The Proud Family Class Wars Episode 💎💎💎

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  • Опубліковано 20 лис 2023
  • My reaction to the Proud Family Behind the Lines episode where Trudy's bougie side and Oscar's ghetto side of the family came to visit. Let's discuss this. Please don't forget to comment, like and subscribe. Thank You!!!
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  • @TonyTurner
    @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +137

    I felt this would be the perfect episode to discuss with the holidays coming up. Hope yall have a great Thanksgiving ‼🦃

    • @ultimatebishoujo29
      @ultimatebishoujo29 7 місяців тому +4

      Hope you have a great Thanksgiving too

    • @sharon_draws_stuff_
      @sharon_draws_stuff_ 7 місяців тому +3

      Thank you, you as well! Safe travels. Love your videos!

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +5

      @@sharon_draws_stuff_ Thank You ‼

    • @yusukeGum
      @yusukeGum 6 місяців тому

      In this episode the original proud family it was very cliche there were times the difference between ghetto black people and bougie black people those that are from the hood they can also be classy just because some people are not rich it doesn't mean they cannot be classy they can and they can also afford some expensive things not everything but Some
      And those bougie they could also be humble an arrogant just like you see on TV reality how rich people live like the Kardashian or young famous rich African it's a Netflix TV reality it shows how do wealthiest people live
      There are also are elites that are down to earth and humble but there are also lower class people are not really humble at the time but it's very cliche in this episode the days of Thanksgiving

    • @yusukeGum
      @yusukeGum 6 місяців тому

      I do not think we should be fooled because if you see in movies on TV series warranty reality sometimes rich people they have a wild lifestyle I'm also not rich or not part of the higher class group but I can be classy at the Times well let's just say I could be wild but I am not that wild

  • @smt64productions40
    @smt64productions40 7 місяців тому +411

    “If we can get along, how come you grown ups can’t”
    Adults are more petty than kids

    • @missebone
      @missebone 7 місяців тому +18

      Facts

    • @cartoonishclaude
      @cartoonishclaude 7 місяців тому +28

      Sadly, that line still holds up today.

    • @Heraldo_Del_Mar
      @Heraldo_Del_Mar 4 місяці тому +9

      Yeah. Never always believe ignorant grown ups when they say "respect your elders".

    • @thingwithahoodie
      @thingwithahoodie 4 місяці тому +2

      FrFr

    • @gunnasintern
      @gunnasintern 2 місяці тому

      Adults are just grown kids that try to put up a front for the sake of societal approval

  • @shakeymistakey3881
    @shakeymistakey3881 7 місяців тому +520

    I just wish Trudy would’ve defended Oscar more against her family instead of being angry that he brought his family as backup lol

    • @ultimatebishoujo29
      @ultimatebishoujo29 7 місяців тому +24

      I know what you mean

    • @yourlocalfatshionista
      @yourlocalfatshionista 6 місяців тому +31

      Idk, the whole series shows Oscar as a pretty garbage husband. Like the episode where Trudy hires a nanny, he should have been stepping his pitiful butt to the table. He invited them without a word. He could have given her a little warning BEFORE, letting her know he wanted more support, but he's always super selfish.

    • @leavemealone802
      @leavemealone802 6 місяців тому +21

      Nah mate, Trudy is so freaking unfair to Oscar and shows him little to no support.

    • @jay2neak
      @jay2neak 6 місяців тому +8

      @@yourlocalfatshionista Let's not put all the blame on Oscar for once.

    • @Abner-gu3ve
      @Abner-gu3ve 3 місяці тому +8

      @@yourlocalfatshionistathe fact that you have to bring up examples of Oscar’s bad behavior from other episodes when they have no relation to this one invalidates yo argument

  • @YourWaywardDestiny
    @YourWaywardDestiny 7 місяців тому +576

    "MY child could never..." mentality is wild no matter who it comes from, but particularly frustrating from people who are well off, I find. Kids aren't immune to trouble making no matter what their background is. There's just something about assuming your bank account means you are doing the best job parenting that makes me feral. A child provided for =/= no wild hairs will make it up a teenager's butt. Kids all have to learn from their parents, what toys they have at home won't amend that! It's no less wrong from middle and lower class parents, but they at least have to come up with more creative excuses than "my class prevents it" sort of thing.

    • @alexismyers6053
      @alexismyers6053 7 місяців тому +15

      Grandma and I were watching something the other day and a woman had that attitude. I told grandma “when I have kids, if they get in trouble, I am absolutely being honest about what they are and aren’t capable of. If the cops come to my house with my kid, telling me they were caught stealing cars and joy riding, if my kid is the type to do that, I will ABSOLUTELY admit that to the cops. If the police come to me saying they suspect my child of murder and they are absolutely the type, my response to them will be ‘I’m not surprised. Here let me give you the addresses of where you’re likely to find my spawn of Satan.’ But I will NEVER have that attitude about my kid’s behavior.”

