study hard or not thats not a point here men. it just a way to show supporting implicitly form mom. She could say "take care your life" or something else whatever thats same meaning to show her love
I think if ths world accept ths liberally thn there shouldnt been any problem...its just in contrary with 'laymens term' which relationship of human being lies in between 2 different sexes....but love is love...
Haha I was in this situation at 18. That's wasn't fun but after the stress I ended up calling the rest of my family who were in the living room and had a meeting in the kitchen with 8 persons and announced it hahaha but it took like 30min of trying to tell them 😂😂
Mothers don't have the right to be againts male homosexuality. It makes no sense. All son to mom coming outs should be like this: - Son: "mom, I like men" - Mom: "cool, me too!"
When she told him, "Don't worry about this, it's your life." "Id that's what makes you happy it's fine." I was teary eyed. You're lucky having her as your mom.
@Manuel VAQUERO most of the coming out videos have gays (males) in them and their comments are filled with girls saying "why are gay guys so hot" with like 10k likes each comment. What ive noticed is that their hair are well made and their faces look neat and eyebrows done? Ill side with gay guys take care of their appearance rather than gay guys are hot or hot guys are gay.
People really need to understand how hard is the culture in Japan and how they have been raised, most of the parents would punch him and stop talking to him forever, but if you know a little bit about japanese culture you would understand how much his mom love him, please respect her, and I wish you the best with your dad, follow your dreams no matter what I know your parents always are going to love you.
With russian Parents is also very stressful and hard to say that because there very homophobic and strict, in Russia is this very hard to understand and many people there bully LGBTQ people for being gay or a lesbian or something else. For example I'm a bisexual and I'm scared to say that to my parents because we're a Russian family and my mum hate LGBTQ so much and yeah.....sad :-(
Karina Davydova omg you’re right I lived there for six years and I really saw parents who were so racist and homophobic ofc not all of them but most of them. And all Asian parents are soooo strict and it makes me stressful but when they say that study you have to cuz sometime you’ll regret not studying 💖✨
@@karinadavodova29 I define myself as a bi too. I live in Italy and, luckily, I am not scared to tell my parents about what I like, I'm only not 100% sure about me being bi and not just asexual. I know it sounds strange but the fact is that for now I still don't know because I need to experience, but the only thing I know is that there is something, different from the other girls, in me... I need to wait, but I think they already understood that I'm not 100% straight.
"if it makes you happy, it's okay". And that's so right. U should do what makes you feel happy bc this is all that matters in life. ❤️ Just be yourself
If it makes you happy, it’s okay. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise you are you and that’s amazing in itself you shouldn’t let things get to you just know you are loved by many, many people and we will all be here if you need us just remember you have a community that can back you up we love you 💗
Mom was disappointed but you can see on her face that she slowly realized that her love of you trumps her disappointment. Just live being who you are. Don’t ever sacrifice your own happiness for other people’s approval.
I think it's more worry rather than disappointment; Japan isn't exactly the easiest society to be gay when it comes to a lot of things. It seems to me she's been hoping for kids and what not and suddenly realised there that it's not going to happen, until he explained it a bit. The later one with his dad is a bit better as he seems to be more able to explain how he feels and all that.
The strength of a woman is on display here. That lady was seriously heartbroken and didn't want to breakdown in front of her son because of her love for him. She definately cried to herself multiple times.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 America:- Me:- mom I'm a gay Mom:- don't worry you go enjoy your life. China:- Me:- mom I'm a gay Mom:- hmm. I will support you India:- Me:- mom I'm a gay Mom:- what??? I will slap you first go inside your room😠😠😠 Me:- !!!!!
@@sandhiyaselvaraj5335 it’s the same with Arabic’s I know bc I’m in one my mom is mad that there are people who are different she hates gays, tomboys, and other things
Parents that can’t accept their children for who they are,shouldn’t be parents. And your mom definitely deserves to be your mom but she has questions and that’s okay💕
honestly, to say that those parents shouldnt be parents is kind of a NAH. just because they didnt accept them for one fact dosent make them bad , they still parents and look for your own good!
@@1Chase0 No, parents need to accept their kids on this issue. If they can't do that, then they shouldn't be a parent because otherwise they'd be asking their kid to change or abandoning their kid.
Imagine being that ignorant thinking that your person and emotions should be on top off everyones and everybody should accept your shit "bEcAuSe ThEy'Re yOuR pArEnTs, oThErWiSe ThEy DoNt DeSerVe tO bE pARenTs". Sweetie you're no the center of the universe. Everyone can choose what to accept or not. Stop being toxic lmao.
Not true for me tbh... I've seen many straight men/guys who looked very attractive, and I've seen many gay or taken guys that weren't really that good looking 😅.... I guess beauty indeed is very subjective 😅😂
@@Kali_1666 girl, if ur mom don't change her mind, don't told her that, when u have ur own work and u can live alone, maybe it will be the right moment. U need to be happy without toxic persons. Sorry for my bad english, good luck! ♡
Well you just said you're 18. Let me tell you something. When I was 16 I fell in love with my actual boyfriend, he was 32 back then. And at the beginning my parents wouldn't accept it. But I fought and fought for what I really wanted and loved, and they finally understood that there was nothing they could do about it. So when I finished school at 17, I went to his apartment and we're living together since then, and I'm 19 now. You must do what your heart tells you to do, cause you are the one and only one who can decide what to do on life. Do what makes you happy and don't care about others👍🏻💖
*She is the calm mother i wish i had, my mom don't listen and understand me.... That's why we can't communicate...and even if i say something...she takes it the other way. I am really happy that you have a mother like that*
i actually can feel his mom feeling.....she is kinda sad after hearing it beacuse every parents except their child to marry and hv kids and live a happy life but she did not disagree on him and decuded to support him. Your mom its just so kind and lovely and open hearted 💜 Edit : Thanks for the 2k likes which yall agree what i hv said n btw i nvr have so many like b4 😊💜
You can adopt and being forced to marry someone you're not attracted to wont help you have a happy life. I hope she realizes that her son's coming out is the first step to his future happiness.
