The enemy will hurt on a physical level but the toxic friend knows about me so well that he has the ability to hurt me on a mental and emotional level(which is the worst). Please correct me if I am wrong or complete me if I am missing any point
DOSTI RISTEDAARI SAHYOGI SUBHCHINTAK LOGO SE KALIYUG ME SAAVDHAN RAHE....KALIYUG NE SABKI BUDDHI BHOGWAD BAZARWAD SUVIDHAWAD FASHIONWAD SWARTHWAD SE SANKRAMIT KAR RAKHI HAI...
Finally I have no friends....I feel so liberated!!! It's like the best part of my life has started now.... After suffering through so much traumatic experience because of my friend who treated me like a doormat and sabotaged every small n big success of mine and made me hate myself....I'm finally free ....so happy they left me alone... because I now know what's like to not have breathlessness and stuck feeling in the chest and knots in stomach! Thankyou universe your cleaning the crap out of my life✨ thankyou for making me realise what a great company I'm to myself ❤
Yaar-dost kewal manoranjan mauj-masti ke liye hone chaiye. Life ya career ke kisi bhi SERIOUS kaam me unka koi role nahi hona chaiye. Kabhi nahi. Kabhi serious ehsaan mat lo. Kabhi serious ehsaan mat karo. Kabhi apne serious plans mat batao. Unke chakkar me tumhara kewal nuksaan hoga. Saare serious kaam bilkul akele chupchap karo. Rishtedaro ka bhi yehi hai.
Life age 0-15 years me parents centre me hote hain. 15-30 me yar-dost centre me hote hain. Age 30-45 me apka jeevan kitna safal hoga iss pe depend hai ki aap in 'yaar- dosto' se kitna दूर door reh sakte ho. Only Wife and Boss. No one else. Yeh yaar dost apki keemti time energy waste karenge aur life me pareshaniyan paida krenge. simple formula hai 0-15 parents/ 15-30 Friends/ 30-45 Wife and Boss. Follow karo sukhi raho.
When I started learning music in my early 20s, literally every single person who i considered my friend and brother they all left me and tried to make fun of me or demotivate me. Today after releasing 7 banger songs on youtube/spotify/apple music, none of them supported my work. Forget about support, they chose to not even acknowledge me or my songs. It was so so disheartening, it broke me so much. But i chose to convert that pain into songs. I realised I never had a friend of virtue ever. I was there for them for all their good and bad times, supported them in their passions, businesses and all other things but not a single person rooted for me. Life is tough guys but don't give up.
I have two to three friends who are not related to me by blood but when the need arises we help each other. I always wish for their success and since their success is not going to be of any use to me, whatever I want to achieve in this world, I have to do it alone, I don't want to show them my successes.
Priority your own self first become top in your field after this you can easily notice good or genuine people around you Never break your friendship enjoy but at the other side be you own self
i can resonate with this so much thanks for this video maybe i can call this my confirmation bias but its true you need to be alone to start understanding yourself .... as buddha said “It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles”
It's not only about the fact that someone is your genuine friend or not..but are you equally nice to them?? What if they are good and you're the other guy ,So the mixture of gratitude and respect plus other factors which can fluctuate with time either jealousy or anything but the main thing is you have to ...not only judge others but to look inside you as well...
Mere to dost hi nhi hai itna saal ho gaya school over ho gaya college over ho gaya yhaan tak hamare padosi ghar ke neighbour mein bhi friend nhi hai 😂 and I'm happy with that cause due to this I can focus on my work
This year (in march) my freindship with one of my 5 years old friend broke,just becoz I felt that he is not contributing in my growth anyway ,literally he used to call me every second day to visit mall,monuments etc here in Delhi(we both came last year together in Delhi University),even knowing my family's poor financial condition and that I have exam on next day he used to say for nightout ,once I refused,he didn't talk to me for 1 week ,then I myself started the talk again,again in march he did the same thing,but this time I didn't tried,for next 1-2 month I used to think that I should talk to him,he even called me bacj after almost 3 months bt till then I had decided to "Be alone rather than being with a toxic guy" ,and the day Today I proud myself for that decision(yes it was tough initually bt I am getting benefit now🙂)
Friendship doesn't mean hanging out only , chatting chatting,talking talking.... photos photos.....typical social media bonds... As an adult sbko individuality (personal beliefs,goals,purpose,value) ko maintain krke hi friendship rkhana chahiye vrna sbko doormat bnke rahjaoge😅😅
On this parameter, I think till now in my life I have never found a real friend. sir, how to avoid fake friends.Even though I know everything about my friends, I keep them with me thinking that there is no one else there, how do I get out of this.
ans1)aaj pata chala gya true friend koi nahi hain ans2)kisi prakar ka help to nahi lekin bs bin kuch kahe saant rhte hain ans3)haan,dard dete hain phir usse din bhar sochta rahta houn
To be honest I have 2 real friends who hold my back every time they guide me too, we learn together, we grow together, we enjoy together. Maybe because we all are coming from a same place and situation.