    • @tulip811
      @tulip811 7 місяців тому +5

      People who say that have literally slept through their whole life

    • @adamethridge7824
      @adamethridge7824 7 місяців тому +2

      My child could never they most certainly did they led the mission the others just followed suit

    • @user-sn1fy1gm9d
      @user-sn1fy1gm9d 7 місяців тому +2

      @@alexismyers6053 yeah, of course, but saying he has always been like tgat is givibg a flase testimony. You can say that you have never witnessed your child doing something similar and still acknowledge they have become a troblemaker/threat

    • @alexismyers6053
      @alexismyers6053 7 місяців тому

      @@user-sn1fy1gm9d no it isn’t. Kids do bad things. Whether they respond to correction or not depends on a lot of factors, but there are kids who just cannot be corrected. Look up Marry Bell. I think it was Investigation Discovery that had a whole serious about how a child can be a murderer. And if you look at a lot of cases of criminals, you’ll find that many of them either came from an abusive home, have a history of increasingly bad behavior, or both. That’s why police look for past behavioral problems when they have a suspect in custody. There are kids who are often very bad. Saying that it’s “false testimony” to point that out is ridiculous!
      Also, where TF did I even say “he’s always like that”? In both of my comments, that phrase was NOT mentioned AT ALL.

  • @pusheenqueen519
    @pusheenqueen519 7 місяців тому +335

    I liked this episode, it had some funny moments and I like how it doesn't make one side exactly "right". On both ends the families are being judgemental, not willing to compromise on petty stuff, or don't even try to put in the effort to get along. No one's necessarily the bad guy, just flawed people trying to get through a family gathering.

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +41

      Right ‼ working out their issues through fighting, talking or both

  • @cartoonishclaude
    @cartoonishclaude 7 місяців тому +67

    This episode proved that adults can be just as immature as kids at times.

  • @2FINE4YOUBABYGIRL
    @2FINE4YOUBABYGIRL 7 місяців тому +74

    Worth noting that members of Trudy’s family have lighter complexion and are thinner, which dovetails with the trope that lighter skin black people are wealthier, more educated and more mannered. This seems like an intentional choice on the writers part.

    • @oooh19
      @oooh19 5 місяців тому

      And in white culture people want to be tan so it’s the opposite

    • @MorganRimming
      @MorganRimming 2 місяці тому +3

      Also, it's important to add that when you are weather you can afford higher quality food, trainers, gym memberships, and plastic surgery. That is the main thing. Wealth gives you access that being underprivileged would never allow you to get.

    • @ShaftCommander
      @ShaftCommander 16 днів тому

      When you’re wealthier, you are generally more educated and well mannered. It’s not that surprising.

  • @medtle1
    @medtle1 7 місяців тому +226

    We need more episodes exploring penny's other relatives, especially on trudy's side of the family. Might be difficult with the deaths of trudy's parents' voice actors, but it is still possible to pull off. [And we need to know what happened to sista spice.]

    • @jordancampbell8597
      @jordancampbell8597 7 місяців тому +20

      I think Sista Spice was retconned out of existence with the new show. Which is actually fine with me, since it lets me consider the sequel non-canon, or at least, existing in a separate canon.

    • @medtle1
      @medtle1 7 місяців тому +5

      @@jordancampbell8597 That sounds possible. Would be cool if she made an appearance in the show though. [If she was retconned, she could be a different character in the new show; similar to how the rugrats reboot age-swapped kimi and susie and changed Charlotte's job.]

    • @itspikachutime5624
      @itspikachutime5624 7 місяців тому +2

      I would be kinda disappointed if she’s retconned but it’s starting to kinda seem that way considering we got a whole two parter about suga mamas past and sista spice wasn’t even so much as a back ground character.

    • @helenaprudenciado4388
      @helenaprudenciado4388 2 місяці тому +2

      Maybe Sista Spice was disowned out of the Towne family for her misdeeds.

  • @theekiaraashow
    @theekiaraashow 6 місяців тому +24

    OMG “bouj-ghetto” took me DOWN! When I first moved to Texas as I was moving into my new apartment folks was saying “welcome to the bouj-ghetto” I was very confused but I SOON found out

  • @meganshaw1949
    @meganshaw1949 7 місяців тому +79

    I found it interesting that when Penny and her cousins got into trouble that Penny was in the middle while her two cousins were on the sides. It just showed that she’s a really good mix of her mom’s side and her dad’s side.

  • @Kiddynamite432
    @Kiddynamite432 7 місяців тому +112

    This episode is one of my FAVORITE episodes from the show! It definitely rings true for me because my mom's side of the family is the more bougie and my dad's side is more ghetto.
    Sidenote: The guest stars for Trudy and Oscar's Families were off the HOOK! Shery Lee Ralph, Wendy Raquel Robinson, Robert Guillame (RIP), Cicely Tyson (RIP), David Alan Grier, Solange, Anthony Anderson, Jamal Mixon, AND Mo'Nique?!!! Proud Family always came through with the casting!

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +15

      They had the best guest stars

  • @weeping.angel27
    @weeping.angel27 7 місяців тому +109

    I believe everyone's family goes through class wars.

    • @ultimatebishoujo29
      @ultimatebishoujo29 7 місяців тому +10

      I agree

    • @okami-chan9772
      @okami-chan9772 7 місяців тому +13

      I agree 100%, my little brother hated my dad's bougie-middle class side of the family while I couldn't stand my mom's southern-middle class side of the family.

