I see the painful tears in Paul's eyes and I want to hug that pain away. He's such a good person and deserves to feel happy. Hopefully this doctor can help please.
Paul was in Princess Diana, life for a reason. I feel better that Princess Diana had someone that looked after her. So, there was some light her dark days, not totally alone. 🌹💔🌹
Watching Paul’s interviews lately I’ve found him him to be very fair and insightful in his opinions. He hasn’t been cruel or degrading towards anyone. He seems to understand the feelings and perspectives of everyone he talks about. ❤
@Lucile McGregor Lady Di was his life . Paul gave her the best years of himself. And then she was gone. It's normal to grieve and grieve for many years. It's difficult to shake off depression after a hugh loss so hopefully this psychologist can help him.
Good for him that he’s in therapy. He should have been 20 yrs ago. Harry is entitled to say what he wants. It’s HIS life and HIS family he’s talking about. Burrell has been working this for over 25 years. Time for him to get a real life.
@@lucilemcgregor Thank you I couldn’t say it better myself, the hypocrisy is abysmal, Paul can talk about Diana whenever, wherever and however he wanted for 20 years and making profit of Diana death but Harry cannot talk about his beloved mother... unbelievable!!
God Bless you Paul I hope that you can move on and find peace and to be happy! You were a special person to Diana and always there for her you were very loyal and a great friend ♥️🌹
Amazing therapist. Paul is the friend all of us would like to have. I understand that he feels possessive over the memory of his dear Diana, because in a very tiny way, I felt that too. I knew a lot more about her than most in my immediate circle and I wanted to claim her loss for myself, because I felt so close to her. The sad thing is, that if you don't let go, she cannot move on. I feel that she has imprinted in Paul a part of his life that was always vacant and that means he is scared to be without that essential part. I feel for you, dear man. You were good to her while she was here, you are now allowed to let her go to a safer space in your memory. She needs to rest too.
Some people, are still so threatened by Princess Diana ♥ and her enduring legacy of love and caring. Such people will never understand why so many still love her and will never forget her. Why should we...? Now, it is tragically comical how that 'royal' family try to adopt her ways and clumsily copy her. They will never be popular as she was and still is, even after a quarter of a century. Love you miss you beautiful Diana, Princess of Wales, Queen of Hearts 💕 forever
Bless him for being a true friend to Princess Diana, and for his unswerving loyalty to her. She was so strong and yet so fragile. It comforts me to know he was there for her through all her trials to the tragic end. I guess the Princess took a bit of all of us when she passed.
I agree. Paul is such a sweet person. God bless him. Not to be wierd or anything but after this interview I just want to hug him. After Diana died you could just see the pain in him. He was a TRUE FRIEND IN EVERY SENSE!
I like this therapist… she used to have quite a few of her clients in therapy on camera for us to observe and I found it fascinating.. Humans are incredibly fascinating and every single one of them is different and unique to them.. Loved this … Thank you 🙏🏻
God bless you Paul! I pray you are genuinely happy, everyone deserves that. You’ve given your entire life to others - it’s your turn now…..love yourself and do what is good for you.
He was a true friend to Diana and you can see that her death still affects him after all these years. I’m glad he has found happiness in his pers9nal life
@Veronique428 I felt that way too ,but he helped us see how human she was and things like her her true feelings on El Fyed ,he was spreading so many lies about her relationship with his son ,it was all in his mind !! I think Paul is a good man . That memorial in Herrods is sickening ! So disrespectful to Diana and her sons , in my humble opinion!
Dear Paul. He will never recover for his lost love of his friend. This therapist talked soooooo much tripe. Really does it matter that he loves and remembers? Really is it a problem to have cared so much. His husband loves him. Let him live and believe and love as he wishes to. The therapist used the word "I" so much it was it seems all about her. God Bless Paul for his honesty. A remarkable man.
I REALLY like you Paul, not just because Diana chose you, but because you know we all want to know all there is to know about Diana AND you! Isn't it ironic that the press vilified you for doing exactly what they try to do on a daily basis, bringing us information. If you were good enough for the Queen and Diana, you are sure enough for us
He's been in his version of survival mode. He's learning to be free in leaps and bounds - he's here to help others, simply by being brave enough to openly wish to be true to himself. For every good reason! Yes! ✨🙌✨🌟✨🙌✨
As a psychiatric nurse, who also goes to therapy, I can say with conviction that therapy does not happen in a day or a few months or a year, therapy is an ongoing process that is not only challenging, but exhausting and difficult. That "good feeling" that Paul is having is quite likely only temporary. It is very easy to "go back in the box." One is simply not suddenly 'better' after a certain amount of time that one can put on a calendar. You can't expect to have everything worked out to your liking because one of the most important things *for* therapy is not being fooled by your first day of feeling good because it may only be a glimpse of what you will feel in the future. A critical tool for learning how *not* to play that game with oneself is by hearing your therapist say Ruhar he/she is proud of the accomplishments you've made because of the *insight* you've gained *during* therapy!