Ek toxic friendship se niklna bohot zruri hota h kyuki vo tumhe hurt ki krega mzk ke naam pe baar baar vhi krega jisse tumhe hurt hota h or vo janta h . Mai last 3 years se Akela hi rehta hu loneliness ki vjha se kaafi Mental health problems hue pr vo better h ek toxic friend ke hone se .
Mera bhi same experience tha, lekin jabse maine pichle 6 mahino se acharya prashant ko sunana shuru kia hai tab se kafi fayda hua hai, sach kahu to jindagi poori badal gayi hai.
Ans1) Mujhe ye pta chl chuka h ki mera koi real frnd nhi hai. Ans2) Madad to nhi krte hain, kharab krte hain ya nhi ye maine observe nhi kiya, shyd krte hi honge🤔 Ans3) Haan, dard to dete hain lekin isiliye kyunki main unhe jyada bhaav de deta hu yani apni emotional energy jyada de deta hu
किसी को किसी के दोस्त धोखा नहीं देते बल्कि हमारी उम्मीद दिखा देती है, जैसे हम किसी को gf bolte hai to kuch bhi Kaho per reality ye hai ki baat sexual excitement ki hoti hai, jaise hm gf ko sex partner maan lete hai mai nahi kh rahi ki sex गलत है पर वो वो नहीं देता है जो हमे चाहिए होता है per pata nahi चलता ठीक वैसे ही हम दोस्ती का मतलब कुछ बंधी हुई चीज से कर देते है, और जब कोई उसपर खरा नहीं उतरता तो दुख होता है । लेकिन हमे सोचना चाहिए आखिर उसकी भी अपनी स्वतंत्रता है अपनी ख़्वाब किसी को इतना नहीं बाध्ण चाहिए कि वो बंधन महसूस करे😊 और ये लिखते हुए मुझे भी सोचना पड़ रहा है, क्या मै ये सब इसलिए लिख रही हूं क्योंकि मुझे भी दोस्त चाहिए😂? Finally I can say " no "😅
Ladko ko sabse bada scam kia gaya hai ki londo ki dosti hi dosti hai. Yahan bhai shadi karne ke baad property k liye jani dushman ban jata hai dost kis khet ki muli hai
I do only have one friend off mine 'Shreeyas' right now who is helpingg me to grow in my career. Now i realize he is is the real friend who is helping me to do something out of my comfort zone. Unlike other friends who don't care about my goals but just want me to enjoy
So greatful to a having good guys as my friend. I'm in my small world full of Great people 💗 always want to stay with them forever. Reality is hard we all have to be apart aj nhi to kal but still I hope that I'll meet great guys in future also .
you had put all the things so well and with it i would also like to add a quote by senca which goes like What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself. this explains that you always need a friend who is genuinely cares about you who genuinely wants you to get better, and if you arent able to find these kind of people around you then you must become a friend of yourself as no only does really know you who you are as much as you know.b by becoming a friend of yourself you will able to think more clearly what is wrong and right for you which eventually will help you to grow further...
Mai apne aap ko aisa insaan pata hu.. jo apne dosto ko kinhi buri ya materialistic chiz me naa ghusaye.. i always motivate them bcoz i love them.. yes i do have friends.. but the true friends are only 2 of them.. ye true friend ki definition mujhe to pata nahi kya hoti hai parr haa.. mai apna true friend unhe manta hu jinke prati ek andar se hi pyaar or protect them vali feeling aati hai.. i dont think.. they would understand my thoughts.. but I really want to see them shine in their future.. I want to see them working hard for their future.. Maine filhal me dil se ek dost ki madat ki thi.. helped him to get out of his stressing period with my pure intentions... Paar I didn't find him.. ki he would be kind and loving towards me.. Mai ye nahi kehta ki mai sahi rheta hu harr wqt.. prr mai dil se chahta hu sbko bhadta dekhna.. I really love my friend.. But i seek some love from other side too.. I dont know bhaiya ne kuch questions ke answers dene ko kaha tha.. unn questions ka jwab dene aya thaa... Pr Mai idhr udhr nikal gaya shyd.. Currently I am proud of myself.. Because I am working daily and pushing my limits.. I Love my people ❤ and I am Happy with my life 😊 Guys do share where I lack..
