My entire life is a cringe compilation. I just CANT get these moments out of my head and is taking over my very being. This video helped a lot man. Thanks! 👍🏼
I just experienced an embarrassing moment at work today! I laughed it off but inside I was feeling so much shame. It helped me just now to ask myself: "did my (embarrassing) actions hurt anyone involved?" The answer was no, in fact I made everyone around me laugh. Probably out of discomfort, but still, I was the only one who felt hurt from it. And that helped a lot to realize nobody else was harmed! In my mind, I imagine everyone is so uncomfortable they feel hurt by MY embarrassing situation, but this is just not the case. If anything they felt better about themselves after seeing me do something embarrassing haha! And I'm okay with that :)
At work I did something no one ever did before I managed to transfer to this department and everyone were like how did u do that for years we couldn’t and then a mistake happened during transfer and they said I must go back to previous department , it’s extremely embarrassing for me now to go back it’s like a rejection , they made out a fool of me I honestly don’t think I can do it and I think I should quit
Drunkenly texted somebody something way too romantic and they weren’t ready for it, scared them into retreat. (Sober me doesn’t even agree with what I’d said!) this vid gave me a lot of good tips to move on. Especially the presenting pearls to swine one! Ha!
Oh gosh! I made a inappropriate comment to someone and drunk text weird stuff to someone else. Reading everything was cringy. I feel like such a creep. I’m just gonna give everyone space and hope for the best.
I did the same thing. I said some things that were not even true while I was tipsy/ drunk and the crazy thing is that the sober me doesn’t even agree with what I had said. Now I keep reliving the situation and I can’t stop being overwhelmed by absolute embarrassment. The worst thing is when you work with these people. I’m not sure how I can come back from this.
I just run from a situation, embarrassing myself some more. Was in attending online class and I took my cellphone to bathroom to not miss anything important and forgot to mute myself🤦 People heard me peeing.. lol i had to withdraw from that situation 😅
@@user-dreamyjc.. that’s funny but don’t be so hard on yourself. If I was there listening I’d do a little giggle and move on, never really thinking about you peeing again in my life lol.
I wasn't the best guy in the past and looking back it's so embarrassing now. It's hard to deal with this...I keep remembering things that makes me cringe.
Ironically I found overtime that humiliating situations helps with my severe social anxiety. It seems to teach my primitive ape mind that "the lion isn't going to eat you" after all.
Just from personal experience, I think owning up to your mistakes can help. If people can tell you're lying or trying to play something you did off, you'll lose some of their trust. If you just own up to it saying, "Yeah I shouldn't have done that", people might understand and maybe even be glad that you owned up to it.
Same but I get cringe attacks now l can't seem to escape from it my past is torturing me I was dancing in front of a lot or people and my family it went wrong my skirt fell off accidentally while dancing.. it was so embarrassing 😭😭😭😢😢😢😢 back on 2016
You have to realize that we’re all fools. It’s a miracle when we don’t make fools of ourselves. We shouldn’t think of embarrassment as the exception to the rule. Instead we should be surprised and thrilled by any interaction where we don’t make fools of ourselves. When we achieve the appearance of normalcy, that should be celebrated. But it is an achievement. It’s not the default state. The default state is to come across more or less like an idiot. The more we get this into her head, the less we’ll be troubled by embarrassment.
Today my teacher told me to read a paragraph and when I was reading my voice decided to crack at every word and everyone was laughing lmao I was feeling so embarrassed 😭
Mine is worse. It has to do with period blood. Cant even tell the story. But ....🙈🙈🙈 cant even sleep. It happened today. I dont easily feel embarassed.but this time... I felt so so embarrassed. 😢😢😢 About your presentation... I want to say this is quite normal! I think it happens to everybody at least once in life.
Thank you so much for uploading this :) I just made a fool of myself in my office meeting. My manager was welcoming a new employee and said "she is from the best college in the world", I laughed soon after this because the reason my manager said this was because she is from the same college that he was from, and he was her professor. I laughed thinking he is just boasting. Because this college is just an average one. But I just did not think of how this new employee must have felt when I laughed. I am feeling terrible. I think I ll go apologize to her tomorrow if I might have hurt her unknowingly.
Thank you. And thanks for always taking the time to leave a comment. I so appreciate it. I think this is still in the realm of communication skill, because I define communication skill very broadly as including all aspects of self-presentation and identity management. I guess I think I’m teaching intersectional skills as much as communication skills.
An embarrassing memory just popped into my head so I searched for vids like this and I'm super greatful that i did❤❤ The comments also comforted me a lot and made me realize I'm not alone in experiencing this kind of things. Love you everyone💗🙃 and thank you Sir for the great vid!