This is so beautiful. Coming out to Asian parents, especially Japanese parents, is very difficult and scary. I’m also Asian and came out to my parents when I was 14. My mom immediately cried and gave me a hard time up until I was 27 years old. It was only until recently that my mom realized how hurt I felt growing up gay because I finally expressed to her how bad it feels when your family doesn’t fully accept you for who you are and now she finally understands. Recently, she defended me in front of my entire extended family about how she loves me no matter if I’m gay and vowed to hurt anyone if they hurt me. It felt really good to see her defend me and not be ashamed for once. My mom and I now have an amazing relationship and I can openly talk to her about my girlfriend and our future kids together. She’s waiting for grandkids just like his mom in this video :) And my dad, well, he’s loved me ever since I came out because I’m his baby girl and daddy’s princess. For all my LGBT Asians and other gay brothers and sisters out there, it takes time. Our parents are from a different generation and cultural upbringing than us but they will always love you, even if they don’t show it or accept it at first. Stay strong and hang in there, it usually gets better over time.
So beautiful. And what you said is totally right. It really takes time. Congrats for your future. Enjoy your life. Stay blessed and happy with your loved one's.....
Im currently only 13 and i know im into girls and not guys.i am way to scared to come out just because i get a lot of hate on me because of how skinny i am or how i act.im very shy so people tend to not speak to me.i only have my mom.shes all the support i need tbh and i love her the most.
Me: Mom, I'm gay. My mom: Oh, its fine. Me: really?? My mom: Yeah, I mean when I was in high school I would ship your father with his bestfriend (a boy). Me: 👁👄👁
Literalmente estoy llorando, se necesita de mucho valor para decirle a tu familia, es bueno que hayan respetado tus gustos y espero y seas muy feliz ❤️.
También fue difícil decirle a mi mamá que me gustan los chicos de mi mismo sexo, pero ella ya suponía que a mi me gustaban, y el día que le dije a ella, me dijo que a ella no le importa si me gustaban los chicos de mi mismo sexo, sólo que fuera feliz, ya que amor es amor, enserio agradezco mucho a mi mamá, por haberme apoyado😢❤
I felted when she said; “if you want to have kids then why don’t you like woman?”, I can assure you he tried, but there isn’t such thing as forcing yourself into liking someone. You did well, lots,lots, lotsss of love and fighting 💛
Zeera Cheeze Gay people are not sterile. They still have effective egg and sperm. If he wants a biological child go do IVF. Get a donor egg. I know a gay couple who had both child through IVF. One child biologically belongs to one father and the other is biologically to the other father. Both child share the same donor mother. The two father has been raising those children since birth as they are both the legal guardian of the child. Mother is just a donor and she said she doesn’t want to be involved.
stimul8 my mother acted just like this lady did when I told her I was smoking xD “your going to tell you dad right?” Is one of their favourite sentences. It doesn’t matter if your gay. Mums usually always take it easier than dads.
Ay se me salió la lagrimita, se lo que se siente ese sentimiento de tener que decirle a tus padres, cuesta pero alivia que ya lo sepan, me gusto el video 💕
Nose si vas a leer esto o siquieras me entiendas pero solo quiero decir: Ser homosexual/bisexual/asexual/pansexual, etc. No te hace mejor ni peor persona,solo sos una persona común y corriente, con gustos como cualquier otro ser humano, admiro mucho que grabaras tu confeción y en la manera que reaccionó tu madre sinceramente no me lo esperaba, pensé y me hubiera gustado que alla dicho cosas como "te sigo queriendo" "no importa, seguís siendo mi hijo y te sigo amando" etc... Pero bueno, cada quien con sus maneras de expresarse... No se sientan mal por tener "gustos distintos" siguen siendo seres humanos y en cuanto a esas personas que los criticas e insultan solo dan lástima, preocupense mejor por ser una buena persona y cuidar a sus seres queridos en vez de preocuparse por lo que digan ellos o aquellos... Y para los religiosos homofobicos que ponen de excusa a dios diciendo "dios castiga a los homosexuales"....... Soy atea pero estoy 100% segura que su dios no va a castigar a una persona por amar a otra, actualicense gente, personas son personas, sin importar importar su religion,país en que nazcas,sexualidad,clase social, etc... Te apoyo y a todos los que tomas en valor de decirlo frente a millones de personas, te mando la mejor vibra del mundo jajaja... Bye, saludos desde Argentina 💕
Eso es lo que le abia dicho a my pa que todavia era la misma niña de antes y que todavia lo amaba pero no le importo eso a el Sorry por my español porque es my primer language but se me olvida como escribir en Spanish, y tambien autocorrect no deja escribir bien que pedo
Yes, he seems very genuine. But I also feel a bit sad for him. The kind of love he wants is even more uncommon for gays than it is for straight folks. There is a greater likelihood of infatuation, over sexualization, and infidelity in the gay community. It will open it’s arms to you, then torture you and spit you out. Or your heart will harden and lose that innocence, in order to remain in its embrace.
@@monkeyslap This is so true. I recently accepted I am gay and I started off with grindr. A guy talked to me for over a week. Said good night and good morning to me everyday, enthusiastic to see me, told me about his life and hobbies, joked about the future, used to make blush all the time. Then when the day came to meet him he was offline. He has been offline for a week now. Not a single word. 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@arraikcruor6407 hope he or whoever was that was not cat hmm I forgot the word.. It was entirely new to me. Well it's someone pretending to be someone he or she is not. And when It's time to meet they don't show up, all of suddenly they disappeared as if they never existed. Sigh such a cruel way to set up person after they give them hope , and using them for their own benefits without any guilt , and when it's time to meet they panic because they don't want to be caught. Oh i think I remember the word . is it Catfishing ? Anyway, be careful online. Anyone can be anyone they want to be. Don't give them money or anything or any information such as your address, ID etc, including your phone number unless the person is genuine and maybe you did video chat etc hmm. Idk , judge as you see fit and stay strong.
I wish my parents would be this accepting about my gender identity, they understand my sexuality (they don't really like it tho) but my gender is another story. I explained my gender identity to my dad and he seemed understanding but at the end of the conversation he said that i'd always be a girl. That broke my heart and honestly I think of it everyday.
Parents aren't always right. It's okay, be yourself, and with time and pacience they will have to accept you. Even If they don't, please know that there are many people like you and me in this situation, and everything will be fine, there is always someone who cares about you and support you. Please stay safe.
So ur a girl? I'm in the same situation as yours too, I'mma 14yo girl, n a lesb, i'm tryin to be a trans man at 19/20yo, but my parents r kinda strict...
My dear let me tell you something. You are who you are no matter if you're ftm, mtf, genderfluid, bigender, nonbinary or anything else. Parents often don't understand it and will sometimes try to change you. Please stay true to yourself and don't let people change who you are. One day you're going to be the person you are and no one can change you then. Stay safe and remember that you are valid!
