What Happened after I left My Wife?

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  • @joinMasculine_Motive
    @joinMasculine_Motive 8 місяців тому +91

    This man is among the few true men left in the world

  • @lshayo1658
    @lshayo1658 8 місяців тому +14

    This could be one of the very best video on youtube! To sum up everything here is: "Protect your mental heath at all cost"!

  • @iyenjohn6633
    @iyenjohn6633 8 місяців тому +76

    The worst thing that can happen to a man is the imprisonment of his dreams.

    • @ththim7785
      @ththim7785 6 місяців тому

      Are you now going to look for a white woman?

  • @nchehilaryfon2194
    @nchehilaryfon2194 8 місяців тому +48

    “Jesus was not hypothetical. He was realistic. His interest was for the betterment of humanity”. Well done sir 👏👏👏👏

  • @My_f4u
    @My_f4u 9 місяців тому +36

    This is the best thing i have ever heard from a Nigerian
    God bless you

  • @ejaifeorodesomuvie5727
    @ejaifeorodesomuvie5727 9 місяців тому +12

    You are a man of wisdom, may God continue to increase you.

  • @benoyenuga5240
    @benoyenuga5240 9 місяців тому +24

    Thank you sir for opening up and telling your story, people never tell you this part of marriage that it is very challenging not everyone who stays married are happy just do it mainly for religious and cultural reasons. Marriage is beautiful when their is genuine love and both being on the same page. I really hope you both reconcile and this is not the final chapter sometimes a temporary break is needed on both parties to heal and clear your mind from certain situations.

  • @okezieemma2099
    @okezieemma2099 9 місяців тому +63

    Reading the comments on this video, I discovered that many did not understand Dr Apoki’s video. Please watch this video again. He practically prioritized his happiness, sound mind and freedom over material things. This is a healthy man in and out.

    • @mimim875
      @mimim875 9 місяців тому +7

      That's exactly what I heard. Not sure what others are hearing. Hapiness ain't in wealth accumulated only. Self care is very important

    • @ejaifeorodesomuvie5727
      @ejaifeorodesomuvie5727 9 місяців тому

      Only low iq people will misunderstood him, Dr Apoki is as real as you sees him, such a straight forward man.

    • @olufunkeidowu9931
      @olufunkeidowu9931 6 місяців тому +5

      Both well said.
      There's an apparent lack of comprehension of this video by many in the comment section.
      It requires a lot of maturity to understand what Dr Apoki expressed . I could relate and laughed throughout the video because he was describing some situations that occur between my dearest husband and me😅❤. #22 years in marriage, and we are changing and finding great ways to accommodate each other. He goes shopping whenni go crazy 🤪 😅😊😂😂❤. I love ❤️ him ever so dearly. My children just ignore both of us when we are at it . Later to use as comedy relief at their children's meetings😅😅😅😅.
      Am happy and grateful to have a partner who tries to accommodate, understand and support me at every stage of my change while we both strive to maintain a healthy physical and mental environment for our 3 children( all adults now too

  • @AbramTaba-ly7zy
    @AbramTaba-ly7zy 9 місяців тому +18

    Dr. Akpoki, your teachings are truly what we need in this life. You are a blessing to ME. Thank you Sir.
    I am Thabo, Limpopo, RSA.

  • @recyclespinning9839
    @recyclespinning9839 8 місяців тому +5

    This video showed up and very relevant. This even pertains to if you have a business together with a family business and a sibling is involved. At a certain age you must just sell off and split your portions fairly. Dont argue , 50/50. This way you are free to live your life and do what is your choosing , as are they.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for your insight. Many people particularly religious folks could not understand what I was talking about.

  • @olatunjiakinpelu7799
    @olatunjiakinpelu7799 9 місяців тому +5

    Dr. Apoki... You are a peaceful and creative man... You will live long to teach men senses and act of moving forward without women imprisonment.

  • @AtlasCorry
    @AtlasCorry 8 місяців тому +3

    This is a very conflicting message but I have sifted the ones that I need and would apply it for my well being

  • @wilkergoma1
    @wilkergoma1 2 місяці тому +1

    Love the wisdom Dr Apoki is sharing !! Big love!

