I had a “friend” just like her. The difference is when things started to go bad in my life God revealed who was behind it after I fasted and went into isolation and intense prayer. Everything she wished on me is currently happening to her because although we were close she was not aware of my strong connection to God. Another friend even told me that the spiritualist told her that she cannot accept her money to do work on me as I am protected from certain things.
I noticed this in one of my friend, envy ,jealousy, hatred, by God grace I started to see this physically..I run for my life, distance myself from her..we need to pray in this world 🙏🙏🙏
I hope and pray her friend comes across this video somehow.. and recognizes her voice and prays against such a person.. This is too much... Pray and pray hard
For your friend to know what she did to you was wrong and which you got angry and ruined her life go tell her the truth from your mouth and forgive yourself for you have to much bitterness in your heart. You friend is innocent and God Alway revenge for the innocent your destiny and hers are different and God is the giver of destiny's not human and for you getting pregnant was not her fault for God has a good plan for you just forgive yourself and repent so God can fulfill his purpose in your life.
Tell that girl that she's not God, and she can't decide for her friend, May God locate her friend and relief her from this evil friend and bondage, 🙏🙏Dear God please come to our aid.
This story is an eye opener.... Sometimes the people that you tell your problems are the cause of the problem... She should have talk to her friend to let her know her feelings, instead of going to the extent of destroying her friend's life.. What a Deep World!!...
Hello everyone I can't believe this story my mind is Blown!!!!!🤯😱 So this really happened 🤔 that's really Evil!!!!! Poor woman I hope she's ok 🙏😇 CALIFORNIA ♥️😎
The thing is she herself doesn't know she's a witch. Most witches don't know they are one but you can tell by how envious they are in everything especially about their friends.
@@Boom_Wealthy your own sister can be your enemy am having one and because of her am careful with my mother 👩 👩🍼 whatever you tell her she will tell my sister and she will go out taking about you she made fun of me when I was not having children
Anold this woman is evil her friend's parents suffered for her education and achieved all then you Wake up from the dream say n do all that nonsense, very stupid and idiot foolish woman am hurting listening to this stupid dirty from her mouth
She should have used all that time and energy to elevate herself. If you had the power to destroy your friend why not use that power to uplift yourself. Scary!!! She is down right evil.
The root of her problem is very deep. She started not remoseful. She said she never regretted her action. That since the friend has not apologized for the sin she knew nothing of. She might not even know she offended her. Her excuses were born of envy and jealousy.
She doesn't even know she's a witch. That's why most of them challenge when they're caught. This type of women kill their husband's over nothing and don't even think about the kids.
My family destroyed my life because of jealousy also. I went from a talented and intelligent 19 year old going to university, to a jobless, sick, lonely, humiliated, despised... man throughout my adult years. I was brought up with my dad. After my father passed the people around me destroyed my life. I am 45 and am still recovering. But, God rescued me and restored my life in a spectacular way. I don't trust people today because my family betrayed me and destroyed my life; they are paying for it now. All I hear is bad news from them. While God renewed my body and I am ready now to start my life again.
My story is similar to yours and we're also similar in age...God is always faithful and never sleeps. He fights the battle for the lowly ones. All those who attack us, get their pay in the end. I also see my family members suffering after all the evil they did to me. They're all walking in shame and humiliation. It's embarrassing!
This story broke my heart, it really did. I just don't get how someone can be so jealous of their friend to this extent, honestly I don't. May God save us from these kinds of friends
My question to her is, if you can let her come down to your level through your spiritualist why didn't you use that same energy to go up to her level through the same spiritualist? To African spiritualists, can we do something good rather than always destroying and damaging things? Oh mother Africa WHEN? I REST MY CASE, MAY THE GOOD LORD BE WITH US...
She is a typical narcissist. Narcissists never see their fault, they can only see other people's faults. She is a serious case of narcissistic disorder.
She was never her friend. She was just looking for excuses and reason to do it. She had it in her mind and thoughts long long time. She is even happy you can tell. But Karma like hers coming serves cold!!!!
This girl is evil, jealous and bitter. I have learned from this story not to trust any friend. I don't have a friend , all those coming closer to me are acquaintances and their mission is to gain something from me. She does not see anything wrong with what she has done to her friend. Her friend, is barren, single, insane, jobless, and poor because of her but she is still jealous of her. May God protect us from unfriendly friends and friendly enemies.
This is really a terrible thing to do to anybody ...we can't pin our downfalls/misfortunes on others...how this woman destroyed her friend's life is unforgivable. ...just give the lady back her life please...that's the right thing to do!!
This interview reminds me of the verse in the bible that says 'the human heart is desperately wicked'. Mark the word DESPERATELY. She should take responsibility of her life.
She deceived her childhood friend and she got pregnant at that early age, instead of her to stand by her ,she turned her back on her. And made mockery of her ,my dear call her up and tell her what she did to you that you were hurt after which forgive her and undo whatever you did and sent her free.pleaseeeee
This is why I don’t like keeping friends in my life anymore. I don’t trust anybody when it comes to me. I had a fall out with somebody this year. It was an eye opening. Learn to love your own space
I had a friend, who was jealous of my relationship, none of her relationship last. She once asked me what charms am I using? I heard her over talk about me to her friends in a nasty way. This is why I run away.. before is too late, such friends are crazy
Bless you. That's new me. I don't trust or believe in the word ' best friend'. Right now my best friend is JESUS. I don't have room for nonsense in my life.
I need a 2nd part!!! He needs to find that friend of hers and expose all the damage she has done..be careful of those you surround yourself with. She is evil to the core!!!!!!
They definitely made several covenants which will need to be severed. It’s unlikely that we will get married on the same day as our best friends, or even get hired by the same company. We need to draw boundaries in friendships.
I lost my good girlfriend too . Knew her since I was 16. She got married and then stopped talking to me. Sad , but life . I know God removed people from my life for a reason.
WHEN THE MEN IN RELATIONSHIPS ADVICE THEIR WIVES TO STAY AWAY FROM FRIENDS SHOULDNT BE SEEN AS A NEGATIVE THING,WHO KNOWS HE MIGHT BE SAVING THE MARRIAGE
It is not all friends you stay away from. Some friends, you keep. And as you are advising your friends to stay away from friends, you should heed to your own advice.
