Losing Me in Marriage Ft. Dr Umar Johnson

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  • @kendawgMCMXCV
    @kendawgMCMXCV 16 днів тому +262

    Dr. Umar broke Nick down like a math equation

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 2 дні тому +1

      OooooWeeee....he broke it doooowwwn‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @Cdlboy.214
    @Cdlboy.214 20 днів тому +780

    We need an Umar & Bryant sit down

    • @blessings28
      @blessings28 20 днів тому +51

      Now that would be interesting🤔

    • @Cdlboy.214
      @Cdlboy.214 20 днів тому +10

      @ facts

    • @yangasidziya3245
      @yangasidziya3245 19 днів тому +6

      Definitely

    • @briarob83
      @briarob83 19 днів тому +7

      That podcast would be great

    • @83aceventura
      @83aceventura 19 днів тому +12

      I don’t think Umar want them problems, he’d attempt to talk over her

  • @TheTreemark
    @TheTreemark 20 днів тому +854

    I see Dr. Umar, I click 😁

    • @candidlycrystal
      @candidlycrystal 20 днів тому +22

      Same! Clicked and liked 😆

    • @jbdp7526
      @jbdp7526 20 днів тому +12

      Me too

    • @czhanell
      @czhanell 20 днів тому +22

      With no hesitation. Funny with truth and facts mixed with education

    • @therachelexchange
      @therachelexchange 20 днів тому +5

      Yesss!!

    • @Ggurl707
      @Ggurl707 20 днів тому +3

      Me too😊

  • @tamirajohnellestyle
    @tamirajohnellestyle 16 днів тому +190

    Marriage and who we have kids with are ultimately the two most important decisions we will ever make. Many people take neither one seriously.

    • @BluEx22329
      @BluEx22329 9 днів тому

      So why do so many women in our community CHOOSE/AGREE to have raw sx outside of marriage multiple times?

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot 9 днів тому

      No, it's not. There's other important decisions to make because MOST of ya'll don't even make good decisions with who ya'll procreate with

    • @Southforthewinter
      @Southforthewinter 9 днів тому +2

      It was Gods very first instructions be fruitful and multiply, and that’s why sex is such a power drug over us. Your bloodline is your beginning and your destination. Some ppl are too individualistic to ever care for such a glorious but heavy burden. They’d rather please their own flesh than obey God and honor their lineage. The ultimate expression of self love.

    • @RideorDie1987
      @RideorDie1987 8 днів тому

      "be fruitful and multiply" is just a religious excuse to get loose. Plus when did marriage and mating become separate agendas.. 🤔😏

    • @702rainman
      @702rainman 6 днів тому

      ⁠@@RideorDie1987it’s not a religious excuse to get loose 😂 Especially since it’s in reference to procreation with your spouse .

  • @BlackNewsMonday
    @BlackNewsMonday 20 днів тому +137

    Doc just defined the difference between love and care. This is some counseling

  • @NomadSupreme911
    @NomadSupreme911 19 днів тому +381

    Anyone: "What time is it nick?"
    Nick: "Well what I'll say about that is that we're all on a different type of time, and my understanding of how clocks work may not necessarily coincide with the societal norms in regards to how clocks work. Furthermore, Einstein propositioned that time may actually be an illusion created by consciousness to help us interpret the relationship between various events and phenomenon."

  • @lasgidisultan
    @lasgidisultan 19 днів тому +362

    Dr Umar fresh from a 1992 Queen Latifah video

  • @TheRealPopiSlim
    @TheRealPopiSlim 18 днів тому +96

    This man is a genius. Sometimes I hate to admit it because of all of the viral moments but he be preaching truth that NOBODY speaks on

  • @BiggWes1911
    @BiggWes1911 11 днів тому +42

    The more Dr. Umar points and breaks Nick down, the more Nick slumps in his chair. Lol Nick is almost laying on the floor when he was asking “are you emotionally available “. Lol. Hilarious

    • @jessicaball8959
      @jessicaball8959 6 днів тому +2

      @@BiggWes1911 LMAOOOO yoooo I didn't notice that 🤣🤣

  • @dreecey88
    @dreecey88 20 днів тому +235

    Dr. Bryant and Dr. Umar need to have a conversation! It would be 🔥

    • @rick3y0
      @rick3y0 19 днів тому +15

      No umar and Candace Owens would be fire!!!!!

    • @chrissyECee
      @chrissyECee 19 днів тому +3

      I’m here for it

    • @GeraldCampbell-dt8pd
      @GeraldCampbell-dt8pd 19 днів тому

      ⁠@@rick3y0Candace Owens is not smart enough to talk with Dr Umar.