As the newest member of my church i offered to transport members to their homes with the church bus. Had a little difficulty driving cos it was my first time with the bus. Upon returning to the church premise i nearly broke the church gate when i was entering and the body scraped the gate pillar. Everyone rushed to the incident including the pastor and I felt so embarassed i wished the earth could swallow me up. Bee almost 2 days now and the incident keeps popping up in my head every now and then. I'm really not well
This is not something to be embarassed at all. I am 25 and I know people who is 23 and feel too old to be single, also people who is in their 40s and are happy to be single. You choose it! I also know a lot of people who got married in their late thirties and had kids in their early 40s like my own parents and who have been very happy. Its not the when its the how! I guess you are.from America bcs people there are very strict about the rules of what you should do at every age. I just wanna let you know its not like that everywhere in the world. The waitress asks bcs she is borred and needs to think about somebody elses life, or bcs she finds you atractive, or bcs she needs to fill up her mind with something else than her job. Thats it! I would say you can sometimes also politely not answer it! Believe me you will be happier if you break the rules and just focus on loving yourself and finding real love just bcs you feel like and not bcs "its time". My embarassament is the actual terrible thing 😂🙈 can't tell the story but it has to do with my period 😬 and it is so embarassing. Its quite absurd actually its a natural biological thing, but for some reason it ws a huge embarassament for me and now I cant sleep thinking about it. Anyway... I guess I will not be embarassed forever 😥
@@YFL.111 thank you for the kind words! I am definitely working on getting out of these mental grooves. It’s so true you build things up to a ridiculous level where are you shouldn’t worry. But the same thought patterns can be intrusive. You definitely have to actively work on it every single day!
@@GroundWave I get it! I had to work on it in some other areas of my life. But believe after a long time working on it , it doesnt feel anymore like a daily effort. It comes naturally. Your paterns become already shaped diferently. Good luck in your path!
I find this concept really interesting! I know people who grew up with that socialization, made to feel as though being single was shameful or there must be something wrong with you if that's the case. But I (and many others I know) grew up where this is simply not even thought about or discussed! Like it never crosses my mind the correlation between someone's relationship status and their worth/value. Funny cultural stuff :) anyway yeah of course there is absolutely nothing wrong about you if you're single! You are perfect just as yourself 💕
im 13 and my little brothers friend (which I absoulutely hate) spent the night twice in a row. I was telling my older cousin about it and my grandfather was there as well, and sarcastically went "best 2 nights of my life". I immediately realized what I said sounded horribly wrong and both started laughing. I tried to laugh it off as well, but it just cringed me so hard bc im 13 and that girl is like 6. thanks for this! im feeling better just letting it out.
Is just accepting it also a valid mechanism? Like just saying "oops", or simply apologising "oh sorry I didn't realise", or "yeah, that wasn't the best", etc.... These seem much better to me, it always looks weird when people keep trying to deflect or deny what happened etc... 🤔
only if the other people are ok with that and this varies per individual, community, or even culture. there are people who implicitly demand perfection and run off or reject u for the slightest acceptance of mistake
I had something shockingly embarrassing happen to me today at my boxing gym. Let’s just say I will never train in white shorts again LOL. My coach noticed, and brought it to my attention privately. I had pants to change into and I continued. The panic feeling was to leave immediately in shame. I thought about ending my membership and never returning. But hey, it’s over. It will never happen again and those feelings will pass.
Today my colleague asked me to go get some supplies from a cabinet which was in a different room than our section. Cabinet didn’t have any sticker that would suggest we can’t take supplies from there and while we were checking pens and notebooks a lady came and said: “excuse me! Can I help you!!!” In a tone that made us feel like we are thief! I felt badly embarrassed and I don’t think I’d ever can go to that section of office ever again!
fascinating video, thank you for sharing. I have a question about 'selective intepretation' - how do you avoid deluding yourself? It seems like this is a way of wilfully avoiding reality
i add a new girl to instagram and I kept changing my profile pic to see which one looked better and she noticed and she was like “why are u changing ur profile so much”, embarrassing asf man lol
Wow am a new fan of your channel…I really enjoy your consciousness is blessed and righteous my friend my brother I love men like you….in the name of Jesus Christ I pray everything goes your way!
Today an uncle scolded me in bus because i was wearing earphones and was not able to hear him when he was asking me to move aside . He said whats the point of degrees you students are getting and all. I was so embarrassed.everyone was looking at me 😶
I did such an very embarrassing thing with my friends which my driver saw and even though he didn't say anything but I'm just dying with the thought, i wish i could escape this situation
noo mine is so bad this cute girl came over and asked for my instagram and the thing is i really needed to pee and my insta user was literally poo emeror so i started laughing and pissed myself infront of her and her dad and my friend so im actually dying rn
Thank you for your video, I look for this video because I had an embarrassing moment today and I was like"ok bye" and run away.. I'm feeling so embarrassed and awkward but I personally don't like the fact that you lie to yourself to feel better..
I just say some positive words to my teacher cause she look down but I'm much more younger then her so I feel embarrassed.......even tho I don't have to 😑 Thanks for the vid , It help
For me the most embarrasing moment is whenever I get nervous I stutter and eventho I already know what to say but all of a sudden I got mental block..I wish there's medicine to forget how embarrasing it was..
One suggestion is just to accept in advance that you are a fool. And I am a fool. And we all are fools. Most of the time we managed to disguise it. But occasionally our foolishness is revealed. This should not surprise us because, of course, we already knew that we were fools. I hope this helps.
I have just accidently mistaken someone for her mother!!! soooo embarrassed! Basically told her she looks way older than she is so need to watch this video. crrriiimnnnngggeeee!!!!
