I'm so grateful for how open Joanna is about her story.. it's not easy to talk about things like that, especially in front of camera. I'm glad there are people out there who shares their stories like this, so that others won't feel alone 🥰❤
Grace was with her ex for almost 7 years since she was 15, which means she was (almost) 22 when they broke up and now she is with Allan (her current bf) for 6 years?? So grace is at least 28 years old now??? But she looks damn young???
Ikr??? Like wtf is "nose not sharp"? Jo is so pretty, both in terms of personality and looks. If you want someone just for dumb superficial things like "sharp nose" or sth then just go get plastic surgery for yourself or sth don't put other ppl down for that :(
Always remember there's always a rainbow after every rainstorm. I believe everything happens for a reason, and the fact he did that to you, it's just pure wrong. Karma will hit him back. Trust in that. If you don't get what you want rn or if something doesn't go according to your plans, it's only cause there's something or someone greater waiting for you in the future just trust. Instead of asking yourself why is this happening to me, shift the thoughts to, what can I learn from this experience. To heal from depression, for me personally through experience is to surround yourself with really really optimistic, supportive and positive people and definitely to find a hobby for yourself, something you're really passionate about, to release your stress aka a form of therapy. Lastly the most important is to not bottle up your feelings cause that bottle can only fill up so much, do express how you feel or open to people who is trust worthy cause I'm pretty sure you can't see your loved ones going through this as well. No matter what, remember that rainbow is coming, be patient and always treat yourself like how you'd treat your best friend. Have a good day. Much love ~ kie
I feel bad for joanna this happened my dad and my mom My dads brothers treated my mother like an outsider even after their marriage and even take my dads will after he died we almost lost house but we got it back .it was rough
So happy that Jo is happy now. Thank you for this episode. Pls do more of these chit chat sessions. Just loved the different experiences that you guys shared and the different hopes/dreams that you have. Would love to hear Rachel's opinions more. Hope everyone will reach a point where they are comfortable with themselves and just be who they are and be okay with who they love.
Hey Joanna, I'm sorry to hear that you have gone through that very ugly experience. No one deserves anything like that. I can only hope your hurt will heal soon and you'll end up in a love life that you desire. Take care!
I really appreciate them doing this video. Sometimes in some countries, at a certain age or point in their life, where there's like a need to find a relationship or to be in one. And it's hard to be single because some people think otherwise. So it's good to have a reminder that single isn't bad at all. It's up to us to see it through.
When Grace keeps on mentioning how Jo is happy now, it makes me feel like she is making it known that *coughs* AIKEN is making Jo really happy now. Shipping them all the way!
i'm proud of jo leh for like open up especially in front of the camera cause it's really not easy as it seems and just wanna say to the other girls out there no matter what people say about u remember you're beautiful just the way u are n don't let people words hurts u cause you're amazing♥️
Wow all these breakup stories will definitely help people who went through a breakup, realise u are not alone. Btw it must have taken alot of courage for u all to share these breakup stories .
@@xlben10 as an Asian, I've to say this comment has gotten old and so outdated; that is getting cringe worthy 😷 I've seen Whites/Arabs/Latino(na) /Black who look half their age and younger looking than Asians 🙄 No offence, this doesn't apply to all Asian women but it is known throughout the globe that Asians does a lot under the knife (not saying others don't).
Great video! I totally feel what Joanna felt in her previous relationship. Almost the same story, my partner’s family saw one of my photos on Instagram and instantly judged me for who I am not. And of course I got to know this when my partner told me about it and I was mad. I couldn’t shout at her parents and I actually had to lie to my partner, telling her that it was fine and all. But deep down, it is not. She felt angry about her parents judging me in such a way but I can’t do anything about it other than to keep it all to myself. Not sure how this relationship is gonna work out, should I be meeting her parents soon. #leaveitalltogod
“Right from the start i knew that this wasnt going to work , bt i still insist going on this relationship” phewww i felt that ;,) *please know that everyone deserves to be loved and will find happiness. bt please try to find happiness and love in urself first ;)
So I'm in a relationship for 3 years til now , and for the first year , we're so happy and no fighting and stuff ya know the sweetest things lol and then the next year of it both of us kinda off , like not text or talk to each other for a really long time and yeah on that time we're lost contact and then we find each other again and yeah sweet stuff yada yada so on and then this year we didn't talk much anymore it's like both of us are like stranger from calling sweet stuff like so happy and lovely to like a friend like normal friend not much , so idk if I should break up with him or not , but at the same time I don't want to hurt his feelings . So yeah idk what to do now
3 years in and you have this kind of relationship. Why waste time? Marriage isn't just a 3 year thing. Marriage is supposed to be until death. So if you don't see any future, why stay together?
