from experience, I'd say that most of us from Africa and Asia have this unique challenge about marrying someone from outside our race and tribe. The problem with it is that we sometimes end up with people who are nowhere near making us as happy as the 'outsider'. It is really sad. Rohan will probably marry an Indian girl in the end to please his parents - but there is no doubt in my mind that Aria loves him very much. And would have made a great life partner for him.
I wonder how their future will be. I have seen the same situation to two Indian/Chinese couples, when we were all in our 20s. That was 40 years ago
Best comment , I totally agree with you 🙏💜 , what you said is really correct
You are wrong. Many Indian men end up marrying Chinese and Japanese women. Lately Korean as well. If you travel to East Asia you will find many mixed race couples with Indian grooms. That’s because Indian men are open minded and Asian cultures share many similar values.
Indian men with Chinese women is the most common mixed race couple in Hong Kong and Singapore etc.
@@klppdc You win!
I agree
What he says at the end about falling in and out of love kinda upsets me. Love is much more then just a feeling. At the end of the day love is a choice. You can tell they do care about each other, but they didn't choose to make that commitment to each other. So many people go into relationships with the mindset of what they can get out of it for themselves, not with the thought that relationships are to help each other grow as people and to be each other's rocks through life. And with that comes up and downs, but that doesn't mean we should just give up when it's hard to love that person.
Well love is different for everyone. When people fall in love, how they fall in love, when they know they fall in love, and how they know the fell in love and the same with feeling love. It's all different for everyone. Everyone also has their opinions on how they want to be loved and how they want their partners to act.
Lily Evangeline I can understand what he is saying though. love is technically just a chemical reaction in your brain.. attachment is a bond that lasts much longer but "love" as a feeling wears off after a few years at most.
Alice Marie that's not really "love" tho it's attraction
Lily Evangeline ok but attraction is what makes you "in love" with a person rather than just love
Lily Evangeline agree. thanl you for clear it that up. I'm 22 in 3 days and ive never been in a relationship so it's hard to understand what a romantic kind of love is. therefore his viewpoint was really confusing me. But tjam you for explaining it. I agree with you 100%
He looks like an Indian version of John Mayer.. Lol.
IraqUpBeaches hahahha you are right on
Yes!!!!!
Now I can't unsee this hahahhahahahhah
But different race
Oh my god can’t unsee
The guy came straight out of some anime/manga.
Chad from bleach
@@gautamshivam530 don't disrespect lol.
Man's Kishibe Rohan From jojo
she more than loves him. he's afraid of commitment. the one pulling them both back from a deeper relationship is him. here's the thing, you gotta love your significant other every single day for the rest of your life. it's work in progress.
I guessed no. I could tell by their body language. and eye contact. I could tell the care deeply about one another, but not in a forever kind love.
Samantha Campbell - Ur comment is interesting...bt how U define ' forever kind of love ' ?
What is the forever kind of way body language and eye contact should look?
Bull! Indians grow into love!
He's marriage is probably already arranged anyway 😏
Do you know about 'Leftover Women' in China? Obviously China considers women who are not married beyond 30 as something as Incapable of producing a Child. Can't Blame China they were trying to reduce Population.The same American Feminists kill you for being different.You don't matter. Might and Power maters not being Politically Incorrect as you do.
You know in their culture, they do not make eye contact much. And I gotta be honest with you shes got big ass chin.
The guy looks more in love with the girl, look at their body languages. But there seems to be inner work need to be done with both of them. They seemed really kind and caring towards each other But communication blocks need unlocking .This relationship can survive go very long. If only they get done to the psychological and emotional issues.
The guy doesn't seem to be in love at all. Why are so many people just imposing forceful love on the guy side. When it is clear he is not in love at all.
He is god of friendzone...
Ram lol yeah. I would never want that kinda man
Introverted lass to be friends with?
U meant to say he is your god right ?