@@RebeccaAbrahansson I'm so very sorry to hear that. If someone has a story like yours *it is always* the fault of the therapist. This sounds like they could have been a bad fit for you if they could not help you in any way. After decades of useless councilors, I stuck it out until I finally found someone worthwhile. I've now had the same therapist for 11 years and she has been instrumental in healing some old emotional scars. Being a survivor of childhood abuse, therapy can be the difference between living a happy, full life and continuing to suffer old hurts that are never healed. May I ask if you are in GB? The therapy styles the UK (and some other of the Commonwealth countries) have in place, especially considering the severe issues they have with a broken system overburdened by a lack of qualified providers and a massive population in desperate need of both mental and physical care, and severely long wait times, is what I've seen after visiting family there for a year. I hate the financial crisis in America, but if you're lucky enough to have federal coverage (I'm disabled from a work-related illness so I was forced to medically retire) the care can be excellent IF you make sure that you advocate for yourself and not accept half-assed care or uncaring providers.
I just love Paul. I saw the special where he shares his life story with us as (first) the Queen’s (and then HRH Diana’s) butler. He is an amazing storyteller, and i don’t think its quite as dysfunctional as perhaps this show portrays? Anyhow, i am American and so I wasn’t aware the British Press vilified him about some of the things he took after the Princess’ death (although it was later found to be gifted to him). I wish The Queen would have taken him back after the Princess’ death. It would have helped him grieve. I don’t think he was left with much support. I’m glad he has found love, and I wish him only the best. Keep doing you, Paul- we love hearing your stories… the ones about Diana and the ones about you!
I understand how Paul feels... God bless him...but he has someone to help him, love him, and give him happiness. I wish him happiness for the rest of his life.
It seemed like the Therapist was very harsh in her cricism while I thought he seemed respectful and receptive throughout . I can buy that there's still work to be done but surely she can offer some encouragement !!! I also thought it was impressive that he allowed this to be filmed since he's such a private person who likes his secrets !
@@leonenarwani7258 I’m afraid I have to agree. He’s being paid to do this on television. This never works. To be honest, I think the therapist _was_ kind and honest. It’s her way: very opposite to his behaviour.
@leonenarwani7258 When Diana died, he was let go after long service, and he lost his house. Frankly I don't blame him for making money discussing Diana. He's very respectful to her memory. I'm glad he talks about Diana, he's one of the few who worked for the Palace that has not gone with the negative narrative about her. Bless him.❤
Every one who cares about Princess Di!! Would want to be near to her! He was at sevice for her wellbeing! And needs! I feel he has every right to express his story about what went on in her private life! We all want to know why she ended up alone desperate hunted down! The worlds most important woman! Hes Acepting his sexuality! There the reason why he was gentle & kind to her! He does not speek bad about the princess! He truley admired her! Every one has secrets!!
@@user-cy4vw1qj9m she did not like being alone , the amount of attention she needed , age played a part of it , and you can see it from her relationships
@@leonenarwani7258 The relationships were due to her been so hurt. If Charles had been a good husband she would have been faithful. Hurt can make people act out of character mind you I give her no marks for having a affair with a married man whose marriage broke down as a result.
He's lost his way spiritually. We are coming to a time in history where our Lord is preparing to return. Who will be ready? Interiorily, everyone ... deep down inside know there is a God and one day we will be judged. It was very brave of him to air his private session.
I mean if they tell him to get rid of the pictures in the books I find that kind of stupid, you can coach yourself through losing somebody you love and your family or friend and still keep the pictures in the books and their memory around.
interesting that Diana would say to Paul I just wish I could find love and a man would put his arms around me and tell me that he loves me, and now listening to Paul and learning that he too secretly wanted the exact same thing for himself , no wonder he and Diana hit it off
Thank you both for sharing with the world these deep therapy sessions. It helps many people feel they’re not alone.. That even people of power are also vulnerable with many dark secrets like so many others in this world. Question: Why does the therapist pressure Paul to let go of his love and special memories of Diana.. Why take it way? What harm does it do to allow him hold onto that special part of his heart?
Musel to být hrozny zážitek vidět Dianu po smrti vlastně ji vezl do Paříže šaty byl to opravdový přítel viděla jsem ho brečet a taky jsem se rozbrečela zaslouží počtu 🎉🎉🎉🎉
This woman is to cold and harsh. Her demeanor is judgmental She can’t tell him what to feel from his experiences because she did not live them. Nor was there for Diana’s conversations with Paul. She can only hear his story and criticize. For her to dismiss his feelings when he says Diana was Important to him as his mother. That he wishes they lived as long as him and she lumped that together saying he can’t feel they were alike to him caring for both the same is when I disliked her.
