I assumed that this was for ALL women. Regardless of creed, which nationality hasn't been through some of what Tony is addressing? Blessings and protection to all of us ladies who are experiencing some of what Tony is telling us. Blessings to Tony and his family 🙏🏾
I just miss "regular"... classic... simple conservative looks. People are so busy putting on personas with too much adornment today. It's why no one really knows who they actually are... too much jewelry, makeup, brands... just lost in "a look." I miss jeans and t-shirts, a simple pony tail and diamond studs... but I did grow up in the 90s 🤷🏽♀️
Humor, comedy, truth, and wisdom all in one! This message felt like it was definitely sent from God above but delivered to us in your own unique way. Thank you Tony for using your abilities and talents as a force for good in the world to help empower us women. Because you are in a covenant marriage relationship with your wife, I believe it has blessed you to see and speak the truth of what you are saying as well. I hope that God may continue to bless you and yours abundantly, as you share the truth out here for others! ☺️🙏🏽❤️
The other day I was shopping and I guess frowning as I concentrated on finding my size. A man did a “smile!” drive by. I barely looked at him as I was thinking, “what!?!” not realizing I was frowning but also hate when men ask women to smile, you smile! I later saw him again, and gave this big goofy sarcastic smile like, ‘See’! He said, “Ahh! See you smiled so hard you scared me!” Saw him again at check out. I gave a more natural smile then. But since the line was long by the time we got to the register, my smile dropped and I said, “I can’t hold it [smile] all day.” He said, I know you can’t. He later caught me in the parking lot and said, “hit me one more time”. Once again I gave him a big goofy smile. He smiled, laughed and says, “Have a good day”. Probably flirting, but definitely old enough to be my dad. Could just be southern black friendliness, but why women always told to smile? No one says that to men.
Angel Reese has a modeling contract. So her fashion game has to be on point. She had on a dress that covered everything, but her back was out, it was sexy, conservative. Caitlin had on a Jean or Corduroy skirt with the jacket to match with some heels, it was a simple outfit. Both of them have NIL deals totaling $2 million dollars. Not bad for some college young ladies.
Bravo!!! I enjoy sports. I'm so glad Mr. Gaskins gave this different view. This is what needed to be said. The marketing was making her seem more superior to other women players, collegiate and professional.
Lisa Leslie was feminine. There were a few in the league like her. I was also wondering why the girls b ball shirts look like volleyball shorts now. I thought that was weird.
Seeing Sheri embrace her unique style made me feel good about my style. I’m highly feminine but I don’t really wear heels like I used to when I was younger. I mostly wear cute leggings or dresses with fashionable tennis shoes or sneakers. It’s all about who you are and how you carry yourself.
Tony I’m an Orthodox Christian and we’ve been told that using makeup or having tattoos cosmetic surgery ect is a sin, as we were made in the image of god and shouldn’t change that.
Unfortunately Masculinity on us women comes out when we don’t feel safe, we are full on feminine/soft with the right man beside us that provides peace/calm etc.
That’s the excuse that’s used. Your God-given femininity should always be present. If you’re dealing with a man who leaves you feeling unprotected, the problem is your choice in men.
Right I agree! I love to see Angel get dolled up in the way that she likes to dress. She balls out too and i hate that she gets compared to Catliyn Clark. IMO the public prefers Caitlyn cuz she’s safe and white- not cuz she’s more or less feminine. Angel is actually more feminine to me. She can dress like a baddie sometimes but I don’t think she should be demonized for expressing herself.
@mwright0428 Yeah, Caitlyn Clark isn't cute. She's average looking. It's her race that has her hyped up. Granted Angel Reese's lashes is a bit much, she's still prettier.
I was just having this conversation with a colleague. I teach high school and I have many students who were gay in high school and then decided they were straight later. The issue is when they don’t fit what society shows them a man or woman should be, they automatically assume they are gay. I’ll admit to side eyeing my daughters when they started wearing Jordan’s and Nike sweats all the time. But I decided that was better than booty shorts and crop tops. They have their own style and will mix it up with a dress or crop top with baggy ripped jeans sometimes. I have realized they are truly feminine, mostly because they are comfortable and confident in themselves as women and in the words of my daughter “they are not dressing for or paying attention to anybody’s dusty son 😂.” At 17 and 19 they are still virgins, not obsessed with social media, not boy crazy, and love God. I have been truly blessed.