No entendí ni madres, pero el chico está sacando el corazón del pecho y la mamá con cara de empacho. No soy gay pero el chico me hizo llorar, que va, mujer daleeee un abrazo hombree! Manda la frialdad y el que dirán a un carajo. Un hijo lo es todo.
Yo resido en Japón y la gente por naturaleza es bastante fría a comparación de otros países, más los adultos. Entiendo la frialdad de la mamá pero las generaciones más jóvenes ya empiezan a cambiar eso
@@owochiensalada Yo he vivido en Japón desde hace tres años y medio y soy mitad japonesa también pero viví en Costa Rica casi que toda mi vida. Los japoneses no es que sean fríos por naturaleza, es que simplemente no demuestran lo que sienten (en especial las viejas generaciones). Y también hay que considerar que no en todas las culturas se expresa el amor al igual que nosotros, los latinos, nosotros tendemos a abrazar, besar, decir "te quiero", "te amo", etc pero el japonés demuestra su cariño de otra manera (hablando de relaciones de padres e hijos). Mi abuelo japonés nunca ha abrazado a mi papá cuando creció pero su amor hacía él lo expresa de diferente forma. Sin embargo, mi papá "cortó ese patrón", él sí nos abraza a mi hermano y a mí, nos dice "te quiero", etc, se acostumbró al "estilo latino" porque adoptó una cultura diferente. Es cuestión de acostumbrarse y entender esa manera de pensar del japonés viejo, que no digo que esté bien o que esté mal, sino que simplemente, es así. Sin embargo, como tú dices, las generaciones cambian con el tiempo y eso está cambiando aquí poco a poco pero es difícil ya cambiar los valores, formas de pensar, creencias y costumbres de generaciones viejas no solo aquí sino que en todo lado.
Me pase casi todo el video deseando que la señora lo abrazara o al menos le tomara la mano o algo, aunque entiendo su comportamiento, porque yo tampoco soy de las personas que anda demostrando demasiado sus sentimientos, pero en este caso estoy segura de que si estuviera en el lugar de la señora agarraria a mi hijo y lo abrazaría y le diría que todo está bien y que sin importar nada siempre lo voy amar y apoyar.
"Now just be sure you study hard" LMAO a real asian mother
Just like my mom everyday tell me this thing lol
Anggi Suryani my mom said it's ok to be gay but if you get with a thotty boy i swear then she said focus on shcool
@@corntv278 stfu Queer culture IS part of Asian culture, just go and educate yourself. Speaking of Babaylans etc.
study hard or not thats not a point here men.
it just a way to show supporting implicitly form mom.
She could say "take care your life" or something else whatever thats same meaning to show her love
Schlackie 😂😂yh
I can’t imagine how scared he must of been to tell her that
I think if ths world accept ths liberally thn there shouldnt been any problem...its just in contrary with 'laymens term' which relationship of human being lies in between 2 different sexes....but love is love...
Haha I was in this situation at 18. That's wasn't fun but after the stress I ended up calling the rest of my family who were in the living room and had a meeting in the kitchen with 8 persons and announced it hahaha but it took like 30min of trying to tell them 😂😂
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Ya I’m pretty sure he didn’t rip his mothers heart apart. What a vapid comment to make.
Mothers don't have the right to be againts male homosexuality. It makes no sense. All son to mom coming outs should be like this:
- Son: "mom, I like men"
- Mom: "cool, me too!"
よく頑張ったね。
この母にしてこの子ありだわ。
素敵なお母様。
あなた今一番素敵よ。
本当に両親は偉大やなって、この時改めて感じました。
素敵なコメントありがとうございます。
お母さんが全肯定するでもなく、「なんで子供が欲しいのに女の人(のパートナー)はあかんの？」と言う様子がリアルでした。でも、決して否定はせず、何より、あなたの幸せを一番に願っている姿に胸を打たれました。
正直寂しい気持ちもあるよね。リアルを伝えてくださってありがとうございます。優しい素敵なおかあさん。
When she told him, "Don't worry about this, it's your life." "Id that's what makes you happy it's fine." I was teary eyed. You're lucky having her as your mom.
I agree my mom would most likely disown me if I told her that I'm trans and bi
Right, I was genuinely in tears because I can only wish and dream that my parents were like her
@@ambrose153 yeah
What is bi?
Sorry I just dk -,-
@@M.x8u bi is when I like guys and girls
"I'll be waiting for my grandkids."
What an accepting and loving mother.
All the best of wishes to your family and yourself. Truly inspiring.
2017: nothing
2018: nothing
2019 - 2020 : recommends me to watch this at 3am
Haha😂for me its currently 00.26 and it was in my recommendations😂😂😂late nights...duhhh
Right 😮
It came for me too 😅
I wonder why...?
🤔
Same 😂
Jennifer Jui same here LOLLL
omg sameee ahaha! (Btw Im your 100 like lol
「お母さんが女の人を恋愛対象に見れんのと一緒やん。それが逆なだけ」っていう言葉がなんかすごいしっくりきた、、、世界中のみんな幸せになってほしい
THIS WAS 3 YEARS AGO AND HE STILL HEARTS COMMENTS EJEKSKSIDUSS
OOMGGGG YFTUFF LOVE HIM
yeahh
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Yoongi what are you doing here skksksks
@@taenten 😂💜
Tell me why the gay men are always more attractive. This isn't fair.
TRUE AF
Bissexual
Lol
Because they actually take the time to look good and groom, unlike most straight guys
@Manuel VAQUERO most of the coming out videos have gays (males) in them and their comments are filled with girls saying "why are gay guys so hot" with like 10k likes each comment. What ive noticed is that their hair are well made and their faces look neat and eyebrows done? Ill side with gay guys take care of their appearance rather than gay guys are hot or hot guys are gay.
あんたの人生や、とか、あんたがええんやったら…って、息子に言っているというより自分に言い聞かせて理解しようと努力しているお母さんが素敵。
「そっかー、そうじゃないかと思ってたわ。それで？あなたはどうやって生きたいの？」
これ以上嬉しい言葉無いよね
私のカミングアウトの時と似てる、良かった良かった
どうやって生きたいの？ってすごい質問。普通に生きてたら親にこんな質問されないよね、すごくグッとくる。この質問ひとつで自分の人選について本気で考えることができそう。質問に見えて、すごい助言だと思う。
The fact that he still likes the comment shows what this means to him.