@@bee67371 my dear I think if the person is abusive physically is better at least you will have a plan to evacuate the marriage but if it is spiritually like this girl here eh God help you I hope it is even reversible
Listening from start to finish. This conversation gives deep insights that you cannot get from the University even if you spent a decade with international Professors in whatever discipline. Key lesson. Be careful when choosing who to be a friend. Be careful with what you promise and who you promise. A shattered heart can resort to anything. On my knees I plead that this lady must confront her friend and offload to her what she has told the whole world. From there on let her help her friend out of this situation.
There's envy and then there's jealousy. This lady was never a friend, the situation she found herself in, revealed her true self. We all have childhood friends who made it big and we are no longer friends, but wholeheartedly we wish them well. This is the highest level of jealousy.
This lady needs to know and understand that the decisions they made in their teenage years were only coming from immature people and they were all young. And I'm surprised that this lady still holds a grudge and still blaming the friend for what happened when they were only teenagers
But it's a shame she never took advantage of her own life failings to do better so she took it on her friend. She's the devil herself n u can hear how proud she is for what she has done.
Even if they made the decision as full grown adult, it still doesn’t make sense. No body owes anyone friendship, people outgrow each other and it’s part of nature to outgrow people or have fallouts, it’s basically part of life. This is the reason why no matter how good or bad a friend is, I’m simply not interested in being friends with people, life is too sweet for me to use my own hands to invite problem into my life.
This issue wants to look complicated, but it is not. I will give an example : If a woman from a very poor background marries a wealthy man, she sincerely loved him, and he was her provider!!! Suddenly he changes, divorces her, in anticipation that whenever he encounters her, he will see her dispicable, poor, handicapped, should she accept that as her faith? It is expected that she picks herself up and be better, proving to him, He is not her creator!!! He does not hold her destiny!!! This sister did all this because of a simple promise with her friend, in essence she saw that her friend as her god!!!! The spiritual consequences of this is, with her own 👐 hands, she ruined her own destiny!!! Even if she lured you into wrong hands, and you have a daughter from it, it should never have stopped you!!!! My sister if only you could look into your own hands..... You destroyed God's plan for you, by not raising up, facing the challenges, and trusting inside of you, that you would make it no matter the challenges !!! In your passionate revenge persuit, you also destroyed your own life!!! People are single mothers, and still got a degree, people were raped, had a child from it, took the humiliation, picked themselves up and today they are celebrated, they are celebrities!!! Sister, for as long as you destroy your friend ..... You already know it, your own is not ending well. That is the law of nature, you did not think deeply about the implications of your actions!!! This can make you lose your only daughter if you are not careful!!! The most important aspect is not to confess to her, but for you to end the bitterness in your heart, then go for serious deliverance and ask your creator to forgive you, for trusting on a mere imperfect human being as your god!!! There is nothing other creatures or demons do for free!!! I hope you get a true spiritual filled man of God, who will help you first to seek the face of God almighty, and help you repent truly and set you towards your destiny......... Then he will advice you on how to approach this issue with your friend!!! I pray there are still true spiritual filled men from God in Ghana. May God have Mercy.
You brought pain to yourself, woman. I pray her ex-husband sees this and come reconcile with his wife and let God take care of this girl. What a wicked world.
THIS IS EXTREME. ARNOLD YOUR PROGRAMS ARE VERY EDUCATIVE. THIS WORLD IS A COMPLICATED PLACE. THIS LADY IS NOT ONLY JEALOUS BUT WICKED. FEELING TOO ENTITLED. THE TRUTH IS HER FRIEND MIGHT NOT HAVE EVEN KNOWN THAT HER ACTIONS WERE RUNNING HER FRIEND CRAZY. THERE ARE MANY OF SUCH IN OUR SOCIETY. PEOPLE JUST BE VIGILANT AND ABOVE ALL LET JESUS BE THE CENTRE OF EVERYTHING WE DO. THIS IS SO BAD AND COMPLICATED. THE HEART OF MAN
What was the promise? This girl has bad heart this are the kind of friends we should run away from. She will never prosper and things will never be good for her even if she confess to her friend. I believe her friend never did anything to her she is just making excuses because of her selfishness and evil deed and I am also believe that God already fighting for her friend in the spirit realm that is why she is making this confession. Even the boyfriend that made her a baby mama I am strongly believe she is the one who carelessly slept with that particular man. All this is because of jealousy. She has all this power why can’t she find herself a rich man to marry, get a better job than the one her friend had and making herself better than her friend instead of her doing witchcraft evil evil things to her friend.
This is shocking 😲I hope people are learning something from this story, I have been let down by friends but this will make stay away from any friend in future, especially because I also see good in people not knowing the book behind the cover 🤦
Once upon a time I climbed up and when I climbed up I carried my friends who were down along and some of them did me in and I encountered hell on earth. I was betrayed beyond words and I can categorically tell you that an evil person will always do evil even without reason. The best thing for her to do is to take responsibility for what had happened, including her pregnancy and repent.
Wat d lady did is unforgivable bt her friend shouldnt hv belittle her, atleat her friend should hv encourage, help n support her. Wat her friend did to her made her do all those tins to her. Her friend Started it. Wen u succeed in life Dan someone never belittle anybody or brag ur success in their face or even disrespect them fr nt being successful in life
This is pure WICKEDNESS. Lady you don't know tomorrow. God can turn things around for her and you will go down the hill. Jealousy and bitterness will destroy your own life
Even if she did not do that to you, you will still do the same to her, and if really you loved her you can never distroy her life seriously........ The heart of man😰
We need to know more in depth information about this young lady's childhood. What was her childhood and home life like? What is making her believe that a promise to each other in a childhood friendship should be upheld throughout her entire life?
Don’t always forget that true friendship is like a secret court.Promises made to each other are spells.Some people take friendship too serious than family ties.I’d rather be alone that engage friends that will ruin my future.
Promise is Promise. No other definition. Even when one is dying. Promise is still promise. Between a husband and a wife, It is a Promise, NOT just simple promise PROMISE IS A VOW. DONT MAKE PROMISE, IF YOU WONT FULFILL THEM.
I just don’t get it either.They were young and people change.Even twins grow up and go on their separate ways.They don’t do things together the rest of their lives. This is crazy..
