Quote: If you are depressed, you are living in the past. If you are anxious, you are living in the future. If you are at peace, you are living in the present. I also caught by anxiety sometimes when I have difficulty meet up with my own expectations. Still learning how to be more "lenient" with myself and note that I can just let things happen sometimes. And thanks for sharing this video 👍
@@joannelim1127 it just came to me to say this, and even if it doesnt makes sense I hope means something. If you are depressed, anxious, yet in peace, i believe you are living in a circle. Those feelings counteract in a way since they both clash with positivity and negativity. But with all that negativity, it overpowers your sense of joyment and it's the reason you live in circle. We can put it this way, there are 2 line that can represent emotion in life: the curve ")" - negativity and the straight "-" - positivity. With that, depression and anxiety forms a circle (due to its curved line), and I guess you could say theres just a line that passes through the middle. That line however, represents a different turn in life, which is why you can feel the positivity, or in the quote "the present". But as it reaches the end of its line you move back to the other direction. With all its complex movements within a simple, creates the complexion you deal in with life. But to change all this we would need to turn everything around: to make the negative into a positive and vice versa. This will end up with 2 positive and 1 negative. It may seem that is wrong to just turn around a positive but in all circumstances and in reality, everybody has something negative in their life. And as I said before, negative - ")" positive - "-", we can now see that it'll become like this: =) - a smile What we can do fix things is start off with smile, no matter how small or big, or if it's good or bad. It is for you to acknowledge that theres enjoyment in things that you can do. Itll be hard to fix it, I know, but once you know that things can and will be ok, it is then possible for you to successfully move forward with the happiness in you. Hope this helps
@@jjomo3035 Thanks a lot! This was totally understandable and i think it gives me a good direction instead of just venting it which can bring others down with me.😃
Your sharing this way will not only help you but help many others. That's the way it works; you've shown your vulnerable side and it serves to make you very relatable and honest and real. We all go through things like this, no matter who we are and this video has been the one I most love on your channel because not only did you allow us to see another part of you and feel like you're just like us, not always the bouncy, brave girl you usually show (you are that too, of course!), but you gave some great tips.....truly helpful and I thank you and send you a big hug XO
If nothing else, your video helped me realize I am not the only one feeling like this right now, feeling anxious, unmotivated and so frustratingly... stuck. Thank you, truly. And in turn, you are not alone either💜
So true about dolling yourself up! I work from home now as well and even though I don't need to get up early and get ready to go out, I still do it. The ritual of taking a shower first thing in the morning, putting on makeup and wearing proper clothes before sitting in front of my computer really gets me in the mood to work (as opposed to waking up late and just checking my emails in my sweatpants...which just makes me want to go back to bed). Decluttering also really helps. It's such a chore but having a messy environment makes my mind messy, too. Something that's easy to forget but also very essential is that life isn't worth living if you're constantly trying to prove yourself to someone (even yourself). I think what matters most is learning to appreciate and be content with what you have but still striving to better over time with no expectations or pressure. Just live and flow towards what is good and true to yourself. Hope you're doing well, Liah! Much love x
I interned and then worked in the publishing industry before. I attended events and organized shoots so I got to meet a lot of people who've reached out to me for extra work. I also worked in marketing for a while, which helped me with making new connections. Some of the people I've met also introduced me to friends and contacts who needed writers, and it eventually became enough for me to sustain working freelance full-time :) I guess it's also a plus for some people when I say I'm very much open to ghostwriting/not getting credited haha
Appreciate your transparency and genuineness Liah. Cliche thing to say but make an appointment to talk to a counselor/therapist! The objective feedbacks that they provide is an added bonus to talking about your feelings and thoughts to an unbiased person. Just food for thought 💚
이렇게 채널이 국제적으로 훨씬 커지기 전부터 봐왔던 언니보다 딱 한살 어린 한국 시청자입니다 댓글은 몇 년만에 처음이네요:) 정말 초기와 비교하면 영상의 퀄리티가 정말 이루 말할 수 없에 높아졌어요. 그 퀄리티가 변화해 가는 과정과 언니의 삶과 여러 활동을 지켜보면서 저는 정말 많은 자극을 받았답니다. 언니 덕분에 제 자신의 삶을 더 적극적으로 개척해서 꿈을 이루는 과정에 있고 건강도 챙기게 됐고.. 그 어느때보다 행복하게 살고 있어서 언니에게 정말 고마워요. 그렇지만, 지금 영상이나 모습들 모두 말로 표현할 수 없게 많이 좋다고 생각하지만! 전 여전히 시간에게 편지쓰는듯한 느낌의 예에엣날 영상도 몹시 좋아해요. 종종 생각이 나서 보러 가거든요ㅎㅎ 무엇을 어떤 형태로 올리건 행하시건 간에 진심으로 응원합니다. 예전 영상이 정보가 더 적거나 덜 의학적(?)이라고 해서 전혀 볼 만한 동영상이 아니라고 생각하지 않고, 지금도 좀 힘을 뺀 영상도 보고싶을 때가 있으니 언니도 구독자 수에 너무 많은 부담을 가지고 본인을 몰아치지 않으셨으면 좋겠어요. 더 훌륭하게! 더 발전한 내용으로!도 좋지만 누구나 그렇듯이, 쉬어가는 템포가 필요하니까요😊 열심히 살아가는 한 개인으로써 리아유 언니를 진심으로 응원해요. 우리 열심히, 그리고 행복하게 살아봐요...!
liah, you're an inspiration. thank you for sharing yet another personal thing with us! i just want to say that i could not be more proud of you too! you're managing a youtube channel with quality content every freaking video, started a business (probably one of the most intimidating and scariest thing someone can face in the real world), which shows how passionate you are in your work. we know that this much work you put in in everything you do does not come easy, but hey, look at you, you still manage to do them and inspire us to take time to grow, do better, and take care of ourselves in the process! you work hard, you're self aware, and im glad you're taking the time to sit down and talk about everything going through your head and heart right now. my hope is that you won't be too hard on yourself and find peace that will help you go through the reset process. love you, liah. everything will be okay :)
liah,i think the reason you are feeling this way is because you feel as if you have covered every subject. I am new to your channel (about a month ) and I have literally watched almost all your videos. I quickly became obsessed because your view on skincare was so unconventional in the since that you were a minimalist and not trying to just sell products. you truly cared and backed your information with solid scientific backing. you literally changed my entire mindset on how to properly take care of my sudden, completely broken out skin with cystic acne ( which is how I actually found you on youtube ). my skin has cleared significantly in only a month. you saved my skin and taught me the importance of your skin barrier. bottom line, youre amazing and please, just stick to informative information. YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!! Inside and out. Please don't let that creative wall block "fun" enough, I watch you channel for the info. Good luck and keep your head up.
I'm always thinking the same thing! This couldn't come at a better time. I thought it would help to watch a cute movie on Netflix "Next Gen".... turned out to be the worst idea. I couldn't stop crying... so much for it being a kids movie XD I'd recommend going with a movie you love & know will make you feel BETTER... plenty of matcha, sneak in some dark chocolate & YOGA always revives my sluggish body {which I get when I'm feeling my worst; unmotivated}... you're not alone, Liah
Your video came out when I am at my lowest, having meltdowns and being so overwhelmed every single day to the point I get sick, and can't do anything. Thank you so much Liah for being such an inspiration to me. I hope you will have an amazing day and I love you! I know you won't see this comment but I just want to let it out here. :) am a proud palm palm fam :)
I think it's great to have people in the world who push themselves. Who have the self awareness to realize how ambitious they may or may not be. The majority of the world is not as ambitious and resilient as you are and even tho your source of comparison is not the average person, but rather your past self, just remember to also have gratitude for yourself and positive self talk. Letting it all out and telling yourself "I know I can do better" and acknowledging your struggles is a beautiful thing. Balance that with "i am enough" "i am a resilient person" "I'm proud of my accomplishments" etc. I love how real and open you are. And I think you're great :*
Being strong doesn't mean we're always OK. It is part of being human. IT IS OKAY TO BE NOT OKAY! Being strong means accepting our own vulnerability and owning all the feelings that come up and keep on working on ourselves. Thank you Liah for sharing this side of you. By sharing this, it shows that you are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. I can totally relate with the anxiety and how paralyzing that can be. Know that you're not alone and that you can always get help (a session with a counselor can be very helpful to overcome anxiety, a self-help book, or whatever you think you might need at this point). Sending love 🌴🌴🌴
자신의 상황과 감정을 솔직하게 털어놓고 그와중에 자신의 힘듬만 털어놓는 게 아니라 고민을 해결하려는 노력까지 공유해서 같은 고민을 하고있는 사람들에게도 도움을 주려고 해주어서 고마워요. 전 사실 영상을 보면서 그냥 울컥할때 참지말고 터트려 울면서 좀 칭얼거려주었으면 하는 안타까운 마음이었지만... 이런 모습도 리아유 같아서 좋아요. 곁에 있는 친구나 동생이었다면 꼭 안아주고 싶은 마음이에요. 항상 응원할게요❤️
Liah you are literally the woman I want to be after I leave high school. I think about it all the time. You're achieving everything I hope to. You're an absolute girl boss and inspiration. Don't be so hard on yourself. You are doing so great!! 💓💓Palm palm family is always here to support you no matter what
I can feel you Liah. I am a man and I have been suscribed to your channel since last year. Its very normal to have ups and down in life esp living in this world now. Everyone has their own desire and everyone keeps working hard for it. You may cry as much as you want , thats human being. I wish you good luck and all the best in whatever you do.