    • @Ghanaquankel2776
      @Ghanaquankel2776 19 днів тому +8

      Dr. Umar and Candace would not be interesting
      They have more in common than most people think.
      Dr. Bryant and Dr. Umar would be interesting. ​@@rick3y0

    • @rick3y0
      @rick3y0 19 днів тому

      @ I beg to differ

  • @janinehopkins2396
    @janinehopkins2396 15 днів тому +55

    Whew chile Nick rambled on for 6 mins & I have no idea what he was talking about. Much respect to therapists who do this work & the patience required.

    • @PeaceAndFlylife
      @PeaceAndFlylife 8 днів тому +2

      Right

    • @Venomous_471
      @Venomous_471 8 днів тому +1

      This is why I can never completely watch his shows

    • @kokodavirgo
      @kokodavirgo 7 днів тому +3

      I thought I was having a stroke.

    • @saetae9208
      @saetae9208 4 дні тому

      What😂😂​@@kokodavirgo

    • @bentonbryant8207
      @bentonbryant8207 2 дні тому +1

      I noticed how Dr. UMAR listened the entire time. A PROFESSIONAL

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 18 днів тому +81

    Nick sitting posture tells it all 😮

    • @shennillebrown7626
      @shennillebrown7626 14 днів тому +5

      I thought so too

    • @nicolejames3054
      @nicolejames3054 12 днів тому +5

      Facts , he know Dr read him like a book! He need it and like it secretly🤷🏾‍♀️he wants healing!

    • @thecrow4597
      @thecrow4597 11 днів тому +12

      This is how I sat when I was 15 and going through a rough rebellious phase. This dude is like 45.

    • @wendyleequietstorm4671
      @wendyleequietstorm4671 10 днів тому +6

      Thank you for saying this. No 41 year old should be sitting like this - especially during an interview.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 10 днів тому

      @ LEAD BY EXAMPLE

  • @zibanegp
    @zibanegp 19 днів тому +83

    I don’t agree with many of Nick Cannon’s views and values. However, it takes a lot of humility to allow people to speak into your life so openly, and I respect him for that. Additionally, he engages in conversations with his guests rather than talking at them, which is quite rare these days.

    • @jamaicadiaspora6642
      @jamaicadiaspora6642 11 днів тому +4

      Agreed. I have to respect him for that 👏🏽

    • @87Lohan
      @87Lohan 4 дні тому +2

      Agreed I feel he’s trying to heal he’s just a wounded soul.

  • @lhall2278
    @lhall2278 20 днів тому +290

    Why does Nick and Cam try hard to sound intellectual when expressing their disconnect with normal functional family structure, while at the same time deflecting from their dysfunctional lifestyles and mental states.

    • @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv
      @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv 19 днів тому +38

      Fear, he's doing it unconsciously, he lacks the awareness of the whole, so by laws and principles of the universe he is bound to act in that manner until he is awakened to his full true self and potential of being, until then, this is what you can expect and which is pure and natural in its own way too.

    • @ForeignFlexTv
      @ForeignFlexTv 19 днів тому +3

      Perspectives

    • @RoycesRant
      @RoycesRant 19 днів тому +2

      Facts

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh 19 днів тому +19

      A whole bunch of word salad

    • @quilabill
      @quilabill 19 днів тому +15

      I’d guess say ego protection- no one likes to be told that their mistakes are rooted in their ideology (that’s where their self worth and esteem live) - he’s like a cracking shell and I’m excited to see how God will bless Cannon - he’s seeking truth he just has to keep humility in mind despite shame

  • @KidGrinch
    @KidGrinch 15 днів тому +30

    Dr. Omar should really be the one interviewing celebrities etc. it would be amazing!!!

  • @marylee7460
    @marylee7460 20 днів тому +204

    I do like that Nick is transparent….He likes to seek counsel from the wise, and that makes him wise.

    • @RoycesRant
      @RoycesRant 19 днів тому +29

      He don’t be listening to nothing that they saying . Nick has and never will change, lol

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh 19 днів тому +20

      That’s the problem u seek counsel and don’t apply it what the hell is the point ?? Ego and views that’s it he knows what he’s doing

    • @beammeupscottyny
      @beammeupscottyny 19 днів тому +8

      He’s just exploiting dr umar at this point, he doesn’t listen to a THING he says.

    • @adavis3215
      @adavis3215 18 днів тому

      Umar isn’t a clinical psychologist. He makes up lofty job titles & accomplishments for himself all the time.