I so wish more women understood the power of femininity which is wholly unique and separate to masculinity. One isn't better than the other and you don't have to be masculine to be strong and powerful. I think women are the keepers of the hearth and the emotional heartbeat of the home. If she's not good, no one in the house is but when she's great everyone's mood is lifted. It's a truly powerful position and should be respected.
Thanks Tony for this video A lot of people think femininity = aesthestics. This couldn't be farther from the truth. They also dont know there's a difference between looking feminine and being feminine. The latter being more of an energy and is often felt by the people in your presence as safe, confident and authentic!
Tony, if you don’t mind, can you share some wisdom regarding married men leaving their marriages (actually moving out of the home) stating, “they no longer want to be a husbands” but not proceeding with a divorce. I know there could be many reasons- finances is probably a big one but I would think that when a person is done and wants out there is nothing that can stop them. However, I’m a woman and how men function is different but curious about your perspective.
i get what Tony is saying but alot of it is because she's white. A regular average looking black woman like Caitlin Clarke, who can ball wouldn't get as much shone. It is what it is.
They didn't grow up with father's most likely.this was my issue at 17I was desperate all thru high school.I never had a boy friend in high school.I made it thru college .I still didn't have a real boy friend because I didn't have a father.I am in therapy now and it looks like I'll be there for life.I am still alive and grateful.
Caitlin Clark looks like Jeff Van Gundy period, she is just excepted because she's yt; Angel Reese loves makeup, and she always has, enjoy your young fun life angel and all of the young ladies that like makeup, nails etc; Angel is a champion, Caitlin is not so why is she the face of anything? You all are putting all of your eggs in 1 basket and what if Caitlin gets injured or is a WNBA bust, now what? Celebrate all of the big names coming in, the WNBA needs a big name of every team to carry it because they need a huge boost to get that league going
Tony’s white accent 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂. A few weeks back, you made a video about how to dress for a man to approach you. Can you please make a part 2 to it? Thank you 🙏🏼
Great topic of discussion but i disagree with the Angel and Caitlyn comparison. Angel has a modeling contract and is a glamor girl- like a lot of black female athletes that came before her ie. Flo Jo, Shakari etc. and just because Caitlyn doesn’t seem to care much about that stuff, I don’t think that makes her more or less feminine. Black girls don’t have to sacrifice their girly nature for athletics and i appreciate seeing it. Caitlyn and Angel don’t need to be compared as much as they do cuz the fact that both of them are winning is amazing all by itself.
I'm glad you touched on this, Tony!! The WNBA is definitely hanging it's hat on Caitlyn (sp??) as the media darling. She represents the classic White Middle American aesthetic. And it should be presented that in the WNBA you can be a top athlete on the court, handle business, and then be feminine and display feminine heterosexuality off court, regardless of race. Unfortunately, I think the prominence of certain facets of hip-hop culture and fatherless homes, has been our (African American) undoing, to the point that we are almost painted as a monolith. City Girls, Sexy Redd, and their ilk (and image) aren't it.
Thanks! It’s more than what meets the eye. It’s feminine WILE, not feminine presentation. And not wile in the devious sense, but in the swag sense. You know what I’m saying? It’s in you, not on you.
Tony you are so right about your son will find his wife at the university. There will be all kinds of high-class, smart, educated, classy young women he will have to chose from. Plus I am sure he's just as handsome as you are, so he will be a Lady Killer.
😂 I still rock my Timberland and Air Force One's with my Fenty Onesies. Just hard to wear lashes my eye length small for my nails keep them real just manicures.
