Italian Restaurant Etiquette - Avoid These Embarrassing Mistakes!

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  • @francescom.i.floris9955
    @francescom.i.floris9955 14 днів тому +13

    Francesco, from Italy (Sardinia). You caught the spirit right. It's clear that you love and respect Italian culture. All tourists should be like you. Thanks.

  • @boxmedias
    @boxmedias Місяць тому +126

    FINALLY!!! Someone understood and explained properly the italian food culture!

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +3

      Thanks! We appreciate the confirmation.

    • @LuigiSergi-be1tn
      @LuigiSergi-be1tn Місяць тому +4

      it's true. Very accurate video (i'm Italian)

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks!

    • @paoloemiliopacciani9767
      @paoloemiliopacciani9767 Місяць тому +3

      Very well made video! Congratulations from Parma, Italy. You perfectly understood the meaning of Italian dining

    • @wilsonmicallo
      @wilsonmicallo Місяць тому +1

      YES! I opened the video expecting to find a lot of misconceptions, instead I approve every suggestion and even most of the explanation behind! Well done

  • @gianlu64
    @gianlu64 Місяць тому +88

    Ed said a very important thing about the fact that you must feel at ease. And let me add: unlike what you see in many videos about foreign cultural shocks, no one (and I repeat: NO ONE) will ever refuse to serve you a cappuccino after lunch or to bring you cheese for your pasta with fish. With the obvious exceptions, we Italians have a strong culture of hospitality and usually never deny tourists what they ask for. We love tourists, we’re very curious about everything that's new and different, and generally, we do everything we can to make foreigners feel comfortable. (We’re not French, LOL.)

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +6

      Agree on all of this. Especially the Italian hospitality - and the comparison with its neighbor, at least in Paris. I’ve found the French people out in the country to be more welcoming.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +5

      Agree on all of this. Especially the Italian hospitality - and the comparison with its neighbor, at least in Paris. I’ve found the French people out in the country to be more welcoming.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +1

      Agree on all of this. Especially the Italian hospitality - and the comparison with its neighbor, at least in Paris. I’ve found the French people out in the country to be more welcoming.

    • @LeftToWrite006
      @LeftToWrite006 Місяць тому +3

      Yeah, Italians are pretty forgiving about food etiquette issues that will come up (something always does). But, try not to be a dick with insisting something be done *your* way; you're in Italy, not fucking Texas or Florida.

    • @tedhalloran9886
      @tedhalloran9886 Місяць тому +10

      My server in Firenze, when I asked for cheese on my shrimp pasta… “I could bring you cheese, but I would lose my job!”

  • @lellab.8179
    @lellab.8179 Місяць тому +56

    I'm Italian (living in Italy) and I'm impressed. You were very accurate, and you are so right: be respectful but do as you like!
    Just a few notes:
    - cutting spaghetti is acceptable ONLY if you give them to a toddler or a very small child to eat
    - sometimes you will find cheese with fish or seafood: usually is pecorino, often with swordfish, mussels or sardines, or mozzarella or burrata with something more delicate; they usually are special recipes, though
    - at the end of a meal, in a restaurant, you can order a coffee. It's usually the last thing you order and it's always an espresso, but you can have some variations : "lungo" (long = they use a little more water), "ristretto" (short = they use a little less water), "macchiato" ("stained" with a splash of, usually foamed, milk), "corretto" ("corrected" with a splash of liquor, usually grappa, but it can be Sambuca, rhum or another thing: just ask what they have or if they have what you like). You can have all these variations decaf, if you prefer. Please: don't order a cappuccino after a meal (but if you insist, I'm sure they'll make you one). We consider it, mostly, a breakfast thing, but you can have it in any other moment (despite what a lot of people think or say; I often have one in the afternoon and nobody beats an eye, at least where I live). After a meal we consider it just too much (it's like having a snack as soon as you finish your lunch).
    Most of all: enjoy yourself and try some new, amazing food!

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +2

      Thanks for the compliment and the great additional info!

    • @gianlu64
      @gianlu64 Місяць тому +4

      I'm italian, living in Italy too, and I sometimes order a cappuccino as a snack, in the afternoon and, unlike what I have seen in many videos, NO waiter or bartender will ever refuse to serve one. Just one anecdote: I was at the seaside in October, and there were several Swiss-German tourists. I had taken a swim and ordered a cappuccino. A lady addressed me in German, probably thinking that I was a tourist too. LOL

    • @mdleweight
      @mdleweight Місяць тому +2

      Watching small children eat uncut spaghetti can be entertaining.

    • @adamchurvis1
      @adamchurvis1 Місяць тому

      Thanks for your comment. Very helpful. I knew only about a third of this.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      👍

  • @RobertIsraelMusic
    @RobertIsraelMusic Місяць тому +22

    Alfredo di Lelio owned and operated a trattoria in Rome. In 1908, during his wife's first pregnancy and after the birth of their first child, she found most food to be intolerable. Alfredo created a dish of pasta, cheese, and butter to help her to eat and maintain her health and the baby's. It was practically the one thing she could eat and she liked the dish so much that she thought Alfredo should put it on his menu at the trattoria. In 1920, Douglas Fairbanks and his newlywed wife, Mary Pickford, honeymooned in Europe. The couple dined at di Lelio's trattoria and loved the dish so much that they brought the recipe back to America and introduced it at their estate called Pickfair. That is how Fettuccine Alfredo came to America-it is an authentic Italian creation. Boun appetito!

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +2

      That’s such an interesting story! Thank you. Its odd that you don’t find it on menus in Italy (at least I haven’t seen it).

    • @Drugo987
      @Drugo987 Місяць тому

      I’m quite sure that, at least in my area, fettuccine Alfredo were a thing long before 1908. We used to serve it to ill people as a “light” version of pasta (no ragù).

    • @Drugo987
      @Drugo987 Місяць тому +2

      Basically they were an home hospital dish 😂😂😂 (and my family day before Christmas tradition).

    • @michaelpowell7908
      @michaelpowell7908 Місяць тому +10

      The couple ate at Alfredo’s often on that honeymoon and gave him a large gold serving spoon and fork with engraving noting the presentation. I, as a 12Year old Canadian kid with my parents in 1955, watched Alfredo himself prepare the dish for me tableside, and let me use, for brief moment, those serving pieces. It was the best pasta I ever ate. Yes, butter and Parmesan only, and very wet fettuccine.

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому

      vedi poi cosa sono diventate. come la pizza in america, il mio trauma infantile peggiore, peggio dei finocchi cotti infilati a forza in bocca dalla maestra all'asilo

  • @sandyrodriguez7486
    @sandyrodriguez7486 День тому

    Thank you so much for all your videos! Trying to watch them all as I’m going in two weeks. It’s been my life long dream to visit Italy and at 68 my dream is coming to pass. So excited! Again thank you!

  • @sirmioneb9947
    @sirmioneb9947 Місяць тому +53

    A detail you've forgotten to mention is that usually the deserts are ordered after the main meal. So the servers will take orders only for antipasto, primo and secondo on their first round, and then come back later to offer dessert. Some restaurant even have a completely separate menu for desserts, or the servers themselves will list the sweet treats available after clearing the table, so don't be worried if you can't find any dessert in your menu.