I just wanted to give him a hug, poor guy was obviously terrified
Bruh, zero comments
People really need to understand how hard is the culture in Japan and how they have been raised, most of the parents would punch him and stop talking to him forever, but if you know a little bit about japanese culture you would understand how much his mom love him, please respect her, and I wish you the best with your dad, follow your dreams no matter what I know your parents always are going to love you.
With russian Parents is also very stressful and hard to say that because there very homophobic and strict, in Russia is this very hard to understand and many people there bully LGBTQ people for being gay or a lesbian or something else. For example I'm a bisexual and I'm scared to say that to my parents because we're a Russian family and my mum hate LGBTQ so much and yeah.....sad :-(
Karina Davydova omg you’re right I lived there for six years and I really saw parents who were so racist and homophobic ofc not all of them but most of them. And all Asian parents are soooo strict and it makes me stressful but when they say that study you have to cuz sometime you’ll regret not studying 💖✨
@@karinadavodova29 I define myself as a bi too. I live in Italy and, luckily, I am not scared to tell my parents about what I like, I'm only not 100% sure about me being bi and not just asexual. I know it sounds strange but the fact is that for now I still don't know because I need to experience, but the only thing I know is that there is something, different from the other girls, in me... I need to wait, but I think they already understood that I'm not 100% straight.
@@karinadavodova29 All Slavic nations are extremely homophobic...
@@karinadavodova29 the same in Ukraine and, I think, in the rest of post-Soviet countries
お母さんに話す前に感極まって泣いてしまうところ。色々な思いがあるんだろうね。
お母さんが理解しようとしてくれて良かった。お父さんにはお母さんから言っといてよぉ。素敵なお母さん。素敵な息子さん。
いやいや、本人から言ったほうがいいでしょ、
"If it makes you happy, it's okay."
Gosh i need to hear that so bad.
Well since you need to hear it, if it makes you happy then it’s okay, lol I hope u really know that’s true no matter what anyone says❤️
"if it makes you happy, it's okay". And that's so right. U should do what makes you feel happy bc this is all that matters in life. ❤️ Just be yourself
If it makes you happy, it’s okay. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise you are you and that’s amazing in itself you shouldn’t let things get to you just know you are loved by many, many people and we will all be here if you need us just remember you have a community that can back you up we love you 💗
That's exactly what my mom said to my older brother🙂
"If it makes you happy then it's okay. And whatever you want to be, just be a good one."
Same :(
Mom was disappointed but you can see on her face that she slowly realized that her love of you trumps her disappointment. Just live being who you are. Don’t ever sacrifice your own happiness for other people’s approval.
So true, own happiness is what matters ~
I think it's more worry rather than disappointment; Japan isn't exactly the easiest society to be gay when it comes to a lot of things. It seems to me she's been hoping for kids and what not and suddenly realised there that it's not going to happen, until he explained it a bit.
The later one with his dad is a bit better as he seems to be more able to explain how he feels and all that.
Giving grandchildren to your parents is not your obligation
人をあやめた訳でもなく、人の物をとった訳でもなく、人が人をただ純粋に好きになっただけ。なにも悪いことしてない。どんな形であれ、愛すること、好きになることは美しいと思う。
お母さんなりに理解しようとしているのと、彼の涙に胸うたれました。ゲイだからって泣かなくてもいい世の中になって欲しい。親不孝なんかじゃないから。いい息子さんです。いいお母さんです。
うちの母親は気持ち悪いとかすぐ言うからその度に反論してるんだけど、本当に気分が悪くなるんだよ。素敵なお母さんですね。受け止めようとしてくれてるところが
その母親をどう思うかは勝手だけど否定はしちゃダメだな。お互い
気持ち悪いね人間の失敗作
男が男好きになるとかキモ！！
野獣後輩 お前が言うな
んでネタでも言うな
野獣後輩 人の気持ち考えた方がいいぞ。大人になってから苦労するよ。
野獣後輩 野獣だからってなんでもいいと思うなよ？
The strength of a woman is on display here. That lady was seriously heartbroken and didn't want to breakdown in front of her son because of her love for him. She definately cried to herself multiple times.
i can see :(
She is sooooo sweet! She did her best to be understanding and as kind towards the situation. How lovely..
Ikr
ほんとにカミングアウトするだけで、泣くような社会ではいけないと思います。日本がもっと変わるべき、人は進化してるんだから、国も進化するべき。日本でも早くLGBTQの方がもっと生きやすい社会になるのを私は本当に心から願っています。
別に進化してLGBTになったわけではないと思うからこの言い方には違和感あるなぁ。人は最初から千差万別ある。
@@moomoo7025 そんな言い方をしたわけではないですが、そう聞こえてしまったならすいません。人間はカミングアウトして、偽りの自分ではなく、自分の生き方を貫いて歩んでいる。一生懸命、人は進んでいるのに、という意味で言いました。
@@moomoo7025 個人の意識や考え方は進化しているのだから、国家の制度なども同様に進化すべきって意味ではないでしょうか？ある種の暗喩で、進歩や革新などを進化と形容してるんだと思います
僕はバイですが、親にバレてしまい、家から出てけと言われて日本に来ました
僕の場合は認めてくれなくていいから、ほっといて欲しかったです
この方のお母さんも複雑だと思うし直ぐには受け入れられないだろうけど、息子さんの話に一生懸命耳を傾けている姿に感動しました
そしてお友達も素敵な方ですね
日本語下手ですみません
日本語上手くて草
ひまんちゅ暇人 あひゃ！ありがとう！
Me:Mom Im a gay
Mom:What is gay?
.
Wtf
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
America:-
Me:- mom I'm a gay
Mom:- don't worry you go enjoy your life.
China:-
Me:- mom I'm a gay
Mom:- hmm. I will support you
India:-
Me:- mom I'm a gay
Mom:- what??? I will slap you first go inside your room😠😠😠
Me:- !!!!!
Damn if that's you in the dp . You're so cute
@@sandhiyaselvaraj5335 Arab or Indonesia
Hold my !
@@sandhiyaselvaraj5335 it’s the same with Arabic’s I know bc I’m in one my mom is mad that there are people who are different she hates gays, tomboys, and other things
Jsnxksbd çok iyi
3 years ago and he’s still liking comments to this day.💔
Lol true 😂
agree
He just liked yours
こうやって自分の事をきちんと話してくれることが、親としては嬉しいと思う。
申し訳ないなんて思う必要ないし、幸せに生きてくれたらそれだけで親は幸せです。
私も息子がいるけど、そう思います。
It’s nice to see 3 years late he’s happy with his boyfriend
Yeah lucky..