I had my 2nd event (horse back riding) today. And I had signed up for 2 turns in each event I was doing. But it turns out we were all only meant one turn. And by the time I finished, I was exhausted and ready to go home. But they called me to go again, forgetting they weren’t supposed to, and when I said I didn’t want to. My mother thought I was too scared and scolded me in front of my trainer and such. Was I wrong here? But, these tips helped a bit
Today i cried in class. I was overwhelmed with my exam results and i have also been really stressed for the past few weeks. Im scared of what my classmates think of me. I cringe when i think of it and i dont want to because ik to some extent my emotions were valid but whatif i over reacted and made a bigger deal about it than it already is
Need help. I was saying how there were no pcr tests available to book in my area for a few days and how I kept trying. We have a massive work group chat with nearly 100 people. With my bad luck, one of my "bosses" used my address at the perfect moment and managed to see that there was one made available to me, and mentioned this in the group chat. Then he made a comment basically saying if anyone does what I did it makes me seem either incompetent or like I'm taking the piss (trying to get out of work) Now people think I'm trying to get out of work or I'm an idiot. The world I work in is not very forgiving and things like mistakes usually stick around, people like to make fun etc. Any words of advice? Is this worth being stressed about?
i literally just directly told my friend “ill admit this. im spoiled” TLAKING AB CONVINCING MY MOM TO GET A PC im gonna cry why would i say that KM LGONNA CRY.
Today, i got picked on for wearing big chunky gothic-like boots, which i understand but then i slipped four times then actually fell down stairs at school🙂 nobody helped me, and nobody even asked if i was okay. So I'm never wearing those boots again😬
so hypothetically, if you where to accidentally like an old post from a person that you know, on a social media, and don't want to be looked at like a "stalker" because you are pretty sure that they'll confront you next time they meet you. which one of these methods should you use? Or is there another way to deal with such stuff? Asking for a friend.
Embarrassment recovery is it more of your self recovery but when other were embarrassed of you and you can't control them , there seem nothing we can do, they keep avoiding you and fleet when you arrive , make us feel bad , so how to cope with that and what can we do to handle the situation , keeping quiet make it worse,
Seems like one that should be on the list is to just own your blunder ... express some embarrassment, maybe apologize, and then brush it off and move on
I had alot like i farted accidentally in the bus when it hit the brake it was so loud.... and the recent one, I raised my hand a bunch of times for response of my professors questions. I tried my best to be like not be so shy but the prof didnt bother to even look at me and just redirect his eyes somewhere its so so so embarrassing.... I think I need to stop raising my hands and stop talking in class for further damage. Hays. 😢
@@fieryblaze1737 basically I played some songs for the class but they had more curse words than I remember and my teacher was like “wow I didn’t expect you to listen to this music 🤓🤓.” I don’t feel the embarrassment anymore but I haven’t listened to those songs since 😂
Basically was on a virtual call and on another at the same time for something work related and did not mute myself and the whole other meeting could hear me talking to the other meeting so basically everyone in both meetings heard me talk and it was pretty embarrassing for me. I was warned afterwards to not do that again. I am so embarrassed 🙈.
I was in a voice channel with some friends that I'm not close with, someone left and i thought she started talking to me and so i replied but she was talking to someone else in chat 😀 and here i am.
Oh my god. Today my mom asked me to go babysit her friends cats and I said yes. She gave me the apartment number, but to find out she gave me the wrong one and I totally just went into a strangers house saying that i'm here to babysit ur cats. They just answered that we don't have a cat, and I wanted to dig a hole and hide there for the rest of my life.
i fought a guy in public yall over a small amount of money that i could have easily given him but he was trying to harrass me, im so embarrassed IT WAS SOOOO CRINGE😭 im gonna pass by tere next week so i plan to change my hairstyle.
im literally crying because my sister was talking about something embarrassing about me when i was on a call with my very best friend. and I HAD TO LIE TO HER I feel so horrible and anxious
i think i accidentally put something on my snap story and im not sure if i did or not because when i checked my recent stories i saw this rlly embarrassing video of me and now im just worried if people saw it or not. Also about 20 people view my story on average so that just makes matter worse.
Today I was reading a book in class and the teacher came in, I didn't hear her, everybody stood up and the teacher was waiting for me to stand up as well so everybody called my name it was so embarrassing.
I talk to someone who I admire because I wanted him to make a review to something that I wrote and then he told to the audience. I like to help, but guys what would you do if someone ask you to do her homework? The audience were saying I ignore her. I felt soooo bad. :'/ and I had a crush on him also so.. it hurted
I need this cause I just was on the kill cam on COD when i clearly had the shot but my finger missed the button.....Best thing is everyone knows it was me cause I was the only brightly colored bitch.
I've been embarrassed in my games period Actually when we were playing football I accidentally make a goal of opponent team 😅 and my friends saw it and I was really embarrassed
I have to do this theatre thing for my drama club and I’ve found it cringe ever since we begun and I forgot that I’m literally performing this to 100 people and I literally have to do the Macarena in front of people, it’s tmr and my mom says since I didn’t quit earlier I have to do it 😭😭
Oooh, if you really wanted to, you could talk about how race and culture plays into this- where some people’s credibility is constantly impugned for no reason other than that. And how some people are given legitimacy for less than absolutely no reason just because they have less melanin in their skin, eyes, hair, etc. It’s bizarre to infinity how being naturally protected from the sun, due to a very sunny environment of origin, plays out in this topic.
