Also, in Bluey season two episode nine bingo goes to Mom who is the son and feels loved and warm and happy and then realizes that it’s time for her parentheses bingo parentheses to go back now and that back is a little broken up pieces of her that she goes inside and then begins to pull back together around herself
What is the age of daycare? Or we should not give childreb to daycare at all? And for babysitter, after being with mother for 2 years, will babysitter be a healthy choice?
I ask myself, do my eyes want to smile or is there a fake smile on my face - or no smile at all. If I don’t have joy in my soul, then I feel angry, anxious, and bitter or depressed. I have to stop and check my sleep, stress, vitamins, body pain, loneliness, and read the Bible. Listening to music, juggling, and watching a comedy show like Chanda Pierce can help. My mom was home for several years but she wasn’t close to us emotionally. She was stressed, traumatized by her family situation growing up, and didn’t enjoy our companionship when we were kids. She didn’t get her personal self-worth from being a Mom, she started working outside of the home when we were old enough for me to babysit. She still thinks she had to go to work so she could help pay for things - but everything she paid for was just a replacement for how much we needed a mom who wasn’t afraid to emotionally engage with us. The result wasn’t the worst, but definitely not the best. Even as adults, her kids are still grieving the absent mother feelings and struggling with adulthood.
It means mirroring what they feel and go through. Letting them know they are worthwhile. Noticing how they are special , giving comfort when they need it , encouragement to do scary things… when they are sad you look sad too and say I see you’re feeling really upset but it’s all going to be ok , we’ll find your toy , not saying oh forget it it’s a stupid toy . Recognize what’s important to them
Also, in Bluey season two episode nine bingo goes to Mom who is the son and feels loved and warm and happy and then realizes that it’s time for her parentheses bingo parentheses to go back now and that back is a little broken up pieces of her that she goes inside and then begins to pull back together around herself
Have you watched Bluey Season 2 episode 9? The mum is depicted as the great glowing Sun in Bingo’s dream of the universe.
What is the age of daycare? Or we should not give childreb to daycare at all?
And for babysitter, after being with mother for 2 years, will babysitter be a healthy choice?
What does it mean to be there emotionally?
I ask myself, do my eyes want to smile or is there a fake smile on my face - or no smile at all. If I don’t have joy in my soul, then I feel angry, anxious, and bitter or depressed. I have to stop and check my sleep, stress, vitamins, body pain, loneliness, and read the Bible. Listening to music, juggling, and watching a comedy show like Chanda Pierce can help.
My mom was home for several years but she wasn’t close to us emotionally. She was stressed, traumatized by her family situation growing up, and didn’t enjoy our companionship when we were kids. She didn’t get her personal self-worth from being a Mom, she started working outside of the home when we were old enough for me to babysit. She still thinks she had to go to work so she could help pay for things - but everything she paid for was just a replacement for how much we needed a mom who wasn’t afraid to emotionally engage with us. The result wasn’t the worst, but definitely not the best. Even as adults, her kids are still grieving the absent mother feelings and struggling with adulthood.
Thank you for this beautiful answer 🙏🏻♥️ I deeply resonate.
It means mirroring what they feel and go through. Letting them know they are worthwhile. Noticing how they are special , giving comfort when they need it , encouragement to do scary things… when they are sad you look sad too and say I see you’re feeling really upset but it’s all going to be ok , we’ll find your toy , not saying oh forget it it’s a stupid toy . Recognize what’s important to them