But,someone told me to make as many connections as i can every day ,it will benefit.That's why I keep making 'friends' regardless of them fulfilling the criteria of being the most beneficial for me.
Mere dost hamesha mujhe motivate karte hai jab kabhi bhi mai distract hota hu wo mujhe mere goals recall karate hai my friends are best Vivek and Vikas and me Vikrant 😊😊❤❤
you'll never be able to experience everything so please do your soul poetical justice and just experience yourself don't walk in front of me I may not follow, Don't walk behind me I may not lead but walk in beside me and be just my friend
Hey , I'm from Bangladesh 🇧🇩. Here I'm giving my answers : Ans.1) : I actually don't have any real friend . Ans. 2) : Mostly we do fun together. But ... They don't force me to do anything wrong , also they don't encourage me to be successful. Even , when I try to tell them , " We all will be successful together " , they don't want to hear those things. Also , they tell me that I'm too ambitious and it's not good , or sometimes they just mock my ideas ( I don't know if they do that intentionally or not ) . Ans. 3) :They say they don't mean anything bad by making jokes on my opinions, but sometimes some of their behaviours , some of their words hurt me so much . But , I can't say anything . Because, I'm afraid of being left alone 😔....
Bangladesh aur india has so many differences in ur country maybe ur people are friendly because same religion same mindset but here worst thing is secular Nation
When the Inner Mirror Fades , then Outer world clears it with their cleaners. Everything is about to be Selfish, Even I, you, thus We. One's selfishness , other's bad, but not others good is one's Selfishnessless.
Maine bhi apni zindgi me ye bahot badi galti ki hai maine dosto ko bahot zada ahemiyat di thi zindagi me lekin waqt k sath sub badal jate hai apko phle apni life , career banen par he dhayan dena chahiye ek waqt ke bad subse jigri dost bhi apka hal nahi puchte kabhi
I think before judging/ evaluating our friends, we should go though ourselves, are we capable of being a true friend. If not then what steps are required, make those changes in yourself then rome around.
@kamranakmal6468 12th class ki baat hai mera ek bestfriend tha titu naam se. Uske mom dad ki d€ath ho gayi thi. Us dauraan wo mera dost bna kyoki mujhe us se Sympathy thi isliye mene uski help karne ke liye us se dosti kari. Use emotional aur financial support diya. Mere Papa hamesha kahte hai ki life me itna Ameer banana ki har kamzor ki help kar sako isliye meri mati maari gayi thi ki Mai logo ki help karna chahta tha. Us time mai apne school ka topper tha, sath hi sath chhote bachcho ko pdhane ka kaam bhi karta tha jisme jyada nhi par monthly 8 ya 9 hazaar kma leta tha. Mene Titu ki har waqt help ki. Lekin wo andar hi andar jealous tha kyoki mai Topper tha na. Usne chugli karke ek Gunde se meri fight karwa di bahut time baad mere samjh aaya ki Titu jhooth bola karta tha actual baat wo thi hi nhi jaisi dikh rhi thi. Usne meri 3 logo se fight karwayi 2 fight to normal thi lekin teesari wali Gunde se karwayi thi is teesari fight ki vajah se Mai padh nhi ska kyoki is fight me mujhe bahut jyada tension diya aur ek topper ladka Padhai se itna distract ho gya ki uska pura saal kharaab ho gya. Jab exam aaye tab meri himmat hi nhi hui exam Dene ki kyoki mujhe maloom tha ki pure saal to meri fight hoti rhi isliye exam dunga to only pass ho paunga aur logo ne expectation bna rakhi thi ki is baat ye 90% se jyada layega. Mai exam Dene gya hi nhi aur exam kharaab ho gya fir mene Titu ko phone tap kar liya jis ki uski call recording sunkar mujhe pta lga ki wo bahut khush tha ki Mera saal kharaab ho gya. Ye sirf ek kissa hai jisme mere dost ne mujhe dhoka diya hai iske baad to kisso ki line lagi padi hai agar Btane jaunga to tum padhte padhte thak jaoge. Dost aur dushman me koi fark nhi hota hai. Ye sab Last me apni aukaat dikha hi dete hai.
I have friends who sometimes hurt, suffer me with their ego, nature,status & Money but sometimes they help with some reason, that's why I am so concerned and confused and became hopeless. So what should I do in this situation? Please share your opinion on this 🙏
I have got one serious friend i never felt i need more and he also dont have other serious friend he is literally my brother now iam 23 together from 3rd standard. 😊
the problem is peaple dont see their worth or have bias thinking that peaple they connect with or socialize often (like friends) don't have bad intention and that why they slide or ignore the bad behavior of people around them and i learnt this hard way that i have to respect myself and not entertain any friends or people who are toxic or backstabber in my life i dealt with humiliation by so called friends and insults in the form of jokes but not any more its better to be with no friends than losing yourself daily and wont reconnect with them in this life time.