  • @chinedunwalli6048
    @chinedunwalli6048 9 місяців тому +8

    I see the same toxic life with my wife, i am in my early 40s what i did was just give her space and since then i have my peace and i can think straight

  • @subair03
    @subair03 9 місяців тому +25

    Wow marital social distancing is the key word, instead of having emotional problem.

  • @omofumaighodalo432
    @omofumaighodalo432 9 місяців тому +20

    Your desire will be for your husband (to control him), but he will rule over you.

    • @godschild9276
      @godschild9276 5 місяців тому

      Quoting Dr Voddie Bachum my mentor.

    • @yemifadeyibi1481
      @yemifadeyibi1481 2 місяці тому

      Many people don’t know what you posted.
      God bless you.

    • @prodigy3b3n-y6s
      @prodigy3b3n-y6s Місяць тому

      ​@@godschild9276 it's in the Bible actually

  • @cradleofrelaxation6473
    @cradleofrelaxation6473 9 місяців тому +22

    I want to be like this man when I’m old.

  • @eddyidemudia7356
    @eddyidemudia7356 9 місяців тому +12

    This is freedom for you , i love you the way you educate us with your story.

  • @PrinceMathsclinic
    @PrinceMathsclinic 5 місяців тому +3

    Oh my God, where and how did I meet Dr Charles Apokin. He is simply and Wonderful man full of inspiration.

  • @EAOkoli
    @EAOkoli 9 місяців тому +63

    Point : Women find it difficult to manage authority, to manage wealth. ❤

    • @londonwildflowerbae
      @londonwildflowerbae 6 місяців тому +1

      WITHOUT the leadership and input of good men, a Dad, Brother, Husband, Uncle etc...

    • @ajayigabriel
      @ajayigabriel 5 місяців тому +3

      Generally, they're not cut out for that. Also, they have a lower sense of responsibility; this reflects in their always putting their own interests first.

  • @jds5788
    @jds5788 9 місяців тому +5

    Great video. As men get older we sometimes have to rediscover ourselves separate from the marriage. You're blessed if you have a place of your own to retreat to. Several of my friends have opted for this and to be honest it's as though you've served your purpose and it's your time now. Enjoy!

  • @Kof_Believer
    @Kof_Believer Місяць тому

    I can never stop listening to your words of wisdom. Each morning, I wake up waiting for your new video. God bless and keep you. I have learned a lot from you.

  • @AMBERSBABYDADDY
    @AMBERSBABYDADDY 9 місяців тому +4

    You Sir are a MASTER ORATOR. BRAVO

  • @Sustainablewealth777
    @Sustainablewealth777 6 місяців тому +22

    I'm not a man. I'm a girl that's just starting to learn about myself and life. I listen to your videos. Thank you

    • @UChristianoCR7
      @UChristianoCR7 5 місяців тому

      I need you in my life. We can build a good life together❤

    • @berthaphiri3503
      @berthaphiri3503 5 місяців тому

      It depends the kind of version. Not all men are Godly, if you follow their path , you're doomed with poverty and destruction. They are women who mean build their husbands Sir

  • @jamesthomas4787
    @jamesthomas4787 5 місяців тому +4

    This man challenges me do much but he's filled with wisdom, God bless Doctor 🎉

  • @allthingznatural5592
    @allthingznatural5592 9 місяців тому +4

    I like your videos. You have much Wisdom! USA, Oklahoma ❤️

  • @Yourtruthmightnotbemine
    @Yourtruthmightnotbemine 9 місяців тому +5

    Your wise analysis are words of wisdom because I see my own life going the same direction!

  • @Lebcon
    @Lebcon 8 місяців тому +1

    Exactly sometimes things need to change to find peace of mind for both. Nice one Doc.