    • @KathrynMueller-d8x
      @KathrynMueller-d8x Місяць тому

      @@sirmioneb9947 good to know. Thanks.

    • @annmcevoy5686
      @annmcevoy5686 Місяць тому +1

      Same as UK

    • @steelcrown7130
      @steelcrown7130 Місяць тому +1

      @@annmcevoy5686And Australia.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +2

      And in the US, too.

    • @BrandonLeeBrown
      @BrandonLeeBrown Місяць тому +2

      That's common in America too, so it wouldn't stand out to an American. When I lived in Italy, I would usually have fruit for desert, but only sometimes an Italian desert. I spent a lot of time in Sicily and had a lot of seafood and Middle East dishes, but also traditional Italian dishes.

  • @LiLaLeller
    @LiLaLeller 6 днів тому

    American here! Happy to have your videos! We are returning for our second trip soon and I would definitely say we learned some of these during our first trip. Every Italian we encountered was very kind even if we made a few mistakes. I love that so many Italians agree with what you are saying.
    We LOVE Italy and can't wait to visit again ❤

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  6 днів тому

      @LiLaLeller Thanks! We appreciate it. We’re surprised so many Italians watch, but it’s gratifying to hear their support. I hope you’ll be able to return soon.

  • @eleonoradini2371
    @eleonoradini2371 Місяць тому +33

    I have to add something to my previous comment about pasta and chicken. In Italy, particularly in some regions (Umbria, Lazio, Toscana, Marche etc.) it's not unusual ragù with duck and/or pigeon. Today I was in Serravalle (province of Pesaro Urbino, region Marche) and I enjoyed a magnificent enormous portion of tagliatelle with duck AND pigeon. Delicious. So, we don't usually have chicken with pasta, but that doesn't mean we don't use other birds in our ragù. I hope you understand my broken English😂

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +3

      Your English is perfect! Yes, we’ve had duck ragù near our house in Marche. Certainly, duck has more flavor than chicken.

    • @wayankartini2091
      @wayankartini2091 Місяць тому

      Hanno detto pizza con pollo non pasta con carne. La pasta con il ragu' alla bolognese la conoscono in tutto il mondo. As a side note your English is quite good.😊

  • @MsMariaSierra
    @MsMariaSierra 20 днів тому +1

    I have binge watched every video!!! My love of Italy came through in every single episode I watched! Thank you!!! I can’t wait for your next adventure.
    In high school, I took 4 years of intensive Italian classes which were taught by a fiery Firenze!!! She instilled in me a love of the region, il Duomo (to the extent that the first time I saw it I burst into tears!!), and basically everything Italian!! Something so totally different for a Cuban born young girl who thought she’d never be able to walk the streets of Firenze, touch the marble of the Duomo and most importantly, eat gelato to my heart’s content!!! I finally fulfilled my dream in 2018 - over 40 years later!!! I’ve returned a couple of times, and maybe that’s why I resonated so strongly with your videos. I want to keep going back as long as I’m strong enough. Thank you for sharing your adventures and lives. Bravo! 👏🏻

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  19 днів тому +1

      Thanks so much for your kind words! It’s a great feeling when our videos make others feel like they’re truly there with us. I can only imagine a young Cuban girl in those days being transported to Italy.

  • @gotenks81
    @gotenks81 Місяць тому +19

    I can't figure out yet why UA-cam suddenly began suggesting me your videos but I got deeply addicted since the very first one I've watched! The love and respect for our country and culture literally oozes out from every single frame. Thank you for these amazing videos!
    Greetings from an Italian living in Japan😊

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +1

      We don’t know either why YT suggests it to Italians. But it’s great to see the comments. Cheers!

  • @wordsmithgmxch
    @wordsmithgmxch 16 днів тому +1

    You guys are fantastic! You really "get" Italy -- and anyone going to Italy will find this vid the most rewarding 12-min prep ihey could hope for ! !

  • @michaelrakita9464
    @michaelrakita9464 Місяць тому +23

    A few other items include…you won’t find salt and pepper on the table, you may have to ask for them if you need them (the only exception is when you order a salad). Also regarding salads, you will only have olive oil and a good balsamic for dressing (there are no such thing as premade salad dressings in Italy). Last item…water is not free, you will need to order a bottle for the table (still/naturale or sparkling/frizzante). Keep up the good work with these videos, I’m enjoying your explanations and experiences!

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Good points. We covered them in a previous video about How to Order Food in an Italian Restaurant.

    • @OKuusava
      @OKuusava Місяць тому

      -and could add that never seen a bottle of ketchup in any restaurant.;-)

  • @αγγελικηκαχριμανη

    Thank you for a very interesting video that gave us information about food culture of both countries!😊

  • @Romalvx
    @Romalvx Місяць тому +7

    Hello Dear Friends! I wish you a rewarding New Year full of happiness! I love your videos, your calm tone of voice which enhances your excellent narrative!

  • @luisap.343
    @luisap.343 6 днів тому

    I just started watching your videos and they are a great in helping tourists understand the culture. (And I'm happy because I recognized a restaurant from my town: Lucca!)
    Hope you had a good time. 😊

  • @lucagotto
    @lucagotto Місяць тому +3

    It’s a pleasure for me, as an Italian, to watch your videos. Partly because I might never again see tourists drinking cappuccinos while eating a plate of pasta-just kidding! But mainly because you guide them to enjoy authentic Italian cuisine in the right places, rather than falling into tourist traps where dishes are adapted. You show them how to truly savor food the way we Italians do: slowly and with appreciation

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Grazie mille! Molto apprezzato!

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому

      no, che scherzare? non è che la gente può venire e rovinarci il profumo di uno spaghetto agli scampi perchè loro seduti di fianco devono chiudere con un cacchio di cappuccino, abbia pazienza

  • @sirmioneb9947
    @sirmioneb9947 Місяць тому +28

    Concerning alcohol, it's true that we don't usually get drunk in public, with some exceptions such as weddings, new years eve, the company Christmas dinner... And also younger people tend to drink too much on their nights out.
    Speaking of alcohol, It would be interesting to see a video about the different approach towards it in Italy vs the US. For what I can see, in the US cocktails and beer are deeply linked to the idea of "time off" or "vacation", and at the same time I see a controversial approach towards alcohol consumption (i.e. minimum age for drinking, consumption in open areas). We have none of that - I remember my grandfather letting me drink some countryside red wine diluted with water when I was 7 or 8.

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому +1

      vieni in veneto all'ora dell'happy hour.....🤭

    • @wayankartini2091
      @wayankartini2091 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@artisceniche😂 prosecco e spritz a cascata.

    • @paulodacosta82
      @paulodacosta82 Місяць тому

      Con la nuova legge Salvini ... purtroppo è finita la festa

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      😎😎

    • @fabiofruga5008
      @fabiofruga5008 27 днів тому

      @@paulodacosta82 Meno male che e' finita quella che chiami festa con una marea di itoidi ubriachi al volante.

