Wow your like a younger me . Very brave exploring the inner person , for anyone . When we dismantle our weirdo ways and lay it all out to examine (in an attempt to fix it all up) it's way overwhelming as it looks like a huge mess and seems impossible make right or even pack away again . Coping alone at feeling seriously fucked up and in deep emotional pain with no one to trust did alot of damage in my early 20s . At 56 It still feels raw thinking back . Good man putting your story across in such a relaxed and genuine way . Cheers
Tbh i would have been keen to hear the 5 hour version. I was following along in this video more then any of your others (i guess that means i feel it was your best video) As you know we have so many similarities growing up in similar enviroments and even though somethings took different shape and their a few differences I had a few epithanies about myself in this. Wouldnt be able to articulate them shortly though i would need to make a video also . Anyway i thoroughly enjoyed that, would be cool if their was a part 2 of how you came to find radical honesty, key milestones in corrections maybe even coaching lessons. Would be cool to hear the personal account of how you came to differentate between radical and powerful honesty. Thanks for the lessons so far Dan! I appreciate you going first on this journey and passing it foreward to me and many others like us. Very sincere thank you.
I relate to everything you said.because i was that guy and i am that guy and im proud of it why?because out of 100 people your the chosen one and the special one🎉
Yeah a lot of Nice Guys eventually come to see themselves as "special". It's a coping mechanism - creating an identity that allows us to feel some peace with our suffering. I've spoken more about it in this podcast here theinspirationallifestyle.com/podcast/you-are-not-special-but-its-ok/
What aboute a person with no childhood trauma that then experience something horrific for example whitnessing thier child die in war. That will affect anyone regarless, right?
Of course, but the lasting effects will probably be different. The non-traumatised person will be able to process and recover much better than the person with unhealed childhood trauma
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Wow your like a younger me . Very brave exploring the inner person , for anyone . When we dismantle our weirdo ways and lay it all out to examine (in an attempt to fix it all up) it's way overwhelming as it looks like a huge mess and seems impossible make right or even pack away again . Coping alone at feeling seriously fucked up and in deep emotional pain with no one to trust did alot of damage in my early 20s .
At 56 It still feels raw thinking back .
Good man putting your story across in such a relaxed and genuine way . Cheers
Thanks mate, I hope it's going better for you these days
Tbh i would have been keen to hear the 5 hour version.
I was following along in this video more then any of your others (i guess that means i feel it was your best video)
As you know we have so many similarities growing up in similar enviroments and even though somethings took different shape and their a few differences I had a few epithanies about myself in this. Wouldnt be able to articulate them shortly though i would need to make a video also . Anyway i thoroughly enjoyed that, would be cool if their was a part 2 of how you came to find radical honesty, key milestones in corrections maybe even coaching lessons. Would be cool to hear the personal account of how you came to differentate between radical and powerful honesty. Thanks for the lessons so far Dan! I appreciate you going first on this journey and passing it foreward to me and many others like us. Very sincere thank you.
Cheers bro, and I'll give some serious thought to a part 2
I relate to everything you said.because i was that guy and i am that guy and im proud of it why?because out of 100 people your the chosen one and the special one🎉
Yeah a lot of Nice Guys eventually come to see themselves as "special". It's a coping mechanism - creating an identity that allows us to feel some peace with our suffering.
I've spoken more about it in this podcast here theinspirationallifestyle.com/podcast/you-are-not-special-but-its-ok/
What aboute a person with no childhood trauma that then experience something horrific for example whitnessing thier child die in war. That will affect anyone regarless, right?
Of course, but the lasting effects will probably be different. The non-traumatised person will be able to process and recover much better than the person with unhealed childhood trauma
This was genius.
Cheers dude
UA-cam obviously thinks I’m a target audience for mixed-up middle-aged men 😂
What were you hoping to achieve with this comment?
Bandaids come in many forms. This is a story of true triage and surgery.
Thanks mate :)