Why Young Christian Men Are Completely Alone

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  • @jakebarnes3054
    @jakebarnes3054 9 днів тому +111

    Pastor Joel Webbon is hated because he is one of the only public mainstream-ish pastors currently who genuinely cares about young men and honestly listens to, evaluates and shows empathy to their concerns, rather than disregarding or suppressing them or shaming them. I'm not saying he's right about everything, but he certainly shows honesty and good and godly character. Much appreciated.

    • @spartakos3178
      @spartakos3178 9 днів тому

      @jakebarnes3054 it is not loving to be complicit in the spread of stupidity like denying the crimes of the Pagan German state in WWII.

    • @JBly4
      @JBly4 9 днів тому +14

      Yeah...that's not why people don't like Joel. His pride and arrogance is palpable and his methodology is unnecessarily divisive and often devoid of the true Christian gospel and riddled with a desire for personal political desires...
      I don't find that he cares about me whatsoever.

    • @cosmictreason2242
      @cosmictreason2242 9 днів тому +13

      @@JBly4sounds like the same criticism James White gets. Personally i think they're just confident and insecure people react to that as if it's arrogance

    • @JBly4
      @JBly4 9 днів тому +3

      @@cosmictreason2242 Honestly I'm not really sure what you are trying to say. Can you clarify that for me?

    • @cosmictreason2242
      @cosmictreason2242 9 днів тому +7

      @@JBly4 that he's not actually arrogant. Want arrogance look at William lane Craig or tim Keller

  • @naomimay82
    @naomimay82 8 днів тому +19

    This topic is one that has been concerning me for awhile. My son it 19 and he just doesn't have friends. He is pretty much alone. He talks to his sister, who is 22, and that is about it. His sister has multiple friends. Women seem to have more friends around them than men do. My husband would be alone also if I wasn't in his life. I am my husband's only friend.

    • @fw2101jacobinsleight
      @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому

      It's grevious but to have friends a man must show himself to be friendly the Bible says in the Proverbs.

    • @GracetoThee
      @GracetoThee 6 днів тому

      @@fw2101jacobinsleight You're a stain.

    • @jakebarnes3054
      @jakebarnes3054 6 днів тому +1

      @@naomimay82 churches have a lot more events for women, also there are more social clubs for women. Men don't really have anything except soy things like gaming.

    • @straight_outta_jail
      @straight_outta_jail 18 годин тому

      everything is wrapped in plastic > estrogen is higly elevated > men become emotional and weak
      if i were you, i´d pay both of them to take estrogen blockers, testosterone enhancement supplements, vitamin d + k2 or k3 and vitamin b complex. after a month or two, the payment won´t be necessary, they´ll be wrestling in the living room for fun

    • @straight_outta_jail
      @straight_outta_jail 17 годин тому

      get them to take estrogen blockers, for real. has to do with everything being wrapped in plastic

  • @michaelblanks4284
    @michaelblanks4284 9 днів тому +18

    That introduction should have been shown during a major football game broadcast in the middle of it with a phone number for a way out wow that's powerful

    • @fw2101jacobinsleight
      @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +1

      Why? So we can all hug the baby boys and make them feel better ?

    • @GracetoThee
      @GracetoThee 6 днів тому +2

      @@fw2101jacobinsleight I'm sorry Kamala lost - it has to be hard for you

    • @fw2101jacobinsleight
      @fw2101jacobinsleight 6 днів тому

      @GracetoThee well Grace to Thee, you are not being gracious to me. It's not hard for me at all though. Your avatar name is contradictory. What's your favorite NT Epistle with that greeting and why, I do want to know?

    • @GracetoThee
      @GracetoThee 6 днів тому

      @@fw2101jacobinsleight Oh I'm sorry, I was momentarily gripped by the thought of 10s of thousands of American men committing suicide each year while troll ghosts like you come out here and call them "baby boys" who need a hug. You waste of air.