  • @francescoveronese5128
    @francescoveronese5128 Місяць тому +6

    Great job!!! Even though it's all about pleasure trips, You people of "Our big Italian Adventure" treat the matter in a very professional and trustful way. A big hand clapping to You!!!

  • @andreabartsch
    @andreabartsch Місяць тому +6

    Very much accurate reporting of the Italian eating culture.
    Thank you for your work.

  • @betsymeehan
    @betsymeehan Місяць тому +10

    In Abruzzo, especially around Teramo where my family is from, which is not (yet) a big tourist area… They do made a regional specialty pasta with meatballs, but not like meatballs we expect- they are tiny meatballs called polpettini, less than 1/2” big and are served at home or in very local restaurants and always served on spaghetti alla chitarra (hand rolled spaghetti cut on a chitarra, guitar, a wooden box with strings)
    It is a wonderful, local specialty, but not typical around Italy

  • @1remjr
    @1remjr 5 днів тому

    I am not Italian but I do love Italian culture. With that said I knew about all of your suggestions long ago, since most of them are common sense. The one about spaghetti being served separate from a meat ball is well known since I have visited many excellent Italian restaurants in the US, but rarely order spaghetti. I have found that if you are polite and not obtuse to the local culture you will do just fine. Not just in Italy, but traveling anywhere. Thanks for the video.

  • @gabrielesantucci6189
    @gabrielesantucci6189 Місяць тому +4

    What to add? You explained everything perfectly!!! Very good...bravissimi!!!!👍😉

  • @DoomInSor
    @DoomInSor 6 днів тому

    You are both very sweet! I am a Greek myself, but many tips apply to us as well. I am so happy you enjoy our Mediterranean culture

  • @roadrunner156
    @roadrunner156 Місяць тому +3

    I am impressed! You explained the Do's and Dont's very well. I don't think you missed anything. Cheese on fish is something that drives me nuts. I have to show my wife this video for our next trip to Italy (she is not Italian)

  • @laura_and_shanman
    @laura_and_shanman Місяць тому +2

    I LOVE your channel! Visting Italy in early March - am learning so much from you and love your style!! Thank you!

  • @gilbertofregoso9675
    @gilbertofregoso9675 Місяць тому +28

    in Italian cuisine, pasta is usually considered a "primo piatto" (first course) and is meant to be paired with lighter sauces, while meat like chicken is typically served as a separate "secondo piatto" (main course), often with its own distinct preparation; this means large chunks of chicken in a pasta dish are seen as an unbalanced combination and not a classic Italian approach to cooking.
    Italian food culture prioritizes distinct courses, with pasta as the first course and meat as the second.
    We often prefer pasta sauces made with richer, more flavorful meats like beef or pork that can stand up to the pasta without overpowering it.
    While not common, some regional Italian recipes may incorporate chicken in a pasta sauce, but usually in smaller pieces or as part of a complex ragu.

    • @ridilu
      @ridilu Місяць тому +2

      Mai sentito il pollo nel ragù

    • @laurar.durban3696
      @laurar.durban3696 Місяць тому +7

      @@ridilu - Per quel che ne so, per i ragù si sono sempre usate le parti meno nobili dell'animale, sia di manzo che di maiale; parti grasse, gustose, che tengono bene la cottura. E questo spiegherebbe il perchè non siano mai stati usati nè cosce, nè petti di pollo per condire la pasta. Però il ragù con le rigaglie di pollo è un piatto che appartiene alla nostra tradizione e ancora si usa...

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +2

      Interesting. Thanks for sharing!

    • @andreaco2010
      @andreaco2010 Місяць тому +2

      o il brodo di pollo con la pastina sì

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      👍

  • @julianavarela7658
    @julianavarela7658 13 днів тому

    Thank you very much for this video! Wish you the best!!!

  • @johnparichuk8367
    @johnparichuk8367 24 дні тому +3

    I am a career Navy veteran (22 years). In every port I ever pulled into, I ALWAYS ate the local cuisine. I was never disappointed. But it made me picky about ethnic cuisine in the United States. When I first pulled into Naples. I was astounded by all the places trying to sell me New York style pizza. I eventually ended up at the Naples United Seamen's Service Center (now closed) Where I ate carbonara for the first time. I loved it! Here, in America, a lot of places use half-and-half instead of egg yolk. It's just not the same. Fortunately, I have an Italian friend who owns a restaurant. When he cooks for me, he cooks like he was back in Naples.

  • @andrew-xr1de
    @andrew-xr1de 15 днів тому +2

    My parents came from Calabria and so I'm first generation American. You two hit the nail on the head in all you said. DO NOT EAT AT TOURIST TRAP RESTURANTS!.
    In most cases the food is not the higher quality that you'd find in a Mom& Pop resturant. Picj a spot out of the way and enjoy. Also for those of you who do nno speak Italian, if you try your best to communicate they will bend over backwards tto try and make your eating experience a high light of your trup. BUON APPETITO!

  • @eleonoradini2371
    @eleonoradini2371 Місяць тому +35

    I'm Italian. Speaking of pasta and chicken, it's true that we don't mix chicken meat with beef or pork meat in our ragù, but in some regions (for example in "my" region Marche) sometimes we put in ragù small parts of chicken liver or kidneys or, believe me or not, even chicken testicles. Surely this doesn't happen in everyday meals, but I swear that it's not unusual. I love it!

    • @Campitellio
      @Campitellio Місяць тому +2

      Yes, it’s Vincigrassi.

    • @eleonoradini2371
      @eleonoradini2371 Місяць тому +4

      @Campitellio vedo che sai di cosa parlo😁

    • @giorgiosantonastaso8954
      @giorgiosantonastaso8954 Місяць тому +4

      In Toscana si fa il sugo con le creste (di gallo). Il sugo con carni e parti meno nobili, anche di pollo, penso sia diffuso in molte cucine regionali italiane...

    • @eleonoradini2371
      @eleonoradini2371 Місяць тому

      Esatto. Diciamo che quando faccio il ragù "normale" non metto creste di gallo o fegatini o rognoni, ma in certe occasioni (sempre che riesca a trovarli, non è che sia facile...)danno quel non so che in più ​@@giorgiosantonastaso8954

    • @steggall75
      @steggall75 Місяць тому +2

      However, nothing to do with pasta and chicken served mainly in the US

  • @giuliobernacchia1848
    @giuliobernacchia1848 Місяць тому

    THE BEST video on the subject ever. Simple, to the point, absolutely accurate. Greetings from Italy!

  • @yeshetsogyalling
    @yeshetsogyalling Місяць тому +25

    N.10 is a NO NO NO. Usually they refuse to add cheese on a fish dish because it spoils the taste of the dish and it will translate in a possibly bad reputation for the quality of dishes in that restaurant.
    As for chicken and pasta, it is like spaghetti and meatballs: one is primo and the other is secondo. Don't mix them.

  • @chriskberks5471
    @chriskberks5471 Місяць тому +1

    That’s a wonderfully explained video. 😊😊

  • @robertmacombo8767
    @robertmacombo8767 Місяць тому +9

    Era ora che qualcuno spiegasse certe cose.