I know that feeling of sweating and heart beating when seeing an email notification. I think it’s a sign that we have too much on our plate. Goals, passion, it’s all important and give us drive for life, but self care is very important. 아니면 무슨 부귀영화를 누리겠다고...ㅠㅠ We can only do so much. Slow and steady, Liah.
Liah, thank you for sharing this part of your life. I’ve been going through a very similar/relatable issue as in 10:00. Ever since I’ve took this manager position- I feel like I’m always floundering in messages, calls, emails, tasks, and responsibilities- that I can never seem to see the end of, which leaves me extremely anxious and almost paranoid. The instance my phone buzzes I already start getting stressed. Though I still push myself to continue working, I can’t focus on one thing and work isn’t fun anymore. I still have the passion, I know it but it’s just hard to put it into actions now. I’ve been so unmotivated and there’s many days I end up finishing the day with nothing really accomplished- just barely keeping up w the deadlines. And this pattern repeating has been making me crazy. Have been trying those methods to keep myself motivated and still struggling but I’ll keep trying! I love your idea of listening to carols haha! There’s times we need to borrow some of that magical Christmas spirit early in the year:) Watching this video has somehow cured me in some parts of my heart? I teared up. I think I really really needed this video. You are my inspiration whenever I’m going through rough times❤️ 진짜고마워요언니 keep being the awesome person you are
I feel so unmotivated today and this video really helped. I did my journal last night and like you, I do not know what really fills my mind and all I can do is to cry it out. Thanks Liah! You dont know how you inspire me.
You are doing well. I know how it is to feel unmotivated, tired, anxyous.. but you're trying to get over these problems and this is the most important thing to do. Keep going and learn about yourself.
Oh Liah, it hurts my heart that you feel so sad and overwhelmed. That seems to be natural, though. People work so hard to get off the ground, and once it happens, you have to give up some time for the new stuff. You’re doing a great job still with the videos that you post. Krave beauty products are amazing and have saved my skin so much quicker than I though possible! You can’t be everything always for everyone. I’m glad you’re trying to find solutions to your time problems. You are doing a great job on everything and I really want you to absorb the results of all your hard work. 💜🌴💜🌴💜🌴
Hi, I’m a new subscriber. I started watching your videos this summer because I have bad skin since I’m 14 (I just turned 25). I really like your personality and the “calm” vibes of your videos. I feel lost most of the time with skincare because nothing seems to work for my skin but you gave me the will and strength to keep going and trying things while paying attention to the ingredients of what I put on my skin. Thank you so much, thanks to you I challenged myself to spend one entire month without foundation and for me it is a huge step...I found myself in the same mental step, an unmotivated and depressed mindset bc I just finished my master and I am honestly exhausted, didn’t have any vacation for the past 5 years bc I need to work a part time job to support my studies and sometimes it just get too much. I don’t know what I am going to do next and that kind of uncertainty scares me but I am glad I am not the only one. We can do better together if we chose to love yourself, even our flaws and stay hopeful that the future still holds beautiful things for us 💪🏻❤️ anyway, love U, you got a new member in your community.
리아님 덕분에 피부가 많이 개선되어 리아님께 엄청 감사한 구독자중 한명입니다. 추천해주신 케일은 습관이되어 항상 잘 챙겨먹고있어요^^ 당시 피부가 굉장히 스트레스였는데 날 구원해준 이 천사는 어떤사람일까 궁금해서 모든 영상을 다시보기했고 정말 스마트한사람이라고 생각했어요 하지만 우리는 사람이기에, 항상 행복과 불안을 함께 안고 살아가는것 같아요 저도 개인사업을하지만 처음에는 잘될까? 내자신을 믿지못해 불안했고 지금은 잘되도 이게 지속될까? 라는 생각에 불안해요. 리아님은 이때까지 잘 해오셨고 극복하는 방법도 계속 찾고계신것 같아 이 또한 인생이 그렇듯 물 흐르듯 지나갈거라 생각합니다. 응원하는 구독자로서 첨으로 댓글달아보는데 조금이나마 제 맘이 전해서 기운차리시는데 도움되시길바랍니다!
I recently subscribed to this channel. And it's the channel I never knew I needed. Your struggle really resonates with me. The constant perfectionism, I'm always anxious if I don't do things perfectly I suddenly feel useless and disappointed at my own self. I struggle with my own thoughts about myself. And also with what others would think if I ever not do stuff perfectly. I'm having panic attacks like you, insomnia, tiredness etc.. I've found myself tearing up and containing tears for the smallest things. I'm very tired. I know I'm not alone on this but you were so genuine with it all that it just gave me peace for some minutes. So for that. THANK YOU 🙏.
I hope life is easier for you and less chaotic. Watching this video really hit home- especially watching you have that moment in front of the computer crying-that is me lately. Thank you for posting this.
I love how the growth of your videos are not just skincare but also self love! Last week I also felt less motivated as well and it affected my career, education, lifestyle and relationships. I think one of the ways we can also feel more alive is to be somewhere you love. So I did it, and I went to an acoustic guitar show. The guitarist didn't sing or do any special gigs, he was just with his guitar doing fingerstyle acoustics. It felt really different when you hear it live. Maybe because it's live, so it felt more personal and gives your mind some headspace.
Liah, you make me realize more that everyone have their own problem and struggle, even tough they try to show the best side of them everyday. I always thought that you do this seriously, but never know that this will take a toll on your body and mind (responsibility, pressure) Please Liah, love yourself more, don't feel to pressure yourself to please others, We can't please everyone. For me, you are still an inspiration and one of the best UA-camr, your content always high quality and well thought, well made. Liah, fighting!! *virtual hugs*
When you said "let it out," I immediately started crying. I need a break so I appreciate you offering that to me and others. It looks like you need a break, too. Lilah, you're smart and inspiring and caring and you deserve a break just as much as anyone. Thank for providing information, refuge from stress, and support for us
Hi Liah, thank you for always being yourself . A holiday or a break can always help to ease out the tension between workload. I pray and hope that you can go through all this because you are stronger than you think you are.
Hi Liah! You are not alone. I feel you dear. I got teary eyed when I saw you cried in this video. We are on the sane boat. Relate much. Thank you for sharing this with us. Keep moving forward. We the Palm Palm Family are always here for you. Love you. 😊💖
Thank you Liah, i needed someone who would understand how i feel and not be judged just because they don't ubderstand me and they have a different aporoach on what I say.
Thank you so much. I have been in a slump for the past couple of months.....I know what my dreams are....but I just struggle with achieving my goals....and then working part time AND also trying to focuse on university. It has all been too much....and then I blame myself for being so unmotivated and that as a result emotionally exhausts me even more. :(
Liah, You have been my favorite UA-cam channel to learn and grow from in terms of my own skincare, but it's also been my favorite to watch as you continue to grow and succeed in a tough world. Your products are amazing, and have changed the faces of so many people, but your heart is what makes your company so different from others in the industry. You care, it shows, and we love you for it. Thanks for everything you do!
Hi Liah, I hope you read this and realize that you are not alone! This summer I reduced my hours at work so that it would force me to finally start my at home business. I knew it would be a lot of work but I didn't anticipate that it would force me to confront my insecurities, fears and my own introvertness. Needless to say I ended up with depression and anxiety for weeks at a time as I kept worrying about my future and what I should've done. Eventually I began reading books and found a community that do what I want to do and started to feel hope again. Now I am much better and have made changes to help my productivity, the biggest waking up at 6am everyday. This experience has taught me to appreciate my blessings and to be present in the present. Thanks for making this video. You are such an inspiration to me and I'm always looking forward to watching you grow. Best wishes!
Crazy how I’m also feeling/going through this obstacle but also comforting to see how not alone we are! I continuously have to remind myself ‘one step at a time’! Thanks for sharing with us! Wishing you all good things in this journey!
i have been needing a video like this because i admit that i've also been in a slump. thank you so much, truly, for this video. it takes a guts to be able to confront your problems and to even make them public. i really admire you in all aspects and i hope that you find solace soon!
sometimes when you get really busy into everything, you'll feel this kind of feeling. But everytimes I feel depressed, I always take a break and awake myself to do something happier than before, because u just live once in your life, FIGHTING!! @liahYoo !! I really adore your content so much, from the first time I clicked your videos. I hope you can enjoy your life even more:)) don't stop to educate us wth your videos
Your topics are always something that I am excited about. Everything that you have discussed about skin and tips and everything else has been so helpful. U just dont know how much you have helped especially with my confidence. Remember that you always share a light to me as someone who has suffered with skin problems. The content u provide is effective and fun so i am sharing light and love to you now to give back in some way 🖤
Thanks for doing this video! It is really helpful as I am encountering similar issues with my career and home (my mother’s sickness relapse and my dog is terminally ill). I just keep myself busy at work with no time to think and just perform my job without giving extra thought, without taking proper care of myself in terms of food and sleep. I have not allow myself to laugh / cry for a long time. After watching your video, I had finally allow myself to cry and come to a conclusion on how to manage these issues.
