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  • @ms_islandgirlxo
    @ms_islandgirlxo Місяць тому +41

    When a “perceived” unwanted thing comes up;
    STOP-pause. Do not blindly spiral into reacting. This is an opportunity to stand in my power.
    DROP- Drop into stillness. That calm place with-in where all my power is.
    ROLL- Roll through by responding calmly to whatever is happening and know that I have already made the choice within & that’s all that matters.

    • @TowannaLashel
      @TowannaLashel Місяць тому +1

      Thank youuu! I appreciate this!

    • @dnwanja
      @dnwanja Місяць тому +2

      So good❤️

    • @binha9096
      @binha9096 Місяць тому +2

      Wow , I appreciate you posting this detailed steps .

  • @anotherfoolishmortal5437
    @anotherfoolishmortal5437 Місяць тому +21

    My initial takeaway from this is that it’s not the desire that is the “problem “-we all know there are no problems-it is the reaction to not having the desire that blocks you from being it. 💡

  • @TowannaLashel
    @TowannaLashel Місяць тому +14

    With this video.. Ive noticed that with family, people and certain situations my reactions vs responding has been getting better ... everything's not a battle...everything's not an argument... everythings not urgent...and sonethings dont require a response. The going within has helped me with that. Thx Rosie!

  • @belicia.
    @belicia. 9 днів тому

    Change starts from within, if I do not go within I go without.

  • @Google990g
    @Google990g Місяць тому +6

    38:33 silence mode, my favorite, when you are faced with the unwanted thoughts feeling circumstance, you have the luxury of saying wait a minute this is not me anymore. It’s just not me. And I don’t have to be anything else. I’m just nothing I like to stay there for a while in the nothing. And then remind yourself of who you truly are you are the person who has their desires from there. You can assume your desires and embody them. ❤

  • @jsthankfultoeat
    @jsthankfultoeat 29 днів тому +1

    Money IS and ALWAYS IS - FREE, EASY, ABUNDANT AND MULTIPLYING FOR me and definitely you too 🤗

  • @redvikingprincess741
    @redvikingprincess741 15 днів тому

    I was just guided to listen to “Stillness Speaks”… then this video!!! So powerful!

  • @bernadettemulraney1066
    @bernadettemulraney1066 Місяць тому +15

    OMG it's the feeling that I have blockages

  • @dianahcloer
    @dianahcloer Місяць тому +6

    What you said at 19:11 made me think of a quote that my dad loved “When God fixes a fix to fix you, and you fix the fix before it fixes you, God has to fix another fix to fix you”. This is a quote from the Christian minister Bob Mumford. As you said in your example “Because you are still the same old version of you someone else is replacing that person that is even more annoying”. Thank you so much for these reminders. I had so many take aways from this video.

  • @Sheilakhanyi
    @Sheilakhanyi Місяць тому +4

    My takeaway is that ive been giving my power to things/persons through sulking, whining and refusing to be satisfied on the inside until I see outside proof therefore I've turned things/persons into false gods. Thou shall have no other gods before I Am🤯 Thank you 🌹❤

  • @ira4600
    @ira4600 Місяць тому +5

    Note to self: energy = awareness. React = keeping that alive.
    Drop into nothingness

  • @ladyofrange7633
    @ladyofrange7633 Місяць тому +5

    I already know who I am! Or I wouldn't be here #PERIOD

  • @Simply-Sammie
    @Simply-Sammie Місяць тому +5

    REACTING.... RE-ACTING - WTF Rose?!?!?! My RE ACTIONS are simply me RE-ACTING (take one million... take one million and one... take one million & two...) 😱🤯😱🤯 I will NEVER unknow this again! I am keeping myself stuck in the same friggen loop and then wondering why things don't change!
    I know this stuff ïntellectually" but I haven't been practicing all that I preach to others via helping them in the comments... It's time I focus on ME. It's time I become my own success story! It's time I stop this RE-ACTing because it's killing me slowly!!!
    THANK YOU ROSEY!!!!!

  • @nickietigg
    @nickietigg Місяць тому +4

    This has only truly clicked for me this last week. I feel like a light switch has been flicked and now I am awake. I hear this video so differently to your others I have previously. It’s magical ❤

    • @Simply-Sammie
      @Simply-Sammie Місяць тому +1

      Yes!!!! Thats exactly how I feel listening to this... It seems as though each time i listen, a new message/nugget is revealed to me... it's honestly blowing my mind

  • @ladyc09
    @ladyc09 Місяць тому +1

    Respond (choose) not React (looking for something outside of oneself to change) 💡🤯

  • @LilianaMenegon
    @LilianaMenegon Місяць тому +2

    Wait. I've got an A-ha moment.
    The meaning of life is mastering myself? !
    It's not the manifestation itself, money, houses, or whatever?
    Knowing that I am God by staying still all I have to do is mastering this persona I am playing?
    Knowing the emotions and mastering them, knowing how look at things and mastering them?
    That's it!
    All of this in this right moment. Where is God? Is here right now in me. Where are all my desires? Right here right now.
    Learning to master my self.
    Thank you Rosey. 😍❤️❤️

  • @Simply-Sammie
    @Simply-Sammie Місяць тому +2

    He is doing all the work... He is awakening inside of me... From me, in me, through me...