I agree, I think that's why Paul never really could let his guard down. He felt threatened, and I don't think her intentions were to help. It was almost as though she was trying to convince him not to love Princess Diana anymore. So cold as you say, so very cold. It's like she wanted to deprogramme him, and thereby see if that could be done to others. I wonder who recommended her to him.
Nobody should live a lie like Paul have to 😢.I l married my husband in May 2019 after i met him in January 2011 ❤. I remeber Princess Diana shaking Hands with HIV /Aids Patients when i was a little boy ❤.I saw it on TV. This woman always wanted Love and aception like Paul always wanted the same ❤. When Diana died on August 31.1997 😢 me and mother cried here in Germany for days❤😢and i promise Diana i will never live a lie by married a woman and having kids for my family and public❤😢. Diana showed us how unhappy her marriage was and how short a life of only 36 years could be😢. I sweared to her graveside no matter how long or short my life would be ❤.I will made myself happy ❤.
I don't have great faith in this therapist - how did Paul sell out ??? It's rather stupid that she questions why Paul talks about Diana having a boy, after the boy is born.
I agree. He has made Diana into the focal point of his life and either can’t move on or doesn’t want to move on. His obsession is unhealthy and more than a bit creepy. He needs to stay in therapy until he starts to value himself (and the people who have impacted his life) for what they are in reality. Diana is dead - he should respect and honor her memory, but he needs to move on.
A rather uncomfortable artifice - a filmed psychologist's session. Burrell's bit part in the royal drama is inescapable, he will always be Diana's Butler.
I like that she challenges him in a way that makes him just uncomfortable enough to want to drop the mask we all wear outwardly to the world. I hope he continues his journey of self examination. Like her, I was not convinced of his proclamation that he “detached from Diana and her memories” or learned to not gravitate towards codependency.
Yeah that's kind of bogus I would have kept the cufflinks lol I have a vest, forever friend of mine that died in a recovery facility, cut the sleeves off and I wear it everywhere it is most certainly not worth as much as those cufflinks but they should have just kept wearing them if you like them.
He is exaggerating his relationship with princess Diana big time even her best friend said that this guy is not the guy talking like when you see him in Diana presence and she laughed ???
Now I saw this interview. I just realized that he look at Princess Diana as a good mother figure. That’s why he talked about the brothers too much for having a rifts. In his last interview. He loved his mom because she knows who he is and so I think as Lady D knows about it. That’s why she’s comfortable with him.
Mother taught boy to hate Dad and other Freudian issues around his Mother...his Mother literally imbeded him in him the feeling that he was: "special", "had a secret life he shared with his Mother, and was taught he needed her to be "protected". Like the therapist said he never learned coping mechanism. My gut feeling is he was sexualky abusedvas a boy and represses it. His conscious mind lets him think that's what he wanted. Im only 1/4 of the way in...lol have to watch the rest of the video now...lol
This happened two years ago, and Paul Burrell is still talking about Diana and making money off her memory. The therapist's assessment of Paul at the end of the video is spot on - willful and arrogant. No one gets 'cured' after a few sessions.
IF Paul had challenged Diana or any Royal family member, he'd have been out the next day and replaced with somebody who WOULD keep quiet. Would we challenge our work boss in the same situation, no. Ultimately, we are ourselves are responsible the practices we choose. It is the same story for those we know about Elvis, Michael Jackson etc. etc.
Shes a very good therapist. He isn't there yet, though. He's also a very duplicitous character, probably a Gemini 🤣🤣 so difficult to know where you are with him and it can probably change on a dime.
Why not bring up the core abandonment issues that Paul,his parents, Diana her parents,both share and how that enmeshed them. This holds true for the Queen and Maria too. Dr Patrick Carne's, could help with Paul and Diana's deep trauma and toxic shame...His book The Betrayal Bond and Dr Carne's centers could be helpful. ACOA ..Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunction Families and Inner Child work has helped me and I think could help him. It takes a while of digging in the dirt as all of us in recovery realize.... Good luck Paul, your husband, family, friends and greater community.... Also why doesn't Paul bring up his two boys. They seem to be absent from so many of his interviews and this therapy session. I would think they would feel really abandoned by him and have issues themselves...
