Emotional Independence: Part 1: BK Shivani (English)

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 178

  • @shripalsingh6322
    @shripalsingh6322 2 роки тому +34

    I am the HAPPIEST
    I am the Healthiest
    I am the strongest
    I have no difficulties in my life
    I am detached from everyone
    I love God
    God loves me
    My God is always with me ❤️
    I am a beautiful, pure, peaceful and calm soul
    I am very very peaceful ❤️
    I love me❤️

  • @hiteshe_e9368
    @hiteshe_e9368 Рік тому +36

    I lost my mother , I was so close to her . I remember her everyday , every second , I am so emotionally attached to her. ❤ I miss my mom. Bk shivani is my teacher she helps me heal me from inside, thank you sister.❤

  • @Rucheeee
    @Rucheeee 2 роки тому +19

    I'm having a bad time these days... But i feel so composed listening to sister shivani.... Her advice, her perspective has just brought so much of positive difference in my life

  • @cee8226
    @cee8226 4 роки тому +35

    Thank you, I've learned so much. Emotional independence means our thoughts are not bothered by outside stimuli. We understand that trying to control outside our mind is futile thus we must teach our minds not to think about what others normally seem bothersome so that it will not create negative emotions inside us.

  • @lightandmight1817
    @lightandmight1817 5 років тому +49

    To be away from either positive or negative emotional effect and enjoy true bliss one must have the Will and wish to depend on Supreme Soul for guidance to achieve such a great status.

  • @vithalbhaipatel1013
    @vithalbhaipatel1013 2 роки тому +1

    Satguru Dev Ko mera koti koti namaskar. Satguru Dev ki Jay. Jay Baba ji. Jay Guru Dev.

  • @gilmore7533
    @gilmore7533 Рік тому +10

    Emotional dependence: expectations
    Emotional independence: acceptance

  • @muniramalik313
    @muniramalik313 6 місяців тому +1

    The story of Sabzi wala and my thought of expectation vs acceptation was mindset shifting
    Shift from column of expectation to acceptance
    Outside stimulus does not disturb
    My thought after hearing the stimulus disturbs me
    The stimulus does not disturb me
    Don’t try to control people
    I need to try to control my thoughts after the stimulus happens

  • @deesticco1719
    @deesticco1719 5 років тому +17

    The only way to do this is kicking in mindfulness to question your thought process, called Vipasana Meditation ! Otherwise the day is hostaged by all unwanted thoughts!! So grateful for Sister Shivani who is such a great influencer to the distracted world today! She is in a great place and be thankful to have her! Wish to see more discourses in English 🙏

  • @growingupwithpranath5582
    @growingupwithpranath5582 8 місяців тому +1

    She has very good meaning of what she says

  • @bjpbjp5986
    @bjpbjp5986 5 років тому +12

    When we listen to your speech we feel a cool spring flows, but suddenly in between ad flashes and obstructs the flow of your speech. Just as Fon rings amidst the speech

    • @sutaparayadhikary891
      @sutaparayadhikary891 3 роки тому

      I am trying hard to shift my thoughts from expectations to acceptense ....I am successful to some extent but lot more to do ....thank you sister...Om Shanti 🙏

  • @garimadhakare1974
    @garimadhakare1974 3 роки тому +4

    I am listening to you for the very first time and I am amazed, how simply you have put the things, ie to control our thoughts. Will definitely try ... many thanks

  • @ranudatta2771
    @ranudatta2771 4 роки тому +9

    Very good morning😊
    The thoughts flowes and makes me fulfilled,nurished,
    Thank you is not enough for her,gratitude that I feel in my heart not explainable

  • @goradexplorergonzalez6712
    @goradexplorergonzalez6712 5 років тому +22

    This is BEAUTIFUL!! Thank you, sister!

  • @monazmehenty7688
    @monazmehenty7688 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you. Your preaching is very helpful

  • @harudas4033
    @harudas4033 5 років тому +1

    Thank you so much, sister

  • @pritikumari3333
    @pritikumari3333 2 роки тому

    Thank you! Di Om Shanti

  • @kempegowdah7636
    @kempegowdah7636 5 років тому +2

    Om shanti and thank you sister

  • @radhadontidonti9136
    @radhadontidonti9136 4 роки тому +4

    True di, I was like that only..., now a days I am getting disturbed.... This speech reminded me... Hope I can back and cool in handling situations!!! Tq di...

