I left my job in 2016. My manager was very toxic, she was a senior manager and I was a manager in finance dept, she made things difficult for me, she gave me a final written warning for something that's not even work related. I contested it at CCMA and won but I decided to resign cos she continued giving me a hard time. I was preparing for my wedding at the time and decided to quit to focus on my wedding preparations. Thereafter I didn't know what to do. Stressed as I was, I started building rooms with my provident fund and rented them out. My business is doing well, ke ja ke dutse😊. God is good. Thank you Thati, your vlogs are so motivating and encouraging ❤❤❤❤
Ohhhhh mama this is sooo beautiful 🥹🙏🏽 I’m sure she thought she won when you left but little did she know that was the perfect move for you. 🥹 I’m truly sorry that you had to go through that but I’m so happy things worked out so beautifully for you in the end. I’m honestly inspired lerato laka. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I left a job that was really toxic, with no back up plan. 3 months later I had 2 job offers. I have a car now and everytime I’m driving I’m in awe because God did that.
What you're saying is very true... I was with someone for ten years and didn't accomplish anything, as soon as we broke up doors started opening... I got a job, opened a nail shop, completed my diploma and I got engaged (sadly he passed away while we were planning the wedding)... It didn't even take me five years to accomplish all the above mentioned, and I know that if I had stayed I'd be stuck still....
I honestly find motivation, confidence and comfort on your vlog. If i don't have data I always ask my husband to hotspot me for a sec i have to check my emails and he would say "omaka, o bo lo shebella ausy ole wa vlog"...oh Lord.
I HAD to comment on this one!! So true Thati. I was in a very toxic relationship for 4 years and hey I did everything that I could to hold onto this relationship When I eventually had no fight left in me and walked away I met a wonderful and loving man and 7 months later we got married. I have been married for 6 months and oh my the bliss.🥰😍 I never knew such peace and happiness could exist. I honestly wish I had walked away earlier and realised my worth.
You guys, I’m catching up and watching this vlog and in-between the adverts I’m reading the comments 🤣👏🏾 shuuuu thank you all for the sweet comments, I see them all ♥️ I love the part where Thati talks about leaving and not settling. If you get a chance, try find a copy of the book Thati is currently reading, it’s called “The Garden Within, where the war within your emotions ends, and your most powerful life begins” It’s very important to be self aware, be aware of your emotions and not be in constant war with yourself 😊♥️
I used to have a friend whom I loved soo much God has been showing me signs about her but I ignored them,now that she’s out of my life my life is progressing I have achieved sooo much since our friendship ended so thank you for that Lebonza If I dated a guy she would want to be close to that guy or date the friend so when I go there she could join and my relationship wouldn’t last at all. Some people are not good for us God can see their hearts even though they may portray as if they like you but God sees the heart.
I left my toxic relationship last year and ever since we started dating I became unemployed,January ke kene by signing a contract. Thank you so much for your qoutes Thati❤..
