@@JadaSnacks Yup! That is a high possibility. Children are not stupid and they pick up on things that adults think they don’t pick up on. They are very observant; even when you think they are not paying attention or looking.
You can tell he can’t control his anger…he barely has a leash on it standing there. She speaks like she is SO DAMN afraid.. and that’s so sad and scary
After viewing this again, the one thing that I noticed was that neither of them slammed each other overtly. They both seemed to take responsibility for thier actions and didn't clown each other... When the Young Lady broke down at the end, it was heartbreaking.... She stated that she loves him and would always love him was heartfelt... I wish them both well going forward....
Yeah even to me he looks like he's a little deranged but I have to say it a lot of women are attracted to crazy people that are manipulative justly all around bad boys syndrome there's so many women that's attracted that kind of man I don't get it but I'm a dude😅😅😅
I don’t like how he got choked up saying “there was no physical violence” and then looked at her and shot her a look. I feel like he can’t control his temper, and he has been just as intimidating as she says. Also that he has put his hands on her.
The poor children are at risk for mental health issues. Borderline personality disorder comes to my mind. My brothers and I lived this life growing up. Now my younger brother is a nightmare. Doesn't have ambition, has a huge temper and became a deadbeat father.
I pray for their healing and happiness as individuals and even together and even if they remain apart , healing and happiness for sure for the sake of their kids.🙏💔🙏 Judge Toler handled this with so much grace and sensitivity
I watch a lot of these episodes. Closer to the end I was over here bawling I was crying like a baby. This feeling came over me I feel that if she would have stayed in this relationship he would have took her from this world. Sometimes you can just see it in people I don't think he was a bad dude. We like judge Lynn Toler always says you sometimes have a tick and you need to go talk to somebody to get rid of that Tik. I hope he goes and get that anger management.
I see ppl blaming her. Why would I stay in a relationship with someone who is always angry.... No matter how I ask. Then why shit hits the fan, I'm the one getting blame. Screw this.... Next thing, he loses his temper and harm her.
When a woman's Fed up! I know first hand how she feels, I thought if I brought joy to my husband he would stop complaining and stop getting angry about every little thing! I couldn't say nothing😅 one day I snapped! I said I'm Done! You or anyone else will never disrespect me again, I said I have served you, cook, clean, decorate, wash your clothes, took care of your children, as if they were my own( and I don't have kids)When you got in that car accident and couldn't move from the neck down, I bathed you, changed you, and with the help of the LORD nursed you back to health, even when I would feed him, he would cuss me out if I took a bite of his food😅 I left! Wished him nothing but the best, he is still trying to get me back.
But at some point you have to also look at a lot of women like drama... Not saying that you should stay with a person that is treating you like crap I definitely believe in getting out of situation like that but there are many red flags that you may see before getting what a person like this within 3 minutes I was looking at this guy and I can see the craziness in his eyes I don't understand how this woman didn't see this.... 😢😢😢 I think that in the beginning this man probably gave her some kind of thrills that she liked...
@@A_Well_Traveled_Manvery true, my best friend asked me that, she said you didn't see signs before you married him, I said WOW, I didn't think of that, I said looking back there were signs however at that time I couldn't tell a man what I wanted because I didn't know! I didn't even know who GOD created and called me to be, so I was all about what he like and wanted. The problems started coming when I started finding me, and I found out it's ok to have wants and needs as well, growing up men would say cute girls ain't loyal, trustworthy, they not ride to die. So for some reason I felt I had to prove myself and fell into a pattern and started attracting men who were self centered. It's not their fault but mine. See when we don't know who we were created to be we leave doors open for the enemy to send people in who will take advantage of that! I put myself through a healing process, so I could better myself so I could help other's as well. life lessons are so amazing if we can find the beauty in them🙏🔥💡❤️
Hes still in love bcuz she tolerated all his blowups and she’s DONE! Should’ve treated her better but like most ppl u were too arrogant to appreciate a good thing
She's not going to get rid of him because she loves the drama that he brings to her life That's what she really lets love even though she shouldn't be with a man like this you know most women like drama feel relationships
that anger is problematic and it tells me there is a chemical imbalance unfortunately he won't get help and definitely will not take medication. I've seen cats and some dogs with that chemical imbalance and the vet will provide mood stabilizers, sad.