I had something like that happen to me when I was 13 or 14. A girl showed all my love letters to everyone. Took me a few years to get over it. Eventually dated that girl! Time heals all wounds of you can just let time pass.
Ok I need someone to tell me how embarrassing this is because I absolutely hate other people seeing me cry. So tell me how embarrassing this is on a scale of 1/10 So I'm in JROTC (you don't really need to know what that is) but I was chosen for a leadership camp and the camp was going great until the last day. We visited an army national guard base and did a few training obstacles but before that they told us to be careful of poison sumac (poisonous plant). Unfortunately it got on my arm and it started to hurt so I went to the aid station but they had nothing for it. So I go a few more hours without doing anything and we go back to the dorms we stayed at for a week. And it burns to the point where I start crying. So I go next door where some of the other girls sleep. I ask them if they know where our instructor is and 2 of the girls (we will call them lilly and Jenna.) Take me to see the instructor. However our instructor is a male so we go over to the males side of the dorms and knock on our instructors door and he isn't there but one of the males in our group walks out but apparently they were all just hanging out in one room so now they all walk out and just see me crying so one of the males takes me to go find our instructor but asks lilly and Jenna to leave. So now I'm crying in pain around someone I don't know that well and embarrassed so once we get downstairs we find our instructor so he grabs the first aid kit and puts something on my arm and it does nothing. So now someone has to go to the store and get calamine lotion. So someone volunteers to run like no joke straight up Sprint there. And he takes the first guy who took me downstairs with him to run with him to get the calamine lotion. And it took them 15min to get back(no joke) but all I could do was sit downstairs on one of the chairs crying while trying to hold my tears until they got back and other people walked by and just stared at me in those 15min. And keep in mind I don't really talk to anyone in JROTC except lilly and Jenna I don't mean that as I don't hang out with them I mean it as I literally don't talk to other people and eventually other people learned what happened and kept asking me questions
I’m not telling you to do anything. I’m describing 10 different ways that people do, in fact, deal with embarrassment. You may not like it. That’s ok. But it doesn’t change the reality.
My entire life is a cringe compilation. I just CANT get these moments out of my head and is taking over my very being. This video helped a lot man. Thanks! 👍🏼
My pleasure. Glad it was helpful.
I swear exactly
Same man🙁
Same here chango beatz
Same 😬
I just experienced an embarrassing moment at work today! I laughed it off but inside I was feeling so much shame. It helped me just now to ask myself: "did my (embarrassing) actions hurt anyone involved?" The answer was no, in fact I made everyone around me laugh. Probably out of discomfort, but still, I was the only one who felt hurt from it. And that helped a lot to realize nobody else was harmed! In my mind, I imagine everyone is so uncomfortable they feel hurt by MY embarrassing situation, but this is just not the case. If anything they felt better about themselves after seeing me do something embarrassing haha! And I'm okay with that :)
This was me at work today.
Embarrassment is the cause of action. Its only embarrasing when you think what others would think...
I mistakenly show middle finger in family gathering 😭😭and now I am dying of embarrassment
@@hamnashah6962 I think you should take it as a lesson😅 and not do it in other much important places like your workplace, institutions etc...
At work I did something no one ever did before I managed to transfer to this department and everyone were like how did u do that for years we couldn’t and then a mistake happened during transfer and they said I must go back to previous department , it’s extremely embarrassing for me now to go back it’s like a rejection , they made out a fool of me I honestly don’t think I can do it and I think I should quit
Drunkenly texted somebody something way too romantic and they weren’t ready for it, scared them into retreat. (Sober me doesn’t even agree with what I’d said!) this vid gave me a lot of good tips to move on. Especially the presenting pearls to swine one! Ha!
Happy to be of assistance!
I know that this comment is a year old..but im facing the same situation...it's so embarrassing
Oh gosh! I made a inappropriate comment to someone and drunk text weird stuff to someone else. Reading everything was cringy. I feel like such a creep. I’m just gonna give everyone space and hope for the best.
A simple apology can also work wonders. We’ve all been there.
I did the same thing. I said some things that were not even true while I was tipsy/ drunk and the crazy thing is that the sober me doesn’t even agree with what I had said. Now I keep reliving the situation and I can’t stop being overwhelmed by absolute embarrassment. The worst thing is when you work with these people. I’m not sure how I can come back from this.
I just run from a situation, embarrassing myself some more. Was in attending online class and I took my cellphone to bathroom to not miss anything important and forgot to mute myself🤦
People heard me peeing.. lol i had to withdraw from that situation 😅
Oh damn.
@@user-dreamyjc.. that’s funny but don’t be so hard on yourself. If I was there listening I’d do a little giggle and move on, never really thinking about you peeing again in my life lol.
I can sleep at ease now haha. Thank you. I love watching your videos!
Thank you, Lucinda.
I wasn't the best guy in the past and looking back it's so embarrassing now. It's hard to deal with this...I keep remembering things that makes me cringe.