  • @smitashinde3012
    @smitashinde3012 4 роки тому +3

    Accept the situations as they are ... Well said didi... Love u

  • @VaishaliJaincreative
    @VaishaliJaincreative 10 місяців тому

    Thank you, sister! It always helps to listen to your wisdom 💖 Beautifully said.

  • @darshansaluja5982
    @darshansaluja5982 5 років тому +1

    Thank you didi for the great information...Om Shanti

  • @deepkaurbawa5022
    @deepkaurbawa5022 4 роки тому +4

    Love this lecture ❤️

  • @lipikamedhi1630
    @lipikamedhi1630 4 роки тому +2

    om shanti dii...you are everything to me.luv u.

  • @srishtirai7019
    @srishtirai7019 10 місяців тому

    Everytime I hear her, I find something new to follow ❤️

  • @runnyhunny786
    @runnyhunny786 3 роки тому +2

    Nourishment for THE MIND...👍❤

  • @naturemurali7331
    @naturemurali7331 4 роки тому +2

    Msr Sir must give Nobel prize immediately
    Msr Sir is a great saint and No1 Doctor in the world

  • @soumyatripathi20
    @soumyatripathi20 5 років тому +6

    This was great thankyou so much👌👍

  • @abhilashadeshpande7996
    @abhilashadeshpande7996 3 роки тому +1

    Huge Respect..

  • @deepikaverma6525
    @deepikaverma6525 5 років тому +7

    Really useful this vd knowledge.. thanks sis shivani

  • @prachijain926
    @prachijain926 11 днів тому

    Om shnti didi❤💯

  • @rightway3968
    @rightway3968 6 років тому

    thank you shivani bahen hame bahut se bimariyo or paresaniyo se bacha liya gyan deker.

  • @krishnaneha1313
    @krishnaneha1313 5 років тому +3

    THANKYOU sister ♥️

  • @eessa1727
    @eessa1727 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you🙏❤

  • @garimasingh4586
    @garimasingh4586 5 років тому +1

    Ty shivani di...i love u so much😊😊😊

  • @brahmaiahchinna6966
    @brahmaiahchinna6966 2 роки тому

    ❤️❤️❤️ ఓం శాంతి ❤️❤️❤️ ఓం శాంతి ❤️❤️❤️ ఓం శాంతి ☮️🙏👍❤️ థాంక్యూ వెరీ వెరీ వెరీ గుడ్ వైబ్రేషన్స్ వ్యాపింపజేశారు వ్యాపిస్తున్నాయి వ్యాపిస్తూనే ఉంటాయి excellent excellent excellent శ్రీ ఆత్మ లందరికీ84 లక్షల జీవరాశుల కు ప్రకృతికి పంచ తత్వాలకు హాస్పటల్ లో చికిత్స పొందుతూ తుదిశ్వాస లోఉన్న కూడా నా హృదయపూర్వక ధన్యవాదములు అభినందనలు కృతజ్ఞతలు శుభాకాంక్షలు ఫరిస్తాలందరి ఓంశాంతి ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏 శ్రీశ్రీ మరియు శ్రీ ఆనంద్ స్వరూప ఆత్మ అందరికీ ❤️

  • @mohaymin935
    @mohaymin935 5 років тому +1

    Thank you sister

  • @harudas4033
    @harudas4033 5 років тому +2

    Beautiful speech

  • @shajankv4838
    @shajankv4838 6 років тому +1

    Omsanthi beautiful vedio..

  • @nelehlang1022
    @nelehlang1022 3 роки тому +1

    Love this.

  • @bhupendrabarangesonu9786
    @bhupendrabarangesonu9786 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much makes this video

  • @priyankanamdev3058
    @priyankanamdev3058 4 роки тому +1

    Thank u..

  • @harprit4460
    @harprit4460 4 роки тому +1

    Thank u dear

  • @bismahamid4211
    @bismahamid4211 3 роки тому +1

    I'm powerful soul
    Mjhy Kisi sy koi fraq nhe prta koi kya sochy
    Mjhy Kisi sy kuch nhe chahye

  • @priyabhagat2852
    @priyabhagat2852 6 років тому +5

    Om Shanti sister 🙏

  • @chikkimishra6028
    @chikkimishra6028 4 роки тому

    Om shanti love you Shivani didi

  • @jyotikasharma593
    @jyotikasharma593 3 роки тому

    Thank you ma'am

  • @pragyaambore4692
    @pragyaambore4692 4 місяці тому

    Being dependent on someone emotionally is as equal as being paralysed physically . And I am being the one too.

