Severe autism meltdown and recovery

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  • Опубліковано 15 жов 2024
  • Kreed passed away May 2016
    These rages were a result of severe pain and nerve damage that led to his death. The medication he took at the end was cannabis. It was the only thing that helped him.
    The helmet kept him from bashing his head in, which he did to the point that he split his head open and causing concussions. He was used to it and he knew it had to be on until he was calm.
    Kreed wakes up with migraines sometimes and causes massive meltdowns. This is a snapshot and his recovery using an AAC device Dynavox compass

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  • @pixelskin
    @pixelskin 7 років тому +2636

    you can tell he really loves his mom and doesn't mean to act the way he does, bless his heart.

    • @lukasc4534
      @lukasc4534 6 років тому +26

      tensleyy fuck u mean he obviously did

    • @lukasc4534
      @lukasc4534 6 років тому +5

      YourBoi ChipsAhoy I know

    • @lukasc4534
      @lukasc4534 6 років тому +10

      YourBoi ChipsAhoy he shouldn't have autism then my brother has it and doesn't act like a fuck up😂

    • @nefelibata4190
      @nefelibata4190 6 років тому +118

      autism is different in everyone you ignorant fucktard.

    • @scienceandmusic4295
      @scienceandmusic4295 6 років тому +34

      ChoKo IInsomniaa No excuses. I have autism and when i came out of the disgusting monster i was, i could be a person. No excuses.

  • @CDFoakley
    @CDFoakley 8 років тому +1682

    Awesome that your son can communicate so well with this Dynavox. Great job mom! You are a strong woman.

    • @cheeseburgeroptimus9784
      @cheeseburgeroptimus9784 8 років тому +26

      Feminism, fun for the whole family.

    • @lindathrall640
      @lindathrall640 6 років тому +6

      Mom is trying to discipline her son and control his SIB

    • @lindathrall640
      @lindathrall640 6 років тому +4

      I'm curious has Kreed has tried to take off the helmet

    • @shawnafsworld7431
      @shawnafsworld7431 6 років тому +5

      +International Cow You have NO CLUE what Having Autism is Like ! I have "Mild Autism" I was Diagnosed when I was in kindergarten at the age of 5 years old. I made vocal Noise's and I Didn't talk to My kindergarden Teacher. or play or talk to the other students in my kindergarten class.

    • @luckneh5330
      @luckneh5330 6 років тому +2

      Are you guys all ok, all he said was fuck you like just ignore it... I guess not everybody has the ability to ignore things.

  • @lindsilex4440
    @lindsilex4440 4 роки тому +529

    I like how she's not angry with him but also not coddling him. She's being very direct and authoritative and talking to him like an accountable individual. Kudos mom👍

    • @aviva508
      @aviva508 3 роки тому +17

      She is doing correct , that's what is thought to parents of autistic parents

    • @con9244
      @con9244 3 роки тому +1

      @@aviva508are you autistic? I am therefor I know what to do to help an autistic child.

    • @minuit6305
      @minuit6305 3 роки тому +5

      @@con9244 And you're the spokesperson for every autistic person out there? Please take several seats you entitled, coddled baby.

    • @con9244
      @con9244 3 роки тому +1

      @@minuit6305 I suppose your not autistic

    • @Rippenhengst
      @Rippenhengst 3 роки тому +2

      @@con9244 You're high functioning and seem to have no idea about the abilities of severely autistic peoples.
      I'm really wondering about this.
      Did you ever had contact or a relationship to severely autistic peers?

  • @emiliolopez1747
    @emiliolopez1747 8 років тому +768

    I've been trying to learn more about autism to inform myself. I have no family members on the spectrum but I feel it's important to learn about it anyway. I'm honest when I say this scares me, not fear of him, but of how to handle myself through a situation like this. I applaud you for working so hard to help him through his outburst. I hope to learn to maintain this type of patience on a daily basis. Thank you for sharing your world with us.

    • @ianfettt1563
      @ianfettt1563 7 років тому +6

      Emilio Lopez I have a young cousin with autism but it's so very mild it's next to minimum and does so well with it people can't tell he's even got it

    • @lewisjones8206
      @lewisjones8206 6 років тому

      Emilio Lopez ii

    • @overandoverr
      @overandoverr 6 років тому +4

      We need more people like you

    • @placebo4815
      @placebo4815 6 років тому +1

      Emilio Lopez just give him to care centers so you dont need to worry about it

    • @rachelschultz1811
      @rachelschultz1811 6 років тому +1

      Emilio Lopez my heart is pounding and I'm shaking. I think it's my PTSD lol. Poor little fella. I wonder if mom gets massages or vacations. Exhausting and saddening.

  • @EnveeH2
    @EnveeH2 4 роки тому +465

    I cried when he pulled his mom in for a hug. Poor kid, rest in peace.

    • @peytonschuberg1565
      @peytonschuberg1565 3 роки тому +21

      What happened to him

    • @XxKLOWNYBEASTxX
      @XxKLOWNYBEASTxX 3 роки тому +49

      @@peytonschuberg1565 He passed away 2016 R.I.P. 💗💞💝💖💕💓💛💚❤💘

    • @DannyBoi2112
      @DannyBoi2112 3 роки тому +11

      @@peytonschuberg1565 checkout the description

    • @aubryparadis8823
      @aubryparadis8823 3 роки тому +4

      Complications from diabetes or something 😢

    • @Gracielovestodance
      @Gracielovestodance 3 роки тому +37

      @@aubryparadis8823 it was severe brain and nerve damage from all of the rage, anger and frustration from his melt downs poor kid he must have been so frustrated and sweaty and angry.

  • @chenseler85
    @chenseler85 8 років тому +601

    Anyone that says shit like, " I don't care if he has Autism, he needs to
    try harder to behave," or she's a bad mother, or something to that
    effect...after you're done being ignorant and oblivious, go tell a
    Cancer patient that they need to try harder at not being cancerous.

    • @Rum0r
      @Rum0r 6 років тому +1

      Wokeist I don't understand what you mean...

    • @aceclop
      @aceclop 6 років тому +17

      Camille
      I feel like cancerous wasn't the best word to use there

    • @charlieq6083
      @charlieq6083 6 років тому +10

      My son acts like this and i know_
      Not with headaches though_
      But he always got so mad and threw fits like this_you have no idea what that is like_my son is grown now_i cant let him live with me anymore cause he gets to mad and my family is scared of him and so am i

    • @Elfnetdesigns
      @Elfnetdesigns 6 років тому +9

      "after you're done being ignorant and oblivious, go tell a
      Cancer patient that they need to try harder at not being cancerous."
      People did this to Total Biscuit and you see the end result was apparently satisfactory to them.

    • @Elfnetdesigns
      @Elfnetdesigns 6 років тому +3

      I mean I'm a pretty savage and harsh yet totally honest guy but I do have some morality. TB was an OK guy, I never had anything against him and he will be missed. However my statement was in reference to some other mental midgets I have come across on line.
      Maybe I should add to the statement to clarify it..

  • @ashwales5960
    @ashwales5960 8 років тому +1137

    You're so good with him. He's lucky to have you

    • @candycanecones1097
      @candycanecones1097 8 років тому +22

      She was so good with him. He sadly passed away last month:(

    • @bearvalentine379
      @bearvalentine379 8 років тому +4

      +Riley Lewis Sorry I Might Be Out Of The Loop But WHAt Was My Reaction Meaning He Died ??????

    • @candycanecones1097
      @candycanecones1097 8 років тому +13

      +Johnathon Sage he's passed away in his sleep sometime this may:(

    • @jwhitman2005
      @jwhitman2005 7 років тому +6

      the sad thing is that on 12 May 2016, he died

    • @jwhitman2005
      @jwhitman2005 7 років тому +1

      Rohan Zener
      i don't know?