    • @getmoneychill6462
      @getmoneychill6462 18 днів тому +4

      Nicky just be talking & saying the right things so he doesn’t get cancelled

  • @IAmBrooklynGizMoe
    @IAmBrooklynGizMoe 18 днів тому +116

    Tyrese need to sit down with dr umar

    • @2007enthusiast
      @2007enthusiast 15 днів тому +9

      Tyrese seems as though he would do a genuine deep dive in exposure therapy with Dr. Umar as opposed to Nick who deflects and lacks self-awareness

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot 9 днів тому

      Tyrese needs to sit down with a psychiatrist in a psych ward

    • @westerwester3273
      @westerwester3273 7 днів тому

      Reall

    • @blackroc01
      @blackroc01 6 днів тому +1

      Tyrese would start CRYIN!!

    • @jessyp7939
      @jessyp7939 2 дні тому

      Tyrese not ready and I don’t wanna see him cry no mo lol but he def needs to sit down

  • @catherinew835
    @catherinew835 20 днів тому +82

    Mr. Cannon the way you choose to deflect certain points in the conversation when you do not agree with them is fascinating to watch you really listen with the ear more on the defensive side than being open and receptive but good conversation overall

  • @aleyastorm
    @aleyastorm 19 днів тому +32

    I enjoyed this conversation.. i hope there is a part 2. Dr Umar held Nick accountable but made the conversation flow smoothly with understanding

  • @KandiClarkHavvard
    @KandiClarkHavvard 20 днів тому +82

    THIS WAS SUCH A GREAT INTERVIEW!!!!!! I just LOVE BLACK MEN DOING THE WORK WITH RESPECT!!!!!!

    • @dariansanders679
      @dariansanders679 19 днів тому +2

      And black men love you beautiful

    • @Eziopct
      @Eziopct 18 днів тому +1

      @@dariansanders679 Indeed we do!

    • @reeree3641
      @reeree3641 11 днів тому

      It’s a ruse. I do not believe Mr Cannon has any intention of doing anything different than what he continues to do over and over again. However, no judgements. I also believe overall that’s he’s a good dude with the best of intentions that just don’t land according to societal norms.
      Now, kids will be fine. All they really need to survive is food, shelter and physical safety. What may lack with this non traditional familial lifestyle is emotional safety, guaranteeing potentially unhealthy concerns and outcomes for the children.

    • @coreymartin5515
      @coreymartin5515 10 днів тому

      Big Up!!!

  • @genardrapugh8113
    @genardrapugh8113 19 днів тому +68

    I see quality in what Dr. Umar and Dr. Bryant have theorized. One consistent thing Nick is going to do every-time is deflect and avoid. Hints: Love Languages don’t equate emotional availability. The only thing he admitted was his trauma response being to flee and its evident.

    • @MISSDAJAVU22
      @MISSDAJAVU22 18 днів тому +2

      Bingo!

    • @sayiddahbey4718
      @sayiddahbey4718 18 днів тому

      I couldn’t agree more 🎯

    • @marydenisesimon7929
      @marydenisesimon7929 18 днів тому +3

      We must give people time and grace to openly admit and expose themselves on personal and emotional issues as they so choose!!!! I think Nick has and is doing a GREAT JOB sharing and openly talking about his personal life and emotions 🤷🏽‍♀️most could not and WILL NOT open up in private let alone to their own SELFS 🙄 and definitely not on such a public platform 🧐

  • @beautifullbrownskin1
    @beautifullbrownskin1 19 днів тому +102

    Who in the hell wants to raise a child alone. Having children is a big responsibility, and no one wants to raise a child alone. I don't blame Dr. Bryant for not having children as a single woman. Good for her.

    • @LM-he7eb
      @LM-he7eb 18 днів тому +26

      Riiiight 🤣🤣🤣They want her to be a single mom. So they can shame her😅😅😅

    • @bohobabie5987
      @bohobabie5987 17 днів тому +10

      @@LM-he7ebthat’s some cold diabolical work and the fact that they don’t realize it craziness

    • @septemberjanuary4636
      @septemberjanuary4636 17 днів тому +13

      RIght! And he understands why she isn't married but can't understand why she doesn't have kids!!! Kids are bigger commitment! So why is he confused?

    • @KingJames-dv5pj
      @KingJames-dv5pj 17 днів тому +9

      @@beautifullbrownskin1 crazy. Shows how we've normalized dysfunction

    • @KingJames-dv5pj
      @KingJames-dv5pj 17 днів тому +14

      @@beautifullbrownskin1 when I was single in my late twenties with no kids I'd meet women and they'd asked me what's wrong because I don't have kids. My rebuttal was what's wrong with you to think it's normal to have kids outside of a family structure. I grew up without a father. I know what it's like to not have the other half of my DNA to speak life and guide me especially being a fatherless male. I had to learn from the streets what a man is and thank God I had a praying mother. That could've went very bad

  • @nicolejames3054
    @nicolejames3054 12 днів тому +14

    Doc cooked like it was Thanksgiving!🎯🎯💯

  • @trainwithme7152
    @trainwithme7152 13 днів тому +15

    Cam newton and nick be tossing words around to aound smart.