I my friends are not good for my carrer and personal growth, becuase the three things is not match in my condition. And i decide to leave them and become successful person and also don't be afraid if anyone one will see ur comment. Be mentally strong.
A Friend to all is a friend to None!
~ Aristotle
From my experience, It's true af!
fuckin true
nooo
Sabka acha bhai nahi hota kisi ka bhi sacha bhai
~muhfaad ( dhh artist hai)
Yahi bolne wala tha lol@@Decillionaditya
A dangerous enemy is way lot better than a toxic friend
The enemy will hurt on a physical level but the toxic friend knows about me so well that he has the ability to hurt me on a mental and emotional level(which is the worst). Please correct me if I am wrong or complete me if I am missing any point
@chilledzone8705 Enemy has clear intentions but toxic friends operate based on facàde
दोस्त, रिश्तेदार, Ex GF और Working Place वालों ने मुझे सबसे ज्यादा नुकसान पहुंचाया है।
DOSTI RISTEDAARI SAHYOGI SUBHCHINTAK LOGO SE KALIYUG ME SAAVDHAN RAHE....KALIYUG NE SABKI BUDDHI BHOGWAD BAZARWAD SUVIDHAWAD FASHIONWAD SWARTHWAD SE SANKRAMIT KAR RAKHI HAI...
भाई, तेरे लिए बड़ा दुख हो रहा है। 😢
अपनी Ex GF का नंबर दे, उसे बताता हूँ कि उसने ग़लत किया है!
Because ye pura system toxic hai. Swarthi logo se kya sath expect karna.
@@rahulverma666bhai 😂
Sahi kaha sab matlabi hote h
Finally I have no friends....I feel so liberated!!! It's like the best part of my life has started now.... After suffering through so much traumatic experience because of my friend who treated me like a doormat and sabotaged every small n big success of mine and made me hate myself....I'm finally free ....so happy they left me alone... because I now know what's like to not have breathlessness and stuck feeling in the chest and knots in stomach! Thankyou universe your cleaning the crap out of my life✨ thankyou for making me realise what a great company I'm to myself ❤
😂 You are living same as me.
Congratulations brother ❤ you are now free from validation. You have stopped seeing yourself from his eye's .
This is true ❤
We get you ❤
U deserve good friends...n will... buddy
Yaar-dost kewal manoranjan mauj-masti ke liye hone chaiye. Life ya career ke kisi bhi SERIOUS kaam me unka koi role nahi hona chaiye. Kabhi nahi. Kabhi serious ehsaan mat lo. Kabhi serious ehsaan mat karo. Kabhi apne serious plans mat batao. Unke chakkar me tumhara kewal nuksaan hoga. Saare serious kaam bilkul akele chupchap karo. Rishtedaro ka bhi yehi hai.
100%..right
Apki age kitni hai
Meri age 55.
Well said dear..
I got your message ❤🎉
Life age 0-15 years me parents centre me hote hain. 15-30 me yar-dost centre me hote hain. Age 30-45 me apka jeevan kitna safal hoga iss pe depend hai ki aap in 'yaar- dosto' se kitna दूर door reh sakte ho. Only Wife and Boss. No one else. Yeh yaar dost apki keemti time energy waste karenge aur life me pareshaniyan paida krenge. simple formula hai 0-15 parents/ 15-30 Friends/ 30-45 Wife and Boss. Follow karo sukhi raho.
Fact :- Breaking such friendship is more tough than making new friends.
When I started learning music in my early 20s, literally every single person who i considered my friend and brother they all left me and tried to make fun of me or demotivate me. Today after releasing 7 banger songs on youtube/spotify/apple music, none of them supported my work. Forget about support, they chose to not even acknowledge me or my songs. It was so so disheartening, it broke me so much. But i chose to convert that pain into songs.
I realised I never had a friend of virtue ever. I was there for them for all their good and bad times, supported them in their passions, businesses and all other things but not a single person rooted for me. Life is tough guys but don't give up.
Can you send those song links of your UA-cam? Here
@@Kushagra-n2b unable to share links. Comment remove ho jaata hai. You can find it by searching Farzi Deewar Aishik or Noor Aishik
@Kushagra-n2b try searching Farzi Deewar Aishik. Us channel mein saare songs mil jaayenge
@Kushagra-n2b Farzi Deewar search karke dekho. Us channel pe saare songs mil jaayenge
@@Kushagra-n2b Try searching Farzi Deewar
खाली जेब-- कभी दोस्ती नहीं होने देती,,,,पैसा कमाओ सब मिलेगा।
Toh phir wahi milenge jo paise ke lie ate hai...
