Wendy Gilker - Raising Bree

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  • @MattFrost224
    @MattFrost224 8 років тому +1097

    What a sweet lady! It's people like her who deserve praise and recognition, unlike half of our "celebrities" who basically do nothing.

    • @vatcalentine9378
      @vatcalentine9378 8 років тому +4

      Matt Frost Kylie jenner...

    • @MattFrost224
      @MattFrost224 8 років тому +1

      Aly Segura Eugh...

    • @bevdavis5271
      @bevdavis5271 8 років тому

      Matt Frost g

    • @theickychimera-ds2te
      @theickychimera-ds2te 8 років тому +9

      Matt Frost we need more people like her

    • @krystalwilliams1554
      @krystalwilliams1554 8 років тому +4

      Matt Frost celebrates are praised because they give us music, movies, books etc, this woman is a great mother, but no who's going to turn up to her talking about her disabled child

  • @aujechu1411
    @aujechu1411 8 років тому +1480

    this woman literally gave up her entire life to devote herself to her daughter and that's what makes her so amazing. she loves her daughter soooo much and knows all and everything about her. She has given up any social life, all finances, all of her time, her aspirations etc. as a mother without a child with this condition it's easy to say I don't think I could do it but deep down I know if I had to I would for my child no questions asked. 36 years is a long time to have to care for your child in the way most parents only have to do for a year or so takes ALOT OF strength. she's an amazing mother for sure.

    • @ameliebecker23
      @ameliebecker23 7 років тому +4

      Auje Chu

    • @thenewkephrii4150
      @thenewkephrii4150 7 років тому +4

      Auje Chu yeah that is true

    • @brookeochsner5644
      @brookeochsner5644 7 років тому +7

      Auje Chu I love this comment so much you know there aren’t a whole lot of people who realize this so thank you for this

    • @dtaphantom1754
      @dtaphantom1754 7 років тому

      Auje Chu damiyah ❤️💕💖

    • @daybabe56
      @daybabe56 7 років тому +8

      You dont stop taking care of your child after a year, Parents take care of their children until they're at least 18(if they don't have any special needs like this one), and then their job is done. But even after they turn 18 they will still take care of their child if they need it no matter what

  • @erinlippitt8545
    @erinlippitt8545 8 років тому +1746

    it just makes me so happy that she puts in so much time and effort to take care of Bree. This lady is amazing, bless her.

    • @HeartLily
      @HeartLily 8 років тому +19

      Erin Lippitt I know right? it's sad how rare it is to see someone so selfless and caring

    • @angiefeingold2453
      @angiefeingold2453 8 років тому +13

      Harley Steele - it isn't rare at all. I've been an RN for over 25 yrs and my husband is a Paramedic. Not only do MANY families take care of disabled family members for years (often a second generation taking over) - but foster parents adopt moderately to severely handicapped children, as in more than once. They are truly incredible people to meet and work with.

    • @drowningin
      @drowningin 8 років тому +2

      +Angie Feingold kids ending up on street for as little as autism isn't uncommon either though

    • @HeartLily
      @HeartLily 8 років тому +7

      Angie Feingold Sorry I wasn't saying it was rare in general I was saying it's rare to see. I don't think carers get enough credit or recognition. People often overlook it.

    • @beckyd6524
      @beckyd6524 8 років тому +7

      autism can be extremely severe though its a huge spectrum

  • @tarynisfantabulous
    @tarynisfantabulous 7 років тому +129

    Wow, this lady has so much love towards her daughter. I have no idea what this would be like, and I have no idea if I could deal with it like she does. Props to her

    • @angmoulton8528
      @angmoulton8528 2 роки тому +1

      I don't think I could, I love my daughter's very much but I even have a hard time taking care of myself at times, like just ensuring I eat, what a blessing for Bree to have you as her mama! I hope life is being good to you and I'm sorry for the loss of your baby girl, I know she's smiling down at you and so proud of everything you have done and continue to do

    • @angmoulton8528
      @angmoulton8528 2 роки тому

      Oh wow new London new Hampshire I'm in Claremont!!!

  • @rilansmith5914
    @rilansmith5914 8 років тому +1769

    I had a Mom like you, who until her last days at 91 years of age only thought of others' well-being...the world darkened just a bit the moment she died, and watching you just now felt like the sun coming from behind a cloud. You are a light in this hard dark world.

    • @breebreecakes6189
      @breebreecakes6189 8 років тому +26

      rilan smith omg that made me cry

    • @isabellaragoonanan2449
      @isabellaragoonanan2449 8 років тому +5

      in tears..:(

    • @ayakhaled3581
      @ayakhaled3581 8 років тому +16

      I love this comment so much *in tears* ❤
      may god bless her soul 😢

    • @oliviareed7791
      @oliviareed7791 8 років тому +12

      rilan smith god bless this made me cry

    • @Daisy-lk9ej
      @Daisy-lk9ej 8 років тому +11

      rilan smith I'm very sorry she shall be with you in your heart bless her❤️

  • @sarakyoutube
    @sarakyoutube 8 років тому +2471

    Believe me when I say this, you are an angel, i know words are just words but you are that little girls savior.

    • @sarakyoutube
      @sarakyoutube 8 років тому +51

      This is what your inspiration should look like. This woman is everything

    • @janettjcki
      @janettjcki 8 років тому +2

      True! ❤

    • @nekosludge9502
      @nekosludge9502 8 років тому +10

      Sara K this girl is an adult i believe

    • @andybee1381
      @andybee1381 8 років тому +28

      Pencil Sketch Yes. Her mom says that she was born in 1980, so she should be 36 years old.

    • @helmialeksandra
      @helmialeksandra 8 років тому +5

      Sara K I love your channel :)

  • @sergioaguero2067
    @sergioaguero2067 8 років тому +293

    Who disliked this!? Such an amazing women. My prayers go out to you and Bree 💙

    • @d33znutz9
      @d33znutz9 8 років тому +8

      The dislikes might be people who feel terrible for this 2 pretty woman

    • @loyal_dogs
      @loyal_dogs 8 років тому +9

      I think you're right. Because I disliked this at first since I really felt sorry for the mum that she lived like this for so long and for Bree that she is ill like that (if I was in that condition and had the choice, I honsetly would prefer to die). But then I turned my dislike into a like because of the inspirating spirit of that mum and her positive energie.

    • @eagleye44
      @eagleye44 8 років тому +4

      Too bad your "God" will not hear them

    • @fallonavery7734
      @fallonavery7734 8 років тому +6

      Harrison Jones Why do people always bring that into the comment section. Just stop it's like you WANT to start and argument. Everyone has different opinions and people have faith in God, but you have to come in and start stuff. Just please stop.

    • @sniper_clan8308
      @sniper_clan8308 8 років тому +7

      Harrison Jones dud STFU if you dont believe in god then keep that to yourself and say something nice. if yoy dont want to say something nice then keep quiet. i dont believe in god either but at least i don't make rude comments. and at least i would open my mouth to say something nice. besides the lecture.... Wendy you are an amazing and wonderful mother😊 you and bree are amazing people. we all support you guys. love ya!❤

  • @MAGNUM05
    @MAGNUM05 2 роки тому +36

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter, Wendy. Bree was a sweetheart and so are you. You're a great mother. May Bree rest in peace and God bless you two.

  • @rednecklife-uu3je
    @rednecklife-uu3je 7 років тому +688

    YOU ARE A HELL OF A GOOD MOTHER NEVER CHANGE THAT! GOD BLESS YOU!

    • @noyeeet7468
      @noyeeet7468 7 років тому +1

      Malliah Reyn fuck you

    • @helloworld3381
      @helloworld3381 7 років тому

      Malliah Reyn and God blessed you with the heart of Satan. No such thing as perfect. Jesus knows it. Before talking about Hod, read the Ten Commandments in the bible.