  • @JerseyCoastalLiving
    @JerseyCoastalLiving Місяць тому +2

    I know that dropping into the silence is home base. It has served me well. Thanks for continuing to hone in on our power with such clarity

  • @helengreen5735
    @helengreen5735 Місяць тому +3

    My biggest shifts and manifestations come during or right after reacting… especially a big reaction, like a tantrum or meltdown 😂
    It’s actually happens more this way than when I’m practicing being still (and I do practice being still, or ‘resting in and as the presence of God’ as I call it) multiple times a day, just because I enjoy it.
    But I’m absolutely fine with reacting too!
    Just a few days ago I reacted massively to my partner and we had an argument because of me reacting, and I got really upset.
    Just after that, I had a meeting at my son’s school about an ongoing issue that for months I wasn’t able to sort out. Well… I was so tired and exhausted from the tantrum with my partner, that I had no energy left for the meeting. I just went in and decided I would just agree with whatever they said as I couldn’t be bothered with more arguments!
    They literally gave me exactly what I’d been wanting the outcome to be within the first few minutes of the meeting, and without me saying anything at all! I couldn’t believe it!
    I put it down to the reaction and subsequent argument with my partner… I’d released something with him, and went into the meeting with no fight left in me… and because of that, exactly what I wanted manifested.
    My son was overjoyed, so was I, and my partner text me and apologised for the argument right after the meeting.
    So… ok I don’t go round reacting all over the place. I am still mostly! But if a reaction happens so suddenly that’s it’s in full swing before I realise, or if I just really need to react, then I will, and deep down I know this is leading to something amazing.
    I have so many stories about how a tantrum led to a manifestation, or how something manifested right in the middle of a big reaction.
    Seems to go against what I’ve heard many teachers say over the years, but that’s my experience and that’s the only truth for me.
    I love you Rose, and all your videos! I love your energy and humour! I just wanted to share my experiences with reacting X

    • @Adventureswithmarlaandi
      @Adventureswithmarlaandi Місяць тому +1

      I think the point is you let go as you said you were so exhausted you didn’t care anymore. That I think was the final factor -letting go

    • @helengreen5735
      @helengreen5735 Місяць тому +1

      @@Adventureswithmarlaandiyes I think so. Reacting can cause a release, or to let go. It’s happened to me often.
      But I wouldn’t want to be over-reacting all the time. Stillness is beautiful and home, but if a reaction does occur… I’m ok with it now and just look to see where it leads.

  • @rac02
    @rac02 Місяць тому +2

    I think I listened to this video about 3 times today. They're real lessons and great for remembering! Thank you Rose!

  • @1andOnlyTotality
    @1andOnlyTotality Місяць тому +2

    One of the big insights I’ve had is that even things like our feelings or our reactions are part of the old self. We often end up reacting to our reactions. Even more experienced people start wondering “how do I stop reacting??” Which is a reacting to their reactions. We just have to be still and watch them go. The loops then collapse.
    When you feel something, are you going to play along with it? Or recognize it’s an old program on repeat and be still and know it’s all good. It can be there, whatever. It’ll lose steam if you don’t play into it, try to figure it out, run away from it, etc.

  • @Simply-Sammie
    @Simply-Sammie Місяць тому +1

    32:09 say whaaaaaaaaaaaat😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
    What an incredible perspective... It gives me so much internal peace to "see" it this way❤

  • @Maya-cp9sf
    @Maya-cp9sf 16 днів тому

    Amazing!! Love this message!❤️❤️❤️

  • @bernadettemulraney1066
    @bernadettemulraney1066 Місяць тому +6

    Thank you❤❤ awesome lesson. It's brought me back into my place of stillness♥️♥️♥️

  • @SoulMetro-9
    @SoulMetro-9 Місяць тому +2

    Woooo!!! You are so on the money with your teaching!!