✔Girl U better run now & move to a different city. Absolutley No man should acting like a ass, especially if hes married. ✔Gotta a problem? Then get rid of the problem!!
Reading the comments is fascinating. First of she's not afraid off him, if she was she won't be messing around with some other guy while they are together. Women for the love of God if you finish with someone leave them don't just started dating someone else then complain that the man is angry. That's gaslighting 101.
The only problem I see what your comment is that is very logical so you know women are not going to understand what you're trying to say here... But she likes the drama You can definitely tell she's a kind of woman that looks for the pookies in the Ray Ray's to give her drama and some excitement in her life She doesn't want to be with a good guy she's the type of woman that if she had a good man in her life she's going to say I don't I don't like him because he's boring.. 😅
@@hayleiprescod3122 The problem is the fact that she's not going to let him have an easy divorce she's going to try take him for everything that he has This is the reason why so many men stay and very unhappily married marriages... Because the old truth in the sand is very true here it is cheaper to keep her... Especially at their ages it seems like they're both going to be up for retirement in the not too distant future... It'll be absolutely devastating to this man if she takes half of his retirement pension or plan...
One instance of a temper and I'm out. You talk to loud to me and I'm out. I'm not a loud angry argumentative type person and have no tolerance for that.
Maybe there' is a health issue, could be mental problem such as brain issues. He seems to be suffering from some problems unaware to him. He is not arrogant or rude.
On this one I'm on his side.he does have issues but she is for the streets ..she said he's a good provider and that's the only reason she wants him around. She is out there and no one wants her 5 kids so she wants him back..Joshua don't want 5 kids.
I can speak to that also too but the fact of the matter is that she is damaged goods now and on top of that she is in it with him just for the money like you said but she's not going to be able to ever have a real meaningful relationship ever after this because she's been through this situation with him and I've been in a situation Like this and it never pans out well.
I suggest not staying with someone who cheated if you stay angry about it…why be miserable?
She seems to be AFRAID of Him. . . Ms. RUN!
She running around on him she ain’t too scared
She not afraid at all. She using excuses for her cheating.
Thats game....afraid on NOTHING
@@wordplay6665Whoever she with is willing to Whip his behind, if need be.
@@laymanlogicHe was asked to get HELP, and He still hasn't. The Judge congratulated Her for Leaving.
5 boys 🤦🏽♀️ potentially 5 nightmares to others who have a low sense of emotional intelligence
Oh,yeah!
@@raisingreendragonzmyselfI was saying the same thing.. they will grow up to have anger problems as well as potentially putting hands on a female.
Wait so the victims of their anger would have low emotional intelligence?
That is an interesting assessment
@@JadaSnacks Yup! That is a high possibility. Children are not stupid and they pick up on things that adults think they don’t pick up on. They are very observant; even when you think they are not paying attention or looking.
You can tell he can’t control his anger…he barely has a leash on it standing there. She speaks like she is SO DAMN afraid.. and that’s so sad and scary
She needs to leave him
After viewing this again, the one thing that I noticed was that neither of them slammed each other overtly.
They both seemed to take responsibility for thier actions and didn't clown each other...
When the Young Lady broke down at the end, it was heartbreaking....
She stated that she loves him and would always love him was heartfelt...
I wish them both well going forward....
When a woman's fed up, it's a day late and a dollar short
“I don’t get angry unless I’m disrespected”….duh😂😂😂
He doesn't deserve any respect!!! His anger, cursing, and losing jobs is NOT respectable!!!
that walking on egg shells comment was so real!! that's exactly how I felt with an angry guy.
Whew I felt that when she said the home completed after he left💔
His face when he looks at her is telling
He seems scary to me. 😩
Yeah even to me he looks like he's a little deranged but I have to say it a lot of women are attracted to crazy people that are manipulative justly all around bad boys syndrome there's so many women that's attracted that kind of man I don't get it but I'm a dude😅😅😅
Very
He gives her anxiety
I don’t like how he got choked up saying “there was no physical violence” and then looked at her and shot her a look. I feel like he can’t control his temper, and he has been just as intimidating as she says. Also that he has put his hands on her.