  • @carlosagarcia9385
    @carlosagarcia9385 20 днів тому

    I live in Italy...
    I didn't know some of these tips.
    Excellent video...

  • @LuigiRosa
    @LuigiRosa Місяць тому +35

    Italian here.
    About chicken. Chicken meat alone is not very tasty, so it doesn't add taste to pasta, the result would be quite tasteless.
    About pizza. I always joke with my American colleagues that if I order a pizza, is MY pizza 🙂There are very few restaurants that offer pizza to share, but is not common habit because we order the pizza we like. For us pizza is just like any other dish.
    What you have may be missed:
    * doggy bag. The availability of a doggy bag is becoming more common, ask for it. Also pizzerias can give you a pizza box to take a pizza with you.
    * house wine (except in hi-end restaurants). So called "house wine" is often available and is sold by litre, half and quarter. Good if you want some wine but don't want to spend much
    * what to drink with pizza. Even many people drink beer, consider that is fermented beverage with fermented dough. If you want to avoid the sense of being fill like a balloon, try white wine, maybe "house" white wine.
    * "scarpetta" is often a sign of appreciation (except hi-end restaurant, as you said): the waiter will be happy if you return an empty plate
    * as you said, go "local", ask to the waiter, ask what is local

    • @massimo200x
      @massimo200x Місяць тому +3

      Some pizzeria do "giropizza" in particular days, pizza slices dish arrive on table, one After One. Tò be put in the middle of the tablet. every dish that came Is different, in a sort of "all you can eat"

    • @lynnebattaglia-triggs1042
      @lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 Місяць тому

      Back in the 50s, maybe once a year, my mother would add some chicken to the sauce for me, because it tastes delicious.

    • @shirleymancino6809
      @shirleymancino6809 Місяць тому +2

      My Sicilian friend said that restaurants seldom serve chicken at all. She said chicken is only served at home. We were starving for chicken and a few times bought it barbecued at a market or at the prepared food in a supermarket.

    • @steggall75
      @steggall75 Місяць тому +2

      Totally agree on the doggy bag. I always ask for it and everyone settles it with no objection

    • @steggall75
      @steggall75 Місяць тому +1

      @@shirleymancino6809that’s not true. It depends on the restaurant

  • @alessandrastefaniapent2960
    @alessandrastefaniapent2960 18 днів тому

    Very accurate! Good job 🤗

  • @giannispezza
    @giannispezza Місяць тому +22

    I'm Italian, I'm 64 and I've never heard that keeping your hand under the table while eating is considered rude.
    Everyday you learn something new!

    • @rosarrossi
      @rosarrossi Місяць тому +17

      As an italian, I've always known that keeping hands under the table during a meal is definitely impolite!

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому +20

      Le mani SEMPRE in vista e ovviamente NO gomiti sul tavolo

    • @giorgiosantonastaso8954
      @giorgiosantonastaso8954 Місяць тому +10

      @@rosarrossiTo me, more than impolite, seems awkward, uncomfortable, contained...
      Obviously, Galateo states 'no ELBOWS on the table'.😊

    • @robertmacombo8767
      @robertmacombo8767 Місяць тому +6

      Dipende dal tuo livello culturale. It depends on your cultural level.

    • @KathrynMueller-d8x
      @KathrynMueller-d8x Місяць тому +10

      Hands in sight also in France

  • @DariaAmato-wz2xg
    @DariaAmato-wz2xg Місяць тому +6

    Using a spoon to twirl spaghetti with a spoon can be regional or family based. My Italian born/raised great grandparents insisted using a spoon. I mastered this by 3yrs old. Spaghetti with meatballs can be found in some regions, but the meatballs are very small. Meat is usually served separately from pasta which includes chicken

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks...there are so many regional dishes...it's hard to keep track!

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому

      spghetti never heard. in south they do pasta with meatballs but they are not tiny, and the pasta is short, meatballs are usually eaten as secondo and the polpette sauce used to dress the pasta

  • @oraziocioffi9432
    @oraziocioffi9432 20 днів тому

    I always enjoy your videos, and I watch them regularly to get the cultural differences between Italy and US (the one about the hands on the table is amusing).
    About pasta and chicken: in the cooking art, they are both considered "Excipients", meaning they don't have much taste of their own, but they can boost the taste of what you put in the dish with them. In the italian cooking tradition, though, the chicken innards are largely used as ingredients for sauces

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  19 днів тому

      Good information! Thanks for sharing it. I didn’t know there was a culinary term for it.

  • @s.d.d.6063
    @s.d.d.6063 Місяць тому +6

    I’m Italian and as I have already commented under another video of yours you’re very accurate. I would just like to add a couple of curiosities …
    1. That’s very true: you won’t ever find spaghetti and meatballs on any decent restaurant’s menu … but my grandmother used to cook the best ever made meatballs fried and then cooked again with tomato sauce. We ate them with our spaghetti and it was delicious (Sicilian recipe). So spaghetti and meatballs are actually a very niche regional specialty… but only in house cooking never in a restaurant. On the other hand Pineapple Pizza is indeed an American creation and I would never ever consider asking for it in Italy 😂.
    2. Helping yourself with a spoon for your spaghetti is indeed unpopular… but that’s acceptable. What’s really unacceptable is murdering your spaghetti with a knife if you can’t just us your fork. So my advice is: if you aren’t used to just use your fork help yourself with a spoon. That’s ok and locals won’t blame you for that but they indeed will if you’re using your knife 😅

    • @junewilliams4752
      @junewilliams4752 Місяць тому

      Why is cutting spaghetti noodles such a terrible thing? No one ever says why.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      I think because the small pieces of long pasta are harder to eat.

    • @tanikokishimoto1604
      @tanikokishimoto1604 Місяць тому

      Pineapple on Pizza is a Canadian creation. Please don't blame America for that!

    • @tanikokishimoto1604
      @tanikokishimoto1604 Місяць тому

      ​@@OurBigItalianAdventureHow are small pieces of pasta harder to eat?

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому

      @@junewilliams4752 because you destroy the structure of the pasta

  • @Ray_of_Light62
    @Ray_of_Light62 Місяць тому +21

    "Hands always on the table" is burned into italian kids' mind, both at home and in the primary school. You can recognize a table of Italian diners by this detail alone...

    • @jimdellavecchia4594
      @jimdellavecchia4594 Місяць тому +1

      That's so everyone knows you aren't hiding a piece!

    • @freddyfinance6671
      @freddyfinance6671 Місяць тому +1

      @@jimdellavecchia4594 we ain’t talking about the Lower East Side Jimbo.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      👍

    • @olivierdastein2604
      @olivierdastein2604 Місяць тому +2

      Isn't that "European" rather than "Italian" custom? You certainly don't leave your hands under the table in France either, at least.

    • @susisanna8591
      @susisanna8591 Місяць тому

      ​@@olivierdastein2604In Europe only britains take their hands under the table..

