I do realize there are many people who have trouble saying no when they need to, I am not one of them. For some reason I have never had trouble saying no. One of my strategies is disflection. When they want me to do something, I offer ways they can handle it themselves, then they usually back off. Great discussion ladies!
Another tip: Counter the request with a question - why can't you do this yourself, is there anyone else who can help, what resources have you looked into.
One of my problems is I find it very hard to say no, I feel guilty if I do, I think I still need to work on this, thanks for talking about this today. 😊🌸🌼🌸Maria
I agree saying no is hard. The hardest is a person who wont take no for an answer and will manipulate you anyway they can to get you to do what they want. Good show Laura and kristen
Oh absolutely!! It's so hard to deal with people like that because, at least for me, they break me! That sort of thing turns me mean and I don't like it, but they don't listen otherwise unless you're firm and kind of a jerk lol
I do realize there are many people who have trouble saying no when they need to, I am not one of them. For some reason I have never had trouble saying no. One of my strategies is disflection. When they want me to do something, I offer ways they can handle it themselves, then they usually back off. Great discussion ladies!
oh that's a really good suggestion too! Thank you for sharing!
Love this Randy! thanks for watching/listening 💓
Another tip: Counter the request with a question - why can't you do this yourself, is there anyone else who can help, what resources have you looked into.
@@randyromines7364 I'm pinning this, these are great suggestions!
One of my problems is I find it very hard to say no, I feel guilty if I do, I think I still need to work on this, thanks for talking about this today. 😊🌸🌼🌸Maria
YES, I struggle with the guilt of it, too! But sometimes we have to put ourselves first
This is a wonderful discussion, cheers Ladies. --
@@lexi1231 thank you!!
I agree saying no is hard. The hardest is a person who wont take no for an answer and will manipulate you anyway they can to get you to do what they want. Good show Laura and kristen
Oh absolutely!! It's so hard to deal with people like that because, at least for me, they break me! That sort of thing turns me mean and I don't like it, but they don't listen otherwise unless you're firm and kind of a jerk lol