I feel that my sister did this I helped her raise her 4 children but she hated me undercover. One day when she was cussing me she said to me you are barren you wanted my children because you couldn't have your own she said it numerous times .... So sad she also covets my freinds and family.
It is shocking how entitled this woman feels. She bewitched her friend but she does not seem to have any sense of remorce. She is a typical narcissists. I wonder why she even bothered to tell her story because, one would expect this to be followed by remorce & regrets & apology.
God can deliver her friend and all those things you did to your friend will come to you a hundred fold. The friend is clueless of whatever offence you're talking about and is still trusting and treating you like a friend. The heart of man like the Bible said is desperately wicked.
Arnold got it right "what if its the bitterness in your heart that makes you not to prosper" it's her bitterness and entitlement on this promise thats keeping her where she is. Just forgive Adobia please
This girl is very wicked. She is a very jealous friend and this is evil. Listening to her she doesn't make sense. How do you expect her to control your life for you. Wickedness to its first degree
Exactly. She has the character of a witch from her early years where she's been obsessed with her friend yet jealous of her. I've dealt with this for a while n I finally walked away from friends. All friendships for me I'm done.
The fact that she's narrating it without remorse and her sense of entitlement to the lady's life is crazy. This is a spiritual attachment. This woman is the devil in disguise, not her friend. I hope they can both of break free of this bondage. Both of them are very selfish individuals.
This is my own view. Asabea was that genuine friend who had NO ILL FEELINGS or BAD INTENTIONS in their friendship. She innocently did what her friend, Adobea suggested. -Her friend, Adobea got herself a boyfriend at a time when Asabea hadn't considered having one. NOTE: [Adobea did not get a boyfriend because Asabea suggested, she felt ready to mingle] -Asabea suddenly felt she should get a boyfriend too and as a BEST FRIEND, Adobea was ready with a potential boyfriend for her best friend, based on the covenants they entered together. Asabea innocently bought the idea because that's what her BEST FRIEND is doing. [I beg to be corrected here but having a boyfriend was not Asabea's own volition] I feel like saying that Asabea didn't have control over her own feelings or the capacity to make her own decisions. She was following her WITTY TWIN rather blindly. - The next step is rather sad for me. Adobea wants to know if Asabea has ever HAD SEX!! Asabea went on to try out the "fun" she was missing. That was her greatest undoing. The result was out-of-wedlock pregnancy and the consequences of having to leave school. - During that pregnancy, her BEST FRIEND was practically avoiding her completely!! Not wanting to have anything to do with her.......A twin sister, best friend from childhood into senior high?? THAT WAS THE GENESIS OF ASABEA'S BITTERNESS!! That was the driving force behind all the decisions and actions she took to bring her BEST FRIEND down. - No, she's not bad.....she felt betrayed by someone she has trusted her entire life. She only needs to be talked out of bitterness and anger pangs that are emotionally controlling her. A counselor needs to tell her that VENGEANCE wont help her in any way. She needs to retrace her steps and check-out her own actions, at what stage she acted foolishly. Let her replay all Adobea's voices of "advice" and ask herself whether she was her own girl with a backbone like Adobea. Let her ask herself if she allowed her BEST FRIEND to drag her around too much. Sharing a birthday, going to the same class/school your entire life, DOES NOT MAKE YOU ONE! You are NOT the same personalities....NEVER! You may be Choleric while she is Sanguine OR she may be Melancholic and you are Phlegmatic Guys, I'm sorry for the long reading.
Wow some people are evil, I had a friend like this in senior secondary school, my mom notice are and told me to cut her off completely, thank God I did
Her jealously was too extremely that’s not friendship that’s so much hatred and bitterness she should have leave everything in God hand may God deliver that lady
He eventually told her in her face that he thinks she is a bad person,..but why his facial expression is like that is because of the audacity of the lady to say what "she did is a right thing and her friend deserves it!!..even me I was shocked over here when she said that..but I know her type,she is a witch, forget all she said,she was there just to destroy the friend.
She lied about her friend, and it could also be that her friend was a very nice person to her and that is the reason why she is disturbed by what she did to her friend
I have a childhood friend, we promised each other many good things and I also told her that if I travel, I will try for you to come but I tried so many times over 10 times and is not working at all, so is not my fault. Our destiny’s are not the same. You kept silenced because your mind was never cleared to her. Never keep anything in mind for your friend maybe she didn’t take it that way. I feel bad for the girl who call you her friend. I’m a Libertarian live in the USA
Very true, the traitor is always right under your nose, they work hard to gain your trust, if you don't know how to be a snake handler don't mess with snakes for they are legions of them even in our very own family
I understand this lady very well, her feelings Her words.she’s really hurt that’s y she’s doing what she did. She shud just let go of everything and move on 😢
Hurt for what? So u understanding meaning u are the same? Because this is witchcraft behavior. She's not CHRIST. If her friend starts to pray, this witch will confess n die. I'm not sure she's using the real names of her n her friend or this guy will find a way to let the friend know.
This story has to teach us not to trust any one even siblings. This is pure wickedness in day brought light. One of my classmate is exactly like her holding old grudges with one of our classmate until the extended that she brought their old grudges over 18 years into our class reunion. We all sees her as a witch.
I used to love and trust everyone around me until I started to see not everyone’s heart is like mine so I started keeping shit to myself and that was a world changing for me . I got married to my childhood friend
This is a witch. Even if the friend had found her a husband. If anything went wrong in their marriage as all marriages do, she would still take it out on her friend. May the merciful God deliver the friend & save her from this witch. This woman is insane🙉
I can’t comprehend with this level of wickedness. Please people once you realize someone is jealous of you or if they blatantly say so, run. They mean it.
This is heartbreaking. Only God can bring to pass all our plans and promises. You and your friend promised yourselves from a naive and child fantasies without knowing what the future holds for you both. Please pray for God's mercy and healing. Also set your friend free whether she apologize or not. If you are destined to be great, you will surely be my dear whether you had a child as a teenager or not.
She is terrible. She’s a wicked person. She’s not sorrowful at all. She destroyed her friend that she said that she loved. Jealousy, Envy and hatred is a terrible thing. I don’t give any woman access to my home or my husband. She’s a Devil. Promise? She’s a Judas. Why is she blaming her friend for her mistake. Karma will catch up with her and the wrath of God will find her. I pray that the friend gets deliverance
What you did is bad God has plans for every one. So what you did is not good because she is not your sister only friend and you try to destroy her God will punish you papapa
So she can use her spiritualist to destroy her friend but not to upgrade herself,,, shuuuuuuuu the level of wickedness is beyond
Hatred and jealousy blinds people unfortunately.