Ironically I found overtime that humiliating situations helps with my severe social anxiety. It seems to teach my primitive ape mind that "the lion isn't going to eat you" after all.
Good perspective! So true👍🏾
Just from personal experience, I think owning up to your mistakes can help. If people can tell you're lying or trying to play something you did off, you'll lose some of their trust. If you just own up to it saying, "Yeah I shouldn't have done that", people might understand and maybe even be glad that you owned up to it.
I am that embarrassed I don't want to search 'How to overcome embarrassment'
What happened?
Made me feel safe, thank you) I really take way too long to get over such moments
You're welcome 😊
OMG so do I. It’s a mind torture.
okay this made me feel better about my embarrassing moment.
Same but I get cringe attacks now l can't seem to escape from it my past is torturing me I was dancing in front of a lot or people and my family it went wrong my skirt fell off accidentally while dancing.. it was so embarrassing 😭😭😭😢😢😢😢 back on 2016
You have to realize that we’re all fools. It’s a miracle when we don’t make fools of ourselves. We shouldn’t think of embarrassment as the exception to the rule. Instead we should be surprised and thrilled by any interaction where we don’t make fools of ourselves. When we achieve the appearance of normalcy, that should be celebrated. But it is an achievement. It’s not the default state. The default state is to come across more or less like an idiot. The more we get this into her head, the less we’ll be troubled by embarrassment.
I’m so embarrassed I don’t want to go to school tomorrow 😭 I’m so scared
Why
No one even care who you are
They are just busy in their business , i also sufferd from this situation today
Today my teacher told me to read a paragraph and when I was reading my voice decided to crack at every word and everyone was laughing lmao I was feeling so embarrassed 😭
Oh no.
Mine is worse. It has to do with period blood. Cant even tell the story. But ....🙈🙈🙈 cant even sleep. It happened today. I dont easily feel embarassed.but this time... I felt so so embarrassed.
😢😢😢
About your presentation... I want to say this is quite normal! I think it happens to everybody at least once in life.
that’s nothing compared to what happened to me
Smth similar happened to me today
The teacher asked me to read and I wasn't paying attention and read the wrong part :')
Thank you so much for uploading this :) I just made a fool of myself in my office meeting. My manager was welcoming a new employee and said "she is from the best college in the world", I laughed soon after this because the reason my manager said this was because she is from the same college that he was from, and he was her professor. I laughed thinking he is just boasting. Because this college is just an average one. But I just did not think of how this new employee must have felt when I laughed. I am feeling terrible. I think I ll go apologize to her tomorrow if I might have hurt her unknowingly.
Sounds like no big deal to me. What did you do? Did you apologize?
@@franceslee8194 I did. I told her that i did not mean to hurt anyone.
Deep insides she agrees with you lol and your boss either
I use to not care what others think bout me now depression anxiety hits me I start to feel that embarrassment of my life
What have you tried so far to overcome these feelings? What has been helpful?
@@HowCommunicationWorks just think positive telling yourself its okay we all not perfect
I know what you’re talking about I just did something embarrassing and I’m going to blame my sister now
@@nyshanamibiana3597 what did you do?
Great video, this is brilliant and a slight change from communication skills (but also still very much related)
Thank you. And thanks for always taking the time to leave a comment. I so appreciate it. I think this is still in the realm of communication skill, because I define communication skill very broadly as including all aspects of self-presentation and identity management. I guess I think I’m teaching intersectional skills as much as communication skills.
An embarrassing memory just popped into my head so I searched for vids like this and I'm super greatful that i did❤❤ The comments also comforted me a lot and made me realize I'm not alone in experiencing this kind of things. Love you everyone💗🙃 and thank you Sir for the great vid!
Glad I could help!
Praying to not get embarrassing moments anymore, this is my resolution as of the moment 😞
As the newest member of my church i offered to transport members to their homes with the church bus. Had a little difficulty driving cos it was my first time with the bus. Upon returning to the church premise i nearly broke the church gate when i was entering and the body scraped the gate pillar. Everyone rushed to the incident including the pastor and I felt so embarassed i wished the earth could swallow me up. Bee almost 2 days now and the incident keeps popping up in my head every now and then. I'm really not well
Hope you feel better by now ❤️Embarrassing things happen to everyone🙂
Thank you man! I sent some pics to girl who I thought she loves me but she leaked it to my whole class😭this helps honestly
That’s awful. I’m sorry that happened to you.
Embarrassed about my single status in my mid 30s. Was out to breakfast with family and the waitress my family knew asked if I had a girlfriend yet.
This is not something to be embarassed at all.
I am 25 and I know people who is 23 and feel too old to be single, also people who is in their 40s and are happy to be single.
You choose it!
I also know a lot of people who got married in their late thirties and had kids in their early 40s like my own parents and who have been very happy. Its not the when its the how!
I guess you are.from America bcs people there are very strict about the rules of what you should do at every age.
I just wanna let you know its not like that everywhere in the world.
The waitress asks bcs she is borred and needs to think about somebody elses life, or bcs she finds you atractive, or bcs she needs to fill up her mind with something else than her job.
Thats it! I would say you can sometimes also politely not answer it!
