Orianthi According To You Lyrics
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** I do Not Own This song **
~ Lyrics To Song ~
According to you
I'm stupid,
I'm useless,
I can't do anything right.
According to you
I'm difficult,
hard to please,
forever changing my mind.
I'm a mess in a dress,
can't show up on time,
even if it would save my life.
According to you. According to you.
But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
so baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you.
According to you
I'm boring,
I'm moody,
you can't take me any place.
According to you
I suck at telling jokes cause I always give it away.
I'm the girl with the worst attention span;
you're the boy who puts up with it.
According to you. According to you.
But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
so baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you.
I need to feel appreciated,
like I'm not hated. oh-- no--.
Why can't you see me through his eyes?
It's too bad you're making me dizz-ay.
According to me
you're stupid,
you're useless,
you can't do anything right.
But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you. [you, you]
According to you. [you, you]
According to you
I'm stupid,
I'm useless,
I can't do anything right.
The moral of this song is:
“Treat your lover right, before they look for someone else who will”
I was 500th like 💖💖💖
Tami 2008 thank you very much, and congratulations 😁👍🏻
Keitto191 Thank you sooooooo much for replying 💖💖💖💖💖💖
Tami 2008 no worries 😉
Lol. The moral of the story is once your partner gets bored of you and you start arguing, they'll cheat and blame you. Hate me but remember this comment when your relationship breaks down. As most do and yours probably will.
To all those people who have a physically or mentally abusive partner, first, leave them, they are NOT worth a second of your time. Second, know that the things they've done or said to you is NOT TRUE. I'm sure you are a wonderful person, they just couldn't see it.
The thing people don't understand is it's not that easy, after so long you believe it yourself and your too scared too do anything about it, speaking of any abusive relationship not just romantic
jt bencin This makes me really sad... because no one can really help you since it’s more about your mentality, and honestly the only person that can help you is
yourself.
@nerdy drawer, but what about those of us who can't just leave? What about those of us who aren't being physically abused and don't even really know if this should be considered mental abuse or not? Sometimes it feels like I can't even get my facts straight and no ones there to help me. My dad calls me stupid and pathetic when my whole life all I've ever done was to please him and my mother. I have no one to talk to about this. So what about those of us who are to young to leave? Should I run away? Or should I just put up with it? I need answers. What about those of us who come to UA-cam just to vent in the comment section because they feel like only they'll listen?😣😟😞
Thanks so much I really needed to hear this at the moment.
What about when it's your parents instead I'm not a legal adult yet nor do I have a means to support myself and they pay for all of my medical appointments,procedures,surgeries,medications,medical tests, and I have loads of medical conditions so idek if I could get a job or who would take me besides I'm still in high school and they pay for my homeschooling and refuse to let me get my license so I can't drive I'm at the legal age that I can in fact take the tests and get my license. So it's not like i can just leave the house when I get screamed at either.
i remember listening to this song on the radio at 11 pm like a true rebellious 5th grader
Hi Tavvy!! I just want to apologize for one of my patron trolls. (I was born on the cusp, so I'm both Scorpio and Sagittarius) It's horrible of her but she's just jealous that Pupa Pan would choose you over her ANY day :)
}B) its aight, that's not even what a patron is tho. if it were calculated like that, everyone but john, who would have aradia, would have equius as their patron. google it, theres a test on the land of bells and something or other, some tumblr page
Thanks. I get it confused alot. SO much to remember
So Rebellious Tav! xD
Does Gamz know?
But according to him,
oh wait no one likes me.
me either
Wait, my cat does!
No one likes me :( but dont let boys bring you down
They can be jerks
Same. I feel ur pain
:( (hugs you)
@@origamipein18 thank u
this has been on my watch later for FOREVER!! it's 2016 now...
Its 2020 now
Yeah it is it’s 2020 now
Still rocks no matter the year
@@tonyacosta4574 right like this song is just amazing
Its 2020
When I was little, I never understood what this song was about, but I get it now. The boyfriend, I'm assuming he was, was...well, he was abusive. Maybe not physically, but definitely mentally. And what really speaks to me is how the singer moved on from that toxic relationship, finding someone who actually appreciated her.