  • @seheabol
    @seheabol 4 роки тому +112

    I could never parent a child like that. I’m just being honest. May God bless them both, hugely.

    • @lisasummer701
      @lisasummer701 3 роки тому +17

      It’s extremely draining.. I deal with it at home

    • @chrismobiliophotography5743
      @chrismobiliophotography5743 3 роки тому +20

      If I had to deal with a child like that I would just lose my head and just gave up. Yeah same with me. Just being honest

    • @goodnight01687
      @goodnight01687 3 роки тому +7

      Sadly the boy died in 2016

    • @chrismobiliophotography5743
      @chrismobiliophotography5743 3 роки тому +4

      @@goodnight01687 yeah i knew that. :(

    • @lauraann7027
      @lauraann7027 2 роки тому +5

      I couldn’t handle a disabled child myself.

  • @Mariamqa
    @Mariamqa 5 років тому +266

    You are super. It requires strong skills and emotional stability. You're doing amazing. Stay blessed.

    • @shellos8
      @shellos8 2 роки тому +1

      He died in 2016.

    • @DenchikDeny
      @DenchikDeny 7 місяців тому

      ​@@shellos8Only Autism Kreed Not Professor Karapuz

  • @taddypatty7923
    @taddypatty7923 6 років тому +304

    When I was 10, I laughed my ass off watching this. 4 years later, I regret finding humor in this sad sad video.

    • @disepii
      @disepii 5 років тому +14

      @@givemeyourmilkmilk7704 that's not funny either

    • @sugarysaturn4892
      @sugarysaturn4892 4 роки тому +32

      MediaClop ~ and that’s on growth. i like to believe he’s a beautiful deer or maybe a father in his next life. sometimes dark humor is just a coping mechanism.

    • @sugarysaturn4892
      @sugarysaturn4892 4 роки тому +4

      I~ it’s really not???

    • @ulu8668
      @ulu8668 4 роки тому +3

      I you are no excuse for a human.

    • @haroldfromthebikinibottom7335
      @haroldfromthebikinibottom7335 4 роки тому

      same

  • @denicechristie2941
    @denicechristie2941 5 років тому +102

    OMG...I'm in tears! It was difficult to watch! I'm glad Kreed's pain is over, but we need medical answers and solutions fast! I'm so very upset by this world when I see such suffering..especially for Kreed, but also, for all of his family! Thank you very much for posting this though, as these real stories need to be made public as we need answers and solutions!!
    We went through horrific self injurious episodes/periods for years with my 16 yr old autism spectrum disorder/ASD son. After these periods he regressed. He's MUCH better now, and these are rare, but he's completely dependent.

    • @denicechristie2941
      @denicechristie2941 5 років тому +3

      In our son's younger years when these episodes were prevalent, he also presented with PANDAS/a pediatric OCD. We used antibiotics and afterwards, a probiotic. It really helped.

    • @faridfarid1207
      @faridfarid1207 4 роки тому +1

      Please can you tell me what antibiotic and probiotic you Yoused.
      Excuse my english i am from France .

    • @denicechristie2941
      @denicechristie2941 4 роки тому +3

      @@faridfarid1207 Infections such as a cold, have triggered episodes over the years, which precipitated a myriad of symptoms including self-injurious and regression. This seems to be the case for some other kids on the spectrum too. Whenever our son's symptoms start we give him amoxicillin. It's not a cure, but it helps! Other parents have shared a similar experience with antibiotics. We've stopped giving him the probiotic for now though. You need a smart open minded Dr to prescribe.
      We haven't ruled these 2 infections out yet- PANDAS and Lyme Disease. You can find information on them and what antibiotics to use.
      We had Whole Exome Testing done, which provided more clues. We're planning on Whole Genome Testing to provide better leads.
      It's daunting to navigate and deal with.
      Best to you Farid

    • @denicechristie2941
      @denicechristie2941 4 роки тому +2

      also, we've been recently looking and trying amino acids.

    • @RJCultureClub1984
      @RJCultureClub1984 2 роки тому

      @Trantor The Troll Because this person wants to understand autism.

  • @OGviiciouZ
    @OGviiciouZ 6 років тому +1187

    i cant undestand how people can make jokes about this kid...

    • @RacistFemboyFox
      @RacistFemboyFox 6 років тому +55

      They aren't as self righteous as you, so they don't feel a need to fight in battles that do not belong to them.

    • @ilovesheen7446
      @ilovesheen7446 6 років тому +29

      but how can you resist?

    • @FATTYBONGRIPS
      @FATTYBONGRIPS 6 років тому +9

      @@estebanescobedo6304 😂😂😂

    • @Brandon_J
      @Brandon_J 6 років тому +36

      OGviiciouZ they wanna feel special, they wanna feel “edgy” or some stupid shit, they think they’re funny when they’re just childish and boring, uneducated and have no sympathy at all, they’re terrible human beings

    • @he_cat
      @he_cat 6 років тому +24

      If you genuenliy think this way, then you're the one with the problem lol.
      You can joke about everything.

  • @schizotypethevirginwarrior7290
    @schizotypethevirginwarrior7290 8 років тому +512

    Deep down inside he probably wants that a "normal" life

    • @tankevin5651
      @tankevin5651 7 років тому +58

      SCHIZO WARRIOR no, actually. I have the case that's just a little better then his. As sad as it is to say, we are not living a good live underneath. The panic hits you hard and I guess it is unimaginable. As bad as it sounds, I have broke my parents furniture and values. Outsiders might think it is funny and could be made fun of, but it is real pain that never really stops.

    • @gisoore1288
      @gisoore1288 6 років тому +4

      JR Logue *Exposed*

    • @PokiDoki-
      @PokiDoki- 6 років тому +10

      +KongSchlong I'd rather have that comment deleted if I were you sunny

    • @RacistFemboyFox
      @RacistFemboyFox 6 років тому +19

      I'd choose to be euthanized if I had autism this bad and was able to.

    • @scienceandmusic4295
      @scienceandmusic4295 6 років тому +6

      Waffle Waffleton I have autism and im so happy i doged that path.

  • @gratefuldood2311
    @gratefuldood2311 3 роки тому +157

    Holy fuck this woman deserves so much recognition. She really knows the definition of patience, persistence and love

  • @kerimackinnon6278
    @kerimackinnon6278 9 років тому +195

    Thank you for sharing Kreed's life with us. I am a special education teacher watching Kreed gives me so much insight.

    • @joewhite3882
      @joewhite3882 9 років тому

      +Keri Butler I agree

    • @noahsenior597
      @noahsenior597 8 років тому +1

      +Joe White me too!

    • @aws77
      @aws77 8 років тому +2

      Hi sir what to do to help him calm down & get recovered from please your answer

    • @marlenefrazier
      @marlenefrazier 6 років тому +1

      MohamedI SALHI l

    • @HankePanke
      @HankePanke 6 років тому +1

      ༺A S P༻ tiger 鿅 oh fuck bless you

  • @sweatyincestdougbehind700l9
    @sweatyincestdougbehind700l9 8 років тому +823

    He should be in the UFC.. He'd rip apart Rhonda.

    • @imdatho
      @imdatho 6 років тому +9

      Ethan Davis The Pikachu Fan stfu autism isn’t deadly unless he died of old age or murder ..😂

    • @frankdux3605
      @frankdux3605 6 років тому +7

      RedBullAddict//Ethan Davis how do you know if he died?? Stop posting lies!

    • @MrNerdyBrit
      @MrNerdyBrit 6 років тому +3

      LMAO

    • @crazygirl-nb7ml
      @crazygirl-nb7ml 6 років тому +2

      Frank Dux the mom posted about his death...