    • @malliahreyn8429
      @malliahreyn8429 7 років тому

      HelloWorld that's awesome I love Satan.

    • @malliahreyn8429
      @malliahreyn8429 7 років тому

      Joseph Riley no thanks, i don't sleep with strangers.

  • @libbyevans4958
    @libbyevans4958 7 років тому +130

    This woman deserves an award❤️❤️

  • @0puppies2cute0
    @0puppies2cute0 8 років тому +1906

    God bless you. You are an amazing woman with amazing strength. This shows how great love is. You have cared for your beautiful daughter everyday for 31 years. You inspire me!!

  • @lori-ff1cg
    @lori-ff1cg 2 місяці тому +4

    This woman did an amazing job with Bree. She learned about Bree’s disability and what would be best & helpful for her to have the best life possible. Most importantly you can see the love she has for her.

  • @nicktune1219
    @nicktune1219 7 років тому +224

    Let's give this mother a big round of applause for taking care of her child. You are a great mother to this child. I could not think of anyone more dedicated or more caring to her daughter.

    • @HaLLiEB85
      @HaLLiEB85 7 років тому +6

      nicktune1219 bree died

    • @firstladyvaughan6242
      @firstladyvaughan6242 7 років тому +6

      nicktune1219 i agree with u 💯

    • @justicecarter6661
      @justicecarter6661 7 років тому +2

      nicktune1219 so glad nobody disliked this comment. my faith in humanity has been restored!!!! 🐱🐱🐱🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐯🐯🐯🐯🐯😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😇🙂😉😉🙂😣🙂😁🙂😎😐🤗😥🙂🙂🙂😘🙂🙂🙂🤗☺☺ ☺😶☺😁

  • @ineffablesplendor4172
    @ineffablesplendor4172 8 років тому +43

    I was practically in tears. This woman is truly exceptional. God bless her for having the patience and strength the undergo such a trial.

  • @user-ov5jr6qf6e
    @user-ov5jr6qf6e 7 років тому +543

    Damn she was so blessed to have a mom like her with such a tragic condition

    • @vehxy
      @vehxy 7 років тому +2

      What is Life so true

    • @connorworley9450
      @connorworley9450 7 років тому +3

      What is Life i would have killed it

    • @xmikisanimationsx3241
      @xmikisanimationsx3241 7 років тому +1

      What is Life that's just life

    • @prettyprudent5779
      @prettyprudent5779 7 років тому

      "Blessed"?? Yeah, she was blessed alright. It's so obvious.

    • @envyyz_NA
      @envyyz_NA 7 років тому

      Succ Yo Tiddys Bich LMAOO CHILL

  • @daniellepalao4089
    @daniellepalao4089 3 роки тому +31

    RIP sweet Bree! You are always going to be an angel. You touched the lives of so many people.

  • @glodaleo9785
    @glodaleo9785 8 років тому +1430

    What a WONDERFUL mother. GOD bless

    • @glodaleo9785
      @glodaleo9785 8 років тому +22

      wonderful daughter as well

    • @Kelo60
      @Kelo60 8 років тому +48

      This lady is a legend. Not many people would keep taking care of there disabled daughter for aslong as she has. Most people would have just put her in a home. Wendy if you read this you are a wonderful person.

    • @rajeshmathura4382
      @rajeshmathura4382 8 років тому +1

      glo ria you can also good soul

    • @gia9551
      @gia9551 8 років тому +4

      Kelo60 it is so beautiful that she is doing everything she can to KEEP taking care of her

    • @eagleye44
      @eagleye44 8 років тому +3

      A really WONDERFUL mother would have ended her daughters suffering.

  • @HopefulInterventions
    @HopefulInterventions 8 років тому +31

    Wow! Amazing mother! You only live for your child. God bless you and your family.

  • @LandonTristen
    @LandonTristen 7 років тому +790

    Now that's a mom who LOVES her daughter

    • @babybiscuit11
      @babybiscuit11 7 років тому +2

      g59 maya yeah and some people abort there children that don't have ANY disabilities and it's horrible

    • @johnathonsnow9064
      @johnathonsnow9064 7 років тому +4

      babybiscuit11 cause birth is too fucking expensive and caring for a child costs a hell lot. Abortion is cheap and effective, plus it helps the mother.

    • @babybiscuit11
      @babybiscuit11 7 років тому +1

      Paper Weight Potato they should've used a condom it's their fault

    • @libertyprime69
      @libertyprime69 7 років тому +3

      When condoms break

    • @adrii7322
      @adrii7322 7 років тому +2

      Paper Weight Potato adoption is always a choice damn

  • @alisyn5373
    @alisyn5373 7 років тому +168

    This lady is by far a much better woman than I am.. I don't have the physical nor mental strength to raise a child with Bree's level of being handicapped. God bless this woman.

    • @alisyn5373
      @alisyn5373 7 років тому +6

      shay jefferson That's one hell of a detailed scenario.. Until I actually experienced that, I don't know what decision I'd make.

    • @00wkee
      @00wkee 7 років тому +1

      She is indeed

  • @ladida8349
    @ladida8349 8 років тому +133

    you are a real angel living on earth, im so ashamed of myself that i cannot have such a big patience with my son just like you. God bless you and Bree

  • @rhyssky8308
    @rhyssky8308 7 років тому +150

    A mother that does this much for her disabled kid is a hero and role model. Anyone who says anything negative must have a sorry ass life and wasn't disciplined at all. She has my prayers and bless her kind soul.

    • @robloxsophie8246
      @robloxsophie8246 7 років тому +1

      RhysSky I'm desabled

    • @ryanburrell62
      @ryanburrell62 7 років тому +1

      Tinker Tailor hope your life gets better😍😘😭

    • @EvolvedJewel
      @EvolvedJewel 2 роки тому

      Such judgment for people you don't know who may say things to the contrary of your beliefs.

  • @cheekyoziechick
    @cheekyoziechick 8 років тому +296

    She has been given the best mother God could find.

    • @heatherschmidt639
      @heatherschmidt639 8 років тому +1

      cheekyoziechick isn't that the truth

    • @nazunananakusa8916
      @nazunananakusa8916 8 років тому

      You mean nature and human kindness. God isn't real

    • @Jedhaase
      @Jedhaase 8 років тому +2

      Rena Ryuugu Don't start pointlessly saying god isn't real and starting debates..

    • @liljynxi7425
      @liljynxi7425 8 років тому +1

      Rena Ryuugu why would you bring the "God isn't real" into this? People like you give atheists bad names. You don't have to comment something negative like that. Let people trust in what they want and talk about religion without downing them.

    • @liljynxi7425
      @liljynxi7425 8 років тому +1

      howto42 yeah, I can see how it could be exploitative, of course how she talks about her daughter and somewhat of how she seems to treat her could be that way, but there's a lot we don't know. Such as maybe she could be doing this to bring light to such a disability, for example, I didn't know they could crawl. I thought they were wheelchair bound. But she might be doing the best she can.

  • @jessicajamesspeaks
    @jessicajamesspeaks 3 роки тому +113

    My heart goes out to Wendy. No parent should have to bury their child. Rest in Peace Bree 🙏🏽

  • @wildchild372007
    @wildchild372007 8 років тому +212

    these nasty comments really make my heart sad. this mom is the perfect example of what a mother should be. i have 3 kids that have been special needs and now young adults. 2 of my kids are high functioning autistic and 1 with mental health issues. i've raised them on my own after their dad walked out in 2003. it's been rough, but it can be done. you keep doing you Wendy. you are an amazing mom. lots of other "moms" out there would have put their kids in a home.