Thank You Tony for addressing this topic. I agree with everything you pinpointed about a woman's feminity and being comfortable in their own skin. I love the way you advise your soon to be 16 year old son about dating and someday choosing a wife. You are a true man of God being obedient to what The Most High Father God El Elyon hand picked you to do. I admire your determination to stay in the righteousness of God and run the race and complete your assignment and Glorifying The Lord in all that you are doing. Abba Father Cover you and your family Continuously With His Abundant Presence Love Mercy Grace, Blessings and Favor, Guiding You and Counseling you Amen. Thanks again. Love you my Brother In Christ Jesus.❤️😊
S/o to Tony G wife cause what you know about classic volume 😂😂 but seriously I slacked up on a lot of beauty enhancements I used to get. Sometimes women just grow out of certain things as they get older or perspective on things change.
My son will be 17 in October he protects his lil sister with his life but he has no interest in dating for the same reason as your son. He says dating is distraction and he wants to focus on building his wealth and being successful and I could not have raised a better son for that.
Tony you are on point with this video! My daughter refused to play basketball in high school because of the lesbian culture. She said everyone who started out straight became gay and she wasn’t about that. I have nothing against how people choose to love. It’s just refreshing to see women play at the highest level and still be heterosexual.
This is a Real channel so Raw with truth but you can't stand the Heat as they say then get out the kitchen. You don't need to be on this channel. It's straight 💯❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love that Tony knows the different lengths of lashes that man said “classic volume” I’m screaming 😂😂❤️
And don’t get him started on cheap foundation . 😂😂😂😂
That part took me out too. I was like wtf 🤣😂🔥
Exactly!😂 Chile! I don't even know the dogone clarifications😂🤦🏿♀️
Yassss!!! I said come through Tony with the shot out to us classic volume girls! I do a lil hybrid from time to time when I'm feeling spicy though 😅
Right! I was like I don’t even know that! Lol
First! I'm not a black woman, but I love your videos. I love to learn about everyone's perspective so I can protect my heart and teach my daughter!
I assumed that this was for ALL women. Regardless of creed, which nationality hasn't been through some of what Tony is addressing? Blessings and protection to all of us ladies who are experiencing some of what Tony is telling us. Blessings to Tony and his family 🙏🏾
🙏🏻🙏🏻👍🏻
Ditto!
God bless you
I just miss "regular"... classic... simple conservative looks. People are so busy putting on personas with too much adornment today. It's why no one really knows who they actually are... too much jewelry, makeup, brands... just lost in "a look." I miss jeans and t-shirts, a simple pony tail and diamond studs... but I did grow up in the 90s 🤷🏽♀️
Humor, comedy, truth, and wisdom all in one! This message felt like it was definitely sent from God above but delivered to us in your own unique way.
Thank you Tony for using your abilities and talents as a force for good in the world to help empower us women. Because you are in a covenant marriage relationship with your wife, I believe it has blessed you to see and speak the truth of what you are saying as well. I hope that God may continue to bless you and yours abundantly, as you share the truth out here for others! ☺️🙏🏽❤️
The other day I was shopping and I guess frowning as I concentrated on finding my size. A man did a “smile!” drive by. I barely looked at him as I was thinking, “what!?!” not realizing I was frowning but also hate when men ask women to smile, you smile! I later saw him again, and gave this big goofy sarcastic smile like, ‘See’! He said, “Ahh! See you smiled so hard you scared me!” Saw him again at check out. I gave a more natural smile then. But since the line was long by the time we got to the register, my smile dropped and I said, “I can’t hold it [smile] all day.” He said, I know you can’t. He later caught me in the parking lot and said, “hit me one more time”. Once again I gave him a big goofy smile. He smiled, laughed and says, “Have a good day”. Probably flirting, but definitely old enough to be my dad. Could just be southern black friendliness, but why women always told to smile? No one says that to men.
YOUR TRANSPARENCY IS SO GOOD AND EDUCATIONAL 🙏🙏❤️
I am weak laughing nails like Edward Scissorhands🤣 layers of makeup like a birthday cake😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Angel Reese has a modeling contract. So her fashion game has to be on point. She had on a dress that covered everything, but her back was out, it was sexy, conservative. Caitlin had on a Jean or Corduroy skirt with the jacket to match with some heels, it was a simple outfit. Both of them have NIL deals totaling $2 million dollars. Not bad for some college young ladies.