But something that I always asked was "why does she say 'according to you' at the end again?" But I think I've figured it out: when someone damages your self-esteem, it's hard to believe in yourself for a while. Even though she's found this wonderful new person who is obviously much better than the previous boyfriend, the toxic relationship is still ruling in her mind.
I never realized just how important this song really is, and I'm glad that I've taken the time to dissect it after hearing it again.
fxcx thto
Holy crap
Actually am going through the same thing and I always wondered why she ended with that phrase too. And you are completely right.
MinWin is
I think she means it like she's useless and all those things... according to her ex-boyfriend. That's who she is in his opinion. But she knows she's wonderful and much better than he made her feel like she was.
okay why fall in love when you can fall asleep
mackie clements true
i feel the same. sleep is better than love.
true that sister
mackie clements YUS
mackie clements same XD
Tfw 11 year old me thought I could relate to this
Same._.
ikr
same
+QueenScrubby Same though XD
QueenScrubby I'm thirteen but relate to this badly
I've had a breakup like this... me in tears... he's just sitting there saying I'm stupid... now I have someone who loves me more than I could ever imagine...
YOU GO GIRL HE WAS STUPID ANYWAY now your where you belong aka in the new person's arms
Thats good
Uh you still together?
@@SxllySharkz it’s been 7 years. She might not even has this account.
@@ilovedoggiess Yeah I suppose
"According to him I'm funny irresistible everything he ever wanted"
Guys this is what every girl wants to hear from the guy she loves you should tell her it sometime but don't say it if you don't mean it
Girls, this is what every guy wants to hear from the woman he loves, as well
@dragonsflyhighinthesky3419 💜💚
Here in 2024 ❤
I uses to thing that this was by Kelly Clarkson
Me 2 😂
Same
I thought it was by P!nk, or someone like that, though I can totally see Kelly Clarkson. I looked it up to listen to it, and was pretty surprised! Lol
SAME
So whose song is it?
She is one of the best guitarists I have ever heard, PERIOD. She is amazingly talented.
Check out screaming females and garbage, they do a song collaboration called Because the Night. I think you might enjoy it. :)
I mean there’s a reason MJ hired her on his last world tour
Lots of people play guitar really well you know how many great guitarist there are in the world a dime a dozen
to the person who is reading this: you are awesome and deserve the best and you deserve to be treated like a Queen/King. and if some one cant see that its their lost and I hope you find some one who treats you right and have a wonderful and blessed day
What a relief. Thank you, after all the terrible evil and violent things I've done, I was riddled with guilt, but now I feel I deserve love again
❤
I see some comments where girls say that they thought they could relate to this when they were young, but maybe you did more then you think. When I hear this song I imagine the "current boyfriend" is actually my own mind. This is all according to me. A lot of young girls who are insecure can relate to this song because all those things the "boyfriend" is saying, they tell themselves everyday. The other guy is the people around us or in my case my fiance who tries to make me "see it through his eyes." Unfortunately, no one other than ourselves can make us see the beauty in ourselves. As my therapist says, "What makes you worth any less then anyone else in the world?" And she answered it with a quote, "We're all the same when we're asleep."
Anybody here in 2019?? No just me? K😂
Yes
Me
2020
Carlie Grosser it's 2020 now!!!!
2020!!
For me, this song is about seeing the worst in yourself and not being able to see yourself from the person who truly loves you perspective. If only we could see ourselves from an outside view, then we'd be at peace with ourselves. Thats true love.
That moment when you want to dedicate this song to 'you' (the ex) but you don't even have a 'him' (the nonexistent current)
Change the "Him" to a "they" and point at your friends
It doesn't have to be a boyfriend. I honestly thought this was a Christian song when I first heard it. So according to him could actually interpreted as "according to HIM"
I dedicate this to myself, we sometimes have low self-steem and see everything in a bad way and cant see what others see in us (the good things)
change the him to me, love yourself! 💜
This song reminds me of BNHA and Eri. Chisaki told her everything was her fault, but Aizawa treats her like an actual daughter.
