I completely agree with you. People used to always talk about me behind my back, and I'd always hear about it from someone else. It's like "are they that bored with their life/hate their life that much that they have to talk about my personal life?" They needed to get a hobby or something.
You make SO many valid points. People honestly waste too much time making fun of people and abashing the things they dislike, rather than using their time productively for something they actually enjoy.
I remember being picked on a tad when I was in High School, but I didn't let it get to me and maybe it even gave me a greater appreciation for people who act or dress differently. I love seeing the creativeness that comes out in people, and others should learn to accept it for what it is instead of making fun of them. :D
your sons are blessed to have you as their dad. they are gonna be 2 upstanding boys coming up in the world to be spectacular men i bet everything on that
Great vid DS. This connects to something else you've spoken of - treat other people as you'd like to be treated yourself. Words can hurt, so be careful with them!
Keep doing these videos. I really appreciate that you take your own time, talk to us. Millions of people you don't know. Your videos really make me wonder if I've been following the right path my whole life. I think I've always been nice and caring, but maybe I haven't. The videos like this that you produce, I once again really appreciate them, and I like them cause they make me think.
Well said, DS. And very well balanced (that there's a time and a place to raise the bar for your appearance vs being yourself and giving others that same permission).
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. That has always been my moto and keep it up Digi great vid as always :)
im with u man... theres ALOt of ppl that i wish would watch this just so they get an understanding of allowing ppl to be who they are .. yaknow? your little rants like this remind me alot of my father, who always told me straight up what he thought was right and what not, and thats the way things should b, just be who u r and love who you are and if someone has a problem with that then they obviously have their own problems they need to work out..
I use to let people get to me. When they would judge me. Now I just blow it off. Not even worth getting steamed over. TV these days is out of control as far as content. Totally agree with ya man. People that judge really need to get a hobby.
ur right soul i dress & talk more urban(gangsta/thug) but most of my best friends are punk rocks & i listen to more metal/rock than rap hiphop & alot of people just think cuz i rock baggy clothes & im either rocking an fit it hat or a hoodie people just assume im just a crazy rap fan that likes to start trouble when in reality i h8 drama i mean i can fight if it escalates to it but i rather avoid it plus theres no respect in street fights any more, i just like to relax & chill
DiGiTiLsOuL man you are the greatest. I know i say this time and time again on all your videos but you are a real intelligent dude. thanks for helpin me see the other side of the perverbial ball.
I'm from northern Ohio (as you go more south in Ohio accents sound more southern like Kentucky or Tennessee) anyway, I went to see my dad in California and everyone there said I had an accent! My dad says it's a slight Boston accent, but I'm just now starting to notice it because it's all I hear since the people around me sound the same.
Everyone should watch this.... especially the masses of people that harass people for not being like them. People are supposed to be different, (that's why they are different) however, people also don't like differences in other people... You're different, and you're hated, that's just the way close minded people think..
Truth be told, people label themselves. Everyone makes the choice to look how they look or talk how they talk (style-wise), knowing full well the judgemental nature of the world and of people in general. It's human nature. To judge is to be human. It's critically analyzing everything around you. We do it with governments and other things....and it's a good thing. But because people are so insecure, they get all up in arms when it happens to them.....
This is obviously been going on for forever but I decided not to get tattoos, piercings and a mohawk because whether someone will admit it or not, especially an employer, there are preconceived connotation from earlier experiences that could impact their decision in a professional world. Whether it's right or not is another matter, but personally, I refrain from anything that could effect my professional good standing...
yeah man i agree with you here. I call myself a metalhead, I wear black band t-shirts all the time. thats what i wear and i get looked at differently and called goth or emo. It was annoying at first but now im 19 i dont care call me what you want. I wear black so what. I still me, i just love heavy metal music
i have always bin picked on and bullied for who i am. never understood why tho. if you dont like me then just dont talk to me unless you have to. if i dont like you i sure as hell wont bag on you for not being my kind of person, but for thoes of you out there being bullied and messed with dont EVER loose your individuality, never be what they want you to be. dont play their game. be yourself and youll always know who your true friends are. peace
....so the thing is: Being judgemental isn't the problem. The problem is people need to be comfortable with who and how they are and not be effected by the judgements made against them. Be who you want to be. Talk how you want to talk. Say what you want to say. You're never going to make everyone happy but you can be happy with who you are.