This is a breath of fresh air to hear this coming from a man regarding feminism and “aesthetics”.
The male has become the female, and the female has become male.
Bravo!!! I enjoy sports. I'm so glad Mr. Gaskins gave this different view. This is what needed to be said. The marketing was making her seem more superior to other women players, collegiate and professional.
Wonderful message and I needed this reminder. Femininity is what I define it as for me.
AMEN 🙌🏿 👏🏾 🙏🏿😇💜
Caribbean and America (African, Indigenous, and African) raised influences. I agree to this message. 😇
Much needed video like always. 👏🏾 not the lashes 😂
Tony is right about the optics. Black women need to understand how we r represented and corrective promotion. It matters more than we realize.
Lolol hit by lashes
I have heard the term Bull Dyker before. Women in my family accused me of being a Bull Dyker.
It’s the knowing about concealer for me lol I swear I’m a single mom with a young boy I hope he soaks in your voice and teaching ❤
Lisa Leslie was feminine. There were a few in the league like her. I was also wondering why the girls b ball shirts look like volleyball shorts now. I thought that was weird.
Seeing Sheri embrace her unique style made me feel good about my style. I’m highly feminine but I don’t really wear heels like I used to when I was younger. I mostly wear cute leggings or dresses with fashionable tennis shoes or sneakers. It’s all about who you are and how you carry yourself.
Thank you a LOT
I enjoy these videos.. thank you Tony :)
Very good video.
Tony I’m an Orthodox Christian and we’ve been told that using makeup or having tattoos cosmetic surgery ect is a sin, as we were made in the image of god and shouldn’t change that.
It’s not a sin wearing make up or getting a tattoo.
@@mamagoatandfamilybiblically the tattoo is a no.
Bulldagger is old skool derogatory term in my days especially if you a woman over 40 called women who look like a dude and into other females.
My mom and I were literally having the same conversation about wnba culture
Make-up like layers of cake 🎂 😅 Lawd!
God is speaking to you 😊
My real surname is Freeman
Thank you Tony it’s true too much dang gone make up so gross
Come on the front I’m sitting down
Caitlin has a boyfriend
😂
Unfortunately Masculinity on us women comes out when we don’t feel safe, we are full on feminine/soft with the right man beside us that provides peace/calm etc.
That’s the excuse that’s used. Your God-given femininity should always be present. If you’re dealing with a man who leaves you feeling unprotected, the problem is your choice in men.
💯💯😮💨
yup!
I'm getting to know a (short) man. He definitely has big man energy & I turn into kitten.
That part!
Having a unproblematic attitude and a light hearted approach is always going to win!
Yes ma'am. ❤
❤
@@iyanayona5348that’s exactly what it is ❤️
I like what Tony said a while back. I was a born a female and I am a woman. Therefore I am feminine. Take it or leave it.
I love to see Angel Reese in her PRADA and GUCCI etc. (she has a modeling contract with Vogue magazine).
She is beautiful and I think even more so in her natural state too ❤
Me too! I think she is doing well and love that she’s that way!
Right I agree! I love to see Angel get dolled up in the way that she likes to dress. She balls out too and i hate that she gets compared to Catliyn Clark. IMO the public prefers Caitlyn cuz she’s safe and white- not cuz she’s more or less feminine. Angel is actually more feminine to me. She can dress like a baddie sometimes but I don’t think she should be demonized for expressing herself.
@mwright0428 Yeah, Caitlyn Clark isn't cute. She's average looking. It's her race that has her hyped up. Granted Angel Reese's lashes is a bit much, she's still prettier.