@@sagniksinha9247 agar sahi tarike se kamao to sacche dost ki samjh bhi khud aa jayegi
I have two to three friends who are not related to me by blood but when the need arises we help each other. I always wish for their success and since their success is not going to be of any use to me, whatever I want to achieve in this world, I have to do it alone, I don't want to show them my successes.
Dosti jaisi koi feeling nhi hoti
Dost quality dekhte h vibes dekhte h
Aur kuch umar ke bad puchte v nhi hai koi v dost
Not relatable, dost hai hi nahi 💀
Same
Us bro
Pr future me to bn skte he jab bhi banenge tb ke liye yaad rakh lio bhai
@sarthakgaur-n7f bilkul 💯
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Achhi bat hai now i like solitude. Trust nobody their actions speak well if they are not your well wisher ❤
Same here I like Solitude
Solitude is one's own way of thinking, but humans live in a society and are heavily dependent on each other.
@@victorkr4118 yes mutualism is respectful
Priority your own self first become top in your field after this you can easily notice good or genuine people around you
Never break your friendship enjoy but at the other side be you own self
दोस्ती नामक बावासिर हम पालते ही नहीं है😊😊
Videos like these will blow up your youtube channel, THANK YOU for all the time and effort you put into these videos.
Ek hi dost hai college Mai par bestfriend nahi sirf friends hai😊
i can resonate with this so much thanks for this video maybe i can call this my confirmation bias but its true you need to be alone to start understanding yourself .... as buddha said “It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles”
Well said bhai ❤
It's not only about the fact that someone is your genuine friend or not..but are you equally nice to them??
What if they are good and you're the other guy ,So the mixture of gratitude and respect plus other factors which can fluctuate with time either jealousy or anything but the main thing is you have to ...not only judge others but to look inside you as well...
Mere to dost hi nhi hai itna saal ho gaya school over ho gaya college over ho gaya yhaan tak hamare padosi ghar ke neighbour mein bhi friend nhi hai 😂 and I'm happy with that cause due to this I can focus on my work
No friends no tension as the friends of today it’s good to be alone.
This year (in march) my freindship with one of my 5 years old friend broke,just becoz I felt that he is not contributing in my growth anyway ,literally he used to call me every second day to visit mall,monuments etc here in Delhi(we both came last year together in Delhi University),even knowing my family's poor financial condition and that I have exam on next day he used to say for nightout ,once I refused,he didn't talk to me for 1 week ,then I myself started the talk again,again in march he did the same thing,but this time I didn't tried,for next 1-2 month I used to think that I should talk to him,he even called me bacj after almost 3 months bt till then I had decided to "Be alone rather than being with a toxic guy" ,and the day Today I proud myself for that decision(yes it was tough initually bt I am getting benefit now🙂)
Something similar happened with me as well ! But atleast I'm happy
@AbhishekSingh-rb2jj same here bhai,coz i thought i am more happy alone tha being with toxic people
Same here my friends are toxic and snake 🐍 they hate my success
@@curiousgirl.6438 Better leave their circle as soon an psbl
Friendship doesn't mean hanging out only , chatting chatting,talking talking.... photos photos.....typical social media bonds...
As an adult sbko individuality (personal beliefs,goals,purpose,value) ko maintain krke hi friendship rkhana chahiye vrna sbko doormat bnke rahjaoge😅😅
Don't stick with people more than you need , don't create too much attachments. Be a coach not the player
Friends with benefit!!!
💯
On this parameter, I think till now in my life I have never found a real friend.
sir, how to avoid fake friends.Even though I know everything about my friends, I keep them with me thinking that there is no one else there, how do I get out of this.
In my life, there is only one true friend of mine, that is me
ans1)aaj pata chala gya true friend koi nahi hain
ans2)kisi prakar ka help to nahi lekin bs bin kuch kahe saant rhte hain
ans3)haan,dard dete hain phir usse din bhar sochta rahta houn
Thank you from my bottom of my heart for opening my eyes now I can take action without any Hesitation ❤
Honestly there is no such thing as bff
And baki sab karmic bhi hoti hai chize sabko sabkuch nahi milta is duniya me☺
I had a lot of friends but a few left me and I left few now no one's left but it's kind of peaceful now somehow.
To be honest I have 2 real friends who hold my back every time they guide me too, we learn together, we grow together, we enjoy together. Maybe because we all are coming from a same place and situation.