    • @poweralth5496
      @poweralth5496 8 років тому +2

      angela marsden having 3 children with minor mental health problems doesn't equate to having a girl or guy? idk that is physically almost crippled and has sever mental issues, I understand the quality of life but if it requires you to change the diaper of a almost grown human and treat them like a child when they're almost grown, isn't a great life worth living

    • @leuvenfra
      @leuvenfra 8 років тому +4

      Poweralth Everybody has their own conception of a good life. I'm sure this lady receives a lot of joy from her constant work for Bree. That is not to deny she works very hard and her job must be difficult.

    • @heartofjustice6041
      @heartofjustice6041 8 років тому +3

      having 3 children with disabilities in a row? did you smoke drink or do drugs because thats awfully suspicious

    • @xeroxroxin1416
      @xeroxroxin1416 8 років тому +1

      angela marsden is bree a man? or little girl because i cant tell the difference

    • @lydiamichelle7690
      @lydiamichelle7690 8 років тому +2

      Perfect_ Circle girl she says her and she a lot in the vid lol

  • @sophiereading7629
    @sophiereading7629 8 років тому +1726

    Bree is extremely lucky to have such an amazing mother

    • @dianeohare2896
      @dianeohare2896 8 років тому +2

      Sophie Reading

    • @Zumbagirl517
      @Zumbagirl517 8 років тому +10

      Sophie Reading Yes, she's a strong mother! Bri-bri is taken care of so well!

    • @bloopy6166
      @bloopy6166 8 років тому +11

      Sophie Reading I do not think that Bree is lucky at all, no offense

    • @madtingz2288
      @madtingz2288 8 років тому +4

      Yes she is

    • @elizabethpecoraro8518
      @elizabethpecoraro8518 8 років тому +14

      She's lucky to have a mother that actually cares about her. Most people would either institutionalize or disown her.

  • @rawrsophiex
    @rawrsophiex 8 років тому +577

    Isn't it amazing how one little deletion in a tiny tiny part of the chromosome can cause such a profound effect. You're an amazing mother, she's so lucky to have you.

    • @berliafrancis7947
      @berliafrancis7947 7 років тому +9

      Sophie W Funny how we just discussed this in Biology today. what a life!
      She is truly amazing!

    • @missgirl9792
      @missgirl9792 7 років тому +2

      Sophie W yes i agree she cares so much

    • @yousefmabrouk9103
      @yousefmabrouk9103 7 років тому +5

      Sophie W I SO AGREE WITH YOU :D you could be the best mother to her

    • @bracefacecece1272
      @bracefacecece1272 7 років тому +1

      right

    • @maritoraw1700
      @maritoraw1700 7 років тому +2

      Sophie W yes I agree

  • @emilyromero5118
    @emilyromero5118 7 років тому +29

    She is so amazing and caring to Bree, I’m glad she lived a good life with a good mother ❤️🙃 These mean comments are not funny or kind, so leave positive comments so Bree’s mom can be happy 😁😇

  • @brefital11
    @brefital11 8 років тому +590

    I'm really surprised that there are not many mean comments. People are very rude and I'm very happy that all negative left this video and people kept it positive so this beautiful lady can keep going.

    • @anyiaprice1479
      @anyiaprice1479 8 років тому

      Allanna TV true

    • @neon_bae2060
      @neon_bae2060 8 років тому +10

      Allanna TV Or the comments got deleted

    • @brefital11
      @brefital11 8 років тому

      Neon_ Bae trur

    • @taelynnsykes6009
      @taelynnsykes6009 8 років тому

      Gkfhixhdgkhcgi dy🔫🗡⚔🚬🔪💣⚰

    • @troystuart8870
      @troystuart8870 8 років тому +22

      I was scared to look but I scrolled a couple times and didn't see any...I read your comment and I figured I'd stop while I was ahead lol...Sweet lady, and it takes a lot to care for someone that is handicapped in a manner such as this. Shes blessed she can afford to stay home and care for bree... a lot of people wouldn't financial be able too

  • @lidumama23
    @lidumama23 7 років тому +1225

    Wow! That's hard work! I commend this lady for being a wonderful mom.

    • @caecae4694
      @caecae4694 7 років тому +1

      Nina La Bella can she stand up $:|

    • @azarhiannanevernoticed5066
      @azarhiannanevernoticed5066 7 років тому +3

      LpsDogs AndCats no she can not

    • @amandarobinson8381
      @amandarobinson8381 7 років тому +4

      Nina La Bella my mom is single with two kids me my brother my brother has tics learning disability dislexia and a sleep problom

    • @lez5309
      @lez5309 7 років тому +1

      Nina La Bella yeah

    • @cloroxbleach885
      @cloroxbleach885 7 років тому +2

      Unfortunately she wasted 37 years the girl is dead now

  • @AmyAnnLand
    @AmyAnnLand 8 років тому +46

    Who downvoted this? Really? This is an amazing woman whose whole life is devoted to her daughter. She's showing us what it is like and people downvote it? Either y'all are jealous because you sadly didn't have good parents or y'all are just cruel. Rock on mom. You're truly a special soul. You're daughter is so lucky to have you.

    • @lindsey21smith
      @lindsey21smith 8 років тому +5

      its because her daughter will always have to have someone care for her, always. and she can't do much except for eat and crawl around. her life must be miserable. sure, yeah, the mother is amazing doing all this work for her daughter, but her life must really be boring, and in the end it will amount to nothing

    • @user-oz1ny
      @user-oz1ny 8 років тому

      Amy Ann Her whole life is devoted to her daughter. That's the heart breaking part.

    • @brianna-reneejeanjordan9160
      @brianna-reneejeanjordan9160 День тому

      I know this comment is old. But I see both sides why is not okay for Wendy to take care of her daughter even though she is disabled like that's her business her perogative and her choice. However.... I do see this side too. If my child was gonna be like this and he or she was gonna be brain dead and was gonna poop and pee for the rest of its life and not know where he or she is and not even know she or he is alive. Myself personally I wouldn't be able to handle it. I would have to put her or him in a special home. Why would I choose that we'll 1 it's my choice. 2 it's because it's honestly not fair to my kids who would have to live like that. I was born premature and I damn right asked my mom 28 years ago if I was gonna not know where I'm at would you 1 take care of me 2 put me in a home or 3 pull the plug. I looked at her and said myself I would have you pull the plug and she agreed. This is not fair to Bree. Yes Bree passed away I understand she is gone and she can no longer offend herself or was she ever able to only her mom. But this is not a way to live in my book. If you want to live and take care of your kid that has a disability that's severe that's fine. But to me if I were in Bree shoes I wouldn't want to live like this I'm sorry.

  • @savannahm5529
    @savannahm5529 3 роки тому +73

    I'm THOURLY convinced a lot of mommas (mine included) that have disabled kids are angels.

  • @deergreentea2847
    @deergreentea2847 8 років тому +1165

    what an amazing mother. god bless 💜

    • @bellachapa3961
      @bellachapa3961 8 років тому +5

      Lynn Rossi wow those words are so simple yet so beautiful God Bless your heart

    • @darabrady478
      @darabrady478 8 років тому +11

      Lynn Rossi she is an amazing mom #worldsgratestmom

    • @shellyshow8875
      @shellyshow8875 8 років тому +8

      Lynn Rossi yes

    • @kierabehrend1583
      @kierabehrend1583 7 років тому +14

      Lynn Rossi she is an amazing mother 💙💜

    • @JganghHall
      @JganghHall 7 років тому

      Lynn Rossi

  • @oliviaLOVEShenry
    @oliviaLOVEShenry 8 років тому +260

    Who is caring for the Carer? We need to give people respite care while making sure that their child is cared for with the same love and respect that they're due. Why do these parents have to fight for every little thing? As a society they should be first in line for everything.

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 8 років тому +4

      oliviaLOVEShenry agreed!