  • @TMD3453
    @TMD3453 24 дні тому

    Very nice balanced presentation. Now I know really how to eat spaghetti! Cheers thanks

  • @VincenzoDiMattia-yj4or
    @VincenzoDiMattia-yj4or Місяць тому +9

    And, least but not last, remember that meanwhile Italians are enjoying their lunch or dinner, they talk about the next meai❗😂😂😂🥂🍾 Have a nice New Year to everybody. From Italy with love❗🇮🇹🇺🇸

  • @GigiRapp-c4c
    @GigiRapp-c4c 17 днів тому

    Complimenti!! Siete veramente bravi, i vostri consigli sono equilibrati ed esaustivi. Per dare consigli cosi veri dovete essere una coppia molto intelligente. Grazie

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  17 днів тому

      Grazie! Molto apprezzato.

    • @GigiRapp-c4c
      @GigiRapp-c4c 17 днів тому

      @@OurBigItalianAdventure
      Mi sono iscritto al Vostro canale perche siete veramente eccezionali. ho una visione degli States un poco particolare e voi ( forse giudico male) siete diversi.
      Sicuri di essere Americani? 😁😁

  • @grandulasperty1812
    @grandulasperty1812 Місяць тому +8

    Most habits are related to local availability and price.
    My late father remembered the first time he had chicken in his life, when he had lunch at a family's (rich) friend's.
    All types of meat were luxury, except for entrails (which now, in a typical historical 180°, are the new luxury - my parents ate a lot of liver because it was dirt cheap, in addition to liking it (I hate it)).
    Also: don't be self-aware about twirling long pasta... Italians in the south are known to use a spoon to help, and to use a spoon to eat risotto: regrettable, but not a crime.
    Also: you really do not (have to) use the plate's side (normal dishes here do not have sides!), you just have to practice as everything else.
    Hands below the table is really rude, elbows on the table are incredibly boorish, scarpetta is done at home, acceptable in informal settings, but otherwise regarded as non-polite (a tad less than impolite or outright rude)
    Some comments below link to some Galateo refs fyi
    Final note: food and dinner table manners are very touchy topics for some people, but most people will accommodate you without major worries or judgement (otherwise: just drop them, most Italians are really laid back)

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      That is true...we have found Italians to be very tolerant of us tourists.

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому

      the spoon to eat risotto is a crime, one of the best way to do a crappy figure. first of all risotto sholnd' t be ordered in the south since is not a traditioal dish and many times they don't know how to cook it, wehenever happened that i order a risotto because they recommend me it and the give me the spoon for eating it i stand up and go away ( and tear them to pieces on tripadvisor and google)

  • @mrkretek
    @mrkretek 18 днів тому

    Very informative! Thank you!

  • @orsotorinese
    @orsotorinese Місяць тому +10

    In Italy being drunk showily in public is punished by art. 688 of the Penal Code, now with a fine (from 51 to 309 euros), but until 1999 was considered a criminal offence punished up to six months in jail!

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Good information! Thanks for sharing it.

    • @OKuusava
      @OKuusava Місяць тому

      Even kissing in public was police affair in older days. Just seen that in movie from 50s.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Good information! Thanks for sharing it.

  • @Seralynnlewis
    @Seralynnlewis 24 дні тому

    You covered everything quite well. Thanks for the video!

  • @qwertyasdf2838
    @qwertyasdf2838 Місяць тому +4

    About cheese on seafood dishes, true, we do not put it , but if you like to do it feel free to ask for cheese because anyhow you as a customer must be treated as better as possible and have your request fullfilled.May be someone will make you notice that is not customary in Italy, may be joking also a little bit about it but he will not refuse to give you the cheese.

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому

      if it's a place where locals go the owner of the restaurant has all the interests to not disgust the usual customers

  • @felcofb4750
    @felcofb4750 Місяць тому

    Bravissimi.
    Best advice, valid for every trip outside your own country, is to enjoy local culture respecting it and trying to understand it. It is clear you did it that way when you spent your days in Italia. Important to remember: Italians are happy to help every tourist, and we love US citizens especially the ones respectful and ready to know local culture. So take it easy, if you are in Italia just play like if you are in Italia and not in USA and everything will be fUntastic!

  • @mediolanumhibernicus3353
    @mediolanumhibernicus3353 Місяць тому +4

    It is absolutely appropriate to ask the pizzaiolo to use the cutting wheel and divide up the pizza

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Good information! Thanks for sharing it.

    • @francescodiciaula3774
      @francescodiciaula3774 Місяць тому

      @@OurBigItalianAdventure however it is a real italian ritual to cut your own pizza and eat it with the hands!

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      @francescodiciaula3774 I’ve only seen that in Naples. Is it done elsewhere?

    • @francescodiciaula3774
      @francescodiciaula3774 29 днів тому

      @@OurBigItalianAdventure At the origins Pizza was a street food, to eat only with the hands, standing.. When the pizzerie with tables were established, remained the use of eating pizza with the hands, cutting it directly with fork and knife. Today many italians don´t do it anymore but mostly in the south this "ritual" is still living.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  29 днів тому

      Interesting! Thanks for sharing.

  • @TheKellyGang
    @TheKellyGang Місяць тому

    I love you guys. This is perfetto 😂 cheers from Italy.

  • @Michelle-ro6qu
    @Michelle-ro6qu Місяць тому +12

    Fettuccini Alfredou with cream chicken eccetera are American, but fettuccine all'Alfredo onliy with pecorino chease, butter and a tiny bit of pasta water are from Roma. (fettuccinE not fettuccini)
    Ragù alla bolognese never goes with spaghetti, so the famous spagbol are American

    • @billkelly8222
      @billkelly8222 Місяць тому +1

      I believe it is the Brits, rather than the Americans, that use the term "spagbol".

    • @bobbyvialli
      @bobbyvialli Місяць тому +1

      la famosa pasta al burro alfredo...

    • @Michelle-ro6qu
      @Michelle-ro6qu Місяць тому

      @bobbyvialli esatto 👍🏻

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Yes. Not Americans.

    • @carollund8251
      @carollund8251 Місяць тому

      I'm American, never heard of spagbol.

  • @lauramorales5913
    @lauramorales5913 27 днів тому

    Muchas gracias por tantos consejos, me preparan para mi viaje familiar, saludos desde Mx.

  • @sueczerniak1266
    @sueczerniak1266 Місяць тому +9

    Chicken on pizza is a no no, wherever you are!

    • @bonuebonue
      @bonuebonue Місяць тому

      Well, I have eaten very tasty pizza frango (chicken)& catupiri (a kind of fresh creamy cheese) in Brasil. Their pizza is of course much heavier and different than our italian pizza, but is tasty!

    • @leonardobroseghini
      @leonardobroseghini Місяць тому

      And I dance samba using valzer music

  • @will76888
    @will76888 24 дні тому

    Thanks for the valuable information!

  • @M.C.K.111
    @M.C.K.111 Місяць тому +3

    In the North you can hv dinner at 7 pm

    • @paoloporra1822
      @paoloporra1822 Місяць тому

      You can eat everywhere in Italy at your US time. Many "for tourists" restaurants prepare the dinner at 6:00 pm but normally they have very few italian customers.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Yes. Before 7:30-8:00, no Italians.