Bhai really really thank you.. I was literally thinking and suffering from this question
Great Work Bhaiya ❤
In tyler durden we trust
True , me and him really like making soaps you know 😀 , I guess we might start a business nearby in future 😃
Hahaha ❤@divyaanshverma8304
@divyaanshverma8304 rule no.1 : we don't talk about _______
Rule no. 2 : never forget rule 1
Ek toxic friendship se niklna bohot zruri hota h kyuki vo tumhe hurt ki krega mzk ke naam pe baar baar vhi krega jisse tumhe hurt hota h or vo janta h .
Mai last 3 years se Akela hi rehta hu loneliness ki vjha se kaafi Mental health problems hue pr vo better h ek toxic friend ke hone se .
Relatable bhai…
Mera bhi same experience tha, lekin jabse maine pichle 6 mahino se acharya prashant ko sunana shuru kia hai tab se kafi fayda hua hai, sach kahu to jindagi poori badal gayi hai.
Bhai summarize all western philosophy for friendship...
Love to be part of this community ❤
Ans1) Mujhe ye pta chl chuka h ki mera koi real frnd nhi hai.
Ans2) Madad to nhi krte hain, kharab krte hain ya nhi ye maine observe nhi kiya, shyd krte hi honge🤔
Ans3) Haan, dard to dete hain lekin isiliye kyunki main unhe jyada bhaav de deta hu yani apni emotional energy jyada de deta hu
Selfish ban jaao brother 👍🏻👍🏻
किसी को किसी के दोस्त धोखा नहीं देते बल्कि हमारी उम्मीद दिखा देती है, जैसे हम किसी को gf bolte hai to kuch bhi Kaho per reality ye hai ki baat sexual excitement ki hoti hai, jaise hm gf ko sex partner maan lete hai mai nahi kh rahi ki sex गलत है पर वो वो नहीं देता है जो हमे चाहिए होता है per pata nahi चलता ठीक वैसे ही हम दोस्ती का मतलब कुछ बंधी हुई चीज से कर देते है, और जब कोई उसपर खरा नहीं उतरता तो दुख होता है । लेकिन हमे सोचना चाहिए आखिर उसकी भी अपनी स्वतंत्रता है अपनी ख़्वाब किसी को इतना नहीं बाध्ण चाहिए कि वो बंधन महसूस करे😊
और ये लिखते हुए मुझे भी सोचना पड़ रहा है, क्या मै ये सब इसलिए लिख रही हूं क्योंकि मुझे भी दोस्त चाहिए😂?
Finally I can say " no "😅
@@pratibhaMourya-kb7iwaapne thik kaha lekin gf or bf ka rishta to sexual desire ke liye hi hota hai 😂
Having friends but not letting us to grow is worst than having enemy
In a nutshell: Murkh logo se akela behtar, akela se gyaniyo behtar.
Dost hee sabse bda dushman banta h agar wo chahe to .
To dost mat bnaoo.
Bas contact banaoo or help Karo or jab jarurat ho to wapas help maango.
Ladko ko sabse bada scam kia gaya hai ki londo ki dosti hi dosti hai. Yahan bhai shadi karne ke baad property k liye jani dushman ban jata hai dost kis khet ki muli hai
Learned a lot from you brother love your videos
How to take action what we learn.?
@@theactiontaker-888 What's holding you back from taking Action?
Thank you brother, I have only 2 real friends. Rest of them have been droved away
I recently encountered your channel and I like your philosophies.
7:39 Goosebumps aa gye ye sunkr, sare dar nikal gye mera 🔥👌
bhai you are like a big brother for me in the subject of philosophy
I do only have one friend off mine 'Shreeyas' right now who is helpingg me to grow in my career. Now i realize he is is the real friend who is helping me to do something out of my comfort zone. Unlike other friends who don't care about my goals but just want me to enjoy
If you have joint and big family, don't have friends
Bros content day by by 🔝🔝🔝🔝
Jab tak tum humse or hum tumse milenge. Tarakki humko nahi milegi. 😊
As someone said, "friend is second self "
Desi philospher...just becoz u dont have good freinds doesn't means freinds r harmful in anyway...be good first n make good freinds
Your Microphone is cool .
It really stole the spotlight 😀
It's the Light ❤❤❤
So greatful to a having good guys as my friend. I'm in my small world full of Great people 💗 always want to stay with them forever. Reality is hard we all have to be apart aj nhi to kal but still I hope that I'll meet great guys in future also .
How to speak to ppls , how to say no , how to oppose 😢 19:22
Now I will try to inculcate these good features in Myself
So that I can be a better friend ❤
I was searching for this topic 😮
plz make a video on dating , relationship as most of ppl suffered alot due to this
Never be a nice guy ....be practical and be friend with those who can return you something .Don't be friends with beggars ever
Ma sha Allah!!!