  • @nwaoduhezinna8291
    @nwaoduhezinna8291 8 місяців тому +1

    When next I am home I will definitely come and visit you.
    I like that you love your wife and she loves you and you all will be fine last last.
    Please share some of your books for us to buy and learn.
    🎉

  • @jamesobahi1992
    @jamesobahi1992 5 місяців тому +5

    I was touched when he said he has never slept with anyone for the past 39yrs of their marriage. What kind of temptation is this? May the Lord continue to grant you the Grace
    Advice to Women: Any man you cannot submit to please don't marry him but if you agree to marry him, let his vision be your mission and that is submission. Íf your desire is anything more than your husband, you are functioning outside the perfect will of God.
    I understand with Dr CA. If you have a calling and a purpose to fulfill don't allow any distractions to stop you. God will help both of them.

  • @bjo004
    @bjo004 9 місяців тому +7

    So sad to hear.😢. I pray you both reconcile and peace reign in your marriage.

    • @sundaychidi1979
      @sundaychidi1979 9 місяців тому

      So you know more than Him please let him be

    • @oluwakemitoluwanimi7203
      @oluwakemitoluwanimi7203 9 місяців тому

      They are still married she is still bringing him food; he only created a space to help him activated his potentials and fulfil them. Even the wife understands.

  • @magaretekwin3659
    @magaretekwin3659 9 місяців тому +33

    😂😂 He said he and his wife are "Practicing martial social distancing, to a oid spreading martial viruses", so funny but makes sense! This man is a trip!

    • @kulelwateddy6715
      @kulelwateddy6715 9 місяців тому +1

      If this marital social distancing includes no sex..🙆

    • @childrentoys4537
      @childrentoys4537 5 місяців тому

      ​@@kulelwateddy6715🤣🤣🤣.

  • @umukoroabraham7376
    @umukoroabraham7376 Місяць тому

    Dr you are too correct and fun to be listen to.

  • @haynesswalker8345
    @haynesswalker8345 9 місяців тому +5

    This man is awesome so free spirited

  • @kerrysmith9666
    @kerrysmith9666 9 місяців тому +21

    There is no perfect marriage or a perfect relationship, but you can visit your family for a while but don't separate, be quiet when he or she is angry, and discuss issues only when your minds are relaxed.

  • @79code
    @79code 9 місяців тому +28

    This one was very funny. Marital social distancing 😂😂😂

  • @waskyhenry6306
    @waskyhenry6306 9 місяців тому +5

    Hi Doc, you have a penchant for comedy 🤣. I like your punch 👊 lines. You deliver your hard punches with some soft 🍦 gloves 🧤. Keep it up 👍.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  9 місяців тому +3

      I appreciate that

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  9 місяців тому +3

      You are very smart sir. You understand the style.

    • @Zainab-ts4mj
      @Zainab-ts4mj 9 місяців тому +2

      ​​@@drcharlesapokiSir, you just wrapped my day with wisdom and laughter 😂😂. I'm grateful!

  • @djsleekmanali6489
    @djsleekmanali6489 9 місяців тому +6

    The truth must be told, thank you for telling the truth Dr Apoki!!

    • @TheLegend-uq1gz
      @TheLegend-uq1gz 9 місяців тому +1

      But you have not heard from his wife.

    • @akinwaleakintoye8304
      @akinwaleakintoye8304 9 місяців тому +2

      From what I heard from him......can't perceived any hate from him. And she genuinely cares for him too. Oftentimes we individually want space to reminisce and ponder about issues or fresh ideas, that doesn't mean we don't love those who are most dear in our lives.

  • @ntokozojiyane7051
    @ntokozojiyane7051 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much Sir for your honesty. This video just made me realise the deep desire every man has to be self actualised and free to live his life by his own design. We woman are the cause of our own problems by always wanting to be overly controlling and wanting to insert ourselves in hi ha that do not even concern us. What do we lose? EMOTIONAL INTIMACY….what do we desire the most ? EMOTIONAL INTIMACY. We sabotage ourselves.

  • @d.c.5033
    @d.c.5033 9 місяців тому +1

    Very good. Woman has to see the man’s vision and support him.