how can u lose contact with someone u are dating...? are u sure he knows ur in a relationship? sounds like he has someone else with u on a side once he isnt lovey dovey anymore... then goes back to u when he single again basically ur the side chick... so erase him outta ur brain n move on
Talk it out with him if you dont want to hurt his feelings. Tell him the thing that you feel. From the way I see it I think both of you doesnt really love each other anymore. Maybe there are still some love or affection but not as strong as before. Both of you afraid to be the one to end the relationship first. You have to place your own happiness first. Just tell him everything that you feel about the relationship and then end it. Dont think about what might others or him will think or react. Just focus on yourself. Dont drag yourself too long in a toxic relationship.
lmao, not @ how chanyeol was listening carefully along to each one of their confessions 💀💀 p.s i appreciate the casts' amount of courage and bravery to declare such desolate stories 🥺🥺
Everyone:Joanna is so strong Me:is that BTS pillow they're hugging? Don't get me wrong, I feel proud of Jo, but, I'm too much of an ARMY...... Fighting, Jo!
I feel like my aunt which I'm very close with also smokes behind my back cause everytime I go to her bedroom and bathroom I can smell it.. And while I was using her bathroom I saw a pack of cigarettes behind the shampoo and conditioner
imagine u wanna propose to rachel in a mountian during a sunset in a different country... u have to hire a professional photographer and pay for the flights of her family 😬🤣 seems very stressful proposal to me lol
felt what jo said tbh, considering ive just went thru a break up edit 1: short story time, first ever girlfriend i had, man it was such a fucked up rs man, i was forced to be with her even tho i didnt want to, it was so god damn toxic sia , every week cfm argue etc, i had to find a way to love her and ended up doing so a bit, and ended up getting dumped :)
Well, I would never want to be in a relationship ever again. I have been dumped 4 times for the same reason, for another guy. So I don't think I can trust people when they say they want to be a relationship with me
I'm so grateful for how open Joanna is about her story.. it's not easy to talk about things like that, especially in front of camera. I'm glad there are people out there who shares their stories like this, so that others won't feel alone 🥰❤
Don't worry Joanna, I saw Aiken working out and running ytd. I guess he is working hard to be the guy for you. Hahaha
Im pretty sure joanna has a bf alr tho....
I thought Aiken and her wanted to get married?? 😥😥
Nina tho.....
IT'S AIKEN BOYFREIND
Then we shall wish Jo all the best with her new rs!
LOL!
Proud of Jo for telling her story
Totally agree. Takes a lot of courage.
Hug only meh french hug
Grace was with her ex for almost 7 years since she was 15, which means she was (almost) 22 when they broke up and now she is with Allan (her current bf) for 6 years?? So grace is at least 28 years old now??? But she looks damn young???
Or maybe grace cheated on her ex lmao jk lah
nah she look at least mid 20 already
cos she have the baby face
but her without makeup is a bit old lah...
W.T.F, ARE YOU KIDDING.
7.42 makes me laugh most as Isabelle shouted “ whose mother do that ah” that was so funny
7:42
Jo's ex's parents confirm eye problem
brain also got problem.