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Same thing I said
She would told the spiritualist to wealthy like her friend
FACTS….
I had a “friend” just like her. The difference is when things started to go bad in my life God revealed who was behind it after I fasted and went into isolation and intense prayer. Everything she wished on me is currently happening to her because although we were close she was not aware of my strong connection to God. Another friend even told me that the spiritualist told her that she cannot accept her money to do work on me as I am protected from certain things.
How long did you do the prayer and fasting?
Confirmation that I need to continue to fast and pray
Same here 😂, everything she was doing to me came to me in a dream
@@faideskababa6688 7 day water fast
Exactly!! I'm getting better in fasting these days
I noticed this in one of my friend, envy ,jealousy, hatred, by God grace I started to see this physically..I run for my life, distance myself from her..we need to pray in this world 🙏🙏🙏
Constant prayer miss. Those types love spiritual wickedness.
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May God have mercy on her one day God will deliver her friend .I hope she look into herself and see the wrong she did.
I noticed this too with one of my friends. I kept my distance. I don't want problems
I have gone through the same...but God's Grace and Mercy..I have overcome and become victorious and sti noticing more
I hope and pray her friend comes across this video somehow.. and recognizes her voice and prays against such a person.. This is too much... Pray and pray hard
For your friend to know what she did to you was wrong and which you got angry and ruined her life go tell her the truth from your mouth and forgive yourself for you have to much bitterness in your heart. You friend is innocent and God Alway revenge for the innocent your destiny and hers are different and God is the giver of destiny's not human and for you getting pregnant was not her fault for God has a good plan for you just forgive yourself and repent so God can fulfill his purpose in your life.
I hope so too 😢
Amen
Everyone’s destiny is not same and you can’t be successful if you are not happy with other people’s success
I agree ☝️
Exactly.when you celebrate people God almighty will make people celebrate you as well
We have some real evil people
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Man, you need to arrest that bitch over there! Sad 😡
Tell that girl that she's not God, and she can't decide for her friend, May God locate her friend and relief her from this evil friend and bondage, 🙏🙏Dear God please come to our aid.
This story is an eye opener....
Sometimes the people that you tell your problems are the cause of the problem...
She should have talk to her friend to let her know her feelings, instead of going to the extent of destroying her friend's life..
What a Deep World!!...
Hello everyone I can't believe this story my mind is Blown!!!!!🤯😱 So this really happened 🤔 that's really Evil!!!!! Poor woman I hope she's ok 🙏😇 CALIFORNIA ♥️😎
Exactly
Exactly. I'm so glad I've discernment. Once I sense a negative energy, I start to watch them n cut off accordingly.
@@diamonddiamond2024 and the energy never lie
What do you gain. Wicked woman
This girl has formed a deep soul tie with this girl.A man of God needs to break it and break the curse.
She is not supposed to leave this show without making things right. This is Witchcraft not friendship
Yes I agreed with you Bro.
The thing is she herself doesn't know she's a witch. Most witches don't know they are one but you can tell by how envious they are in everything especially about their friends.
Obsession
@@Boom_Wealthy your own sister can be your enemy am having one and because of her am careful with my mother 👩 👩🍼 whatever you tell her she will tell my sister and she will go out taking about you she made fun of me when I was not having children
@@marybuah3700 sorry my sister
Asabea is suffering from entitlement issues… she shouldve used the money she bewitched her friend to uplift herself 😭😭😭😭
🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 yesss
Anold this woman is evil her friend's parents suffered for her education and achieved all then you Wake up from the dream say n do all that nonsense, very stupid and idiot foolish woman am hurting listening to this stupid dirty from her mouth
A lot of Africans have this sense of entitlement
. Pray before helping them. Look what she did to her friend who gave her money.
100%
She should have used all that time and energy to elevate herself. If you had the power to destroy your friend why not use that power to uplift yourself.
Scary!!! She is down right evil.
Exactly my point
Some people mind are full of evil.
You could bring someone down but couldn't bring yourself up through the same means
Exactly...why didn't she seek powers to elevate herself to her friends level than bringing her down? Shows she's naturally negative and evil...
Exactly my point. How can someone be this wicked😢
Annold there's something deeper than what's she's saying. Get her arrested she's not fit to associate with normal human beings
@@fatoumargejoof5831 ONLY IN GHANA
The root of her problem is very deep. She started not remoseful. She said she never regretted her action. That since the friend has not apologized for the sin she knew nothing of. She might not even know she offended her. Her excuses were born of envy and jealousy.
She doesn't even know she's a witch. That's why most of them challenge when they're caught. This type of women kill their husband's over nothing and don't even think about the kids.
Woooo. Jealousy. Is. A. Baaaad. Thing
She is a witch, just that she does not know
Indeed I doubt she knew
So true
It is always good we keep mute about our good husband and wife
My family destroyed my life because of jealousy also. I went from a talented and intelligent 19 year old going to university, to a jobless, sick, lonely, humiliated, despised... man throughout my adult years.
I was brought up with my dad. After my father passed the people around me destroyed my life. I am 45 and am still recovering. But, God rescued me and restored my life in a spectacular way.
I don't trust people today because my family betrayed me and destroyed my life; they are paying for it now. All I hear is bad news from them. While God renewed my body and I am ready now to start my life again.
O wow 😯! Yea family can be like that sometimes. I’m glad God heard ur prayers and healing ❤️🩹 you!! Amen 🙏!!!
@@GalaxyGyrl8888 I am overwhelmed with the way God rescued me and want to share my story too, because its powerful.
Stay close to God, you have the same story as me after become close to God I am blessed
My story is similar to yours and we're also similar in age...God is always faithful and never sleeps. He fights the battle for the lowly ones. All those who attack us, get their pay in the end. I also see my family members suffering after all the evil they did to me. They're all walking in shame and humiliation. It's embarrassing!
Gpd bless you, I can relate to your story about family.
This is toooooo much. Her voice is filled with bitterness and pain. Even after all of this she doesn't have peace.