I'm scared for the health of the ones who poke fun at people... i'm a rather calm person but when someone pushes my buttons I can only respond with the only language they understand... the fist language. I don't wanna do something stupid but those loud mouths get on my nerves...
It's kinda the same here in the UK. I'm grew up in a working class background so I speak like a working class southerner. "Awrigh' may'? 'aaz i' goin'?" So people assume I'm uneducated and stupid but that couldn't be further from the truth. I had a great education, I have a degree ffs and I have an IQ of 140. But people judge me based just on how I speak.
Haha...I've been someone's "hobby" before. They disect every sentence looking for a lie or something. One common thread is they claim that the object of their hobby has no life, is mentally ill, etc, but they don't see that making comments, videos and even channels to attack someone whose life has no impact on theirs is actually indicative of the very thing they accuse others of. These people are sad, pathetic and most likely have no real self esteem. Blessings, Frank!
Dude, I did not know you were from Pitt. I've seen you wearing Stillers stuff in your videos but didn't think twice..Pretty cool though, little Washington here. I'm totally feelin this video though, I hate that BS..judgmental people are ridiculous. I wear jeans, boots, and plaid shirts..drive a Jeep and everyone always passes judgment as a hick, though I listen to ALL kind of music. Really liking your serious vids man, keep it up
i agree mostly BUT i do believe that if someone goes out of their way to make themselves look a certain way to fit in such as a scene kid goes out of their way to make their hair all messed up then people are entitled to their opinions. it might hurt then but thats life and everyone has opinions. maybe its not right to judge them but everyone has opinions. you dont have to be mean and tell them you hate it but thinking isnt that bad.
Personally, someone who always picks on certain people, I find that creepy. Don't see them as bullies, see them as creepy guys that have the same level of obsession as love stalkers.
You are fucking awesome haha XD I think the same as you. I only characterize people of they way they act in my school. I don't care what they dress like but its how they act where I start judging them.
It's a disgusting habit to pass judgment, but that's what it is... It's a habit. I've always promoted open mindedness amongst the people I've surrounded myself with, but sometimes it is just too frustrating.
people rag on other people harshly because they aren't comfortable in there own skin. so if they're miserable mhy not make someone else miserable. misery loves company.
some people are so lame, and so bored with their existence, that yes, they must bash on other people. i know a couple of these low lifers. they are very annoying. everything someone else does is their business. they MUST critique and gossip about them. i find it extremely annoying that in today's society, with the vast acceptance that we appear to have for others NOW, that it still must be the jobs of certain individuals to slam and bash on others. For what? Live your own life! Geesh!
I love how people are talking bad about my girlfriend for no reason other than to talk bad about her. I'm getting ready to throw some punches xD I live in Pittsburgh too... maybe you and me could meet up... maybe jump 'em or something xD nah, I know the only reason they're talking about her is because they really are bored, miserable, and can see that we're really happy, and that thought makes me laugh. Keep up these videos, man!
This guy give better advice on changing your outlook on other people and giving confidence. Why can't this guy be featured video material instead of the 10,000 girls that give makeup tips? Shallow stuff about your appearance versus this deeper advice.
Personally, I'm 100% fine with how people actually are, but I hafta admit, I HATE when people TRY to be "emo" or "gangster", I wear all black and listen to metal and such, but I don't TRY to be. I just hate when people decide "Oh, Ima be emo now" and wear eyeliner and all black
Let me told u my story . Now In my School (high School ) other students think that The smoking makes u Man ! Or more stronger ! And the truth He is breaking ur boody ! And They think that the student who keep his mind in study are weak ! And they bothering Him =( {me to } But In the end The weak be stronger =)
I completely agree with you. People used to always talk about me behind my back, and I'd always hear about it from someone else. It's like "are they that bored with their life/hate their life that much that they have to talk about my personal life?" They needed to get a hobby or something.