Trying to love an angry man will wear you down. Never again ❤
The poor children are at risk for mental health issues. Borderline personality disorder comes to my mind. My brothers and I lived this life growing up. Now my younger brother is a nightmare. Doesn't have ambition, has a huge temper and became a deadbeat father.
I pray for their healing and happiness as individuals and even together and even if they remain apart , healing and happiness for sure for the sake of their kids.🙏💔🙏
Judge Toler handled this with so much grace and sensitivity
I watch a lot of these episodes. Closer to the end I was over here bawling I was crying like a baby. This feeling came over me I feel that if she would have stayed in this relationship he would have took her from this world. Sometimes you can just see it in people I don't think he was a bad dude. We like judge Lynn Toler always says you sometimes have a tick and you need to go talk to somebody to get rid of that Tik. I hope he goes and get that anger management.
Wow....miniature versions of his anger issues potentially or definitely ramifications and fear.
He’s selectively angry.someday he will come up against someone who won’t put up with his shenanigans.
His demeanor and body language screams ANGER. Her reminds me of my husband
Please tell me yall are divorced?
She seems very anxious and uncomfortable around him and it's not a healthy relationship.
Great episode
He seems like he goes off the henges
I see ppl blaming her. Why would I stay in a relationship with someone who is always angry.... No matter how I ask. Then why shit hits the fan, I'm the one getting blame. Screw this.... Next thing, he loses his temper and harm her.
Note to the men in here don’t expect to have sex if you always upset
All angry people or very problematic people say" I don't see that I'm angry or that I have an attitude issue" 😔
When a woman's Fed up! I know first hand how she feels, I thought if I brought joy to my husband he would stop complaining and stop getting angry about every little thing! I couldn't say nothing😅 one day I snapped! I said I'm Done! You or anyone else will never disrespect me again, I said I have served you, cook, clean, decorate, wash your clothes, took care of your children, as if they were my own( and I don't have kids)When you got in that car accident and couldn't move from the neck down, I bathed you, changed you, and with the help of the LORD nursed you back to health, even when I would feed him, he would cuss me out if I took a bite of his food😅 I left! Wished him nothing but the best, he is still trying to get me back.
Can I get to know you 😂
But at some point you have to also look at a lot of women like drama... Not saying that you should stay with a person that is treating you like crap I definitely believe in getting out of situation like that but there are many red flags that you may see before getting what a person like this within 3 minutes I was looking at this guy and I can see the craziness in his eyes I don't understand how this woman didn't see this.... 😢😢😢 I think that in the beginning this man probably gave her some kind of thrills that she liked...
@@A_Well_Traveled_Manvery true, my best friend asked me that, she said you didn't see signs before you married him, I said WOW, I didn't think of that, I said looking back there were signs however at that time I couldn't tell a man what I wanted because I didn't know! I didn't even know who GOD created and called me to be, so I was all about what he like and wanted. The problems started coming when I started finding me, and I found out it's ok to have wants and needs as well, growing up men would say cute girls ain't loyal, trustworthy, they not ride to die. So for some reason I felt I had to prove myself and fell into a pattern and started attracting men who were self centered. It's not their fault but mine. See when we don't know who we were created to be we leave doors open for the enemy to send people in who will take advantage of that! I put myself through a healing process, so I could better myself so I could help other's as well. life lessons are so amazing if we can find the beauty in them🙏🔥💡❤️
I'm curious...were his anger issues really bad before the car accident?
Hes still in love bcuz she tolerated all his blowups and she’s DONE! Should’ve treated her better but like most ppl u were too arrogant to appreciate a good thing
Get rid of him
She's not going to get rid of him because she loves the drama that he brings to her life That's what she really lets love even though she shouldn't be with a man like this you know most women like drama feel relationships
I like this Lady. Hope she / her kids r well.
Felt bad for him he looks truly lost without her.
Im proud she was able to get out. Hes the one if he doesn't get help it will continue and will find himself locked up
She's afraid and he's angry but it seems like he's ready to kill her.
