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  • @davidpescod7573
    @davidpescod7573 6 місяців тому +313

    The Queen Mother did not quietly go following the death of King George VI. She was ruthless in getting her own way. Definitely the iron fist in a velvet glove

    • @catherinegriessel56
      @catherinegriessel56 6 місяців тому +14

      Good for her

    • @talmadge1926
      @talmadge1926 6 місяців тому +26

      She referred to Clarence House as "a horrid little house". As Prince Philip had been largely responsible for the re-furbishment and redecoration during his and Princess Elizabeths tenancy, this can hardly have improved the strained relation between he and his mother-in-law.

    • @janetsides901
      @janetsides901 6 місяців тому +29

      She was supposed to move out when Elizabeth became Queen. Phillip made her leave. She still thought she was THE queen.

    • @deanvrabl
      @deanvrabl 6 місяців тому +8

      You're so.right !!! She was a lion, not just a horoscope sign, but also as a person

    • @brendaford4920
      @brendaford4920 6 місяців тому +11

      @@talmadge1926 yes I remember that Philip and Elizabeth were sad to leave Clarence House and they’d spent a lot of money refurbishing it. The Queen Mother probably disliked it less than she made out.

  • @kellydiver
    @kellydiver 6 місяців тому +50

    It sounds to me like he had a remarkable life, doing exactly what brought him joy. I’m sure he knew what benefits he would have (or not have) when time came for him to be retired. He didn’t die on the street - he died in his apartment. I’m sure he also knew that he was alcohol dependent and could do something about that, but chose not to. I don’t know why people seem to think he was mistreated - on the contrary, he was treated very well by the royal family for over a half century.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +17

      @kellydiver He had a civil list pension from the late Queen and the then Prince of Wales paid him £60,000 in 2003, to write a private memoir of his time with Queen Elizabeth. Of course he also had his state pension. He wasn't exactly starving under a hedge.

    • @joannanangle4876
      @joannanangle4876 5 місяців тому +3

      Correct

    • @joannanangle4876
      @joannanangle4876 5 місяців тому +1

      Correct

    • @joannanangle4876
      @joannanangle4876 3 місяці тому +2

      Hear hear correct

  • @christinadiaz4349
    @christinadiaz4349 5 місяців тому +53

    Everyone saying she should have made provisions for him. He was paid very well and even given free housing for nearly 30 years. You tell me what job would give you that? He was very well capable of making provisions for himself. More so than the most of us that’s for sure.

  • @Rosiedelaroux
    @Rosiedelaroux 6 місяців тому +121

    I always think the NOEL COWARD quote is the best. “ Elizabeth Bowles Lyon- was an incredible snob , intellectually slow but had a nice smile “.

    • @melianna999
      @melianna999 6 місяців тому +19

      with crooked teeth.hehe

    • @OliverKitkat
      @OliverKitkat 6 місяців тому +15

      She was known too be a bully

    • @lucius4556
      @lucius4556 6 місяців тому +18

      Dawn French said in an interview once that she met the queen mother as a child, she scared her to death because of her black teeth which she was well known for.

    • @Jamietheroadrunner
      @Jamietheroadrunner 6 місяців тому +11

      lol! Thanks for that. People always think these people must be intelligent simply because of their station in life.

    • @geniawheddon7402
      @geniawheddon7402 6 місяців тому

      She was high born

  • @johnohara197
    @johnohara197 6 місяців тому +97

    Rita comes across as a lovely person and a great and loyal friend, to Billy!

    • @Hava744
      @Hava744 6 місяців тому +11

      Rita looks so young to be a friend , like a different generation. What’s her secret!

    • @johnohara197
      @johnohara197 6 місяців тому +11

      @@Hava744 Being a kind and decent Human Being.

  • @cynthiaalver
    @cynthiaalver 6 місяців тому +36

    Very interesting video. I enjoyed it more than I thought I would. Thank you.

  • @catherinegriessel56
    @catherinegriessel56 6 місяців тому +56

    He seemed to jog along quite nicely with parties, restaurants, dinner invites, very nice suits, shopping done for him and he had a nice roof over his head by the look of it, all us OAPs should be so lucky

    • @marthafoley8214
      @marthafoley8214 6 місяців тому +6

      Good point, he lived the life he always dreamed of as a child.

    • @j.dunlop8295
      @j.dunlop8295 6 місяців тому +1

      Obviously, the queen had lots of girlfriends!

  • @JWRogersPS
    @JWRogersPS 6 місяців тому +49

    I used to know someone who's mother once worked in one of the offices at BP. (I don't remember which one. I think she was a secretary.) She said that while the Royal Family were nice to staff, the senior palace officials were all insufferable snobs, and treated the rest of the staff with contempt. I'm not at all surprised they had it out for Billy - a poor boy made good.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +7

      The officials were snobbish but neither the Royal Family nor the Royal Household are snobbish because they don't need to be.
      By the way, secretaries at Buckingham Palace are called Lady Clerks.

    • @Barbara.Lerner.Spectre
      @Barbara.Lerner.Spectre 6 місяців тому +2

      I've heard different stories about the way the Royals treated the staff, notably Prince Andrew Princess Anne and Princess Margaret.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +7

      @@Barbara.Lerner.Spectre Andrew and Margaret were certainly demanding, and Princess Anne doesn't suffer fools, either gladly or at all, like her father. But in the Royal Family, they consider being rude to or bullying staff as beyond the pale.