You make SO many valid points. People honestly waste too much time making fun of people and abashing the things they dislike, rather than using their time productively for something they actually enjoy.
I remember being picked on a tad when I was in High School, but I didn't let it get to me and maybe it even gave me a greater appreciation for people who act or dress differently. I love seeing the creativeness that comes out in people, and others should learn to accept it for what it is instead of making fun of them. :D
your sons are blessed to have you as their dad. they are gonna be 2 upstanding boys coming up in the world to be spectacular men i bet everything on that
Great vid DS. This connects to something else you've spoken of - treat other people as you'd like to be treated yourself. Words can hurt, so be careful with them!
Keep doing these videos. I really appreciate that you take your own time, talk to us. Millions of people you don't know.
Your videos really make me wonder if I've been following the right path my whole life. I think I've always been nice and caring, but maybe I haven't.
The videos like this that you produce, I once again really appreciate them, and I like them cause they make me think.
I really enjoy when you do these serious videos. The audience you have really needs to hear the stuff you are saying. Thanks man.
lol "wow get it"
but you hit the nail on the head everything in good taste.
Man you are right about all those idiots who poke fun at people for no reason at their looks or manerisms.
I never thought about phrasing it like that , awesome!
you are one of my favorite people on youtube man, i like the way you think. keep the great vids coming
i love you digital soul,
your a very respectful and wise man and your family is very lucky to have you.
i wish my father was as great as you.
xo
Hey DS always great to see one of your videos. It's a nice breath of fresh air from the cesspool of negativity
Absolutely true... thats the reason i don't like meeting many ppl and hate crowdy places!!
Love it,Keep makeing your videos,
I love it when you make serious videos. Thank you so much!
honestly man u really hit home on anything you talk about...keep making ur vidz man peace
Well said, DS. And very well balanced (that there's a time and a place to raise the bar for your appearance vs being yourself and giving others that same permission).
amen!!
i hate when ppl make fun of other ppl, like to they think there that perfect, that they have no faults to be able to make fun of sum1
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. That has always been my moto and keep it up Digi great vid as always :)
hey man really your my hero finally somebody understands bravo!!!!!!!!!!!!
i love your videos :) you are so wise and just wonderful. you give great advice!
I love how you say down town, it's pretty badass.
He really is, like. . totally awesome
i definitely appreciate you doin the serious vids. i like it. you're a pretty cool guy.
Ahahaha! Thank you, for the laugh.
im with u man... theres ALOt of ppl that i wish would watch this just so they get an understanding of allowing ppl to be who they are .. yaknow? your little rants like this remind me alot of my father, who always told me straight up what he thought was right and what not, and thats the way things should b, just be who u r and love who you are and if someone has a problem with that then they obviously have their own problems they need to work out..
I use to let people get to me. When they would judge me. Now I just blow it off. Not even worth getting steamed over. TV these days is out of control as far as content. Totally agree with ya man. People that judge really need to get a hobby.
ur right soul i dress & talk more urban(gangsta/thug) but most of my best friends are punk rocks & i listen to more metal/rock than rap hiphop & alot of people just think cuz i rock baggy clothes & im either rocking an fit it hat or a hoodie people just assume im just a crazy rap fan that likes to start trouble when in reality i h8 drama i mean i can fight if it escalates to it but i rather avoid it plus theres no respect in street fights any more, i just like to relax & chill
Well, it's nice to have some makeup advice for the girls, but I agree. This needs to be featured.
DiGiTiLsOuL man you are the greatest. I know i say this time and time again on all your videos but you are a real intelligent dude. thanks for helpin me see the other side of the perverbial ball.
you're one of the best persons in this planet.
you're the best
I'm from northern Ohio (as you go more south in Ohio accents sound more southern like Kentucky or Tennessee) anyway, I went to see my dad in California and everyone there said I had an accent! My dad says it's a slight Boston accent, but I'm just now starting to notice it because it's all I hear since the people around me sound the same.