    • @warrenkeith360
      @warrenkeith360 7 місяців тому +3

      My family is just like this. My dad's side of the family was more lower class while my mom's side was well off although not super rich.
      They tend to get along well since they have family dramas within each side by themselves

    • @Abner-gu3ve
      @Abner-gu3ve 3 місяці тому

      Maybe so, but I never met my mom’s side of the family 😂

  • @whatlikeitshardd
    @whatlikeitshardd 7 місяців тому +90

    I like how a lot of things in The Proud Family can reflect the Black American experience while still being universal. I'm white and Canadian and and my family's like this too; my dad's grandfather drove around Rolls Royces and my mom's side is all rural hillbillies. There's probably something to be said about the "classy" side being skinny and the "trashy" side being fat but hey at least for my family, it's accurate 😅
    Since we're in the holiday season I think you should consider making a video about the Christmas/Kwanzaa episode if you haven't already done one! I also think Wizard Kelly himself would make for an interesting video!
    Kiwi was lowkey giving me anxiety jumping up into that cupboard lol, cats will spend all day trying to get somewhere they're not supposed to be 🙄😂

  • @KelsieRyder-qe2jz
    @KelsieRyder-qe2jz 7 місяців тому +34

    I grew up poor (still am poor) I have rich family members I have a cousin that’s an actress. I met her recently and she was very humble and kind towards me. I never had my wealthier family members look down on me for being poorer but I suppose it depends on the family.

  • @GamingSkeptic
    @GamingSkeptic 7 місяців тому +45

    The way it tackled classism was very interesting. I'm glad they showed both negatives and positives for each side. I feel like now they'd just paint the bougie side as the bad guys

    • @lstarsabb
      @lstarsabb 7 місяців тому +2

      yes not going to lie. I was on the bougie side when i was a kid because i didn't catch the shady comments they made and the ones they made directed mainly towards Suga mama and Oscar we have heard Oscar and Suga mama say that to each other and I didn't like Ray Ray and his wife, but i can how both sides added to the tension,

  • @maxiargos1971
    @maxiargos1971 7 місяців тому +47

    This is a long story, but wanted to share it.
    My family is middle class. They came from the old saying, "A little goes a long way", a loving home and people growing up, that they are all about that family. We never had anyone 'bougie' but one family member who my family forgotten about when I asked them about them 2 years ago. Heck, I even forgotten there name. It's has been that long since I last saw them, which is over 15 years ago.
    I was a kid when this woman and her child came to one family gathering at the age of 8-11. The mother came to the gatherings because she knew my mom when they lived next door to each other or was related to my mom. I can not remember which, and her child had like EVERYTHING, but was so spoiled she wanted more. She went into my room, saw what I had, which wasn't a lot, and any get together she would always try to steal my stuff. It got so bad that I had to tell my mom about it, cause she never stopped. This went on for years. My cousins knew it was her as well cause she did the same to there houses as well.
    So my mom asked what she took and for us to go to there house to see if she really had it. Like bro, her house was beyond nice, and the moment we got in the mom just yelled at me, and my kid brother and said, "DO NOT TOUCH ANYTHING!" Like, damn. We gave you food, you know my mom, and this is how you talk to her kids? I kinda remember my mom taking her side a bit, cause she had to explain why we where there, so was nice for the most part, and so me and my brother went into her child's room, and I saw those really big Barbie pink houses. Like I never knew how big they where. Those commercials did no justice to them. And just like the mom she told me not to touch anything. Then the mom came into her room to kick us out and said, "What did she take from you?" I told her the items, and she just slammed the door, and not even a minute past and she had in her hands was the said items she took from me. She handed it to me, and said, "Now get out of my house." LIKE YES REALLY! My mom was so pissed off that for a good while she didn't invite her to our house for any get togethers, and soon the others followed suit, but it didn't end there.
    The last I saw her and the child was maybe around 15-17 could have been younger, and her mom lost the house cause her rich ex husband couldn't pay for it, due to him wanting to live his life and save up for his wedding for his new wife, but wanted to be apart of his child's life still. The mom was having none of that. She twisted it around and said, "He took the house and is not paying child support!" Which we found out was a fat lie later down the road. We also found out that he gave her a lot of money for the child support for the kid, but used it all on the house and to buy a lot of things for them, and didn't have a job either. She was living off her husband's money that hard. So with him cutting the money and only paying for child support she lost a lot, and the kid hates him cause, "He didn't pay for the house."
    Since they where struggling with losing the house, and everything my sweet aunt, decided to have a big party to just make a shit ton of food for them to take home, and I kid you not she did not mess around. It was like a second thanksgiving. I thought it was at first with all the food she had out on the table. Now was this lady grateful for this? No. Her and her child looked like they didn't want to be there, and soon they wanted to leave. It was really weird, and my aunt wanted to go to her room real quick to get something before they left, and she found something missing. She went to her and said, "I need your daughter to empty out her pockets." The mom had a fit saying her daughter didn't steal anything, and my aunt told her this, "Something is missing from my room, and everyone in this family knows your daughter likes to take things that are not hers, She is 15 if you do not tell her to empty her pockets, then I will call the cops and have them deal with her stealing my things."
    Never in my life or since have I seen my aunt so angry, but she blew up at her, and so she told her daughter to empty her pockets, and yup. She took something. My aunt was just not having any of it. Everyone saw it, and she just said this, "I invited you to my house, gave you so much food for you to take since you are struggling, and this is what you do? Take things from my house? Get out!" The woman just left mad and said, "Well your food sucks anyways!" Context my aunt is the best cook of the family. Her food dose not suck, and we never saw them since, and she was the last and only Bougie family member we ever had. I talked to my family about her cause I wanted to know how she was doing, but everyone forgotten her and people think I made her up. Even my cousins forgot about her. Like I went to a lot of family members to ask about her. They cut her off so quick and badly we do not know where she even is or her name!

    • @AmethystTheEspeon
      @AmethystTheEspeon 7 місяців тому +15

      Damn! She really burned her bridges! That's crazy as hell!