I love it too!!! And I love that for her!! ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🎉
I was just having this conversation with a colleague. I teach high school and I have many students who were gay in high school and then decided they were straight later. The issue is when they don’t fit what society shows them a man or woman should be, they automatically assume they are gay. I’ll admit to side eyeing my daughters when they started wearing Jordan’s and Nike sweats all the time. But I decided that was better than booty shorts and crop tops. They have their own style and will mix it up with a dress or crop top with baggy ripped jeans sometimes. I have realized they are truly feminine, mostly because they are comfortable and confident in themselves as women and in the words of my daughter “they are not dressing for or paying attention to anybody’s dusty son 😂.” At 17 and 19 they are still virgins, not obsessed with social media, not boy crazy, and love God. I have been truly blessed.
I get alot of attention in sweats and a hoody. But also femininity is a mindset.
I so wish more women understood the power of femininity which is wholly unique and separate to masculinity. One isn't better than the other and you don't have to be masculine to be strong and powerful. I think women are the keepers of the hearth and the emotional heartbeat of the home. If she's not good, no one in the house is but when she's great everyone's mood is lifted. It's a truly powerful position and should be respected.
Thanks Tony for this video
A lot of people think femininity = aesthestics. This couldn't be farther from the truth.
They also dont know there's a difference between looking feminine and being feminine. The latter being more of an energy and is often felt by the people in your presence as safe, confident and authentic!
You know more about lashes than me 😭😭😭
Tony, if you don’t mind, can you share some wisdom regarding married men leaving their marriages (actually moving out of the home) stating, “they no longer want to be a husbands” but not proceeding with a divorce. I know there could be many reasons- finances is probably a big one but I would think that when a person is done and wants out there is nothing that can stop them. However, I’m a woman and how men function is different but curious about your perspective.
The Africa and slavery voiceover part made me chuckle.😄
i get what Tony is saying but alot of it is because she's white. A regular average looking black woman like Caitlin Clarke, who can ball wouldn't get as much shone. It is what it is.
He said “if he don’t turn your stomach and she don’t turn your stomach then you’ve got something’ there”
…lol
They didn't grow up with father's most likely.this was my issue at 17I was desperate all thru high school.I never had a boy friend in high school.I made it thru college .I still didn't have a real boy friend because I didn't have a father.I am in therapy now and it looks like I'll be there for life.I am still alive and grateful.
Caitlin Clark looks like Jeff Van Gundy period, she is just excepted because she's yt; Angel Reese loves makeup, and she always has, enjoy your young fun life angel and all of the young ladies that like makeup, nails etc; Angel is a champion, Caitlin is not so why is she the face of anything? You all are putting all of your eggs in 1 basket and what if Caitlin gets injured or is a WNBA bust, now what? Celebrate all of the big names coming in, the WNBA needs a big name of every team to carry it because they need a huge boost to get that league going
Just looked caitlin clark and was refreshed by what I saw. No matter the race, I love the natural feminine woman.
Tony’s white accent 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂.
A few weeks back, you made a video about how to dress for a man to approach you. Can you please make a part 2 to it?
Thank you 🙏🏼
Hit like and let's watch
Ok! Come through Tony knowing about beauty, beauty products and accessories! ❤
Most of the time you get it right Tony but I believe you missed it on this one.
Not a political thing. Most people subscribe to tradition definitions. And of course, if one believes the Word of God.
Tony be getting off track, taking long rabit trails, I be forgetting what we was talking about 🤣
Great topic of discussion but i disagree with the Angel and Caitlyn comparison. Angel has a modeling contract and is a glamor girl- like a lot of black female athletes that came before her ie. Flo Jo, Shakari etc. and just because Caitlyn doesn’t seem to care much about that stuff, I don’t think that makes her more or less feminine. Black girls don’t have to sacrifice their girly nature for athletics and i appreciate seeing it. Caitlyn and Angel don’t need to be compared as much as they do cuz the fact that both of them are winning is amazing all by itself.
I'm glad you touched on this, Tony!! The WNBA is definitely hanging it's hat on Caitlyn (sp??) as the media darling. She represents the classic White Middle American aesthetic. And it should be presented that in the WNBA you can be a top athlete on the court, handle business, and then be feminine and display feminine heterosexuality off court, regardless of race. Unfortunately, I think the prominence of certain facets of hip-hop culture and fatherless homes, has been our (African American) undoing, to the point that we are almost painted as a monolith. City Girls, Sexy Redd, and their ilk (and image) aren't it.