I didn't hear of this song until I was in the midst of getting out of an abusive relationship. I'm glad it was there for me.
Omg, listening to this with my older sister while we played with Barbies and Bratz in our room in the early 2000s was the best...😪
for me, the 'you' of the song is myself, it's the voice of my self-esteem shattered by wrong people, by my family, by the bad situations in which I found myself. 'him' instead ... I'm still looking for him. I hope to find someone one day who will convince me that I am something more. For now, every time someone complimented me or tells me something nice, to me it sounds like a lie, and I almost get angry because I think he/She is making fun of me :(
Well, one day you will I promise❤️
You sound really screwed up. Is that why you wear a mask?
according to my mom [im everything bad] according to my best friends [im everything good]. hm
Samantha Bobbitt Amen.
yeah i feel ya, i think my mother puts me down more than any guy ever has.
I can agree with that. Then again, the only two boyfriends I've ever had 1) dumped me through my best friend and we barely even held hands and 2) was so clingy I had to break up with him.
The first guy fell down the stairs at school today, and even though it's been two years my friend found revenge in that. I love my friends.
Splashstorm04 she sucks then,sorry just having your back
Dude that’s what I think of every time I here this song
I see all these stories and like "oh I relate" but my single self just likes the song
When I was younger, I was going to audition for Next Star with this song. Which... if you don't know, was like a kids American Idol.
I'm here for the guitar solo :)
I have to admit that sometimes we are kinda stupid because we see criticism as just being mean when maybe the guy is trying to help us.
Love this song :) Surround yourself with people that love you and not those who put you down, PREACH :)
Singing to my mother about my girlfriend.
My mum always told me that I wasn't worth the oxygen I breathed and that I was never going to get anywhere and that I was a waste of space.
My wonderful girl is now fighting hard to change these perceptions of myself that I have.
She always calls me beautiful and lets me know that I am amazing
I was very addicted to this song during high school times, so nostalgic😍😍time flies!!
Why does everybody say "dizz-ay" when the word is actually "decide"?
At first I thought she said "you're making me dead inside " which would fit too
No its atchully dizzy
@@ieatemos. wrong
I found it!!!! I've been trying to remember the name of this song for nearly two years.
Tik tok sent me here 😊🥺 Woow 45 likes thnx🥰🥰
Me too!
Same😭
Me too
The bunny
Same.
This was my ANTHEM in middle school sigh
I know exactly how this feels. I'm one of those girls who always reads and doesn't go outside. Most people think I'm boring, but ox you get to know me I'm pretty fun:)
I meant IF not ox
same
i can so relate to u, boys always think im moody but im not u just have to know me very well enough for me to trust you
People think I'm moody, but I just have a very, very, VERY short temper. Lol:)
Same 100%
lol what I love about this is when I was like 11 when it came out, I just thought it was a cool sounding song. now that I'm nearly 20 and listening to it its become relatable. after leaving an emotionally abusive relationship when I was 18, with someone who said he was only staying until he met someone else, i met a sweet man who hasn't stopped treating me like a queen. I love it
I love pop/rock. It's just so different from regular autotuned dance and rap music. The lyrics actually have meaning, and the beats are great. I think Orianthi is really talented.
pop rock is as shitty as regular pop and rap music. the difference is they use guitars and (occasionally) use real drums.
haha I remember when I broke up with my "bf" in the fourth grade a little while later I sang this song wondering why that guy couldn't be like my dad #daddy's girl
That's so sweet!
+KayR Cocci 4th grade Oedipus complex gross
Vxf
Every time I hear this song it reminds me of my ex husband & this guy named Dave. My ex cheated on me, bullied me, mentally and physically abused me. My ex would get so mad at me for everything, nothing was ever good enough. Dave loves everything about me. He listens to me, he comforts me, he supports me with nothing but love.
I remember walking down the street like ACCORDING TO HIM I'M BEAUTIFUL INCREDIBLE.
after 4 years now i appreciate this song!!