    • @M.C.K.111
      @M.C.K.111 29 днів тому

      @@OurBigItalianAdventure in the South no Italians before 9pm... Where I live, North East, I often have dinner before 7pm

  • @nkw3157
    @nkw3157 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks, great advice as always

  • @DavesIneosGrenadier
    @DavesIneosGrenadier Місяць тому +7

    If you are an American Tourist in Italy, or anywhere else really, speak at half the volume you normally do. The only people who need to hear what you say is the person at the same table or the waiter standing next to it. Not the people in the restaurant next door.

  • @Real_g.s.
    @Real_g.s. 23 дні тому

    I'll probably never get to Italy, but this was really interesting! Thanks!

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  23 дні тому

      Thanks! We appreciate it. You should really try to make at least one visit. If you like good food, you can go most anywhere, but Bologna is considered by many the food capital of Italy, and it’s not over-touristy.

  • @cinziacioni8891
    @cinziacioni8891 Місяць тому +12

    Una cosa che anche gli italiani spesso non sanno, si può ordinare anche solo un bicchiere di buon vino che dovrebbe essere servito in un bicchiere detto "calice" . Il calice deve essere tenuto appoggiando la mano sullo stelo così non si scalda il vino e si può vedere meglio il suo colore e la sua trasparenza . Solo alcuni rari casi di vini rossi fermi si tengono per la coppa e allora si dice che vengono "umanizzati". Consiglio a chi resta in Italia per un po' di tempo di fare un corso di pre-sommelier, sono molto divertenti e vi si possono degustare tanti ottimi vini.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  28 днів тому

      Grazie per l’informazione utile. Sfortunatamente, ho scoperto che non ho il naso né il gusto per descrivere i vini. Una volta, a un vigneto in Umbria, abbiamo incontrato un uomo che poteva descrivere ogni vino, non in un metodo presuntuoso ma solo basato sui fatti. Gli ho chiesto come ha imparato fare questo. Mi ha detto, semplicemente, che la abilità è stata naturale, dai genitori. Non è stata la risposta che volessi!

    • @cinziacioni8891
      @cinziacioni8891 28 днів тому

      Infatti ho scritto che i corsi sui vini sono divertenti perché, tra le altre cose, poi si può anche fare la caricatura del sommelier snob che tiene la lezione.
      E nella remota eventualità di andare al ristorante di uno chef stellato, quando arriva il sommelier il divertimento di usare dei termini tecnici che non si aspetta, soprattutto da parte delle donne.
      Quando i miei nonni si facevano il loro vino pigiando l'uva con i piedi nel tino, non potevano immaginare quanto i produttori sarebbero stati capaci di sviluppare una "scienza" del vino.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  28 днів тому

      Hai ragione. Mi sembra un’attività interessante, dí assaggiare i vini, imparare la terminologia, e vedere lo spettacolo degli esperti.
      In luglio, abbiamo visitato 7 vigneti in Umbria. È stato piacevole.

  • @banmadabon
    @banmadabon Місяць тому

    Excellent video as always. If I may add a tip to your spaghetti twisting tecnique I suggest to gauge the right amount before twisting by picking and lifting the right amount, in this way you'll be able to disentagle the spaghetti you want to twist with precision. Ciao from Bologna

  • @riccardoscalisi8942
    @riccardoscalisi8942 Місяць тому +9

    As an italian I honestly don't know why we don't eat pasta with chicken. Maybe just because the chicken meat has a bland taste that will not exhalt the dish. If I think of pasta with chicken it sounds like an hospital dish to me. We have a regional dish in my region (Piemonte) called tajerin alla langarola and the sauce is made with sausage and chicken liver, but the liver is very tasty. Anyway in general is not so frequent to find chicken in our restaurant menus as a "secondo" too, we prefere other and tastier meats and we don't usually eat fried chicken like americans often do.

    • @Bibkamilion
      @Bibkamilion Місяць тому +1

      Concordo. Anche io Piemonte. Il pollo sa di nulla, è un "piatto d'emergenza " oppure per bambini o qualche mensa Perché proporlo allora nei ristoranti se ci sono non decine, ma centinaia di pietanze favolose?

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Questo ha senso, ma mi chiedo perché nei regioni poveri non ci siano i primi con pollo, dato che pollo è meno costoso, generalmente. Almeno per una festa.

    • @gobbidimerda1
      @gobbidimerda1 Місяць тому +1

      @@OurBigItalianAdventure Perchè ci sono tantissimi altri piatti poco costosi ma molto buoni, ogni regione in Italia ha deliziosi piatti poveri tradizionali. E comunque il pollo è poco costoso se compri al supermercato quello degli allevamenti intensivi, ma non sa di niente.

    • @tarvisponsdebeaumont794
      @tarvisponsdebeaumont794 Місяць тому

      @@gobbidimerda1 In piu', in passato, prima degli allevamenti, le galline si mangiavano quando smettevano di fare uova, per il brodo, e la carne non era il massimo neanche allora.

    • @Reba-123
      @Reba-123 29 днів тому

      Well my Italian mum did pasta meals with chicken …

  • @McGhinch
    @McGhinch 26 днів тому +1

    These tips are valid for a very large chunk of Europe.

  • @farzinomidvar2124
    @farzinomidvar2124 Місяць тому +3

    You forgot to say that american nirmaly order cappuccino for lunch and dinner instead of cappuccino is created by italian only for breakfast

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +1

      Good point...I think we mentioned this in another video but forgot for this one.

  • @TAG993
    @TAG993 Місяць тому

    Great suggestions on do’s and don’t. Happy New Years!

  • @dorismeusburger
    @dorismeusburger Місяць тому +8

    Maybe you missed the habit of not ordering Cappuccino after 12

    • @eleonoradini2371
      @eleonoradini2371 Місяць тому

      Never!

    • @riccardoscalisi8942
      @riccardoscalisi8942 Місяць тому +6

      It isn't actually true. We just would never order it at the end of a meal.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  28 днів тому

      We talked about cappuccino in an earlier video, so we left it out here due to time constraints.

  • @nicolabonato9027
    @nicolabonato9027 Місяць тому +1

    Very accurate👍🏻
    Cheers from Vicenza 🎉

  • @giovannellafalchetti703
    @giovannellafalchetti703 Місяць тому

    You are really good with your explanations!!! I only know two pasta dishes with birds: tagliatelle with duck ragou and duck bigoli. They are two very different recipes, but both use duck which has a more "red" meat than chicken

  • @xfactor4205
    @xfactor4205 25 днів тому

    GREAT VIDEO!!!! THANK YOU!

  • @pawelgabrysiewicz646
    @pawelgabrysiewicz646 11 днів тому +1

    Is there olive oil served with the bread? Do Italians sprinkle the olive oil on the bread, or dip the bread in olive oil poured on a plate? Thank you for the very informative video!!

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  10 днів тому +1

      No. That’s not done. It’s an American thing. Check out our video about ordering food. We talk about it there.
      Thanks for the comment!