    • @jojo5286
      @jojo5286 6 днів тому +1

      It’s unbelievable how he talks for 4 minutes and then says it’s leading up to a question 😂😂 just say the question! Pleaseeee

  • @RoycesRant
    @RoycesRant 19 днів тому +36

    Nick Cannon don’t want to be healed or anything. I’d rather him just keep it all the way 100 about how he wants to live his lifestyle.

  • @ckorpah4163
    @ckorpah4163 17 днів тому +26

    Dr. Umar was on point with his diagnosis

    • @elaine21bok
      @elaine21bok 15 днів тому +1

      He sure was in my non professional opinion 😊

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom 10 днів тому +1

      Especially with his diagnosis of Dr bryant.

  • @IntuitiveReadingByPriscilla
    @IntuitiveReadingByPriscilla 18 днів тому +21

    BRILLIANT CONVERSATION WE NEED THESE TYPES OF REAL CONVERSATIONS IN OUR COMMUNITY….

  • @J2tha12
    @J2tha12 20 днів тому +34

    To love the king is not bad, but a king who loves you is better.

  • @prhphone3259
    @prhphone3259 19 днів тому +89

    Two quick points: 1. Nick, you can’t be emotionally available to so many women at the same time. It’s just not possible. 2. If you don’t want marriage, that’s absolutely fine. Just stop bringing children into these situations. It’s the broken homes that are the problem in which the children will have to bear the brunt of the negative consequences of your actions.

    • @LazarusRising
      @LazarusRising 19 днів тому +2

      Both points aren’t very sound opinions lol

    • @kharijohnson1716
      @kharijohnson1716 18 днів тому +5

      ​@@LazarusRisingin ur opinion lol

    • @tjinks7530
      @tjinks7530 18 днів тому

      Wait what

    • @BoujeeBlackipina
      @BoujeeBlackipina 17 днів тому

      ​@@tjinks7530Stop creating broken homes. Simple

    • @3fitspiritmindbody812
      @3fitspiritmindbody812 17 днів тому +2

      The same as we are emotionally available for multiple family members and friends, Nick can be to his constituents.

  • @kala9907
    @kala9907 19 днів тому +43

    Just like Actors on Actors interviews, we need therapists on therapists interviews. Dr. Bryant and Dr. Umar.

  • @patreeves4015
    @patreeves4015 20 днів тому +29

    And the answer is? YES!!!!! Nick we already know Precious and been knew.

  • @troyjohnson7656
    @troyjohnson7656 13 днів тому +7

    An Umar and Bryant interview or podcast would be magical !

  • @managertfw2623
    @managertfw2623 19 днів тому +57

    Nick please let your guest talk more please.

    • @tysmith9255
      @tysmith9255 19 днів тому +2

      Agreed Jesus get on with her questioning.

    • @tysmith9255
      @tysmith9255 19 днів тому +2

      The questioning

    • @2007enthusiast
      @2007enthusiast 15 днів тому +2

      He is so irritating with too much verbosity out here sounding like TI

    • @sedi2066
      @sedi2066 9 днів тому +2

      ​@@2007enthusiast😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @vick_e_secrets
    @vick_e_secrets 19 днів тому +11

    Doc…..been rockin' with you since 2014. These type of conversations are much needed.

  • @marleenjones1877
    @marleenjones1877 17 днів тому +17

    Look, I said this before.... I give Nick my 10000 % respect for this platform... For being allowed to b the teachable moment for humanity... To sit in front of the world to do this type of truth telling is not for PUNKS!!! It takes courage on a level few of us dare to explore within ourselves....(POWERFUL).. Much respect for Dr. Umar also. I loved this episode.... ❤

    • @partyppl7904
      @partyppl7904 17 днів тому +1

      But Nick continues to operate dysfunctionally

    • @marleenjones1877
      @marleenjones1877 16 днів тому +3

      The work is a process, not a magic pill. I give him credit for even allowing his " dysfunction." As you say it, to be put on display so the professional can show you the process of what it looks like to go in & do the deep dive to help u discover why you move the way u do.. That is what I find so powerful because not everyone has the courage to do the work even in private yet alone publicly...If nothing else, it might inspire someone to do their own work.. And it's OK not to be OK.