Yes she still filled pain and bitterness
This story broke my heart, it really did. I just don't get how someone can be so jealous of their friend to this extent, honestly I don't. May God save us from these kinds of friends
wicked people exists!
So what did she do to the guy who impregnated her? This is pure wickedness and Jealousy.
Eeiii this girl is very wicked.
She's a witch as well
Very wicked
There's nothing called a best friend oooo. And let's be careful how we tell people everything about us and our success.
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True talk
Your enemies are so close to you: don’t look far
Exactly.....
Absolutely true ooo
True talk
Always
Exactly
May God save me from the hands of household enemies 🙏
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Asabea you are responsible for your success....as long as your holding that grudge you life will continue to stagnate
True
Don't mind her. She's evil
My question to her is, if you can let her come down to your level through your spiritualist why didn't you use that same energy to go up to her level through the same spiritualist? To African spiritualists, can we do something good rather than always destroying and damaging things? Oh mother Africa WHEN? I REST MY CASE, MAY THE GOOD LORD BE WITH US...
I am a Nigerian... This story is annoying to listen....please can u arrest this gal. This is pure wickedness... No remorse from her
Nigerians don't play lightly wiith these things if they get to know. Ghanaians are too calm.
Seriously I’m very irritated listening to this trash she is capping out 😏😏😏
Very heart breaking story indeed. She should be arrested I swear 🤬
Pure wickedness. The heart of a man is desperately wicked.
This girl is cruel and psychopath she is dangerous and needs moved away from community. She needs punishment
Am crying at your story, I have been treated like that but I have no heart to pay people back with evil. Now God is blessing me.
She is a typical narcissist. Narcissists never see their fault, they can only see other people's faults. She is a serious case of narcissistic disorder.
She was never her friend. She was just looking for excuses and reason to do it. She had it in her mind and thoughts long long time. She is even happy you can tell. But Karma like hers coming serves cold!!!!
She is even proud of it!!😢😢😢
Nothing last forever, she will reap what she sewed
@@aborigineone2377 True
This Asabia is pure evil
Yes she sound so happy and proud of her evil ways.
She is even narrating it with no remorse 😢
People are heartless
No remorse at all she feels so entitled
My concern exactly, she's of her father the devil, trully.
women are like that, i know first hand
This girl is evil, jealous and bitter. I have learned from this story not to trust any friend. I don't have a friend , all those coming closer to me are acquaintances and their mission is to gain something from me. She does not see anything wrong with what she has done to her friend. Her friend, is barren, single, insane, jobless, and poor because of her but she is still jealous of her. May God protect us from unfriendly friends and friendly enemies.
This is really a terrible thing to do to anybody ...we can't pin our downfalls/misfortunes on others...how this woman destroyed her friend's life is unforgivable.
...just give the lady back her life please...that's the right thing to do!!
Eish this is so unbelievable
It’s not a friend at all
This interview reminds me of the verse in the bible that says 'the human heart is desperately wicked'. Mark the word DESPERATELY. She should take responsibility of her life.
She's pure wicked and evil
@@gemmaarubayi2924 Yes she is. She is still living in her childhood fantasies. That's also why she won't progress.
Very wicked
She deceived her childhood friend and she got pregnant at that early age, instead of her to stand by her ,she turned her back on her.
And made mockery of her ,my dear call her up and tell her what she did to you that you were hurt after which forgive her and undo whatever you did and sent her free.pleaseeeee
This lady is really wicked and this has made me to be very mindful of the people i call my friends.
Women are dangerous. My heart goes out to the friend who suffered at this woman's hands,may she get healing
Point of corrections not all why would she do that pure jelous I don't I never want a friend ooh
Amen
And her daughter will now have the generational curses passed down to her. I hope she's happy.
This is why I don’t like keeping friends in my life anymore. I don’t trust anybody when it comes to me. I had a fall out with somebody this year. It was an eye opening. Learn to love your own space
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Don't let this traumatize you. We as humans are here to be connected. Human connections and healthy friendships are important
I had a friend, who was jealous of my relationship, none of her relationship last. She once asked me what charms am I using? I heard her over talk about me to her friends in a nasty way. This is why I run away.. before is too late, such friends are crazy
Bless you. That's new me. I don't trust or believe in the word ' best friend'. Right now my best friend is JESUS. I don't have room for nonsense in my life.
Even me always am alone.
I need a 2nd part!!! He needs to find that friend of hers and expose all the damage she has done..be careful of those you surround yourself with. She is evil to the core!!!!!!
They definitely made several covenants which will need to be severed. It’s unlikely that we will get married on the same day as our best friends, or even get hired by the same company. We need to draw boundaries in friendships.
That's why I dnt have a best frnd.. It never ends well
I lost my good girlfriend too . Knew her since I was 16. She got married and then stopped talking to me. Sad , but life . I know God removed people from my life for a reason.
WHEN THE MEN IN RELATIONSHIPS ADVICE THEIR WIVES TO STAY AWAY FROM FRIENDS SHOULDNT BE SEEN AS A NEGATIVE THING,WHO KNOWS HE MIGHT BE SAVING THE MARRIAGE
Same as when WOMEN advise their MEN! Let's just be fair
@@rosekaburia5217 even worse because men struggle when it comes to staying away from friends 🤦♀️. Friends will destroy you 😢
It is not all friends you stay away from. Some friends, you keep. And as you are advising your friends to stay away from friends, you should heed to your own advice.
@@bee67371 my dear I think if the person is abusive physically is better at least you will have a plan to evacuate the marriage but if it is spiritually like this girl here eh God help you I hope it is even reversible
Listening from start to finish. This conversation gives deep insights that you cannot get from the University even if you spent a decade with international Professors in whatever discipline. Key lesson. Be careful when choosing who to be a friend. Be careful with what you promise and who you promise. A shattered heart can resort to anything. On my knees I plead that this lady must confront her friend and offload to her what she has told the whole world. From there on let her help her friend out of this situation.
I've totally given up friends. I can't do it anymore
Yes and also she needs to go back to the witchcraft to undo all the evil he did to her friend
@@diamonddiamond2024 Am available. I am not like her🤣😍😍
@@marylandi5462 u sure? I'm scared
@@diamonddiamond2024 😂😂😂😂
More importantly, your success is not in your friend's hands. You must work hard to climb the ladder and she does not owe you an apology.