    • @RileyRClazerkitsune
      @RileyRClazerkitsune 6 років тому +4

      He needs some ouchie medicine yet. Also i dont think so because if he fought him self he would probably lose.

  • @ericrockelmann9562
    @ericrockelmann9562 5 років тому +252

    Rest In Peace Kreed! ❤️
    (He passed away in 2016)

    • @khistallings3894
      @khistallings3894 5 років тому +5

      Eric Rockelmann how ?

    • @ericrockelmann9562
      @ericrockelmann9562 5 років тому +83

      Mekhi Stallings he suddenly stopped breathing and was put on life support. Due to his self injuries, he later passed away in the hospital.

    • @myfathersdaughter324
      @myfathersdaughter324 5 років тому +16

      So sad, Bless his heart 😢

    • @Jacoe413
      @Jacoe413 4 роки тому +20

      He had multiple health issues.

    • @whorable
      @whorable 4 роки тому +2

      :(

  • @oodlesofdoodle1731
    @oodlesofdoodle1731 6 років тому +103

    Hey, props to this mom. She is loving and understanding of her son. She know what to do and how to help. Kreed is very fortunate to have such a great mom

  • @RaisingJulian
    @RaisingJulian 8 років тому +129

    I love how you have Kreed use his talker. I work as a para & often times the only time the kids even use their talkers is at school cuz parents don't see how useful they can actually be

    • @lumosnox22
      @lumosnox22 6 років тому +6

      RaisingJulian same, I work as a para and they're super useful. It's irritating cause they don't use it at home and aren't encouraged to, so when they come to school we have to constantly remind them to use their device and prompt them to

  • @couch29
    @couch29 6 років тому +1632

    Poor guy. The pain he's going through most be unbearable.

  • @dylandurose7096
    @dylandurose7096 5 років тому +314

    Wait no one is asking the question. How the hell did she get the helmet on him.

    • @melissapena1703
      @melissapena1703 5 років тому +55

      We have a parents instinctive strength when it comes to keeping our children safe. Been there. I have a Son who will be 18 next week. 6ft 180lbs. It's suprising how we can help them help themselves at times. Not all the time, but sometimes.

    • @stephc3830
      @stephc3830 5 років тому +56

      She is a trained professional as well. She knows all the safest ways to attempt to diffuse the situation and protect kreed from himself. To someone with no experience in the world of autism, that might sometimes look harsh, but this is an extreme situation. It can’t be met with the “naughty step”... “Time out” ...or “go to your room”. She has to protect herself from him and protect him from himself at the same time. TL;DR: she’s a superwoman and it’s necessary.

    • @manueladarazsdi9675
      @manueladarazsdi9675 5 років тому +16

      Go get the meds already!

    • @haidenmariani3994
      @haidenmariani3994 5 років тому +4

      dylan durose I was thinking the same thing💀💀💀

    • @bunnyboo3152
      @bunnyboo3152 4 роки тому +13

      @@manueladarazsdi9675 she cant leave him till he calms down.

  • @DesertRose76
    @DesertRose76 5 років тому +55

    I feel your anguish, mom. Just seeing him like this and how you are trying so hard to calm him down really gives me a panic feeling. I have a 34 year old brother with cerebral palsy and autism, and he is also aggressive and constantly throws tantrums. My parents are still caring for him, and they are now in their 70s. I live here in the US and they live overseas. I spent 24 years of my life living in this chaotic home (it's nobody's fault that he was born like that), however it has severely traumatized me. Seeing my parents go through several doctors, all types of treatments and therapies, and he is now worse than he was 17 years ago when I left my country, gives me this deep anxiety. My parents don't have a social life. Their house is constantly needing repairs because my brother destroys everything. I could not live like that anymore. When I was growing up, I had to lock myself in my room. I don't know how frustrating it is to have this disease. Not being able to communicate, and using aggression to get people's attention. I don't know how frustrating it is to be a parent in this predicament. I am sure there are happy times, but I am sure that many times it must feel like hell. I wish i had had a normal brother. I wish I hadn't grown up so scared of him physically hurting me. It is really hard as a family to take care of a person with a disability such as autism. You seem to be an outstanding mom, and I admire your patience and perseverance.

    • @lancemorales8341
      @lancemorales8341 2 роки тому +8

      my 10yr brother is severely autistic and has extremely violent meltdowns that last hours long. i can’t imagine leaving my mom to deal with him alone.

    • @carolynstogner817
      @carolynstogner817 2 роки тому

      DESERT ROSE, I WILL BE LIFTING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN PRAYER TO
      "THE GREATEST PHYSICIAN!"
      PLEASE DON'T CONDEMN YOURSELF FOR YOUR FEELINGS.
      DON'T LET THE devil DRAW YOU UNDERNEATH THE QUICKSAND OF "GUILT!"
      satin IS THE TEMPTER, LIER, DECEIVER, HE COMES TO:
      KILL
      STEAL
      AND DESTROY...
      YOU, ME, YOUR PARENTS, SIBLINGS;
      YOUR PEACE, YOUR FUTURE, YOUR MENTAL THOUGHTS, THE "JOY OF THE LORD, WHICH IS OUR STRENGTH"
      "THERE IS NOTHING 'TOO HARD'
      FOR "HIM! "
      PLEASE DON'T ISOLATED OR DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM
      YOUR PARENTS!
      THEY NEED YOU
      AS MUCH AS
      YOU NEED THEM.
      EVEN IF YOU DON'T FEEL LED BY GOD TO VISIT THEM OFTEN...
      (for "YOUR" individual healing...
      Spirit, Soul & BODY...
      YOU CALL CALL,
      TEXT,
      FACE TIME FOR JUST A
      "QUICK"
      (5-10 Minutes limit each time) SO BOTH PARTIES WON'T HAVE TO DREAD EACH OTHERS PHONE CALLS AND EVENTUALLY BEGIN TO IGNORE ANSWERING THE RING.
      JUST A MUTUAL LOVE CHECK UP, EVERY OTHER DAY... OR WHATEVER YA'LL DECIDE WOULD BE A BLESSING FOR ALL!
      YOU "WILL" HEAL SUPERNATURALLY "FAST" IF YOU HEED HIS RECIPE FOR WISDOM.
      "HE STATED A" FACT",
      NOT A SUGGESTION, HINT, POSSIBLE GOOD THING TO DO....
      THIS IS WISDOM...
      GOD TEACHES US TO PRAY FOR OTHERS, THAT YOU MAY BE HEALED. "
      NO ONE SHOULD" ONLY PRAY FOR "OTHERS... IN ORDER FOR OUR OWN HEALING TO MANIFEST.
      THAT WOULD BE LIKE AN "OBLIGATION TO PRAY..." JUST SO THAT
      "I" GET WHAT
      "I" NEED.
      IT'S NOT TO BE LIKE A MONEY CHANGER OCCURS IN YOUR BRAIN, THINKING...
      I'LL SPEAK WORDS OF PRAYER FOR SOMEONE...
      EVEN IF I SPEAK WORDS, THAT MAY NOT BE SINCERELY FELT IN ONE'S HEART... GOD IS NOT "OBLIGATED" TO PULL THE SLOT MACHINE TO DISPINCE A MIRACLE OF "IMMEDIATE, TOTAL HEALINGS..."
      GOD ISN'T OUR "HEAVENLY SLOT MACHINES HOPING TO PULL THE LARGEST WINNINGS!
      WHEN WE BEGIN PRAYING DAILY OR MORE OFTEN, SAY WHEN YOU WAKE UP, AND RIGHT BEFORE BEDTIME...
      (even if you "DREAD" THE THOUGHT OF DILIGENTLY SETTING TWICE A DAY TO FOCUS ON YOUR "FAMILY,
      IN SPITE OF PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE DYNAMICS.
      DECIDE IF YOU ARE ABLE TO TAKE SERIOUSLY, THIS "GOD TRUTH" AND WHETHER WE HAVE THE INTEGRITY, THE SPIRITUAL, ETHICAL AND MORAL COMMITMENT TO "FOLLOW THROUGH, OR
      NOT!
      IF YOU DECIDE TO
      BE CONSISTANT, AND FAITHFUL, REGARDLESS OF YOUR INTERNAL THOUGHTS, AND MENTAL BATTLES.....
      YOU CAN TAKE GOD AT "HIS WORD!"
      IN AN
      "EXTEMELY"
      SHORT TIME...
      THE DREAD WILL VANISH!
      THE EMNITY BETWEEN ALL OF YA'LL WILL "POOF"
      BE GONE!
      YOU WILL SHAKE HEAD IN DISBELIEF WHEN ONE DAY...
      "OUT OF THE BLUE" ...
      A GOD PITCHED BRICK ZAPS YOU SMACK ON YOUR HEAD!
      LO AND BEHOLD..
      YOU WILL ANTICIPATE, AND CAN'T WAIT TILL YOUR "WARFARE PRAYERS BEGIN AGAIN!
      BE BOLD,
      BE BELIEVING"
      "BY FAITH"
      "BE REJOICING"
      "BE PRAISING"
      GOD CLAIMS...
      "OBEDIENCE"
      IS BETTER THAN
      SACRIFICES.
      WE CAN'T "PURCHASE HIS ATTENTION,
      OR "PAY ENOUGH MONEY FOR HIS BLESSINGS AND MIRACLES.
      HE DECLARES THE ONLY WE CAN PLEASE GOD..
      IS BY FAITH IN HIM,
      IN HIS WORD.
      FAITH...
      THEN
      OBEDIANCE...
      I PROMISE...
      " YOU WILL BE CHANGED FROM THE
      "INNIE AND THE OUTIE!"
      SOUND LIKE A PLAN?
      LET ME KNOW, PLEASE!