Awwww I feel you 😢. I am no near your success but I have some kind of depression that I just don’t think anyone understands. Self doubt and all. Finance. Etc. Thanks for an update and for the video ❤️
Liah언니..댓글같은거 처음남겨보는데, 저는 언니가 일을 대하는 꼼꼼한 부분부터 크게는 언니 채널 자체를 참 좋아해요. 하지만 언니의 채널이 재밌게 느껴지는 이유는, 언니가 제 이상적인 라이프 스타일을 가지고 있어서인것 같아요. 책임감이 는 만큼 자기 자신을 원래대로 유지하기 어려워 지겠지만, 모든 건 내 자신이 평화로워야 가능해지는거겠죠! 더 큰 depress에 빠지기 전에 무시할 수도 있었던 자신의 sign을 알고 잠시 리셋하는 것도 굉장히 중요하니까 이 시간들도 다 소중한 시간들이 될거에요. 자기관리에 철저하려는 언니의 생각도 보이고 반면에 인간적인 면모까지 드러나서 저는 이번영상이 참 좋아요. 언니는 지금보다 더, 더 멋진 사람이 될 수 있을거에요. 앞으로 어떤 일이 일어나건간에 늘 응원할게요! 우리 늘 건강해요 언니^^**
My friend group has been going through the same thing as of late. We think it might be a change of season-thing. Pressing reset totally helps. Yesterday I worked from home and decluttered my bedroom. So good!! I really recommend a book, the power of receiving. It'll help separating what you do from who you are.
Recently I've been feeling like that too, overthinking things too much, underestimate myself, and getting more and more anxious. I recharged myself by travelling and hang out with close friends that give fun vibes, so I feel much better now. Thanks so much for sharing this and remember what Jess Glyne 'said': Don't be so hard on yourself
리아유님 영상은 언제난 저에게 힘이되요... 다들 지치고 우울할때가 있는데... 그럴때 항상 방황은 꼭 하더라고요 힘든일은 누구에게나 일어나지만 리아유님은 잘하실꺼예요. 솔직하시고 그동안 올리신 영상중에 삶에 관한 얘기를 해주신게 저는 보면서 많은걸 보면서 배우고 힐링했어요 크레이브 뷰티도 유튜브도 잘될꺼에요 !! 걱정하지 마세용
언니 그동안 너무 수고 많았어요, 그리고 이렇게 고민을 털어놔줘서 고마워요! 우리 함께 무거운 짐은 나눠가져요! 요새 기분이 저도 뒤숭숭했는데 언니가 말해준 청소, 감정 표출하기, 쉬운것부터 하기를 실천하니 한결 기분이 나아졌어요. 우리 나아질 수 있어요. 언니는 언니 그대로도 충분히 빛나지만 분명히 더 밝은 빛을 품고있어요. 오늘 좋은 꿈, 따뜻한 꿈 꾸세요!
thank you for your raw honesty liah. as a subscriber, i just want to encourage you to trust yourself. you are so brave for creating a brand towards educating individuals on skincare, but really challenging the popular ideas of the industry. you are doing great and we are all supporting you and rooting for you. it's ok to falter at times because we are human. we make mistakes, we feel sad, we feel anxiety, and those things are normal.
I am so so proud of you for sharing this. This takes GUTS! to admit to the way you have been feeling, share your fears, and also-kudos to you for being introspective and finding out the root cause of it all. Thank you Liah, and don't worry, now that you have analysed what the issue is, and are taking steps to improve it, you will soon feel better! Also, it is so understandable you would feel this way. That is a lot of pressure on you. I don't think most people would have been able to do what you do, so I hope you are not beating yourself up too much anymore! Sending you much much love and tons of positive vibes!
Dear Liah, as a teenager watchin and been following your channel for 2 years, i love your personality so much and i would like to thank you for inspiring me about my dream job. I know life is hard and tiring these days, but you are a strong woman and i believe you can do it! Just do the best you can. I’ll be there beside you. Don’t forget to relax and take a good care of yourself. Sending lots of love and energy! Fighting!☺️❤️ (sorry for my bad english🙏🏻)
You are honestly the purest and most refreshing person to watch on youtube. Your videos always manage relax me and free up the chaos in my mind. Keep it up love.
thank you so much for being honest with us, i really appreciate it 💜 i’m only a teenager but i’ve learnt so much from you and your videos, you sound so dedicated to your work, that’s what i really admire about u but please don’t overwork and push yourself too far, your mind and body needs to rest ☺️ i hope things will get better for you, much love from Europe 💕 xx
Thank you for telling us that is harder than most people usually show on UA-cam or Instagram. Every day i think to myself that i'm not trying hard enough because on social media everyone seems to have ALL together. Again, thank you.
I can't even describe how much I needed this and knew that I was not the only one who occasionally feel like this. About 2 weeks ago I felt so motivated as if I could conquere the world, but now, even when I had so many plans to do during the day, I still had this empty void inside my head and my heart that I couldn't get rid of. But I'm trying to get through it, because I believe it'll get better. Thank you for the video 💪💖.
LIAH, thank you for sharing this vulnerable side of youtube and of you. i cannot imagine how you felt when you posted this but i would have been anxious and terrified. i would not have imagined your struggles and they're feelings i think everyone can relate to on some level i've been following since around the time i started university and you've been a godsend because of not just the informative skincare content but also how you delivered the content. as someone who watches your content, i think you should follow your heart and gut (listening to your body as you say it) about what you think is right for your youtube channel. you've got a strong community and a very warm one that will support you as much as you support us : ) warmest of wishes x
I am suffering from severe stress as well... your videos are so inspiring to me and especially this one shows such a personal side of yours. Thank you for sharing it with us, your community. ♥
Thank you for sharing this. I am a small business owner as well and it is tough to feel like everything weighs on your shoulders and decision making, actions etc. I think it is up to us individually to decide what our “limits” are even if they don’t necessarily coincide with society’s pressure or expectations of us. We need to be okay with disappointing others if it starts to become too overwhelming and not serve us anymore. We can actually serve others better and more effectively by making choices that won’t burn us out or crush our souls in the process of doing so. It is easier said than done and I find myself having to say no to “adding more to my plate” in order to keep an optimum balance alot of the times, or delegating it to others :) hope that helps.
Liah, you’re my gem, my inspiration. Your videos are always on point, always exactly what I needed. As you, your channel, your business grew, I could feel that I’m growing as well. You’re the one who taught me it’s okay not to be okay and it really changed my perspectives. Recently, I’ve been struggling between work-life balance, I was stuck for a very long time, feeling hopeless. Now I know where to start from. Thanks to you, Liah, I can stand up and take a step forward. Wish you the best, always.
You have grown so much as a person and a youtuber, you have been a beautiful inspiring person from the beginning! Don’t be so harsh with yourself, you don’t deserve that. Go being you and thank you!
Just bumped into one of your old videos that is so relevant to my current situation. I am so happy you managed to share your thoughts with us! Lots of love!
I just want to say thank you Liah for sharing this with us, I mean I can only imagine how much strength it took for you to share this because it's not easy being vulnerable on the internet, so thank you.❤️ I hope you do manage to find a way to manage the anxiety, just know we're all here for you ❤️
I can relate to this Liah. "I know I can do better" has haunted me throughout my life as a student. In a way, it's the motivation and the reason that pushes me to meet goals and excel in school, but in another way, it's also the voice that keeps me very unsatisfied and makes me over-commit to certain things. It's kind of like a double-edged sword. I'm still in the journey in finding balance, and although our situation is a bit different, I still highly appreciate this video and I learned a lot from your sharing. Thank you for showing us your vulnerable side. I wish you all the best in your journey. You're such an inspiration💕
Can I just say thank you for everything. I will send you a before after photo after finishing my Matcha Hydrating Cleanser. It's crazy how much it has changed my life, it's the only product I have changed I'm my skincare routine. I know you do this for us subscribers and you work so hard and I really appreciate your content. I'll go into detail when I send you the before and afters 💕 love you Liah, stay strong and do ya thang girl xx
Thank you so much for the channel, there is something so intelligent and genuine in the way you’ve been doing the videos and sharing the information! I can so much relate to what you have been going through. I guess it is something we all who have tendency to “over achieving” need to process at some point in our lives. It’s funny how the enthusiasm and self criticism are the qualities that bring you the success, but eventually you need to figure out how to talk to yourself gently and learn to relax. Even how crappy you might feel at times, try to approach the situation as life teaching you something very valuable, like it’s an opportunity to know yourself a bit better. For me it helps the best with the anxiety and panic symptoms when ever they hit me, to maintain steady daily yoga & meditation practice, having my mat as a space of no expectations, no achieving and being really merciful and gentle towards myself. This too helps to drop any work related thoughts too for a moment. Your tips in this video will help me so much right now. It also felt healing to see you sharing your experiences so honestly. Lots of love and keep it up ❤️
You have become one of my favourite youtubers at the beginning of the summer and watching your videos is what made me motivated, but recently since school started, that is something I have been lacking A LOT. I was always jealous of how hard you worked and it really inspired me to do well at school, but I’m finding it hard. Thank you for making this video!!! :-)
I feel exactly the same. My projects are stopped and my mind is lost. I need to get back on~ ... Liah. Palm palm fam is human too . We get it. Take care of yourself
Behind the fame and success we've now gotten to see the backstory, it was really encouraging and inspiring to see you open up, i appreciate your honesty and willingness to be vulnerable and be frank about your situation. We're all human no one is perfect and as a creator myself our harshest critic is ourselves, nothing we can create can be perfect but theres a freedom in embracing that! This is all part of the journey and i hope you know that your lovely community is here to support you and that moments like these when you look behind you and see how much you've grown that are crucial for continual growth. thank you for your videos as always, this one was a special one to see :)
Your videos are therapeutic. I can relate to so much of what you talk about, and I'm sure others do too. Thank you for being so open, genuine, and honest. In a world where so many don't use media to share their full selves, it's always refreshing to be part of your journey. Thank you
Big virtual hug for Liah! It probably means nothing to you but you are my role model and inspiration to follow my dream ❤️ thank you for being here for us!
