Bro did you say you’re only 21!?? Sick beard! Hang in there man, there’s good in this world. I’m also an only child. The algorithm brought your video to me for a reason
Social media has ruined a lot and it’s hard to find the people that aren’t connected anymore. True meaning is hard to find but you also don’t need meaning to live a happy life
Im completely miserable and i have a couple very close (pact of steel) friends and loving parents. I have a lot more of a pessimistic view of my future than i'd like to admit. Keep going brother... personally i keep going out of spite for the world
yo, Nick, just finished watching your video, you're an amazing communicator first of all. But I'm a 17-year-old guy from the UK, and I can only thank you for popping up on my recommended because you really have a strong mind. and I feel as if I learned something. The fact that despite all of the hardships and troubles you mentioned, you still aren't depressed nor suicidal really says something about you and shows you have a spark alive to push through it. you said "Being a young man today is the hardest thing we will ever go through." but remember that all things in life, literally anything, that is of value are difficult to achieve or has hardships along the way. push through man, may not mean much as I'm across the globe, but, I care for you and I want to see a video in a year's time of a happier, newer, and improved you. Stick to it Bro!
Hey dude. Not very likely you'll get to see this comment but if you do it first off like to acknowledge and say sorry for the loss of your brother. I can't imagine going through something like that at such a young age. That's probably why you seem wise beyond your years. But bro, knock this shit the fuk off. YOU HAVE ONE FUKN LIFE! If you don't quit wallowing in defeat because your life turned out other than how you expected, the life that you do have is going to pass you by and you'll be left making videos about " Having no friends as a 80 year old senior citizen"!!! The thing about your life is that few get handed much of anything and the ones that do often pay for it later. You'll get what you put into it bro! You don't like the way it's going? Fuking change that shit!!! Don't roll over and die! You are a smart, well spoken and strong man! Be the super hero in your life's movie and make it what you want! You have the ability to do so! I hope you know this comes from a place of love. I'm a man in his 40s who didn't listen to advice like this until much too late in life. I love you man. God loves you!,and the world needs you. 💯💪💚
Bro youre only 21..... i would kill to be 21 again... but man.... i feel you dude... youre not alone in this.... god i can tell youre trying your hardest to keep a straight face recording this...
my guy your are not alone , ive been feeling very similar for years. i usually take one day at a time and thats it. its very bad how we feel but a part of me knows there has to be something good in life.
Inspiring though, I feel the same way you seem like a strong guy kind, it's motivating that someone like you lives such a content lifestyle if you can make yourself happy then others can aspire to be like you..
Nothing replaces family and the warmth of a supporting family who truly cares about you, and I can feel for you as I've had to live far away from my family for many many years now! Friends come and go, and the good ones give you a sense of security that is often short-lived and conditional. My honest two cents for you Nick: Lower your expectations, find a link-minded person, start your own family and have as many kids as you can afford! Time flies, so hurry up don't overthink too much! God bless you ❤
Yo Nick, thank you for making this video. Im sorry for the loss of your younger brother. I can relate to you alot, you remind me of myself a few years back when i was in the same situation, exept that i was younger and naturally less wise. I also wasted my life away, day after day of nothing, no one really cared about me, nor did i really care for anyone either, and i also knew that not much would really happen if i were to pass away. Just like you, i wasnt depressed, just nihilistic about the way i was living my life. It is true that around every of the negative things you bring up about you are correct, but i really think you overlook the positive traits u posess. You are a great communicator, you have a very unfiltered mind and you can clearly state facts without your emotions getting in the way. You are truely intelligent, which is the perfect foundation to become exeptional. I wholeheartedly believe that you can achieve alot of things with that mind of yours. Most people would crumble with the circumstances that u have been forced to live through. But you still have a spark left in u. And so did i. I agree that it is very hard to find new friends in your age. But the thing with friendship is that it is an exchange of value. And what is the best way to find good, strong and loving friends? To be that yourself ofc. I think that