  • @mike26fl89
    @mike26fl89 8 років тому +22

    I 've been an ESE teacher for the past 18 years and have a lot of experience with ASD students. You are doing a great job. Very consistent. Bless you.

  • @sandi21515
    @sandi21515 5 років тому +47

    I commend you. I have worked for ten yrs with severely autistic non-verbal young man. It's hard on the families. You're doing a great job. God bless.

  • @adventureguy4119
    @adventureguy4119 8 років тому +141

    you can hear the frustration in the mothers voice

    • @wii1245
      @wii1245 8 років тому +17

      Yeah, but she could at least talk to him in a calm voice. That will keep him from mutulating himself .

    • @katerinag9512
      @katerinag9512 6 років тому +39

      wii1245 Um no . She’s doing the best she could do.

    • @user-sc4vr7cx5c
      @user-sc4vr7cx5c 6 років тому +11

      @@Homeschoolplusthrift she wasn't being cruel at all!

    • @JustSomeGirl87
      @JustSomeGirl87 6 років тому +4

      @@Homeschoolplusthrift ?? Give me a time tag showing her being cruel? Just one...

    • @Lyshem
      @Lyshem 6 років тому +5

      @@Homeschoolplusthrift mate you have no idea what your talking about. Have you ever been in this situation stfu

  • @b4N4N4XP
    @b4N4N4XP 5 років тому +26

    This takes an enormous amount of patience. You're doing a great job mom! Not many children with special needs have people in their life with this degree or patience and caring.

  • @Lachismewitch
    @Lachismewitch 5 років тому +181

    8:40 is nobody gonna address the fact that she call CHIPOTLE CHIPADDLE?

    • @t8506
      @t8506 5 років тому +5

      Thats great and all but it doesn't explain why Fury was robbed

    • @ohyo1386
      @ohyo1386 5 років тому +24

      oh yes it's definitely the biggest issue in this video as if her son is not in great physical and mental pain, fucking mispronounciations man :/

    • @vegamason8484
      @vegamason8484 5 років тому +2

      True lol

    • @IsabeauMann
      @IsabeauMann 5 років тому +17

      Haha I laughed at that, too. I don’t know this family, but at my house we get a kick out of pronouncing things the way our son’s aug comm device’s voice pronounces them. It is hysterical sometimes the mistakes that thing makes. Example: Candy Cane is Canduckun. So we call them canduckuns. I bet the family makes a joke of Chipaddle. Hey, you gotta find humor where you can when you’re living a nightmare like this.

    • @codyryder7561
      @codyryder7561 5 років тому +1

      Lol

  • @thechickenrunner3832
    @thechickenrunner3832 7 років тому +92

    i have AdHD and very bad autism and im in a weelchair i have chickens and they calm me

    • @PokiDoki-
      @PokiDoki- 6 років тому +11

      that cool, chickens are adorable!

    • @שגרירותאוזבקיסטןבישראל
      @שגרירותאוזבקיסטןבישראל 5 років тому +1

      Chickens are very cute indeed.

    • @FuqUYouTube
      @FuqUYouTube 5 років тому +1

      @@tjjackson3104 tell that to my 8yo nephew who can't read a book without looking at everything else around him, but not the book...., or when he walks away to watch TV, half way through a conversation... Or how he forgets what he was watching... He's not mentally disabled by any means, and is normal like his brothers.. He just *can not keep focus*...
      Now I don't think meds are a good option.. Not at all. But you can't deny ADHD doesn't exist, Just because you had a bad experience. And it certainly does *not* negate the fact that other people genuinely have problems.

    • @FuqUYouTube
      @FuqUYouTube 5 років тому

      @@tjjackson3104 I don't consider this a mental Illness... I see it as my nephew just needs a different environment to collect his thoughts, and we as adults(family, teachers, etc..) , need to try and figure out the best way to get him to take interest, and focus...
      All I'm saying is my nephew truly has trouble keeping focus.. Its not a constant disassociation all the time, but its definitely, and easily noticeable. You can call it what you will, I just know it as ADD/ADHD
      BTW, as a 28yo... my mothers a cunt, and I totally get what you're saying... But did your uncle really deserve an ass whooping? I understand there's being a dick about it... or was it genuine concern? And if so, perhaps you're just hot tempered🤔.. and need some pot, or vallium... Lol..

    • @FuqUYouTube
      @FuqUYouTube 5 років тому

      @@tjjackson3104 also, I highly doubt ide get into it with my nephew down the road.... and I'm not your uncle, not everyone goes down easy..😁 and I'm not afraid to defend myself, I don't care who it is.

  • @Dracoh
    @Dracoh 5 років тому +109

    I could not live with this. She is a trooper fr

    • @Sailormoonfan88
      @Sailormoonfan88 4 роки тому +13

      Sadly autism can't be detected in the womb like downs syndrome. God makes special kids for special parents. My mom didn't want me to turn out disabled but life doesn't always go the way you want.

    • @francescadunn2795
      @francescadunn2795 4 роки тому +3

      First of all i have a son like this and its not funny and being rude is right

    • @Sailormoonfan88
      @Sailormoonfan88 4 роки тому +17

      @@francescadunn2795 I don't think Dracoh meant it as a joke. Certain people can't handle a disabled person and it takes courage to admit that. But, in life things don't go as you want. If Erin felt she couldn't handle Kreed she would of left him and his mother a long time ago. When you love someone you have to accept what life throws at you.

    • @hiswife6296
      @hiswife6296 4 роки тому +1

      God will give you the strength you need just ask him. Its hard but its not in our power to have a child without disabilities.

    • @Sailormoonfan88
      @Sailormoonfan88 4 роки тому +2

      @@hcctendeep7047 If you wind up with a special needs child I hope to God you put him or her up for adoption!!! No child deserves to be abused for something they can't help!!!!!