Oh, Liah! I have been feeling the same way lately. I have just been spending all of my days inside reading for my upcoming exams. I have repeated the same daily routine for weeks now and know exactly how you feel. Thank you for sharing these tips, they are definitely very helpful for many! As you mentioned in the video, getting out of the house is really important. I noticed this the past week when I didn't need to go to school for a few days and just spent all of my time indoors revising. Sometimes you just end up in a slump where everything feels the same and boring. Although entrepreneurship is a whole new level, remember Liah to take breaks and meeting friends. Try to schedule fun things for the morning and afternoon, getting a small break in between your work. Having fun is not just for the evenings and weekends when all work is done, sometimes you need to have fun even midst of it in order to feel the meaningfulness of life. I 100% support you and believe in you. Krave is such an amazing brand and it really shows how much work is put into all of the products. All the best and remember there is always tomorrow. Keep going, you have already come very far and accomplished many great things.😊💞
Hi Lia! You inspire me so much. Seeing you like that makes me realize that we're all human and sometimes we get exhausted with the things we have in our plate. Not everyone has the courage to do what u just did and it makes me more inspire. I love you ❤
dear Liah, at this momment I just wish I can hug you :") idk why seeing you like this makes me want to cry. thankyou for constantly inspiring me and giving me hope, making me motivated. much love. i just wish you the best !! may you find peace and rest in this September
최근에 구독하게 됐는데 개인적으로 다른 뷰티 유튜버들에 비해 확실히 정보성도 강하고 이해하기 쉽고 또 재밌게 영상을 제작하셔서 굉장히 좋았어요 ! 특히 최근 1-2년동안 여드름 피부 개선에 대한 영상들이 정말 도움이 많이 돼서 리아유님께 감사드려요ㅠㅠ 영상을 보면서 항상 느끼는 거지만 정말 본받고 싶은? 건강한 마인드를 가지고 계신 것 같아서 부럽기도 하고 닮고싶어요 ! 이런 스트레스 해소법이라든 지, 시간을 효율적으로 쓰는 법 등 다양한 영상을 통해 많은 것을 배우고 느끼고 가요 :) 리아유님 다음 영상이 기다려지는 건 사실이고 모든 구독자분들도 같은 마음일 거라고 생각하지만, 리아유님께서 부담감을 느끼거나 스트레스를 받지 않으셨음 좋겠어요ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 그래서 시간이 언제가 됐건 기다리겠습니다 ! 구독자는 기다리는 자세도 필요하니까요 리아유님 항상 응원합니다 ~
Though I just found your channel recently, I really like you. You are so natural, yet so strong. You tell me from the start . You changed me from doing nothing to take care of my self, even how to get rid of the frustration from the high expectations (as I am facing now) . You also made me realised that so many one are just like me,Thank you very much!
You are such a genuine person! Keep up the great work with UA-cam and your business. You are doing great sweetie. Just know that many ppl love your products and love you. You got this
I really needed this, and every day I want cry, and losing motivation lately, I’m trying to remind myself that you aren’t alone in feeling this, thank you Liah. 🌴
Liah we love you. I have been in your kinda situation. Like everyone must experience this phase in every part of your life just to make you stronger and you will find a better inspiration a head. Just hang on and keep positive coz you re amazing
건강이 우선이죠..^^ 뒤로 물러서지도 나아가기도 어려울 땐 한박자 쉬고, 주위를 둘러보는 것도 좋은 것 같아요~ 채용을 결정하였다니 정말 다행이에요! 큰 책임감은 압박감으로 다가오고... 모든 걸 다 끌어안지말구요~ 사람들과 좋은 것, 힘든 것 나누면서 사는 것도 좋음 방법인 것 같아요 ㅎㅎ 좋은 사람들과 함께 일할 수 있길 기도할게요!
This had been posted months ago but i just stumbled upon this only now, and its such a coincidence because i had been feeling very down the past few weeks, and had escalated this weekend. My life as a college student started this monday and i couldnt help but feel very pressured. The realization that Im no longer a child and im now an adult is only setting in and i got rly upset thinking abt how my future will turn out. It doesnt help that all my friends are on different colleges and im alone in mine. Some ppl hve started to befriend me but its just not the same. Im not used to not being with my friends, the ones who had taken me out of my shell and helped me live my life, always making me laugh and knows the exact moment im caught up in a spiral. I laughed with new ppl but it felt so hollow and fake. I feel unmotivated and i only get up in the morning then spend the whole day wishing its night again so i can sleep my troubles away. Its just too much. Thank you so much for this video, itll be hard but i know that i can push thru this. And i hope that you know that ur not alone on this as well. We're all in this together :")))
Dear Liah, i am also experiencing the same thing that you have right now. I feel empty, unmotivated and quite hollow inside. I have the success, money, friends, great career that some wants to achieve but what i am feeling right now is simply not what i expected after all the achievents. Just cleaned my room to divert my attention but the feeling of loneliness and emptiness keeps coming back. I always tune to youtube just to appease my emotions and didn’t expect this very inspirational video from one of my fave content creators. Thank you for sharing this. I hope we all pass this stage and live the life where we will find solace and comfort..
I love this episode!i learned a lot!i know this video will help others too,what i mean is,i thought i was the only one struggling from those kind of situation, but watching this vid, it allows me to reset my pace and convince my self to be more positive in all aspects of life considering the fact that im living far from my family.. thanks liah for sharing your story!!
Liah you're such an inspiration to me. I always look forward to ur video bcause of ur honesty n sincerity u put to make the video to ur followers 💕 This is the first time i saw this vulnerable side of you . You're such a strong person n it motivates me to be strong like you too 😭💪Thanks liah , thanks for sharing this video. I wish the struggle you faced today will lead to an amazing journey in the future. May god bless you 😘
You might not reading this, but listen to me you are amazing, you are strong woman, you did your best. Palm palm family always here to support you no matter what 🌴🍀❤😘 cheer up Liah💃
Quote: If you are depressed, you are living in the past. If you are anxious, you are living in the future. If you are at peace, you are living in the present.
I also caught by anxiety sometimes when I have difficulty meet up with my own expectations. Still learning how to be more "lenient" with myself and note that I can just let things happen sometimes.
And thanks for sharing this video 👍
Trying to be present isn't the easiest, but thank you! :)
What if ur all three? 😳
@@joannelim1127 it just came to me to say this, and even if it doesnt makes sense I hope means something.
If you are depressed, anxious, yet in peace, i believe you are living in a circle. Those feelings counteract in a way since they both clash with positivity and negativity. But with all that negativity, it overpowers your sense of joyment and it's the reason you live in circle.
We can put it this way, there are 2 line that can represent emotion in life: the curve ")" - negativity and the straight "-" - positivity. With that, depression and anxiety forms a circle (due to its curved line), and I guess you could say theres just a line that passes through the middle. That line however, represents a different turn in life, which is why you can feel the positivity, or in the quote "the present". But as it reaches the end of its line you move back to the other direction. With all its complex movements within a simple, creates the complexion you deal in with life.
But to change all this we would need to turn everything around: to make the negative into a positive and vice versa. This will end up with 2 positive and 1 negative. It may seem that is wrong to just turn around a positive but in all circumstances and in reality, everybody has something negative in their life. And as I said before, negative - ")" positive - "-", we can now see that it'll become like this: =) - a smile
What we can do fix things is start off with smile, no matter how small or big, or if it's good or bad. It is for you to acknowledge that theres enjoyment in things that you can do. Itll be hard to fix it, I know, but once you know that things can and will be ok, it is then possible for you to successfully move forward with the happiness in you.
Hope this helps
@@jjomo3035 Thanks a lot! This was totally understandable and i think it gives me a good direction instead of just venting it which can bring others down with me.😃
@@joannelim1127 haha no problem ^ ^
I'm glad that I was able to help! Hope you (and a lot of other people who read this) feel better :)
Your sharing this way will not only help you but help many others. That's the way it works; you've shown your vulnerable side and it serves to make you very relatable and honest and real. We all go through things like this, no matter who we are and this video has been the one I most love on your channel because not only did you allow us to see another part of you and feel like you're just like us, not always the bouncy, brave girl you usually show (you are that too, of course!), but you gave some great tips.....truly helpful and I thank you and send you a big hug XO
definitely needed that hug! Thanks for your kind and sweet words Maureen :)
This.