    • @Barbara.Lerner.Spectre
      @Barbara.Lerner.Spectre 6 місяців тому +5

      @@michaelmontagu3979 From things I've read in the past, Prince Andrew in particular has been very rude and foul mouthed towards servants. I don't know why you would say it's beyond the pale. Do you know them personally?

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 6 місяців тому +1

      Had it out for Billy? He had it out for anyone who 'crossed' him. Very typical of his ilk when they start feeling like they can do whatever they want without consequences. He by no means 'made good.' He was a SERVANT who behaved as though he was royalty - to anyone who was 'beneath' him in the hierarchy at his job. I'd never - EVER - hire someone like him. I suppose the royals like obsequious brown-nosers who are ready to lick their sh-t and like it, but that type just behaves as badly to others below them. As the narrator said, Billy and the Queen Mother had a lot in common - and it was NOT their better qualities. The guy was a waste of human skin who was ruined by getting above himself because it allowed him to abuse his power. Thinking he was 'untouchable' and had total power all those years just proves what a deluded fool he was. He was being used precisely the way he used the others on the staff.

  • @damiencampbell8320
    @damiencampbell8320 24 дні тому +3

    Lady Colin Campbell said that she never saw the Queen Mother to be drunk but that she was never entirely sober either!

  • @lvbadboy
    @lvbadboy 5 місяців тому +23

    2 old queens with a real old queen LMFAO

  • @catherinegriessel56
    @catherinegriessel56 6 місяців тому +164

    Like all jobs nobody is indispensable, once youve served your purpose your gone and forgotten

    • @January.
      @January. 5 місяців тому +2

      catherine: *, you're gone and forgotten.

  • @newbeginnings2056
    @newbeginnings2056 6 місяців тому +16

    What a sad ending to a fascinating life for someone who started at the bottom and worked his way to the top. Even as a non-royal the press still haunted him all those years ago. Things haven't changed in some respects.

  • @MissPerriwinkle
    @MissPerriwinkle 6 місяців тому +92

    imagine the secrets he knew......

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 6 місяців тому

      It's not hard to imagine. A lot of people who never did a day's work or cared for anyone outside themselves getting drunk all day. Sickening people; waste of human skin. Problem is, William was exactly like them, passing the arrogance and entitlement of the royals down to the people who were under his power in the house. Small, petty, worthless wastes of human skin - upstairs and downstairs.

  • @sophiegeorge2816
    @sophiegeorge2816 6 місяців тому +93

    He didn’t die in a gutter he died in his ground floor flat in south London

    • @Querencia7779
      @Querencia7779 6 місяців тому +13

      Good old Billy did quite well for himself - making £500,000 from the royal memorabilia left to him.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +13

      @@sophiegeorge2816 A flat provided by the Duchy of Cornwall.

    • @splinterbyrd
      @splinterbyrd 6 місяців тому +6

      @@sophiegeorge2816 Agreed, but he does seem to have fallen apart somewhat after leaving.
      It's sad, because all he had to do is get himself to an AA meeting and sober up.
      Then, based on the principle that a man can't help himself unless he's helping other people, he could have got involved as a volunteer in charitable projects. They'd have loved him.

    • @loreensmith4864
      @loreensmith4864 5 місяців тому +5

      ​@@michaelmontagu3979 a flat and pension provided by Prince Charles from his duchy of Cornwall allowance.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 5 місяців тому +3

      @loreensmith4864 Ah yes, of course. Plus the civil list pension and £60000 from the then Prince of Wales, for writing his memories of Queen Elizabeth. I don't think he did too badly.

  • @debbiep4647
    @debbiep4647 6 місяців тому +17

    He was very handsome when he was young.

  • @2godless
    @2godless 6 місяців тому +52

    This should be a Netflix show or movie.

  • @arrowhead3993
    @arrowhead3993 6 місяців тому +126

    He should have been portrayed in The Crown series.

    • @pfranks75
      @pfranks75 6 місяців тому +5

      Too controversial a figure, he could have played it safer than Billy did.

    • @simongarthwaite7695
      @simongarthwaite7695 6 місяців тому +10

      The Queen Mother was glossed over in the Crown far too much I thought she was a huge part of the Queens life.

    • @theresamills5095
      @theresamills5095 5 місяців тому +3

      It sounds like back stairs Billy was a lush like hes boss.

  • @joannanangle4876
    @joannanangle4876 6 місяців тому +55

    Best advice don't expect anything from anybody except what you have achieved yourself through hard work you'll be much more proud of the rest of your life when you become retired you look back and think at least I worked hard hope this helps you young people out there

    • @loreensmith4864
      @loreensmith4864 5 місяців тому +8

      Never expect anything from anyone and you'll never be disappointed.

    • @e.e.harrison1357
      @e.e.harrison1357 4 місяці тому +2

      Always save in order to have a secure roof over your head.

  • @Jami-Frankie
    @Jami-Frankie 5 місяців тому +19

    I think Queen Elizabeth spending 2 hours visiting with him after her mother’s death, was her way of saying thank you.

    • @lynnhubbard844
      @lynnhubbard844 3 місяці тому +1

      she could have said it, too

    • @Monicareynosogaute
      @Monicareynosogaute 14 днів тому

      She figured he was To say thank you.. she may have known what had been going on..

    • @dianaroach3093
      @dianaroach3093 2 дні тому

      ​@lynnhubbard844 We don't know what was said.