Sana I'm glad I talked about leaving negative spaces on my tiktok today😂I had this friend that never ate at my house (she said she doesn't eat at some people houses) but when are other friends she would eat, I think she did that because of where I come from. I stayed because she was really there for me but sana at got to a point where she never visits me, even when she wants to me meet, she would rather send money for me to come to her house, then I knew I had to leave. It's really not her only but I had to delete WhatsApp to remove some people nje, I'm now changing my number and ever since then sana my life has been gracefully changing, I'm not there yet but I'm where I used to pray for. Thank you for sharing this. ♥️
. Watched this throughout my workout and now ready for the day. I love your closing shot.. walk away, you are not a tree. I left a toxic place a few years ago and life rewarded me with an amazing workplace. You just never know what’s on the other side. Let go and let GOD❤
I love you so so much,,you inspire me a lot,, spiritually,,mentally you feed me and personally you build me up ,,i appreciate you Mrs Crocs 💐💗God bless you wena Mosadi ya hlomphehileng setjhabeng sa rona mabonziiiiiii,,100K for whooo,,fir whatttt,for us yassss for us🎉🎊🎈💃🕺
I have a very toxic boss, he calls me names, shouts, tells me I'm stupid but im leaving now. I have been planning on leaving since July last year, I'm finally doing it, next month is my last month working there, I'm applying for jobs nothing positive yet, but I believe that God has something planned for me❤❤
I love the conversations that you have on this channel, a young adult like me still navigating this life things, I learn a lot. I have an older sister here❤
Beautiful vlog @SeithatiLetsipa❤❤❤momma your friendship with Nzahh is beautiful 😍 Your closing off really cuts deep because it actually reminded me of my past relationships and thank you for always sharing relatable moments it’s true some people are just not meant for you and God and your ancestors will harden your life until you understand and hear….thats why your things will suddenly unfold to give you reason why he removed your them in the first place ❤
I just love the fact that you’re being YOU thati , you don’t portray anyone but yourself😊❤ ke sa bui ka your sense of humour sana😂😂 love you loads❤ “Sometimes a not yet from God is actually a not with them around” shuuuu that’s deep🥹🙌 thanks Lebonza❤
The part where you say if a situation is toxic leave and you go on to say that its hard when its a job. Currently in that situation and let me tell you it feels like God has forgoten about me, I mean there is no way my boss gets to treat me that way and God is quite.No way God takes away my brother (passed away in my arms) ,I am the oldest at home and have to make sure my little sister finishes her diploma out of pocket, my dad suffering a stroke and nothing is going right and God is waiting for who to not be in my life? Anyway kuningi I just got overwhelmed for a moment. Praying for strength ,love love love Yours and Ndza's friendship.
Totally relatable content 🥰 Keep it up mama... I've sold Yoni Steam before when it was still trending. I was back in Uni. After leaving a toxic relationship, I fixed my relationship with Jesus, God aligned my path... My contract just had finished when we met, fast forward to I found a teaching job (THANK GOD), I registered my PGCE when we met, but I couldn't finish at that time, but a year later after the break up I managed to complete it. Everything goals I've set for myself, visions, and the kind of life I always hoped to live but with him around I achieved after the breakup and I learned to never settle in life.❤
🎶 track? It’s *Coming Home* by *Gamma Skies feat. Christine Smit* - and yes we are THRILLED to be your trusted provider. ua-cam.com/video/4xRQa7tNOO0/v-deo.html // Epidemic Sound
I relate to what you are saying . The way I was so fixated to my ex boyfriend,you would swear I was living for him. I’m so glad I left .As much as it hurts, I’m at peace and Dilo txaka Di txamaya sentle . I truly recommend leaving where you are not happy .
I feel so really bad lebonza I was watching outside the club for so long I thought I've subscribe 😞long ago.. Only notice now after your previous vlogs asking for 100k..now when I check booo I haven't also.. Wish I can make a voice note to show how disappointed I am for myself the big lebonza... ❤
Congratulations Thato super happy for you Nana. Nah shame the food at Kieviets not nice. We used to go their SPA a definite 10/10🤌🏼 Can’t believe on this day I saw you and Ndza in person, oh my gosh you so tall and look’s more stunning in person
Congratulations on all your accomplishments 🎉❤. I was thinking (please bare with me not really clued up with his social media work etc) can you not do a teaser on Instagram or a prize give away and get them to subscribe to your UA-cam channel?we need those 100k on here please A wig giveaway(we know we love those) or a teaser about your bridal shower etc