Believe me you will be happier if you break the rules and just focus on loving yourself and finding real love just bcs you feel like and not bcs "its time".
My embarassament is the actual terrible thing 😂🙈 can't tell the story but it has to do with my period 😬 and it is so embarassing.
Its quite absurd actually its a natural biological thing, but for some reason it ws a huge embarassament for me and now I cant sleep thinking about it.
Anyway... I guess I will not be embarassed forever 😥
@@YFL.111 thank you for the kind words! I am definitely working on getting out of these mental grooves. It’s so true you build things up to a ridiculous level where are you shouldn’t worry. But the same thought patterns can be intrusive. You definitely have to actively work on it every single day!
@@GroundWave I get it! I had to work on it in some other areas of my life. But believe after a long time working on it , it doesnt feel anymore like a daily effort. It comes naturally. Your paterns become already shaped diferently.
Good luck in your path!
I find this concept really interesting! I know people who grew up with that socialization, made to feel as though being single was shameful or there must be something wrong with you if that's the case. But I (and many others I know) grew up where this is simply not even thought about or discussed! Like it never crosses my mind the correlation between someone's relationship status and their worth/value. Funny cultural stuff :) anyway yeah of course there is absolutely nothing wrong about you if you're single! You are perfect just as yourself 💕
This video has really helped me. Thank you so much!
my whole school year has been so embarrassing i try not to do things but they end up happening anyway and it makes me look so bad ☹️
im 13 and my little brothers friend (which I absoulutely hate) spent the night twice in a row. I was telling my older cousin about it and my grandfather was there as well, and sarcastically went "best 2 nights of my life". I immediately realized what I said sounded horribly wrong and both started laughing. I tried to laugh it off as well, but it just cringed me so hard bc im 13 and that girl is like 6. thanks for this! im feeling better just letting it out.
Thank you Bruce, your videos always give me something back.
You’re welcome, Edo. Thanks for your kindness.
This guy is a very humble guy he's a nice guy thank you for your help 🇩🇴🇺🇸
Is just accepting it also a valid mechanism? Like just saying "oops", or simply apologising "oh sorry I didn't realise", or "yeah, that wasn't the best", etc....
These seem much better to me, it always looks weird when people keep trying to deflect or deny what happened etc... 🤔
only if the other people are ok with that and this varies per individual, community, or even culture. there are people who implicitly demand perfection and run off or reject u for the slightest acceptance of mistake
I had something shockingly embarrassing happen to me today at my boxing gym. Let’s just say I will never train in white shorts again LOL. My coach noticed, and brought it to my attention privately. I had pants to change into and I continued. The panic feeling was to leave immediately in shame. I thought about ending my membership and never returning. But hey, it’s over. It will never happen again and those feelings will pass.
Me searching for hours on this subject after finding out my zoom camera was on during class and my face so close…..TOO close to the camera
when embarrassment is ridiculous when people put u up to it with harsh consequences, rather than going past it as honest mistakes
I experienced a
embarrassing
movement today this video helped a lot😊
I seriously have so much credit with my best friends that I can't really feel embarrassed around them and whenever I do, I just double down 😂
Today my colleague asked me to go get some supplies from a cabinet which was in a different room than our section. Cabinet didn’t have any sticker that would suggest we can’t take supplies from there and while we were checking pens and notebooks a lady came and said: “excuse me! Can I help you!!!” In a tone that made us feel like we are thief! I felt badly embarrassed and I don’t think I’d ever can go to that section of office ever again!
fascinating video, thank you for sharing. I have a question about 'selective intepretation' - how do you avoid deluding yourself? It seems like this is a way of wilfully avoiding reality
I didn’t do my homework and my mom told my tutor teacher and I was so embarrassed, this helps so much!
i add a new girl to instagram and I kept changing my profile pic to see which one looked better and she noticed and she was like “why are u changing ur profile so much”, embarrassing asf man lol
Wow am a new fan of your channel…I really enjoy your consciousness is blessed and righteous my friend my brother I love men like you….in the name of Jesus Christ I pray everything goes your way!
I was so embarrassed today in front of groups
I don't know what to do
Thank you, this was very helpful!
Today an uncle scolded me in bus because i was wearing earphones and was not able to hear him when he was asking me to move aside . He said whats the point of degrees you students are getting and all. I was so embarrassed.everyone was looking at me 😶
I have an acting show later today, and my whole family is gonna watch. I am legit shaking. Thx for the vid!
I did such an very embarrassing thing with my friends which my driver saw and even though he didn't say anything but I'm just dying with the thought, i wish i could escape this situation
Great video. Thank You!
You’re welcome.
noo mine is so bad this cute girl came over and asked for my instagram and the thing is i really needed to pee and my insta user was literally poo emeror so i started laughing and pissed myself infront of her and her dad and my friend so im actually dying rn
not to mention i was in public so yeah that was a fun day 👍
have u recovered from this event-
Thank you for your video, I look for this video because I had an embarrassing moment today and I was like"ok bye" and run away.. I'm feeling so embarrassed and awkward but I personally don't like the fact that you lie to yourself to feel better..