  • @AnnaBellaChannel
    @AnnaBellaChannel 6 місяців тому +29

    Remember many of the 1920-1940 servants did not now their own homes and were 100% dependant on heir employers. Billy started at age 15 years so he was completely dependant on the royal family for his housing, heating, food, clothes & everything. The world has changed a lot between 1920-2000. The Windsors are not know for their ability to read emotions and are quite reserved people.

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 6 місяців тому

      Also dependent on them for providing him with endless booze, total power to sexually abuse and torment his co-workers and 'underlings,' a house for lavish parties, access to all kinds of powerful people who pumped up his ego and made him feel like the screaming queen he served. He got quite a high life for fifty years and was too stupid to set something aside for his old age. People like Billy are like cancer: they feed off the host body and seem to think it will go on forever, not realizing that when the host body dies, the cancer dies, too. He got what he set himself up for by being evil to his own class. Never betray your class. That's ONE way he did NOT imitate the Queen Mother and the one way he should have imitated her. All the high living and praise from people who enjoyed his parties is nothing. He will be remembered as an abuser and a piece of sh-t by the people who worked with and under him. You can judge a person's character and worth not by their sycophants, but by the way they exercise their authority over others. Funny how they couldn't find even ONE person who worked with him or under his authority who said that he was a good, fair, helpful or encouraging 'boss' to them. Only that if you were one of the Back-door Billy's 'favorites' (another gay who was willing to have sex with him or one of the insecure women who feel safer among gay men than straight men), you were safe, and if you were not to his taste sexually, you were 'out.'

  • @mariannevontrapp1063
    @mariannevontrapp1063 6 місяців тому +92

    The queen mother also left behind huge debts, running into the millions. The liquor bill was also huge LOL.

    • @redwoods7370
      @redwoods7370 6 місяців тому +14

      She loved her champagne.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +6

      The late Queen Elizabeth II made the decision to allow her mother to live as she wanted as her husband died so young. Payback was that Queen Elizabeth left almost her entire estate to her daughter.

    • @samanthab1923
      @samanthab1923 6 місяців тому

      @@michaelmontagu3979Didn’t the Queen Mum leave a lot to Charles?

    • @desstanbridge8283
      @desstanbridge8283 6 місяців тому +10

      Queen Mother left 9 million in dept which Queen Elizabeth paid off. The Queen Mother had an annual allowance of £1 million per year.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +6

      @@samanthab1923 No. She left money to his sons, in a trust set up some years before her death. She left them £19 million, which was 2/3 of her personal estate.

  • @franzppoonglbe2887
    @franzppoonglbe2887 6 місяців тому +117

    The Queen Mother should have made provisions for his future, but she was notorious for thinking primarily of only herself.

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 6 місяців тому

      Yeah, and he thought so hard about other people, like the other servants (apart from the ones he wanted to rape and the 'high society' he wanted to hobnob with, buying their company with the free liquor and hospitality provided by the Queen Mother, ultimately)? He thought only of his power, his connections, his privileged position, and nothing of the people he worked with - apart from his gay clique - and nothing about providing for his own future. He ended quite as he could have been expected to end: like a cancer dying when the host body dies.

    • @christinadiaz4349
      @christinadiaz4349 5 місяців тому +17

      Really? Because he would have been fired by anyone else. She promoted him to the highest position. Gave him free housing for nearly 30 years. He was paid very well.

    • @lisaquigley-moon9583
      @lisaquigley-moon9583 5 місяців тому +20

      Why didn’t he make provisions for himself to save money for himself?

    • @loreensmith4864
      @loreensmith4864 5 місяців тому +12

      Prince Charles provided accommodation and a pension for life.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 5 місяців тому +14

      @@lisaquigley-moon9583 Because he was arrogant and thought he should be provided for. But he was, rather well. A Duchy of Cornwall flat, pension from both the late Queen and the then Prince of Wales, who also gave him £60000 for writing his memories of Queen Elizabeth. He can't have done too badly to have left an estate worth more than £300000.

  • @Lila-BeamMeUpAlready
    @Lila-BeamMeUpAlready 6 місяців тому +63

    If only he’d left a memoir.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +5

      @@Lila-BeamMeUpAlready He did. He compiled one privately for the then Prince of Wales, who paid him £60000 in 2003

    • @loreensmith4864
      @loreensmith4864 5 місяців тому

      ​@@michaelmontagu3979like most memoirs it will be made public when all current people involved are dead. That's how history is made.

  • @1758pk
    @1758pk 7 днів тому +2

    A charmed life indeed but being called back door Willie must have been difficult

  • @dannybeun948
    @dannybeun948 6 місяців тому +21

    Gréât documentaire 👌

  • @Cityheart221
    @Cityheart221 5 місяців тому +9

    He reached his career goal, and more, by having a relationship with the Queen Mother or at least as much as she was capable of giving her employee. He was not ever told he was part of the family. He could not expect to live on royal grounds once his position was no longer required. He did have a pension and some other money opportunities. He too was cruel to those under him. His expectations disappointed him. After that lifestyle and exposure for over 50 years it would be a challenge to adapt to a new life no longer a royal connection. He turned to the bottle instead of realistically giving himself a chance at a new life.

  • @ים-סוף
    @ים-סוף 5 місяців тому +17

    He was an employee. That is all. Its called "professionalism."