God bless u brother
Your work is inspiration for all of us# desi youth
May God bless u with the best!!
Love from pakistan
Sir kindly create a video on, Man and interaction with society and cover all aspects.
I'm in a healthy friendship luckily!
Most awaited, Thank you sir
Thank u bro... true reality
Be assertive...assertiveness is the best approach
you had put all the things so well and with it i would also like to add a quote by senca which goes like What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself. this explains that you always need a friend who is genuinely cares about you who genuinely wants you to get better, and if you arent able to find these kind of people around you then you must become a friend of yourself as no only does really know you who you are as much as you know.b by becoming a friend of yourself you will able to think more clearly what is wrong and right for you which eventually will help you to grow further...
Mai apne aap ko aisa insaan pata hu.. jo apne dosto ko kinhi buri ya materialistic chiz me naa ghusaye.. i always motivate them bcoz i love them.. yes i do have friends.. but the true friends are only 2 of them.. ye true friend ki definition mujhe to pata nahi kya hoti hai parr haa.. mai apna true friend unhe manta hu jinke prati ek andar se hi pyaar or protect them vali feeling aati hai.. i dont think.. they would understand my thoughts.. but I really want to see them shine in their future.. I want to see them working hard for their future..
Maine filhal me dil se ek dost ki madat ki thi.. helped him to get out of his stressing period with my pure intentions...
Paar I didn't find him.. ki he would be kind and loving towards me..
Mai ye nahi kehta ki mai sahi rheta hu harr wqt.. prr mai dil se chahta hu sbko bhadta dekhna.. I really love my friend.. But i seek some love from other side too..
I dont know bhaiya ne kuch questions ke answers dene ko kaha tha.. unn questions ka jwab dene aya thaa... Pr Mai idhr udhr nikal gaya shyd..
Currently I am proud of myself.. Because I am working daily and pushing my limits..
I Love my people ❤ and I am Happy with my life 😊
Guys do share where I lack..
Wish you best of bests for life man🤍🫂
@Superman-ed4xz Means a lot brother 🙏
But,someone told me to make as many connections as i can every day ,it will benefit.That's why I keep making 'friends' regardless of them fulfilling the criteria of being the most beneficial for me.
Mere dost hamesha mujhe motivate karte hai jab kabhi bhi mai distract hota hu wo mujhe mere goals recall karate hai my friends are best Vivek and Vikas and me Vikrant 😊😊❤❤
please make video on "BEYOND GOOD AND EVIL" book of Nietzsche
Yeah man this book was so hard to read
30-40 percent is all I grasped , what about you guys ?
Dushmano se pyaar hota jaayega
Bas doston ko aazmate jaaiye.
Friendship is overrated
Yahan toh last 10 year se Ek bhi friend nhi bnaya or Mzaa aa rha h life m❤
excellent work bhai gi thanks
Great video bhai
Books recommendation, summary, crux, intention and most importantly way forward..❤❤❤❤❤
you'll never be able to experience everything so please do your soul poetical justice and just experience yourself
don't walk in front of me I may not follow, Don't walk behind me I may not lead but walk in beside me and be just my friend
Hey , I'm from Bangladesh 🇧🇩.
Here I'm giving my answers :
Ans.1) : I actually don't have any real friend .
Ans. 2) : Mostly we do fun together. But ... They don't force me to do anything wrong , also they don't encourage me to be successful. Even , when I try to tell them , " We all will be successful together " , they don't want to hear those things. Also , they tell me that I'm too ambitious and it's not good , or sometimes they just mock my ideas ( I don't know if they do that intentionally or not ) . Ans. 3) :They say they don't mean anything bad by making jokes on my opinions, but sometimes some of their behaviours , some of their words hurt me so much . But , I can't say anything . Because, I'm afraid of being left alone 😔....
Bangladesh aur india has so many differences in ur country maybe ur people are friendly because same religion same mindset but here worst thing is secular Nation
Learned this lesson the hard way.
When the Inner Mirror Fades , then Outer world clears it with their cleaners. Everything is about to be Selfish, Even I, you, thus We. One's selfishness , other's bad, but not others good is one's Selfishnessless.
Maine bhi apni zindgi me ye bahot badi galti ki hai maine dosto ko bahot zada ahemiyat di thi zindagi me lekin waqt k sath sub badal jate hai apko phle apni life , career banen par he dhayan dena chahiye ek waqt ke bad subse jigri dost bhi apka hal nahi puchte kabhi
Behatreen observation very true
Great 🎉
Finding true friendship is as hard as finding true love.