  • @idehenreosas3969
    @idehenreosas3969 9 місяців тому +16

    Mingwo sir!
    This is one thing that also affects the male child. Most mothers tend to play this on their sons which they realise late or may not even realise at all. Also common to Sons who grew up with all women in the house/only sons. I am not saying the male child should be disrespectful. But it's important to know when to take a stand and exercise your authority as a Man.
    And lastly, this is common to men in old age. The children most like will take sides with the mothers. Then the man is sometimes all alone.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  9 місяців тому +3

      Vrendo.

    • @minglim-pollard1167
      @minglim-pollard1167 9 місяців тому

      Top man, The shallow style of the western feminist matrix, a well fitted scold collar based around consumerism and control has infected the entirety of mankind, Stay strong KPP,

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 9 місяців тому +1

      They take their mom sides because they saw how poorly the man treated her. My dad is mot alone n we love him to death cos he was a fabulous dad n husband seeing him as we grew up

    • @idehenreosas3969
      @idehenreosas3969 9 місяців тому +2

      @@aeiou0123
      It's not by how poorly.......It's just a natural thing. There are just a few exceptions

    • @alinayili2199
      @alinayili2199 9 місяців тому

      ​@@aeiou0123this is the mistake men make without realizing it but then insecure men treat women poorly to feel good

  • @roselinda4383
    @roselinda4383 9 місяців тому +5

    Absolutely love your messages..wisdom and discernment

  • @lolokey6804
    @lolokey6804 9 місяців тому +7

    Seriously, am happy hearing this

  • @jeremiasrobinson3478
    @jeremiasrobinson3478 9 місяців тому +18

    True talk Dr. Apoki. You said it all. Is like we're in the same shoe.
    You'll invest %90 in all you own together but most women will want to have all for themselves alone.
    I used to believe in uniting forces with the wife, but experience has taught me better.
    Thank you for speaking out b/c many men are going through the same issues.

  • @AdepejuEniola-nd8ov
    @AdepejuEniola-nd8ov 9 місяців тому +2

    Whao! You're such a bundle of wisdom and inspiration sir. Thanks

  • @j.o6885
    @j.o6885 3 місяці тому

    I understand you completely.I am going through the same thing.I have been fortunate/unfortunate enough to know that love is not everything

  • @INTAHETV-ni5pq
    @INTAHETV-ni5pq Місяць тому

    I have separate with my wife 4 weeks ago always tikoko she left me & took the kids with
    i was always ask myself what went wrong real you build me once again sir my life is back after listening
    to you God bless .

  • @tremtoronto6462
    @tremtoronto6462 9 місяців тому +7

    Separation should be the last resort after all efforts to make it work fail given the far reaching long term implications. I can't stand violence in marriage or infidelity, everything else can be worked out but if 2 cannot and unable to live happily together, there's absolutely no point managing it. It's only the living that talks of marriage.
    Sir, I can't advise you otherwise as you wear the shoes and know where it pinches you. But I have watched quite a number of yoir videos and you seem a good man. The last clip I watched, you even walked out of the huge investment of the school you built.....material things don't matter to you and you will live long. Take care of yourself sir. Shalom

  • @christophermudd7844
    @christophermudd7844 9 місяців тому +8

    Thank you again for your wisdom and knowledge, as a younger man. I enjoy listening to the truth.

  • @TheKojak1966
    @TheKojak1966 9 місяців тому +7

    You made her very powerful and I feel it is not going down well with you and you seem bitter. I would have love you to treat this matter privately out of regards for your family.

    • @donmek
      @donmek 9 місяців тому +2

      Lovely advice

    • @payparallel
      @payparallel 9 місяців тому +5

      No, he doesn't seem bitter. There's friction, which occurs in every marriage, but he's NOT BITTER. He strikes me as an emotionally intelligent man. Plus, he didn't demean his wife in anyway, instead, he extolled her virtues, so the suggestion that he should have kept it private is unnecessary l think

    • @yuta3699
      @yuta3699 9 місяців тому +9

      He is not bitter,I suspect you are one of those feminists who think men are intimidated by women,some of you just come on social media and write senselessly,you lack comprehension,he didn’t divorce his wife,he is only teaching us a lesson about marriage.