    • @pawelgabrysiewicz646
      @pawelgabrysiewicz646 10 днів тому

      @ Thank you! I just watched it! 😍 I asked mostly because of the „Godfather” scene in Sicily, where the two mob bosses, one local and one from US visiting eat bread with olive oil, and one Italian friend whom I met in Czech did that too. 😊

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  8 днів тому +1

      Now, it could be a Sicilian thing. I don’t recall seeing it there or other places, but my Sicily sample size is small. My guess is that it was popularized by Macaroni Grill in the 90s.

  • @ALessandrone
    @ALessandrone Місяць тому +1

    Italian here. Feel free to roll up your spaghetti with a spoon! My (Italian) father taught me to, and there's no problem with that outside of some hardcore traditional areas(naples, Rome). As you said, it's your trip, enjoy it.

  • @bonnieoliver219
    @bonnieoliver219 Місяць тому +2

    Great advice. I retired to Calabria, from the US, seven years ago. I laughed about your comment regarding the formaggio on a seafood dish. Talk about receiving a quizzical l’ok from the server! I had prima, pasta with vongole, but requested formaggio. once the dishes we served. The server looked at me, rolling her eyes, not knowing I intended to add it to my contorno. It was insalata which we in the US, frequently add a hint of formaggio. I recognized her sense of distain and just enjoyed the moment.

  • @Tulummj
    @Tulummj 29 днів тому +2

    Pollo alla cacciatora was regularly served in our Calabrian home, but I never saw meat placed on top of pasta as served in American restaurants. Also all pasta was served in bowls- not flat plates. It’s much easier to use the sides of a bowl to assist in twirling pasta
    strands. A bowl is just much more convenient for holding sauce.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  28 днів тому

      That’s interesting! And I agree about the bowls. Thanks!

    • @freddyfinance6671
      @freddyfinance6671 17 днів тому

      @@Tulummj unless you are eating large ravioli or agnolotti, in which case a flat plate makes more sense since it’s easier to cut them in half with the side of your fork because you can avoid stacking them as would naturally occur in a bowl.

  • @Hdawg3000
    @Hdawg3000 27 днів тому

    Great useful information, well presented.

  • @rosseonde
    @rosseonde 16 днів тому

    Si vede che oltre a viaggiare siete informati sulla cultura italiana e non solo culinaria.
    Siete dei turisti a 360 gradi e questo vi fa onore e rispetto .... e un pò di invidia 😂😂😂

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  16 днів тому

      Grazie! Molto apprezzato. Ci piace imparare le tradizioni e abitudini degli italiani.

  • @Ravensitalia
    @Ravensitalia Місяць тому

    I love you. You know a lot of kind of our culture or habits and is a pleasure for me listen by you. A great huge frome Milan, my hometown even i live in Rome. Fedeico

  • @paulash134
    @paulash134 22 дні тому

    Perfect explanation of Italian custom when eating out. The chicken on pizza is not done in Italy, I believe it’s not considered a food that would be compatible with pizza, in Italian familial culture Nonas have kept this rule in place for many years, they have quite strong views about toppings for pizza.

  • @itsmetaran
    @itsmetaran Місяць тому +1

    Great info. Thanks.

  • @frazia85
    @frazia85 Місяць тому

    I really like your videos!🎉

  • @stefanopicceni8738
    @stefanopicceni8738 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks, as always, for your suggestions. Use the spoon to roll up spaghetti it's the worst thing anyone could do! We hate when italo-american do that in the movies (Moonstruck, Sleepers, Brooklyn) as if it were normal 😅

    • @TezcaVV
      @TezcaVV Місяць тому

      Out of every point brought in this video (it amazes me how accurate they are) the fork and spoon Is the least important
      Italians don't use spoons that way but It you feel comfortable or it's easier just go for it, any decent person won't mind

    • @giorgiobozzao1155
      @giorgiobozzao1155 Місяць тому

      The real shock to me was an American young boy eating a steak by hands...no fork and knife...a young graduate monkey manager. Generally speaking, do what you like buy please, use fork knife and spoon

  • @sharonsalzberg2654
    @sharonsalzberg2654 Місяць тому +2

    I order all of my soft drinks without ice here so I will feel right at home when I return to Rome in March.

  • @johnupdate
    @johnupdate Місяць тому +1

    In Italy, people usually don’t order cappuccino after 12 p.m., as it’s considered a breakfast drink. Milk is seen as heavy to digest after meals, and instead, an espresso is preferred in the afternoon or evening to round off a meal.

  • @ArtesetLinguæ
    @ArtesetLinguæ 10 днів тому

    Hello Anne and Ed. Thanks for the video.
    The reason Italians do not have chicken with pasta is the same reason they do have pasta with meatballs. Meats and fish are considered a secondo, while pasta and rice are a primo piatto, with the exception of spaghetti con frutti di mare (with shellfish) which basically combines a primo with secondo, with the basic purpose of making a sauce from it. Also, two products Italians are less prone to eat/drink, compared to Americans, are chicken and milk. It is more probable that chicken is purchased at a girarrosto (place that sells pollo, patate, porchetta) instead of restaurants, especially in regions such as Abruzzi and Lazio. The two big secondo in Italy are chiefly carne (red meat) and pesce. Even veal is not common and regretfully different as it tends more to be red meat instead of white meat. Thanks and cheerios.

  • @fabiofruga5008
    @fabiofruga5008 27 днів тому

    Davvero bravi, tutto assolutamente perfetto, si vede che siete rimasti a lungo in Italia.

  • @NinaSimone24U
    @NinaSimone24U Місяць тому +2

    Indeed on the Spaghetti...😊 had for dinner last eve after the Vatican 🇻🇦

  • @peteaulit
    @peteaulit Місяць тому +1

    Europe in general and Italy in particular has local/regional cultures and traditions so yes, when in Rome do as the Romans but when in Venice do as the Venetians.

  • @MrFrgtme
    @MrFrgtme 27 днів тому

    Haha siete molto preparati !! bravi!

  • @iacop1548
    @iacop1548 Місяць тому

    It is really easy: you are great.

  • @konstantinchatzis8252
    @konstantinchatzis8252 29 днів тому

    Good job👌😊

  • @stevegrund7458
    @stevegrund7458 23 дні тому

    I agree wholeheartedly in your comment about the French countryside. In fact, we were treated very well while we were in France, even Paris, except at places where the employees had to deal frequently with rude tourists from especially a few countries which I will keep unnamed. I expect that is very similar in most large cities around the world. Wherever you go, you will find most people to be good people. The bad people seem more numerous than they really are because they draw attention. Be careful, but give people as much trust as you can reasonably give to someone you don't know, and you will find it to be returned with interest. Yes, interest, because people are interested in people from other parts of the world.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  23 дні тому

      Yes, well put. Good behavior is generally repaid with kindness, and that’s true nearly everywhere. Thanks for the comment!

  • @cdub4693
    @cdub4693 Місяць тому

    Great video you two!