So far I'm up to the point where the therapist is talking about lady Diana's eating disorder he wasn't trying to be the catalyst I want to make that clear to people I don't think the therapist is seeing it from his perspective because I don't think she's supposed to and I think that is actually a good therapist I've been to a lot of them ended up taking care of my problems on my own but that's okay if I feel like having to go back I can go but the point I'm trying to make here is he couldn't go get her help he would have been probably in that car with Diana the royal family above all else they said it himself you know
You my dear man person, are now free - because of Love. Love is eternal, love, by any name or human being ~ is one within the best of the rest of you. Better to Love than not to Love ~
😢😢😮. I'm wondering if Mandy Saligari is another one cashing in on a deceased royal? Sad and very unprofessional. She probably thinks this will be more clientele and more money for her and you've heard all her "knowledge" before. Why did Burrell make this public? 💰💰
14:11 i have just written. Lost I knoa number of pepole ...,.sales rep in the most prestigious stores i went in twice a week since 1988. Superb service 🙏🙏 this is 19:2019:23 how he and there are like treating me like extremely potentially buyer. Bought here and there.
We ask governments in all countries to unite bridge pillars as high as one or two meters so that if a car hits a bridge support it can still slide not as badly as a car hits a bridge pillar so that an accident hitting pillar like what happened to princess Diana does not happen again sorry and thank you
Actually there's nothing wrong with helping somebody that you're with help you cope with somebody that you had kind of a very over-the-top kind of attachment to, I think this is a little blown out of proportion and I'll tell a lot of you why, I find a kind of creepy that he was in the bottom of the closet with the clothes maybe he just got when did because he was crying and then it fell out, I think that with this particular relationship because it's not a normal relationship obviously, but the man was with his husband on getting over Diana don't just make it all about him, if you wants to request a little bit of an opinion on this because this is a very heavy situation I don't see nothing wrong with that just my opinion.
The past marked his life! Impacted him! I dont think he will ever let go! Obsesive! Hes Definsive! Not ready to let go!! He has to want to! To many secrets all of his life! Not done the work!!
Therapy is intrusive, yet he has no problem being filmed..he knew and loved Diana, fair enough, but time to move on...people who still can't let go of.Diana and yet never knew het is something else entirely...
Being a psychologist is not a profession, it is a GRACE, a ghift from GOD! Are a lot of them playing this role, 95℅ are completely useless but there is good money, isn t it ?! I don't like her, something is not in the right place!
I want to speak on Paul he loved that woman more than our bodies love vitamin d from the Sun he loved Diana I want to go as far as to say then he loved his mother no some people in those psychiatry community so quote unquote psychiatrists and help people you don't help much speaking for myself anyway that's not the wrong with that I don't see nothing wrong with him I've seen nothing off about him there were tapes with Diana that a dude which is an acting coach and speak coach speech excuse me I'm using talk to text and all that typing all this out that did some tapes with her to look at so she can work on her public speaking first take they did was her opening up about her life very intimately and deeply I can understand why he loved her and it's not just her physical beauty it's her inner beauty that really captivates people does not a coincidence in sight why people after she was murdered by the Royal family cried like babies it's snow coincidence man and I don't see anything wrong with him loving her like that she loves you she loved I read if she loved you she loved you and that's that that's that love love good down home Old fashioned Love you know so that's just my opinion on it
@@davidlogan4329 I didn't know that and I don't need to know that. I shuddered when he said that. Way too personal. He could have said she was going for naturopathic sessions if he needed to say why he was dropping her off at that building without being quite so graphic.
Fingers crossed he keeps this therapists number in his book. You can't drop a love like that in one session and sometimes in a lifetime. I'm still trying to swallow that bowling ball of a statement when the queen told him to get married. Apparently thinking that would normalize things. Harsh.
Lonely? That is total nonsense. Paul Burrell is quite happily married to a wonderful husband. Paul Burrell has a great relationship with his two adult sons and his grandchildren. He has lots of friends, owns a gorgeous home and has a great social life. What planet are you on?
I see the painful tears in Paul's eyes and I want to hug that pain away. He's such a good person and deserves to feel happy. Hopefully this doctor can help please.
Paul was in Princess Diana, life for a reason. I feel better that Princess Diana
had someone that looked after her. So, there was some light her dark days,
not totally alone. 🌹💔🌹
I'm American. There are many of us who love you, Paul.
Paul is so genuine and loving. Thank you Paul for sharing your heart.
Watching Paul’s interviews lately I’ve found him him to be very fair and insightful in his opinions. He hasn’t been cruel or degrading towards anyone. He seems to understand the feelings and perspectives of everyone he talks about. ❤
He needs to stop talking about the RF, and get a life. His life is now built from Diana’s death.
@Lucile McGregor Lady Di was his life . Paul gave her the best years of himself. And then she was gone. It's normal to grieve and grieve for many years. It's difficult to shake off depression after a hugh loss so hopefully this psychologist can help him.
Good for him that he’s in therapy. He should have been 20 yrs ago. Harry is entitled to say what he wants. It’s HIS life and HIS family he’s talking about. Burrell has been working this for over 25 years. Time for him to get a real life.