Love this song
Still here 2021
Moved into my first rental after a seperation/divorce at 25. This is the song I remember at the time. Love it. Finished the papers and ended up raising 'our' son all alone. Bur it was fine. All worked out for the best. This song is my independence. Miss that house but bought my own on my own ;).
I havent heard this song since I was little! Used to love it xD
y'know it's funny... you could technically apply this to yourself.
Example: I've had a poor self image for a long time. Terrible self esteem, and I'm always down on myself. I look in the mirror and all I see are flaws. Yet I'm in a happy relationship and have been for six years.
The "According to you" can be addressed to the mirror. Your reflection. I realized how I'm always thinking terribly of myself, and how my boyfriend is always trying to tell me what he sees. Listening to this, thinking it over, I realized I'm not as terrible as I think I am. According to me, I'm fat, ugly, clumsy, stupid, and all around unattractive. But to him, I'm perfect. Could lose some weight, but that's easy enough, and he's even helping me do so.
All in all, when you really think about it, this song is a real confidence booster. :)
Sorry if this sounds stupid or like I'm just babbling, just thought it'd be a good thought for all of us who have self-esteem and confidence issues.
My girlfriend showed me this song on Christmas. She's been through a lot, I admitted I loved her a few months ago, and I was in love with her since the day we met. Ever since then, we've been together, and this song shows three people, her ex, me, and her.
Is it weird I want this to played at my funeral?
No not at all! It is your funeral after all.
This song but about life and death?
"I'm a mess in a dress. Can't even show up on time, even if it would save my life." way to go ^^
This is gonna be my theme song whenever I get in my next relationship because he's gonna think I'm everything when my ex thought i was nothing....and he's gonna LOVE the things my ex hated about me... it's gonna be such a good feeling! I'm patiently waiting :)
I lived this song as a young teen. I was with a guy much older than myself at that age, and he was basically just using me to not be alone. When I finally confronted him the morning before our 2nd anniversary, he broke up with me. But I had someone who had claimed to love me for years. And he had helped me through my entire relationship. I don't think I could of handled it without him. I was extremely suicidal and kinda still am but I've been dating the man who said he loves me and he has bpd so he can't help everything he does sometime, but he's always comes back around to me.
such nostalgia. 8 when this was posted. one of my favorite songs amongst many.
this reminds me of ballet bc my instructors are always telling me everything wrong with me but i had this one teacher who actually thought i was a good dancer and respected me lmfao
The way I see this is with my parents being the ones who think I cant do anything right and the "boy" is my friends and my grandparents telling me I'm perfect.
who's watching in 2016?
me🙋
🙋🏼
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me -raises hand- no matter how old it gets, I will always choose this over new pop music in a heartbeat.
Why-
Why is this so relatable-
This reminds me of how my grandparents were,
They were always judging me for everything. Not looking right, not doing what they wanted. They always made me feel like the worst screw up ever. But when I moved back with my mother, she always tells me how much she loves me and that I was the only one that helped her get through my step father.
Never listen to guys or girls, Love who you want, love yourself, don't bother changing yourself for them, be yourself, NEVER. LET. THEM. IN. YOUR. HEAD.
your perfect....and to me I think your beautiful inside and out...
It doesn't matter if your straight or LGBTQ+ or not
And happy pride month 🏳️🌈
I am always crying when I listen to this because it's always after a fight when he tells me how useless I am. I listen to this to give me some confidence.
aww honey you deserve someone amazing, someone who thinks you are worth more diamonds. don't ever let someone tell you that you are useless. you are an amazing, unique individual and if they can't see that, then they are not worth your time. when love gets you down listen to beyoncé best thing I never had
I love her voice! Orianthi, don't let the dislikes bring you down!
I'm currently addicted to this song!!
According to my family i am weird and useless and that hurts but luckily i have my friends . They believe i am the most funny and beautiful person in this world. Now that i am in quarantine i understand how much i love my friends and how much they love me and that makes me happy maybe my family think i am useless 💔 but my friends believe in me
i forgot this song even existed
I have never related to a song more right now. My “friends” would always put me down in such horrible ways and I just kept giving them more chances. They Try to ruin my relationship and friendships and laughter about it like it’s a joke. I just stood up to them yesterday and made so many new, better friends and be never been happier. My boyfriend would always make me fell better no matter what.
that guitar solo is everything!