    • @abiodunemmanuel3551
      @abiodunemmanuel3551 9 місяців тому +3

      Waw, God bless you sir. I learnt so much. I always look forward to your videos every day. Sometimes, women can make one's life miserable. I need such grace. As a man, the reality is we will end up being alone. It's only female children that may care for the man at old age. That's the sad reality.

    • @ruirwathika
      @ruirwathika 9 місяців тому +5

      This man has discovered the beauty of peace over materialism. Materialism is ruling the world. Has been for millennia. He who discovers disengagement from materialism is wise. The thing is we need to build, but we need a balance as well. We are all looking for that balance. what balance means to me is not the same to you. Perhaps she’s very innocent. Indeed he’s not purely negative about her. The demand for managing our accumulated wealth maybe energy depleting so that the very material you so worked hard for become your prison. He’s free. He’s out of jail. Kudos to you sir.

  • @TheZuluman7
    @TheZuluman7 9 місяців тому +2

    Dr Apoki the great teacher of philosophy. Thank you sir

  • @Atman-s8r
    @Atman-s8r 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanksgiving for your wisdom Senior.Apoki🇬🇾

  • @chantkressmyfavouriterockstar
    @chantkressmyfavouriterockstar 9 місяців тому +17

    DR I am in my early twenties , But I can relate to this information ; I have found that my girlfriend has started to treat me with more respect and she is taking me seriously......after I have startd doing things I am passionate about on my own terms. and the relationship has become more health .......for both of us,

    • @nunofigueira8691
      @nunofigueira8691 6 місяців тому +2

      Keep going and take attention that she is your girlfriend and not your business partner, assistent or advices.
      😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @mercyoluwatoyin4108
    @mercyoluwatoyin4108 9 місяців тому +2

    Wow! daddy, your type is very rare in this part of the world... anyone who is fortunate to have someone like you is too blessed.
    Weldone, sir.

  • @workplaceapostles
    @workplaceapostles 9 місяців тому

    Now I can understand the first video 'why I left my wife'.... I admire your principles and tactics....trust madam will retrace her steps.
    Bless you

  • @slydoskibelieveinc.7748
    @slydoskibelieveinc.7748 9 місяців тому +23

    You certainly look happy Dr. Apoki. That is always admirable. The thing is men sometimes "allow women" to run things because they want to keep the peace or for other reasons. But later on she will become the ruler of that marriage. This is no fun for any man. So men stand your ground early and keep it that way and don't compromise on things that will later on become unfavorable

  • @la9753
    @la9753 9 місяців тому +39

    “Left” as used here was not divorce or separation but a mere leaving the school premises to live in their other house.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  9 місяців тому +16

      Most intelligent comment.

    • @abigailsitsha2517
      @abigailsitsha2517 5 місяців тому

      I was lost. I thought he was saying that he and his wife are no longer together..that he has given all their assets to her and is now living his life apart from her.

    • @nichelegalsolutions
      @nichelegalsolutions 5 місяців тому +1

      Exactly, he didn't say they are either divorce or separated. He only left to expand and she followed. Why are people getting it twisted?

    • @sikakofi
      @sikakofi 5 місяців тому +5

      ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@nichelegalsolutionsthe caption was a click bait.. he knew exactly why he made it so.. he wanted more views hence the caption 😅

    • @abosedeodedairo1891
      @abosedeodedairo1891 2 місяці тому

      Yes. Thanks for the clarification, sir/ma'am

  • @PatrickJato-ju9rs
    @PatrickJato-ju9rs 9 місяців тому +3

    Dr Aboki you are a wonderful human being I value your God given wisdom I have subscribed to your Chanel

  • @sylviakelechi7698
    @sylviakelechi7698 2 місяці тому +1

    Marital social distancing is good
    I am a testament to it
    Especially as a researcher
    Sometimes we just need to go on personal vacation alone, just to reflect, meditate take stock and restrategize.

  • @boakyebb
    @boakyebb 9 місяців тому +4

    "My mind separated by that handcuff that tue two shall become one ".... 🎉 .... Fabulous ....

  • @gloryify6759
    @gloryify6759 9 місяців тому +5

    Wow Marriage is a mega Sega deal. Wisdom nuggets noted.