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@@lucilemcgregor Thank you I couldn’t say it better myself, the hypocrisy is abysmal, Paul can talk about Diana whenever, wherever and however he wanted for 20 years and making profit of Diana death but Harry cannot talk about his beloved mother... unbelievable!!
This therapist is top notch. I like her challenging him and his choices also her compassion
God Bless you Paul I hope that you can move on and find peace and to be happy! You were a special person to Diana and always there for her you were very loyal and a great friend ♥️🌹
Paul, You are a kind, caring person; you are genuine & loving. Just continue to be your wonderful self!! 😊
Amazing therapist. Paul is the friend all of us would like to have. I understand that he feels possessive over the memory of his dear Diana, because in a very tiny way, I felt that too. I knew a lot more about her than most in my immediate circle and I wanted to claim her loss for myself, because I felt so close to her. The sad thing is, that if you don't let go, she cannot move on. I feel that she has imprinted in Paul a part of his life that was always vacant and that means he is scared to be without that essential part. I feel for you, dear man. You were good to her while she was here, you are now allowed to let her go to a safer space in your memory. She needs to rest too.
Some people, are still so threatened by Princess Diana ♥ and her enduring legacy of love and caring. Such people will never understand why so many still love her and will never forget her. Why should we...?
Now, it is tragically comical how that 'royal' family try to adopt her ways and clumsily copy her. They will never be popular as she was and still is, even after a quarter of a century. Love you miss you beautiful Diana, Princess of Wales, Queen of Hearts 💕 forever
Love Paul he is a sweetheart ❤
Of all of the shorts of the royal family, the most authentic and best are those interviews of Paul Burrel. He is genuine ,
Be true to yourself above all. Way to go Mr. Burrell.
Bless him for being a true friend to Princess Diana, and for his unswerving loyalty to her. She was so strong and yet so fragile. It comforts me to know he was there for her through all her trials to the tragic end. I guess the Princess took a bit of all of us when she passed.
I agree. Paul is such a sweet person. God bless him. Not to be wierd or anything but after this interview I just want to hug him. After Diana died you could just see the pain in him. He was a TRUE FRIEND IN EVERY SENSE!
He used Dianna. She was going to fire him if there hadn't been an accident. He had been too.familiar
A lovely respectful book to the royal family with the truth as Diana's butler and close friend till the end.
I disagree... if he was any sort of friend, he wouldn't have said a thing
I wish we all could have a best friend in our life like Paul. He's simply wonderful.
Loved this, love you, Paul. Thank you for sharing with us.
amazingly brave of him to talk about these things. Thank you for sharing
You are a beautiful person Paul, with a beautiful soul.❤
Oh my! I can relate to this! Pauls's feelings and emotions are all that I have experienced!
I like this therapist… she used to have quite a few of her clients in therapy on camera for us to observe and I found it fascinating.. Humans are incredibly fascinating and every single one of them is different and unique to them.. Loved this … Thank you 🙏🏻
I find her so clear and direct, I trust she'll help Paul to the extent that he want's to move forward.
God bless you Paul! I pray you are genuinely happy, everyone deserves that. You’ve given your entire life to others - it’s your turn now…..love yourself and do what is good for you.
Amen! I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF! BLESS HIS SWEET HEART AND SOUL
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He was a true friend to Diana and you can see that her death still affects him after all these years. I’m glad he has found happiness in his pers9nal life
No he wasn’t, true friend don’t make profit of your death for living!
@Veronique428 I felt that way too ,but he helped us see how human she was and things like her her true feelings on El Fyed ,he was spreading so many lies about her relationship with his son ,it was all in his mind !! I think Paul is a good man . That memorial in Herrods is sickening ! So disrespectful to Diana and her sons , in my humble opinion!
Dear Paul. He will never recover for his lost love of his friend. This therapist talked soooooo much tripe. Really does it matter that he loves and remembers? Really is it a problem to have cared so much. His husband loves him. Let him live and believe and love as he wishes to. The therapist used the word "I" so much it was it seems all about her. God Bless Paul for his honesty. A remarkable man.
Very interesting. We all have our secrets. I wonder how many of us can truly unburden ourselves of matters that we have? Paul is very brave.
I REALLY like you Paul, not just because Diana chose you, but because you know we all want to know all there is to know about Diana AND you!
Isn't it ironic that the press vilified you for doing exactly what they try to do on a daily basis, bringing us information.
If you were good enough for the Queen and Diana, you are sure enough for us
What a nonsense do you here what he is talking about💁💁🙄🙄
@@lararistic4610 what nonsense you are speaking here.
Paul was such a good and trustworthy friend to the Princess …… I feel sorry for him . He deserves to be happy
Wonderful! Thank you for sharing. Love you Paul!! Hugs from Oz 🦘🦘🦘🦘
He's been in his version of survival mode. He's learning to be free in leaps and bounds - he's here to help others, simply by being brave enough to openly wish to be true to himself.