I just say some positive words to my teacher cause she look down but I'm much more younger then her so I feel embarrassed.......even tho I don't have to 😑 Thanks for the vid ,
It help
For me the most embarrasing moment is whenever I get nervous I stutter and eventho I already know what to say but all of a sudden I got mental block..I wish there's medicine to forget how embarrasing it was..
One suggestion is just to accept in advance that you are a fool. And I am a fool. And we all are fools. Most of the time we managed to disguise it. But occasionally our foolishness is revealed. This should not surprise us because, of course, we already knew that we were fools. I hope this helps.
I have just accidently mistaken someone for her mother!!! soooo embarrassed! Basically told her she looks way older than she is so need to watch this video. crrriiimnnnngggeeee!!!!
Got really drunk last night and went live , i already know i made a fool off myself and now i have such panic
Me too bro.
I had my 2nd event (horse back riding) today. And I had signed up for 2 turns in each event I was doing. But it turns out we were all only meant one turn. And by the time I finished, I was exhausted and ready to go home. But they called me to go again, forgetting they weren’t supposed to, and when I said I didn’t want to. My mother thought I was too scared and scolded me in front of my trainer and such. Was I wrong here? But, these tips helped a bit
I dont think that you were in the wrong here tho?
Today i cried in class. I was overwhelmed with my exam results and i have also been really stressed for the past few weeks. Im scared of what my classmates think of me. I cringe when i think of it and i dont want to because ik to some extent my emotions were valid but whatif i over reacted and made a bigger deal about it than it already is
Just spoke something stupid to someone in Omegle not know I was in Omegle trying to forget it
I was humiliated everyday in my call center training. Making me feel like the dumbest person in the room :/
This was really helpful, thank you!
Need help. I was saying how there were no pcr tests available to book in my area for a few days and how I kept trying. We have a massive work group chat with nearly 100 people. With my bad luck, one of my "bosses" used my address at the perfect moment and managed to see that there was one made available to me, and mentioned this in the group chat. Then he made a comment basically saying if anyone does what I did it makes me seem either incompetent or like I'm taking the piss (trying to get out of work)
Now people think I'm trying to get out of work or I'm an idiot.
The world I work in is not very forgiving and things like mistakes usually stick around, people like to make fun etc. Any words of advice?
Is this worth being stressed about?
Thank you very much ❤️🙏
You’re most welcome.
🙂This helps a lot thanks 🙌🏽👏🏾
You are awesome. Thankyou.
Thank you.
i literally just directly told my friend “ill admit this. im spoiled” TLAKING AB CONVINCING MY MOM TO GET A PC im gonna cry why would i say that KM LGONNA CRY.
Today, i got picked on for wearing big chunky gothic-like boots, which i understand but then i slipped four times then actually fell down stairs at school🙂 nobody helped me, and nobody even asked if i was okay. So I'm never wearing those boots again😬
I CANT GO A SINGLE DAY WITHOUT GETTING A NEW EMBARRASSING MOMENT INTO MY COLLAGE
so hypothetically, if you where to accidentally like an old post from a person that you know, on a social media, and don't want to be looked at like a "stalker" because you are pretty sure that they'll confront you next time they meet you. which one of these methods should you use? Or is there another way to deal with such stuff?
Asking for a friend.
This is such a small thing. I’d probably just laugh and say, “yeah, I was stalking you a little.”
@@HowCommunicationWorks thanks, i know my friend will be really happy to know! 😂
Embarrassment recovery is it more of your self recovery but when other were embarrassed of you and you can't control them , there seem nothing we can do, they keep avoiding you and fleet when you arrive , make us feel bad , so how to cope with that and what can we do to handle the situation , keeping quiet make it worse,
Seems like one that should be on the list is to just own your blunder ... express some embarrassment, maybe apologize, and then brush it off and move on
I had alot like i farted accidentally in the bus when it hit the brake it was so loud.... and the recent one, I raised my hand a bunch of times for response of my professors questions. I tried my best to be like not be so shy but the prof didnt bother to even look at me and just redirect his eyes somewhere its so so so embarrassing.... I think I need to stop raising my hands and stop talking in class for further damage. Hays. 😢
I got dragged to dance on stage with lights and cameras facing towards me and I tried to run away but i looked like a complete idiot 😭
Feeling like crap after making a fool of myself....Lord take me if I have to go through this again
Thank you it helped 😔👏
I did something so embarassing today my head and heart still hurts from it
Awww it will get better, I promise. I would tell you something that happened to me but you might look at me bad.😩
@@fieryblaze1737 basically I played some songs for the class but they had more curse words than I remember and my teacher was like “wow I didn’t expect you to listen to this music 🤓🤓.” I don’t feel the embarrassment anymore but I haven’t listened to those songs since 😂
Some of your examples are quite humorous but workable (I hope :) ).
Basically was on a virtual call and on another at the same time for something work related and did not mute myself and the whole other meeting could hear me talking to the other meeting so basically everyone in both meetings heard me talk and it was pretty embarrassing for me. I was warned afterwards to not do that again. I am so embarrassed 🙈.
I was in a voice channel with some friends that I'm not close with, someone left and i thought she started talking to me and so i replied but she was talking to someone else in chat 😀
and here i am.