  • @ontwo-wheels
    @ontwo-wheels 6 місяців тому +1

    One needs alot of wisdom and maturity to consume Dr. Apoki's words. If you are emotional and quick to be vexed, thisbis not your place.

  • @magdaleneivuegbe8748
    @magdaleneivuegbe8748 9 місяців тому +1

    God bless you sir, you are a typical man I have always wanted to be my methol, your messages have healed my marital wounds. May you live long.

  • @EzeugwuAlfred-e6s
    @EzeugwuAlfred-e6s 3 місяці тому

    All you said is true and educational.keep it up

  • @Naijamann
    @Naijamann 5 місяців тому

    Very clear thoughts in simple english...with a plain heart.. im subscribing...

  • @riverbankfisher
    @riverbankfisher 8 місяців тому +2

    Haha social distancing marriage to avoid marital corovirus that is transmitted by too much korro-korro meeting between marital partners. Only a seasoned medical practitioner could use those words haha. Let me don my comical thinking cap this morning. Pulling up a chair and tagging along subscribed for the ride.

  • @virginiaimo2840
    @virginiaimo2840 9 місяців тому +2

    I just stumbled across your channel today. You’re amazing, I love your teachings, young people should visit your blog and listen and will gain insight on life generally. Thank you very much sir.

  • @abdulraheemaderojuadetokun9691
    @abdulraheemaderojuadetokun9691 4 місяці тому

    Wonderful Teachings from Dr Apoki. my take home.....Understanding is not agreeing together all the time, understanding is comprehending the situation, and the person(your wife) and making the right decision. This applies to all married couples all over the world. Sometimes we are confronted with situations that warrant us to be more understanding and making the right decision, More Blessings to Dr. Stay young and Fresh Sir.

  • @ralphups7782
    @ralphups7782 9 місяців тому +1

    Dr Charles Apoki, very wise words indeed Sir and i thank you for sharing them with me.

  • @akanyasyrenius3695
    @akanyasyrenius3695 9 місяців тому +5

    Sir, love you for whom God made you to be and I bless God for making me to come in contact with your channel

  • @paradisearts7021
    @paradisearts7021 9 місяців тому +7

    Dr apoki, I am currently in this same boat with you sir, I recently moved out of the house, due to other reasons, but the seperation right now is healing me from all the toxicity

    • @festusugonwokebata5318
      @festusugonwokebata5318 9 місяців тому

      This is the kind of message this evil, deceitful, and arrogant woman of this present generation who have decided to make the life of every man miserable and have deviated from the law of God that stated that women be submissive and man love ur wife,
      Men be Wise women hate this kind of eyes opening message

    • @worldtraveler8571
      @worldtraveler8571 26 днів тому

      Watch the video. Dont assume.

  • @LovethJegede
    @LovethJegede 9 місяців тому +1

    Dr Apoki so happy to see you here, God used you to save Dike life

  • @amjentertainment1842
    @amjentertainment1842 5 місяців тому

    Wow..The Abrahamic formula is apt..Sir,you are a rare gift..❤❤

  • @OnkOnk-ev8he
    @OnkOnk-ev8he 3 місяці тому

    wow,what a wonderful man,i am from imo state.i took time to read a lot from you.i am a christain sir.

  • @tlcore007
    @tlcore007 5 місяців тому

    You're extremely well spoken sir. I love your videos, I believe this is temporary as you said it's marital distancing, You guys will be back together! in the same roof !! thank you so much Sir.

  • @Boombastic82
    @Boombastic82 9 місяців тому +4

    For me it is not good for a man to live with a woman 24/7 establish friendship and distancing. Be productive on your own, follow your dreams, create your source of income, take care of the mother of your children and the children. Visit them from time to time

  • @victoranumba4579
    @victoranumba4579 9 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for saying the truth.

  • @amosbula1249
    @amosbula1249 5 місяців тому

    Following from Malawi. And I like Dr.s openness and honesty

  • @ahamedawwalcarpenter9179
    @ahamedawwalcarpenter9179 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks you Dr Apoki, you are surly inspirational, a man who can laugh over his daily challenges this way is truly the strong one. I like Greek philosophers too. Keep it up.