  • @harrysmovies4553
    @harrysmovies4553 5 років тому +35

    I'm so glad that he's home, poor child. The cops don't know how to deal with autism. They would have hurt him. It happened to a child in DC and the cops choked him. This needs to be addressed. Major props mom.
    Oh yeah....not the movies boo.

    • @momzillainnova
      @momzillainnova 5 років тому +6

      Harry's Movies that case made the news but many others in the DC area don’t. I live 30 minutes away. For the nations capital it is horrifically uneducated about autism and how to respond to severe autism. Depression as well. A 16 year old child was gunned down in front of my home after slitting his own throat. His friend called police for help. They responded by shooting him six times. He had a small kitchen knife in his hand and was running away. And this isn’t an inner city issue. I live in he wealthiest county in the entire country yet none of the officers were properly trained or even armed with tasers.

  • @x4iaw931
    @x4iaw931 6 років тому +22

    Rest in Peace, Kreed - you were cared for and loved, and won't be forgotten. I'm sorry you didn't have longer with us all - longer to get better. But I'm glad the time you had here was spent with people who loved you so much.

  • @payne-pw6jn
    @payne-pw6jn 5 років тому +75

    2:19 that lab is like “damn”
    Poor kid. RIP dude. Hopefully you have found some peace❤️

  • @route66us19
    @route66us19 5 років тому +40

    I've had Autism for my entire life and it's taken me 12 years to fully recover from it. God bless you as a mother.

    • @hemprope4326
      @hemprope4326 4 роки тому +1

      Tard

    • @alexanderdanw5292
      @alexanderdanw5292 4 роки тому +11

      You can't recover from Autism. My Girlfriend had Autism and I know u can recover. I also might be on the spectrum. 🙄

    • @maulanwong3841
      @maulanwong3841 4 роки тому +2

      Alexander Danw actually some kids outgrow autism as they get older meaning they no longer show signs and symptoms of autism

    • @shinu1923
      @shinu1923 4 роки тому +7

      @@maulanwong3841 That's not true whatsoever. Your brain doesn't just magically rewire every bit of it, change your entire way of thought and sensory processing. It isn't that kids "grow out of autism", it's that we're forced to hide our autistic traits to the point where we do it without even thinking about it, which causes extreme psychological damage in the long run. No one "recovers" from autism because it's not something you recover from, it's literally your entire neurotype.

    • @raucousraptor
      @raucousraptor 4 роки тому

      @@shinu1923 No, some actually do, around 13%

  • @n.i.t.f919
    @n.i.t.f919 8 років тому +746

    Assasins Kreed

  • @A13XLaircey
    @A13XLaircey 3 роки тому +13

    I have to admit, having a much milder form of Autism myself, Kreed actually has quite a better temperament than I do. Whenever I get that far into a meltdown, usually chairs get lifted and thrown, if I had a helmet I'd be headbutting the wall like an angry bull...
    Considering the circumstances and everything, Kreed handled this quite well!
    Kreed was truly a champ, may he rest in peace. And nothing but kudos to the mother for raising him so well.

    • @noahpiotrowski6076
      @noahpiotrowski6076 3 роки тому

      LOL why pussyfoot around the truth? the meltdowns destroyed him. I understand you're trying to be nice but dont BS

    • @A13XLaircey
      @A13XLaircey 3 роки тому +2

      @@noahpiotrowski6076 Um... I have severe meltdowns, and a mild form of Autism. Even if he was nonverbal, just the fact that he was able to rein in his emotions like that and control them that much, when all he could say was "play" or "food"...
      If I were in that situation, the whole house would be redecorated... in a bad way...

  • @soulpowerful
    @soulpowerful 5 років тому +47

    Every part of me hurts for this precious family.

  • @danielfisher9287
    @danielfisher9287 6 років тому +38

    HOW DO YOU DO IT?! It’s insane how you’ve done this and how you’ve taught him all this even through his mental obstacles! How do you do it???

    • @Sailormoonfan88
      @Sailormoonfan88 4 роки тому +14

      When you love your child or love someone who is close to someone with special needs you do what you gotta do!!!

    • @How_To_Play1
      @How_To_Play1 4 роки тому +2

      your mind will adapt to its current situations, you have not adapted to stm like this so you cannot comprehend dealing with it but she has adapted to him and can deal with it

    • @Sailormoonfan88
      @Sailormoonfan88 2 роки тому

      @Jimmy Clark Thank God that worked for your child but what worked on your child may not work for another.

    • @macey4214
      @macey4214 Рік тому

      She does it by being an abusive bitch

  • @khaoszombiejs7495
    @khaoszombiejs7495 8 років тому +306

    Couldn't handle this

    • @djhenyo
      @djhenyo 7 років тому +28

      This was scary as all hell. I thought it was fake until I saw his eyes up close.

    • @zacelliott328
      @zacelliott328 7 років тому +8

      I laughed so hard

    • @ianfettt1563
      @ianfettt1563 7 років тому +3

      Zac Elliott I did too

    • @devinmartin5944
      @devinmartin5944 6 років тому +5

      Not cool

    • @ninabean4857
      @ninabean4857 6 років тому +2

      hell no

  • @patriotgirl330
    @patriotgirl330 Рік тому +9

    This woman is a saint. She's not coddling and she is enforcing boundaries. There are so many out there who don't do what she's doing and let their child her themselves, those around them, and damage things.

  • @darkshadow2502
    @darkshadow2502 6 років тому +20

    kreed's so loving i love the way he hugs his mum, it's like his own way of saying thank you for helping me.

  • @lauren.g5382
    @lauren.g5382 4 роки тому +16

    I praise this mother for her patience! I could never in a million years have the patience to deal with that

  • @stevenessington3469
    @stevenessington3469 5 років тому +38

    how this chick handles this situation is absolutely unreal, she understands this kid and knows not only what she is doing but what he is doing and how to help. absolutely huge props to her

    • @that_objectguy
      @that_objectguy Рік тому

      umm….

    • @Lightning14364K
      @Lightning14364K 7 місяців тому

      @@that_objectguyI didn’t see her face, but it’s more likely than not that she’s unattractive

  • @NekoNoca
    @NekoNoca 5 років тому +65

    “I went to a dark place” “I went to teds montana grill”

  • @montoyaholly
    @montoyaholly 4 роки тому +8

    You're a strong, brilliant mum. I know sometimes it's trying, but you've got this. Thank you for opening up your world so that others may see what the reality of this can look like. My son is getting older and it's a real possibility my life will look like this. The self harm is the worst for me right now, its heartbreaking. Stay strong!

  • @SL5991.
    @SL5991. 4 роки тому +7

    My kid was diagnosed with autism when she was 2.5 and I can't tell you how much its killing me inside when I found out. Call me exaggerated but I felt like it's the end of the world and cried for like days. I'm kinda over it now but the fear of she's not going to be successful in life and people will have no sympathy for her keep haunting me...

    • @TheDerek14
      @TheDerek14 3 роки тому

      It depends on how severe it is. Autism is a spectrum disorder. On the higher ends of the spectrum you get cases to where people exhibit characteristics akin to down syndrome, or intellectual disability (mental retardation). On the lower ends, however, you see very different characteristics. Even though someone may be on the autism spectrum, they can still be high functioning, even though they may show lack of social behavior. It will all depends on how the child grows older, especially around puberty, when the body begins to change rapidly.

    • @SL5991.
      @SL5991. 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheDerek14 she was on level 2 over 2 years ago when we took her to the exam but I don't know about now, she's seems making progress, I let her attend speech therapy and it helps her a lot, 2 years ago she did not talk (over 2 years old), no eye contact, no respond to her name and kept lining up toys, those actions are totally gone now, she started to talk, pointing to objects and speaks up ask for what she wants, no long sentences or conversations yet but she does speak 3 4 words in one sentence, potty trained and asks when she needs to go. But still she dislikes noises and sometimes it will drives her nuts then she cries or whines so much. Hit younger sister a lot (with and without reason). I honestly don't know if that is part of the spectrum or just siblings jealousy...