For every good reason!
Yes! ✨🙌✨🌟✨🙌✨
At Diana’s expense.
@@lucilemcgregor you have no idea. There must be an enormous amount he has not shared. It is not your place to judge him or her.
I love the truth of Paul’s love for everyone in his life, with a special bond for his Mother and Princess Diana HRH forever! 💕
As a psychiatric nurse, who also goes to therapy, I can say with conviction that therapy does not happen in a day or a few months or a year, therapy is an ongoing process that is not only challenging, but exhausting and difficult. That "good feeling" that Paul is having is quite likely only temporary. It is very easy to "go back in the box."
One is simply not suddenly 'better' after a certain amount of time that one can put on a calendar. You can't expect to have everything worked out to your liking because one of the most important things *for* therapy is not being fooled by your first day of feeling good because it may only be a glimpse of what you will feel in the future.
A critical tool for learning how *not* to play that game with oneself is by hearing your therapist say Ruhar he/she is proud of the accomplishments you've made because of the *insight* you've gained *during* therapy!
WASTED YEARS TO " THERAPY" VERY EXPENSIVE AND DID NOT HELP.
@@RebeccaAbrahansson I'm so very sorry to hear that. If someone has a story like yours *it is always* the fault of the therapist. This sounds like they could have been a bad fit for you if they could not help you in any way. After decades of useless councilors, I stuck it out until I finally found someone worthwhile. I've now had the same therapist for 11 years and she has been instrumental in healing some old emotional scars. Being a survivor of childhood abuse, therapy can be the difference between living a happy, full life and continuing to suffer old hurts that are never healed.
May I ask if you are in GB? The therapy styles the UK (and some other of the Commonwealth countries) have in place, especially considering the severe issues they have with a broken system overburdened by a lack of qualified providers and a massive population in desperate need of both mental and physical care, and severely long wait times, is what I've seen after visiting family there for a year. I hate the financial crisis in America, but if you're lucky enough to have federal coverage (I'm disabled from a work-related illness so I was forced to medically retire) the care can be excellent IF you make sure that you advocate for yourself and not accept half-assed care or uncaring providers.
He clearly has issues with attachment. He has had a tough run of it. I hope everything works out for him.
I just love Paul. I saw the special where he shares his life story with us as (first) the Queen’s (and then HRH Diana’s) butler. He is an amazing storyteller, and i don’t think its quite as dysfunctional as perhaps this show portrays? Anyhow, i am American and so I wasn’t aware the British Press vilified him about some of the things he took after the Princess’ death (although it was later found to be gifted to him). I wish The Queen would have taken him back after the Princess’ death. It would have helped him grieve. I don’t think he was left with much support. I’m glad he has found love, and I wish him only the best. Keep doing you, Paul- we love hearing your stories… the ones about Diana and the ones about you!
At least Paul came out just being real😍
I understand how Paul feels... God bless him...but he has someone to help him, love him, and give him happiness. I wish him happiness for the rest of his life.
❤with LOVE from ITALY💚🇮🇹
It seemed like the Therapist was very harsh in her cricism while I thought he seemed respectful and receptive throughout . I can buy that there's still work to be done but surely she can offer some encouragement !!! I also thought it was impressive that he allowed this to be filmed since he's such a private person who likes his secrets !
He wants the attention
@@leonenarwani7258 I’m afraid I have to agree. He’s being paid to do this on television. This never works. To be honest, I think the therapist _was_ kind and honest. It’s her way: very opposite to his behaviour.
He’s not a “private person”. He takes every opportunity to talk about her and her sons. He’s a disgrace.
@@lucilemcgregor you're the disgrace. How dare you judge someone else. Look at the mirror before commenting further.
@leonenarwani7258
When Diana died, he was let go after long service, and he lost his house. Frankly I don't blame him for making money discussing Diana. He's very respectful to her memory. I'm glad he talks about Diana, he's one of the few who worked for the Palace that has not gone with the negative narrative about her. Bless him.❤
She is a fabulous therapist!
Every one who cares about Princess Di!! Would want to be near to her! He was at sevice for her wellbeing! And needs! I feel he has every right to express his story about what went on in her private life! We all want to know why she ended up alone desperate hunted down! The worlds most important woman! Hes Acepting his sexuality! There the reason why he was gentle & kind to her! He does not speek bad about the princess! He truley admired her! Every one has secrets!!
Princess Diana rest in peace 🙏 She would have made a regal Queen.
Trust me she would not have , she was a mess
@@leonenarwani7258 Why was she a mess? 😧
@@user-cy4vw1qj9m she did not like being alone , the amount of attention she needed , age played a part of it , and you can see it from her relationships
@@leonenarwani7258 The relationships were due to her been so hurt. If Charles had been a good husband she would have been faithful. Hurt can make people act out of character mind you I give her no marks for having a affair with a married man whose marriage broke down as a result.