  • @ngozikanjoku2145
    @ngozikanjoku2145 9 місяців тому

    Dr. Akpoki! A self Actualized life appears to be what you are striving for. Please kindly return to your family. Happiness is a packaged deal.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  9 місяців тому

      You did not understand the video. Go through it slowly with an open mind.

  • @theresaigube5734
    @theresaigube5734 9 місяців тому +1

    Doc, am in tears! It is only because am a woman. Doc, my mind is crashing ooo. Am not been understood. I feel like running away. Am tired Doc!!! This is my situation.

    • @TheLegend-uq1gz
      @TheLegend-uq1gz 9 місяців тому

      But you have not heard from his wife.

    • @suanuagabus3527
      @suanuagabus3527 9 місяців тому

      ​@@TheLegend-uq1gz You can take it upon yourself to go and get his wife's side of the story. We will like to hear it.

  • @olufemiogunba6875
    @olufemiogunba6875 9 місяців тому +11

    Wisdom is profitable to direct.A lot of christians are sinking in the so call marriage because of fear of what people will say.

  • @patienceomolola9007
    @patienceomolola9007 5 місяців тому

    You’re a very straightforward man; truly you are Sir👍.

  • @uzodikepaulinuschukwudi3696
    @uzodikepaulinuschukwudi3696 9 місяців тому +21

    Woman's money is not your money, men work hard! much appreciates Daddy 🙏

    • @Kengele
      @Kengele 9 місяців тому

      TRUE #KENGELE

  • @xtonetware5493
    @xtonetware5493 5 місяців тому

    You are abosolutely a phenomenom............... Wonderful man sir

  • @lakeside4jesus
    @lakeside4jesus 5 місяців тому +6

    This is pure emotional intelligence 😍

  • @londonshappiestbusdriver462
    @londonshappiestbusdriver462 9 місяців тому +2

    Dr Apoki, you're a funny man. God bless you

  • @bendankaka
    @bendankaka 9 місяців тому +4

    I love this message!
    You're a real leader. Thank you Sir.

  • @gilbertjean-louis4826
    @gilbertjean-louis4826 9 місяців тому +1

    Hi Doctor Apoki, you are really great man lots of respect my brother.

  • @uBenkiff
    @uBenkiff 6 місяців тому +2

    Haha. True. Men should enjoy being single

  • @marvahgprah6847
    @marvahgprah6847 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank uuuu, this is my second time watching your video and I really like and appreciate you.

  • @benb52
    @benb52 9 місяців тому +4

    Love all your messages Dr❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @asuamini674
    @asuamini674 9 місяців тому +1

    Dr. Apoki , I have been enjoying your talks . I look forward to hearing your talks. God bless you for the wisdom in all you have been telling us.

  • @udochukwusunday7325
    @udochukwusunday7325 9 місяців тому +2

    Pointed points. Thank you Sir.

  • @edegbequeency1970
    @edegbequeency1970 9 місяців тому +1

    You are Lucky that,she agreed that, there should not be quarrels between you both.Also, that,
    she allowed you to go.

  • @recyclespinning9839
    @recyclespinning9839 8 місяців тому +1

    Very relevant video. Even with a business you have together with a family member , at a certain age you sell off and each take your 50% share. This way you are both free to choose the direction of your life. Sometimes one member thinks they have done everything , even though you may have done most of the work. Even better yet , as pertaining to family members, never have business together.

  • @benb52
    @benb52 9 місяців тому +2

    Wawoooo, thank you Dr. I’m learning, relearning and unlearning. Thank you Dr

  • @nancyadima6681
    @nancyadima6681 5 місяців тому

    Nice message, though complicated.
    What do you mean by separation??
    However, I have picked the lines needed...
    Weldone sir

  • @solomonjohnson9267
    @solomonjohnson9267 5 місяців тому

    This is liberation for me . God bless you sir

  • @Mathywonder3802
    @Mathywonder3802 5 місяців тому

    Good evening sir please I watch you today on honest bunch podcast I was so emotional and pray that God will bless you and increased your wisdom