誓不會讓兒子經歷我的童年!? 在英國寄宿學校長大的苦與淚…父母當年為什麼要送走我? Sent Away at 14 - The Dark Side of UK Boarding School…
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- Опубліковано 9 гру 2023
- 歡迎回來Reynolds Family的頻道☺️
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好奇一下，在看影片的家長朋友們有多少人曾經想過把你們小孩送到寄宿學校？有些可能已經送了？也有些可能你是自己去的？👩🎓👨🎓
How many of you have thought about sending your children abroad for school? Maybe you have already? Maybe you went yourselves? 👩🎓👨🎓
聖誕🎅🏻🎄經常讓我們與家人感受特別親近，且是一個讓我們展望未來的節日，而小孩的教育也是其中一個不可缺少的話題。
Christmas 🎅🏻🎄 time always gets us feeling especially close as a family but it also gets us looking to the future. And the question of education is always in conversation.
到底我們真的想把兒子們送到寄宿學校嗎？🫣
Would we really want to send our boys away to Boarding School??? 🫣
這條Q&A影片將會深入探討這個主題，我也會回到過去，重新憶起當時我在英國寄宿女學校生活的個人經歷🏫🇬🇧
This Q&A dives into this topic and takes a trip down memory lane as I answer your questions all about my personal experiences of attending an all girls Boarding School in the UK. 🏫🇬🇧
我仍然記得在13歲那年，父母告訴我將會被送到國外讀書的一刻，當時心中面對着很多未知之數，心情百感交集🥺
I still remember being told that I’d be sent abroad as a young teenager to study. There were a lot of feelings and a lot of uncertainties… 🥺
「新的國家是怎樣的？」、「我的語言能力足夠流利了嗎？」、「我夠聰明嗎？」、「會交到朋友嗎？」、「我會有多想家？」😢
What would this new country be like? Did I speak the language well enough? Was I smart enough? Would I be able to make friends? How much would I miss home? 😢
「到底我自己想去嗎？」😞
Did I even want to go at all? 😞
當我一到達，很快便發現原來英國寄宿學校並不是像哈利波特世界般的🪄✨
Once I was there, I soon found out that UK boarding wasn’t at all like the picture painted in the Harry Potter world 🪄✨
但還是有精彩好玩的事情！快點按這條影片來看看英國寄宿學校的生活及背後真相吧🥰
But it’s not all bad! Jump into this video now to find out the full picture and the TRUE reality of UK Boarding School! 🥰
請記得讚好，留言和訂閱，讓我們知道你對這影片主題的想法，感受和經驗！下次再見🫶🏻
And please remember to LIKE, COMMENT and SUBSCRIBE to let us know all your thoughts, feelings and experiences on this topic. See you next time! 🫶
大家好，我喺Gladys 嘅媽咪。我都分享吓英國寄宿學校的多面體。Gladys 嘅哥哥讀男校，我感覺哥哥嘅學校非常嚴格。學生的生活作息，讀書考試，課外活動都非常有系統。哥哥入學後一星期內巳完全適應寄宿生活，忙碌而又充實嘅生活中根本冇時間掛住屋企😂👍🏼
我都係year 9去英國寄宿學校讀書，我超級感激我屋企人送我去英國寄宿，實在改變我一生！未去英國之前，我喺香港讀書極度挫敗，感到一無是處，同屋企人當時嘅關係唔好，返學簡直令我想死（當時真係有自殺念頭）。去咗英國之後，啲老師好encouraging 學校比好多機會我，喺嗰度建立咗自信心，由香港最bottom 嘅學生，過到去變咗最top。因為多咗成功感建立返自信，同埋嗰度嘅教學模式好活潑，令我好努力咁讀書，最後gcse 有5A* 4A 考返入HKU. 寄宿嘅生活好開心，啲英國同學全部都好nice, 對亞洲人好好奇，成日邀請我去佢哋屋企sleep over. 我亦都遇到好好嘅guardian, 到而家過咗20年我哋都保持聯絡，好似屋企人咁。係teenage years 係好critical 嘅period 塑造一個人嘅性格同價值觀，我非常感恩我爸爸媽媽當年嘅決定，令我成為今日嘅我❤️