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot 9 днів тому

      Girl, get off your knees😂 nick isn't learning a damn thing

  • @joshuapatterson7183
    @joshuapatterson7183 18 днів тому +20

    The fact that people are still talking about Dr. Cheyenne Bryant's interview just goes to show she struck a nerve somewhere amongst the male masses. Brothers, will we humble ourselves and conduct honest reflection inspired by her feedback, or will we blindly assault her character and that of women in general? Not challenging y'all to agree with her, just challenging you to think.

    • @shantalbarbot5801
      @shantalbarbot5801 10 днів тому +2

      Love this respectful response ❤️💯

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom 10 днів тому

      Shes a bussdown.

    • @shanellejimenez6051
      @shanellejimenez6051 8 днів тому +2

      I think because our culture is not fully ready to have these conversations they take it more as an attack, vs looking to help us as a culture.

    • @blissdad13
      @blissdad13 8 днів тому

      shes A CON ARTIST A LIAR AND A FRAUD.. we have no issue going to a legitimate doctor.. she is not that...

  • @empress6868
    @empress6868 19 днів тому +77

    Dr. Umar’s face at the 12:57 min mark tells me he know this ninja dancin around the topic😂😂😂

  • @changetocome100
    @changetocome100 13 днів тому +12

    Dr Umar needs to put himself in the same category he is putting Nick and Cam in.

    • @_kaeyos
      @_kaeyos 8 днів тому +1

      Hmmmmm this is a great observation that I thought as well

    • @ilikepickles9568
      @ilikepickles9568 8 днів тому +1

      Absolutely, spot on!!!!

  • @Legacy_by_Quintaria
    @Legacy_by_Quintaria 19 днів тому +11

    I loved this episode and I love these two together!! Can't wait for part 2.

  • @OhhYouu..MICHELLE
    @OhhYouu..MICHELLE 17 днів тому +7

    I love when you two fellowship! Nick I sense your progress! Keep healing!🌹

  • @dontefromtheroc
    @dontefromtheroc 17 днів тому +14

    That boy nick just be rambling

    • @thecrow4597
      @thecrow4597 11 днів тому

      That’s what happens when your entire career and life is constant lying

  • @labs2454
    @labs2454 18 днів тому +10

    Posture speaks volumes about character..

  • @godivabaker6622
    @godivabaker6622 17 днів тому +17

    One thing about Nick Cannon is as much as he tries to not prove that he is corny, it makes him look even cornier. He comes off as a pseudo intellectual by using word salad, over explaining and bringing up books to provide he’s well read. it doesn’t take all of that to answer a question. I’m happy Dr. Umar pressed him on some of these questions, even though he deflected so many times.

    • @tracywilliams7293
      @tracywilliams7293 11 днів тому +4

      Damn You took the words right out of my head... He's such a word salad expert And deflector, I always thought he tries too hard to seem so intellectual, But it's just a bunch of mumbo jumbo... I get a headache listening to him... Could you just imagine trying to have a conversation With this guy.. He truly is an unapologetic proud narcissist🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @viv5709
    @viv5709 20 днів тому +58

    This man is still in love with Mariah 🥹

    • @shawnbailey2300
      @shawnbailey2300 19 днів тому +13

      I don’t think he’s in love with Mariah, he’s in love with what Mariah represents their celebrity commonalities.

    • @CatEyeGem
      @CatEyeGem 19 днів тому +5

      @@shawnbailey2300A Bit of both

    • @RemeePooh
      @RemeePooh 17 днів тому +6

      And she doesn't want anything to do with him..

    • @RemeePooh
      @RemeePooh 16 днів тому +4

      ​@@shawnbailey2300Mariah said she doesn't believe he ever got to know or love her as a person because he couldn't get past her name.

    • @RemeePooh
      @RemeePooh 16 днів тому

      ​@@CatEyeGemnope. Even Mariah didn't believe he ever truly loved her beyond her name.

  • @josedelva9494
    @josedelva9494 18 днів тому +7

    Quality time will never be enough, because you have too many people who needs it. You don’t have enough for yourself, let alone the families that you created

  • @Channel_Quame
    @Channel_Quame 18 днів тому +8

    This was good. Lol more of this. Dr Umar and Nick need a series lol.

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 19 днів тому +9

    Great talk Nick! Thanks for being vulnerable I know it’s not easy!

  • @JonathanJonesSpeaks
    @JonathanJonesSpeaks 20 днів тому +84

    Dr. Umar for president 2024‼️‼️

    • @whyworkwhenicanrap6830
      @whyworkwhenicanrap6830 19 днів тому +4

      They would never allow it but I would love it

    • @SnowmanSess-ds9zx
      @SnowmanSess-ds9zx 19 днів тому +3

      Not gonna happen ever... America would turn into Wakanda if he's ever made the president 😂

    • @AkiraYuki5150
      @AkiraYuki5150 19 днів тому +4

      Too many scams in his ledger for him to last more than 2 mins in politics.