  • @LAHA759
    @LAHA759 5 років тому +15

    Wowwwww smh I really take my hat off to this woman! She's is amazing, patient and genuinely compassionate. I feel for this kid, he really has no control over his behavior.

  • @lesleylaurence6056
    @lesleylaurence6056 5 років тому +27

    I’ve seen some very rude and disrespectful comments towards this wonderful young man.
    Many comments say “ why can’t he be normal” Autism is the normal for them ( His mom and Kreed)
    One even said “ couldn’t you abort him”
    Autism CANNOT be detected During Pregnancy, symptoms show up in children with Severe Autism around 6 to 9 months, some even younger.
    I highly praise this woman, for how she deals with her son. You can clearly see she loves Kreed so much and ( under her strong voice) she is a very caring mother and is very nervous about his son injuring himself.
    #AutismAcceptance

  • @lianasoares8052
    @lianasoares8052 6 місяців тому +5

    I feel bad for parents with kids like these & of course, the kid…some day they should be put into a care facility.

    • @PatryckChan
      @PatryckChan 6 місяців тому +3

      he kid sadly passed away in 2016

    • @wywardmoose
      @wywardmoose 2 місяці тому

      They usually make things worse.

  • @damianread2490
    @damianread2490 8 років тому +47

    what a wonderful mother, a very lucky boy

  • @MommyCassReborns
    @MommyCassReborns 6 років тому +86

    this is super uncomfy to watch can't imaging dealing w this daily :(

    • @mistylover2082
      @mistylover2082 5 років тому +4

      May we never know for sure for the first time finally what causes this evil vile disorder or condition or if it's forever or actually DOES HAVE A CURE or treatment or tharipy. Why does something like this always existed as a thing or disorder?!? Where do these helpless HELLholes come from?!? Such a species of a planet with such sickness and disease and mental mess up disorders?!? 🤔😐

    • @mistylover2082
      @mistylover2082 5 років тому

      @@floramajesty6679 you talking about me? 🤔

    • @disasterofalldisasters
      @disasterofalldisasters 5 років тому

      @@mistylover2082 what the hell are you talking about?

    • @mistylover2082
      @mistylover2082 5 років тому

      @@disasterofalldisasters Because I kinda have it

    • @disasterofalldisasters
      @disasterofalldisasters 5 років тому

      @@mistylover2082 that really hasn't answered my question.

  • @ccmj4459
    @ccmj4459 5 років тому +2

    What is it that you are using there? My daughter is highly autistic and doesn’t talk with words and what we are using right now is really bad! If anybody has any suggestions it will help thanks

    • @ccmj4459
      @ccmj4459 5 років тому

      Aspie Bear okay thanks a lot!!

  • @wankydoodle7644
    @wankydoodle7644 7 років тому +361

    "When you here a good joke" 1:40

  • @Broadica
    @Broadica 5 років тому +43

    I am constantly amazed by the willpower and dedication and love that can manifest from a single human body. So much power behind her voice... I can't imagine the magnitude of her presence in person.
    She would be a powerful Sith Lord.

  • @Amandajacksonmoonwalker
    @Amandajacksonmoonwalker 3 роки тому +3

    I have high functioning autism and I feel people with autism should be loved.

  • @sugainhu5444
    @sugainhu5444 6 років тому +17

    You can see how loving he is. He keeps telling his mother to not leaving him. He is such a baby. All i see is his heart. Not his imperfections ❤️❤️❤️

  • @xxDaManxx14
    @xxDaManxx14 6 років тому +30

    I feel so bad for you... there is no way I could handle this I salute you for this

    • @Sailormoonfan88
      @Sailormoonfan88 6 років тому

      Royal what if your girlfriend or boyfriend had a special needs sibling you wouldn't date them? My brother in law loves me for me not just the fact I have mental disabilities.

    • @SlimeDawgy
      @SlimeDawgy 6 років тому +14

      Katie Parent fucK no lmao I got enough issues myself I wouldn’t be able to handle this. Stop making people feel like dicks for knowing their limits

    • @Sailormoonfan88
      @Sailormoonfan88 6 років тому +1

      SAD,Then don't date a person with a disabled sibling plain and simple. If my brother-in law didn't like me around my sister she'd be like bye. Since he does love me the way I am there are no issues. It's not my sister's fault I have autism and a learning disability,it's not mine either. It takes a true man or women to accept a disabled sibling for who they are not by their challenges.Erin and Kreed's mother loved Kreed very much. It's sad he died so young and Kreed didn't act this way all the time. He had fun and happy times 2. Plus it was just a question I wasn't even talking to you.

    • @loveshell6945
      @loveshell6945 4 роки тому +3

      Katie Parent Yes, you can think I’m a terrible person but I couldn’t date somebody with a severe autistic or any disability child that acted out like this. I’d go crazy.

    • @huntermitchell1886
      @huntermitchell1886 4 роки тому

      @@Sailormoonfan88 i agree, words of wisdom

  • @roofiey9997
    @roofiey9997 5 років тому +7

    It's important to always read the description first. You do know how it's like to make fun of a kid who already passed away. Have you ever wondered how his family would feel like when they read your dirty comments. That's just a horrible way to live, making fun of something you shouldn't make fun of.

    • @alinaalexandra8812
      @alinaalexandra8812 5 років тому +1

      Mr. Whatever 👍🏻😢

    • @RJCultureClub1984
      @RJCultureClub1984 2 роки тому

      @Physically Remove Commies Making dark jokes will hurt someone.

    • @RJCultureClub1984
      @RJCultureClub1984 2 роки тому

      @Physically Remove Commies Yes, they can mentally.

    • @RJCultureClub1984
      @RJCultureClub1984 2 роки тому

      @Physically Remove Commies No it's not, but that doesn't mean it's right to do it. How would you feel if someone hurt your feelings?

  • @abstracthorizons9136
    @abstracthorizons9136 4 роки тому +14

    That device really came in handy... he is a smart boy... I hope he feels better

    • @frosttbitte1620
      @frosttbitte1620 3 роки тому +3

      smart for an autistic probably but really dumb for a normal

    • @eclaire1748
      @eclaire1748 3 роки тому

      @@frosttbitte1620 most autistic people are extremely smart

    • @frosttbitte1620
      @frosttbitte1620 3 роки тому

      @@eclaire1748 i am a deformed donkey

  • @skidmarkmcgee
    @skidmarkmcgee 8 років тому +28

    mom, you are a saint!....I just don't know how you do it...

  • @Zeldaszombiecorpse
    @Zeldaszombiecorpse 9 місяців тому +2

    I was forced to be in classes with kids like this cause I was dyslexic. I’ll never forgive the world for this

  • @Grem-s7y
    @Grem-s7y 4 місяці тому +9

    kreed was only 18 years when he died. he is in a good place called heaven :(

  • @tetflaminiano1674
    @tetflaminiano1674 7 років тому +64

    jesus, this is heartbreaking

    • @cadenjmeyers
      @cadenjmeyers 5 років тому +1

      @Samantha Cole he's not in pain he's just having a mental attack.
      my friend has autism and he's mentioned a couple times what it's like, he says it's like a battle of his brain telling him what to do.

    • @cadenjmeyers
      @cadenjmeyers 5 років тому

      @Samantha Cole the person can be in pain if it gets bad.
      edit: if he hurts himself only

    • @oDM0o
      @oDM0o 5 років тому

      @@cadenjmeyers , not all autism is the same.