Nothing shut a woman down more than a man with a harsh tongue 😢
" im a very nice person "
Wonder if his kids are afraid of him. I mean when they become teenagers oh boy he is going to feel so disrespected. 🤨
Wonder if his kids were ok with mama having a boyfriend and kicking daddy out🤌
@@cjohns1005 Who knows, do you? A mother who cheats and a violent father. Doesn't leave much room for viable choices.
that anger is problematic and it tells me there is a chemical imbalance unfortunately he won't get help and definitely will not take medication. I've seen cats and some dogs with that chemical imbalance and the vet will provide mood stabilizers, sad.
Leave him
✔Girl U better run now & move to a different city. Absolutley No man should acting like a ass, especially if hes married.
✔Gotta a problem? Then get rid of the problem!!
Good. Point. Young. Lady
5 kids deep with a volatile man. Smh....
Reading the comments is fascinating. First of she's not afraid off him, if she was she won't be messing around with some other guy while they are together. Women for the love of God if you finish with someone leave them don't just started dating someone else then complain that the man is angry. That's gaslighting 101.
The only problem I see what your comment is that is very logical so you know women are not going to understand what you're trying to say here... But she likes the drama You can definitely tell she's a kind of woman that looks for the pookies in the Ray Ray's to give her drama and some excitement in her life She doesn't want to be with a good guy she's the type of woman that if she had a good man in her life she's going to say I don't I don't like him because he's boring.. 😅
Or just get a divorce...
@@hayleiprescod3122 The problem is the fact that she's not going to let him have an easy divorce she's going to try take him for everything that he has This is the reason why so many men stay and very unhappily married marriages... Because the old truth in the sand is very true here it is cheaper to keep her... Especially at their ages it seems like they're both going to be up for retirement in the not too distant future... It'll be absolutely devastating to this man if she takes half of his retirement pension or plan...
Thank you all them are making excuses for her behavior.
They both trifling and don't know how to deal with their problems as adults
They need counseling big time ...... Mrs. Judge. Red flags red flags Divorce
One instance of a temper and I'm out. You talk to loud to me and I'm out. I'm not a loud angry argumentative type person and have no tolerance for that.
Dude seems like he was bullied when he was younger
Lady if you are not happy with your husband leave, but no ,you think it's better to cheat and do other people.
You know that when you have a metal
No
I can maybe deal with yelling, maybe. But once you start throwing things, I'm done.
Short term side chick lol
Is she laughing through the pain
Maybe there' is a health issue, could be mental problem such as brain issues. He seems to be suffering from some problems unaware to him. He is not arrogant or rude.
On this one I'm on his side.he does have issues but she is for the streets ..she said he's a good provider and that's the only reason she wants him around.
She is out there and no one wants her 5 kids so she wants him back..Joshua don't want 5 kids.
I can speak to that also too but the fact of the matter is that she is damaged goods now and on top of that she is in it with him just for the money like you said but she's not going to be able to ever have a real meaningful relationship ever after this because she's been through this situation with him and I've been in a situation Like this and it never pans out well.
@@A_Well_Traveled_Manyup
Never ever take him back abuse is abuse always angry
@@pattiamoh1136 You know that the man brought the woman to court right?!??? Can't all of these look at it from a one-sided deal
Although I don't think having a boyfriend on the side is practical, I believe she genuinely loves her Husband...
She just couldn't take it anymore!
Nice person BULL
Don't they learn to say "asked me" not AXED me?
He looks like a good guy but he needs help
I agree
He looks like a crazy guy that needs help, he knows how to fool people
5 kids you better get a DNA 4 yrs after marriage she started cheating ,
She might want to check for any outside children, since he's a cheater also. Both are wrong in many respects.
She cheated and smiled about having a boyfriend and living home with her husband.
Tee hee hee.🤔😐
He just said he cheated first💀💀💀💀
Exactly
Nice person my be---d
Did you ever consider that he is angry because you are immoral and betrayed him!!,
She's a prize. On no planet in the universe.
Naomi is a cheater, why is she the hero?
Woman can cheat, not support him, he gets angry, and he is the villain, judge always backs the woman