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 18 днів тому

      You belong in a padded room and a straight jacket.

    • @partyppl7904
      @partyppl7904 17 днів тому +1

      I'm for black empowerment, growth and progress specifically in leadership, but not Umar for president

  • @czhanell
    @czhanell 20 днів тому +42

    Even the therapist need therapy. You hit it Dr Umar. Much to assess and think about from this episode. We need more healthy conversations like this

    • @kluv5052
      @kluv5052 19 днів тому +3

      Made me think of the Tyler Perry movie "Why did I get married too" where dude is getting a divorce from Janet Jackson (a famous marriage counselor) and he tells his friends the worse thing about being married to a therapist, is they think they know everything.

    • @kluv5052
      @kluv5052 19 днів тому

      ua-cam.com/video/X2Nf7Ec81Z0/v-deo.htmlsi=qkDkOPXo-zQZBARs

    • @speaktruthpeace1612
      @speaktruthpeace1612 19 днів тому

      Yes indeed

  • @di5stargeneral
    @di5stargeneral 20 днів тому +79

    GET TO THE POINT NICK…. You be talking long to ask the question..jeeze…weaving

  • @donnascott1654
    @donnascott1654 20 днів тому +23

    Yes, Nick 😅. It’s a big fat yes.

  • @bloomMajor
    @bloomMajor 19 днів тому +6

    Man Nick, you the truth for this podcast.

  • @iamyimjackson
    @iamyimjackson 12 днів тому +4

    The women are not complaining so the Nick will do him. However, I love the content he is producing. It’s NEEDED in our community ❤

  • @jacquelinewilliams2349
    @jacquelinewilliams2349 19 днів тому +12

    Difference between Dr. Umar and Nick is the community mindset.

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 18 днів тому +2

      The biggest difference is one is an unemployed grifter and the other actually has a career.

  • @optimisticstance9206
    @optimisticstance9206 19 днів тому +3

    I felt these questions in my soul!!!! When you have the education (more degrees that a thermometer 🙋🏽‍♀️) AND you a todo the inner work…. You’re a walking talking magical elixir!!! IYKYK! 😮‍💨❤️
    Well done sir!!!! 👏🏽

  • @grayspace5638
    @grayspace5638 17 днів тому +2

    This was actually very good. One thing I’ll say is that regardless of how people feel about Dr. Umar, he commands a certain level of respect (sexually from other men) that really creates space for thoughtful and impactful dialogue. I appreciated that the most here!

  • @blessings28
    @blessings28 20 днів тому +5

    This was really good. I enjoyed the reflective conversation and vulnerability shown.

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 8 днів тому +2

    I'm Definitely looking forward to the next session with him.
    But I respect Nick for knowing and understanding these stuff, and not getting married Just To Get Married.

  • @teneshablackmon
    @teneshablackmon 20 днів тому +9

    So good to see in real time. Thanks for being open fellows.

  • @kellylewis1841
    @kellylewis1841 17 днів тому +20

    So Nick wants to be told how great he is & to be physically touched. That’s today’s Man.

  • @beehive2066
    @beehive2066 20 днів тому +13

    I can watch these all day. So informative

  • @nikkilove6128
    @nikkilove6128 17 днів тому +3

    Mmm that point on love and care not being the same by Dr Umar is so on point💯💯💯

  • @NickMintz
    @NickMintz 19 днів тому +88

    We need an Umar and Candace Owens sit down

    • @LadyK007
      @LadyK007 19 днів тому +10

      Yes!!!!!

    • @SergMilli
      @SergMilli 19 днів тому +5

      Oh man yes!

    • @Ade683
      @Ade683 18 днів тому +4

      Yesterday!!

    • @clife737
      @clife737 18 днів тому +6

      They will get in a fist fight lol

    • @adavis3215
      @adavis3215 18 днів тому

      Candace isn’t a demure Umar bootlicker. The minute she contest him or points out faults in his logic he’ll come unglued.

  • @P_Family24
    @P_Family24 20 днів тому +8

    I 💜 the love these 2 brothers have for each other! Dr. Umar never miss! (I Love him) I can’t wait for our sit down. I know it will be in the near future. We appreciate your vulnerability brother Nick!