Thank you so so much my love ❤️ I do post teasers on my IG and to be honest it does work because people are subscribing. 🙏🏽 In terms of a give away I will do one soon on IG, right now I’m working on one for YT just to say thank you to the subscribers I already have. Thank you so much for your suggestions. 🥹
Beautiful vlog😍lebonza, congratulations 🎉 on 100k subbies. You deserve it babe. That Superbalist dress is so beautiful 😍😍 Thank you for the reminder to leave toxic situations and never go back 🙌🏼
Lebonze, thanks so much for this vlog to me. It means a lot it's like you were giving me a birthday gift. Kodwa wena ungdlisile 🤞 uthando olungaka enginalo can't wait to meet ❤❤❤. Happy new year to Ndza ❤❤
Congratulations on 100K followers, Instagram must do something spectacular 😂. Love Nza Adidas jacket❤. Y'all looked gorgeous at the lunch. Letting go of things that doesn't serve us anymore ❤
Oops did I say Bridal Shower 🥹🤭🥰😂
Nna kere we need to have our own bridal shower yamabonza
@@mrsambuwako6859 no cause why not?🥺😂😂
😂
@@kgalalelo2 Lmao 🤣 Haibo but now it must be planned by me? 😂 ha le fair
Jonga it's a need plus we have ndza to help us
I left my job in 2016. My manager was very toxic, she was a senior manager and I was a manager in finance dept, she made things difficult for me, she gave me a final written warning for something that's not even work related. I contested it at CCMA and won but I decided to resign cos she continued giving me a hard time. I was preparing for my wedding at the time and decided to quit to focus on my wedding preparations. Thereafter I didn't know what to do. Stressed as I was, I started building rooms with my provident fund and rented them out. My business is doing well, ke ja ke dutse😊. God is good. Thank you Thati, your vlogs are so motivating and encouraging ❤❤❤❤
Ohhhhh mama this is sooo beautiful 🥹🙏🏽 I’m sure she thought she won when you left but little did she know that was the perfect move for you. 🥹 I’m truly sorry that you had to go through that but I’m so happy things worked out so beautifully for you in the end. I’m honestly inspired lerato laka. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@SeithatiLetsipa thnx ausi. I forgot to mention that she was fired 2 years later for stealing the company's money.
I left a job that was really toxic, with no back up plan. 3 months later I had 2 job offers. I have a car now and everytime I’m driving I’m in awe because God did that.
What you're saying is very true... I was with someone for ten years and didn't accomplish anything, as soon as we broke up doors started opening... I got a job, opened a nail shop, completed my diploma and I got engaged (sadly he passed away while we were planning the wedding)... It didn't even take me five years to accomplish all the above mentioned, and I know that if I had stayed I'd be stuck still....
I honestly find motivation, confidence and comfort on your vlog. If i don't have data I always ask my husband to hotspot me for a sec i have to check my emails and he would say "omaka, o bo lo shebella ausy ole wa vlog"...oh Lord.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this killed me 🤣🤭🥰 Thank you so so so much! Genuinely appreciate this ♥️
😂😂😂 my husband even saves Thati's vlogs for me... even though I have notifications, he'll always tell me "Thati posted "
I HAD to comment on this one!! So true Thati. I was in a very toxic relationship for 4 years and hey I did everything that I could to hold onto this relationship When I eventually had no fight left in me and walked away I met a wonderful and loving man and 7 months later we got married. I have been married for 6 months and oh my the bliss.🥰😍 I never knew such peace and happiness could exist. I honestly wish I had walked away earlier and realised my worth.
41:21
Facts! The minute you let go of certain things. Life starts looking up for you.
I wish God would lead me on what to let go of because WOW
Sometimes a “not yet” from God, is actually a “not with them around.” ❤❤
I’m new here, I don’t know if you and Ndza already have a friendship tag video or not, but if not please do it. I love your friendship so much ❤
Ndza’s jacket 🥵🙌🔥
Listen you won with Ndza!!!❤ she's so selfless 🥹🥹
You guys, I’m catching up and watching this vlog and in-between the adverts I’m reading the comments 🤣👏🏾 shuuuu thank you all for the sweet comments, I see them all ♥️
I love the part where Thati talks about leaving and not settling. If you get a chance, try find a copy of the book Thati is currently reading, it’s called “The Garden Within, where the war within your emotions ends, and your most powerful life begins”
It’s very important to be self aware, be aware of your emotions and not be in constant war with yourself 😊♥️
I used to have a friend whom I loved soo much God has been showing me signs about her but I ignored them,now that she’s out of my life my life is progressing I have achieved sooo much since our friendship ended so thank you for that Lebonza
If I dated a guy she would want to be close to that guy or date the friend so when I go there she could join and my relationship wouldn’t last at all.