I don't know why this video got recommended for me but you,I am speechless. Maybe it's a sign that i need to re-evaluate the company i keep.
There's envy and then there's jealousy. This lady was never a friend, the situation she found herself in, revealed her true self. We all have childhood friends who made it big and we are no longer friends, but wholeheartedly we wish them well. This is the highest level of jealousy.
We live in a wicked world ,lord have mercy
This lady needs to know and understand that the decisions they made in their teenage years were only coming from immature people and they were all young. And I'm surprised that this lady still holds a grudge and still blaming the friend for what happened when they were only teenagers
Very true hmmm .I even made a video about it .life is so scary .the heart of men only God can tell. I will be coming on this show Godwilling next week
But it's a shame she never took advantage of her own life failings to do better so she took it on her friend. She's the devil herself n u can hear how proud she is for what she has done.
Even if they made the decision as full grown adult, it still doesn’t make sense. No body owes anyone friendship, people outgrow each other and it’s part of nature to outgrow people or have fallouts, it’s basically part of life. This is the reason why no matter how good or bad a friend is, I’m simply not interested in being friends with people, life is too sweet for me to use my own hands to invite problem into my life.
Xtely 😢😢 she s bitter my gosh
Its not her fault,, If not the bad influence of the friend,She too wouldn't have ended up with pregnancy...U ripe what u sow
This issue wants to look complicated, but it is not.
I will give an example :
If a woman from a very poor background marries a wealthy man, she sincerely loved him, and he was her provider!!! Suddenly he changes, divorces her, in anticipation that whenever he encounters her, he will see her dispicable, poor, handicapped, should she accept that as her faith? It is expected that she picks herself up and be better, proving to him, He is not her creator!!! He does not hold her destiny!!!
This sister did all this because of a simple promise with her friend, in essence she saw that her friend as her god!!!! The spiritual consequences of this is, with her own 👐 hands, she ruined her own destiny!!! Even if she lured you into wrong hands, and you have a daughter from it, it should never have stopped you!!!! My sister if only you could look into your own hands..... You destroyed God's plan for you, by not raising up, facing the challenges, and trusting inside of you, that you would make it no matter the challenges !!!
In your passionate revenge persuit, you also destroyed your own life!!!
People are single mothers, and still got a degree, people were raped, had a child from it, took the humiliation, picked themselves up and today they are celebrated, they are celebrities!!!
Sister, for as long as you destroy your friend ..... You already know it, your own is not ending well. That is the law of nature, you did not think deeply about the implications of your actions!!! This can make you lose your only daughter if you are not careful!!!
The most important aspect is not to confess to her, but for you to end the bitterness in your heart, then go for serious deliverance and ask your creator to forgive you, for trusting on a mere imperfect human being as your god!!!
There is nothing other creatures or demons do for free!!!
I hope you get a true spiritual filled man of God, who will help you first to seek the face of God almighty, and help you repent truly and set you towards your destiny......... Then he will advice you on how to approach this issue with your friend!!!
I pray there are still true spiritual filled men from God in Ghana.
May God have Mercy.
Just the word for her. That is why it is good to be very prayerful. She has destroyed herself more than her friend.
She is still in time to repent and seek God, she still has time…
You brought pain to yourself, woman. I pray her ex-husband sees this and come reconcile with his wife and let God take care of this girl. What a wicked world.
This is beyond wickedness!!!!!!! OMG!!!! Is this story real??? I am speechless.
THIS IS EXTREME. ARNOLD YOUR PROGRAMS ARE VERY EDUCATIVE. THIS WORLD IS A COMPLICATED PLACE. THIS LADY IS NOT ONLY JEALOUS BUT WICKED. FEELING TOO ENTITLED. THE TRUTH IS HER FRIEND MIGHT NOT HAVE EVEN KNOWN THAT HER ACTIONS WERE RUNNING HER FRIEND CRAZY. THERE ARE MANY OF SUCH IN OUR SOCIETY. PEOPLE JUST BE VIGILANT AND ABOVE ALL LET JESUS BE THE CENTRE OF EVERYTHING WE DO. THIS IS SO BAD AND COMPLICATED. THE HEART OF MAN
Soul ties are dangerous, we used to do that alot as kids growing up.
What was the promise? This girl has bad heart this are the kind of friends we should run away from. She will never prosper and things will never be good for her even if she confess to her friend. I believe her friend never did anything to her she is just making excuses because of her selfishness and evil deed and I am also believe that God already fighting for her friend in the spirit realm that is why she is making this confession. Even the boyfriend that made her a baby mama I am strongly believe she is the one who carelessly slept with that particular man. All this is because of jealousy. She has all this power why can’t she find herself a rich man to marry, get a better job than the one her friend had and making herself better than her friend instead of her doing witchcraft evil evil things to her friend.
This is shocking 😲I hope people are learning something from this story, I have been let down by friends but this will make stay away from any friend in future, especially because I also see good in people not knowing the book behind the cover 🤦
Witches are never happy. No matter what you give them, they want what u have. She's a demon n that's y u don't make foolish promises.
Once upon a time I climbed up and when I climbed up I carried my friends who were down along and some of them did me in and I encountered hell on earth. I was betrayed beyond words and I can categorically tell you that an evil person will always do evil even without reason. The best thing for her to do is to take responsibility for what had happened, including her pregnancy and repent.
Wat d lady did is unforgivable bt her friend shouldnt hv belittle her, atleat her friend should hv encourage, help n support her. Wat her friend did to her made her do all those tins to her. Her friend Started it. Wen u succeed in life Dan someone never belittle anybody or brag ur success in their face or even disrespect them fr nt being successful in life
Well yea I can understand your point too. It’s not good to belittle or brag to someone.
This is pure WICKEDNESS. Lady you don't know tomorrow. God can turn things around for her and you will go down the hill. Jealousy and bitterness will destroy your own life
All these things you have done to these lady..your children will pay.
Exactly
@@hazelogolla5438 this is why God want us to pray. He know the evil we will deal with.
👍THISSS!!!🎯💯👍
@@hazelogolla5438 Exactly, Karma doesn't forget the address not to talk about God almighty.