Compassion is not the same as weakness. We still have some growing up to do, unfortunately.
good points A plus!!!
i grew up in tarentum..like 15 minutes from pittsburgh.. def. a crazy accent.
2:03
"back in the day!"
Everyone should watch this.... especially the masses of people that harass people for not being like them. People are supposed to be different, (that's why they are different) however, people also don't like differences in other people...
You're different, and you're hated, that's just the way close minded people think..
couldn't agree with you more in this video man, well said.
Thanks for this video DS. Love ya man.
your right digital soul..i cant stand people with metal in their ear lobes.. we should do something about it!
Truth be told, people label themselves. Everyone makes the choice to look how they look or talk how they talk (style-wise), knowing full well the judgemental nature of the world and of people in general. It's human nature.
To judge is to be human. It's critically analyzing everything around you. We do it with governments and other things....and it's a good thing. But because people are so insecure, they get all up in arms when it happens to them.....
lovin' it :)
gotta say, I'm guilty of this at times. I'll think twice now.
Really gd advice vids. U shud make more.
This is obviously been going on for forever but I decided not to get tattoos, piercings and a mohawk because whether someone will admit it or not, especially an employer, there are preconceived connotation from earlier experiences that could impact their decision in a professional world. Whether it's right or not is another matter, but personally, I refrain from anything that could effect my professional good standing...
hey digital soul
i was wondering how you do the cool effects at the start =)
thanks
Inequality is not an evil. Equality itself is evil
Great video man
Oh! I wouldn't want those hammers flying at me!
yeah man i agree with you here. I call myself a metalhead, I wear black band t-shirts all the time. thats what i wear and i get looked at differently and called goth or emo. It was annoying at first but now im 19 i dont care call me what you want. I wear black so what. I still me, i just love heavy metal music
these are my faves of your vids = ]
i have always bin picked on and bullied for who i am.
never understood why tho. if you dont like me then just dont talk to me unless you have to. if i dont like you i sure as hell wont bag on you for not being my kind of person,
but for thoes of you out there being bullied and messed with dont EVER loose your individuality, never be what they want you to be. dont play their game. be yourself and youll always know who your true friends are.
peace
....so the thing is: Being judgemental isn't the problem. The problem is people need to be comfortable with who and how they are and not be effected by the judgements made against them.
Be who you want to be. Talk how you want to talk. Say what you want to say. You're never going to make everyone happy but you can be happy with who you are.
Dude I'm from Harisburg PA but live in Indianapolis but some times my accent from PA comes out.
I'm scared for the health of the ones who poke fun at people... i'm a rather calm person but when someone pushes my buttons I can only respond with the only language they understand... the fist language. I don't wanna do something stupid but those loud mouths get on my nerves...
Dont worry DS, i love the way you talk!
nice video digitilsoul :)
more of these please!!!!
5 stars for being true to yourself!
true that everyone at my skool should watch this then lets see if anything changes lol
Good stuff, bro.
It's kinda the same here in the UK. I'm grew up in a working class background so I speak like a working class southerner. "Awrigh' may'? 'aaz i' goin'?"
So people assume I'm uneducated and stupid but that couldn't be further from the truth. I had a great education, I have a degree ffs and I have an IQ of 140. But people judge me based just on how I speak.
Well put, man.
Your'e awsome, but what happened to the days where u talked about games..
Man, DS your videos speak truer words than most. And you look too much like my Uncle Dave, it's scary. You must be a younger clone of him, haha. :P
Haha...I've been someone's "hobby" before. They disect every sentence looking for a lie or something. One common thread is they claim that the object of their hobby has no life, is mentally ill, etc, but they don't see that making comments, videos and even channels to attack someone whose life has no impact on theirs is actually indicative of the very thing they accuse others of.
These people are sad, pathetic and most likely have no real self esteem.
Blessings, Frank!