Hey big bro, didn't expect to see you here
@@izuku9052 it's really ur big bro? --v--
@@imaghost1577 nah, i was roleplaying lol
@@izuku9052oooooooh '_'
Parents that can’t accept their children for who they are,shouldn’t be parents. And your mom definitely deserves to be your mom but she has questions and that’s okay💕
honestly, to say that those parents shouldnt be parents is kind of a NAH. just because they didnt accept them for one fact dosent make them bad , they still parents and look for your own good!
Yes! I came out to my mom as bi- she accepted me
@@1Chase0 No, parents need to accept their kids on this issue. If they can't do that, then they shouldn't be a parent because otherwise they'd be asking their kid to change or abandoning their kid.
@@GreenGiant96 what the fuck. Who says that parents should accept all theire kids bullshit first of all?
Imagine being that ignorant thinking that your person and emotions should be on top off everyones and everybody should accept your shit "bEcAuSe ThEy'Re yOuR pArEnTs, oThErWiSe ThEy DoNt DeSerVe tO bE pARenTs". Sweetie you're no the center of the universe. Everyone can choose what to accept or not. Stop being toxic lmao.
お母さんの素直に残念そうな気持ちが伝わってくるのが、辛い。
そんな中でも、すぐに受け入れてくれる優しさ。
自分は親には言えなさそう。
あたたかい家族で素敵です。
habla español ndea
もうダメだ。涙が出て止まらない。
ご家族と友達も最高に良い方達ばかりでこちらとしても凄く嬉しくなりました。
応援してます。
この先もっともっと幸せになってほしいです。
She’s hurt but she wants what makes her child happy 😔❤️❤️
She knew it , all ready , She 's his Mam
I think so😢
She is hurting but I admire that she spoke with him calmly and not negative. ❤️💋🙏🏻
💜🌼🌼🌸
Hurt by what? Sexuality isn't a matter of choice.
He seems so kindhearted, it's like good energy is radiating from him.
true.. i feel it as well.. and he is goodlooking as well, that is a plus..
同性愛と言うだけで涙を流しながらカミングアウトしなくてはいけないなんて辛かったですね。陰ながら応援してます！
この4年後になっても同性婚が認められていないっていうのがすごく悔しい。
ほんと良いお母さん
理解のある良いお母さんで本当によかった
「やっぱりな」ってところは、ああ母親だなって思いました
"now study hard!" yup a true Asian mother-
Yup😃😄🤗❤️
@あいでんあいでん hm did i do something wrong or offensive?
So emotional the entire video but this detail made me laugh so hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@あいでんあいでん o its all good
That's my mom bruhh🤣❤
やっぱりなぁー
せやと思ったわ
多分お母さんは息子より先に
覚悟があったんでしょうね。
kolly kolly やっぱり母親はなんでも分かるんだよね。
子どもが親を、想う気持ち。子どもが親を、想う気持ち。好きになるひとが、性別が同じ。命が繋がる事を諦めないで欲しい。そして日本でもっともっとこのようなケースが当たり前のようになって欲しいと思う。
ふふららわやまつ
子供が親を想う気持ち。
親が子供を想う気持ち。
言えて良かったよね。友達には言えたけど、親には言えなかったんだね。
「お母さんが女の人を恋愛対象に見れないのと一緒やん」って言葉すごくいいな。その通りだもんな、何もおかしいことじゃない
カミングアウトしたあと
「(やっぱりな、)んで？」って続きを促してくれて、話聞こうとしてくれる時点でなけた。
コメントありがとうございます。
これからも、LGBTのことについて配信をしていきますね!!!
They do say the hottest men are either gay or taken -
Yeah 🥺🥺
This expresses, you cannot be gay and taken at the same time, cause gays are always up for something ;-)
Not true for me tbh... I've seen many straight men/guys who looked very attractive, and I've seen many gay or taken guys that weren't really that good looking 😅.... I guess beauty indeed is very subjective 😅😂
Dude,,, your username 🥺😔
「お母さんが女性を恋愛対象として見れんのと一緒や」
そう!そうなんだよね
My mother said she’d kick me out of the house if I were a lesbian...
Lady, you seems like an adult person. She can't really do anything about your thoughs after this.
@@user-du8zy6rm5k Thanks for the compliment (calling me grown up)... But i'm 18 years old :)
@@Kali_1666 girl, if ur mom don't change her mind, don't told her that, when u have ur own work and u can live alone, maybe it will be the right moment. U need to be happy without toxic persons. Sorry for my bad english, good luck! ♡
Well you just said you're 18. Let me tell you something. When I was 16 I fell in love with my actual boyfriend, he was 32 back then. And at the beginning my parents wouldn't accept it. But I fought and fought for what I really wanted and loved, and they finally understood that there was nothing they could do about it. So when I finished school at 17, I went to his apartment and we're living together since then, and I'm 19 now. You must do what your heart tells you to do, cause you are the one and only one who can decide what to do on life. Do what makes you happy and don't care about others👍🏻💖
Ля, мне мать то же самое сказала, лол
son: **sobbing**
mom: "hold it together"
no one:
me (straight asf): watching gay people telling their parents they're gay
@10k subscribers with no videos project lmfaooo I wish that was me in the pp...the guy is Kim taehyung...idk is he gay or not
@@drewstae6536 in the world.. Lol nope
@@francineblackman5963 2017.....Google it bby
Meeee
Same bro😂
私もトランスジェンダー(FTM)の彼を初めて紹介した時、父には｢女性同士で気持ち悪い｣と言われました。
しかし母には｢一緒に居たい人と居ればいいやん｣と言われ、父も母の言葉にそんなもんか～みたいな。
めちゃくちゃ勇気いりましたよね。
大丈夫です。本人たちが幸せなら伝わります。
今では父も息子のように夫を可愛がっています(笑)
Не плачь ❤
Ты молодец
Хорошо, что есть такие родители, которые принимают тебя таким, какой ты есть
Мне бы таких родителей
@@tiffyqwq5812печально, когда наоборот ㅠㅠ
*She is the calm mother i wish i had, my mom don't listen and understand me.... That's why we can't communicate...and even if i say something...she takes it the other way. I am really happy that you have a mother like that*
i get it
My mom too
𝗟𝗼𝗼𝗸𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘄𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝙡𝙤𝙡 ☻
In Japan a guy married a Miku Hatsune hologram but gays can’t get married lmfaooo
Lol
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 omg!!