    • @maxiargos1971
      @maxiargos1971 5 місяців тому +4

      Mini update: This will be the last part of the story since I just remembered this weeks ago. My aunt who made food for them found out by other people what happened to them. This was years ago as well so no wonder I forgot. Seems the daughter at age 17 was caught stealing and went to jail for a period of time for the act. She kept stealing and in turn that caused the mother to kick the daughter out of there apartment. (No idea if it was the same one or a different one from years back.) The mom was just done with dealing with everything she dose. Then a year after doing that she moved to another state. I have no idea about the daughter, but if she moved to another state to just run away from her problems, then it fits.
      So yeah things gotten worse for the both of them and I have no idea what they are doing now as the mom isn't even in my state anymore, and the daughter pretty much unheard of.

  • @suejean168
    @suejean168 7 місяців тому +59

    My mom's side of the family was very poor growing up, but my one uncle "made it" and is now in the upper class. He has this bad habit of shaming everyone else in the family because they haven't "made it out the hood" like he did. He's very out of touch compared to the rest of my family, who is still pretty poor.
    He also thinks that the way to get out of poverty is to "pull yourself up by your boot straps" and that kind of stuff while ignoring that he has privileges unlike my aunts and the rest of the family.
    I do not like that man.

    • @lstarsabb
      @lstarsabb 7 місяців тому +7

      I know that type way too well. They don't get that they were exception not the rule and i't not easy for lot of people to succeed like they do. To have the 1 percenter you have to have the poor, that's why they are the 1 percenter...

  • @geardog24
    @geardog24 7 місяців тому +56

    I’m still waiting for the episodes that show how young Trudy grew up before she met Oscar. That would be interesting to see.

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +12

      A childhood Trudy episode would be one of their best ones if done right

    • @cartoonishclaude
      @cartoonishclaude 7 місяців тому +3

      Mykal-Michelle Harris as Young Trudy

  • @lstarsabb
    @lstarsabb 7 місяців тому +19

    Growing up i was considered the bougie one because " I talked white" because i was around a lot of rich white people while they were mainly around low class black person. I didn't think i was better than anyone i was the awkward black girl trying to fit in but every time i said something my cousins would laugh and then when i'd called them out on it they made it seem like i was over reacting, but it was literally every time i hung around them they would start laughing at me when i talked and then recently as an adult i went to my cousins baby shower and her family including her mother started laughing at me and then her mom mocked me. That was the last time i saw them and it is the last event i will go to that they invite me to. I was invite to my other cousins wedding and i skipped i'm not going to keep being the butt of the joke because they have an idea of what " black people should be like" and i'm don't fix that box.

    • @trika91
      @trika91 2 місяці тому +2

      Girl, I feel you. Fortunately I don’t have family members who mock each other for how we act (though there is silent judgement at times), but I’ve definitely been in situations where I was ‘called out’ by other black women for “talking proper”.
      My mother’s mother had raised her children to carry themselves in a certain way, especially around public or when giving a first impression/greeting, as she was a business woman and knew how to talk to people (mainly the white folks). Same on my father’s side of the family as they were all raised up north and knew how to code-switch.
      Because of how our parents raised us, my mom, my sister, and I were often told (by both whites and blacks) “oh, you speak so proper”; though black women were a little more condescending with it. I often get asked where I from cause most don’t believe I’m from the south (I grew up in central Texas), and was even told once that “I don’t act black enough”…
      It is annoying when other black people want to judge you just cause you’re not “black enough” in their eyes, and want to hold you to the standards of stereotypes when black people can be more than that.😤

    • @lstarsabb
      @lstarsabb 2 місяці тому +2

      @@trika91 Yes I get "where are you from" all the time. It hard because I cringe when I hear myself talk and when other races say they like my voice I'm quick to say I don't. It does help that when I started working with other black people from the same area they accepted me for who I was but those insecurities never go away.

  • @angelaabron3080
    @angelaabron3080 7 місяців тому +64

    The looks on the kids face when they got in trouble 😂😂😂

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +7

      😅😅😅😳😳😳

  • @thesugaraddict3160
    @thesugaraddict3160 7 місяців тому +27

    I never saw Oscar's side of the family as "ghetto" I thought they were just a typical casual and fun loving black family. But that's just me.

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +12

      Same but from the perspective of Trudy's family, they were seen in that light. Trudy even alluded to it a few times

    • @ultimatebishoujo29
      @ultimatebishoujo29 7 місяців тому +1

      I can understand that

  • @JP2GiannaT
    @JP2GiannaT 7 місяців тому +16

    This is one episode I remember! Disney Saturday mornings on ABC, we didn't have Disney channel. The scene at the end where the entire family is climbing on the food at the seafood restaurant has lived rent free in my head for the past 15 years.

  • @blue-ringoctopus
    @blue-ringoctopus 7 місяців тому +26

    Another favorite of mine
    I really liked the ending on how the kids stood up to the adults and were the more mature ones, while also expressing that no matter their backgrounds the kids still loved their cousins

  • @tsunekune5753
    @tsunekune5753 7 місяців тому +66

    Ya know, this is honestly what would've happen if the bougie and ghetto sides would do and react with each other because, in honesty, the black community can vary from how they live. Hell, you could even argue that you can see what black folks take in from their surroundings or how they perceive their own lifestyle either from right now or past decades.