Some people are not good for us God can see their hearts even though they may portray as if they like you but God sees the heart.
I left my toxic relationship last year and ever since we started dating I became unemployed,January ke kene by signing a contract. Thank you so much for your qoutes Thati❤..
Sana I'm glad I talked about leaving negative spaces on my tiktok today😂I had this friend that never ate at my house (she said she doesn't eat at some people houses) but when are other friends she would eat, I think she did that because of where I come from. I stayed because she was really there for me but sana at got to a point where she never visits me, even when she wants to me meet, she would rather send money for me to come to her house, then I knew I had to leave. It's really not her only but I had to delete WhatsApp to remove some people nje, I'm now changing my number and ever since then sana my life has been gracefully changing, I'm not there yet but I'm where I used to pray for.
Thank you for sharing this. ♥️
Can’t believe there are people who do this?😮
. Watched this throughout my workout and now ready for the day. I love your closing shot.. walk away, you are not a tree. I left a toxic place a few years ago and life rewarded me with an amazing workplace. You just never know what’s on the other side. Let go and let GOD❤
I love you so so much,,you inspire me a lot,, spiritually,,mentally you feed me and personally you build me up ,,i appreciate you Mrs Crocs 💐💗God bless you wena Mosadi ya hlomphehileng setjhabeng sa rona mabonziiiiiii,,100K for whooo,,fir whatttt,for us yassss for us🎉🎊🎈💃🕺
I have a very toxic boss, he calls me names, shouts, tells me I'm stupid but im leaving now. I have been planning on leaving since July last year, I'm finally doing it, next month is my last month working there, I'm applying for jobs nothing positive yet, but I believe that God has something planned for me❤❤
I love the conversations that you have on this channel, a young adult like me still navigating this life things, I learn a lot. I have an older sister here❤
Beautiful vlog @SeithatiLetsipa❤❤❤momma your friendship with Nzahh is beautiful 😍
Your closing off really cuts deep because it actually reminded me of my past relationships and thank you for always sharing relatable moments it’s true some people are just not meant for you and God and your ancestors will harden your life until you understand and hear….thats why your things will suddenly unfold to give you reason why he removed your them in the first place ❤
You're definitely one of my fav content creators Lebonza😊❤You are so funny and this year we lift up that #100K plaque angifuni ukungasho😂
Lmao 🤣 you should see the smile on my face 🥹🙏🏽 thank you so much Wewe ♥️
Decided this year on January to leave relationships of 7 years with 2 kids and I know its been few weeks but I feel like its the best decision I made❤
True! Left a toxic situation and everything started to open up
Those red lippies 😍🔥 love the sense of humour you & Ndza have… Your circle of friends? You’re BLESSED!! As per usual, enjoyed the vlog ❤
The yoni soap is aaamaazing for smell and the yoni oil for ingrowns and itching after shaving and the Ph leevel. Those products are the beeest. ❤❤❤
I just love the fact that you’re being YOU thati , you don’t portray anyone but yourself😊❤ ke sa bui ka your sense of humour sana😂😂 love you loads❤
“Sometimes a not yet from God is actually a not with them around” shuuuu that’s deep🥹🙌 thanks Lebonza❤
Oh Ndzalama, really appreciate this soul😘😘💗
I love that "leave" chat ! So powerful because sometimes it isn't that God isn't working, it's that we not leaving/letting go
17:42 this is so wholesome 😻🌸
I find myself smiling throughout all your vlogs Thati🥹 you’re so special. ♥️
I have been using the naked by nay products and I cnt live without them ekare nka send voice note and explain more the best best
The way you love learning new languages ❤🎉🎉
We like before ,then watch ads ,then phakathi inside the vlog 🥰👌🏽
Yes please 🥹🥰
The part where you say if a situation is toxic leave and you go on to say that its hard when its a job. Currently in that situation and let me tell you it feels like God has forgoten about me, I mean there is no way my boss gets to treat me that way and God is quite.No way God takes away my brother (passed away in my arms) ,I am the oldest at home and have to make sure my little sister finishes her diploma out of pocket, my dad suffering a stroke and nothing is going right and God is waiting for who to not be in my life? Anyway kuningi I just got overwhelmed for a moment. Praying for strength ,love love love Yours and Ndza's friendship.