Whole body problem lah
Jo is so cute and pretty, her ex was a dumbass
if she was ugly 3/4 the girls in the universe cannot get married alr
Ikr??? Like wtf is "nose not sharp"? Jo is so pretty, both in terms of personality and looks. If you want someone just for dumb superficial things like "sharp nose" or sth then just go get plastic surgery for yourself or sth don't put other ppl down for that :(
Always remember there's always a rainbow after every rainstorm. I believe everything happens for a reason, and the fact he did that to you, it's just pure wrong. Karma will hit him back. Trust in that. If you don't get what you want rn or if something doesn't go according to your plans, it's only cause there's something or someone greater waiting for you in the future just trust. Instead of asking yourself why is this happening to me, shift the thoughts to, what can I learn from this experience. To heal from depression, for me personally through experience is to surround yourself with really really optimistic, supportive and positive people and definitely to find a hobby for yourself, something you're really passionate about, to release your stress aka a form of therapy. Lastly the most important is to not bottle up your feelings cause that bottle can only fill up so much, do express how you feel or open to people who is trust worthy cause I'm pretty sure you can't see your loved ones going through this as well. No matter what, remember that rainbow is coming, be patient and always treat yourself like how you'd treat your best friend. Have a good day. Much love ~ kie
Best advice ever!😊
I feel bad for joanna this happened my dad and my mom
My dads brothers treated my mother like an outsider even after their marriage and even take my dads will after he died we almost lost house but we got it back .it was rough
Hope ur family is okay now
Oh no ☹️ don't worry and stay strong
It still isnt but thanks
Hey there..! I really don't know who you are but you've gotta stay strong...NEVER LET YOUR FAMILY DOWN...YOU'VE GOT THIS!!!
"Why would i travel all the way to Taiwan just to make friends?" 😂
Zella Tan I died at this part too
Zella Tan ii. v v people in
So happy that Jo is happy now. Thank you for this episode. Pls do more of these chit chat sessions. Just loved the different experiences that you guys shared and the different hopes/dreams that you have. Would love to hear Rachel's opinions more. Hope everyone will reach a point where they are comfortable with themselves and just be who they are and be okay with who they love.
Jo, you're not alone, you still have your NOC frens and your fans!!!
Hey Joanna, I'm sorry to hear that you have gone through that very ugly experience. No one deserves anything like that.
I can only hope your hurt will heal soon and you'll end up in a love life that you desire.
Take care!
I really appreciate them doing this video. Sometimes in some countries, at a certain age or point in their life, where there's like a need to find a relationship or to be in one.
And it's hard to be single because some people think otherwise. So it's good to have a reminder that single isn't bad at all. It's up to us to see it through.
When Grace keeps on mentioning how Jo is happy now, it makes me feel like she is making it known that *coughs* AIKEN is making Jo really happy now. Shipping them all the way!
Joanna has a boyfriend already, she posted on her Instagram
Ju Wei omg really? AWWWW but nevertheless sooooo happy for her.
Honestly I just want to congratulate her for telling the truth about it(Jo)
Be strong Joanne...Now where is Aiken?????
I was wondering where too haha
sealwoon she has a boyfriend alrdy haha, she posted on her insta
Wen Yi Teh man...that’s soo sad 😢 I shipped them all the time 😭💔
1:38
Plot twist: Grace is allergic to flowers and he didn’t know
i'm proud of jo leh for like open up especially in front of the camera cause it's really not easy as it seems and just wanna say to the other girls out there no matter what people say about u remember you're beautiful just the way u are n don't let people words hurts u cause you're amazing♥️
1:08 chanyeols face is perfect for that drop
Hey atleast these ppl get stuff on Valentine's....then theres me who just celebrates with chugging down chips and icecream 😂
Wow all these breakup stories will definitely help people who went through a breakup, realise u are not alone. Btw it must have taken alot of courage for u all to share these breakup stories .
Wait, how old is grace... She looks young but... She has been dating for so long with her ex and current boyfriend... Six and seven years eh...
Asian genes
Wah she must be 30 alr hor.. 15 + 7 + 7
@@twothirdstrio Born in 1992 if I'm not mistaken
@@xlben10 as an Asian, I've to say this comment has gotten old and so outdated; that is getting cringe worthy 😷 I've seen Whites/Arabs/Latino(na) /Black who look half their age and younger looking than Asians 🙄
No offence, this doesn't apply to all Asian women but it is known throughout the globe that Asians does a lot under the knife (not saying others don't).