  • @cristinapalma8227
    @cristinapalma8227 Місяць тому

    Very accurate and well explained. 👍 Just two things: I've noticed a slice of bread in the same plate of pasta, which is a no-no in Italy. Despite not really an healthy choice, the bread may be still eaten, but never together with pasta. Only after. Also, I must confess that, although I'm Italian, I wasn't aware of the costume of having the hands on the table instead of on the womb. I usually put my hands wherever I feel comfortable. 😅

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Thanks!
      Interesting about the bread. What if I’ve used the bread to push the food. Do I still put it back on the table?

    • @cristinapalma8227
      @cristinapalma8227 Місяць тому +1

      @OurBigItalianAdventure I'm sorry, what do you mean by "push the food"? Anyway, beside the pasta, you can use the bread to push the food in the plate and leave it in the same plate. The only no-no is eating pasta and bread at the same time. But, again, it's a personal choice and none is going to die. 😊

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      👍

    • @wilsonmicallo
      @wilsonmicallo Місяць тому +2

      @@OurBigItalianAdventure
      Usually you eat it the moment you don't need it for that any more, you'll take another little piece later if you'll need it again
      It is also common to use the knife instead (except in more formal dinner, where you're not suppose to use anything but the fork to eat your pasta, afaik)

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +1

      Makes sense. Thanks.

  • @leom3573
    @leom3573 Місяць тому +2

    Non ho letto tutti i commenti, probabilmente è stato già puntualizzato ma effettivamente è possibile aggiungere la mancia al conto da pagare con la carta di credito, anche se non c’è una sezione dedicata basta chiedere di aggiungere la cifra desiderata per la mancia al conto totale. Soprattutto se non si aspetta che portino il conto al tavolo. Si può andare alla cassa del ristorante e prima ancora dell’emissione dello scontrino chiedere di aggiungere ad esempio 5 euro che risulterà come conto totale. Vi faccio i miei complimenti per lo studio e l’attenzione dedicata alla nostra cultura culinaria che come sapete per noi è molto importante! Bravissimi.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому +1

      Ti ringraziamo per il complimento.
      Sì, ci sono stati altri commenti sulla possibilità di aggiungere la mancia. Non lo sapevamo.
      Preferiamo lasciare la mancia in contanti. Almeno in qualche ristorante è possibile che il cameriere non riceva la mancia sulla carta.

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому

      altra Cosa. mai MAI dare la carta al cameriere, MAI

    • @leom3573
      @leom3573 Місяць тому

      @@artisceniche vabbè dipende molto dal tipo di ristorante, nei ristoranti pettinati, non ho mai avuto problemi.

    • @artisceniche
      @artisceniche Місяць тому

      @@leom3573 no. Veramente. se poi clonano la carta o si perde? Per la carità

  • @stefanostefani7519
    @stefanostefani7519 16 днів тому

    I actually use a spoon with spaghetti all the time. Maybe it's more common in the south, I don't know, but at home we've always used it. Sometimes, I even ask for one at the restaurant (expecially when the sauce is red and my shirt is white 😀) and that's no big deal. Nothing to be ashamed of 🙂

  • @jrthiker9908
    @jrthiker9908 Місяць тому

    Like you, we live half the year in Abruzzo, half in the US, and we have dual US/Italian citizenships. You did an excellent and very respectful presentation of the Italian dining etiquette. We have friends visiting from the US all the time and many have difficulties adjusting to the Italian eating schedule and style when they first arrive. When they do finally switch and give in, they end up having a wonderful time and greater appreciation for Italian culture and food/wine. Several comments on your comments....spaghetti and meatballs is definitely a US thing, but it does exist in Abruzzo in the pasta alla chitarra con le pallottine or tiny meatballs the size of your pinky fingernail. The meatballs are dense and flavorful. They are cooked in the sauce and served with the pasta but because they are tiny they don't overwhelm or take over the dish. I think in Italian American cuisine, the larger fluffier Pugliese/Napolitano meat balls from those immigrant families got melded with the Abruzzese style and were served together as the primo/secondo tradition disappeared in US Italian households. Also, in general, you don't find parmigiano with seafood, but along the Adriatic coast you will find pecorino with certain shellfish like mussels. And in Sicilia/Napoli you will find soft fresh cheese like ricotta with anchovies and smoked tuna or salmon, usually in antipasti. It's becoming very trendy now in Abruzzo/southern Le Marche coastal towns to have a bowl of pan sauteed mussels served with a big dusting of sharp salty finely grated pecorino, with or without pasta underneath. It's a fabulous combo of flavors. Especially in the restaurants doing business worker/truck driver lunches, where the food is excellent, cheap, and you can get a 2-3 course sit down meal with 1/4 liter wine/bread/water and no tax/tip for 8-15E complete. Those office workers and truck drivers are VERY picky about their food, and we've eaten in them from Puglia up to Friuli/Venezia! And finally, for what it's worth, the same cultural confusion sometimes happens when Italian tourists from the north come to Abruzzo and try to eat arrosticini like corn on the cob or go to Napoli and eat pizza with knife and fork.

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Good information! Thanks for sharing it. I love “arrosticini like corn on the cob.” I might pay to see that. Or to film it for a video. 😉

    • @jrthiker9908
      @jrthiker9908 Місяць тому

      @@OurBigItalianAdventure HAHA! Yeah, sometimes I see them trying to eat it with pinkies out, nibbling the little cubes of lamb off the skewer. But a worse crime is pulling the lamb off the skewer onto a plate with a fork or knife, sort of at the same level as cutting your spaghetti LOL. Abruzzo, and specifically Teramo province where we are, has traditionally been the summer/winter playground of Milano and Bologna families, many have summer/winter homes here, so a lot of northerners come, as well as Germans. Very few Americans, we can go 2 months without hearing a word of English at the beaches. We've not gotten a lot of Romans, which is odd because they are only a hop and skip across the Apennine on A24. But during and after the pandemic and lot of Romans discovered the great hiking, beaches, and food/wine of Abruzzo and started coming over. We're sort of the new Puglia/Toscana as those regions became too popular and expensive, ex-pats and Italians are starting to discover Abruzzo. And the international wine community voted it Italian wine region of the year in the big San Fran convention in 2023. The new young vintners taking over their family's estates are doing spectacular things raising the quality and they are sticking with the traditional local varietals, which is great.

    • @tarvisponsdebeaumont794
      @tarvisponsdebeaumont794 Місяць тому

      In France is exactly the same as per lorry drivers and office workers restaurants. They are excellent and economic even in the middle of nowhere.

    • @jrthiker9908
      @jrthiker9908 Місяць тому +1

      @@tarvisponsdebeaumont794 Exactly! It's like that in Italy, also....usually in back streets, factory areas, industrial zones with warehouses, or working neighborhoods in the big cities where tourists won't go. There are even several a block away from Piazza Navona in Rome where you can eat better for a fraction of the price the tourists are getting charged in the piazza LOL. If they only knew!

    • @OurBigItalianAdventure
      @OurBigItalianAdventure  Місяць тому

      Marche is similar in many ways.

  • @st.charlesstreet9876
    @st.charlesstreet9876 Місяць тому

    I have enjoyed your informational post very much.❤ But you made me hungry!🥲

  • @lornova79
    @lornova79 Місяць тому

    Very accurate, as usual