Dude, I did not know you were from Pitt. I've seen you wearing Stillers stuff in your videos but didn't think twice..Pretty cool though, little Washington here. I'm totally feelin this video though, I hate that BS..judgmental people are ridiculous. I wear jeans, boots, and plaid shirts..drive a Jeep and everyone always passes judgment as a hick, though I listen to ALL kind of music. Really liking your serious vids man, keep it up
it is sad, when someone tries to make themselves look big, by making another look small,,,,5*
i agree mostly BUT i do believe that if someone goes out of their way to make themselves look a certain way to fit in such as a scene kid goes out of their way to make their hair all messed up then people are entitled to their opinions. it might hurt then but thats life and everyone has opinions. maybe its not right to judge them but everyone has opinions. you dont have to be mean and tell them you hate it but thinking isnt that bad.
Personally, someone who always picks on certain people, I find that creepy. Don't see them as bullies, see them as creepy guys that have the same level of obsession as love stalkers.
Great vid man. this vid deserves a 5 star!
You are fucking awesome haha XD I think the same as you. I only characterize people of they way they act in my school. I don't care what they dress like but its how they act where I start judging them.
kudos dude! great vid!
It's a disgusting habit to pass judgment, but that's what it is... It's a habit. I've always promoted open mindedness amongst the people I've surrounded myself with, but sometimes it is just too frustrating.
i really didint notice youre accent until you told me about it
thanks for givin me a good message on my birthday bro
nice videos man,keep it up!
people rag on other people harshly because they aren't comfortable in there own skin. so if they're miserable mhy not make someone else miserable. misery loves company.
well said
THANK YOU!! YOU RAWK!!
just another awesome video made by the one and only DiGiTiL sOuL :D pce.. pshhht :) and by the way... what happened to videogames?!?!?!
Thanks again for the awesome video dude. I always love em! Your my fav person im subscribed to! And no kissing ass! I promise!
Coolest guy on earth.
some people are so lame, and so bored with their existence, that yes, they must bash on other people.
i know a couple of these low lifers. they are very annoying. everything someone else
does is their business. they MUST critique and gossip about them.
i find it extremely annoying that in today's society, with the vast acceptance that we appear to have for others NOW, that it still must be the jobs of certain individuals to slam and bash on others.
For what? Live your own life!
Geesh!
pshh..
great video.. hope if it makes all of us realise that criticising others just for the fun of it, ain't smart or cool.
wow i almost cried, thanks for making this video digitilsoul
(phss
i want more of these vids yo!
I love how people are talking bad about my girlfriend for no reason other than to talk bad about her. I'm getting ready to throw some punches xD I live in Pittsburgh too... maybe you and me could meet up... maybe jump 'em or something xD nah, I know the only reason they're talking about her is because they really are bored, miserable, and can see that we're really happy, and that thought makes me laugh. Keep up these videos, man!
ME TOO!
This guy give better advice on changing your outlook on other people and giving confidence. Why can't this guy be featured video material instead of the 10,000 girls that give makeup tips? Shallow stuff about your appearance versus this deeper advice.
Here here :-)
your from pittsburgh?! :O
Personally, I'm 100% fine with how people actually are, but I hafta admit, I HATE when people TRY to be "emo" or "gangster", I wear all black and listen to metal and such, but I don't TRY to be. I just hate when people decide "Oh, Ima be emo now" and wear eyeliner and all black
tabu o.O
my class is ust like that all the TIME i hate it
man tht was
all true
Let me told u my story . Now In my School (high School ) other students think that The smoking makes u Man ! Or more stronger ! And the truth He is breaking ur boody ! And They think that the student who keep his mind in study are weak ! And they bothering Him =( {me to }
But In the end The weak be stronger =)
Another 5Stars for you lol
Yeah, so talking about it, isn't really gonna change anyone. Just deal with them clowns and move on. I just laugh at them and go on about my business.
I like that voice, wish I had that accent :[
@sk8ervzla
I know, I'm just kidding! :D
lolool at the ending.