  • @Jim-i1e
    @Jim-i1e 9 днів тому +14

    Please pray for the autists who aren't able to be around people but desperately want to be. I'm too messed up in public at all, what I would give for one Lord's Supper. When I hear people choosing not to go to church I think they are insane, what I would give to just sit and listen to a sermon or hymn. I worry it's God keeping me from the table because I'm evil sometimes. My nervous system is broken beyond fixing and I'm just ready to go home.
    To make matters worse I have great pattern recognition skills and most churches would probably kick me out for things I believe now based on evidence, not something I wished to be true. I'm going to study some Ephesians with Bruce Gore now, and commune with my Lord.
    "Believe to the end, even if all men went astray and you were left the only one faithful; bring your offering even then and praise God in your loneliness." - Fyodor Dostoevsky

    • @jakebarnes3054
      @jakebarnes3054 9 днів тому +3

      Why can't you attend if you don't mind me asking?

    • @tuhuriwai7814
      @tuhuriwai7814 9 днів тому +1

      Just me brother you can be around people, Don't let the enemy tell you otherwise, so what if its uncomfortable so what if its hard, so what if others get annoyed or frustrated so what. trust in the Lord for your anxiety and trust in the Lord for others anxieties. Love you brother God be with you

    • @lakota2-1warden
      @lakota2-1warden 9 днів тому +1

      As a fellow autist who has similar pattern recognition skills that have developed, I am in probably your very same boat. I also find myself ostracized and unable to be around many people, and never feel like I can truly say what I know.
      I will pray for you, brother.

    • @josiahstallings359
      @josiahstallings359 9 днів тому +4

      Please please go to church. Find some guys your age. Explain what you have going on. They will take care of you man. Praying for you

    • @f4g1980
      @f4g1980 9 днів тому

      I am hoping to one day answer the calling for ordination so that I can travel a couple Lords Days a month to bring a proper worship to those who cannot come.

  • @ghostring3624
    @ghostring3624 9 днів тому +28

    You guys touch on this, but reason why men are hesitant to make friends at church is because the modern evangelical church is built around women. Men don’t like to sit around and talk about our feelings. Being vulnerable like this feels like weakness. It doesn’t matter how many times the pastor with skinny jeans and white square framed glasses say otherwise. Men are not going to talk about how this Bible passage make them feel or cry about it. We know no one cares about how we feel elsewhere, so why would they here? Women are rewarded with attention if they show emotion at church. Men do not. If you see a man crying, you might say something kind or encouraging, but deep inside you already wrote him off.

    • @cosmictreason2242
      @cosmictreason2242 8 днів тому

      @@ghostring3624 and i can also observe, that the guys who put on a show are more respected

    • @raalphsic4527
      @raalphsic4527 8 днів тому

      No. We don't write them off. We pray that whatever blessing or conviction that made the tear up, is in God's will & encourage them.

    • @EliMichaelMedia
      @EliMichaelMedia 4 дні тому

      We need church groups where guys get together to drink beer and pontificate.

    • @raalphsic4527
      @raalphsic4527 4 дні тому

      @@EliMichaelMedia by the Word, I disagree. But my worldly self, finds this, hilarious.

    • @EliMichaelMedia
      @EliMichaelMedia 4 дні тому

      @@raalphsic4527 where in The Word would disagree with me?

  • @marshallalbritton9521
    @marshallalbritton9521 13 годин тому +1

    Another fantastic discussion. Keep up the good work. Come visit me in Nashville!

  • @topkapi9351
    @topkapi9351 8 днів тому +3

    ~41:20 It's refreshing and encouraging to hear you speak well of some of the men who have not spoken quite-as-well about you recently. Still hoping and praying for some proof of reconciliation and repentance that can be shared publicly. The act itself may not need to be public, but the testimony about it should be.
    EDIT: Just realized this is an old episode, but I imagine you would still feel the same - you are normally one to give credit where it is due, even if you have a personal grievance.

  • @AnUnhappyBusiness
    @AnUnhappyBusiness 8 днів тому +16

    I don't know what you mean by young. I my experience, men between ages 18 and 45 are completely alone. I know because I am 43. That's a wide range. It's not one generation. It's closing in on 3 at this point.