you should not wait until that spark inside of you dies out, but instead turn that spark into a raging flame and become the person you want to be. Because lets be real, you are not who you want to be, nor are you in the situation you want to be in. We can not change the past, but dont blow away wherever the wind takes you. Take controll of the present moment. You have such an excellent brain on your shoulders. You are just not using it to propell you in the right direction. I know that you have been caught in a downwards spiral and ended up into this situation that you are in now. But there is also such a thing as an upwards sprial, and i am a testament of that. You say that you find no pleasure in doing things. Which is a big hinderance in trying to become productive. And i think it may have to do with your mental health. You may feel ok mentally. But mental health goes way deeper than you may think. And therefore, please, PLEASE, if there is one piece of advice that i would want you to listen to, its to watch ”full mental health guide for men” by hamza. He will break down everything you need to know about the symtoms you are experiencing. And if, no, WHEN you have listened and taken note of what he has said and implimented these things. You will honestly feel like a whole new person mentally, that blocker of, why am i here, what am i doing with my life, i am useless, i cant do anything, all those thoughts get transformed into a productive and postive mindset. Honetsly when i look back at what i have experienced, that i was in that dark hole that you are in, i am acually gratefull for being there. Because that propelled me even more to become the person i want to be. And now, my life is amazing, i feel free mentally, i am in the physically best shape of my life, i have alot of friends who care about me, i am starting my buisness soon and i am on the path of earning my parents respect. My life is honestly fun, and it is even better because i was where i was. So please, do not let these years go to waste. Your life is only tragic because you labelled it as one, who is to say that your life is not a great story with a rough start. If you have read everything, thank you. I am gratefull for u making this video. Please listen to this as it is what i needed to hear when i was in ur situation
You weren't born by mistake, even if your parents may thought it was a mistake. You have something to bring to this world that only you can bring. You will find your way
You are so young! I know there's this idea that the best times of our lives are when we're young, but I think that's horseshit. It's different for everyone, and it might get a lot worse before it gets better, but that's how I feel. Maybe because my friendships as a teen were such ass 🤭 but I'm so much happier at 32 than 22 and I had to trudge thru a decade of bullshit to make it out the other side.
I mean if you lived a great life and everything, your legacy is not guaranteed to last a significant amount of time, or even any time at all. And if we do all explode and die, then no matter how long you are memorialized for, it will be over ultimately as if that legacy never existed in the first place. Essentially, if any of us died it wouldn't matter at all. But you would still feel things until you die, including the feeling of missing out as a young man. Having an idea of who you are from being a follower of the channel for months now, you aren't the type to just let rock bottom be the final position are you? Surely you will still try to find a way to make the best of your older man times, right? Enduring it with grace, per say
Jesus, you think being a young man is hard in this day and age? Try being a 40 year old man in this day and age! It only gets worse with age, nothing improves. I’m in a hell too.
perhaps its time to start being your own friend and enjoy being with the awesome guy that Nick is. Mr. Pash, perhaps its time you take all this shitty stuff and use it as fuel to work on yourself and become a force for good. Start small, improve your health, your emotional and mental state, rest 8 hours a night, drink a gallon of water a day, and get a pattern going. After you get a pattern going it will be second nature, and having a routine gives you purpose. Why do this? You should and deserve to take care of yourself. The small things will kick start and Newtons law will come into effect, you will be in motion and can conqueror bigger things that come to you. Open doors bro, the room you are in is shit because you are looking at the shit, look up at the doors in front of you, and keep opening them bro.
Don't feel down. The trauma people get from relationships and work is worse than being lonely. I've seen women 35-40yo still single and working
Bro did you say you’re only 21!?? Sick beard! Hang in there man, there’s good in this world. I’m also an only child. The algorithm brought your video to me for a reason
I'm in the exact same situation, I struggle daily with dissociation. Hang in there man, emotions come in ups and downs.