  • @MoonsterOTM
    @MoonsterOTM 4 роки тому +2

    What did u use for his helmet and gloves. My son is doing about the same thing and its killing me inside.

  • @bmwvillan
    @bmwvillan 8 років тому +273

    Not being ignorant, Where's Kreed's father?

    • @wii1245
      @wii1245 8 років тому +71

      +Kreed's World aka a deadbeat father.

    • @bmwvillan
      @bmwvillan 8 років тому +53

      Kreed's World well I tell you what, That's his loss such a shame he has no idea the amazing son beyond words he is missing out on and the brave strong mother he left, you guys don't need him anyways he probably wasn't good enough for you and Kreed.

    • @bogsbinny7124
      @bogsbinny7124 8 років тому +54

      Apollo died in the ring so Rocky takes care of him now.

    • @bALDbOY85
      @bALDbOY85 8 років тому +1

      +Kreed's World damn, that's pretty sad. Does he have a stepdad or a fatherly figure at all?

    • @edgarallanpoestheblackcat6613
      @edgarallanpoestheblackcat6613 8 років тому +3

      +Kreed's World Then why did you even marry him?

  • @georgiaboy7674
    @georgiaboy7674 6 років тому +37

    To all the people talking crap about this poor child, y'all will get your judgement someday.

    • @cobyfrost9304
      @cobyfrost9304 5 років тому +3

      Ya but the way he's acting is pretty funny tho right

    • @bigmoneyjackson2385
      @bigmoneyjackson2385 5 років тому +4

      Except God isn't real

    • @icantzucc4573
      @icantzucc4573 5 років тому +3

      Well im autistic and i can laugh at this

    • @tk-5509
      @tk-5509 5 років тому +2

      There are really bad People to this World, thiefs, rapist, dictators, Where are their judgement?

    • @deeshoshanah7161
      @deeshoshanah7161 5 років тому

      The people that deal with kids like this already are being punished by the restarted kids

  • @annabellelee4535
    @annabellelee4535 Рік тому +2

    I had a cousin that was this way, and he was on thorazine and it really helped him. He used to go to my grandparent's house and chase my brothers, other cousins, and I with an ax. That all stopped when he was prescribed thorazine daily. He couldn't do anything but sit and stare at a television each day. He ended up in an institution. I wish we could help these people, they're in pain. It's heartbreaking.

  • @SashasSpecialChannel
    @SashasSpecialChannel 9 років тому +82

    He gets so rough on himself has he ever seriously harmed himself or broken something yet?

  • @vg_astxro757
    @vg_astxro757 4 роки тому +4

    I got loads of respect for what looks like a single mom having to do this on her own 👏

  • @sparky8455
    @sparky8455 5 років тому +5

    Poor kid. It’s not even his fault. I have empathy for the guy; I have high functioning autism. From experience I can say that it’s like being trapped in a broken body, but I can only imagine that what this kid is going through is hell right now.

  • @evelynanderson6016
    @evelynanderson6016 5 років тому +5

    I have an autistic little brother that doesn’t have severe autism like this, thankfully for the amount of therapists that help he has amazing communication and is very expressive with words. To people that say autism is formed from vaccinations, drugs, alcohol, all sorts of things that’s not always the case. Those can make it more common, but I have the same father of my brother, and my mom did nothing different during her pregnancy with my brother than with me. I am 16 and he is turning 15 soon, he is amazing. Do we sometimes wish he didn’t have autism? Of course. It’s extremely unfortunate that people are born with something can be so severe and exhausting day to day. But it made him the way he is. I get asked all the time from my close friends “If there was a cure, would you make him take it?” Now first off, we wouldn’t make him do anything. We’d ask him. I don’t know if he is aware that he has autism, but I do think he knows he’s different. If there was a cure for autism you’d have to think, depending the severity of the autism if it’s something they want, or something you want just to make things easier. This is the first autistic child ever in our family history that’s related from blood and not marriage. Things happen. Not an accident, not a mistake, just something that happens. No one is normal, and what is the word normal mean? It means different things to different people. Cultures may think the US is not normal, just because of their own culture. Normal isn’t a thing. Maybe Average? Most known? You could use any other word than normal. Nothing is normal. This is very sad to see on how the child reacts to his meltdown. My younger brother used to have sever autism, but at a very early stage where it was easy to “fix”. He would bite and hurt himself, but we were fortunate enough to have good people to help. And not everyone is, and sometimes therapy dosent “fix” autism. To pick on some one because they’re different, is a sorry excuse. The only reason why people pick on others, is because they know they’re weak, so if they pick on someone else they fee that power. Humans are a disgusting race, but children and adults with autism just want affection and help, because they don’t always know how to ask. It breaks my heart to see children with such severe autism. You’re an amazing mother and I know how it feels, and just keep trying, it will get better.

  • @shaylove3583
    @shaylove3583 5 років тому +5

    Hi mom's your doing a good job. What is the name of the communication device? I have twin boys with autism ADHD one is nonverbal.

    • @quindixie6867
      @quindixie6867 5 років тому

      I dont know what exactly she has, but many families use whats called a "Dynabox".

  • @LalaLarrieux
    @LalaLarrieux 5 років тому +8

    You're an awesome mom and woman!!! I'm so glad you don't coddle him, and I love how you were firm and were able to redirect him and get him calm.💜💜💜

  • @bridgetr8949
    @bridgetr8949 3 роки тому +5

    I like that the mom doesn’t treat him like a baby

  • @gracem.5778
    @gracem.5778 6 років тому +7

    It’s interesting to see this. If I’m honest with myself (please do not take this offensively, I am working on it) when seeing that outburst I was scared. Scared for the mother, and scared for both of and for the son. He really could have hurt himself for someone else, I respect how well she handled it.

  • @lynnc5408
    @lynnc5408 5 років тому

    Hello. Would you mind telling us whether or not he fights getting the helmet on and did you see this coming and get it on him right away?

  • @donnahand2470
    @donnahand2470 4 роки тому +14

    My grandson is autistic. And he also has meltdowns I love him so much

    • @piscesempress1978
      @piscesempress1978 Рік тому

      My son is autistic, I love him to death. Seriously. But he does have his moments where I just want to sit down, and cry. I know its not about me, so I stay strong for him.

  • @donnahall6573
    @donnahall6573 5 років тому +7

    This is hands down, the most definitive example of unconditional love I've ever seen. It's like the 2 of them are speaking from their hearts, a language nobody knows but the them.

  • @RaccoonNation
    @RaccoonNation 5 років тому

    Love, support, and prayers to you and your family. I understand that the helmet is for his protection, but do you think it causes him any interal or physical anxiety? Like being trapped in a straight jacket, but unable to verbalize that's its causing you pain? I feel so helpless watching this, but I see the benefit outweighs the risk.
    Ps do you think he gets hot in the mask or uncomfortable

  • @lisaaddas5282
    @lisaaddas5282 5 років тому +3

    My mom used to work for a facility that housed these babies, and I always judged the parents...but honestly I think I wouldn't be strong enough.,...I have so much respect for these parents who just deal with it.

    • @eclaire1748
      @eclaire1748 3 роки тому

      How could you judge parents for something they can't control?

    • @piscesempress1978
      @piscesempress1978 Рік тому

      judging parents, when you aren't even strong enough to do what we do... How dare you.

  • @streetivy
    @streetivy 5 років тому +25

    This makes my problems seem so small...

  • @wejxgsbgaming8715
    @wejxgsbgaming8715 5 років тому

    I have never been around someone in that state,does it get easier as they get older? What are some helpful books you would recommend to learn from.