  • @brealeayah
    @brealeayah 7 місяців тому +34

    I think people are generally imitated by people doing better than them vs people looking down on someone because of social economic class. You can be poor and still have class and be down to earth. I particularly don’t sympathize with the extremes on both sides.

    • @mdtisthebest6249
      @mdtisthebest6249 7 місяців тому

      Snob

    • @brealeayah
      @brealeayah 7 місяців тому

      Unsubscribing because why would you highlight my comment then highlight a negative comment. I knew you were being shady this just confirms it. I was just here for the Aaliyah stuff not this childish stuff and online bullying is not cool do better

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому

      @briacollier3611 What are you talking about? Highlighting what comment? And childish or not, more than half the comments are from adults

  • @davidperkins7782
    @davidperkins7782 7 місяців тому +29

    If you were to tell kid me that Proud family is a black show, I would probably not have understood. I didn't understand the notion of different racial cultures. I grew up in a suburban neighborhood, not very diverse. The few non-white families around blended in to the point skin color never seemed to matter. My church's deacon was a black man. I even went to Sunday school with his son. I was shielded from the rest of the world, I would've been baffled at the idea of people having different cultures/experiences based around skin color. But today, what baffles me is that I was at a point that innocent.

    • @oooh19
      @oooh19 5 місяців тому

      Well it’s relatable to everyone

  • @FunFilmFare
    @FunFilmFare 7 місяців тому +27

    Can definitely relate. On holidays my dad's family's gatherings are much larger yet much more down-to-earth. Mom's side of the family is the exact opposite. Brings to mind when during one Thanksgiving with my dad's family, my mom and I got into a fight about me having to wear a really high maintenance formal dress, while the rest of my cousins got to dress in much comfier casual clothes. It felt really unfair. And I obviously didn't want to stand out too much from people my own age.
    They live too far apart to invite them together, but the few times they met they seemed to get along.
    Maybe there's a pattern where larger families are more down-to-earth/"ghetto".

  • @X3nophiliac
    @X3nophiliac 7 місяців тому +46

    this is a great video to talk about near thanksgiving. my niece had her baptism last sunday so this video hits home for me! especially bc of my more...wild family i got to see again

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +5

      I find it really interesting how Proud Family made so many episodes ppl can relate to even years later

  • @WINover
    @WINover 6 місяців тому +5

    This kinda reminds me of two separate episodes of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air The first is the episode where Will and Carl got lost driving in a friend's car when they're pulled over by police officers Will being from a rough part of Philadelphia knew what to expect Carlton however having grown up in a gated community most of his teenage life shrugs it off as paranoia only for Will to be right as they're both arrested for a crime they did not commit
    On the other side of things in another episode both Will and Carl are hoping to join a fraternity Will gets in easy enough Carlton on the other hand is rejected because he did not know "Suffering" as they put it because he spent the better part of his life growing up in a rich community
    Rich, Poor, or somewhere in between we shouldn't go around making life harder for each other, but some people do no matter race or status just because they think there's nothing in common between them.
    The truth of the matter is we all have our problems no matter how much money we have.

  • @jayekisses
    @jayekisses 7 місяців тому +16

    I have 2 cousins & when we were kids we all liked the same music & shows & thing’s but now we’re in our 20s they have become so bougie that everything we once could relate to is so beneath them. Like there phone & friends r more interesting than anything else like having real conversations or even mindless conversations.

  • @bitterflywing
    @bitterflywing 7 місяців тому +16

    I never got why bourgois was considered an insult
    My stepmom used to call me that (or at least she would if she knew how to say it right, harf harf harf)

    • @Good100
      @Good100 2 місяці тому +2

      A lot of it has to do with politics. If a person is into Marxist dialectics, then they will believe that the bourgeoisie is an enemy class responsible for why poverty and suffering exist. So if someone calls you "bougie," they essentially are accusing you of oppressing everyone who doesn't have as much wealth or privilege than you, and you're a bad person.

    • @bitterflywing
      @bitterflywing 2 місяці тому

      @@Good100 darn...they'd be right, because my first response would have been "it's bourgeois, learn French" harf harf.
      Nah, just kidding though.

  • @Abner-gu3ve
    @Abner-gu3ve 3 місяці тому +5

    This was one of my favorite episodes of proud family

  • @0BeautifulMystery0
    @0BeautifulMystery0 7 місяців тому +6

    Your cat in the background is everything

  • @sparxstreak02
    @sparxstreak02 2 місяці тому +3

    6:53 The even more frustrating thing is Oscar’s relatives didn’t even APOLOGISE for their kids eating all the food Trudy made but rather just tried to make excuses for them.

  • @cartoonishclaude
    @cartoonishclaude 7 місяців тому +4

    The message of the episode can be said in two words “be humble”.

  • @clarissawestbrook2203
    @clarissawestbrook2203 7 місяців тому +48

    Hey Tony today is my birthday! 🎊🥰😘😍🎉🥮🍰🎁🎈🎂🧁😍

  • @corkscrewfork
    @corkscrewfork 7 місяців тому +26

    Excellent video! This was one of the few episodes I remember from when I was younger, and I always felt bad for the kids because the adults were so hostile throughout the whole episode.
    As an adult, I can clearly see I was from the lowest branch of the "country" side of the family. It used to baffle me that the adults would always try to outdo each other in wealth. But now, especially after cutting contact with most of them, I mostly look forward to the holidays because I spend them with my friends. Hope you have a great Thanksgiving, Tony!