Social media has ruined a lot and it’s hard to find the people that aren’t connected anymore. True meaning is hard to find but you also don’t need meaning to live a happy life
Im completely miserable and i have a couple very close (pact of steel) friends and loving parents. I have a lot more of a pessimistic view of my future than i'd like to admit. Keep going brother... personally i keep going out of spite for the world
Your Potential is very high I cant feel that. You can talk very good thats a talent
yo, Nick, just finished watching your video, you're an amazing communicator first of all. But I'm a 17-year-old guy from the UK, and I can only thank you for popping up on my recommended because you really have a strong mind. and I feel as if I learned something. The fact that despite all of the hardships and troubles you mentioned, you still aren't depressed nor suicidal really says something about you and shows you have a spark alive to push through it. you said "Being a young man today is the hardest thing we will ever go through." but remember that all things in life, literally anything, that is of value are difficult to achieve or has hardships along the way. push through man, may not mean much as I'm across the globe, but, I care for you and I want to see a video in a year's time of a happier, newer, and improved you.
Stick to it Bro!
Thank you brother. It means a lot. Stay strong
Your self-loathing is what is killing you.
Hey dude. Not very likely you'll get to see this comment but if you do it first off like to acknowledge and say sorry for the loss of your brother. I can't imagine going through something like that at such a young age. That's probably why you seem wise beyond your years. But bro, knock this shit the fuk off. YOU HAVE ONE FUKN LIFE! If you don't quit wallowing in defeat because your life turned out other than how you expected, the life that you do have is going to pass you by and you'll be left making videos about " Having no friends as a 80 year old senior citizen"!!! The thing about your life is that few get handed much of anything and the ones that do often pay for it later. You'll get what you put into it bro! You don't like the way it's going? Fuking change that shit!!! Don't roll over and die! You are a smart, well spoken and strong man! Be the super hero in your life's movie and make it what you want! You have the ability to do so! I hope you know this comes from a place of love. I'm a man in his 40s who didn't listen to advice like this until much too late in life. I love you man. God loves you!,and the world needs you. 💯💪💚
Bro youre only 21..... i would kill to be 21 again... but man.... i feel you dude... youre not alone in this.... god i can tell youre trying your hardest to keep a straight face recording this...
my guy your are not alone , ive been feeling very similar for years. i usually take one day at a time and thats it. its very bad how we feel but a part of me knows there has to be something good in life.
Inspiring though, I feel the same way you seem like a strong guy kind, it's motivating that someone like you lives such a content lifestyle if you can make yourself happy then others can aspire to be like you..
Stay strong Nick. The fact that you are able to put this out, you have strength. So continue. Alotta Mfs arent doing that. So stay upright
Nothing replaces family and the warmth of a supporting family who truly cares about you, and I can feel for you as I've had to live far away from my family for many many years now! Friends come and go, and the good ones give you a sense of security that is often short-lived and conditional. My honest two cents for you Nick: Lower your expectations, find a link-minded person, start your own family and have as many kids as you can afford! Time flies, so hurry up don't overthink too much! God bless you ❤
Good luck man. I know exactly how you feel
Yo Nick, thank you for making this video. Im sorry for the loss of your younger brother.
I can relate to you alot, you remind me of myself a few years back when i was in the same situation, exept that i was younger and naturally less wise.
I also wasted my life away, day after day of nothing, no one really cared about me, nor did i really care for anyone either, and i also knew that not much would really happen if i were to pass away. Just like you, i wasnt depressed, just nihilistic about the way i was living my life.
It is true that around every of the negative things you bring up about you are correct, but i really think you overlook the positive traits u posess.
You are a great communicator, you have a very unfiltered mind and you can clearly state facts without your emotions getting in the way. You are truely intelligent, which is the perfect foundation to become exeptional. I wholeheartedly believe that you can achieve alot of things with that mind of yours. Most people would crumble with the circumstances that u have been forced to live through. But you still have a spark left in u. And so did i.
I agree that it is very hard to find new friends in your age. But the thing with friendship is that it is an exchange of value. And what is the best way to find good, strong and loving friends? To be that yourself ofc.
I think that you should not wait until that spark inside of you dies out, but instead turn that spark into a raging flame and become the person you want to be. Because lets be real, you are not who you want to be, nor are you in the situation you want to be in.