  • @deesticco1719
    @deesticco1719 6 років тому +2

    Great Discourse! 🙏

    • @vidarbhraj1792
      @vidarbhraj1792 3 роки тому

      I am 100% an enlightened being, hear me , sound is material, you are non physical

  • @sufiatahseen2129
    @sufiatahseen2129 3 роки тому

    Everyone change their mind .... Because what ever we learn ...Is from outside ...Like how to react...How to talk...How to respond in different different situation ........So we can change it yes it will not easy but we can do....

  • @jyotibhatoa7355
    @jyotibhatoa7355 Рік тому

    God bless u a lot

  • @nupurpandey3383
    @nupurpandey3383 Рік тому

    Positive vibes ❤️🙏🙏🙏🔥

  • @sushmagarg3257
    @sushmagarg3257 Рік тому

    Om shanti

  • @mahithebestone7691
    @mahithebestone7691 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much sister, your talks are really teaching me how to be peaceful even if surrounding atmosphere isn't my way.

  • @konathalasivasatyanarayana8480
    @konathalasivasatyanarayana8480 3 роки тому +1

    Good morning everyone,, namaskar Didi ji ,, may God bless you and all

  • @deepaliahuja7619
    @deepaliahuja7619 2 роки тому +1

    Waheguru jio

  • @akshaymuragod8890
    @akshaymuragod8890 5 років тому +1

    thanku sister

  • @dishauk6745
    @dishauk6745 4 роки тому

    Om shanti Didi 😊 😊

  • @suchionly
    @suchionly 5 років тому +5

    Thanks didi..ur speeches helps me a lot!! 🙏

    • @madhumitadas7914
      @madhumitadas7914 3 роки тому

      888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888878

  • @subramanigunashekar1414
    @subramanigunashekar1414 4 роки тому

    Really an good one..

  • @sheokandamit59
    @sheokandamit59 6 років тому +2

    Om Shanti didi

  • @bkritikapuresoul8912
    @bkritikapuresoul8912 3 роки тому

    Om shanti🌷🌷🌿🌿🌹🌹

  • @miligupta8537
    @miligupta8537 Рік тому

    Om Shanti❤🙏

  • @amritaroy8055
    @amritaroy8055 10 місяців тому

    Om Shanti 💫

  • @utpalchakraborty726
    @utpalchakraborty726 2 роки тому

    OM SHANTI SISTER..🥀🥀🙏🙏

  • @nilimajaiswal106
    @nilimajaiswal106 3 роки тому +1

    True, the Supreme Soul is God.

  • @vinodsingh-gr1xj
    @vinodsingh-gr1xj 2 роки тому +1

    We hold our possession emotionally attached when we lose it we become insecure ,we seek some permanent in life but we can't , invariably mor uncertainty is caused but death is certain.

  • @tanvi....4872
    @tanvi....4872 2 роки тому

    Om Shanti 🙏🙏

  • @tinaaaravvlog3620
    @tinaaaravvlog3620 8 місяців тому

    Om Shanti 🙏

  • @alliswell5738
    @alliswell5738 3 роки тому

    om shanti😊

  • @lingarajkashyap9681
    @lingarajkashyap9681 3 роки тому +4

    EVERY PERSON HOLDS AND ENJOYS INDEPENDENCE OF EMOTION. IT IS GIFT OF GOD OR NATURE AS THE CASE MAY BE. NO PERSON CAN INTERFERE IN THE EMOTION OF OTHERS.

  • @Durgesh_.Singh_sisodiya123
    @Durgesh_.Singh_sisodiya123 2 роки тому

    ओम शांति दीदी जी

  • @prakashnandkule1931
    @prakashnandkule1931 6 років тому +1

    Om Shanti

  • @ManjuKumari-wn9ei
    @ManjuKumari-wn9ei 5 років тому

    Awesome

  • @ratheeshrratheeshr9166
    @ratheeshrratheeshr9166 3 роки тому

    Om Shanti😍

  • @sanjanakumari-du8sj
    @sanjanakumari-du8sj Рік тому

    It's true only , Instead of asking ppl evrytime to change , talk with ur mind and teach it to not focus there as they won't get changed , Increase soul power by focusing on the self . I'm also gonna do the same from now itself. May SHIV BABA BLESS ME.