I remember seeing this song on the TV once when I was like 9 and I loved it and I still do :p
"I'm funny irresistible everything he ever wanted"🎤🎧🎧 lalalalala❤️😅
lol as soon as I looked at ur commet the song played that line XD
i was four when i first heard this song its now 2020 who would have guessed
This is the first time I heard this song in 3 years, and I still remember some of the lyrics.
this takes me back to middle school
Broke up with my toxic boyfriend and just jamming to this song with no faze
Not a day goes by where I'm not thankful my current boyfriend found me in my worst state that my ex-boyfriend had put me in and left me in. Thankful for everyday I get to spend with that man. He is truly a blessing!
I been looking for the guitarist for years b/c I've forgotten. I love it!
It only just occurred to me that she was probably "talking" to her guy/bf.. I always assumed she was kinda talking to her folks yknow? Like they're always ragging on her about how shes this and that, never doing anything right and this new guy is the one who sees her as special.. Then I read the comments like, ohhhh.. Haha! All these years and I've apparently never really listened to the lyrics.. Sigh.
That's kinda what I thought too, makes the song more relatable for me
I think it goes both ways. It's all about interpretation.
+B Jones Wow I've never thought of it in that way.
I relate to it with my dad, cause according to him I'm all the bad things she said in the song.
Sounds like my parents.
What if this song isnt about her comparing two guys but about the way she sees herself and the way the guy sees her, like she sees herself in such a bad light but the guy sees her in a complete opposite way, i could relate to that honestly xd
Omg I haven't heard this song in years! I remember teen nick( which used to be the n) used to play this video all the time!
I love this song :)
holy crap I remember hearing this when I was 8 now I'm 14. :O
OMG Same😂
Same here! Wow!
Marissa Widman yup I remember listening to this song when I was 8 and now I am turning 12 this montj
Jinx!!!
i knew it sounded familiar when i heard it in 2013 i remember listening to it with my friend now when i was in fifth grade XD (i'm 14)
Im only listenning to these songs cause im in love..
This randomly popped in my head
Throwback!! My all time fave
I heard a cover that changed "him" to "her" and now the lesbian version just sounds more natural to me lol
This song is how I feel about my old crush and my new crush
sigh...
This song is amazing, i was a freshmen in high school when it came out. and now a graduate i still love this song!!!
I remember listening to this song 5 years ago when I was in Junior high.
Love this song😍
I always heard this song in the morning when Nickelodeon use to play music videos in the morning. I was 9. D:
I just remembered this song by a recommended and man I have never stopped loving this for years
Excellent clip and song!!
I thought she sings, "It's too bad - you're making me decide".
She does! Your correct
It's this idiot that did the lyrics that is wrong
+NelsonClick it is, this video is wrong
Yeah, I did too
I'm pretty sure she does, HOWEVER I may be wrong. And if they made a mistake with the lyrics thats o.k too!
I always assumed the according to you- was herself... I thought she was attacking her negative thoughts she had about herself and a man was making her feel better... I thought this was a song attacking her bad self esteem LOL. That's how I took the song and helped me.
Well that's a good interpretation as well i guess
I agree
I remember playing this on Jamlegend lmao great song!
This song keeps coming back to me.
Huh sums up my so call “friends” and what they think about me
At least I have my fiancée and my friend who stood up for me
Thought it was DECIDE not dizzy..??😂😂
This has been stuck in my head for two days, finally listening it, after years probably... I wonder when this came out, randomly popping into my head in 2021
i had this song stuck in my head last month, but i remembered it as 'im falling for you' instead of 'according to him' and could never find it, and i finally remembered the right lyrics today
According to him, I'm beautiful, incredible, he can't get me out of his head.
I use to listen to this song all the time!!! ( I forgot about it :/ )
After being out of an abusive relationship for a year, I'm finally with my best friend and it's absolutely amazing. I actually have so much more self confidence now that I have someone who loves me like he does ❤️.
I love this music