  • @leahgracefecteau6049
    @leahgracefecteau6049 5 років тому +3

    He is a nice young man he just can’t help it he has a very good mom

  • @gregsmith1452
    @gregsmith1452 3 роки тому +4

    I respect the fact that the comments aren't disabled

    • @DeltaPi314
      @DeltaPi314 3 роки тому +2

      That's how you keep the views coming. If you disable comments you won't get as much views.

  • @Lillywolfleg533
    @Lillywolfleg533 Рік тому +1

    Hi I'm wondering where you got this helmet because I might need to buy one

  • @alphazyy2651
    @alphazyy2651 6 років тому +12

    This is so hard to watch...
    But at the same time this is reality.
    Also ever since watching this I have stopped using Autism as an insult and I have encouraged others to stop too...

  • @omerkaya545
    @omerkaya545 2 роки тому +13

    I'm crying watching this. A wonderful human trapped in a hurtful capsule.

  • @lastviking6981
    @lastviking6981 5 років тому +2

    Can somebody explain why ”they” hit their own heads? Not trying to be rude I’m just curious. I’ve met a few people with autism during my life but not like this

    • @prochoiceamerican1815
      @prochoiceamerican1815 5 років тому +1

      It's a way of self soothing or trying to communicate. Because they can control impluses or coping skills like a "normal" person w/o austism and other developmental delays. Not that all of them do this but severe cases like this. My friends brother just shuts down and it can the day for him to come out of that.

    • @wywardmoose
      @wywardmoose 2 місяці тому

      As an autistic, I can say for me ots relieving the horrible tension and "electricity" feeling inside. It's usually automatic and can't be held back even if I'm trying as hard as I can.

  • @kaye5051
    @kaye5051 5 років тому +26

    this is so hard to watch. poor baby

  • @abrahampalmer1153
    @abrahampalmer1153 5 років тому +3

    I really really feel bad for this guy I understand what he goes through because I have autism myself and is a struggle everyday.

  • @Princessotaku666
    @Princessotaku666 5 років тому +2

    It makes me cry to know that my Autism could've been as bad as this....

  • @angelaguillen8972
    @angelaguillen8972 5 років тому +4

    but what happened with the Charlotte cbd drops? why you didn't try it yet?

    • @Sailormoonfan88
      @Sailormoonfan88 4 роки тому

      Maybe there was something in it Kreed was allergic too.

  • @bananamanchester4156
    @bananamanchester4156 6 років тому +15

    Poor kid :( good job mum

  • @joyfulautisticjesusfreak1997
    @joyfulautisticjesusfreak1997 Рік тому +2

    Patience is really the key BIG time. Ouch. Instead of yelling, remain calm, say something like ‘I’m sorry you’re upset,’ or ‘I know you’re upset.’

  • @18missmm
    @18missmm 5 років тому +23

    I love how fast he jumped up when she said " Do u wanna Chipaddle?" 😂😂😂 His whole face lit up!!! 😂So sweet! ❤️Everybody loves Chipotle!! 😁

    • @TechnoJunkie109
      @TechnoJunkie109 5 років тому +1

      That was the best part 😂 a happy ending

    • @18missmm
      @18missmm 5 років тому +1

      @@TechnoJunkie109 Tell me why it's 2 months later n I still call it "Chipaddle" now?! 😂 His lil smile pops up in my head everytime.

    • @TechnoJunkie109
      @TechnoJunkie109 5 років тому +1

      @@18missmm that's so cute 💕

    • @zohaibjamal876
      @zohaibjamal876 4 роки тому

      I never ate chipotle

  • @Aspinator8675
    @Aspinator8675 9 років тому +12

    You're an amazing mom! I have autism too, but my meltdowns are not a strong as creed. I found lavender helps especially in the tub and shower. Creed is an amazing young man and I enjoy following the life you two leads. Way to go mom! You rock,

  • @OhYahDude
    @OhYahDude Рік тому +6

    You deserve a lot of credit. There's no way I'd be able to put up with this for more than 5min let alone potentially multiple times a day, every single day.

  • @memorylane01
    @memorylane01 8 місяців тому +3

    I'm autistic, and seeing this hurts me on another level😢😢

    • @JosephCaperton
      @JosephCaperton 5 місяців тому +1

      I agree! I am also autistic, but the kid in this video was way more severe than what I have.

  • @PGMskee
    @PGMskee 5 років тому +3

    He probably is hitting his head because he thinks it will help his headache. He truly is a person who just can't control their actions and can't communicate he truly just wants relief and support and love from his mom he really tried to not hit himself and calm down. Lord please help. Hugs cure everything.

  • @lancemorales8341
    @lancemorales8341 2 роки тому +2

    did he ever have a fixation with biting and hitting ppl? My 10yr autistic brother had a meltdown after i turned him to turn off the lights cause he’s been fixated on it lately. He listened but screamed and starting throwing everything he could in the air. These meltdowns usually last 45mins - 3 hours long and i don’t know what to do.

    • @aspergerspilled
      @aspergerspilled 2 роки тому +1

      hi lance! i know im unfortunately not the mom in the vid, but i think i might be able to help! (in case you still need advice, even if it's 2 weeks later xD)
      im a 15yr autistic (asperger, so its not that severe) and i think the best way you can calm him down when hes stressed and having meltdowns is to assure him that you're there for him, that he's gonna be fine and that he can take his time to cry (if he does cry). if he doesn't get triggered by touch, maybe try to hug him tight (but not too much) and pat him while talking about his special interest to distract him from whatever is making him meltdown. ask questions about it and he will start to answer them because he will get positively overwhelmed with good thoughts and after he answer the questions, show intrest in learning more!
      im not sure if these will be helpful, as every autist is different, but i really hope it helps 😸🙏💞
      if you have any questions, feel free to ask! im all for helping my fellow autism parents and autistic kids as much as i can! ^u^
      god bless you, him, and all your family 🥰🙏💗

    • @lancemorales8341
      @lancemorales8341 2 роки тому +1

      @@aspergerspilledhe his nonverbal like he hasn’t been able to put two words together. i’ve been restraining him until he calms down and then asking him to be calm or redirecting his behavior to something else. honestly thinking of getting a helmet and gloves like the video or straight jacket cause he can hurt me or himself by throwing himself, biting, or hitting me. Don’t know where to go from here

    • @aspergerspilled
      @aspergerspilled 2 роки тому

      @@lancemorales8341 oh my god, im sorry... i didn't think he was non verbal :(
      well, im glad you can kind of calm him down but unfortunately im not really good at dealing and understanding nv kids 😿 buuuuut... if it helps, theres a really wholesome channel that i watch that teaches viewers how to interact better with nv kids and ive been learning a lot ever since i found it this month! it features a bunch of really cute interviews made by the channels owner max and hes reeeeally good at making these kids happy! its called special books by special kids (or sbsk for short) and i really recommend it! :D
      but anyways, i have a question: is your lil bro currently on a speech therapist? cause if not, i think he would benefit a lot from it ☺️

    • @aspergerspilled
      @aspergerspilled 2 роки тому

      @@lancemorales8341 also, thank you for being the awesome supportive brother/sister (sorry i don't know your pronouns 😅) that you are! always remember how amazing you are and how much you matter in your bros life 🥰 you're epic!!!

    • @aspergerspilled
      @aspergerspilled 2 роки тому

      @@lancemorales8341 oh, and about the straight jacket, gloves and helmet part, please try not to use these things :( i mean, you could, but only if hes getting out of control with all the self hurting... restraining him with all these things could make his symptoms even worse and also make him extremely agitated and stressed!!
      so yeah, that's not a completely bad idea but it's always better to ask his neurologist/any other doctor that deals with mental health stuff to know if they think it's better or not!

  • @IAmJ2.
    @IAmJ2. 3 роки тому +8

    I would actually feel pain if i had that on bc all of the cotton an functional wrap around it i feel bad for this kid. Rip kreed