香港教育好多都都係只關心成績好嘅學生，我同我細佬係香港都係讀Band 1學校，佢仲要名校，因為其實有啲靠關係入，所以都係成績最尾嗰班，其實真係好辛苦個人都容易燥啲，之後都去咗外國我去英國佢唔係去咗其他國家，但大家都開心咗好多，外國雖然都有小部份係會睇成績既老師，但大部份都係公平對待你⋯我仲有個家姐佢就本身已經成績好好所以可能咁佢去外國就反而分別不大係話，不過一開始提議去外國讀書係我家姐，但因為我成績最差所以送我去先睇下點😂所以屋企如果有能力喺香港大壓力其實去外國讀書真係好需要，因為香港教育灌輸你要成績好先可以有出路，所以根本唔太容納我哋呢班成績麻麻嘅學生
Love Finley's ending. He's so cute. Guess he's like Gladys would not mind going to boarding school and Noah is more like Laurence 😊
我的印象是在寄宿學校長大的學生一般比較獨立，自己解決問題的能力較強。至於與父母的感情和關係，在於每個學生和每個家庭，可能都有很大分別，不過對於這個問題，每個家長都值得留意。
我覺你同你既仔(如果而家)既分別係...你入寄宿學校嗰陣係踏入青春期, 開始想識多d出面既朋友, 但仔仔而家重未, 所以唔會想去,
我細個都會諗大個點樣面對離開父母獨自生活，亦都好佩服要離開屋企人獨自生活嘅父母，不過我依家都住宿舍，覺得一切都比想像中好，只要珍惜同屋企人相處嘅時間都算係幾滿足
哥哥反應本身都令我眼濕濕，轉細佬嘅對答，搞笑
I can totally relate to this video! Except growing up in boarding school was so hard! Kinda lost my identity coz I am not too Asian to be British and too British in HK. However, the cultural dynamics definately broaden my horizon and I learned to be so idenpendent and quick to adapt in new environments. Although I still feel like an outsider even with my own family due to growing up without them, I am still so grateful to my mum for sending me off to boarding school in UK.
學校都好重要，我以前係英國寄宿學校比較偏遠嘅地區插班讀中一我嗰間啲本地同學對外國生好好，特別我個班我去之前已經有個香港學生所以可能同班同學就有晒有經驗⋯不過過幾年去咗倫敦d本地生唔太理你，但有個應該係華僑就比較容易融合，所以我估口音本地人對你嘅感覺真係有分別
好幸福的家庭👍👍😄😄😄😄
壹家人都係女王的子民，會開心的生活，加油！💗💗💗
Having watched so many UA-camrs doing their vlogs / videos, i was so captivated by urs. So different from d rest. Way to go
I am with Laurence. Kids grow up so quickly and you don't want to miss their childhood. That precious time will never come back. You will have your empty nest time at the end of the day so why hurry?
一個青少年的成長，朋輩的影響至為重要。對於寄宿學校的學生，朋輩的影響會比其他青少年大，父母也較難察覺到兒女在成長路上所遇到的困難，害怕兒女交了朋友，培養了壞習慣，又或被欺凌。不過如果幸運的話，遇上一個盡責任有能力的housemaster, 對宿生有好的觀察和輔導，父母可能就比較放心。
雖然我沒去喎寄宿學校但我想講吓我以前係香港時候，成績係唔好以後我爸媽搬咗去英國讀書，我在聾人學校（我係天生聾人）以後呢我入Secondary school（專門收聾人）我Y7 但係呢我數學真聰明到連Y11-Y8完全唔識😅所以呢我成為全校數學最聰明嘅人😅😅
加油呵！你能夠結婚生仔,好好！希望你老咗後可以繼續有呢個堅持！love you all!
I related to this so much! I was born and raised in Hong Kong but moved to the States when i was 18 for undergrad and grad school lol
真係祇有媽媽先聽到個仔噏乜野，唔打字幕完全唔知Finly 噏乜😂😂😂😂
Reynold’s Family 🇬🇧Christmas Time is the time Thank yiou God for your salvation. 😇