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 19 днів тому +15

    Nick cannon just can’t admit he’s emotionally unavailable. Sending flowers and stuff is not romance or being a hopeless romantic. It’s all superficial. He likes the love bombing and chasing but not the actual reciprocity of emotional vulnerability. He keeps trying to intellectualize the question. Answer the question!

  • @Lord_Tien
    @Lord_Tien 16 днів тому +3

    Brilliant! 😂🔥Dr Umar need his own show

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 19 днів тому +8

    Honestly, Nick Cannon was just offended and did not want to hear it from a Black woman. Dr. Umar is not in disagreement with what Dr. Bryant said! Nick just has a problem with being held accountable by a woman which is why is relationships don’t work out. He literally just described what Dr. Bryant said! Notice how Nick isn’t being disrespectful cutting him off and actually open to listening?

    • @Dr.Beetlejuice110
      @Dr.Beetlejuice110 19 днів тому

      Could it be though that it's the first time he saw a doctor and that's what they said and then got a second opinion and realized that it must be true? Does it really have to do with a woman or just that he disagreed with a medical diagnosis and got a second opinion and it was the same and it was time to accept it. Also, Dr. Umar also diagnosed Dr. Bryant as well and affirmed what they were saying about her too. Where's the agreement from Dr. Bryant there?

    • @adelestears8298
      @adelestears8298 18 днів тому

      ​@@Dr.Beetlejuice110What, the first time????😂 Nick has said many times over the years that he's been in therapy. He has had many doctors. Not only is he in therapy by himself, but many of his baby mamas have said they've been to therapy with him 😂😂😂😂 can you believe that. Nick just want to hear himself talk but doesn't want to apply what he's learned and yes he felt some type of way that he black woman doctor held him accountable.

  • @Tone410
    @Tone410 10 днів тому +4

    The word salad on the emotional availability question was funny 😂

  • @Insanely__Gorgeous
    @Insanely__Gorgeous 19 днів тому +10

    Dr.Umar is absolutely brilliant and I am truly a huge supporter of him, HOWEVER, with the level of intellect once someone shares their spiritual belief as a tenured psychologist you can NO longer take an approach that is not catered to the belief system. You cause confusion in diagnosing or in the healing process because it doesn’t match your own beliefs. You can not tell a Christian man that he is a serial monogamous and slight insult that because your belief is polygamy. But in reality he desires monogamy but acting in polygamy out of insecurity.
    Really good this episode

  • @cochrancochran66
    @cochrancochran66 17 днів тому +1

    PTSD… yes a lot of people experience this… I have a greater respect for Nick… his transparency. Can’t wait for part 2!

  • @christlivsinme
    @christlivsinme 16 днів тому +3

    Nick i pray that you get emotional healing . You can't give what you dont have.

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom 10 днів тому

      Hes just fine. This is content. Thisbis for yall. Not for him

  • @everystrandisnumbered5162
    @everystrandisnumbered5162 17 днів тому +1

    I Love Me Some Dr.Umar!!! Respectful, Honorable Black Man!! King!! Nick, We Love You To! I Pray You Continue To Grow, Heal, And Learn! King!!!

  • @the_nightingale1111
    @the_nightingale1111 19 днів тому +5

    🎯 That discernment hits different.

  • @deangeloparker2974
    @deangeloparker2974 17 днів тому +1

    Dr. Umar X on the set . Much blessings brother for u and urs . Same to Sir Canon. Glad these conversations can be listened to.

  • @lounisepierre2080
    @lounisepierre2080 19 днів тому +9

    His point is that because he has money he doesn’t need emotions

  • @fuegasamigas9172
    @fuegasamigas9172 9 днів тому +2

    Dr. Umar is a real one! Saw right through Nick 😂 he couldn’t even answer the yes or no questions.

  • @ForeignFlexTv
    @ForeignFlexTv 19 днів тому +8

    Overall people like people who tell them what they want to hear. And shame and hate people who tell them what they don't want to hear.

  • @roditzme3013
    @roditzme3013 8 днів тому

    Dr Umar did a great job in bringing truth to the surface. This is good for men to see.

  • @pan-africanisms
    @pan-africanisms 20 днів тому +36

    Thanks For All The Love and Support Brothers and Sistas. Peace and Pan-Africanism

    • @J2tha12
      @J2tha12 20 днів тому +2

      The laborer is always in the sun; the landowner is always in the shade.

    • @Katile-n9b
      @Katile-n9b 20 днів тому

      I wish he would have asked why dr Umar isn’t married and had two beautiful children outside the construct of marriage? He asked but didn’t let the dr answer.

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 18 днів тому

      Peace,
      Scams,
      Trash
      &
      Division.
      ~Ifakewnday

  • @Ashia49
    @Ashia49 17 днів тому +2

    Love languages are about each other’s way of feeling loved.Acts of service is not just about providing.