I think it's not just about finding it's also About making 😊
@JustKidding-lk1bx yes, starting with oneself
@@beautifullikecheryblossom7116 all the best 🙌
Bhai thumbnail op!! hai
koi toh sach bol raha hai
Bhai shayad tuje yaad bhi nahi hoga tera ek channel tha kaafi phele Identity naam se kuch 400 ya 500 subscribers thy tab se video dekh raha hu teri❤😊
I think before judging/ evaluating our friends, we should go though ourselves, are we capable of being a true friend. If not then what steps are required, make those changes in yourself then rome around.
Mere dosto ne to itna cheat Kiya ki ab dost banana hi chhod diya hai ab akela rahna pasand hai
Bhai kya cheat kiya.. Bhai pls share your experience
@kamranakmal6468 12th class ki baat hai mera ek bestfriend tha titu naam se. Uske mom dad ki d€ath ho gayi thi. Us dauraan wo mera dost bna kyoki mujhe us se Sympathy thi isliye mene uski help karne ke liye us se dosti kari. Use emotional aur financial support diya. Mere Papa hamesha kahte hai ki life me itna Ameer banana ki har kamzor ki help kar sako isliye meri mati maari gayi thi ki Mai logo ki help karna chahta tha. Us time mai apne school ka topper tha, sath hi sath chhote bachcho ko pdhane ka kaam bhi karta tha jisme jyada nhi par monthly 8 ya 9 hazaar kma leta tha. Mene Titu ki har waqt help ki. Lekin wo andar hi andar jealous tha kyoki mai Topper tha na. Usne chugli karke ek Gunde se meri fight karwa di bahut time baad mere samjh aaya ki Titu jhooth bola karta tha actual baat wo thi hi nhi jaisi dikh rhi thi. Usne meri 3 logo se fight karwayi 2 fight to normal thi lekin teesari wali Gunde se karwayi thi is teesari fight ki vajah se Mai padh nhi ska kyoki is fight me mujhe bahut jyada tension diya aur ek topper ladka Padhai se itna distract ho gya ki uska pura saal kharaab ho gya. Jab exam aaye tab meri himmat hi nhi hui exam Dene ki kyoki mujhe maloom tha ki pure saal to meri fight hoti rhi isliye exam dunga to only pass ho paunga aur logo ne expectation bna rakhi thi ki is baat ye 90% se jyada layega. Mai exam Dene gya hi nhi aur exam kharaab ho gya fir mene Titu ko phone tap kar liya jis ki uski call recording sunkar mujhe pta lga ki wo bahut khush tha ki Mera saal kharaab ho gya. Ye sirf ek kissa hai jisme mere dost ne mujhe dhoka diya hai iske baad to kisso ki line lagi padi hai agar Btane jaunga to tum padhte padhte thak jaoge. Dost aur dushman me koi fark nhi hota hai. Ye sab Last me apni aukaat dikha hi dete hai.
Bhai mere dost banoge??
@@nova61-p2b ha bhai kyu nhi apni insta do
I am subscribing you for my intreset 🎉🎉
Relatable 😢
I have friends who sometimes hurt, suffer me with their ego, nature,status & Money but sometimes they help with some reason, that's why I am so concerned and confused and became hopeless. So what should I do in this situation? Please share your opinion on this 🙏
If someone hurts you with their ego, nature, status is not your friend.
agr tum dost me andar achayi dekhoge toh achyi dekhe gi or agr burayi dekhoge toh burayi dekhegi ....
I have got one serious friend i never felt i need more and he also dont have other serious friend he is literally my brother now iam 23 together from 3rd standard. 😊
Bhaiiiiii ❤❤❤ itna sach
10:07 almost 1 or 0 😃
Mera cousin hai wo last 3 yrs se to har cheez me support karta hai nd mujhe viswas hai sath hi rahege
the problem is peaple dont see their worth or have bias thinking that peaple they connect with or socialize often (like friends) don't have bad intention and that why they slide or ignore the bad behavior of people around them and i learnt this hard way that i have to respect myself and not entertain any friends or people who are toxic or backstabber in my life i dealt with humiliation by so called friends and insults in the form of jokes but not any more its better to be with no friends than losing yourself daily and wont reconnect with them in this life time.
नहीं गलत लोगो से दोस्ती खतरनाक होती है.... मेरी लाइफ मे अच्छे दोस्तों का काफी अहम् रोले है
except few cases, true friendship never existed
A friend to all is a friend to none!
Bhai dost hi nahi hai.😅😅
💯 Agree with you
I my friends are not good for my carrer and personal growth, becuase the three things is not match in my condition. And i decide to leave them and become successful person and also don't be afraid if anyone one will see ur comment. Be mentally strong.