    • @badLlama86
      @badLlama86 8 днів тому

      How about Duke Nuk'em? That's even further back I know. ;)

    • @dandathomas6852
      @dandathomas6852 8 днів тому

      What is wrong with you? Do you wear deodorant? Nuts.

    • @raalphsic4527
      @raalphsic4527 8 днів тому +3

      Valid

  • @kraetah
    @kraetah 8 днів тому +5

    I can relate and I'm not young. Christ saved me 18 months ago and my socialising with people has slowly diminished.....visiting parents and Church are the highlights with occasional bi monthly geek gatherings......God is isolating me for a reason and I have to trust in the plan 🙏

    • @fw2101jacobinsleight
      @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому

      The world is not a happy place for Christians, nor is it meant to be such.

  • @adambrown2621
    @adambrown2621 6 днів тому

    "If you're a bunch of young men, with the same ideals, move into the same area."
    I became the pastor of a small church in Sunderland Ontario as of March 2023. 6 of my closest friends now reside in the area. Brothers, the time has come to rise to the occasion. Let faith reign and let courage overcome fear.

  • @fw2101jacobinsleight
    @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +2

    @1:12....Joel will now tell the internet audience but admonish the Church of the Lord Jesus Christ what they MUST, they must do. Binding all consciences to what the Lord does not bind us with is an ugly sin. It's an hypocrital legalism, at the very best. Pride goeth before destruction, everyone...see the book of Proverbs (and the rest of the Scriptures prove this from Genesis 3...to Revelation 22.

  • @chickensouplover516
    @chickensouplover516 9 днів тому +5

    Dang, that cold open hit hard.

  • @joeyrose1245
    @joeyrose1245 9 днів тому +5

    Great show, men. I am encouraged by you men.

  • @vladdrako785
    @vladdrako785 8 днів тому +5

    If I didn't have Jesus Christ form Nazareth I'd have nothing

  • @Daniel-oy4gu
    @Daniel-oy4gu 9 днів тому +5

    So much truth here!

  • @jahnvantuttlesma8215
    @jahnvantuttlesma8215 8 днів тому +2

    Infantilizing young men like this is so tiring.

  • @johnjames8739
    @johnjames8739 8 днів тому +2

    Young Christian men and also older single brothers in Christ

  • @banemaler
    @banemaler 9 днів тому +14

    This lineup would make for a fantastic reaccuring podcast.

  • @nolanhoiting
    @nolanhoiting 8 днів тому +7

    From my experience, women have alot harder time making strong friendships. I am blessed with a great group of friends, Christian men. We hold each other accountable, meet up regularily, and have each others backs. Alot of women I know seem to struggle with gossip, drama, and catty behaviour from other women.

    • @PostMillMan
      @PostMillMan 8 днів тому +2

      Very true, I have sisters and this was all they talked about when we were younger

    • @Ladynilow
      @Ladynilow 8 днів тому

      😂😂😂😂 yet studies show that the reason why man are lonely is because they don’t have a life outside of their wives , man’s friendships are very fickle , they only make misogynistic jokes complaining about their wives and everything is funny while dying inside and depending on the same wife he jokes about to be happy. Women are saying F marriage and guess who is on the internet mad about it ? Why ! Because marriage improves a man’s life , every single woman means an involuntary lonely man who gets no free labour and he lives a shorter life and ranks low on the happiness index😅 stop tripping, even this panel admits this , stop trying to cope.

  • @titustschetter9279
    @titustschetter9279 8 днів тому +1

    Nice to see you guys not countersignaling , but continuing on course .

  • @KaptainKLamity
    @KaptainKLamity 9 днів тому +2

    Joel Webbon playing Halo LAN is the most based mental image I've had all day

  • @scottcrist0070
    @scottcrist0070 8 днів тому +4

    How dare you describe my weekend plans in the intro!?

  • @KyleCombes
    @KyleCombes 7 днів тому +1

    Great, Joel said "It does get gay." Now we have to wait for the Gamora Declaration 😅

  • @mOYNTdnbzso
    @mOYNTdnbzso 9 днів тому +3

    We are living in the "weak men" phase of the cycle. I don't think we'll get to "strong men" phase until we experience the next phase in the cycle.