    • @evelin5255
      @evelin5255 8 років тому +6

      oliviaLOVEShenry in Germany you don't have to fight for this. When you are sick or like cases like bree you get everything from the government to help you. Yes we have high taxes that everyone have to pay but it's for health and education. You got your legs broken and your child has Down Syndrom? Furthermore your other child wants to study on university? No problem. Government pays your hospital bill, helps you out with your sick child and university is free. Everything in our system concentrates on socialism and helping you out on health issues. And that's why you don't see many homeless people in Germany. If you can't afford a decent life you get helped by a program called Harzt 4. There is no chance that someone has to sell its house because medical treatment it too expensive. For me it's unbelievable.

    • @issmith3525
      @issmith3525 8 років тому +2

      even in Australia it's hard to get any access to this kind of help. my sister is special needs but because she doesn't come under the umbrella of autism we have no access to any form of help or sometimes fundamental carers. It's quite strange the lengths you have to go to if you're in these situations.

    • @oliviaLOVEShenry
      @oliviaLOVEShenry 8 років тому +16

      I have to disagree. A Mother's love knows know bounds and she is doing everything she can but her role is exhausting and her fight is relentless. We as a society should be caring for Wendy as she cares for Bree.

    • @orcashadow8989
      @orcashadow8989 8 років тому +2

      Thank you so much for this. It's appalling how little support the care givers get, and care givers need a lot of support.
      I was a caregiver for several years and worked with people very similar to Bree, some worse off, and there is not one day that isn't exhausting and a little scary at some point or another. It's mentally and emotionally draining knowing something could go wrong and someone could die at any moment, and every little thing you do matters drastically.
      People sugarcoat how hard it is to raise a child like Bree. This mom was totally honest and has a good head on her shoulders. Unfortunately she can't take care of her forever and at some point Bree will probably end up in a group home or with a relative perhaps. Where I worked, I can't tell you how rare it was that a family member came into the group home to visit one of the clients. It was so rare. Some parents can't handle it, it's a full time job, and for caregivers the pay is extremely little. It was near minimum wage for me and we did not get raises because the government kept cutting funds on us. Nobody wanted to work there. The job was tireless and it was difficult to get vacations, veeeeeeerrrry little pay and you would witness disturbing things there that many couldn't handle on a daily basis. As a result we were always so low on people, and it was common that new staff wouldn't make it past the 3rd month. They were literally hiring people off the street out of desperation, and this meant they were hiring a lot of bad people that didn't care for the clients, as well.
      So in the end the real victims become those with the disabilities. So it really is not selfish for a caregiver to ask for more support or pay. It is a draining job and the clients deserve and need the very best care.
      When people say "well the parent is just happy taking care of their child and that's all they need!" I dare you to do this work all day every day and see the sacrifices you make and what it can do to your physical and emotional health, not to mention your finances. Many don't love their family members that are in conditions like Bree and it's a terrible thing-- but those who are true family and care for them get fucked over no matter how much they love and take care of the disabled person.

  • @zodsi
    @zodsi 8 років тому +274

    this was really touching to watch but its also the reason why i'm so scared to ever have children

    • @madi8808
      @madi8808 8 років тому +5

      Zeelols I feel ya.

    • @lolapeckham3498
      @lolapeckham3498 8 років тому +1

      Zeelols yeah

    • @annieoctavius352
      @annieoctavius352 8 років тому +1

      same

    • @caroline-pm4mo
      @caroline-pm4mo 8 років тому +12

      Zeelols Thought I was the only one, I think I'll just adopt because everything about getting pregnant seems scary

    • @hannahyoung2137
      @hannahyoung2137 8 років тому

      Tinyowl123 AJ hahahaha as a ace individual I agree! But like just giving birth sounds awful and bloody

  • @lavenderspirits
    @lavenderspirits 3 роки тому +30

    My mother passed away recently and now I’m taking care of my 45yo disabled brother with profound intellectual disability and autism. It’s hard work but I don’t know if I could be as awesome as you are. Your passion for Bree radiates. I’m just exhausted all the time.
    Edit to add: I’m so sorry for your loss.

    • @WendyGilker
      @WendyGilker  3 роки тому +10

      Yes it is challenging, yet just think that your brother wants to be wanted and love. You know I would always think, how would I want to be treated. If you can , I would look at the product ION - amazing results with autism. www.intelligenceofnature.com
      Just take it one day at a time. Yes you will feel exhausted yet and yes the hardest job yet stay in your heart. We are human and caregiving is the most stressful yet you can turn it around and make the situation the greatest blessing. My daughter was the greatest teacher I could of dreamed of. She made me better as I had to get healthier and be a better person to care for her. Yes I prayed and begged for guidance and help a lot. The constant worry about being able to keep food on the table and a roof does take a toll. Yet you have a very powerful purpose now, beyond what we can imagine. Ask for guidance and it will come at the perfect timing. You found this site - right, with all kinds of ideas. Bless you!!!

  • @kariemsp2638
    @kariemsp2638 7 років тому +152

    When she called bri her princess I cried so hard :(

  • @pengu.3694
    @pengu.3694 7 років тому +503

    it's been a few weeks now since your little angel passed..and all i want to say is that you did an amazing job to keep this girl alive♡ you tried your best but now she flew to heaven..😢 we love and support you Wendy R.I.P bree forever remember forever the love continues

  • @leesscribbles
    @leesscribbles 8 років тому +588

    wow I can barely handle taking care of a lizard I can't imagine taking care of another person. your an amazing mother

    • @bittyb0t
      @bittyb0t 8 років тому

      lizards aren't even that bad to take care off. i manage my beardie just fine. try 6 chickens.

    • @leesscribbles
      @leesscribbles 8 років тому

      I grew up on a farm I'm just forget full. By berdie lives in my room so I see him and remember. He's a sweetie

    • @leesscribbles
      @leesscribbles 8 років тому

      That's the one pet I can remember to lol. I fed them so much because I forgot if I fed them or not. (I have ADHD so I don't pay attention with out realizing it and forget what I did) *****​

    • @bittyb0t
      @bittyb0t 8 років тому +1

      +kunoichi lise Maybe if you have such problems, you shouldn't have so many pets. Over feeding and not feeding a pet enough can be harmful. so can not giving them enough attention. seriously, my lizard gets real mean and his colors stay really dark when I don't mess with him for a while/ am not home.

    • @leesscribbles
      @leesscribbles 8 років тому +4

      TheMewMix​ I don't have a lot of pets. Just the fish and lizard. I have notes and reminders all around my house. I'm good with feeding my beardie and he's usually pretty happy. He sits with me daily while I go on my laptop and just chills. And because of when I feed my fish a lot I don't feed them large amounts at a time. And having them is more or less good for me because its basically practice for me to learn to remember stuff. With out that form of responsablility I would have a much harder time. 

  • @TickleMonster333
    @TickleMonster333 2 роки тому +35

    You remind me of my mom, I was born with a brain defect, adhd, and a undetermined disability we still don’t have a name for. My mom was very active in my treatments such as special education and routine doctor’s visits to see what developments were made. I am 38 years old I can function on my own with a little assistance but I think I’ve come this far because my mom was dedicated to my success just like you and Bree ❤

  • @ericmondello3880
    @ericmondello3880 8 років тому +202

    God gives these special children special mommies

    • @anitalanier4049
      @anitalanier4049 8 років тому +2

      that is a beautiful statement

    • @anitalanier4049
      @anitalanier4049 8 років тому

      that is a beautiful statement

    • @joshuawhite870
      @joshuawhite870 8 років тому +5

      So you don't hold 'God' responsible for the suffering inflicted? You're logic is entirely flawed. So he can choose to give caring 'mums' but completely doesn't have a say in creating life that has to live a life of pain, suffering and be unable to fulfil all aspects of the human experience? He is a vindictive, callous, jealous god, and humanity will only find true comfort in rejecting the notion of such a flawed deity and all religion.