Lilah you're a strong woman for handling this, and sharing your vulnerable side. You are amazing, never forget that. :)
I will never forget, thanks to you Alena!
If nothing else, your video helped me realize I am not the only one feeling like this right now, feeling anxious, unmotivated and so frustratingly... stuck. Thank you, truly. And in turn, you are not alone either💜
same
Always together in this!!
we’re with you ❤️ this was so beautiful. happy & proud of you for creating such a masterpiece ☺️ I love you!!!
So true about dolling yourself up! I work from home now as well and even though I don't need to get up early and get ready to go out, I still do it. The ritual of taking a shower first thing in the morning, putting on makeup and wearing proper clothes before sitting in front of my computer really gets me in the mood to work (as opposed to waking up late and just checking my emails in my sweatpants...which just makes me want to go back to bed).
Decluttering also really helps. It's such a chore but having a messy environment makes my mind messy, too.
Something that's easy to forget but also very essential is that life isn't worth living if you're constantly trying to prove yourself to someone (even yourself). I think what matters most is learning to appreciate and be content with what you have but still striving to better over time with no expectations or pressure. Just live and flow towards what is good and true to yourself.
Hope you're doing well, Liah! Much love x
Hope you're well as well Cai!
Cai M Just curious, what job do you have that lets you work from home?
I do freelance writing, copyediting/proofreading and illustration :)
Cai M That’s so awesome. How did you get into this line of work? I would love to do something similar.
I interned and then worked in the publishing industry before. I attended events and organized shoots so I got to meet a lot of people who've reached out to me for extra work. I also worked in marketing for a while, which helped me with making new connections. Some of the people I've met also introduced me to friends and contacts who needed writers, and it eventually became enough for me to sustain working freelance full-time :)
I guess it's also a plus for some people when I say I'm very much open to ghostwriting/not getting credited haha
Appreciate your transparency and genuineness Liah. Cliche thing to say but make an appointment to talk to a counselor/therapist! The objective feedbacks that they provide is an added bonus to talking about your feelings and thoughts to an unbiased person. Just food for thought 💚
이렇게 채널이 국제적으로 훨씬 커지기 전부터 봐왔던 언니보다 딱 한살 어린 한국 시청자입니다 댓글은 몇 년만에 처음이네요:)
정말 초기와 비교하면 영상의 퀄리티가 정말 이루 말할 수 없에 높아졌어요. 그 퀄리티가 변화해 가는 과정과 언니의 삶과 여러 활동을 지켜보면서 저는 정말 많은 자극을 받았답니다. 언니 덕분에 제 자신의 삶을 더 적극적으로 개척해서 꿈을 이루는 과정에 있고 건강도 챙기게 됐고.. 그 어느때보다 행복하게 살고 있어서 언니에게 정말 고마워요.
그렇지만, 지금 영상이나 모습들 모두 말로 표현할 수 없게 많이 좋다고 생각하지만! 전 여전히 시간에게 편지쓰는듯한 느낌의 예에엣날 영상도 몹시 좋아해요. 종종 생각이 나서 보러 가거든요ㅎㅎ
무엇을 어떤 형태로 올리건 행하시건 간에 진심으로 응원합니다. 예전 영상이 정보가 더 적거나 덜 의학적(?)이라고 해서 전혀 볼 만한 동영상이 아니라고 생각하지 않고, 지금도 좀 힘을 뺀 영상도 보고싶을 때가 있으니 언니도 구독자 수에 너무 많은 부담을 가지고 본인을 몰아치지 않으셨으면 좋겠어요. 더 훌륭하게! 더 발전한 내용으로!도 좋지만 누구나 그렇듯이, 쉬어가는 템포가 필요하니까요😊
열심히 살아가는 한 개인으로써 리아유 언니를 진심으로 응원해요. 우리 열심히, 그리고 행복하게 살아봐요...!
좋은 말씀 정말 감사드립니다
liah, you're an inspiration. thank you for sharing yet another personal thing with us! i just want to say that i could not be more proud of you too! you're managing a youtube channel with quality content every freaking video, started a business (probably one of the most intimidating and scariest thing someone can face in the real world), which shows how passionate you are in your work. we know that this much work you put in in everything you do does not come easy, but hey, look at you, you still manage to do them and inspire us to take time to grow, do better, and take care of ourselves in the process! you work hard, you're self aware, and im glad you're taking the time to sit down and talk about everything going through your head and heart right now. my hope is that you won't be too hard on yourself and find peace that will help you go through the reset process. love you, liah. everything will be okay :)
It really means so much seeing this beautiful comment! Thanks for shedding the light
liah,i think the reason you are feeling this way is because you feel as if you have covered every subject. I am new to your channel (about a month ) and I have literally watched almost all your videos. I quickly became obsessed because your view on skincare was so unconventional in the since that you were a minimalist and not trying to just sell products. you truly cared and backed your information with solid scientific backing. you literally changed my entire mindset on how to properly take care of my sudden, completely broken out skin with cystic acne ( which is how I actually found you on youtube ). my skin has cleared significantly in only a month. you saved my skin and taught me the importance of your skin barrier. bottom line, youre amazing and please, just stick to informative information. YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!! Inside and out. Please don't let that creative wall block "fun" enough, I watch you channel for the info. Good luck and keep your head up.
Awww definitely needed this! Thank you so much!!
Thank you :)
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how do you mange to read my mind every single time!? whether its skincare or lifestyle, you always come through !! thanks so much liah!
Thank you for your time!
I'm always thinking the same thing! This couldn't come at a better time. I thought it would help to watch a cute movie on Netflix "Next Gen".... turned out to be the worst idea. I couldn't stop crying... so much for it being a kids movie XD I'd recommend going with a movie you love & know will make you feel BETTER... plenty of matcha, sneak in some dark chocolate & YOGA always revives my sluggish body {which I get when I'm feeling my worst; unmotivated}... you're not alone, Liah
Your video came out when I am at my lowest, having meltdowns and being so overwhelmed every single day to the point I get sick, and can't do anything. Thank you so much Liah for being such an inspiration to me. I hope you will have an amazing day and I love you! I know you won't see this comment but I just want to let it out here. :) am a proud palm palm fam :)
love you more
HOW DO YOU ALWAYS POST AT THE RIGHT TIMES? HOW DID YOU KNOW I NEEDED MY LIFE TOGETHER? YOU'RE MAGICAL
I think it's great to have people in the world who push themselves. Who have the self awareness to realize how ambitious they may or may not be. The majority of the world is not as ambitious and resilient as you are and even tho your source of comparison is not the average person, but rather your past self, just remember to also have gratitude for yourself and positive self talk.
Letting it all out and telling yourself "I know I can do better" and acknowledging your struggles is a beautiful thing. Balance that with "i am enough" "i am a resilient person" "I'm proud of my accomplishments" etc.
I love how real and open you are. And I think you're great :*
Being strong doesn't mean we're always OK. It is part of being human. IT IS OKAY TO BE NOT OKAY! Being strong means accepting our own vulnerability and owning all the feelings that come up and keep on working on ourselves. Thank you Liah for sharing this side of you. By sharing this, it shows that you are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. I can totally relate with the anxiety and how paralyzing that can be. Know that you're not alone and that you can always get help (a session with a counselor can be very helpful to overcome anxiety, a self-help book, or whatever you think you might need at this point). Sending love 🌴🌴🌴
my eyes are so watery again!! Thanks for this Erika xx
자신의 상황과 감정을 솔직하게 털어놓고
그와중에 자신의 힘듬만 털어놓는 게 아니라
고민을 해결하려는 노력까지 공유해서
같은 고민을 하고있는 사람들에게도 도움을 주려고 해주어서 고마워요. 전 사실 영상을 보면서 그냥 울컥할때 참지말고 터트려 울면서 좀 칭얼거려주었으면 하는 안타까운 마음이었지만... 이런 모습도 리아유 같아서 좋아요. 곁에 있는 친구나 동생이었다면 꼭 안아주고 싶은 마음이에요. 항상 응원할게요❤️
Liah you are literally the woman I want to be after I leave high school. I think about it all the time. You're achieving everything I hope to. You're an absolute girl boss and inspiration. Don't be so hard on yourself. You are doing so great!! 💓💓Palm palm family is always here to support you no matter what
Thanks Jaimee, that means a lot!
I can feel you Liah. I am a man and I have been suscribed to your channel since last year. Its very normal to have ups and down in life esp living in this world now. Everyone has their own desire and everyone keeps working hard for it. You may cry as much as you want , thats human being. I wish you good luck and all the best in whatever you do.
I know that feeling of sweating and heart beating when seeing an email notification. I think it’s a sign that we have too much on our plate. Goals, passion, it’s all important and give us drive for life, but self care is very important. 아니면 무슨 부귀영화를 누리겠다고...ㅠㅠ We can only do so much. Slow and steady, Liah.