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +5

      Thank You ‼ Hope you have a great Thanksgiving too

  • @Cattasterfee
    @Cattasterfee 7 місяців тому +12

    Even though I missed watching the proud family as a kid I love getting to experience it through your videos!

  • @loraxvindaloo1169
    @loraxvindaloo1169 7 місяців тому +7

    My family is from Louisiana and my dads side is not as wealthy as my moms side but I didn’t really have a connection with either parts of my family.

  • @michaelquinones-lx6ks
    @michaelquinones-lx6ks 7 місяців тому +5

    It just goes to show you that even black people has class divisions among themselfs, In fact, that's true among all racial groups.

  • @theredheadwiththread1275
    @theredheadwiththread1275 7 місяців тому +10

    We spend Thanksgiving with my family, who are very country and down to earth (and a little ratchet lol). My mother-in-law whined to my husband that she and his step-dad haven't had a proper Thanksgiving in 5 years because his nephews (who they're raising) go spend it with their mother. So my family being the way they are, were like "Tell her come on over". My husband's mom and step-dad aren't rich but his mama has a bougie attitude and is a bit of an overbearing heifer so things might get spicy this year. I've already told my husband if she starts ish my family are NOT going to step in: they're just gonna grab the popcorn and enjoy the free show because I'm not putting up with any BS.

    • @angelheart5584
      @angelheart5584 6 місяців тому

      Sooooo, how'd it go? I'm hoping there's at least a small drop of tea. 👀👀

  • @Rose-xy5pe
    @Rose-xy5pe 3 місяці тому +3

    Honestly I don’t think Rueben was that bad. He treated Oscar kindly and was within his right to be angry at Ray-Ray for wrecking his car.

  • @maxpokebruh27
    @maxpokebruh27 7 місяців тому +11

    Proud Family did have a lot of flaws but when they had a good episode, it was a great episode. Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Holidays.

  • @briasinterlude1755
    @briasinterlude1755 7 місяців тому +7

    This was one of my favorite episodes. I just thought of this with Trudy’s family. Since they’re so high maintenance and compare the house to their maid’s quarters, why didn’t they stay at a hotel instead? 😂

  • @nappyk96
    @nappyk96 6 місяців тому +4

    I love your profile pic man R.I.P MJ.

  • @Rainbow_sprinkle_fiend
    @Rainbow_sprinkle_fiend 7 місяців тому +8

    My two sides of my family have never gotten together but I know them both enough to know it would be very different sides meeting, my dad’s side are country people like they work on a farm and my cousin is actually a cowboy where my mom’s side are very upper class city people

  • @deathdrivesapontiac
    @deathdrivesapontiac 7 місяців тому +15

    I definitely prefer my “poor” countryside relatives than my “rich” relatives who hate the world and are materialistic AF

  • @RosieV9669
    @RosieV9669 7 місяців тому +5

    This episode is too funny! To this day, me and my brother still yell "THE BREAKS IS GONE"

  • @lordfreerealestate8302
    @lordfreerealestate8302 7 місяців тому +5

    The classism depicted here reminds me of bell hooks. She wrote this in "where we stand" ... "I was also encountering for the first time a black bourgeois elite that was as contemptuous of working people as their white counterparts were. This was the most difficult truth to face. Having been taught all my life to believe that black people were inextricably bound in solidarity by our struggles to end racism, I did not know how to respond to elitist black people who were full of contempt for anyone who did not share their class, their way of life. In our segregated town, the black folks with relative class power, whom group sociologist E.Franklin Frazier would later identify as the black bourgeoisie, enjoyed their role as mediators between the black masses and the white folks who were really in charge. They openly espoused contempt for less-privileged black folks even as they needed that group to stay on the bottom so they could measure how far up they had gotten by how far down the black masses remained."

  • @Oceanbird971
    @Oceanbird971 7 місяців тому +3

    This is accurate my mom's side is bougie and my dad's side is ghetto all we do is get in food fights all the time I'm like is it so hard to get along with one another 😒🙄

  • @RoudyLopez
    @RoudyLopez 6 місяців тому +4

    The thing is this episode I was just Trudys side ofthe family being bougie and out of touch but no one ever points the finger and Oscar's family that are little loud than they need to be a little less all over the place, more civil, better manners and it just easily paints the bougie side of the family as being more the wrong which both families are more of the wrong fairly says what I've always noticed whenever I see people analyze this episode.

  • @KaseyKay92
    @KaseyKay92 6 місяців тому +3

    As a child when I heard them say “back to bougie Ville”, I thought they said “bushy Ville” Lol but this is actually one of my favorite episodes as a kid

  • @SOULarLioness
    @SOULarLioness 7 місяців тому +12

    Love this episode and deep-dive, Tony!

  • @KelsieRyder-qe2jz
    @KelsieRyder-qe2jz 7 місяців тому +5

    I always look forward to the uploads

  • @LaCienegaBoulevardez
    @LaCienegaBoulevardez 7 місяців тому +3

    Hey bud! Great job keeping The Proud Family relavant with your videos! Keep it up 👍🏽

  • @shroomshroom5945
    @shroomshroom5945 7 місяців тому +2

    This episode reminds me of my own family. My side of the family is the poor side and my aunt's side is the rich side. There have definitely been conflicts like this one!