9:33 i kept replaying that part
Im so proud of jo usually girls will avoid telling their story but jo did it🥺❤️
the sehun and chanyeol’s pillow was adorable :3
omg searching for this comment 😭
3:06 HAHAHA jo became ‘clingy’ towards Isabelle 😂😂❤️
Great video! I totally feel what Joanna felt in her previous relationship. Almost the same story, my partner’s family saw one of my photos on Instagram and instantly judged me for who I am not. And of course I got to know this when my partner told me about it and I was mad. I couldn’t shout at her parents and I actually had to lie to my partner, telling her that it was fine and all. But deep down, it is not. She felt angry about her parents judging me in such a way but I can’t do anything about it other than to keep it all to myself. Not sure how this relationship is gonna work out, should I be meeting her parents soon. #leaveitalltogod
Thank you for sharing, can you please make another episode about toxic relationship, not just lovers but in general. How you guys deal with that?
Can’t stop staring at Chanyeol and Sehun pillow 😍
“Right from the start i knew that this wasnt going to work , bt i still insist going on this relationship” phewww i felt that ;,)
*please know that everyone deserves to be loved and will find happiness.
bt please try to find happiness and love in urself first ;)
i loved that when she said my face and stuff is not sharp everyone started shouting at the camera 😂
So I'm in a relationship for 3 years til now , and for the first year , we're so happy and no fighting and stuff ya know the sweetest things lol and then the next year of it both of us kinda off , like not text or talk to each other for a really long time and yeah on that time we're lost contact and then we find each other again and yeah sweet stuff yada yada so on and then this year we didn't talk much anymore it's like both of us are like stranger from calling sweet stuff like so happy and lovely to like a friend like normal friend not much , so idk if I should break up with him or not , but at the same time I don't want to hurt his feelings . So yeah idk what to do now
3 years in and you have this kind of relationship. Why waste time? Marriage isn't just a 3 year thing. Marriage is supposed to be until death. So if you don't see any future, why stay together?
how can u lose contact with someone u are dating...? are u sure he knows ur in a relationship? sounds like he has someone else with u on a side once he isnt lovey dovey anymore... then goes back to u when he single again
basically ur the side chick... so erase him outta ur brain n move on
Talk it out with him if you dont want to hurt his feelings. Tell him the thing that you feel. From the way I see it I think both of you doesnt really love each other anymore. Maybe there are still some love or affection but not as strong as before. Both of you afraid to be the one to end the relationship first. You have to place your own happiness first. Just tell him everything that you feel about the relationship and then end it. Dont think about what might others or him will think or react. Just focus on yourself. Dont drag yourself too long in a toxic relationship.
Talk about it with him
End it off like tell him that u just wanna be good friends
lmao, not @ how chanyeol was listening carefully along to each one of their confessions 💀💀
p.s i appreciate the casts' amount of courage and bravery to declare such desolate stories 🥺🥺
Clap, Clap, Clap. Everyone was frank about their relationships. They end the clip with a piece of good advice.
They're all so strong💕
So romantic....
Should have include Aiken in this video too
JO!! When I first watched you on NOC, I have always thought you are SUPER chio! Hugs!!
my biggest heartbreak was the noc cast elbowing the exo pillows
Proud of Grace for telling her story too
we need more content like thiss love it thankyou guys ❤️
I'M NOT CRYING!!ITS THE ONIONS !!
Omgggg! Gab that proposal tho 😱 is exactly how I wanted mine to be!
Everyone:Joanna is so strong
Me:is that BTS pillow they're hugging?
Don't get me wrong, I feel proud of Jo, but, I'm too much of an ARMY......
Fighting, Jo!
Isn’t that exo??
@@HeyitsShanelle I didn't look at it properly so I just guessed
Screw valentines. I'm doing great on my own. I don't deserve to love or to be loved. Just living my life to the fullest and i'm happy. That matters.
aww this is so special and meaningful and like everything someone says is all supported by their friends ahhhhh
love how they are hugging those exo pillows HAHAA
I broke up with my boyfriend and fell into depression. And whatever Joanna went through, I feel her.
joanna, dont worry just hug that chanyeol pillow more
I am one minute into this video and I know I am gonna cry....