  • @JennyAngel
    @JennyAngel Місяць тому

    "How do you expect your reality to change, to look differently, if you won't see it differently?" Exactly. Seeing it differently, feeling it differently, is the only way to get different results. I think it was Einstein that said, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." We may not be insane, but it feels like it when we keep doing the same thing again and again. I also liked the term "vending machine manifesting." I fell into that trap before I found you; a quick fix here, more reassurance there, instead of going to the only place that matters: within. Very grateful for you, and how you reminded me of who I Am. It's a whole new world and life knowing I am the one in control of it all. Reacting vs Responding. I choose responding now. Thank you, Rose. xo

  • @strawberryletter2270
    @strawberryletter2270 Місяць тому

    What I learned from the video
    You at your core is greatness and have the power to manifest anything.
    No matter what you see in the 3D that got you in your feelings, feeling depressed, feeling like it's the end of the world learn to acknowledge your feelings while staying unloyal to it to manifest your greatest and smallest desires.
    If you are looking or searching for a better method or technique to manifest there is none because the power is in believing in the possibility that what you intend for will manifest....it's okay to fall in and out of your state just remember who you ARE and detach and your desire will appear

  • @belladonna00
    @belladonna00 Місяць тому

    lol Rose, “Stop! Drop and roll!” is one of my lines for the fire safety instructor I play in a live theatre production 🔥😮

  • @patrice_douglas
    @patrice_douglas Місяць тому +3

    I genuinely did hear it 'loud and clear' today. Thanks Rose.

  • @Clarabear1111
    @Clarabear1111 Місяць тому +2

    God bless you Rosey. You are so creative with your messages

  • @sandraherrmann5885
    @sandraherrmann5885 Місяць тому +1

    Wow! 🌹 Rose 🌹 That was powerful! I just felt the power deeply! Sorry in case that my english is not the best. I‘m good in understandig but not in writing or speaking because i have not much practice. Lovely Greetings from Germany ❤

  • @sevi4492
    @sevi4492 Місяць тому +1

    I must stop giving my I AM, my Source to other situations & people!!! 🙏Thank you Rose 🌹 for this Important message

  • @AmethystLove888
    @AmethystLove888 Місяць тому +1

    Thankyou for giving me reall advice i can use for my life long term so many youtubers just use clickbait i really appreciate your sharing your wisdom ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ so much love for u

  • @AmethystLove888
    @AmethystLove888 Місяць тому +2

    Thankyou SO MUCH

  • @jazdown
    @jazdown Місяць тому

    Wow!! I needed this sooo much, I really appreciate your insight. Timing couldn’t have been better for me.

  • @turningpoint108
    @turningpoint108 Місяць тому

    This is another must see video for self mastery.
    Reaction vs Response
    Stephen covey mentions Between stimulus and response there lies a gap and in that gap you have the Power to choose. Though I have known this years before I still slip into reactive behaviour at certain times ,though in lesser occasions.
    Yes it was also a technique.
    In today's video you clarified the base behind them and when we KNOW who we are we RESPOND and stop reacting. This understanding is necessary and you explained in a beautiful way. Thank you so much.🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @roycearthur8060
    @roycearthur8060 21 день тому

    WOW!. Amazing View Behind you Roesy. Beautiful 😊💝

  • @TowannaLashel
    @TowannaLashel Місяць тому +1

    Thank for the breakdown explaining emotional Intelligence! I appreciate this Rose!

  • @pixiepeacock8354
    @pixiepeacock8354 Місяць тому

    Light bulb again. I choose stillness. Thank you for the reminder. I am stillness. That is my go to.

  • @jsthankfultoeat
    @jsthankfultoeat 28 днів тому

    So GOOD, rewatching ❤

  • @ginazapras5995
    @ginazapras5995 Місяць тому +1

    I needed this today - Lightbulb moments! Ps love the horse/water story.

  • @DaraPaquette
    @DaraPaquette Місяць тому +1

    WOW. Really needed to hear this today. Thanks for waking me up!

  • @reneefrancis2949
    @reneefrancis2949 Місяць тому

    28:21 I’m going to keep replaying this video it is needed ❤❤

  • @Amul6999
    @Amul6999 Місяць тому +1

    This video came up exactly when I wanted to hear it 🙏🏼😇 thank you so much

  • @florencechilyanga6893
    @florencechilyanga6893 Місяць тому +1

    I awaken the Greater me within to take control of my life situations ❤❤ Rosey you're freaking Amazing and thanks ❤❤

  • @alexandrasky4952
    @alexandrasky4952 Місяць тому +2

    Love this! I feel so relaxed after watching this. I reacted to something yesterday and now I feel so calm... and still! Thank you!

  • @SarahMichel-nu4dh
    @SarahMichel-nu4dh Місяць тому

    wow thank you so much, at the moment I feel my heart beating lake crazy and I can still decide to be still, I never had this.