    • @LivsLaLaLand
      @LivsLaLaLand 8 років тому

      Are religion is are religion we won't force you to like it but it would be nice if you could expect it. I did not know about them but I believe that their is God and the devil the devil brings negativity into the world while god brings positivity. One is good the other is evil to put it simply God has a plan for everything and everyone. So if you could not crap all over my religion that would be nice.

    • @joshuawhite870
      @joshuawhite870 8 років тому +4

      Olivia Harris *our. No this illogical framework needs questioning, it is antiquated and time to put it to bed. It's my right to point out and question this bigotry, and although you may be too set in you're ways to comprehend what I'm saying, there are people reading perspectives like mine who use it to nudge them in the direction of critical thinking and freedom from religious oppression. I'm sorry but we are in the last days of religion. Critical thinking is spreading at a pace religions has never been capable of...

  • @ILoveLamp_1995
    @ILoveLamp_1995 8 років тому +45

    this mother is so selfless, and is an absolute saint 💗💞💝💘💓💟💜💖💕❤

  • @OverratedLunitic
    @OverratedLunitic 8 років тому +29

    I have to applaud you , not only are you caring for a profoundly handicapped daughter, but you go above and beyond. My mother works in group homes as a nurse for adults with a rage of disabilities. I remember from a young age helping my mother change diapers, pour meds( of course I never actually touched them), how to clean and feed with a feeding tube and so on. The fact that you make homemade and organic food is outstanding; even without having someone with a disability that diet and life style can be difficult and expensive. Not only that you get her to "creep". I can't tell you how many people I've seen just turn to wheelchairs, no fault on them, because its "faster" and "easier". I can not stress enough how amazing you are. I know and see how frustrating and exhausting caring for someone with profound disabilities is. Keep it up, you are light, and wish you the best. I don't know what it's like in NH, but there are some lesser known programs and loopholes that can get you some help. Check out local disability day programs and talk to people in that community they usually have the best insight. (from my and my mother experience in NY)

  • @willssportshour4924
    @willssportshour4924 7 років тому +247

    "A much better life began." Bless this woman

    • @itsphiaa2809
      @itsphiaa2809 7 років тому

      Wills Sports Hour! Yes

    • @aval3e
      @aval3e 7 років тому

      Wills Sports Hour! Sike

    • @pinkfloydfan92
      @pinkfloydfan92 7 років тому +3

      Wills Sports Hour! She's lying. That type of life isn't enjoyable for either of them.

  • @donotflyawaymydear
    @donotflyawaymydear 7 років тому +213

    "one of her favourite things is the mirror, because she's so beautiful" (03:20min) touched my normally stonecold heart so fckng much. You're an awesome Mother, remember that.

  • @cyrenthiamichael1221
    @cyrenthiamichael1221 7 років тому +115

    I Wish All Mothers Were As loveable And Caring As You Are!

  • @breebreecakes6189
    @breebreecakes6189 8 років тому +318

    I am literally dumbfounded by the amount of comments saying she shouldn't live like this or "she needs to be put down".. I know people are evil but it is shocking to me they shamelessly leave these disgusting comments on such a wonderful dedicated mothers video... this woman has nothing but love in her body and yet the world stills finds a way to be ignorant and hateful

    • @DownrightPossible
      @DownrightPossible 8 років тому +13

      breebreecakes well it's the internet, people show their inner disgusting selves because there are no consequences.

    • @christophermusibay9283
      @christophermusibay9283 8 років тому +23

      It's not disgusting, I commend her for her hard work shes been doing for the past years, but honestly none of this should've happened to begin with. I'm a Christian and I know it's a horrible thing to say but people like this are too much of a burden, and you forget how to live. You either have to choose between horrible life for you, or horrible life for the child, which neither are good. For the mother I know she loves her child, but like she said by the time she's done caring for Bree, there is no time left for herself. I would rather die then let someone close to me feel misery for taking care of me.

    • @karenhearne7112
      @karenhearne7112 8 років тому +8

      So tell me your story that brings you to a conclusion like this? " I'm a Christian and I know it's a horrible thing to say but people like this are too much of a burden, and you forget how to live. You either have to choose between horrible life for you, or horrible life for the child, which neither are good.""

    • @cupcakeheaven8206
      @cupcakeheaven8206 8 років тому +3

      I do not think she needs too be put down

    • @cupcakeheaven8206
      @cupcakeheaven8206 8 років тому +3

      I agree

  • @lexiev1250
    @lexiev1250 Рік тому +9

    Wendy, I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. May Bree rest in peace? You are a kind mother to her 🙏

  • @cynthiah4594
    @cynthiah4594 8 років тому +101

    Bree is very fortunate to have such a wonderful, loving , caring mother as you!

  • @buggld
    @buggld 8 років тому +1226

    An extremely dedicated mother... Can't help but wonder what'll happen after Wendy is unable to care for Bree, though.

    • @madi8808
      @madi8808 8 років тому +7

      buggld oh god yea >

    • @jennazoubi8430
      @jennazoubi8430 8 років тому +1

      buggld same like I really wonder

    • @wannabegoth
      @wannabegoth 8 років тому +3

      Most likely she'll live in a nursing home.

    • @arixnnaaa
      @arixnnaaa 8 років тому +2

      buggld me too but hopefully she gets better.

    • @siiri4697
      @siiri4697 8 років тому +16

      i'm 99% Bree will die before Wendy bc people with disabilitys die younger

  • @gracemckenna2068
    @gracemckenna2068 7 років тому +203

    You are a strong incredible woman. Bree was very lucky to have you as a mammy. I'm so sorry to hear the sad news that she passed away. Take care x

    • @sn33zy_roll
      @sn33zy_roll 7 років тому +12

      fanta drinker What the hell? All lives matter, big or small, how would you feel if you had a physical disorder that was slowly killing you, and people said: "they are a waste of life, let's just leave her to die."?

    • @sn33zy_roll
      @sn33zy_roll 7 років тому +4

      Sahm Dhude You're right, but I kinda just got mad about the way they said it.

    • @Lunnalee100
      @Lunnalee100 7 років тому +1

      Sahm Dhude you are talking about eugenics..that is some pretty sick thinking. We can't kill people because they are an inconvenience. Where do you draw the line at killing?

    • @Lunnalee100
      @Lunnalee100 7 років тому

      Sahm Dhude you're an idiot. eugenisist. this isn't China

    • @sn33zy_roll
      @sn33zy_roll 7 років тому +1

      Sahm Dhude Why are we still arguing about this? It doesn't really matter.

  • @Jorgereyes-yu6qp
    @Jorgereyes-yu6qp 7 років тому +5

    I'm complaining about my life and I am now realizing how blessed I am to feed my self,walk,and many other things Bree is a warrior she is beautiful and has guts of steel I hope Bree and her mother live a long and healthy life #STAYSTRONGBREEKEEPONGOIN

  • @loganbardunias5814
    @loganbardunias5814 7 років тому +98

    God bless this woman keeping this beautiful child who needs very special handicaps. I don’t know if I could do this every day for 37 years. I don’t even know what to say about this amazing women who would save a fly.

    • @baguettely
      @baguettely 7 років тому

      Bree died on January 5th 2017. RIP Bree.

  • @sharpietm4166
    @sharpietm4166 7 років тому +45

    I support this amazing mother!She is so nice and sweet to Bree,and Bree is so lucky to have Wendy as her mom!God bless you

  • @tayacookie7693
    @tayacookie7693 8 років тому +113

    bree is so beautiful and so lucky to have a amazing mother like you

    • @therealgerald1721
      @therealgerald1721 8 років тому

      Ikr 💙💚❤️

    • @pur3xgodzz831
      @pur3xgodzz831 8 років тому +6

      Taya Cookie if you seriously think she's beautiful because she's disabled. Your very stupid

    • @tayacookie7693
      @tayacookie7693 8 років тому +1

      PUR3xGODZz no she is beautiful and not because she's disabled I have a brother like this and u don't know what it's like so shut up

    • @abbieburnett3298
      @abbieburnett3298 8 років тому +1

      Taya Cookie i have a sister like this. i understand.

