You can’t discuss anything with emotionally immature adults. They just tantrum, sulk and walk away from discussions if it is something they don’t want to hear or deal with regarding a personal responsibility or accountability issue. If they don’t recognise or accept their behaviour, they will never grow up and mature.
So true, so well said! All of this only applies where you have two healthy people, two people trying to heal, grow, and connect. But if you do this work and get nothing back from your partner, consider it a red flag and reassess your situation.
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You can’t discuss anything with emotionally immature adults. They just tantrum, sulk and walk away from discussions if it is something they don’t want to hear or deal with regarding a personal responsibility or accountability issue. If they don’t recognise or accept their behaviour, they will never grow up and mature.
So true, so well said! All of this only applies where you have two healthy people, two people trying to heal, grow, and connect. But if you do this work and get nothing back from your partner, consider it a red flag and reassess your situation.