  • @Midnight_starlight_888
    @Midnight_starlight_888 Місяць тому +1

    Stop 🛑 drop 🙂‍↕️within 🙂‍↔️ lol I love this ty rose 🌹 the stillness the levity you bring . Thank you so . Lol this is such a fun was to say it reminds me of the stop drop and roll lol lol appreciate you

  • @demigodubermensch
    @demigodubermensch Місяць тому +1

    Beautifully explained, Rose!

  • @Google990g
    @Google990g Місяць тому

    20:54 this!!!! ❤❤

  • @reneefrancis2949
    @reneefrancis2949 Місяць тому +1

    Ughhhh I needed to hear this earlier but it’s never to late ❤❤

  • @stephanie-m1d9y
    @stephanie-m1d9y Місяць тому

    Powerfull!! See you on the infinite 8!!!th

  • @Midnight_starlight_888
    @Midnight_starlight_888 Місяць тому +1

    Dropping in 🙌

  • @TheRisingFenix
    @TheRisingFenix Місяць тому

    I am in a emotionally abusive relationship, and suffering from PTSD as a result of some “thing” that occurred. I have gone to some psychotherapy which seemed to only make things worse for me. I have been working so hard with all the free tools that I can find, but because I still have to live with this person, I just can’t seem to get out of this trauma cycle. It’s costing me everything and I have no idea what to do or where to turn.

  • @Kazzaro
    @Kazzaro Місяць тому

    Wow, Wow, Wow! All of your content is on point Rose! But this!!! I wish I would have listened earlier today but considering there is no time or space I know I can revise the reactions that I had today. Say no to any other gods/stop giving OUR power away! I will be listening to this video every day until it really sinks in! I mean, I am aware of all that you spoke on but dear lord putting it into practice is key! I was extremely PO’ed earlier and even knowing what I know & how I was keeping it in place I was pissed all day long. 😂
    So now, Listening to you before I fall asleep and going to revise this day as PERFECT!
    Thank you & may all your blessings be experienced by you continuously! 😊

  • @annamarles8718
    @annamarles8718 Місяць тому +2

    So once you stop being reactive and start to choose, would it make sense to just choose to replace all the unwanted thoughts/emotions and 3d circumstances with being grateful and satisfied no matter the 3d circumstances? Or does this contradict what you are manifesting? This video did help explain why just being still wasn't always helping me. I was not shifting the way I was seeing a circumstance because I wasn't choosing differently. ❤

  • @DrQueenLuna
    @DrQueenLuna Місяць тому

    I known that I Am Hod and therefore I Am still!!

  • @belindavanvelzen5257
    @belindavanvelzen5257 Місяць тому

    You are diamant so so powerfull thanks Angel Rose❤

  • @lenaromanovaa
    @lenaromanovaa Місяць тому

    Honestly,sometimes I get exasperated by the human experience 😅. I'm a logical individual and sometimes I really would like to just turn emotions off. But I've been practicing being still and it really works. I still get angry though and my higher is always like, "you're being childish" 😅
    Anyway,thank you Rose. Mastering my self is a lifetime practice that I intend to master so thank you for your help 🥰
    My insight would be not throwing tantrums because that is not going to help me,being still and mastering my thoughts to. I can very well CHOOSE to direct my attention to my end result if I really want to.

  • @smithy7034
    @smithy7034 Місяць тому

    🏅🏅🏅Gold! Gold! Gold! I've got this💡Everything changes from now. Responding, a life skill. Thank you God.

  • @dnwanja
    @dnwanja Місяць тому +1

    Powerful powerful. ❤️

  • @AmethystLove888
    @AmethystLove888 Місяць тому +1

    ❤ you rosey

  • @3DMotivationalUniverse
    @3DMotivationalUniverse Місяць тому +2

    Pure Gold❤❤❤

  • @HAMILTONPROVIDEO
    @HAMILTONPROVIDEO Місяць тому

    I tend to be the band-aid person. It works mentally, and I've experienced good external changes, like finding out that my assumptions about people actually do affect my interactions with them. But I'm kind of stuck on other things though.
    I listened to a guided meditation by Joe dispenza once. It seemed like an uneventfull 5 minutes but more like an hour had gone by. It's like time had been removed. I've tried to get there again and nothing happens. I just fall asleep. No special enlightenment or anything so I quit. Maybe that's the problem. I'm looking for bright shiney objects in the store window.