@@introvertedlass6355 don't worry
. You never will
He is God of sakt launda
They looked so disappointed when they said they were close friends.. as if they wanted more.. sad 😢
I feel though ✌🏻
The guys face: I think I better go back to studying now
@@charmander777 😂😁
He is So Confused that Whether he Should Do Love marriage or Arranged Marriage 😂😂
😂
Lmao
😂😂😂lol
😂😂😂😂😂...right!!
Kyun bhai sbhi jagah launde hi commitment dikhaye kya laundiyon ka firj nhi bnta kya.tumhare jaise
strawberry vale laundon ko barbad kr rhe.
they are in love, but they want diffrent things from love, they have different goals actually.
thats keeping them away from accepting their love for each other.
its not they want different things the indian dude is no longer attracted to her
Sad 😭.She is in love still, he is not and never been, but tried. Sad
Indian guys marry the girls their parents pick for them.He used her.
So do chinese. It's an Asian thing.
May be they love each other cause of difference then the same reason cause their break up. But generalising and stereotyping is something only stupidds or assholes do. U know what i mean right
@@bubujooestes1499 Not 100% true. Love marriage are normal too in Indian community.
Go for it bro... She really love u man
What I feel is she's always and still is into him.. very much. But he isn't. Either he doesn't know what he wants or just not that into her in that way. Idk that's how I see it.
What I learned from these videos is that communication is key. Don't sit around for years without defining your relationship. Have an honest conversation.
So apparently.. India & China Got Together In US.. So Ironical if you think Politically 😂😂
vivek sharma a socialist Country boy , a Communist country girl in a Capitalist country .
bahaha I thought China hated India and had land disputes?
@@AA-rv3yc we are not socialist we believe in mixed economy
Prajwal Jadhav we are Still socialist country according to the Constitution though we have practically mixed economy of socialism and capitalism.
lol you are funny
the girl is crying inside
yepp
Yes, and should cut the relationship off!(before she is badly hurt) The boy knows how attractive he is and is waiting for his mum to get a proposal!
so true but the guy does not see it, he does not see the writing on the wall. may be there are more important things in life than love but are there i ask ?
@@patriciaselwyn799 Don't stereotype Indian guys. All Indian guys don't wait for their family to bring the proposal. And he grew up in the USA so i dont think he'll go for that arranged crap.
@@patriciaselwyn799 what the hell with the stereotyping? This arranged marriage thing is so passe` even in India
damn this guy is gorgeous
express451 white are jealous
Yes
@Shivan Anirudhra that is a misconception....
express451 you're a ugly triggered virgin kid
Natalia reply me lol
I need part two of this to see they are in love now! This broke my heart!
that " very close friend " is quite disturbing xD
He looks just like the Indian actor Arya. Which is pronounced basically like how her name is said lol
Sam S haha ikr
Sam S more like the anorexic version of him lol
EWW this guy looks better then the actor. Im indian, and idk that actor
exactly 😂😂
Kishan Sri well yeah, a young version of Arya obviously but their facial features are definitely very similar
He broke up due to Chinese aggression. He is a nationalist 🤣😂
Based
😂😂😂😂
anti ccp cop
Based😂😂
🎉❤😂
she's so pretty
for an asian
Sabh Restman Indian girls are also Asian ..
JUSTin 😂😂😂😂
Sabh Restman HAHAHAA says the insecure singaporean girl ? AWWW pats yourself on the shoulder
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, so what's attractive to you may not be attractive to others.
the woman loves the man way more than he loves her. i feel her .loving someone too much can be tough especially if the other doesnt love you back as much
Damn she was aggressive af to get him lol
She definitely wanted him to be her man.
5:03 crushed my heart. no words spoken, but his expression spoke volumes. in less than 5 minutes I had invested so many feelings into this couples relationship.
Omg what.. They're so cute tho!!
Melissa Zeng Word!
being a "cute couple" doesn't mean two people should be together.
Melissa Zeng u r cute!!
you could impress her more if you didn't say u r
he is not white...i thought asian women were obessessed with whtie men
I can't even show support to that girl because I was in a similar situation. I was in a long term relationship with a Taiwanese girl and I ended it because I was afraid of commitment. I wish I can time travel to correct my mistake.