    • @katrinatennant7520
      @katrinatennant7520 7 днів тому

      Yet he says he NEEDS words of Affirmation from his partners smh lol. This was a joke. Lol

  • @TheGiovannimeade
    @TheGiovannimeade 12 днів тому +3

    We just watched Nick Cannon get a full therapy session

  • @katrinatennant7520
    @katrinatennant7520 7 днів тому +1

    All that I can say after watching this is, THANK YOU DR. BRYANT!! 34:00 shows EXACTLY what she was pointing out. He is so fixated on the terms “High/low value; High/low functioning”, yet explained scenarios in his life where he fits the description PERFECTLY. Smh

  • @Seegoatlove
    @Seegoatlove 7 днів тому

    I love we as black people having these open and honest convos without getting mad. Dr umar is the best person for this convo. Nick, I feel my ways about you , but I’m happy you’re trying to learn and unlearn certain behaviors. Good luck to you on this journey

  • @GoldnSt8_Grizzly
    @GoldnSt8_Grizzly 9 днів тому +3

    Nick was fighting for his life in there 😂 31:21

  • @sharbear6484
    @sharbear6484 12 днів тому +2

    A panel discussion wid all a dem would be interesting...Umar, Bryant, Cam, Nick, Candace etc.

  • @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv
    @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv 19 днів тому +5

    He's not yet able to give genuine love, or being emotionally available 💕 to others or his children, simply because he's only doing the inner work now, which will in the end affords him the ability to do so.
    It takes time to get to the other side, we're required by laws and principles of the universe to do the inner work if we feel the need to experience genuine love 💕.

  • @riicababy
    @riicababy 4 дні тому

    Listening to Nick Cannon is actually draining. He doesn’t answer questions directly. Always answering a question with a question.

    • @lapx1
      @lapx1 4 дні тому

      Not a good communicator😮

  • @jesschas5003
    @jesschas5003 20 днів тому +7

    I need next episode, QUICK LIKE. 😂

  • @aprilshowers3331
    @aprilshowers3331 5 днів тому

    Dr. Umar is so talented and so valuable for our community

  • @BlackDiasporaFamily
    @BlackDiasporaFamily 19 днів тому +5

    This was a much needed video for the black communitah! Well done counseling session Dr Umar and brotha Nick. 👍🏾👏🏾

  • @thecrow4597
    @thecrow4597 10 днів тому +1

    Self sacrifice is a necessary component of Love. Nick is promoting a false love. A self love

  • @comedianwatts5436
    @comedianwatts5436 19 днів тому +7

    Nick be talking in circles

  • @essjai5D
    @essjai5D 9 днів тому +2

    Nick is the embodiment of “me me me me me me me”

  • @mr_Joker_2
    @mr_Joker_2 17 днів тому +6

    They do NOT want Dr Umar on Tonight’s conversation! 😂

  • @InuqiSevonne
    @InuqiSevonne 6 днів тому

    Dr. Umar backed him in a corner, i love it! i hope hes able to come with his heart and be honest that he may still want his wife back but realizes that it will never happen because of the traumatic wall she and him put up to protect themselves. in a perfect world i can see them getting back together under a new light and it would be a celebration.

  • @krestal0
    @krestal0 20 днів тому +14

    There are tons of benefits of marriage, especially for men. To have a life partner is priceless. To have a home in your parnter. To have someone to grow with. To have someone who knows you inside and out and the exploration that goes into your person can be exciting. Not having the time, energy and money to put into one person is a crazy thing to say because your partner enhances you. When you have kids you invest your time, energy and money into them. SO having tons of kids with different women drains you of that. A partner should enhance you instead of draining you.
    A lot of yall need to just say yall dont like/respect women enough to be with them. Its intellectually dishonest and irresponsible to recycle these speaking points that dont make sense

  • @angelahardwick5450
    @angelahardwick5450 8 годин тому

    Nick and Cam are two of many men that can love and protect their children but have nothing to give to the women in their life.

  • @unconventionalandfree751
    @unconventionalandfree751 18 днів тому +4

    He is showing signs of narcissism. He is aware of the issues with his behaviors and how they may impact others but doesn’t care. He can’t just naturally express himself without turning it back around. Like his genuine care of others doesn’t seem to be natural for him

  • @Aceboi209
    @Aceboi209 4 дні тому

    Umar hand gestures are top tier. That man gonna make sure you understand

  • @GeraldCampbell-dt8pd
    @GeraldCampbell-dt8pd 19 днів тому +7

    Dr Umar is holding this ninja feet to the fire