  • @ticianabiliczivkovic9408
    @ticianabiliczivkovic9408 Місяць тому

    Lightbulb moment❤

  • @Hanane_Avril
    @Hanane_Avril 4 дні тому

    I love your glasses! Can I ask where you got them? 🤍

  • @MSJuliesential
    @MSJuliesential Місяць тому

    Hello, I am new to the field of law, everything seems to be clear, you need to be aware of yourself as a person who has a wish fulfilled, for example, the phrase "I am rich, healthy", etc., but how to apply this approach to another person if I am not friends with visualization? And I also have some difficulties with the very fulfillment of a wish, I am a 36-year-old woman, and I want to return to the appearance of a 25-year-old girl, but I do not want to use facial plastic botox or something else like that, it seems to be simple, but for example Neville said that when and how is none of your business, but in my case, the trigger is also time, how did you cope with thoughts like "you want the impossible, it doesn't happen that way, etc." at the initial stages? especially when you're surrounded by people who don't believe in the law of assumption at all?

  • @PFunk-pg7tu
    @PFunk-pg7tu Місяць тому +1

    Heck Yeah!!

  • @JerseyCoastalLiving
    @JerseyCoastalLiving Місяць тому

    Stop, drop and roll…wow

  • @carlalouise9870
    @carlalouise9870 Місяць тому

    Am i hearing this right, so when faced with (enter circumstance) lets say my mum says something negative agaisnt something im manifesting.. insttof reacting and getting defensive, i just stop - take a breath, drop into silence and then just roll with what she said cus if i had already manifested this "problem away" why would i react? Its old news right?

  • @claudias799
    @claudias799 Місяць тому

    ❤🎉thank you.

  • @funnymanricktwo
    @funnymanricktwo Місяць тому +5

    You can't force a horse.

    • @funnymanricktwo
      @funnymanricktwo Місяць тому

      So if I go into that darkness I won't get evicted from my apartment in fifteen days? I really want that to work. I'm there right now. In the darkness.

    • @funnymanricktwo
      @funnymanricktwo Місяць тому +1

      @@Beinasuniverse thank you. I get what you're saying. I can change the outcome.

    •  Місяць тому +2

      @@funnymanricktwoyou can only change yourself.

    • @funnymanricktwo
      @funnymanricktwo Місяць тому

      By changing myself.

  • @joebloggs4300
    @joebloggs4300 Місяць тому

    I have to affirm 24/7. I can't do it just 2 or 3 times a day

    • @TheRoseyLife
      @TheRoseyLife  Місяць тому +2

      Ok

    • @AmethystLove888
      @AmethystLove888 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@TheRoseyLife lol

    • @AmethystLove888
      @AmethystLove888 Місяць тому +1

      @@Marmy123 perfect explanation 👌 👏 👍

    • @AmethystLove888
      @AmethystLove888 Місяць тому +1

      @@Marmy123 yes I agree

    • @joebloggs4300
      @joebloggs4300 Місяць тому

      @@Marmy123 It's not exhausting to affirm robotically. I don't try to feel or imagine anything. I found the limiting thoughts exhausting.

  • @bhaskarraoannamaneni7232
    @bhaskarraoannamaneni7232 Місяць тому +1

    Can I manifest not going school tomorrow ¿

  • @ashwathirao1285
    @ashwathirao1285 Місяць тому

    Mam , am so afraid of physics , it’s an important subject for me to crack my exam , the exam is nearby and I have not yet started my prep , I mean whenever I start doing problems I just can’t solve anything what do I do , how do I manifest to crack the exam effortlessly ❤❤ plss help , and btw I love ur content 🌹

    • @TheRoseyLife
      @TheRoseyLife  Місяць тому +2

      I used to be afraid of math. I thought I’d never pass or graduate but then I just decided I will some how. I don’t know how but I just kept going with that new decision no matter what.

  • @shirishaannamaneni9996
    @shirishaannamaneni9996 Місяць тому

    How do i manifest cracking an exam that is very important, effortlessly although all the circumstances are against it , with limited time ti study?! I mean taking action s is required?!

  • @HAMILTONPROVIDEO
    @HAMILTONPROVIDEO Місяць тому

    Rosey,
    When I go into the dark place I'm seeing a lot of random pixelated abstract shapes moving around. Is that just my mind looking into a busy store window? I can't seem to experience nothing, which is what I want, right?

  • @SeanPalmerLOFI
    @SeanPalmerLOFI Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @ashwathirao1285
    @ashwathirao1285 Місяць тому

    Plss mam , help me , am procrastinating to study , and then I regret about it , which makes me hopeless about me getting into my dream college and doubtful about manifesting it , what do I do ¿ how do I crack the exam effortlessly with limited study , and make every situation go in favour to me ❤

  • @fufuful8443
    @fufuful8443 Місяць тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