😂
In Germany you can 🙈😂
愛しか感じなくて、もらい泣きしてしまった。
同性も異性も同じように恋ができるのが当たり前な世界になってほしいですね！
あなたのこの勇気が、大きな幸せになりますように！
僕もそう願ってます。
ありがとうございます‼︎
i actually can feel his mom feeling.....she is kinda sad after hearing it beacuse every parents except their child to marry and hv kids and live a happy life but she did not disagree on him and decuded to support him. Your mom its just so kind and lovely and open hearted 💜
Edit : Thanks for the 2k likes which yall agree what i hv said n btw i nvr have so many like b4 😊💜
Me to, her face looks so sad and disappointed.
@@clarkabinaya6125 yea as a girl or a women we can understand this 😔
Wel you can still have kids when you hay
You can adopt and being forced to marry someone you're not attracted to wont help you have a happy life. I hope she realizes that her son's coming out is the first step to his future happiness.
@@moon.937 ya i know this im just helping her telling her feeling im not like banning him from doing dat bruhhhh🌚
“I’ll be waiting for my grandkids” SHE IS SO CUTE
but she's in pain over I know that as a mummy
何かを悟って息子さんをずっと見つめるお母さんの顔が印象的。
子供を授かるっていう表現してくれてるのがすごく嬉しいです。
妊娠経験はないですが、とにかく嬉しかったです。
お母さんの気持ちとしては、あなたが同性愛者と言うことより、海外に行くことの方がつらいと思う。「もう戻ってこんつもり？」とか「だから海外に行きたいの？」とか言う端々に、寂しさを感じたので、遠くに離れて行く事の方が不安そうです。どうか寂しい思いをさせないように、たまに電話してあげてください。息子が可愛くてしょうがないのが伝わってこっち雅泣きそう
2017: Algún día.
2018: NO todavía no.
2019: Estamos cerca...
2020: Si ahora sí.
Love is love, honey. ♡
Yo
2020: NO AÚN NO
@@nayelivargas2556 douu mal :( 😔👊🏻
2020...no aun no puedo...
生きづらかった事実を声に出すこと本当に勇気のあることだったと思います。無理せず、頑張ってくださいね。
It’s cute he talks about to have children .. he knows it will be hard, but he really want to have children
Whattttttt?? Thats not possible
Free Seijuro you know, they can always adopt if they cant
Children*
Yes. Children is the plural of Child in the English language. So you don't say Childs or Childrens. Just another odd thing lol
@@mrskaa7584
Yeah, I agree with you.
Noura Marzook- second year English language and literature student 🤗
This is so beautiful. Coming out to Asian parents, especially Japanese parents, is very difficult and scary. I’m also Asian and came out to my parents when I was 14. My mom immediately cried and gave me a hard time up until I was 27 years old. It was only until recently that my mom realized how hurt I felt growing up gay because I finally expressed to her how bad it feels when your family doesn’t fully accept you for who you are and now she finally understands. Recently, she defended me in front of my entire extended family about how she loves me no matter if I’m gay and vowed to hurt anyone if they hurt me. It felt really good to see her defend me and not be ashamed for once. My mom and I now have an amazing relationship and I can openly talk to her about my girlfriend and our future kids together. She’s waiting for grandkids just like his mom in this video :) And my dad, well, he’s loved me ever since I came out because I’m his baby girl and daddy’s princess. For all my LGBT Asians and other gay brothers and sisters out there, it takes time. Our parents are from a different generation and cultural upbringing than us but they will always love you, even if they don’t show it or accept it at first. Stay strong and hang in there, it usually gets better over time.
So beautiful. And what you said is totally right. It really takes time. Congrats for your future. Enjoy your life. Stay blessed and happy with your loved one's.....
Time to wait until I'm 27 I guess ;;
I'm scared to tell my mother I loved a girl once. Bc she's also really religious. And I think that would be a shame for my family. I dunno.
Im currently only 13 and i know im into girls and not guys.i am way to scared to come out just because i get a lot of hate on me because of how skinny i am or how i act.im very shy so people tend to not speak to me.i only have my mom.shes all the support i need tbh and i love her the most.
Oh this is beautiful. Thank u for sharing ur story
me: ummmmmmm
Mum: hmmmmmmmm
Me: mum im....-
Mum: ur lesbian?
Me: -......lesbian
Mum: Ik i've seen you kiss that girl UnU
Me: WUT
Whaaat lol
LMAO
Oh word😂
I need to know more
@@69raisinswhy me too. Could u tell us more.
この報告するまでに、色々な葛藤があったと思います。辛かったと思います。
涙を流さず、フランクに言える社会になってほしいです。
私、オムライスが好きなんです、くらいの。
幸せを願います。
話し出すまでずっと黙って
聞いてあげてるの泣ける。
やさしいなあ。母は偉大。
何で好きな人ができただけなのにこんな泣かなきゃならないの。なんで受け入れられない人がいる世の中で苦しまなきゃならないんだ。誰が誰を好きになろうと自由じゃないか
動画で号泣してこのコメントでまた号泣しました。
このコメント素晴らしい
このコメント見て余計うるうるしました。批判かうかもですが生き物すべて子孫繁栄が1番なのでどうしても同性愛は批判的な意見な人が少なからず残ってしまいますよね･･･
キリストとか宗教絡みになって来るとそう簡単な事ではないよ
現実ではみんな大人だからね気持ち悪いなんて言わないし言えないよ。思ってて発言してもそれは批判の対象になるだけだし。だけど私はゲイを受け入れられないし、そういう人間の声も大切にしなきゃいけない。
The way he’s explaining to her that he could have children so she won’t feel so sad 🥺
相手が同性だって、結婚できる、子供もできる。そういう普通の世の中に早く日本がなって欲しいと思った。泣くことないよ。大丈夫、みんな応援してる📣
Me: Mom, I'm gay.
My mom: Oh, its fine.
Me: really??
My mom: Yeah, I mean when I was in high school I would ship your father with his bestfriend (a boy).
Me: 👁👄👁
LMAO
О МАЙ ГАРБЛ ОТЕЦ,ТЫ ЧТО,КРЭЙЗИ?!?
