Fatherless and Suicidal! A Bodybuilder's Struggle with Deen & Depression || Ramadan With The Mandem
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- Опубліковано 1 чер 2024
- Ramadan With The Mandem: Umar, TheMuslimPT
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0:00 -⚖️ Struggles with family, religion, and mental health leading to personal growth and success.
3:40 - 👨👦👦 Challenges faced by an individual after father's arrest at a young age.
8:04 - ⚖️ Struggle with father absence and external influences impacting upbringing.
11:39 - 💔 Bullying and isolation led to a sudden change in social status, causing deep emotional turmoil.
15:41 - 💔 Struggling with faith, depression, and purpose, leading to a search for meaning and questioning of religion.
19:38 - ⚠️ Struggling with suicidal thoughts and family distress, leading to a wakeup call from a close encounter.
24:04 - ⚔️ Overcoming illness-induced nightmares by turning to prayer for guidance and strength.
28:17 - 💪 Finding solace and strength in the Quran during times of distress and reflecting on life's challenges.
32:39: - 💔 Struggling with fatherlessness, a bodybuilder reflects on his mother's sacrifices and the ease of forgiveness in Islam.
37:45 - 💔 Struggling to forgive father for wrongful imprisonment and bad choices, impacting mental health.
42:28 - 💔 Struggles with personal relationships and toxic friendships leading to loneliness and difficult decisions.
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Was a pleasure making an appearance on the podcast, I hate opening up, especially on a large scale, but I hope people can take benefit from it and use it to benefit themselves in their deen and their dunya ❤️
Always remember that Allaah has got your back!!!!
As salamu alaikum bro. You are very brave, and very dignified Allahuma Barik, Alhamdulillah
As Salamu Alaikum Umar,
Everything happens for reason. Alhamdulliah proud of you and your mum. Always remember you come from a good family Alhamdulliah.
It's good to open up and not bottle up all your emotions. Helps relieve that mental tension. Been on here myself brother and its great getting advice from these brothers. Just ignore any negativity from people
Allahuma barik. Your mum sent me this and you've made auntie Jill cry!
Allah always bless you with closeness to him and your last dua 😉.
I always tell your mom what an amazing job she is doing raising you guys and that she should be so proud of you, today you really did her good Umar! I'm bursting with happiness for you all allahuma barik 💙
What a sweet soul Allahuma Barik may Allah accept his Dua and keep on blessing him !
This guy is strong for speaking about his past on a huge platform. We need to see him more inshaAllah
genuine constructive criticism - not every question asked was necessary. why do the viewers need to know someone who he needs to forgive, or his biggest insecurity currently, or when he last cried and why? instead of getting unnecessarily personal, more questions could have been asked about Qur'an memorisation or hijrah for instance. This is just advice for the hosts - NOT hate. May Allah bless them and may Allah bless the guest. it was beautiful to hear that the guest overcame his struggles. his journey itself is inspiring - i just think certain questions were too inner when we already had an idea of the journey
facts - a lot of the points mentioned would have been better off in private.
It's called immaturity.
@@S9.S4 I don't know what you're referring to but have some respect please.
I'm saying them asking such personal and useless questions is an immature thing to do or to ask personal stuff.@@user-yf5je1dn1q
Allahuma barik! Subhan'Allah, I feel like our brother Umar had so much bottled up and had so much to express but held back. A broken man with an untold story but we appreciate and benefitted from the amount he told alhamdulilah. May Allah bless you & reward you akhi in this dunya and the akhirah!
May Allah ease this brothers affairs, heal his traumas and grant him and his loved ones good in this life and the hereafter.
Very humble brother اللهم بارك, I’ve known him since studying the deen together, always stayed humble since the start
A lot of Bengali boys like this brother here come from very broken families sadly may Allah bless him though at least he didn’t go down the typical drug dealing or violent route like a lot of Bengali brothers out there do
I think his mother's duas stopped him going down the worst of routes... Cute kid mashallah
When what you are is unwanted, you look for an identity that will be accepted. Everybody feels they're a failure everybody feels that they can be a contender.
Unfortunately, this is the paradigm of living in kafir lands.
Alhamdulillah, like this man people pull through once they realise islam is the answer to everything. I admire him alot for speaking about his past to benefit others.
May Allah elevate him even more!
Ameen
It shows how human we are deep down despite the beards on our faces, no one knows what anyone has experienced or been through
Alhummah barik, May Allah allow you to achieve all your goals
So much we can learn from these stories. Alhamdulillah a lesson in every one.
A little advise I’m not sure whether it’s the editing or “Ramadan brain” but this was a difficult watch. I think it would’ve helped to refrain from asking him “why …” would sound less combative to ask “what was it about x that made you think and feel like …” & people are more like to open up. The title of the vid needs rethinking tbh “fatherless and suicidal” is a bit wild
I feel like some of the "why" questions from the hosts were not necessary. we already had an idea of the journey and what took place
May Allah grant y’all the highest part of jannah
Allahumabarik my bro, come a long way❤
May Allah reward you for your strength and ability to come on a big platform and share such experiences. That in itself is a testimony of your growth. May allah always keep you steadfast
Allahumma Barik, cute kid … 😉
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Akh I recommend doing lessons abt Islamic sciences like 'Aqeedah
Wife this brother up, handsome Allahumma Barik
Is he single? If he is how do I apply 😅
@@Hana-zt8hg Sunnah Match, He's on there 😁
Good interview but didn’t like the why responses that could be improved upon brother !
at around 36:30, it wasnt cut out I don't think
Assalamu 'Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah
Walaikumassalaam Rahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu.
I like naseeha sessions. However, the title is misleading, the brother was not fatherless and he specifically said he was at two minds about suicide. Yet the title suggests otherwise, اللهم بارك you have quite a following but you don’t need catchy or clickbait worthy titles for your videos, especially if they aren’t true or insensitive to the guest, please consider this. بارك الله فيك
Could you make a video on how to make a living in the UAE
Real
36:18 this part needs to be cut out
It’s calm I said they can keep it in :)