You make me wanna move back to Africa honesty I need to be with my people
Totally relatable content 🥰 Keep it up mama... I've sold Yoni Steam before when it was still trending. I was back in Uni. After leaving a toxic relationship, I fixed my relationship with Jesus, God aligned my path... My contract just had finished when we met, fast forward to I found a teaching job (THANK GOD), I registered my PGCE when we met, but I couldn't finish at that time, but a year later after the break up I managed to complete it. Everything goals I've set for myself, visions, and the kind of life I always hoped to live but with him around I achieved after the breakup and I learned to never settle in life.❤
I find comfort here ❤😊
And I find comfort in you guys 🥹🤭
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Samthandi uNdza, girl is plugging your channel to everyone as she should sana😂❤❤
You are blessed with beautiful friend , Love it for you !!!!!!!!!!😍😍😍😍
🎶 track? It’s *Coming Home* by *Gamma Skies feat. Christine Smit* - and yes we are THRILLED to be your trusted provider.
ua-cam.com/video/4xRQa7tNOO0/v-deo.html
// Epidemic Sound
Congratulations Thati . Mohau ona hle le hard work Joooh you really deserve it ❤🎉
Thank you so much my love 🥹❤️🙏🏽
You are such good energy ❤
I also had bad experience with ooh my cake so I totally agree with you.
Truth be told! 😢You are such a great inspiration my dear and may God richly bless you beyond your wildest imagination😊❤
To us who comment before watching 😊Thank you
Congratulations ❤️
Soooo good to have you back Mme Mokoena💐😍🤗
I relate to what you are saying . The way I was so fixated to my ex boyfriend,you would swear I was living for him. I’m so glad I left .As much as it hurts, I’m at peace and Dilo txaka Di txamaya sentle . I truly recommend leaving where you are not happy .
Yoh girl this was me! The minute I let go that’s when I met Martin and things just changed around for me. ♥️♥️♥️♥️ So happy for you!
@@SeithatiLetsipa I’m so happy for you .
Hope next time I will be saying ke thotse LOML .🥹🤭
I feel so really bad lebonza I was watching outside the club for so long I thought I've subscribe 😞long ago.. Only notice now after your previous vlogs asking for 100k..now when I check booo I haven't also.. Wish I can make a voice note to show how disappointed I am for myself the big lebonza... ❤
You're such a ball of energy. Loved the vlog. The part about letting go is very hard but necessary 😍💐
You always brighten up my gloomy days. Your sense of humor is so effortless. I love you so much. 😂🤍
I am here, downstairs, to leave the ❤❤
I love what you have with Ndza, so beautiful 😍 you
😂😂😂😂 Lebonza with lyrics...ohhh i love it here❤❤❤
Yes please 🎉Nzas 35,rememeng, but Seithati u r such a happy human being ❤
Congratulations Thato super happy for you Nana. Nah shame the food at Kieviets not nice. We used to go their SPA a definite 10/10🤌🏼
Can’t believe on this day I saw you and Ndza in person, oh my gosh you so tall and look’s more stunning in person
Those last words I feel like ne o buwa lenna hle 😮❤ thank you for this video ❤
The only UA-cam I look up to❤❤❤
Just Love Your Friendship guys AND Congrats to Ausi Thati bathong. 🥰😍🤩😘🤗🙏🍾🥂
You inspire me sisi,continue being a humble and generous soul,Congratulations you deserve it!❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations on all your accomplishments 🎉❤. I was thinking (please bare with me not really clued up with his social media work etc) can you not do a teaser on Instagram or a prize give away and get them to subscribe to your UA-cam channel?we need those 100k on here please
A wig giveaway(we know we love those) or a teaser about your bridal shower etc
Thank you so so much my love ❤️
I do post teasers on my IG and to be honest it does work because people are subscribing. 🙏🏽
In terms of a give away I will do one soon on IG, right now I’m working on one for YT just to say thank you to the subscribers I already have. Thank you so much for your suggestions. 🥹
1:06 oh my God you look beautiful ❤the quality is insane very great❤
Oh man watching this I miss you guys even more, once again congratulations my friend
Aaaah my friend I miss you so much. I hope you’re enjoying your hiatus ♥️♥️♥️ I love you
I might be late on vlogs but I'm planning to watch everything because I want to be a real lebonza❤❤❤❤.