Ahahha
bro your mom is fujushi ( bl and gay fan girls )😂
this make me crying😭🔪
親に言うの本当に勇気要るだろうし、お母さんが思うのは男同志だとどうなるとかだろうし…普通に不安な部分があるだろうけど、それを受け止めてくれるお母さんで本当に良かったとしか言えないな…
自分は全くゲイとかおかしいと思ったことないし、本人が幸せなら、別に周りに迷惑かけてる訳じゃないから、1度も｢え、ゲイやばー｣とか｢きもちわる｣とか全く思ったことない。
幸せなら、別に迷惑かけてる訳じゃないから全然いいと思う。
言い方悪くなると思うけど、ゲイとかに対して興味がないから（あくまでも悪い言い方）全くヤバいとか思ったことがない。
色々あると思うけど、頑張って下さい。応援してます！
お母さんも必死に受け入れて上げようとしてるのが伝わる
いい母だね
お母様 優し
何があっても自分の子供ですものね
よく、打ち明けた～
Literalmente estoy llorando, se necesita de mucho valor para decirle a tu familia, es bueno que hayan respetado tus gustos y espero y seas muy feliz ❤️.
初めの一言が出るまでの間に、涙がポロポロ出てしまいました。
とても素敵なお母様ですね。
大事にされて下さいね。
ものすごく勇気のある行動、同じように悩んでいる人が沢山いるこの世の中でこういう動画を作ってくれてありがとう。カミングアウトするまできっとつらかったでしょうね。でも、とても素敵なことだと思います。
応援しています。
これをカミングアウトっていうこと自体なくなる世の中になってほしいな
Well done to you dear boy
I found that deeply moving
Warmest wishes to you and your mum
お母さん、素敵だね。
差別とかじゃ無くて、素直な反応だと思う。
The fact that you're hearting comments even now even though you posted this 3 years ago. We stan.
はじめまして。お母さんの、涙にあたしも母親として、涙でました。お母さんは、ちゃんと感じていたんですね。
やっぱりお母さんはスゴイ!
すごく素敵なお母さんやと思う。「色んな人がおる」って分かってくれる世の中になって欲しいですよね。
También fue difícil decirle a mi mamá que me gustan los chicos de mi mismo sexo, pero ella ya suponía que a mi me gustaban, y el día que le dije a ella, me dijo que a ella no le importa si me gustaban los chicos de mi mismo sexo, sólo que fuera feliz, ya que amor es amor, enserio agradezco mucho a mi mamá, por haberme apoyado😢❤
Que suerte
Digo que soy asexual pero soy bi y no we Como decirle a mi family
Vaya..tuviste bastante suerte
Esta es una cosa muy buena❤
Cuando los padres aceptan la ideologia sexual de sus hijos, es maravilloso❤
Que bonito apesar de que a mí no me pasa eso (por qué soy hetero) pero me parece bonito que sean fuertes ustedes pueden amar a quien quieran 😁😊
I felted when she said; “if you want to have kids then why don’t you like woman?”, I can assure you he tried, but there isn’t such thing as forcing yourself into liking someone.
You did well, lots,lots, lotsss of love and fighting 💛
Come to America! You can adopt a baby or child!We have so many that need a loving home!
Frl❤️
Zeera Cheeze can I ask why you say that?
Zeera Cheeze Gay people are not sterile. They still have effective egg and sperm. If he wants a biological child go do IVF. Get a donor egg. I know a gay couple who had both child through IVF. One child biologically belongs to one father and the other is biologically to the other father. Both child share the same donor mother. The two father has been raising those children since birth as they are both the legal guardian of the child. Mother is just a donor and she said she doesn’t want to be involved.
Gosh me too 😭
人の心を変えるのは難しい。だけど、自分の心を変えるのは簡単だ。
この社会が、少しでも人に優しい場所になりますように…。
初めてあなたの事を知りましたが凄く感動しました。
とても愛されてますね。
勇気を出して直接カミングアウトしたあなたも、
それを理解してくれるお母様もとても素晴らしいです
こういう悩みを持った方達がその悩みすらも無くなる世界になりますように。
あなたとあなたの周りの人達が幸せであれますように。
She looks like she is not killing him just becuase of the camera
Funny
Valentina Charlotte I don’t get that impression, I thought she was more “sad”. But very supportive. She’s more sad about him leaving.
She’s restraining herself while continuously asking, “You’re going to tell your dad, right?” Dun-dun-duuuuun!
stimul8 my mother acted just like this lady did when I told her I was smoking xD “your going to tell you dad right?” Is one of their favourite sentences. It doesn’t matter if your gay. Mums usually always take it easier than dads.
stimul8 you literally know nothing lmfao.
ты такая умничка! бесконечно горжусь тобой.😍 хорошо, что твоя мама такая понимающая. удачи💖💖
Наконец-то русских нашла
Ребята я к вам
お母さんの反応見たら受けとめきれない所があるけど、自分の子が本当に大切だし、幸せになってほしいって心から願っているんだろうなぁって伝わってきた
むしろ幸せになってほしいからこそ、心配している感じのお母さんの愛素敵です
Am crying as I laugh she's like "I'll be waiting for my grandkids"
Ay se me salió la lagrimita, se lo que se siente ese sentimiento de tener que decirle a tus padres, cuesta pero alivia que ya lo sepan, me gusto el video 💕
お母さんも動揺してるだろうに、落ち着いてしっかりどっしり構えてあげてるのすっごいいいお母さんですね
感動しました。ありがとうございます。
Nose si vas a leer esto o siquieras me entiendas pero solo quiero decir:
Ser homosexual/bisexual/asexual/pansexual, etc.
No te hace mejor ni peor persona,solo sos una persona común y corriente, con gustos como cualquier otro ser humano, admiro mucho que grabaras tu confeción y en la manera que reaccionó tu madre sinceramente no me lo esperaba, pensé y me hubiera gustado que alla dicho cosas como "te sigo queriendo" "no importa, seguís siendo mi hijo y te sigo amando" etc...
Pero bueno, cada quien con sus maneras de expresarse...
No se sientan mal por tener "gustos distintos" siguen siendo seres humanos y en cuanto a esas personas que los criticas e insultan solo dan lástima, preocupense mejor por ser una buena persona y cuidar a sus seres queridos en vez de preocuparse por lo que digan ellos o aquellos...
Y para los religiosos homofobicos que ponen de excusa a dios diciendo "dios castiga a los homosexuales"....... Soy atea pero estoy 100% segura que su dios no va a castigar a una persona por amar a otra, actualicense gente, personas son personas, sin importar importar su religion,país en que nazcas,sexualidad,clase social, etc...
Te apoyo y a todos los que tomas en valor de decirlo frente a millones de personas, te mando la mejor vibra del mundo jajaja...