Oh my god. Today my mom asked me to go babysit her friends cats and I said yes. She gave me the apartment number, but to find out she gave me the wrong one and I totally just went into a strangers house saying that i'm here to babysit ur cats. They just answered that we don't have a cat, and I wanted to dig a hole and hide there for the rest of my life.
u know in google map theres no such thing call facial work specialist or something else.
Can't believe you took your new GF and walked out of the restaurant. Lol.
I did a Spider-Man pose mid math class…I’ve been screaming for the last 3 hours
i fought a guy in public yall over a small amount of money that i could have easily given him but he was trying to harrass me, im so embarrassed IT WAS SOOOO CRINGE😭 im gonna pass by tere next week so i plan to change my hairstyle.
im literally crying because my sister was talking about something embarrassing about me when i was on a call with my very best friend. and I HAD TO LIE TO HER
I feel so horrible and anxious
i think i accidentally put something on my snap story and im not sure if i did or not because when i checked my recent stories i saw this rlly embarrassing video of me and now im just worried if people saw it or not. Also about 20 people view my story on average so that just makes matter worse.
I was caught cheating in a university exam. No action has been taken as such but I am feeling bad about it
Today I was reading a book in class and the teacher came in, I didn't hear her, everybody stood up and the teacher was waiting for me to stand up as well so everybody called my name it was so embarrassing.
We’re only human
I am class rep in my uni class
When l was trying to give a announcement l messed up hard and most of the students laughed at me
I talk to someone who I admire because I wanted him to make a review to something that I wrote and then he told to the audience. I like to help, but guys what would you do if someone ask you to do her homework? The audience were saying I ignore her. I felt soooo bad.
:'/ and I had a crush on him also so.. it hurted
I had an embarrassing moment today I asked a question and I couldn't phrase it in English properly, I can't seem to forgive myself about it. 😬
I messed in a speech in front of 2 classes I forgot everything beside the intro
Can't sleep....
I need this cause I just was on the kill cam on COD when i clearly had the shot but my finger missed the button.....Best thing is everyone knows it was me cause I was the only brightly colored bitch.
I've been embarrassed in my games period
Actually when we were playing football I accidentally make a goal of opponent team 😅 and my friends saw it and I was really embarrassed
I have to do this theatre thing for my drama club and I’ve found it cringe ever since we begun and I forgot that I’m literally performing this to 100 people and I literally have to do the Macarena in front of people, it’s tmr and my mom says since I didn’t quit earlier I have to do it 😭😭
Oooh, if you really wanted to, you could talk about how race and culture plays into this- where some people’s credibility is constantly impugned for no reason other than that. And how some people are given legitimacy for less than absolutely no reason just because they have less melanin in their skin, eyes, hair, etc. It’s bizarre to infinity how being naturally protected from the sun, due to a very sunny environment of origin, plays out in this topic.
wooooww very effective video
Bruce Bruce 🤣
Does anyone else have an embarrassing video?
She told everyone everything about me. I'm crushed and feel betrayed.
I had something like that happen to me when I was 13 or 14. A girl showed all my love letters to everyone. Took me a few years to get over it. Eventually dated that girl! Time heals all wounds of you can just let time pass.
awesome
I was texting my cosin and he didn't replyed so I talled him to text me when he's ready but it was his moms phone!!I was so embarrassed
Ok I need someone to tell me how embarrassing this is because I absolutely hate other people seeing me cry. So tell me how embarrassing this is on a scale of 1/10
So I'm in JROTC (you don't really need to know what that is) but I was chosen for a leadership camp and the camp was going great until the last day. We visited an army national guard base and did a few training obstacles but before that they told us to be careful of poison sumac (poisonous plant). Unfortunately it got on my arm and it started to hurt so I went to the aid station but they had nothing for it. So I go a few more hours without doing anything and we go back to the dorms we stayed at for a week. And it burns to the point where I start crying. So I go next door where some of the other girls sleep. I ask them if they know where our instructor is and 2 of the girls (we will call them lilly and Jenna.) Take me to see the instructor. However our instructor is a male so we go over to the males side of the dorms and knock on our instructors door and he isn't there but one of the males in our group walks out but apparently they were all just hanging out in one room so now they all walk out and just see me crying so one of the males takes me to go find our instructor but asks lilly and Jenna to leave. So now I'm crying in pain around someone I don't know that well and embarrassed so once we get downstairs we find our instructor so he grabs the first aid kit and puts something on my arm and it does nothing. So now someone has to go to the store and get calamine lotion. So someone volunteers to run like no joke straight up Sprint there. And he takes the first guy who took me downstairs with him to run with him to get the calamine lotion. And it took them 15min to get back(no joke) but all I could do was sit downstairs on one of the chairs crying while trying to hold my tears until they got back and other people walked by and just stared at me in those 15min. And keep in mind I don't really talk to anyone in JROTC except lilly and Jenna I don't mean that as I don't hang out with them I mean it as I literally don't talk to other people and eventually other people learned what happened and kept asking me questions
So basically you’re telling us to deceive the other person in order for them to attribute the blame to something else.
I’m not telling you to do anything. I’m describing 10 different ways that people do, in fact, deal with embarrassment. You may not like it. That’s ok. But it doesn’t change the reality.