  • @cherryrotella3714
    @cherryrotella3714 6 місяців тому +161

    The Queen Mother had plenty time to make provisions for him for when she was no longer here but didn’t 😕

    • @catherinegriessel56
      @catherinegriessel56 6 місяців тому +24

      He was a servant first and foremost, nothing more or less, once she was gone his services were no longer required, that simple

    • @catherinegriessel56
      @catherinegriessel56 6 місяців тому +18

      He was 70 plus and wasn't exactly living on skid row or going to food banks

    • @jacquelinearcher1158
      @jacquelinearcher1158 6 місяців тому +16

      She didn’t adopt him he was an employee..he was paid and had a pension…it was a job…what did he think he would do in retirement?

    • @angelwingz892
      @angelwingz892 6 місяців тому +20

      Queen Mother spent every penny she had and plenty of handouts from her daughter. She certainly would not have plans for her people, she was all about herself.

    • @ernagalvin4244
      @ernagalvin4244 6 місяців тому +13

      @@catherinegriessel56 Why is it so hard for staff to understand this? They insert themselves into the inner circles of the family and then have these delusions that they are owed something. It defies belief.

  • @MrJobo1212
    @MrJobo1212 6 місяців тому +22

    all people go through this at retirement and no doubt wake up in the early hours thinking thats it then were do i go from here same happened to me 22 years 6 o'clock starts giving 100%+++++ i don't believe he didn't know how to survive out in the real world he just got it done by others great docu ;)

  • @bonaom
    @bonaom 6 місяців тому +16

    He was a paid servant and didnt have to be a breadearner of the family. What had happened to all his monthly payments from work? It was his fault for not saving his payments of 50 yrs of work.

  • @dottieparker7274
    @dottieparker7274 6 місяців тому +43

    The queen had probably heard the dreadful stories about his treatment of underlings, and she was probably very relieved to get him the hell out of there.

  • @patconstantinou1846
    @patconstantinou1846 6 місяців тому +35

    According to a documentary I saw involving Billy's co-workers at Clarence House, he was a toady, a sneak and bully, together with his boyfriend. He knew how to flatter the Qieen Mother. I'm a Royalist but can recognise a vain and determined woman. As for leaving provision for Billy, she died, allegedly, leaving several million pounds in debt, dutifully paid off by HRH, the late Queen Elizabeth 11. Let's keep it real. Karma caught up with him. Like all bullies he went to pieces when his props were removed.

  • @annmacleod1099
    @annmacleod1099 6 місяців тому +53

    Why did billy not make plans for his own house before the Queen mother died then he would have had a place to live and would know how to look after himself

    • @margaretbarnes2032
      @margaretbarnes2032 6 місяців тому +7

      He probably didn’t think that far ahead - he may have imagined they would allow him to stay on in the gate house as a ‘grace and favour’ residence. It must have come as a real blow when he realised that they considered him as just another servant.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +7

      He had a Duchy of Cornwall flat with his partner, Reg, who also worked at Clarence House and who died before him..

    • @michelles2299
      @michelles2299 6 місяців тому +7

      They are usually allowed to have a home rent free after their long service they practically give up a life to serve the royal family plus wages are not that good even now they don't pay staff very well the RF are dreadful

  • @HonestlyYours516
    @HonestlyYours516 6 місяців тому +61

    It was very sad that there really was no provision made for "Backstairs Billy" when the Queen Mother died in 2002. He had devoted practically his entire life to service in the Royal household. It was also said that his lifetime partner had died. I'm not surprised that he passed away about five years later.😢

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +19

      @HonestlyYours516 No? She had given him gifts worth tens of thousands and he and his partner Reg were given a Duchy of Cornwall apartment in South London and Tallon received a civil list pension. Rather more than so many people have.

    • @TX1961
      @TX1961 6 місяців тому +10

      @@HonestlyYours516 In the book, the author states that Tallon wanted some specific provisions made by the Queen Mother for him. As the QM aged and getting frail, the prospects for Billy were getting dimmer. Throughout the years, he had made many enemies by those aware of his predatory ways . Tallon was pretty much evicted from Clarence House in the end. He also became a victim of the great plague of the 80s.

    • @Querencia7779
      @Querencia7779 6 місяців тому +6

      Good old Billy did quite well for himself - making £500,000 from the royal memorabilia left to him.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +4

      @@Querencia7779 And the then Prince of Wales paid him £60000 in 2003, for writing his memories of Queen Elizabeth.

    • @lynda4661
      @lynda4661 5 місяців тому +1

      The royal family do that use n abandon

  • @randynelson47
    @randynelson47 12 днів тому +1

    I would call that relationship codependent, everyone had fun..

  • @caroledrury1411
    @caroledrury1411 3 місяці тому +1

    Well done! Brilliantly put together

  • @ashleywhitethisisabsolutel1004
    @ashleywhitethisisabsolutel1004 6 місяців тому +102

    Let’s not get romantic about this, he was just a butler somebody who was there to serve might have been given a privilege position, but the Royal family are friendly, They’re not your friends and he was a commoner there to serve nothing more nothing less and if you’re in any illusion about this just look at how they disregarded him once the Queen Mother had died, I think that says it all really.

    • @Celisar1
      @Celisar1 6 місяців тому +23

      Honestly, after fifty years (!) you are not not just a servant.

    • @catherinegriessel56
      @catherinegriessel56 6 місяців тому +25

      Like any job once your services not needed your gone

    • @Cardelrey
      @Cardelrey 6 місяців тому +4

      @@catherinegriessel56agreed

    • @michelles2299
      @michelles2299 6 місяців тому

      @@Celisar1 if you work for the RF you are always beneath them look what they did to crawfie the queen's governess

    • @hildahilpert5018
      @hildahilpert5018 6 місяців тому +7

      I agree. It,s not like he came from the landed gentry or his father was a knight. That might have made some difference .I understand the Queen Mother was something of a snob.So no surprise she didn't leave him anything.