Thanks! It’s more than what meets the eye. It’s feminine WILE, not feminine presentation. And not wile in the devious sense, but in the swag sense. You know what I’m saying?
It’s in you, not on you.
Lashes😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree with you and thanks for the breakdown. Yin and yang in balance is always beautiful.
Tony you are so right about your son will find his wife at the university. There will be all kinds of high-class, smart, educated, classy young women he will have to chose from. Plus I am sure he's just as handsome as you are, so he will be a Lady Killer.
This video is Right on Time!!!! Thank you Mr. Gaskins your so funny yet your words are nothing but the PURE TRUTH🤣
😊I think it's 🐰Babes bunny❤️
This man said, Jawanaman😂😂Not white chicks😩😂😂😂
You are 100 on point again. ❤🙏🏼
This is a really cool topic
Awesome!
Edward Scissor hands! 🤣
I love how Tony’s wife, Sherri dresses…Really Classy. I get ideas from her and I’m old enough to be her Mama. 🙌🏻🙏🏻☘️
Spot on Tony!!!
Just described me 🙌🏽
Hi Tony can you talk more on Core principles and Values when connecting with a man/woman
This was a great perspective!
Tony too funny man
My mama say bulldagger too lol
Caitlin Clark did that thing on draft night in her pretty white business skirt suit.
“That may be a slur”😂😂😂😂 stop it
💯💯💯
I'm looking for my pair of 🔥Timbs🤔 MAAANNNN, The original one 🤔😁💯😊😘⚔️🦅♟️, what up tho , Fam 🤔 😂 Talk to us Cuzzin 🥰1❤💯
😂 I still rock my Timberland and Air Force One's with my Fenty Onesies. Just hard to wear lashes my eye length small for my nails keep them real just manicures.
Keep teaching TG ❤
Another great video from Mr Tony Gaskins
Don’t forget about Angel Reese, she’s good too.
"That's Not The Case" 😂💯
Now Tony idk about this one.
Thank you, Tony. Love you.❤
Babs 🍑
🙏🙏❤
😂😂😂
Thank you 😊.
😂❤
My teenage daughter was raised right. Christian private school and good grades. And beautiful
Thank You Tony for addressing this topic. I agree with everything you pinpointed about a woman's feminity and being comfortable in their own skin. I love the way you advise your soon to be 16 year old son about dating and someday choosing a wife. You are a true man of God being obedient to what The Most High Father God El Elyon hand picked you to do. I admire your determination to stay in the righteousness of God and run the race and complete your assignment and Glorifying The Lord in all that you are doing. Abba Father Cover you and your family Continuously With His Abundant Presence Love Mercy Grace, Blessings and Favor, Guiding You and Counseling you Amen. Thanks again. Love you my Brother In Christ Jesus.❤️😊
S/o to Tony G wife cause what you know about classic volume 😂😂 but seriously I slacked up on a lot of beauty enhancements I used to get. Sometimes women just grow out of certain things as they get older or perspective on things change.
My son will be 17 in October he protects his lil sister with his life but he has no interest in dating for the same reason as your son. He says dating is distraction and he wants to focus on building his wealth and being successful and I could not have raised a better son for that.
Tony you are on point with this video! My daughter refused to play basketball in high school because of the lesbian culture. She said everyone who started out straight became gay and she wasn’t about that. I have nothing against how people choose to love. It’s just refreshing to see women play at the highest level and still be heterosexual.
My 75 year old Southern black father still refers to lesbian women as bull daggers. I have never heard anyone else ever mention that term before 😂
This is a Real channel so Raw with truth but you can't stand the Heat as they say then get out the kitchen. You don't need to be on this channel. It's straight 💯❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
Omg! I’ve been waiting to hear this from your perspective.Thank you so much unc’ Tony.
Tony reminds me of my brother! The lash impression!!! 😂😂😂 took me out!
Cause 80% are masculine it’s encouraged