    • @autumnwetsel
      @autumnwetsel 8 років тому +6

      Taya Cookie i agree so much. this mom deserves the best mom award.

  • @vmenke
    @vmenke 7 років тому +28

    You are an amazing mother to give up your whole life for your daughter.❤️❤️❤️

    • @skate3orRIP
      @skate3orRIP 7 років тому +3

      Veronica Menke yeah for nothing

    • @Emma88178
      @Emma88178 3 роки тому +1

      She shouldn't have had to.

    • @LolaWard-h2y
      @LolaWard-h2y Рік тому

      That's what you do for your children

  • @gavintheawesomeyoutuber2175
    @gavintheawesomeyoutuber2175 7 років тому +111

    This is the saddest thing I ever seen and what a good mother and im almost crying

  • @Traceyi1000
    @Traceyi1000 8 років тому +26

    any child would be lucky to have you for a mom

  • @cookiesformolly4049
    @cookiesformolly4049 7 років тому +192

    Bree looks lovely. I wish I could help out. She seems fun! And for all of you haters, I'm not lying. God bless you Bree and your mom.

    • @indyandalexisvlogs2786
      @indyandalexisvlogs2786 7 років тому +9

      COOKIES FO' RHONDA I hate when people make fun of the ones with a horrible disability
      But it normally means none of these sports 🤸🏼‍♀️⛸🥋⚽️🏒🏊🏼‍♀️🚴🏼‍♀️⛹🏼‍♀️🎾 which is very 😢

    • @abygoyles7757
      @abygoyles7757 7 років тому +4

      I love people that want to help my mom dose

    • @kiarakali7474
      @kiarakali7474 7 років тому +5

      COOKIES FO' RHONDA you are so right

    • @nicolemarie2679
      @nicolemarie2679 7 років тому

      COOKIES FO' RHONDA your so right!

    • @ssaraicastillo
      @ssaraicastillo 7 років тому +1

      COOKIES FO' RHONDA yep your right

  • @saveournsrey2018
    @saveournsrey2018 3 роки тому +23

    You are by far the most caring amazing mother!! The love u have for your daughter is just selfless. I wish many more years of happiness and good health.

  • @nononohellnowhatcomeonohno5099
    @nononohellnowhatcomeonohno5099 8 років тому +27

    Moms are the most amazing humans In the world.
    My mom stopped her life for me and I can never thank her enough.

  • @fionapyle9403
    @fionapyle9403 8 років тому +46

    We need more people like Wendy in this world. God bless you.

    • @catherinemoffat2415
      @catherinemoffat2415 8 років тому

      they are everywhere, you just have to know where to look

    • @catherinemoffat2415
      @catherinemoffat2415 8 років тому +4

      no, like Wendy and other loving caregivers

    • @fionapyle9403
      @fionapyle9403 8 років тому +1

      !00% agree with you Catherine. Valgurm's comment is not even worth a reply.

  • @TheBob-in7ee
    @TheBob-in7ee 7 років тому +255

    I've had to live with an autistic little brother and I thought that was hard, but here you are raising this child as a single mother👏👏👏👏

    • @mymykisses5980
      @mymykisses5980 7 років тому +3

      xXswagmasterXx 82 My brother has autism as well 💕💕

    • @isaqueamiel2599
      @isaqueamiel2599 7 років тому +1

      Thatcowz ISDAT cool my brother does but not good at coprehending things so how's it like

    • @Oystergamer-ng9ym
      @Oystergamer-ng9ym 7 років тому +1

      Thatcowz ISDAT I have autism as well

    • @waltzofamaniac3069
      @waltzofamaniac3069 7 років тому +6

      same, my twin brother is autistic, i reacted the same way

    • @scorpiosscraptor1467
      @scorpiosscraptor1467 7 років тому +3

      Thatcowz ISDAT same

  • @rosesutton4566
    @rosesutton4566 7 років тому +6

    Such a dedicated Mother, your daughter is such a treasure. I admire your courage to keep fighting for those challenges you have faced everyday.

  • @LpsAllison
    @LpsAllison 8 років тому +137

    quite sad story, personally i believe your one of the sweetest people to love and care for her when she is in this condition, however in her state I'm surprised she lived all these years, bless her.
    its sad that kids are born with these problems. they deserve a normal life.

  • @katielouwho888
    @katielouwho888 8 років тому +828

    This is sad, but very wonderful that you still care for her and don't give up on her. I think that Bree is very lucky to have a mother that cares. Still, I feel quite bad in a way that you were not able to do the normal parent track. I hope the future is bright.

  • @tiannarusso5667
    @tiannarusso5667 7 років тому +242

    just spent a half hour screaming at all the bullys on these comments. im just in awe how absolutely ruthless and evil people are. my heart literally hurts. im so sorry for the loss of bree. you are such a strong woman and you kept her moving and clean and happy and comfortable for her time here on earth. an act of true love and dedication. Never let these bad comments hurt you no matter how hard they can sometimes be to ignore. you are an amazing mother and she was very lucky to have you, as you were her. ❤ such a moving video. bree is at peace running with strong legs in heaven.

    • @karenlee1741
      @karenlee1741 7 років тому +4

      tianna russo i know i put a person on report

    • @joahnsmig3695
      @joahnsmig3695 7 років тому +2

      shut up ugly bitch

    • @karenlee1741
      @karenlee1741 7 років тому +1

      People are mean no where you go brave woman

    • @zariahspence4842
      @zariahspence4842 7 років тому +2

      love your comment 😇

    • @Crayolapup
      @Crayolapup 7 років тому +4

      tianna russo They should I be placed in Special Education so they can experience these people's lives and learn to be humble.

  • @topplintoads6230
    @topplintoads6230 7 років тому +4

    It’s vids like these where I tell myself “Thank God for the life I’m given.”
    With all these complications she’s living with, it truly is a blessing and a privilege to live our lives the way we live them. I hope she sets an inspiration and motivation to those out there who also have complications of their own.
    God Bless.

  • @margoraine2259
    @margoraine2259 8 років тому +70

    I praise this women she is a very sweet person

    • @samusaran9560
      @samusaran9560 8 років тому +16

      Yeah, she's beautiful on the inside and outside. People just need to open up their eyes.

    • @peachypastelz9319
      @peachypastelz9319 7 років тому

      Asriel The Dreamer j

  • @havokntk07
    @havokntk07 8 років тому +379

    This mom is amazing, but I'd like a "mercy death" if I was in bree's position.

    • @thebeeswrinklyknees5637
      @thebeeswrinklyknees5637 8 років тому +14

      Havok Sosa You act as if she is an animal.

    • @havokntk07
      @havokntk07 8 років тому +46

      The Bee's Wrinkly Knees I'm sorry if I made it sound that way, but I don't think that.

    • @xWinterstarex7
      @xWinterstarex7 8 років тому +16

      Let's change "put down" to "mercy death". Havok Sosa i feel ya like if i was ever unable to do things for myself i'd like to put an end to it...but sadly bree can't really say what she wants.

    • @jancw
      @jancw 8 років тому +48

      You might feel that way if you were born healthy then became incapacitated due to illness or injury. If you had enough awareness to remember your life before and compare it to after. But if you were born this way and have no understanding of anything but your mothers care (of which there is an abundance) then you probably wouldn't think life was so bad.

    • @nogedoge
      @nogedoge 8 років тому +17

      Same. I'd definitely want to be euthanized.

  • @malcomzan4688
    @malcomzan4688 7 років тому +460

    God bless you Wendy, you're a really good mother and I'm sorry to hear that Bree passed away😢😢R.I.P little angel.