  • @princessangel821
    @princessangel821 7 місяців тому +9

    This was my fave episode growing up. And I stay home for holidays or hang with friends. ain't nobody got time for the foolishness ✌🏾

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +6

      I just hang around immediate family. I don't have time for the phoniness either 👀

    • @princessangel821
      @princessangel821 7 місяців тому

      @@TonyTurner My immediates are the ones that be trippin 👀 Great job on the videos btw👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kikitv2097
    @kikitv2097 7 місяців тому +6

    Perfect episode to review before Thanksgiving!!

  • @davidperkins7782
    @davidperkins7782 7 місяців тому +5

    Let's get ready to rumble!
    In all seriousness I've lucked out when it comes to family.

  • @elysiabarr425
    @elysiabarr425 7 місяців тому +8

    My family doesn’t have many gatherings anymore due to loss and not talking to some people that hurt me and my mom. It was more political than class. I’m very liberal, my mom I’d moderate liberal and my late maternal grandfather was very conservative. It caused a huge rift in the family and my grandfather took my abusive aunt and horrible cousin side than my mom and my side. I still have emotional scars from the emotional abuse that my grandfather, aunt, and cousin put me through

  • @unfairstorm6418
    @unfairstorm6418 7 місяців тому +2

    Happy thanksgiving to you and Ms.kiwi ! Hope y’all have a blessed one! 🥝🦃🍗🩵

  • @Genrevideos
    @Genrevideos 2 місяці тому +1

    I remember this episode. I come from a Hispanic family on both my ma’s side and my dad’s side. If any one of my in-laws saw this kind of family reunion quarreling none of them would have taken that lying down a tolerated that kind of argument.

  • @jensendavenport1406
    @jensendavenport1406 7 місяців тому +7

    I have this friend he lived in the south but moved out as a child now he calls his family county bumpins so rude

  • @joelprince4170
    @joelprince4170 7 місяців тому +8

    Great Thumbnail Tony.

  • @dwaynebrice1697
    @dwaynebrice1697 7 місяців тому +1

    I was waiting on this one oh my God. ❤😂

  • @ArmyNavyAcademy
    @ArmyNavyAcademy 6 місяців тому

    This was my favorite episode as a kid, my brothers and i would watch it every Thanksgiving

  • @theiathegondia7349
    @theiathegondia7349 7 місяців тому +7

    how did that cat vanish from existence? is there a wormhole on your cupboard?

  • @GiftedSince92GiftedSince92
    @GiftedSince92GiftedSince92 7 місяців тому +3

    Great video bro!
    Period. Keep up the amazing work!!!

  • @warrenkeith360
    @warrenkeith360 7 місяців тому

    This was definitely one of my favorite episodes of the show. Maybe my favorite.

  • @danikawaddell1554
    @danikawaddell1554 7 місяців тому +1

    Was having a shity afternoon,thanks for uploading

  • @anonymous.468
    @anonymous.468 21 день тому

    I just realized. There was a big city greens episode similar to this where crickets family who were more poor and humble and remmys family who were more wealthy came together and a similar scenario played out. Even down to the football competition. Seems like they took inspo from this episode

  • @Neku628
    @Neku628 7 місяців тому +4

    All three of them are equally at fault since Penny and her second cousin (I think that's what he is) went along with the rich girl's "bright" idea. Penny also got them busted since she was the one that stuck her dad's cardboard cutout to wave back at Sunset while at work was a good idea.

  • @ianhardy9375
    @ianhardy9375 3 місяці тому

    Very true, plus I love that episode

  • @AmongUsIsStillFunny
    @AmongUsIsStillFunny 7 місяців тому +3

    They should recreate this for the new Proud Family

  • @lmc.-
    @lmc.- 2 місяці тому +1

    Personally, since my family is big from both sides, we don't really have "gatherings" like that of in the episode. Either way i do notice the difference between classes and opinions, which always leaves me in the middle, given the fact that i manage to watch and understand each side and how neither is better or worse than the other.
    Funny enough, this differences from the upper and lower class of my family mostly pigeonholes me into a middle class, as well as me ending up only considering my parents and siblings as my "true family", because they're the ones that i know best.
    (i'm still detached af tho🤓)

  • @YusukeKnight
    @YusukeKnight 7 місяців тому +4

    Good discussion

  • @k.b.gravedigger9527
    @k.b.gravedigger9527 7 місяців тому +4

    Me personally, I hated this episode because my so called family acts similar to this degenerate family.
    This episode gives anxiety and fires up my PTSD......Thank you Tony T!

  • @pikachick222
    @pikachick222 Місяць тому +1

    That episode didn’t feel like a class war to me. It was about family dynamics. Most of the things Trudy’s relatives and Oscar’s relatives (the adult ones) were pretty trivial.

  • @monicacreator3168
    @monicacreator3168 7 місяців тому +2

    There was an aspect of colorism and texturism in here too

  • @alleybenz
    @alleybenz 7 місяців тому

    This episode reminded me of my family growing up (mom side vs dad side) and even as a child it put ALOT into perspective lolololol

  • @randomasshumanbeing2078
    @randomasshumanbeing2078 7 місяців тому +1

    This fits my family so well. One side is super lower class and the other is upper middle class. They never get along. They’re always fighting and separated, hating each other every second. It’s physically painful to deal with. I love everyone in my family, but when they fight about the most petty things for no reason? It’s just- I get that you feel a certain way and you don’t always get along, but you’re family. At least try. If not for you, then for the kids.