  • @Celisar1
    @Celisar1 6 місяців тому +25

    I never liked her for various reasons but turning 70 she looked absolutely amazing, some 20 years younger.

    • @jacquelinearcher1158
      @jacquelinearcher1158 6 місяців тому +13

      She didn’t have to queue up for rations during the war…or run to an Anderson in a raid…she lived a gilded age life …no wonder she looked good for her age..

    • @simongarthwaite7695
      @simongarthwaite7695 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@@jacquelinearcher1158the King and Queen were superb during World War 2 we were very lucky to have them Buckingham Palace was bombed seven times don't forget.

    • @simongarthwaite7695
      @simongarthwaite7695 6 місяців тому +3

      @jacquelinearcher1158 the Queen mothers brother died during the war a did one of the Kings just as during the Great War there was little class divide during such times.thats why the King and the Queen were beloved by the ordinary folk they went through it all with them and were not spared sadness or fear.

    • @jeanmyers1787
      @jeanmyers1787 6 місяців тому +1

      I suppose she had absolutely no stress or worries.

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 6 місяців тому +3

      @@jeanmyers1787 But you would think that being a total lush would have taken its toll. Most alcoholics look like hell by old age.

  • @MegaLivingIt
    @MegaLivingIt 6 місяців тому +8

    Great story.😊

  • @reginaldgraves1684
    @reginaldgraves1684 6 місяців тому +6

    That was very interesting, I am glad that he had a good life in service and in retirement.

  • @cesarbugarini499
    @cesarbugarini499 5 місяців тому +4

    The Queem Mum being a low key ally😌😌😌we can be problematic 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @p.sch.3922
    @p.sch.3922 6 місяців тому +34

    Well,well,well... employees are employees nothing more or less. He had a great living and took his advantage from it...

    • @Celisar1
      @Celisar1 6 місяців тому +1

      After 50 years you are not just an employee.

    • @Charlotte---
      @Charlotte--- 6 місяців тому +8

      @@Celisar1 Yes you are. Everyone is dispensable.

    • @joannanangle4876
      @joannanangle4876 6 місяців тому +4

      Yes you are an employee

  • @dionlindsay2
    @dionlindsay2 5 місяців тому +2

    He was awarded the Royal Victoria Medal in silver, and later (as very rarely happens) in gold. He would have known the ropes - that was high praise indeed, and the way the bosses he worked for expressed themselves. I doubt if he would have felt badly treated or sorry for himself if it wasn't for the alcohol dependency.

  • @Justintime619
    @Justintime619 6 місяців тому +48

    What a sad story. It’s a shame that even in death he is shamed from what I can tell is a life devoted to service. Shame he was treated so poorly…

    • @Charlotte---
      @Charlotte--- 6 місяців тому +12

      He made a great living and was by all accounts a nasty piece of work to his colleagues. He had illusions of grander.

    • @deev3282
      @deev3282 5 місяців тому +4

      Shame how terribly he treated the young men working under him. Horrible man who abused his privileged position.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 5 місяців тому +6

      @deev3282 Very true. He was an arrogant bully who used to make drunken passes at attractive young men who joined the household. If they refused they found that they just didn't fit in at Clarence House. He used to pick men up, including escorts, and take them back to Clarence House, usually giving them a tour, to show how important he was. He helped himself to what he wanted in the way of drink and food, and only got away with it because he made himself indispensable to the Queen Mother when she was a grieving widow. An obnoxious man.

    • @theresamills5095
      @theresamills5095 5 місяців тому +4

      He was like his boss quite nasty. He had a good life with her.

  • @koalasarenotbearsokay
    @koalasarenotbearsokay 5 місяців тому +6

    The Queen spent 2 hours visiting Billy after here mother died and he's bitching about it? What a narcissist. Given how busy the Queen would have been, he's lucky he got a 2 minute visit!

    • @neilwalker1931
      @neilwalker1931 4 місяці тому +2

      And politely told him that his service was over. And don’t worry about the corgis we will look after them .

  • @alixvhessen
    @alixvhessen 6 місяців тому +29

    He was in his 70ies when the Queen Mother died: way older than the average pensionier. So it was natural for him to leave service. I mean .. no employer lets you stay in your old office ha?

  • @GoldieGold356
    @GoldieGold356 6 місяців тому +22

    I wanted to see the Tea set that QE sent the painter.

    • @miramaric4383
      @miramaric4383 5 місяців тому +1

      Three years before QM died , my friends father ( admirer)
      Sent her a CD with Christmass songs he recorded himself .
      Shortly after , he recieved hand written Thank You letter .
      She certainly had a style !!
      Now sits framed in his living room.

  • @nonosays
    @nonosays 5 місяців тому +14

    Pull-eeze!
    William alienated everyone and burned many bridges, confident he would forever be the spoiled old Queen's pet poodle.
    Imagine the grievances that came to Elizabeth ll's ears!
    But she could do nothing while her mother was alive.
    Good for Her Majesty!
    What goes around comes around, old Billy!
    Or should I say, Bully?

  • @Querencia7779
    @Querencia7779 6 місяців тому +15

    Good old Billy did quite well for himself - making £500,000 from the royal memorabilia left to him.