Liah, thank you for sharing this part of your life. I’ve been going through a very similar/relatable issue as in 10:00. Ever since I’ve took this manager position- I feel like I’m always floundering in messages, calls, emails, tasks, and responsibilities- that I can never seem to see the end of, which leaves me extremely anxious and almost paranoid. The instance my phone buzzes I already start getting stressed. Though I still push myself to continue working, I can’t focus on one thing and work isn’t fun anymore. I still have the passion, I know it but it’s just hard to put it into actions now. I’ve been so unmotivated and there’s many days I end up finishing the day with nothing really accomplished- just barely keeping up w the deadlines. And this pattern repeating has been making me crazy. Have been trying those methods to keep myself motivated and still struggling but I’ll keep trying! I love your idea of listening to carols haha! There’s times we need to borrow some of that magical Christmas spirit early in the year:) Watching this video has somehow cured me in some parts of my heart? I teared up. I think I really really needed this video. You are my inspiration whenever I’m going through rough times❤️ 진짜고마워요언니 keep being the awesome person you are
I can definitely feel you! I feel a lot better after letting things out :)
I feel so unmotivated today and this video really helped. I did my journal last night and like you, I do not know what really fills my mind and all I can do is to cry it out. Thanks Liah! You dont know how you inspire me.
It's really very hard to be a perfectionist so learn to give allowance for mistakes and not to set high expectations..I love how genuine you are!
You are doing well. I know how it is to feel unmotivated, tired, anxyous.. but you're trying to get over these problems and this is the most important thing to do. Keep going and learn about yourself.
Oh Liah, it hurts my heart that you feel so sad and overwhelmed. That seems to be natural, though. People work so hard to get off the ground, and once it happens, you have to give up some time for the new stuff. You’re doing a great job still with the videos that you post. Krave beauty products are amazing and have saved my skin so much quicker than I though possible! You can’t be everything always for everyone. I’m glad you’re trying to find solutions to your time problems. You are doing a great job on everything and I really want you to absorb the results of all your hard work. 💜🌴💜🌴💜🌴
Hi, I’m a new subscriber. I started watching your videos this summer because I have bad skin since I’m 14 (I just turned 25). I really like your personality and the “calm” vibes of your videos. I feel lost most of the time with skincare because nothing seems to work for my skin but you gave me the will and strength to keep going and trying things while paying attention to the ingredients of what I put on my skin. Thank you so much, thanks to you I challenged myself to spend one entire month without foundation and for me it is a huge step...I found myself in the same mental step, an unmotivated and depressed mindset bc I just finished my master and I am honestly exhausted, didn’t have any vacation for the past 5 years bc I need to work a part time job to support my studies and sometimes it just get too much. I don’t know what I am going to do next and that kind of uncertainty scares me but I am glad I am not the only one. We can do better together if we chose to love yourself, even our flaws and stay hopeful that the future still holds beautiful things for us 💪🏻❤️ anyway, love U, you got a new member in your community.
It’s ok to feel vulnerable. We’re human. We feel things. Take a breathe, it’s all gonna be ok.
리아님 덕분에 피부가 많이 개선되어 리아님께 엄청 감사한 구독자중 한명입니다. 추천해주신 케일은 습관이되어 항상 잘 챙겨먹고있어요^^
당시 피부가 굉장히 스트레스였는데 날 구원해준 이 천사는 어떤사람일까 궁금해서 모든 영상을 다시보기했고 정말 스마트한사람이라고 생각했어요
하지만 우리는 사람이기에, 항상 행복과 불안을 함께 안고 살아가는것 같아요
저도 개인사업을하지만 처음에는 잘될까? 내자신을 믿지못해 불안했고 지금은 잘되도 이게 지속될까? 라는 생각에 불안해요.
리아님은 이때까지 잘 해오셨고 극복하는 방법도 계속 찾고계신것 같아 이 또한 인생이 그렇듯 물 흐르듯 지나갈거라 생각합니다.
응원하는 구독자로서 첨으로 댓글달아보는데 조금이나마 제 맘이 전해서 기운차리시는데 도움되시길바랍니다!
It's okay to feel overwhelmed Liah. Don't beat up yourself about it. We love you.
리아유님은 잘해내고 있으세요!!
저는 지금 우울증이랑 불안증으로 힘들어하지만 리아유님 영상 보면서 힐링할 때가 많아요.
항상 기다리고 있을테니 부담갖지 말아주세요.
I recently subscribed to this channel. And it's the channel I never knew I needed. Your struggle really resonates with me. The constant perfectionism, I'm always anxious if I don't do things perfectly I suddenly feel useless and disappointed at my own self. I struggle with my own thoughts about myself. And also with what others would think if I ever not do stuff perfectly. I'm having panic attacks like you, insomnia, tiredness etc.. I've found myself tearing up and containing tears for the smallest things. I'm very tired. I know I'm not alone on this but you were so genuine with it all that it just gave me peace for some minutes. So for that. THANK YOU 🙏.
🌱🌱 here with you!!
I hope life is easier for you and less chaotic. Watching this video really hit home- especially watching you have that moment in front of the computer crying-that is me lately. Thank you for posting this.
I love how the growth of your videos are not just skincare but also self love! Last week I also felt less motivated as well and it affected my career, education, lifestyle and relationships. I think one of the ways we can also feel more alive is to be somewhere you love. So I did it, and I went to an acoustic guitar show. The guitarist didn't sing or do any special gigs, he was just with his guitar doing fingerstyle acoustics. It felt really different when you hear it live. Maybe because it's live, so it felt more personal and gives your mind some headspace.
thanks for sharing! that truly sounds wonderful :)
Liah, you make me realize more that everyone have their own problem and struggle, even tough they try to show the best side of them everyday.
I always thought that you do this seriously, but never know that this will take a toll on your body and mind (responsibility, pressure)
Please Liah, love yourself more, don't feel to pressure yourself to please others, We can't please everyone. For me, you are still an inspiration and one of the best UA-camr, your content always high quality and well thought, well made.
Liah, fighting!! *virtual hugs*
love you love you love you!
When you said "let it out," I immediately started crying. I need a break so I appreciate you offering that to me and others. It looks like you need a break, too. Lilah, you're smart and inspiring and caring and you deserve a break just as much as anyone. Thank for providing information, refuge from stress, and support for us
Hugs😔💕
Hi Liah, thank you for always being yourself . A holiday or a break can always help to ease out the tension between workload. I pray and hope that you can go through all this because you are stronger than you think you are.
I cried, you are not only my inspiration, but my fight sis.
Hi Liah! You are not alone. I feel you dear. I got teary eyed when I saw you cried in this video. We are on the sane boat. Relate much. Thank you for sharing this with us. Keep moving forward. We the Palm Palm Family are always here for you. Love you. 😊💖
Thank you Liah, i needed someone who would understand how i feel and not be judged just because they don't ubderstand me and they have a different aporoach on what I say.
Thank you for showing your true feelings in this video, and for talking about your self-doubt. You just helped me in the midst of this pandemic.
Take care of yourself liah! Your videos have made such a huge impact in my life. You deserve to rest when you are home. Find your true home!
Thank you so much. I have been in a slump for the past couple of months.....I know what my dreams are....but I just struggle with achieving my goals....and then working part time AND also trying to focuse on university. It has all been too much....and then I blame myself for being so unmotivated and that as a result emotionally exhausts me even more. :(
Liah,
You have been my favorite UA-cam channel to learn and grow from in terms of my own skincare, but it's also been my favorite to watch as you continue to grow and succeed in a tough world. Your products are amazing, and have changed the faces of so many people, but your heart is what makes your company so different from others in the industry. You care, it shows, and we love you for it.
Thanks for everything you do!
Hi Liah, I hope you read this and realize that you are not alone!
This summer I reduced my hours at work so that it would force me to finally start my at home business. I knew it would be a lot of work but I didn't anticipate that it would force me to confront my insecurities, fears and my own introvertness. Needless to say I ended up with depression and anxiety for weeks at a time as I kept worrying about my future and what I should've done. Eventually I began reading books and found a community that do what I want to do and started to feel hope again. Now I am much better and have made changes to help my productivity, the biggest waking up at 6am everyday. This experience has taught me to appreciate my blessings and to be present in the present.
Thanks for making this video. You are such an inspiration to me and I'm always looking forward to watching you grow. Best wishes!
Crazy how I’m also feeling/going through this obstacle but also comforting to see how not alone we are! I continuously have to remind myself ‘one step at a time’! Thanks for sharing with us! Wishing you all good things in this journey!
Literally feeling like this, and you release a video on it. tysm!!
i have been needing a video like this because i admit that i've also been in a slump. thank you so much, truly, for this video. it takes a guts to be able to confront your problems and to even make them public. i really admire you in all aspects and i hope that you find solace soon!
sometimes when you get really busy into everything, you'll feel this kind of feeling. But everytimes I feel depressed, I always take a break and awake myself to do something happier than before, because u just live once in your life, FIGHTING!! @liahYoo !! I really adore your content so much, from the first time I clicked your videos. I hope you can enjoy your life even more:)) don't stop to educate us wth your videos
Your topics are always something that I am excited about. Everything that you have discussed about skin and tips and everything else has been so helpful. U just dont know how much you have helped especially with my confidence. Remember that you always share a light to me as someone who has suffered with skin problems. The content u provide is effective and fun so i am sharing light and love to you now to give back in some way 🖤
Thanks for doing this video! It is really helpful as I am encountering similar issues with my career and home (my mother’s sickness relapse and my dog is terminally ill). I just keep myself busy at work with no time to think and just perform my job without giving extra thought, without taking proper care of myself in terms of food and sleep. I have not allow myself to laugh / cry for a long time. After watching your video, I had finally allow myself to cry and come to a conclusion on how to manage these issues.