    • @ventspace371
      @ventspace371 7 років тому +8

      Malcom ZaN No omg bree passed away...oh no imma cry at least bree is in a beautiful place without violence and bright thoughts.

    • @chloeroth7727
      @chloeroth7727 7 років тому +6

      She did not check her videos

    • @TheJoyofFamily
      @TheJoyofFamily 7 років тому +8

      You are truly an amazing, giving, caring and selfless woman and you can see that your daughter was willing to fight because of your love for her. I read a few comments and I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @mimifurtek6956
      @mimifurtek6956 7 років тому +3

      Malcom ZaN when did she die...

    • @alexiemontoya5577
      @alexiemontoya5577 7 років тому +1

      Mimi Furtek there's a video called "Bree checking in from the other side"

  • @kitchenmumma7596
    @kitchenmumma7596 2 роки тому +24

    What an amazing mother.

  • @riyajose3249
    @riyajose3249 8 років тому +83

    Just one word: RESPECT

  • @jishwagent
    @jishwagent 7 років тому +225

    You're such an amazing mother! you're so strong!

  • @Darkdemonoflite
    @Darkdemonoflite 8 років тому +181

    Instead of "If I was disabled i'd hope to have a parent this supportive and loyal."
    Many of the comments are "If my child was this way id put [IT] down."
    That's why the world is the way it is. Too many people with negative ways of thinking.

    • @emilylatte6626
      @emilylatte6626 8 років тому +1

      Sein Maestro most people say it because they can't predict if it would be a big or girl. But it's still a bad thing to say.

    • @clovernikoms8583
      @clovernikoms8583 8 років тому

      You should use them

    • @LilPoopsie
      @LilPoopsie 8 років тому +8

      Sein Maestro If I was brought into the world this handicapped, I'd never forgive my parents. Yeah, it's better not to bring someone into the world if you know they'll be severely handicapped. People are just like 'well this is my child'.. You're not the one who is like this, your child is. You'll never truly understand how they feel. Theyre trapped in their body.

    • @anitalanier4049
      @anitalanier4049 8 років тому +1

      you are absolutely right. Keep up with your positivity

    • @karenhearne7112
      @karenhearne7112 8 років тому +3

      The kid doesn't know any better...all he or she knows is it's parent(s) love and care. Also,who the hell are you to to say what they understand or not? Have you raised a child like this for 30 plus years? Thought not.

  • @kelseymuchmore1449
    @kelseymuchmore1449 7 років тому +4

    Wow. I have so much respect for this Mom. Bree is blessed to have someone like you throughout her life. If only every disabled adult was treated like this!

  • @DaliwolfBacon
    @DaliwolfBacon 8 років тому +37

    You are easily the best mother in the whole world. Bree is beautiful, and her spirit is amazing!!! Thank you so much for sharing this. I will never complain about small stuff ever again! HUGHUGHUG!!!

    • @RiyaLyn
      @RiyaLyn 8 років тому +2

      I couldnt have said it better than myself :)

  • @keegan9589
    @keegan9589 7 років тому +162

    I'm so sorry about your daughter. I know she is in heaven waiting for you!! Be brave!

    • @Nodnarb69
      @Nodnarb69 7 років тому +3

      Just T.J waiting for you? God damn she I hope she doesn't want her mom to die

    • @keegan9589
      @keegan9589 7 років тому +1

      no I wasn't trying to say she wants her mom to die. I was trying to say that bree will be watching over her.

    • @brendathielman2473
      @brendathielman2473 7 років тому

      Just T.J true i feel SO sorry

    • @koopa2good4u77
      @koopa2good4u77 7 років тому +2

      I'm she didn't die she is disabled

    • @ango3185
      @ango3185 7 років тому

      Just T.J why ? did bree died?

  • @vivalaemily817
    @vivalaemily817 7 років тому +80

    We can see the love that you have for your child. Best of luck and hope everything is going well!!!

    • @legomanvantaa
      @legomanvantaa 7 років тому +14

      Emily she died 5th of january sadly

  • @keelyherringe6345
    @keelyherringe6345 7 років тому +10

    This beautiful lady is just a genuine woman and I aspire to be as loving and kind as she is 💗 god bless

  • @awesomesauce6333
    @awesomesauce6333 7 років тому +94

    Damn, I am sorry you lost you Bree I hope you are doing okay and I hope one day you and Bree are reunited with each other R. I. P.

    • @alexistirado5011
      @alexistirado5011 7 років тому +7

      +kitkatcoco67 you know what the fuck she meant obviously. smart ass

    • @vampanth3m747
      @vampanth3m747 7 років тому

      kitkatcoco67 lol

    • @gemmahartnell3281
      @gemmahartnell3281 7 років тому

      kitkatcoco67 no. She said sorry you LOST bree. That is correct. If it was loss it would be sorry for your LOSS of bree

    • @vampanth3m747
      @vampanth3m747 7 років тому +1

      I'm better than you what 😱😱 mad disrespectful mane☄ฺ(◣д◢)☄ฺ(。◕ˇ﹏ˇ◕。 )

  • @mattyrey3890
    @mattyrey3890 7 років тому +171

    This brought both happy tears and sad tears to my eyes. Bless you and your family. You are a wonderful mother.

    • @ethanc8ball975
      @ethanc8ball975 7 років тому

      Matty Rey ok I let it in

    • @ethanc8ball975
      @ethanc8ball975 7 років тому

      O ho that it it is jcrhhh

    • @Chloe.432
      @Chloe.432 7 років тому

      Tears of joy, that a wonderful mom

    • @johnn3987
      @johnn3987 7 років тому

      Ok besides the video it’s the fuck boys like you that make girls holes bigger fag

  • @lisagreene6779
    @lisagreene6779 7 років тому +65

    You rock Momma 💗💖 Love from Ireland 🍀 My son has special needs nowhere near as severe as the Beautiful Bree he has Autism and learning disabilities and is my world Bree hit the jackpot with yourself as her Momma Much love 😘😘😘😘😘

    • @amarisdiaz4623
      @amarisdiaz4623 7 років тому +7

      i hope she gets better she is very beautiful god bless you both you are a very great mother

    • @Biggchad
      @Biggchad 7 років тому +3

      Amaris Diaz She passed away

  • @lilieurbina7157
    @lilieurbina7157 7 років тому +3

    As much as I loved this video, I am so sorry for some of these horrible comments. There should be an automatic block of comments if certain words are used. BLESS YOU. YOU ARE LITERALLY SUCH A SWEETHEART.

  • @sweetcookie2739
    @sweetcookie2739 8 років тому +136

    you guys are sick for calling her ugly and a dog,she's not a dog she's still a human being.

    • @NichtNameee
      @NichtNameee 8 років тому

      IonCannoneers Maan, you are a poor idiot.

    • @dacumman5288
      @dacumman5288 8 років тому +2

      IonCannoneers lol

    • @jessop5125
      @jessop5125 8 років тому +3

      IonCannoneers They took rag doll too seriously 🤔

    • @happychappy7345
      @happychappy7345 8 років тому +7

      Sweet Cookie well its not learning or being anyone is she. she's ? basically noting they should just put her down she's basically nothing. she knows nothing is nothing like a waste of space no hate just truth

    • @juelzea8518
      @juelzea8518 8 років тому +1

      Happy Chappy correct your grammar.You know what you need?you need church how could someone possibly say something like that

  • @SashasSpecialChannel
    @SashasSpecialChannel 9 років тому +483

    You are an amazing women for all you do for your daughter!

    • @WendyGilker
      @WendyGilker  8 років тому +13

      +Sasha's Special Channel Thank you.

    • @garygayle3332
      @garygayle3332 7 років тому +1

      Trueeee

    • @kara-7933
      @kara-7933 7 років тому

      Sasha's Special Channel woman*

  • @stefanroth4227
    @stefanroth4227 7 років тому +86

    This video is so inspirational because it shows moms out their with children like this that there is hope and that miracles can be magical like bree, bree is a living breathing miracle

    • @sux2bu37
      @sux2bu37 7 років тому

      Stefan Roth how is she a miracle?