  • @lafayettemoreira4423
    @lafayettemoreira4423 6 місяців тому +28

    Making drama out of very little drama. He had a honourable life, no scandals no blunders, and after the queen mothers death, the consequences were quite natural, without human sacrifices.

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 6 місяців тому

      Honorable? Sexually abusing and terrorizing his 'underlings'? If he had been the head of a corporation or film studio instead of a royal household, there'd be a place for him in the #metoo movement. He was arrogant, vain, and self-indulgent, a parasite who lived a high life by his association with royalty. He was loyal like a tick or leech is loyal: he knew where his liquor, his lifestyle, and his free pass to sexually abusing other employees came from. If he had had any humility or real kindness or heart for people, he would have looked after and been helpful and kind to the people who worked under him instead of exploiting and tormenting them. He would also have been prudent enough to look ahead to his own retirement, like any sensible person. But parasites always think they can go on sucking blood forever.

    • @dionlindsay2
      @dionlindsay2 5 місяців тому +1

      "...without human sacrifices." Brilliant!

    • @janparish8055
      @janparish8055 5 місяців тому +3

      Besides those he bullied

  • @RuthWilsonRamm
    @RuthWilsonRamm 3 місяці тому

    That's why she lived so long in my eyes .Of strong Scottish heritage.❤🎉A very Good Queen and wife to King George the Vi. A very good KING👑husband,and Father to his family...I wish they were still here with us.❤❤❤❤all 4 of them.

  • @oliverwortley3822
    @oliverwortley3822 6 місяців тому +7

    he was so handsome, omg

  • @TX1961
    @TX1961 6 місяців тому +31

    I highly recommend the book "Backstairs Billy: The Life of William Tallon--The Queen Mother's Most Devoted Servant" by Tom Quinn. Tallon was ruthless in pursuit of young male pages and such who piqued his fancy, whether they were of his inclinations or not.

  • @mariaparker7545
    @mariaparker7545 6 місяців тому +28

    A very sad story.... but when you work in a place like that you always have to remember that you are just a worker he crossed the line and paid the price!

  • @DonnaCsuti-ji2dd
    @DonnaCsuti-ji2dd 5 місяців тому +1

    Well done video thanks

  • @carolvenables3970
    @carolvenables3970 5 місяців тому

    Excellent thank you

  • @karenmurphy6003
    @karenmurphy6003 11 днів тому +1

    The Queen mother didn't move aside She had to be pushed And who were all these people she was wining and dining

  • @oliveoil7642
    @oliveoil7642 6 місяців тому +42

    As a Canadian I cannot understand this fascination and loyalty to royalty. Such an out dated institution. After WW1 all the major dynasties fell but the British Royalty continued to thrive🤔

    • @flower-the-earth
      @flower-the-earth 6 місяців тому +7

      As an American, I agree.

    • @wilsonsilvasilva7402
      @wilsonsilvasilva7402 6 місяців тому +3

      😮😮😮😮 Não se joga ao chão uma dinastia de 300 anos ... isso é tudo !

    • @missg.5940
      @missg.5940 6 місяців тому +6

      Their value in entertainment and tourism keeps them going.

    • @rcnb4903
      @rcnb4903 6 місяців тому +5

      They are an important part of the government, and in fact have the ability to remove your government. They are an important check and balance to government. They aren’t just a tourist attraction.

    • @susantunbridge4612
      @susantunbridge4612 6 місяців тому +5

      If you’re Canadian, you’d know that we have a Constitutional Monarchy with King Charles as our Head of State, and we have a Parliamentary Democracy. Nobody worships the monarch, but he plays an important role in keeping absolute power out of the hands of the Prime Minister, thereby preventing a corrupt President Trudeau. All our Bills go to the King for Royal Assent before they become law. That’s after perusal by the Upper House, or the Senate. Keeps things moving slowly and carefully.

  • @s.barlow7062
    @s.barlow7062 3 місяці тому

    What an incredible and sad story.

  • @58christiansful
    @58christiansful 6 місяців тому +31

    Billy was clearly a complete nightmare.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому

      @58christiansful He was. He thought he could do whatever he wanted. He would even pick up boys for sex and give them tours of Clarence House, to show off how important he was and how lucky they were. Actually an odious drunk.

    • @saraswatkin9226
      @saraswatkin9226 5 місяців тому

      He was probably institutionalsed and abused.

  • @michaeljohndennis2231
    @michaeljohndennis2231 5 місяців тому +4

    30:19 speaking as a gay man myself, this just shows that bullying, prejudice and discrimination from (within) the gay community has remained an unresolved issue to this day as in the song “love to hate you”

    • @carolannemckenzie3849
      @carolannemckenzie3849 5 місяців тому

      But there are many, many friends of friends of Dorothy. I am one. It's just hateful morons who aren't.

    • @Myohomoto
      @Myohomoto 5 місяців тому

      ❤ We love you! ❤ The only kindness I received in my adopted family in the 1950s was from my mother's Uncle and her first cousin ❤ Both gay men. It imbibed in me a life long trust of these dear souls. To this day...kindred spirits.

  • @allyanderson6755
    @allyanderson6755 6 місяців тому +9

    So handsome 😍. I wonder how many ladies tried and failed 😂.
    Love learning about the staff life. I wasn't there so i don't know but the Queen mother and Margaret appeared to be a tad difficult to be around too long😂.
    I imagine that when you work in a house with a family for so long you would forget that you are actually staff...not family...😮

  • @ClaudeaBrown-n8v
    @ClaudeaBrown-n8v 6 місяців тому +34

    RIP BILLY,it's a Shame you were treated like trash after 50 years!