Ngwana di zounung tsaka strateng sa wesele❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤ I love you Thati! 🇿🇦🇺🇲
Great advice as usual ❤. Thank you so much
You are such a breath of fresh air 🩷
Love ur friendship sisterhood can't wait
You are definitely one of my favs and congratulations on the big 1 0 0 🎉🎉🎉
Bridal whaaat??!! 😁🥺❤ oh sana May God continue blessing you Lebonza ❤
Girl 🥹🥰♥️🙏🏽
❤🎉😊
Love it so much ❤❤, you're a wise woman Seithati
"what's Gina without Martin?"
No, what's life without Thati, bathong ❤❤
Aaaah bathong 🥹🥹🥹
Ausi Warona it's giving celebrity vibes...."little girl" it's perfect 😅
I love it heeeereee!!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 the vibes on this vlog right here are everything
Oh what a lovely vlog Bonzy I love it for us as the nation 😂😂
15:24 get up and leave is the best motivation ever ❤😅
My favourite notification 🥳💃
You're the best!🥹🤭
Ndzalama is such a cool girl!!💟
Finally all caught up 🎉❤
One thing about you with wine glasses you are very particular 😍 taking notes ❤❤🎉 congratulations on your 100k
Beautiful vlog😍lebonza, congratulations 🎉 on 100k subbies. You deserve it babe. That Superbalist dress is so beautiful 😍😍
Thank you for the reminder to leave toxic situations and never go back 🙌🏼
Did you enjoy the cake ? It looked beautiful. Congratulations on the 100k on Instagram 🥂🥂🍾🍾
Love you guys' friendship❤
Hey sweets ..I'm in love with your persona ❤️❤️❤️ Moya was hao omotle ausi
Lebonze, thanks so much for this vlog to me. It means a lot it's like you were giving me a birthday gift. Kodwa wena ungdlisile 🤞 uthando olungaka enginalo can't wait to meet ❤❤❤. Happy new year to Ndza ❤❤
YOH!!!! Ya fihla hantle ke boreile fuuuu, thank you lebonzy girl!!!!
Lmao 🤣 I’m glad I can keep you company 🥹😊
Congratulations on 100K followers, Instagram must do something spectacular 😂. Love Nza Adidas jacket❤. Y'all looked gorgeous at the lunch. Letting go of things that doesn't serve us anymore ❤
Thank u Lebonza congratulations 🎉🎉🎉❤
My favorite UA-camr in the whole wide world ❤❤❤😍😘
I thought you bought a dress ko Mr Price🤭 really appreciate the pep talk at the end of your vlogs❤️
Where can I get the Apron my ❤?How much?
Congratulations Libonza halalaaa 🎉🎉🎉❤
Huge congratulations on 100k followers 🎉🎉That cake is soo beautiful ❤
Enjoyed the vlog
The quote at the end ❤🥹
Such a wholesome vlogy vlog ❤❤❤
Love the energy ke sana " I'm just being strong friend am I smelling??" yoh Thati😂😂❤
Congratulations mogal. Your friend is like my friend they are all good
❤❤❤❤ you are loved ke sthandwa
Haybo Kell B no longer youtuber we mic her 🎉🎉❤❤u guys look so beautiful
❤❤❤❤ thank you for being an inspiration 🎉🎉🎉
E kare Ndzalama akaba ko Rich Wifes of Johannesburg,ke batla go bona something🤔Coz WOW!LADY got it for days maaaannnnn🤌
Right???????? I also see it 😂🥰😍 let me show her this ❤️
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You always style 4:59 regardless. Like ❤❤❤❤ always looking gorgeous