    • @godzillioinaire
      @godzillioinaire 9 днів тому +4

      There's a little something called revival that saves generations from time to time

    • @frizzyrascal1493
      @frizzyrascal1493 8 днів тому

      Revival is a myth. Where is it mentioned regarding the end-times?

    • @cosmictreason2242
      @cosmictreason2242 8 днів тому

      @@godzillioinaire we already had that in the millennials. The AVERAGE millennial Christian man is more doctrinally sound than the top 5% of boomers, thanks in large part to that 5%'s faithfulness

    • @dandathomas6852
      @dandathomas6852 8 днів тому

      These are not strong men. Real men don’t have time to listen to these little girls talk about their feelings. What a joke.

  • @cosmictreason2242
    @cosmictreason2242 9 днів тому +3

    0:38 video games are something i use as a BETTER form of idleness than pornography. And i walk on the treadmill for hours while playing

  • @CornishCrusade
    @CornishCrusade 8 днів тому +8

    Reasons why Joel is my favourite online pastor:
    1. He stands up for his congregation and young men.
    2. He is an inveterate Halo 1 fanboy

    • @fw2101jacobinsleight
      @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +1

      Online pastors don't exist. God does not countenance the-church-of-the-internet in the out-working of spiritual gifts.

    • @CornishCrusade
      @CornishCrusade 7 днів тому

      @fw2101jacobinsleight is he a Pastor of a church? Is he online? The answer to both is yes, which is why I said "online Pastor". He's not my favourite Pastor of all time, because I am in membership of my local church and have a Pastor whom the Lord has given me as undershepherd.
      Was that clearer for the sake of your self-righteousness?

    • @fw2101jacobinsleight
      @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +1

      @CornishCrusade I'm not righteous in myself and neither are but that's a good answer from you besides the omniscient judgement you pronounced upon me, yes sir.

    • @fw2101jacobinsleight
      @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +1

      PS...saw your historicals channel...subbed!

    • @JW-tg1nn
      @JW-tg1nn День тому

      ​@@CornishCrusadehe isn't qualified to be a pastor. He is self appointed and has no education.

  • @TheTheologizingSubject
    @TheTheologizingSubject 9 днів тому +1

    I like this camera angle better than the new one

  • @FITSOZOLIFE
    @FITSOZOLIFE 8 днів тому +1

    Young men GO to church for a performance from the headline act. If the Churches gathered to eat pray, honour, edify glorify mentor, mature as well as courage to be men of Issachar we would have a proper army. Now we have passive consumer weak sheep

  • @JRRodriguez-nu7po
    @JRRodriguez-nu7po 8 днів тому +4

    As if that's not enough, now older pastors condemn younger ones for little cause. James White is a godly man yet in his arrogance has gone so far as to say he will no longer speak the name of Robles, another godly man. Grt it through your head that godly doesn't mean not being a sinner.

    • @cosmictreason2242
      @cosmictreason2242 8 днів тому +1

      @@JRRodriguez-nu7po he specifically said he would be happy if he never had to say his name again, that's not the same impulsive comment you implied he made

    • @JRRodriguez-nu7po
      @JRRodriguez-nu7po 8 днів тому +2

      @@cosmictreason2242 Assuming you're correct as I will not go back to check; the comment is still excessive. I will continue to listen to White and on occasion Robles. I have zero interest in starting a war over the war so if you disagree, God bless you, sincerely.

  • @fw2101jacobinsleight
    @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +2

    For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple." Romans 16:18

  • @trenthobson2756
    @trenthobson2756 7 днів тому +1

    Just wait. In 15 years, all of these 20 year olds will have established our villages, and when things get tough, Telegramburg will wage war agains discordville, and Xlund will be split in two, as half of them go to fight alongside their Telegram bros, and the other half will try to defend their Discord oomfies.

    • @teamblair466
      @teamblair466 2 дні тому

      The dystopic bloody entertainment George Carlin prophesied!