    • @DCJW00
      @DCJW00 6 місяців тому +9

      That is the British Royal Family for ya!!!

    • @mariannevontrapp1063
      @mariannevontrapp1063 6 місяців тому +6

      Yep, the Queen and here mother.

    • @jacquelinearcher1158
      @jacquelinearcher1158 6 місяців тому +9

      He had a job and a pension…like other workers ..why would he expect more ?

    • @mariaelisa732
      @mariaelisa732 6 місяців тому

      8 uiHuas t 6​@@mariannevontrapp1063

  • @pmn2821
    @pmn2821 6 місяців тому +8

    She certainly couldn't spoil herself enough.

  • @ruthelainefry2076
    @ruthelainefry2076 6 місяців тому +12

    Really enjoyed this film , fascinating character was Billy and the perfect butler for a charismatic Queen Mother , who , in spite of her little foibles was the nation's darling .

  • @LadyBlanche.888
    @LadyBlanche.888 6 місяців тому +4

    What a sad story. I don't think HM The Queen knew what thank you meant to William. I have no doubt that William's spirit is indeed somewhere in the corridors and rooms of Clarence House..R.I.P William and Thank you. 🙏 💐

  • @darlenedunn6774
    @darlenedunn6774 5 місяців тому +1

    Wow, so Downton Abbey wasn’t too far off on the way they lived in the staff that lived downstairs😊

  • @ida1751
    @ida1751 5 місяців тому +3

    WHAT did he expect... he was hired personally without ever going through the wringer of a process. His stay then was totally dependent on the late Queen Mother ...

  • @Valerie-k6u
    @Valerie-k6u 6 місяців тому +12

    Its incredible to see that the Queen Mother had rotten teeth. With all her wealth, she couldn't get dental care?

    • @splinterbyrd
      @splinterbyrd 6 місяців тому +8

      Bad teeth are a great English tradition

    • @brendalee6983
      @brendalee6983 5 місяців тому +4

      They were badly stained

    • @alanyoung9200
      @alanyoung9200 4 місяці тому

      They were a shade of green

  • @johnkim8957
    @johnkim8957 6 місяців тому +6

    This is an incredible story, sad story

  • @MargaretErbe-t7s
    @MargaretErbe-t7s 10 днів тому +1

    The Queen Mum missed her husband. She became a heavy drinker. No one interveened. She & PP did not get along. Hard on QE 2. Did Princess Margaret inherit her mother's love of the drink and men? The King was a lot like QE2 steady and a hard worker. Too bad he died so young. She was a widow for many long, lonely years.

  • @annchristine47
    @annchristine47 4 місяці тому +2

    It’s disgusting to watch the Royal family feed and live off the rest of humanity.Very few of them have ever lifted a finger to help humanity.

  • @kaashee
    @kaashee 5 місяців тому +5

    silly man. thinking he was invincible. trusting other people like that. Never ever trust your employer. A bully who died a lonely death. God save us.

  • @joannanangle4876
    @joannanangle4876 6 місяців тому +5

    Correct nobody is indespensible if you keep that in your head your half way there

  • @deanolaurence3932
    @deanolaurence3932 6 місяців тому +6

    He was loyal to the end

  • @leightonolsson4846
    @leightonolsson4846 6 місяців тому

    Staff, always an afterthought...
    Still 😂 great euphemism of a nickname

  • @sheilaferguson4358
    @sheilaferguson4358 6 місяців тому +13

    Yes butler and Queen well suited. Not nice people. Such horrendous snobs.

  • @philsooty61
    @philsooty61 6 місяців тому +11

    I always liked her ! but power corrupts and though you may move in high class circles unless you wear the right tie you will never be invited in !

  • @lindabederio4603
    @lindabederio4603 5 місяців тому +6

    Truer words were never spoken. Most hated her.

  • @ida1751
    @ida1751 5 місяців тому +1

    He was loyal all right bec he was about to cling to that lifestyle as long as theQueen Mother was alive. HE DESERVED what he got... his loyalty had a price.. his lifestyle within the royal enclaves...

  • @msbossvlog1528
    @msbossvlog1528 6 місяців тому +28

    The Queen mother was a wicked woman. She obviously need him to pour her drinks.

    • @melianna999
      @melianna999 6 місяців тому +2

      hehe

    • @simongarthwaite7695
      @simongarthwaite7695 6 місяців тому +4

      She was a fabulous lady just from a very different time she didn't suffer fools

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 6 місяців тому +3

      @@simongarthwaite7695 Yeah, because she was so wise and wonderful. Apart from some favorable photo-ops during the second world war, what did she contribute to the world? How is the world - or any single person, for that matter - better because she lived? She was a self-indulgent old drunk.

    • @simongarthwaite7695
      @simongarthwaite7695 6 місяців тому +1

      @FigaroHey nonsense Britain would not of got through the war without its Royal Family.

  • @roadstar92220
    @roadstar92220 5 місяців тому +1

    He should have written & sold a book. He could have exposed it all.

  • @splinterbyrd
    @splinterbyrd 6 місяців тому +5

    *35.00* I doubt anyone could persuade or dissuade Princess Margaret from anything if she decided on it

  • @LiezlAntonino
    @LiezlAntonino 5 місяців тому

    I love queen of hearts Queen Diana❤

  • @Monicareynosogaute
    @Monicareynosogaute 14 днів тому

    He could have hos own Crown series.