@@user-cy4vw1qj9m both were wrong , and this is why I don't think she would make a good leader ,
He's lost his way spiritually. We are coming to a time in history where our Lord is preparing to return. Who will be ready? Interiorily, everyone ... deep down inside know there is a God and one day we will be judged. It was very brave of him to air his private session.
Thanks Paul for your genuine support to our beloved Princess Diana ❣️ princess of Wales.
I mean if they tell him to get rid of the pictures in the books I find that kind of stupid, you can coach yourself through losing somebody you love and your family or friend and still keep the pictures in the books and their memory around.
Fascinating.
Paul really struggled, bless him.
interesting that Diana would say to Paul I just wish I could find love and a man would put his arms around me and tell me that he loves me, and now listening to Paul and learning that he too secretly wanted the exact same thing for himself , no wonder he and Diana hit it off
Thank you both for sharing with the world these deep therapy sessions. It helps many people feel they’re not alone.. That even people of power are also vulnerable with many dark secrets like so many others in this world.
Question: Why does the therapist pressure Paul to let go of his love and special memories of Diana.. Why take it way? What harm does it do to allow him hold onto that special part of his heart?
I think Paul has alot of the same problems Harry suffers from with regard to Diana
Love you Paul
Being loyal, to a fault, has its repercussions. Hoping Paul can move on.
Musel to být hrozny zážitek vidět Dianu po smrti vlastně ji vezl do Paříže šaty byl to opravdový přítel viděla jsem ho brečet a taky jsem se rozbrečela zaslouží počtu 🎉🎉🎉🎉
This woman is to cold and harsh. Her demeanor is judgmental She can’t tell him what to feel from his experiences because she did not live them. Nor was there for Diana’s conversations with Paul. She can only hear his story and criticize. For her to dismiss his feelings when he says Diana was Important to him as his mother. That he wishes they lived as long as him and she lumped that together saying he can’t feel they were alike to him caring for both the same is when I disliked her.
I agree, I think that's why Paul never really could let his guard down. He felt threatened, and I don't think her intentions were to help. It was almost as though she was trying to convince him not to love Princess Diana anymore. So cold as you say, so very cold.
It's like she wanted to deprogramme him, and thereby see if that could be done to others. I wonder who recommended her to him.
Agree
The therapist was excellent
Nobody should live a lie like Paul have to 😢.I l married my husband in May 2019 after i met him in January 2011 ❤. I remeber Princess Diana shaking Hands with HIV /Aids Patients when i was a little boy ❤.I saw it on TV. This woman always wanted Love and aception like Paul always wanted the same ❤.
When Diana died on August 31.1997 😢 me and mother cried here in Germany for days❤😢and i promise Diana i will never live a lie by married a woman and having kids for my family and public❤😢.
Diana showed us how unhappy her marriage was and how short a life of only 36 years could be😢.
I sweared to her graveside no matter how long or short my life would be ❤.I will made myself happy ❤.
I don't have great faith in this therapist - how did Paul sell out ??? It's rather stupid that she questions why Paul talks about Diana having a boy, after the boy is born.
He takes obsession to a whole other level
I agree. He has made Diana into the focal point of his life and either can’t move on or doesn’t want to move on. His obsession is unhealthy and more than a bit creepy. He needs to stay in therapy until he starts to value himself (and the people who have impacted his life) for what they are in reality. Diana is dead - he should respect and honor her memory, but he needs to move on.
My heart aches for Paul. I wish I could hug him for that trauma after Diana when no one helped. 😢
A rather uncomfortable artifice - a filmed psychologist's session. Burrell's bit part in the royal drama is inescapable, he will always be Diana's Butler.
I like that she challenges him in a way that makes him just uncomfortable enough to want to drop the mask we all wear outwardly to the world. I hope he continues his journey of self examination. Like her, I was not convinced of his proclamation that he “detached from Diana and her memories” or learned to not gravitate towards codependency.
Cold? I don’t know, she seems professional & compassionate to me.
After all she’s there for insight not to cuddle up & cry with her clients.
He's a very cool guy.
Yeah that's kind of bogus I would have kept the cufflinks lol I have a vest, forever friend of mine that died in a recovery facility, cut the sleeves off and I wear it everywhere it is most certainly not worth as much as those cufflinks but they should have just kept wearing them if you like them.
He is exaggerating his relationship with princess Diana big time even her best friend said that this guy is not the guy talking like when you see him in Diana presence and she laughed ???
Now I saw this interview. I just realized that he look at Princess Diana as a good mother figure. That’s why he talked about the brothers too much for having a rifts. In his last interview. He loved his mom because she knows who he is and so I think as Lady D knows about it. That’s why she’s comfortable with him.