That's why i don't go on relationship when i don't think i can comited
This is why desi guys are a huge red flag. You'll arrange marry some indian virgin and then mistreat her because the Taiwanese chick is the one you really wanted. I kinda hate brown men sometimes. If you love other races, MARRY THEM. Dont ruin the lives of unfortunate girls in the arrange marriage market.
This happens when their is no Doklam stand-off.
sou chak
he still boycott her 😂😂
sou chak rofl
Awsm man😂😂😂
Dam man
just spilled water off my mouth after reading this comment ....rofl
It looks like he was always unsure and he didn't actually LOVE her, but he felt pressured to love someone? IDK it just looks that way to me, maybe he WAS in love but his body language and the way he talks about the past is just unfavourable.
he is just the kind of guy who takes things in life too seriously ..he wants to be in love with her yet not so sure about if he is certain ..it would be better if the part off..
Point blank... if you have to keep making the moves on a guy and he keeps having to study, he is just not that into you. If you have been dating for a while and he can't get himself to tell you he loves you, he is just not that into you. It is easy to see this when you are a third party but it is hard to see when you are in the girl's place. Been there and I totally get it. I hope they both can find happiness and love soon.
beyondallcontrol: based on your line of logic, my boyfriend is not into me either.
He is soo good looking
Wtf?? Indians don’t usually get attention, what’s going on??
@@ruggsparch2787 well looks like the tables are turning now
@@teenypi6960 im indian i can say he is basic
@@frankocean6676 and there are guys like me 😎
@@teenypi6960 wow r u indian?
can you see the sadness in her eyes when she says "we are very close friends"? i do. she is obviously still in love
In twenty years (or less) both will regret not staying together.
He's super attractive, and so is she! But beyond superficiality, I'm sorry they're not together anymore. I hope they can figure out whether they love each other and want to be together or, if not, find someone who they are in love with. But from what I see in this video they make a great couple...
i don't why people makes things so complicated, they always thinks they will find a better person than the person they already have in their life. Its human nature-in every relationship we tend to feel to good in the beginning but in the end we loss interest, so don't fall prey to your emotions, make yourself aware of things that is happening around you and enjoy life
puchu kumar most realistic comment in this feed
puchu kumar You are soo Right!!! Spot on👏👏
Well said
Women can shift from one relationship to another within a small time period men on the other hand have difficulties overcoming a breakup ,
Maybe Rohan didn't want his heart to be broken and so he maintains a distance.
I read somewhere that it's opposite, like in an article or something maybe
Women can move on at a drop of a hat.
absolutely correct
@@subhadramahanta452 If that is the siutation ...many arranged marriages wont happen in Indian subcontinent at least ...leave about others
@@subhadramahanta452 can you share that article link
Middle of the video and if this couple ain't in love . . . . Urg
Sheila Lucanas the question is who do you love
the way none of their faces brightened up at the word "I love you" made me guess something was off
2:45 - she actually said I love you. Man you should marry her !
@Anonymouse and it’s a crime to reply to a 5yr old video? Or there are restrictions that we can’t comment on an old video?
well, if he's not in love he'd be doing her a disservice that way
Guessed it right because from the very start when they walked in they seemed distant, him especially. It simply looked like they are no longer together. During the video I wasn't that sure, but then again at the end I still went with not in love
That couple was beyond attractive
Comment section needs to grow up, guy is handsome and has options
Love this. Choking back in tears, great story. Thanks for sharing.
Yeah ...he's really pissed becuz of doklam :-)
Omfg I burst out laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
😂
Lmao
@Tsering Chosphel After galwan they're on a break ...
He is a arrange marriage guy...his mum gonna decide dont worry guys
@@wickramasinghenishshanka137 just what I thought.
Omg this made my day 😂
A number of hindu ppl marry outside thr religion but cant say that for sikh ppl! They are communists and dont marry outside thr faith! That's sick!
lol
Exactly!!! Mum knows best hahahaha
Rohan has the most beautiful skin
bruh big log appreciate rather than bringing random ppl in here
dont let the white boys catch you saying that
Skin? Wtf you talking about? No. Rohan has the most beautiful horses.