Awwww I feel you 😢. I am no near your success but I have some kind of depression that I just don’t think anyone understands. Self doubt and all. Finance. Etc.
Thanks for an update and for the video ❤️
Liah언니..댓글같은거 처음남겨보는데, 저는 언니가 일을 대하는 꼼꼼한 부분부터 크게는 언니 채널 자체를 참 좋아해요. 하지만 언니의 채널이 재밌게 느껴지는 이유는, 언니가 제 이상적인 라이프 스타일을 가지고 있어서인것 같아요. 책임감이 는 만큼 자기 자신을 원래대로 유지하기 어려워 지겠지만, 모든 건 내 자신이 평화로워야 가능해지는거겠죠! 더 큰 depress에 빠지기 전에 무시할 수도 있었던 자신의 sign을 알고 잠시 리셋하는 것도 굉장히 중요하니까 이 시간들도 다 소중한 시간들이 될거에요.
자기관리에 철저하려는 언니의 생각도 보이고 반면에 인간적인 면모까지 드러나서 저는 이번영상이 참 좋아요. 언니는 지금보다 더, 더 멋진 사람이 될 수 있을거에요. 앞으로 어떤 일이 일어나건간에 늘 응원할게요!
우리 늘 건강해요 언니^^**
I teared up a little. What I want to tell you is, we are proud of you. Thank you.
I LOVE how not only you try to help our skin but our mental health too. You’re amazing Liah 💜🌴💜🌴
My friend group has been going through the same thing as of late. We think it might be a change of season-thing.
Pressing reset totally helps. Yesterday I worked from home and decluttered my bedroom. So good!!
I really recommend a book, the power of receiving. It'll help separating what you do from who you are.
Recently I've been feeling like that too, overthinking things too much, underestimate myself, and getting more and more anxious. I recharged myself by travelling and hang out with close friends that give fun vibes, so I feel much better now. Thanks so much for sharing this and remember what Jess Glyne 'said': Don't be so hard on yourself
리아유님 영상은 언제난 저에게 힘이되요... 다들 지치고 우울할때가 있는데... 그럴때 항상 방황은 꼭 하더라고요
힘든일은 누구에게나 일어나지만 리아유님은 잘하실꺼예요.
솔직하시고 그동안 올리신 영상중에 삶에 관한 얘기를 해주신게 저는 보면서 많은걸 보면서 배우고 힐링했어요
크레이브 뷰티도 유튜브도 잘될꺼에요 !! 걱정하지 마세용
언니 그동안 너무 수고 많았어요, 그리고 이렇게 고민을 털어놔줘서 고마워요! 우리 함께 무거운 짐은 나눠가져요! 요새 기분이 저도 뒤숭숭했는데 언니가 말해준 청소, 감정 표출하기, 쉬운것부터 하기를 실천하니 한결 기분이 나아졌어요. 우리 나아질 수 있어요. 언니는 언니 그대로도 충분히 빛나지만 분명히 더 밝은 빛을 품고있어요. 오늘 좋은 꿈, 따뜻한 꿈 꾸세요!
thank you for your raw honesty liah. as a subscriber, i just want to encourage you to trust yourself. you are so brave for creating a brand towards educating individuals on skincare, but really challenging the popular ideas of the industry. you are doing great and we are all supporting you and rooting for you. it's ok to falter at times because we are human. we make mistakes, we feel sad, we feel anxiety, and those things are normal.
I am so so proud of you for sharing this. This takes GUTS! to admit to the way you have been feeling, share your fears, and also-kudos to you for being introspective and finding out the root cause of it all. Thank you Liah, and don't worry, now that you have analysed what the issue is, and are taking steps to improve it, you will soon feel better! Also, it is so understandable you would feel this way. That is a lot of pressure on you. I don't think most people would have been able to do what you do, so I hope you are not beating yourself up too much anymore!
Sending you much much love and tons of positive vibes!
항상 눈팅만 했었는데.. 마음이 아프네요 ㅠㅠ 힘내세요 너무 잘 하고 계세요! 그리고 건강이 최우선순위라는거 잊지마세요!!
Dear Liah, as a teenager watchin and been following your channel for 2 years, i love your personality so much and i would like to thank you for inspiring me about my dream job. I know life is hard and tiring these days, but you are a strong woman and i believe you can do it! Just do the best you can. I’ll be there beside you. Don’t forget to relax and take a good care of yourself. Sending lots of love and energy! Fighting!☺️❤️ (sorry for my bad english🙏🏻)
You are honestly the purest and most refreshing person to watch on youtube. Your videos always manage relax me and free up the chaos in my mind. Keep it up love.
oh wow, thanks for the encouraging words!!
thank you so much for being honest with us, i really appreciate it 💜 i’m only a teenager but i’ve learnt so much from you and your videos, you sound so dedicated to your work, that’s what i really admire about u but please don’t overwork and push yourself too far, your mind and body needs to rest ☺️ i hope things will get better for you, much love from Europe 💕 xx
Thanks you for appreciating!
Thank you for telling us that is harder than most people usually show on UA-cam or Instagram. Every day i think to myself that i'm not trying hard enough because on social media everyone seems to have ALL together.
Again, thank you.
I can't even describe how much I needed this and knew that I was not the only one who occasionally feel like this. About 2 weeks ago I felt so motivated as if I could conquere the world, but now, even when I had so many plans to do during the day, I still had this empty void inside my head and my heart that I couldn't get rid of. But I'm trying to get through it, because I believe it'll get better. Thank you for the video 💪💖.
LIAH, thank you for sharing this vulnerable side of youtube and of you. i cannot imagine how you felt when you posted this but i would have been anxious and terrified. i would not have imagined your struggles and they're feelings i think everyone can relate to on some level
i've been following since around the time i started university and you've been a godsend because of not just the informative skincare content but also how you delivered the content. as someone who watches your content, i think you should follow your heart and gut (listening to your body as you say it) about what you think is right for your youtube channel. you've got a strong community and a very warm one that will support you as much as you support us : )
warmest of wishes x
I agree! The community we built together is insane🙌🏼 thank you for reminding me that xx
I am suffering from severe stress as well... your videos are so inspiring to me and especially this one shows such a personal side of yours. Thank you for sharing it with us, your community. ♥
Thank you for sharing this. I am a small business owner as well and it is tough to feel like everything weighs on your shoulders and decision making, actions etc. I think it is up to us individually to decide what our “limits” are even if they don’t necessarily coincide with society’s pressure or expectations of us. We need to be okay with disappointing others if it starts to become too overwhelming and not serve us anymore. We can actually serve others better and more effectively by making choices that won’t burn us out or crush our souls in the process of doing so. It is easier said than done and I find myself having to say no to “adding more to my plate” in order to keep an optimum balance alot of the times, or delegating it to others :) hope that helps.
Liah, you’re my gem, my inspiration. Your videos are always on point, always exactly what I needed. As you, your channel, your business grew, I could feel that I’m growing as well. You’re the one who taught me it’s okay not to be okay and it really changed my perspectives. Recently, I’ve been struggling between work-life balance, I was stuck for a very long time, feeling hopeless. Now I know where to start from. Thanks to you, Liah, I can stand up and take a step forward. Wish you the best, always.
You have grown so much as a person and a youtuber, you have been a beautiful inspiring person from the beginning! Don’t be so harsh with yourself, you don’t deserve that. Go being you and thank you!
Thanks Paul
Just bumped into one of your old videos that is so relevant to my current situation. I am so happy you managed to share your thoughts with us! Lots of love!