    • @ericnorris9493
      @ericnorris9493 7 років тому

      sux2bu37 ^

    • @ericnorris9493
      @ericnorris9493 7 років тому

      You’re dumb as hell no one wants their kid to be disabled. Complete opposite of a miracle

    • @cakephish
      @cakephish 7 років тому

      CAUSE SHE ALIVE

    • @sux2bu37
      @sux2bu37 7 років тому

      Mysterious Squash So?

  • @Weirdgirlypopp
    @Weirdgirlypopp 7 років тому +482

    Can't believe that your adorable bumble bee passed, Just know that you're an amazing mother! Bree is soo blessed to have a wonderful mom like you. everything you did just to keep her alive and well! ~I know it's very difficult, But just know that she's at a safe place, a place where shes at peace, a place where she can watch over you, a place where she's loved by the good lord!! So sad that she's gone! she will be sadly missed so much,breaks my heart just to even think about it. you are one blessed mom. take care

  • @katiebeveridge2411
    @katiebeveridge2411 7 років тому +154

    I know that you had some horrid comments on this video - please ignore them !
    You have a beautiful, wonderful and clever daughter - do not forget that !!
    I am so sorry that she has passed, but please know that you were an amazing mother !! You fought so hard for her, and your encouragement towards her was impeccable!!
    Ignore these sad trolls ! You are fab and it's easy to see that bree had a happy and wonderful life with you!!

    • @JP90008
      @JP90008 7 років тому +14

      Seconded, all of these people obviously have little to no humanity or love for other people in their hearts and it hurts, but all they're here to do is be self-centered and try to get reactions and pain out of others for their own enjoyment. Nothing they say has any truth to it and it certainly doesn't come from their heart. I hope you can find comfort in knowing the fact YOU are connected to your heart and soul unlike them, that's a beautiful & important thing no matter how many people want to put it down. Keep going wendy

    • @junettrobinson520
      @junettrobinson520 7 років тому +2

      Katie Beveridge she looks like a boy

    • @alysamaberry5129
      @alysamaberry5129 7 років тому +3

      Junett Robinson are you freaking kidding me, you cant just go on a video like this and say that, she has conditions and you should know that by watching this video. dont go on videos like this and be rude. her diagnoses causes her to loose hair, it dosent mean you need to say she looks like a boy, you have short hair, what if i said you look like a boy, how do you feel? huh? thats what i thought.

    • @classicz9121
      @classicz9121 7 років тому

      Junett Robinson destroyed

    • @katiebeveridge2411
      @katiebeveridge2411 7 років тому +5

      Jolene Myers she is beautiful and clever - that's fact !

  • @victoriaf8571
    @victoriaf8571 8 років тому +17

    Massive respect for this woman, I don't think I could do this kind of thing.

  • @sandytrosper7258
    @sandytrosper7258 3 роки тому +10

    Heaven Truly got a Beautiful Angel. And to Mom Thank You for sharing all of this. God Bless You and All that helped you🙏✨

  • @Nick-ws3vv
    @Nick-ws3vv 8 років тому +57

    I feel so terrible for you. I couldn't imagine having to take care of my disabled child for 36+ years. It must be so hard. Financially and emotionally. I applaud your extraordinary parenting. You are very dedicated.

  • @aaabb7383
    @aaabb7383 7 років тому +433

    and this is what we call a mother.

    • @trillwill6261
      @trillwill6261 7 років тому

      Ares Bruna really, I couldn't tell but thanks for the help

    • @aaabb7383
      @aaabb7383 7 років тому +6

      trillwill ! you're welcome darling! whenever you feel like a dumb ass bitch call me and I'll give you some vocabulary in english like I did 💙

    • @justinclendenin2071
      @justinclendenin2071 7 років тому +1

      hunna dae tf

    • @chulubus3577
      @chulubus3577 7 років тому +2

      And this is what we call a failed birth

    • @trillwill6261
      @trillwill6261 7 років тому

      Guys I wasnt trying to be rude and I'm sorry if anybody got offended really, I just thought it was odd that you pointed out the obvious

  • @kaylaposey9030
    @kaylaposey9030 8 років тому +52

    I may get a lot of hate for this but there is no way I would be able to handle this or even have the patience for this stuff. I'm glad she does tho.

    • @l.victoria3474
      @l.victoria3474 8 років тому +1

      .

    • @dianepreston5531
      @dianepreston5531 8 років тому

      she is so cute!!!!!!!!

    • @hellobot67
      @hellobot67 8 років тому

      same. I'm glad I know this b4 I have kids so if it did happen I'd give it up for adoption

  • @opeani6476
    @opeani6476 7 років тому +1

    This makes me feel like crying the personality of mothers, the characters of mothers. A different kind of love a different kind of care that fills you up and wraps you all around, that God has blessed them with. Thank you God for that.😭❤❤

  • @suracakir8175
    @suracakir8175 7 років тому +793

    Strong beautiful mother.

  • @ashleymabe4694
    @ashleymabe4694 8 років тому +94

    God bless you and Bree.

    • @moa6081
      @moa6081 8 років тому +3

      ashley mabe truly

    • @zoeynicholson9930
      @zoeynicholson9930 8 років тому +3

      ashley mabe yes, indeed

    • @millycastellanos7031
      @millycastellanos7031 8 років тому +2

      God bless the child and God won't leev you and I well pray for you and your mom.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @keyboardguru4212
      @keyboardguru4212 8 років тому

      I can't begin to comprehend that you're fine with thinking that an all-loving deity did that.

  • @sintensity
    @sintensity 8 років тому +119

    such an amazing woman/mother.

  • @xxxxOS
    @xxxxOS 7 років тому +2

    I seriously hope your financial stress has been lifted. You are a strong inspirational woman and you deserve all the help you can get. Sending good thoughts from Scotland. If I was in any way able to help I would. Your story should be heard far and wide. Take care 🌸

  • @jvydenmarie
    @jvydenmarie 7 років тому +407

    So many people in the comments being rude or highly innapropiate.. she's beautiful no matter what and I'm sorry for your lost. You are the best mother a child could wish for. May god bless you ❤️

    • @Lex-hv2kq
      @Lex-hv2kq 7 років тому +16

      Leahbae Xxx you shouldve been aborted yourself tbh lol

    • @Lex-hv2kq
      @Lex-hv2kq 7 років тому +9

      Leahbae Xxx you saying she shoulve been abandoned because she can't support herself is fucking stupid and ridiculous. babies can't support themselves either so what should we do about them too then? hm i can only imagine your answer, especially with your twisted way of thinking.

    • @laraejuhay8791
      @laraejuhay8791 7 років тому

      Leahbae Xxx fucking people.

    • @LincolnTheLabrador
      @LincolnTheLabrador 7 років тому +8

      alexis schipritt No, you don't get my point! I'm saying she'll never be able to support herself, it's cruel to keep someone like that alive, it's not a life worth living! Of course babies can't support themselves I'm not an idiot, it's the fact that in the wild, they would have abandoned her because she's not good for the species! Something went wrong! You see it in real animals, Tigers for example let's say... If a tiger has a cub that has a severe disability meaning it won't be able to walk, support itself, or raise a family, it will be abandoned as it is no use to that species, they breed with the best, for the best! That what we used to be like when we survived on instinct, does THAT not tell you we're doing something wrong!!! Also could you tell me the reason you believe I should have been aborted? I'm intelligent, strong, healthy, I look to further our species in a good way and not in the way that will make us weak!

    • @LincolnTheLabrador
      @LincolnTheLabrador 7 років тому

      LaRae Juhay I can't tell whether you're with me or not!