  • @fw2101jacobinsleight
    @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +2

    "Every...single...moment...he is confronted with the fact that he is alone"...@1:02...that's not hyperbolic. That is theologically AND most importantly not true/a falsehood/a lie. Not everyone is a self focused as the presenter ladies and gentleman. Weep and wail for the poor victims these young men have become in the eyes of Joel Webbon!!

    • @justinm4497
      @justinm4497 7 днів тому

      ??? thats the story of my life.

  • @naterpotater7739
    @naterpotater7739 8 днів тому +1

    39:53 Halo LAN parties mentioned 🔥

  • @fw2101jacobinsleight
    @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +1

    @ 19 seconds in...People who you work with that care nothing for the young man's existence "but a paycheck." How slanderous of the many co-workers I have had that the Lord inclined to treat me well and who liked me when I was in my 20s. What a slander against all my co-workers from my career...many of whom display more phileo than master Joel Webbon here is saying with his satanic lies in the introductory video...(which i only listened to 2 minutes of yet. The Scripture says..."be not wise in your own eyes"...and "be wise and sin not." Target acquired for refutation, which is imminent. Public debates work best everyone. I do hereby nominate Dr. James White of Alpha and Omega ministries to take up the gauntlet.

    • @SamsungBurner
      @SamsungBurner 4 дні тому

      Good grief. He's making a generalization.

  • @JesseStevenPollom
    @JesseStevenPollom 9 днів тому +1

    Love pastor Webbon!
    I’m concerned that his propagation of the unecessarily unwise & problematic ADRobles is fogging his lens of wise ministry.
    Much love & prayers for Right Response Ministries!

    • @Sting79
      @Sting79 9 днів тому +9

      AD shines light where it needs to land

  • @ReformedStudent1689
    @ReformedStudent1689 9 днів тому +5

    Are these ICYMI episodes old episodes being reuploaded? I'll listen either way since I've only been listening for a year now, I'm just curious. As always, God bless!

  • @dopechannoodles9791
    @dopechannoodles9791 9 днів тому +1

    Yall forgot about the Bundy Ranch situation back in 2014?

  • @danman2001
    @danman2001 9 днів тому +1

    Halo 1? I'm talking about Doom 2 and Quake 1 😂
    The ol LAN party days

  • @palladin1337
    @palladin1337 2 дні тому +2

    "Why young Christian men are completely alone."
    Right off the bat, we've got a problem since you're not actually talking about young Christian men in general, no matter how much you pretend otherwise. What you are talking about are young Christian men who are also indoctrinated with Christian Apologetics, and the reason they are likely facing problems dating people outside of their faith (don't know what the real numbers are, but I sincerely doubt it's whatever is quoted here given who is presenting this 'case') is because this position has become so toxic and disconnected from reality that most people keep their distance once these men start spouting the classic talking points.
    Moderate Christians don't have this problem. Complaining that your own flavor of Christianity is self-destructive in this regard does nothing to address the actual problem.
    You either need to stop with all of the unhinged BS you're taking on to this that's driving other away, or just accept the fact that your specific brand of Christianity is further isolating itself with each generation.

  • @fw2101jacobinsleight
    @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +1

    "Entertainment" at 40 seconds in...like Bigfoot and other Crypto-Zoological fables and myths?...2 TIMOTHY 4:4

  • @stephencooper5040
    @stephencooper5040 8 днів тому

    23:38 the Battle of Athens is at least part of the reason that the VA exists the way it does today.

  • @lj5116
    @lj5116 8 днів тому +3

    Doug Wilson lost my support forever with his “we need more Abigail’s” comment.
    Trying to induce divorce is anti Christian behavior.

    • @cosmictreason2242
      @cosmictreason2242 8 днів тому

      @@lj5116 not what he was doing, he was saying the wives shouldn't just switch churches on a whim because the dividing line for the husband is wanting to hear hollow caused denial. She should stay at her church. That's not filing papers

    • @lj5116
      @lj5116 8 днів тому +1

      @ yes it was what he was doing. He didn’t even explicitly outline holocaust denial.
      Old scumbags like that have been doing this to young white guys for a long time.
      This is a powertrip and nothing more.