Even if she did not do that to you, you will still do the same to her, and if really you loved her you can never distroy her life seriously........ The heart of man😰
Childhood promises should not be taken seriously because we made unnecessary promises not knowing what our future holds
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She just needed an excuse for her jealousy and wickedness. She’s very entitled and sounded crazy.
Exactly,the friend might have been but this woman acted out of jealousy
And she didn't say a word about the guy who disvirgined her or she didn't enjoyed it? Mumu girl I pray you never know peace
She's very wicked. She needed a way of escape to show her friend evil. In this time now I don't know who still do friends
This is the first time I’m coming across your page. This is an eye-opener. Thank you very much
In my opinion, she should restore whatever she has destroyed back to her before confessing and ask God for forgiveness
The friend need to find GOD. Once she do, this friend will run mad or die. She's a witch.
Only the MOSTHIGHT GOD can change her. She said, her friend needs to suffering for what she has done to me.
She’s just bitter🤦🏻♀️she always thought they were in a competition
We need to know more in depth information about this young lady's childhood. What was her childhood and home life like? What is making her believe that a promise to each other in a childhood friendship should be upheld throughout her entire life?
Don’t always forget that true friendship is like a secret court.Promises made to each other are spells.Some people take friendship too serious than family ties.I’d rather be alone that engage friends that will ruin my future.
Promise is Promise.
No other definition.
Even when one is dying.
Promise is still promise.
Between a husband and a wife,
It is a Promise, NOT just simple promise
PROMISE IS A VOW.
DONT MAKE PROMISE,
IF YOU WONT FULFILL THEM.
I just don’t get it either.They were young and people change.Even twins grow up and go on their separate ways.They don’t do things together the rest of their lives. This is crazy..
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We do not need to know more , thus woman is pure evil , I pray she sees nothing good in this life ..
If she’s not a witch then I don’t know wat she is.I feel for her friend
Jealousy is really a sickness
And people think it’s normal, can you imagine wow, but why is she taking this childhood promises too hard???
She takes best friend rejection thing to a whole new level....this girl making my blood boiled
Its simply jelous not trying to keep chilhood promises,its real they exist among us,pray hard God to open your eyes.
don’t mind the mumu woman I just want to beat her up what nonsense childhood promises
I think they might be lesbians back then, because her jealousy is on another level
That is the power of covenants. Just be careful what you "promise". A promise is a debt.
I feel that my sister did this I helped her raise her 4 children but she hated me undercover. One day when she was cussing me she said to me you are barren you wanted my children because you couldn't have your own she said it numerous times .... So sad she also covets my freinds and family.
The level of entitlement this woman has no matter what the friend does she will never get over her friend's success
It is shocking how entitled this woman feels. She bewitched her friend but she does not seem to have any sense of remorce. She is a typical narcissists. I wonder why she even bothered to tell her story because, one would expect this to be followed by remorce & regrets & apology.
God can deliver her friend and all those things you did to your friend will come to you a hundred fold. The friend is clueless of whatever offence you're talking about and is still trusting and treating you like a friend. The heart of man like the Bible said is desperately wicked.
Lord Jesus, please cause her friend to come across this, I pray they both come to the knowledge of Christ 🙏🏾
This girl is such a very wicked human being.
It won't end well with her
Did she tell you to sleep with the guy unprotected
Arnold got it right "what if its the bitterness in your heart that makes you not to prosper" it's her bitterness and entitlement on this promise thats keeping her where she is. Just forgive Adobia please
👍THISSS!!!🎯💯👍
This girl is very wicked. She is a very jealous friend and this is evil. Listening to her she doesn't make sense. How do you expect her to control your life for you. Wickedness to its first degree
Exactly. She has the character of a witch from her early years where she's been obsessed with her friend yet jealous of her. I've dealt with this for a while n I finally walked away from friends. All friendships for me I'm done.
Watch the full video again then you can comment.
You don't pay evil for evil.
She's just a bitter Soul and jealous
@@diamonddiamond2024 ?? Please expound ‘character of a witch’.
Her friend will come back from this and be more successful than EVER!
Amen
Yass oo👏🏿🙌🏾
@vibes in 5 please I watch your videos alot but this video got me
Please you need to bring them back.
My prayer goes to your friend may she be restored in Jesus name, may God come through for her,may God turns her ashes to beauty
The fact that she's narrating it without remorse and her sense of entitlement to the lady's life is crazy. This is a spiritual attachment. This woman is the devil in disguise, not her friend. I hope they can both of break free of this bondage. Both of them are very selfish individuals.
This is my own view. Asabea was that genuine friend who had NO ILL FEELINGS or BAD INTENTIONS in their friendship. She innocently did what her friend, Adobea suggested.
-Her friend, Adobea got herself a boyfriend at a time when Asabea hadn't considered having one. NOTE: [Adobea did not get a boyfriend because Asabea suggested, she felt ready to mingle]
-Asabea suddenly felt she should get a boyfriend too and as a BEST FRIEND, Adobea was ready with a potential boyfriend for her best friend, based on the covenants they entered together. Asabea innocently bought the idea because that's what her BEST FRIEND is doing. [I beg to be corrected here but having a boyfriend was not Asabea's own volition] I feel like saying that Asabea didn't have control over her own feelings or the capacity to make her own decisions. She was following her WITTY TWIN rather blindly.
- The next step is rather sad for me. Adobea wants to know if Asabea has ever HAD SEX!! Asabea went on to try out the "fun" she was missing. That was her greatest undoing. The result was out-of-wedlock pregnancy and the consequences of having to leave school.
- During that pregnancy, her BEST FRIEND was practically avoiding her completely!! Not wanting to have anything to do with her.......A twin sister, best friend from childhood into senior high?? THAT WAS THE GENESIS OF ASABEA'S BITTERNESS!! That was the driving force behind all the decisions and actions she took to bring her BEST FRIEND down.
- No, she's not bad.....she felt betrayed by someone she has trusted her entire life. She only needs to be talked out of bitterness and anger pangs that are emotionally controlling her. A counselor needs to tell her that VENGEANCE wont help her in any way. She needs to retrace her steps and check-out her own actions, at what stage she acted foolishly. Let her replay all Adobea's voices of "advice" and ask herself whether she was her own girl with a backbone like Adobea. Let her ask herself if she allowed her BEST FRIEND to drag her around too much.