We can not change the past, but dont blow away wherever the wind takes you. Take controll of the present moment. You have such an excellent brain on your shoulders. You are just not using it to propell you in the right direction. I know that you have been caught in a downwards spiral and ended up into this situation that you are in now. But there is also such a thing as an upwards sprial, and i am a testament of that.
You say that you find no pleasure in doing things. Which is a big hinderance in trying to become productive. And i think it may have to do with your mental health. You may feel ok mentally. But mental health goes way deeper than you may think. And therefore, please, PLEASE, if there is one piece of advice that i would want you to listen to, its to watch ”full mental health guide for men” by hamza. He will break down everything you need to know about the symtoms you are experiencing. And if, no, WHEN you have listened and taken note of what he has said and implimented these things. You will honestly feel like a whole new person mentally, that blocker of, why am i here, what am i doing with my life, i am useless, i cant do anything, all those thoughts get transformed into a productive and postive mindset. Honetsly when i look back at what i have experienced, that i was in that dark hole that you are in, i am acually gratefull for being there. Because that propelled me even more to become the person i want to be. And now, my life is amazing, i feel free mentally, i am in the physically best shape of my life, i have alot of friends who care about me, i am starting my buisness soon and i am on the path of earning my parents respect. My life is honestly fun, and it is even better because i was where i was. So please, do not let these years go to waste. Your life is only tragic because you labelled it as one, who is to say that your life is not a great story with a rough start.
If you have read everything, thank you. I am gratefull for u making this video. Please listen to this as it is what i needed to hear when i was in ur situation
Thank you very much brother. I read everything and I will not forget your comment. Stay strong and thank you for the guidance.
You weren't born by mistake, even if your parents may thought it was a mistake. You have something to bring to this world that only you can bring. You will find your way
Man I’m just like this I never had nothing in my young years and I’m 19
You are so young! I know there's this idea that the best times of our lives are when we're young, but I think that's horseshit. It's different for everyone, and it might get a lot worse before it gets better, but that's how I feel. Maybe because my friendships as a teen were such ass 🤭 but I'm so much happier at 32 than 22 and I had to trudge thru a decade of bullshit to make it out the other side.
Same here
same
8:45 the question is, would the little you - the little Nick care?
Everyone else comes after , and that is not being egotistical.
hav you tried reading berserk?
Hey it’s ur life man
Based 😂
You look like me
I mean if you lived a great life and everything, your legacy is not guaranteed to last a significant amount of time, or even any time at all. And if we do all explode and die, then no matter how long you are memorialized for, it will be over ultimately as if that legacy never existed in the first place.
Essentially, if any of us died it wouldn't matter at all. But you would still feel things until you die, including the feeling of missing out as a young man.
Having an idea of who you are from being a follower of the channel for months now, you aren't the type to just let rock bottom be the final position are you? Surely you will still try to find a way to make the best of your older man times, right? Enduring it with grace, per say
Thank you. No way will I (or you) let rock bottom be the end. I still mean to chat with you man. Hope you’re doing well brother.
@@nickpasch true
I still mean to as well, theres a lot to talk about on both of our ends probably lol as time has progressed, my esteemed friend Nick
Jesus, you think being a young man is hard in this day and age? Try being a 40 year old man in this day and age! It only gets worse with age, nothing improves. I’m in a hell too.
Why
@@blueocean4447because he has doubled this guys age and been through it if this guy hates it at 21 imagine him at 40
Dude get a playstation
perhaps its time to start being your own friend and enjoy being with the awesome guy that Nick is.
Mr. Pash, perhaps its time you take all this shitty stuff and use it as fuel to work on yourself and become a force for good. Start small, improve your health, your emotional and mental state, rest 8 hours a night, drink a gallon of water a day, and get a pattern going.
After you get a pattern going it will be second nature, and having a routine gives you purpose. Why do this? You should and deserve to take care of yourself. The small things will kick start and Newtons law will come into effect, you will be in motion and can conqueror bigger things that come to you. Open doors bro, the room you are in is shit because you are looking at the shit, look up at the doors in front of you, and keep opening them bro.
Thank you for your comment brother. You are correct. I appreciate it. Good luck