Story of my life.
Chasing the wrong dudes all the time?
Tiger74147 lol
PRINCESSJOULES LoL omg sry
STFU!
Only simps defends the fake
I actually thought they were in love just because the way she looks at him, like she might still be in love with him. He being so static and kind of uncomfortable with the whole thing made me realize they were not together anymore
5:50
No...i don't think...that.... it's because he is a reserved guy...shy guy .. whatever you wonna....call that
@@priyalpatel4250 Nah, he is done no need to force it on him. As of the chick she might have moved on, but think she still hopes that he would come around.
Bro looks like a brown Ashton Kutcher
Robert Oppenheimer you are everywhere
Robert Oppenheimer you really don't have a life?
is this Robert Oppenheimer dude a jealous Pakistani
#popchips
Ashton’s brown poop
I like her voice :-)
dblanco77
Me too
Me too, its really nice
P R 1. She’s from china 2. Her voice isnt that deep xD
I thought the same thing!
You got some issues legionary
They both love each other so much.I know there is time when even if you love someone and want someone back you can't express it.Hope they overcome it and have a happy life.they will be happy together
He’s so handsome:))
The girl finally falls in love but the guy doesnt seem commited
Love is blind. Be it Chinese or India or any part of the world I find hundreds of inter racial couples be it Indian girl or Indian boy married to different races in utube. These marriages don't often breakup due some reason or other.
There are hardly any videos of Indian women married to non Indian men on youtube.
@@mangopudding5979 south korean man and chinese man youtube channels
the way she looks at him. come on blind will see she loves him.
I kept thinking no, they're not in love.. the look on their faces guys.. that's why it's stupid to trust your heart 😆
the best kind of couples in this world, congrats
It's a shame. Their kids would've been gorgeous.
I feel she would still be open to a relationship with him. They both seem like lovely people.
The only reason they're together is because of her. He's so indifferent and passive... it drives me insane when guys are like that.
What's wrong with that? Love is unpredictable. He should've let her know that he isn't interested. Would've saved each other time.
He acts the way the anime characters act. Wait, is that Sasuke? Lol.
That's how it should be. If the man shows too much eagerness the girl will naturally be repulsed. The woman must always be more infatuated with the man
Its not his mistake tho he wants to live single life i think
Don't critique and pass judgement over one video, would you want somebody to do the same to you? or have they ?
The guy is absolutely handsome. beautiful like a greek god supposedly. but its the heart that matters in the end.
where are you from?
@@Deira854 India
Omg NO they are in love! The way they look at each other, the way they were playing and laughing ith each other... Even the way they said it at the end you could feel very well that they are sad about this and they want each other back! And I think just the fact that they collaborated to make this video and were interested enough to sit with each other and talk it out shows that they still have feelings for each other. I really do think there is hope!
And then they fought over Doklam , Aksai Chin, Laddakh and Arunachal 😁
Lol
lmao :D :D :D
these sort of comments have to be there, to feel the completeness
To say the truth, China's communist so maybe it wouldn't be good to blame the citizens of China.
Human Being no one's blaming. It's just a joke.
And you were happy to see it comming.
the border tensions got to him, he is a true nationalist
jai shree ram bhai
😂Ram Ram bhai
they would make beautiful babies
lovegorgeoushair like a bit yellow and dark
wtf hahaha
Yellow and brown !!.....hmm... Orange.....
Like light brown xD
Chindian
DUDE, let her GO. Space out the hanging out, go out and meet women or something. You KNOW you will NEVER give her what she wants, and she is not in a place to be able to see it (Mindy Kaling and BJ Novak, anyone´´). If you are not feeling her, dont drag this out any longer. She is WAITING for you. Put her out of her misery, because in the end this is NOT good for either one of you two.
You contradict yourself or you might have not finished the show yet, so I won't go into detail.
lol i dont blame bj, mindy is so ugly
deep patel coz of her skin colour right gujarati chutiye.
@@saywhat5034 not just her skin colour.. she is legit ugly by North Indian standards