Aiken.... go n comfort joanna! U have my approval!!♥️♥️♥️
I feel like my aunt which I'm very close with also smokes behind my back cause everytime I go to her bedroom and bathroom I can smell it.. And while I was using her bathroom I saw a pack of cigarettes behind the shampoo and conditioner
Gabriel , if you want to be late , be fashionably late
All of them are so brave at opening up and I’m so proud but on the other hand I keep on staring at the EXO pillows only 💀💀
7:41 GOOD REACTION GUYS !
Why your thumbnail makes it loook like Joanna was the one who said “ I saw him hugging a girl” when it’s not lol
I’m so sorry Joanna.. I know that u will find someone better. Cause ur beautiful and ofc nice. I wish this didn’t happen but I randomly did.
Im happy to see rachel back
Tot tht no one realise the exo pillows ❤ proud to be an exol man
Takes a lot guys to tell your own story, good job Joana!
Das: it's OK to be single
Me : NO ITS NOT, IM DAMN LONELY
i really like to see joanna & aiken can be together for true
The Pillow....wow just wow
Gabriel :I had a plan-
My head after the elections with memes : east coast plan
Gab:"*PROUD(VERY PROUD)
das:"HOI DONT BE SO PROUD ITS A SAD STORY!!!!"
imagine u wanna propose to rachel in a mountian during a sunset in a different country... u have to hire a professional photographer and pay for the flights of her family 😬🤣
seems very stressful proposal to me lol
Chanyeol pillows 😍😍😍
me staring at the two exo pillows 😍
chanyeol and sehun omg 🥺
Hahahahah!
exols? Omagosh
Same
Kpop is gay
Damn.. I’m watching this in public transport. I’m actually teary when Joanna cried.
9:04 this is like my dad he smoked a pack a day went to the bar everyday then repeat untill he died cuz of cancer (i was 8 months old at the time)
....
Edit: Why This has 111 Likes?
So you gonna get a girl or what?
Same i always reply to a comment and afterwards realise that i just replied to a 4 5 years old comment...
Those dots has deep meaning
joanna is so strong for sharing!
Cutest pillow ive ever seeeeeen
ISABELLE...you were great on reacting...!
Thumbnail:”I saw him hugging another girl”
Boyfriend:Can I have friends or what?
07:42 Isabelle so cute when in angry mode also... :)
omg y'all still have the chanyeol and sehun pillows
Love Isabelle!! She’s hilarious
Ok but u can’t have depression for 2 months, depression is not something that just goes away. U we’re sad, not depressed
That’s not true you know, sadness is completely different to depression. Depression can go away :/
since depression is a mental illness, which is like a physical illness, you’re saying the flu can’t go away
those exo pillows 😂😂😂😂😂
It’s okay Joanna .. you still have AIKEN👀❤️🥰
Isabelle "EH WAHLAO WHOSE MOTHER DO THAT AH"
I love rachel so much shes so classy
I'm available and no cheater!
rachel sitting one corner not knowing what happening
Isabel is such a mood HAHA
Personally my dealbreaker is that if the guy smokes, drinks heavily, gambles or cheats it's a no. Kind of dangerous to date a guy like that imo
felt what jo said tbh, considering ive just went thru a break up
edit 1:
short story time,
first ever girlfriend i had, man it was such a fucked up rs man, i was forced to be with her even tho i didnt want to, it was so god damn toxic sia , every week cfm argue etc, i had to find a way to love her and ended up doing so a bit, and ended up getting dumped :)
i know it’s easier said than done but, know your self worth and don’t settle for anything less. i hope you’re okay now :)
Awwww Joanna don’t cry 🥺🥺
Most ppl dont really talk about the trauma and the depression of being cheated on.
Aiken, Foodking goooood~~~
Well, I would never want to be in a relationship ever again. I have been dumped 4 times for the same reason, for another guy. So I don't think I can trust people when they say they want to be a relationship with me
at least u got relationship lol..
@@TWJYILY but they were not good ones , I don't want to feel like that again...
love team NOC
I can't stop laughing at joanna cuz it reminded me of the "you just have to say that you're fine" meme.
Wish this episode was longer
It's okay Das, I feel u.
#friendzonegang
WHOSE THE EXOL IN NOC
SEHUN AND CHANYEOL!!!!!
Gabirel is here after knock out haha
And yes I'm watching this during the pandemic