Bye, saludos desde Argentina 💕
Mae se gano mi respeto 😔✨
Me encantó tu vídeo me encantó tu historia ojalá seas muy feliz. Besos des d Brasil 💋🇧🇷
Eso es lo que le abia dicho a my pa que todavia era la misma niña de antes y que todavia lo amaba pero no le importo eso a el
Sorry por my español porque es my primer language but se me olvida como escribir en Spanish, y tambien autocorrect no deja escribir bien que pedo
Estoy de acuerdo contigo,pero la pansexualidad realmente no existe. Jsjs
@@albak4746 en realidad si we jjsjaijaja
He actually look like he loves men. That vibe. He look like a gentle young men
Yes, he seems very genuine. But I also feel a bit sad for him. The kind of love he wants is even more uncommon for gays than it is for straight folks. There is a greater likelihood of infatuation, over sexualization, and infidelity in the gay community. It will open it’s arms to you, then torture you and spit you out. Or your heart will harden and lose that innocence, in order to remain in its embrace.
@@monkeyslap This is so true. I recently accepted I am gay and I started off with grindr. A guy talked to me for over a week. Said good night and good morning to me everyday, enthusiastic to see me, told me about his life and hobbies, joked about the future, used to make blush all the time. Then when the day came to meet him he was offline. He has been offline for a week now. Not a single word. 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Arraik Cruor i mean we don’t have to think right away that he doesn’t want you maybe he lost his phone or got logged out? Or maybe he died?
@@nikolettkondi7930 I agree that anything could have happened. I just hopes he gives me closure one day.
@@arraikcruor6407 hope he or whoever was that was not cat hmm I forgot the word.. It was entirely new to me. Well it's someone pretending to be someone he or she is not. And when It's time to meet they don't show up, all of suddenly they disappeared as if they never existed.
Sigh such a cruel way to set up person after they give them hope , and using them for their own benefits without any guilt , and when it's time to meet they panic because they don't want to be caught. Oh i think I remember the word . is it Catfishing ?
Anyway, be careful online. Anyone can be anyone they want to be. Don't give them money or anything or any information such as your address, ID etc, including your phone number unless the person is genuine and maybe you did video chat etc hmm. Idk , judge as you see fit and stay strong.
Me: Mom I’m bisexual
My mom: No you are not
Me: *w h a t*
Edit: 2000 likes? Omg
After two months I found out that I’m Omni and non binary, Lmao
wtf 😂
Legit what happened when I came out
My parents: it's just a phase😂
My mum: r u crushing on Ur best friend then
Me: erm no
My mum: well u don't know ur sexuality yet
Me:😶😑🤔
😂😂
勇気がいったなぁ。親はなんとか子どもに寄り添ってあげたいって、力になってあげたいって思うもの。それが息子ならなおさら。
I wish my parents would be this accepting about my gender identity, they understand my sexuality (they don't really like it tho) but my gender is another story. I explained my gender identity to my dad and he seemed understanding but at the end of the conversation he said that i'd always be a girl. That broke my heart and honestly I think of it everyday.
Parents aren't always right. It's okay, be yourself, and with time and pacience they will have to accept you. Even If they don't, please know that there are many people like you and me in this situation, and everything will be fine, there is always someone who cares about you and support you. Please stay safe.
@@lennyanyn thank you for your kind words, please stay safe too.
So ur a girl? I'm in the same situation as yours too, I'mma 14yo girl, n a lesb, i'm tryin to be a trans man at 19/20yo, but my parents r kinda strict...
My dear let me tell you something. You are who you are no matter if you're ftm, mtf, genderfluid, bigender, nonbinary or anything else. Parents often don't understand it and will sometimes try to change you. Please stay true to yourself and don't let people change who you are. One day you're going to be the person you are and no one can change you then. Stay safe and remember that you are valid!
FreakSlayer That doesnt sound like u trans
両親にカミングアウトするなんて勇気がいることで、かなりプライベートなことを公開してくれてありがとうございます。勇気をもらいました。自分は友だちにもオープンにはできてないなぁ。
少しでもLGBTの皆さんの背中を押せればと思い、この動画を配信しました。
もしトラみさんがカミングアウトを望んでいるなら、早くその時が来る事を願ってます。
No entendí ni madres, pero el chico está sacando el corazón del pecho y la mamá con cara de empacho. No soy gay pero el chico me hizo llorar, que va, mujer daleeee un abrazo hombree! Manda la frialdad y el que dirán a un carajo. Un hijo lo es todo.
Yo resido en Japón y la gente por naturaleza es bastante fría a comparación de otros países, más los adultos. Entiendo la frialdad de la mamá pero las generaciones más jóvenes ya empiezan a cambiar eso
@@owochiensalada Yo he vivido en Japón desde hace tres años y medio y soy mitad japonesa también pero viví en Costa Rica casi que toda mi vida. Los japoneses no es que sean fríos por naturaleza, es que simplemente no demuestran lo que sienten (en especial las viejas generaciones). Y también hay que considerar que no en todas las culturas se expresa el amor al igual que nosotros, los latinos, nosotros tendemos a abrazar, besar, decir "te quiero", "te amo", etc pero el japonés demuestra su cariño de otra manera (hablando de relaciones de padres e hijos). Mi abuelo japonés nunca ha abrazado a mi papá cuando creció pero su amor hacía él lo expresa de diferente forma. Sin embargo, mi papá "cortó ese patrón", él sí nos abraza a mi hermano y a mí, nos dice "te quiero", etc, se acostumbró al "estilo latino" porque adoptó una cultura diferente. Es cuestión de acostumbrarse y entender esa manera de pensar del japonés viejo, que no digo que esté bien o que esté mal, sino que simplemente, es así. Sin embargo, como tú dices, las generaciones cambian con el tiempo y eso está cambiando aquí poco a poco pero es difícil ya cambiar los valores, formas de pensar, creencias y costumbres de generaciones viejas no solo aquí sino que en todo lado.
@@emiarimoto8206 toda la razón,!! Nunca lo había visto desde ese punto :
Me pase casi todo el video deseando que la señora lo abrazara o al menos le tomara la mano o algo, aunque entiendo su comportamiento, porque yo tampoco soy de las personas que anda demostrando demasiado sus sentimientos, pero en este caso estoy segura de que si estuviera en el lugar de la señora agarraria a mi hijo y lo abrazaría y le diría que todo está bien y que sin importar nada siempre lo voy amar y apoyar.
@@jakyes25 siii, creéme que ese también fue mi sentimiento
最初のやっぱりな〜っておっしゃったお母様の一言で涙が出ました。
人それぞれの人生❣️
あなたの人生❣️
偉大なるお母様ですね。