I just want to say thank you Liah for sharing this with us, I mean I can only imagine how much strength it took for you to share this because it's not easy being vulnerable on the internet, so thank you.❤️ I hope you do manage to find a way to manage the anxiety, just know we're all here for you ❤️
I can relate to this Liah. "I know I can do better" has haunted me throughout my life as a student. In a way, it's the motivation and the reason that pushes me to meet goals and excel in school, but in another way, it's also the voice that keeps me very unsatisfied and makes me over-commit to certain things. It's kind of like a double-edged sword. I'm still in the journey in finding balance, and although our situation is a bit different, I still highly appreciate this video and I learned a lot from your sharing. Thank you for showing us your vulnerable side. I wish you all the best in your journey. You're such an inspiration💕
Can I just say thank you for everything. I will send you a before after photo after finishing my Matcha Hydrating Cleanser. It's crazy how much it has changed my life, it's the only product I have changed I'm my skincare routine. I know you do this for us subscribers and you work so hard and I really appreciate your content. I'll go into detail when I send you the before and afters 💕 love you Liah, stay strong and do ya thang girl xx
Thank you so much for the channel, there is something so intelligent and genuine in the way you’ve been doing the videos and sharing the information! I can so much relate to what you have been going through. I guess it is something we all who have tendency to “over achieving” need to process at some point in our lives. It’s funny how the enthusiasm and self criticism are the qualities that bring you the success, but eventually you need to figure out how to talk to yourself gently and learn to relax. Even how crappy you might feel at times, try to approach the situation as life teaching you something very valuable, like it’s an opportunity to know yourself a bit better. For me it helps the best with the anxiety and panic symptoms when ever they hit me, to maintain steady daily yoga & meditation practice, having my mat as a space of no expectations, no achieving and being really merciful and gentle towards myself. This too helps to drop any work related thoughts too for a moment. Your tips in this video will help me so much right now. It also felt healing to see you sharing your experiences so honestly. Lots of love and keep it up ❤️
You have become one of my favourite youtubers at the beginning of the summer and watching your videos is what made me motivated, but recently since school started, that is something I have been lacking A LOT. I was always jealous of how hard you worked and it really inspired me to do well at school, but I’m finding it hard. Thank you for making this video!!! :-)
step by step
I feel exactly the same. My projects are stopped and my mind is lost. I need to get back on~
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Liah. Palm palm fam is human too . We get it. Take care of yourself
I agree with getting dressed up even if you’re just gonna be at home most of the day. It changes your mindset that ‘you’re goin somewhere to do smth’
Behind the fame and success we've now gotten to see the backstory, it was really encouraging and inspiring to see you open up, i appreciate your honesty and willingness to be vulnerable and be frank about your situation. We're all human no one is perfect and as a creator myself our harshest critic is ourselves, nothing we can create can be perfect but theres a freedom in embracing that! This is all part of the journey and i hope you know that your lovely community is here to support you and that moments like these when you look behind you and see how much you've grown that are crucial for continual growth. thank you for your videos as always, this one was a special one to see :)
Thanks for truly understanding me and where this video was coming from 🌴
Your videos are therapeutic. I can relate to so much of what you talk about, and I'm sure others do too. Thank you for being so open, genuine, and honest. In a world where so many don't use media to share their full selves, it's always refreshing to be part of your journey. Thank you
Thanks for your sweet words xx
Big virtual hug for Liah! It probably means nothing to you but you are my role model and inspiration to follow my dream ❤️ thank you for being here for us!
Thank you so so much
I have so much respect for your self-awareness and ability to reflect on your own behaviour! I just wish you were less hard on yourself
Oh, Liah! I have been feeling the same way lately. I have just been spending all of my days inside reading for my upcoming exams. I have repeated the same daily routine for weeks now and know exactly how you feel. Thank you for sharing these tips, they are definitely very helpful for many! As you mentioned in the video, getting out of the house is really important. I noticed this the past week when I didn't need to go to school for a few days and just spent all of my time indoors revising. Sometimes you just end up in a slump where everything feels the same and boring.
Although entrepreneurship is a whole new level, remember Liah to take breaks and meeting friends. Try to schedule fun things for the morning and afternoon, getting a small break in between your work. Having fun is not just for the evenings and weekends when all work is done, sometimes you need to have fun even midst of it in order to feel the meaningfulness of life.
I 100% support you and believe in you. Krave is such an amazing brand and it really shows how much work is put into all of the products. All the best and remember there is always tomorrow. Keep going, you have already come very far and accomplished many great things.😊💞
Hi Lia! You inspire me so much. Seeing you like that makes me realize that we're all human and sometimes we get exhausted with the things we have in our plate. Not everyone has the courage to do what u just did and it makes me more inspire. I love you ❤
dear Liah, at this momment I just wish I can hug you :") idk why seeing you like this makes me want to cry. thankyou for constantly inspiring me and giving me hope, making me motivated. much love. i just wish you the best !! may you find peace and rest in this September
needed that hug
최근에 구독하게 됐는데 개인적으로 다른 뷰티 유튜버들에 비해 확실히 정보성도 강하고 이해하기 쉽고 또 재밌게 영상을 제작하셔서 굉장히 좋았어요 ! 특히 최근 1-2년동안 여드름 피부 개선에 대한 영상들이 정말 도움이 많이 돼서 리아유님께 감사드려요ㅠㅠ 영상을 보면서 항상 느끼는 거지만 정말 본받고 싶은? 건강한 마인드를 가지고 계신 것 같아서 부럽기도 하고 닮고싶어요 ! 이런 스트레스 해소법이라든 지, 시간을 효율적으로 쓰는 법 등 다양한 영상을 통해 많은 것을 배우고 느끼고 가요 :) 리아유님 다음 영상이 기다려지는 건 사실이고 모든 구독자분들도 같은 마음일 거라고 생각하지만, 리아유님께서 부담감을 느끼거나 스트레스를 받지 않으셨음 좋겠어요ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 그래서 시간이 언제가 됐건 기다리겠습니다 ! 구독자는 기다리는 자세도 필요하니까요 리아유님 항상 응원합니다 ~
아 정말 말로 사람을 감싸주는 느낌을 받는 댓글이네요. 감사합니다 ❤️
Though I just found your channel recently, I really like you. You are so natural, yet so strong. You tell me from the start . You changed me from doing nothing to take care of my self, even how to get rid of the frustration from the high expectations (as I am facing now) . You also made me realised that so many one are just like me,Thank you very much!
You are such a genuine person! Keep up the great work with UA-cam and your business. You are doing great sweetie. Just know that many ppl love your products and love you. You got this
I really needed this, and every day I want cry, and losing motivation lately,
I’m trying to remind myself that you aren’t alone in feeling this,
thank you Liah. 🌴
Liah we love you. I have been in your kinda situation. Like everyone must experience this phase in every part of your life just to make you stronger and you will find a better inspiration a head. Just hang on and keep positive coz you re amazing
thanks sweet heart xx
건강이 우선이죠..^^ 뒤로 물러서지도 나아가기도 어려울 땐 한박자 쉬고, 주위를 둘러보는 것도 좋은 것 같아요~ 채용을 결정하였다니 정말 다행이에요! 큰 책임감은 압박감으로 다가오고... 모든 걸 다 끌어안지말구요~ 사람들과 좋은 것, 힘든 것 나누면서 사는 것도 좋음 방법인 것 같아요 ㅎㅎ 좋은 사람들과 함께 일할 수 있길 기도할게요!
This had been posted months ago but i just stumbled upon this only now, and its such a coincidence because i had been feeling very down the past few weeks, and had escalated this weekend. My life as a college student started this monday and i couldnt help but feel very pressured. The realization that Im no longer a child and im now an adult is only setting in and i got rly upset thinking abt how my future will turn out. It doesnt help that all my friends are on different colleges and im alone in mine. Some ppl hve started to befriend me but its just not the same. Im not used to not being with my friends, the ones who had taken me out of my shell and helped me live my life, always making me laugh and knows the exact moment im caught up in a spiral. I laughed with new ppl but it felt so hollow and fake.
I feel unmotivated and i only get up in the morning then spend the whole day wishing its night again so i can sleep my troubles away. Its just too much.
Thank you so much for this video, itll be hard but i know that i can push thru this. And i hope that you know that ur not alone on this as well. We're all in this together :")))
Dear Liah, i am also experiencing the same thing that you have right now. I feel empty, unmotivated and quite hollow inside. I have the success, money, friends, great career that some wants to achieve but what i am feeling right now is simply not what i expected after all the achievents.
Just cleaned my room to divert my attention but the feeling of loneliness and emptiness keeps coming back. I always tune to youtube just to appease my emotions and didn’t expect this very inspirational video from one of my fave content creators. Thank you for sharing this. I hope we all pass this stage and live the life where we will find solace and comfort..
hope you can figure out where that void is coming from :) maybe you're not truly confronting yourself. you got this!
I love this episode!i learned a lot!i know this video will help others too,what i mean is,i thought i was the only one struggling from those kind of situation, but watching this vid, it allows me to reset my pace and convince my self to be more positive in all aspects of life considering the fact that im living far from my family.. thanks liah for sharing your story!!
Liah, you are already doing so well! You don't need to change or do more, you just need to keep going as you have been doing!
Thank you 💚
진솔하고 덤덤하게 자신의 감정도 표출할줄알고 자신의 일의 진지하게 고민하는 모습도 멋있네요.
남들에게 좋은모습을 보여주는것 보다
내 자신에게 좋은 마음을 먼저 갖는것이 최고의 치유이자 건강한 마음이 아닐까라는 생각이 들어요.
항상 응원 합니다:) 힘내기요!
Liah you're such an inspiration to me. I always look forward to ur video bcause of ur honesty n sincerity u put to make the video to ur followers 💕 This is the first time i saw this vulnerable side of you . You're such a strong person n it motivates me to be strong like you too 😭💪Thanks liah , thanks for sharing this video. I wish the struggle you faced today will lead to an amazing journey in the future. May god bless you 😘
You might not reading this, but listen to me you are amazing, you are strong woman, you did your best. Palm palm family always here to support you no matter what 🌴🍀❤😘 cheer up Liah💃
Off topic Liah, but I can listen to you talking all day. Something about your voice is very special.