Sharing a birthday, going to the same class/school your entire life, DOES NOT MAKE YOU ONE! You are NOT the same personalities....NEVER! You may be Choleric while she is Sanguine OR she may be Melancholic and you are Phlegmatic
Guys, I'm sorry for the long reading.
Arnold thanks for the show ..it opens up our minds
That's heatless because your friend didn't force you to have sex with baby daddy.you have to tell her the truth
This lady is doomed to suffer. May God show her mercy
I hope that’s the case. Wicked….!
This Asabea is full of evil a great lesson has been learnt God bless you Anorld
Wow some people are evil, I had a friend like this in senior secondary school, my mom notice are and told me to cut her off completely, thank God I did
Her jealously was too extremely that’s not friendship that’s so much hatred and bitterness she should have leave everything in God hand may God deliver that lady
Jealousy is as cruel as the grave. My God please deliver your people Father.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😭😭😭
The reason why I don't give physical cash out if not to my mum or kids,any other person is momo full stop
When you jnvite a demon to your life, how is it that everything is her "friend's" mistake. Childish and evil at the same time
Even arnold is scared to admit that she is a bad person infront of her because of what can happen after the interview hahahahahaha
I can tell from his facial expression😂😂😂. My guy is scared 😂😂😂
😂😂
He is not scared he's just in shock that someone like her can do this
He eventually told her in her face that he thinks she is a bad person,..but why his facial expression is like that is because of the audacity of the lady to say what "she did is a right thing and her friend deserves it!!..even me I was shocked over here when she said that..but I know her type,she is a witch, forget all she said,she was there just to destroy the friend.
@@oldwoodsquotes3495👍I agree!!!🎯💯👍
I wonder how Arnold feel watching these people confess to him face to face. Hmmm 😳😳 Fear people, especially the ones closer you to you🤔🤔🤔🤔
She lied about her friend, and it could also be that her friend was a very nice person to her and that is the reason why she is disturbed by what she did to her friend
Yes you are right
Some people we call friends. Jealousy is really a disease if I am not mistaken.
Jealousy is a demonic spirit.
She's not remorseful🤦🏾♂️😒
Yup it's so sad
absolutely unremorseful
I have a childhood friend, we promised each other many good things and I also told her that if I travel, I will try for you to come but I tried so many times over 10 times and is not working at all, so is not my fault.
Our destiny’s are not the same.
You kept silenced because your mind was never cleared to her. Never keep anything in mind for your friend maybe she didn’t take it that way. I feel bad for the girl who call you her friend. I’m a Libertarian live in the USA
The friend has lost everything and the traitor is right under your nose! So much for besties and covenants
Very true, the traitor is always right under your nose, they work hard to gain your trust, if you don't know how to be a snake handler don't mess with snakes for they are legions of them even in our very own family
Yea and they can't make covenant with Christ. Sad for thus generation weh keep friends still.
@@aborigineone2377 hmm
Jesus
I understand this lady very well, her feelings
Her words.she’s really hurt that’s y she’s doing what she did. She shud just let go of everything and move on 😢
Hurt for what? So u understanding meaning u are the same? Because this is witchcraft behavior. She's not CHRIST. If her friend starts to pray, this witch will confess n die. I'm not sure she's using the real names of her n her friend or this guy will find a way to let the friend know.
She hurt herself. You can't give people so much power over ur life.
Hurt of what? 🤔 her own failure? She's just bitter and jealous, her friend hasn't done anything bad to her she is just wicked man
Life has taught me to avoid friends especially you as a woman ….My so called friend dealt with me too,she was jealous too
I don’t believe with friendship, that’s why I don’t have one 😢
Yeah they re always jealous 🙄 😒 😏 😕 wit us eeeehh someone can destroy ur life today am facing alot but nt my friend but family 👪 members 🤦
@@ladysirra727 good 👍
Yes 👏🏾
Mine took my cloth to God knows where I just found out last December
I wish I can retaliate her with much deadly evil she did to me
This story has to teach us not to trust any one even siblings. This is pure wickedness in day brought light. One of my classmate is exactly like her holding old grudges with one of our classmate until the extended that she brought their old grudges over 18 years into our class reunion. We all sees her as a witch.
I used to love and trust everyone around me until I started to see not everyone’s heart is like mine so I started keeping shit to myself and that was a world changing for me . I got married to my childhood friend
That why I don't have friends
This is pure wickedness
She is a typical narcissist, She has a Jezebel spirit!
May the good Lord expose this 'so called friend' may the friend see through her. I pray that the friend be delivered & get her life back.
This is a witch. Even if the friend had found her a husband. If anything went wrong in their marriage as all marriages do, she would still take it out on her friend. May the merciful God deliver the friend & save her from this witch. This woman is insane🙉
I can’t comprehend with this level of wickedness. Please people once you realize someone is jealous of you or if they blatantly say so, run. They mean it.
This is heartbreaking. Only God can bring to pass all our plans and promises. You and your friend promised yourselves from a naive and child fantasies without knowing what the future holds for you both. Please pray for God's mercy and healing. Also set your friend free whether she apologize or not. If you are destined to be great, you will surely be my dear whether you had a child as a teenager or not.
She is terrible. She’s a wicked person. She’s not sorrowful at all. She destroyed her friend that she said that she loved. Jealousy, Envy and hatred is a terrible thing. I don’t give any woman access to my home or my husband. She’s a Devil. Promise? She’s a Judas. Why is she blaming her friend for her mistake. Karma will catch up with her and the wrath of God will find her. I pray that the friend gets deliverance
What you did is bad God has plans for every one. So what you did is not good because she is not your sister only friend and you try to destroy her God will punish you papapa
God will punish you you will never be happy in your life God will remove all what ever you did to her and give it to you in Jesus name
You are witch
I've learned to not make stupid promises
Word is bond and powerful, word is creation. Be careful how you use words, word is God. Very powerful.
This is refreshing,good job "therapist" Arnold ✊
She needs to explain everything to her friend and says a big sorry to her .💔
She should explain everything to her friend's husband so he can know his wife was bewitched by someone they both know very well
I'm gobsmacked!!! She so wicked that why I don't have any friends.
I'm always watching ur show watching it right now I'm watching from St Lucia in the Caribbean
This lady is Soo wicked awwww
She pass wicked ..she is evil..
Yes ...she is " onibrefo)" k3k3 cus eeiii