  • @jacquelinevanwickevoort2649
    @jacquelinevanwickevoort2649 6 місяців тому +38

    What a cold family.

    • @simongarthwaite7695
      @simongarthwaite7695 6 місяців тому +5

      As a matter of fact the Rf are well known for how well they treat staff in General always have been even in the days when servant were treated like crap.

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 6 місяців тому +4

      @simongarthwaite7695 Exactly right. If staff were treated badly they wouldn't have stayed on so long or been so loyal.

    • @cahillgreg
      @cahillgreg 5 місяців тому +2

      Feeding staff chips and beans - speaks volumes about the depravity of the hse of windsor

    • @michaelmontagu3979
      @michaelmontagu3979 5 місяців тому +3

      @@cahillgreg That was in the 1950s, when food was still rationed. It's much better than that now.

  • @Tidybitz
    @Tidybitz 5 місяців тому +3

    There's no doubt that Billy would have done an excellent job, but after many years in the job, surely he should have foreseen a time when the Queen Mother would eventually die and he should make provisions for himself afterwards. The job was for the duration of her life and he would have been better prepared for life afterwards had he done that. As far as I know, not many employers provide for ex employees when they finish so why would Billy be an exception. My dad worked down the pit for 40 years and British Coal didn't provide our house or my dad's pension. Billy was very well looked after for 40 or so years. He wasn't perfect nor was he hard done by.

  • @macpduff2119
    @macpduff2119 5 місяців тому +1

    Speaks so so HORRIBLY for the Queen to toss him out after 50 Years of service. She acted so dishonorably. As Michael Jackson sang "they don't care about us".

    • @dianaroach3093
      @dianaroach3093 2 дні тому

      It does not speak badly about the late Queen Elizabeth. His service of 50 years was over. He could have put money aside for his retirement.

  • @irene-jb7jc
    @irene-jb7jc 6 місяців тому +3

    Leave a door for back stairs Willie.

  • @emmirey4640
    @emmirey4640 6 місяців тому +4

    And the Bridgeton reference.....😅

  • @jancoyote52
    @jancoyote52 5 місяців тому +1

    Hey Utub, GOT IT!

  • @robertandrews5640
    @robertandrews5640 5 місяців тому +2

    HE WAS A PAID SERVANT AND HIS JOB WAS OVER IT IS THAT SIMPLE WHAT ELSE COULD HE EXPECT HIS OWN LIFE WAS his RESPONSIBILITY LIFE IS TOUGH FOR everyone GET ON WITH IT🎉

  • @splinterbyrd
    @splinterbyrd 6 місяців тому +4

    Cecil Beaton said that in the weeks following the death of the Queen Mother's husband the king and before she moved to Clarence House, because she was no longer a reigning queen alot of the courtiers at Buckingham Palace were suddenly quite casual and off-hand with her, the deference gone.
    So life can be cruel even to a Queen Empress

  • @user-ge3jk6fg1l
    @user-ge3jk6fg1l 23 дні тому

    The Queen Mother was a Queen and an Empress.

  • @ralphsmith1170
    @ralphsmith1170 2 місяці тому +1

    He was a flawed character in some ways, but in truth, how many of us aren't? One thing that stands out from this story, is that he remained extremely loyal to the Royal Family, and did not, as he could have, accept huge amounts of money in expose stories for the tabloids. He had a certain integrity, and the Royal family, instead of remaining loyal to him, treated him in the most shabby and uncaring manner! It is an object lesson in the real attitude of the Royals to those who serve them! The disgusting Papparazzi Press hunted and stalked this vulnerable man to his death, as they did with Princess Diana!

  • @randyallman4843
    @randyallman4843 6 місяців тому +14

    The Queen should have thanked Billy for helping looking after her mother.

    • @wenniferjay903
      @wenniferjay903 6 місяців тому +2

      Billy did it for free??

    • @rosiepugh8310
      @rosiepugh8310 5 місяців тому

      He was not important enough for queen's to bother with.😢

    • @jilllangman9343
      @jilllangman9343 8 днів тому

      How do you know she didn’t?

  • @geniawheddon7402
    @geniawheddon7402 6 місяців тому +1

    The Queen was MUCH LOVED ...she behaved ao well during rhe War

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 6 місяців тому +4

      Just proves how long you can go on being a complete waste of human skin if you take the precaution of making ONE good impression at JUST the right moment. What ELSE did she do besides 'behaving well during the war' that made her life worth anything? Seriously? An old lush who spent money like there was no tomorrow and allowed the abuse of her staff under her very nose. No concern for anyone, obviously, apart from her own pleasures and comfort.

    • @alfredwilliams3176
      @alfredwilliams3176 5 місяців тому +1

      She WAS NOT loved in the east end where she was rudely sent on her mink lined way...fact

  • @hinas_for_life
    @hinas_for_life 6 місяців тому +1

    I am most surprised by the cobwebs under the table and almost every glass was not washed well, almost all of them had a murky film on them.

  • @angelleigh9468
    @angelleigh9468 6 місяців тому +3

    Funny that this is probably the inspiration of the gay couple in the animated HBO show, “The Prince,”

  • @MirellaNatale-ks4kw
    @MirellaNatale-ks4kw 15 днів тому

    I think he had a fabulous life. Like everyone. You end up alone. He was privileged. Pretty sure his pension wasn’t meagre either. Maybe to what he had become accustomed to. I’m sure he never truly begrudged leaving..