  • @PrincePrince-gy6vt
    @PrincePrince-gy6vt 3 роки тому +1

    Mam u r amazing ur thoughts are really nice and pure 🙏 give us ur blessings and God bless u always 😇

  • @payalgupta9622
    @payalgupta9622 4 роки тому

    It was very nice mam🙂

  • @sheenakumar3382
    @sheenakumar3382 8 місяців тому

    More I am going to other people,more my problem is increasing, if I want it to get healed I should go to myself and God. Sprituality will help in healing and finding out solutions.

  • @farahnaz8885
    @farahnaz8885 6 років тому

    Om shanti Om

  • @nivethithamurugan1365
    @nivethithamurugan1365 6 років тому +1

    Very super

  • @Freznk.
    @Freznk. 3 роки тому

    Very useful to us. App is also there

  • @amazynga8868
    @amazynga8868 2 роки тому

    thought.... feeling.... action

  • @KaranSinghsenger
    @KaranSinghsenger 11 місяців тому

    उगता सूरज डूबता सूरज मानव जीवन दर्शाता है दिन ढलते शाम होते रात के अंधेरे हैं कर प्रेरणा कर ले बुलंदी कर ओम पर ध्यान पाजा तू बुलंदी

  • @manikuttancm424
    @manikuttancm424 3 роки тому

    Om Shanti All 🌹

  • @nitin6673
    @nitin6673 Рік тому

    Please provide video links in order so that we can learn and gain knowledge systematically so as to improve oneself .

  • @ivyendeavourhumanity
    @ivyendeavourhumanity Рік тому

    *I'm emotionally lonely! Want unconditional feelings from woman no matter what sort of relationship! She might be a mother, a sister, a friend anything she wish! Who will listen to me,will put effort for make an unconditional bond* ❤

  • @deborahmeyers7839
    @deborahmeyers7839 3 роки тому

    🙌♥️🙌 Sister 🙌

  • @anushkas.1168
    @anushkas.1168 3 роки тому

    Wow👏👏👏👏👏

  • @manojchatterjee9301
    @manojchatterjee9301 6 років тому

    om shanti didi

  • @naturemurali7331
    @naturemurali7331 4 роки тому +2

    Sister shavani must give Nobel prize immediately
    Sister shavani is a great saint in the world
    In UA-cam watch NLA Nature Murali
    In UA-cam watch NLA plastic song in Telugu
    In UA-cam watch NLA Nature pledge in Telugu prakruthi prathigna
    Save Nature stop pollution stop global warming save earth avoid plastic disposal please

  • @shagun62
    @shagun62 5 років тому +4

    Shivani maam. How could i reach out to you personally? I listen to your gyaan and practice meditation. However i am not able to come out of this depression and negative thinking. Is there a way i could reach out to you on a one 2 one basis. I wish to help myself as only i can.

  • @anupa1090
    @anupa1090 3 роки тому +1

    While classes going if we were in daydream we never feel any disturbance like wise if are really in meditation won't feel so

  • @lauralu9265
    @lauralu9265 25 днів тому

    If we accept everything people do, they will take advantage of us. Where do we draw the line and how should we react?

  • @Divine_Vivek
    @Divine_Vivek 6 років тому

    Plz share link of this complete class.thanks

  • @anaghadesai4851
    @anaghadesai4851 5 років тому

    Super

  • @bismahamid4211
    @bismahamid4211 3 роки тому +2

    I'm powerful soul
    I'm healthy soul

  • @sivaa7930
    @sivaa7930 6 років тому +1

    Om shanti sister

  • @amipatel1805
    @amipatel1805 6 років тому

    Rajkot ma kya center chhe plz banavana vinanati

  • @NikDavis
    @NikDavis 4 роки тому +2

    The phone topic is interesting for me cause I think about going to see a film in a theatre, and how phones don't bother me as much as I hear my friends say it bothers them. Every time I see a movie in a theater I'm too into the movie to care if people turn on their phones. I don't react when I see one out of the corner of my eye either. Just straight up don't care