  • @kokenadventures8491
    @kokenadventures8491 20 днів тому

    Try having both kinds on one side 🤣 thanksgiving is always nuts

  • @Symbolic-Sky
    @Symbolic-Sky 7 місяців тому +3

    Our family while very white every family has those layers to them I think. For myself, my family was closer on my mom's side than my dad's side ever was, even though I spent more time with my grandma on my dads side and my uncle from my dad's side, and my cousin from my moms side were the two people I ended up bonding with the most.
    Our money divide and more of a religious and mannerisms divide. My mom's side were more humble, hardworking, and down to earth and practical while my dad's side was more petty, self centered, and never really put themselves out for anyone who wasn't in their immediate ring of concern. Then on my mom's side if you go deeper you get people who are extremely more religious than my immediate family who from my cousin, myself and my cousins kids are much more open to things like pride, comics, games etc.

  • @havenasmr5779
    @havenasmr5779 2 місяці тому +3

    Yeah my family is the "rachet" one and we have rich family all around but we live in a built on trailer n they live in freaking mansions of houses so holidays are always awkward and petty between the families

  • @battybuddy
    @battybuddy 7 місяців тому +6

    I’ll be honest, this episode kind of felt weird to me when I started watching it, for the very aspect that I always kind of felt Oscar got shat on…
    Yeah, just going to say take what Oscar gets on the show, and then sort of extend it to his entire side of the family.
    I didn’t watch the whole episode cause… well, you know, I’ve made it clear I feel bad for just how much Oscar gets shit on.

    • @battybuddy
      @battybuddy 7 місяців тому

      Also I never heard the term “bougie” at the time I watched this, just so you know. Not sure if that needs to be clarified, but I did kind of think “oh hell, is this just gonna be making Oscar look worse?”

  • @choux8372
    @choux8372 7 місяців тому +2

    "You gon' worry about a slaptism" had me cracking up

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +1

      Me too 😅😅😅

  • @hope-cat4894
    @hope-cat4894 7 місяців тому +1

    2:46 Kitty was hungry and wanted to make themselves a plate. 😆

  • @DarkManX16
    @DarkManX16 7 місяців тому +2

    One of my favorite episodes of the show.
    Suga mama was the funniest in this episode, Trudy was a little unruly in this episode tbh
    I wish they would've brought the families back in the new show

  • @hill2750
    @hill2750 7 місяців тому +1

    That cat

  • @SOULarLioness
    @SOULarLioness 7 місяців тому +7

    Oh lawd, it's Martin and Gina all over again! Lol

    • @sissysovereign1294
      @sissysovereign1294 7 місяців тому +2

      I wonder if Trudy and Oscar were supposed to be a parody of Martin and Gina xD

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  7 місяців тому +3

      I swear the creator based Trudy and Oscar off of Martin and Gina

  • @marcellusfinch6366
    @marcellusfinch6366 7 місяців тому

    Aye I suggested this one! 💪🏾👏🏾 you had some thoughts about the Oscar proud Abuse victim video I also suggested ?? 👀

  • @tamarrartis2918
    @tamarrartis2918 7 місяців тому +3

    The crazy part is a racism will just see a bunch of black people yelling at each other.

  • @RiverStixx-qs1dy
    @RiverStixx-qs1dy 7 місяців тому +3

    To keep it real the prouds weren't ghet-t0 they were country. This class war is ridiculous to watch every Holiday season in real time.

  • @noe4354
    @noe4354 7 місяців тому

    My family is like pennys in this situation, thats why we celebrate Thanksgiving by ourselves now.

  • @MsDisneylandlover
    @MsDisneylandlover 7 місяців тому

    Also my sis just made my dad n i . Grandpa and aunt. We gave twins n r fam now a boy n a girl. ❤

  • @missebone
    @missebone 7 місяців тому

    That episode was something else and it kind of reminds me of my family only difference is they're not bougie nor ghetto they're just normal with the bougie and or ghetto personality

  • @ravenartistofficial
    @ravenartistofficial 7 місяців тому +1

    Just got home from dinner with both mine and my Fiancé’s families, separate obviously.
    My family is very dysfunctional, lots of sticks up everybody’s butts even though they’re no better than anyone else(all of us are poor).
    But HIS family puts the fun in dysfunctional.

  • @cartoonishclaude
    @cartoonishclaude 6 місяців тому

    I would love to see you talk about the kwanzaa episode.

    • @TonyTurner
      @TonyTurner  6 місяців тому +1

      Coming before the new year 👌🏾

  • @yourlocalfatshionista
    @yourlocalfatshionista 6 місяців тому +1

    I just can't believe Oscar would surprise invite his family and then was so flippant about them wrecking a car!!
    I understand a lot of the points of bougie vs ratchet, but Oscar is the worst husband omg

  • @yusukeGum
    @yusukeGum 6 місяців тому +3

    This is interesting I never watched this episode but thanks for explaining the difference between different type of black people like you explain the lower class black vs the higher class black people
    I think it was very over the top and exaggerating those that are down to earth or come from like the hood or come from the ghetto side there are people that are down to earth and classy not savage or animals like they don't know how to carry themself not all of them behave immaturely
    And there is also those wealthiest black people that they are rich but in America they make 1% they are rich folks they are born from wealth like the kardashians look at them they are also humble and rich at the same time they're classy but they are humble 14:43
    This is very cliche you are poor and you are down to earth but you cannot be classy okay I am I am down to earth person but I am not really that ratchet or that ghetto I could be classy also but I'm also not rich but I can also be lower class and classy
    And you have these rich black folks that are born from wealth from generational since generational in their family history they could be classy but also humble so it's very cliche 14:43