    • @Narikku
      @Narikku 8 днів тому

      Do you think Abigail is a good or bad figure for Christian Women?

    • @lj5116
      @lj5116 8 днів тому +1

      @ I think divorcing your husband for not agreeing with every lie the Pharisees tell is wrong.

    • @Narikku
      @Narikku 8 днів тому

      @@lj5116 Huh, I wonder where my comment went. Let's try again.
      Do you think Abigail is a good or bad role model for Christian Women?

  • @charshii3745
    @charshii3745 9 днів тому +3

    Is this live?

  • @random_person6041
    @random_person6041 13 годин тому

    👀👀👀

  • @thundergrace
    @thundergrace 9 днів тому +1

    dehumanization of cities....

  • @hannahmcmillan5712
    @hannahmcmillan5712 9 днів тому +1

    What is ICYMI?

  • @clay8546
    @clay8546 3 дні тому

    Someone who thinks the earth is hallow and mermaids are real doesn’t have enough intellect or discernment to be a preacher

  • @nathanphillipsgo
    @nathanphillipsgo 8 днів тому

    3 of my favorite Christian leaders. Thank you

  • @fw2101jacobinsleight
    @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +1

    @ 29 seconds. Lunchtime in the car is great. Even as an heathen I would enjoy lunch in the car, or take it in the dining room of my local Burger King. Oppressive architecture? That is laughable. Does Joel think the Grimace or Mayor McCheese is a terror? Wow, he totally disrespects and insults all young men who love their lunchtimes at work. I'd rather eat at McDonald's in an inner city than sit to meat with this trio in that pompous set they have devised for themselves through visual craftiness and an elitist aesthetic!

  • @SamDailyShow
    @SamDailyShow 8 днів тому

    Hey boys, I started a lawn care business 3 years ago. Now I own a home, married, and the business is making more than a quarter million per year. It started with joining my local church.

  • @fw2101jacobinsleight
    @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому +1

    Those poor, poor young men are just poor victims 😢

    • @JW-tg1nn
      @JW-tg1nn День тому

      They're the woke right.

  • @fw2101jacobinsleight
    @fw2101jacobinsleight 7 днів тому

    Poor baby boys.

  • @shawncampbell77
    @shawncampbell77 6 днів тому

    Joel, I’m so confused by you…I do not understand how you believe that you are living like Christ. Speaking like Christ. Preaching and teaching like Christ…..if you are truly Christian, as you claim, then you know who you are when you look in the mirror. If you are truly as you say then you know what you see when you stare at your reflection. What you see is not truth and intelligence. I wish you could see deeper; past your reflection, bc what you see is everything Christ spoke against. I believe there is a good man there but I’m afraid you got lost along the way by shiny new things and fame from a following, just stating my opinion, you are leading off a cliff.

  • @MattyD315apologetics
    @MattyD315apologetics 8 днів тому

    170 per adult to listen to speak.. ur nuts 🤪
    Sty8 luny bro.
    To hear u regurgitate thr dame junk I just heard for free..
    Bush Gardens sounds much more entertaining. Season passes.. 😮
    Tragic ks what this is.. 😢

  • @spartakos3178
    @spartakos3178 9 днів тому +8

    Denying the most well documented event in human history is a pretty idiotic way to find friends

    • @theMolluskMan
      @theMolluskMan 9 днів тому +31

      Agreed. Denying the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ is a dead end.

    • @spartakos3178
      @spartakos3178 9 днів тому

      @theMolluskMan Denying that millions of people were killed by a Pagan German nation in the 20th century is also stupid.
      As is claiming that Hebrews own everything and form some kind cabal.

    • @jacobmark4198
      @jacobmark4198 9 днів тому +10

      There was no soap, there were no lampshades….but there were swimming pools, ice cream parlors, soccer fields and orchestras

    • @brendangolledge8312
      @brendangolledge8312 9 днів тому +8

      @@jacobmark4198 and newspapers started talking about it decades before it even happened

    • @spartakos3178
      @spartakos3178 9 днів тому +1

      @@jacobmark4198 There are pictures of the bodies genius.