Mother taught boy to hate Dad and other Freudian issues around his Mother...his Mother literally imbeded him in him the feeling that he was: "special", "had a secret life he shared with his Mother, and was taught he needed her to be "protected". Like the therapist said he never learned coping mechanism. My gut feeling is he was sexualky abusedvas a boy and represses it. His conscious mind lets him think that's what he wanted. Im only 1/4 of the way in...lol have to watch the rest of the video now...lol
❤
He’s milking knowing Diana for all the publicity he can get..
Hes a clever cunning man. And yes with demons….
I think his intentions after Princess Diana was nothing vicious
good documentary. 😅
Why the emoji??
This happened two years ago, and Paul Burrell is still talking about Diana and making money off her memory. The therapist's assessment of Paul at the end of the video is spot on - willful and arrogant. No one gets 'cured' after a few sessions.
IF Paul had challenged Diana or any Royal family member, he'd have been out the next day and replaced with somebody who WOULD keep quiet. Would we challenge our work boss in the same situation, no. Ultimately, we are ourselves are responsible the practices we choose. It is the same story for those we know about Elvis, Michael Jackson etc. etc.
Shes a very good therapist. He isn't there yet, though. He's also a very duplicitous character, probably a Gemini 🤣🤣 so difficult to know where you are with him and it can probably change on a dime.
If he really had respect and love for Diana, he wouldn’t be showing this. It’s unsettling.
Why not bring up the core abandonment issues that Paul,his parents, Diana her parents,both share and how that enmeshed them. This holds true for the Queen and Maria too.
Dr Patrick Carne's, could help with Paul and Diana's deep trauma and toxic shame...His book The Betrayal Bond and Dr Carne's centers could be helpful.
ACOA ..Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunction Families and Inner Child work has helped me and I think could help him.
It takes a while of digging in the dirt as all of us in recovery realize....
Good luck Paul, your husband, family, friends and greater community....
Also why doesn't Paul bring up his two boys. They seem to be absent from so many of his interviews and this therapy session. I would think they would feel really abandoned by him and have issues themselves...
So far I'm up to the point where the therapist is talking about lady Diana's eating disorder he wasn't trying to be the catalyst I want to make that clear to people I don't think the therapist is seeing it from his perspective because I don't think she's supposed to and I think that is actually a good therapist I've been to a lot of them ended up taking care of my problems on my own but that's okay if I feel like having to go back I can go but the point I'm trying to make here is he couldn't go get her help he would have been probably in that car with Diana the royal family above all else they said it himself you know
I hope she recommends clearing chakras to alleviate the guilt and shame.💙
You my dear man person, are now free - because of Love. Love is eternal, love, by any name or human being ~ is one within the best of the rest of you.
Better to Love than not to Love ~
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😢😢😮. I'm wondering if Mandy Saligari is another one cashing in on a deceased royal? Sad and very unprofessional. She probably thinks this will be more clientele and more money for her and you've heard all her "knowledge" before. Why did Burrell make this public? 💰💰
this world is shots in time ...she is already with me in the never land forever. in jesus name amen.
Oh come on. After the baby is born, he is vilified for saying he knew about Harry? Malarkey.
14:11 i have just written. Lost
I knoa number of pepole ...,.sales rep in the most prestigious stores i went in twice a week since 1988.
Superb service 🙏🙏 this is 19:20 19:23 how he and there are like treating me like extremely potentially buyer.
Bought here and there.
24:19 you are 🧠😊😊 intelligent........ prayers 🙏 trust in God....
The therapist is politely saying he's a very good liar. Ouch.
A liar who sees nothing wrong with living a double life.
No she’s being mean
These are people who destroyed lifes of victims of medias.
We ask governments in all countries to unite bridge pillars as high as one or two meters so that if a car hits a bridge support it can still slide not as badly as a car hits a bridge pillar so that an accident hitting pillar like what happened to princess Diana does not happen again sorry and thank you
Actually there's nothing wrong with helping somebody that you're with help you cope with somebody that you had kind of a very over-the-top kind of attachment to, I think this is a little blown out of proportion and I'll tell a lot of you why, I find a kind of creepy that he was in the bottom of the closet with the clothes maybe he just got when did because he was crying and then it fell out, I think that with this particular relationship because it's not a normal relationship obviously, but the man was with his husband on getting over Diana don't just make it all about him, if you wants to request a little bit of an opinion on this because this is a very heavy situation I don't see nothing wrong with that just my opinion.
The past marked his life! Impacted him! I dont think he will ever let go! Obsesive! Hes Definsive! Not ready to let go!! He has to want to! To many secrets all of his life! Not done the work!!
We never really let go of those we have loved. We keep them inside our hearts. That's life. Have you let go of all your loved ones that have departed?
Therapy is intrusive, yet he has no problem being filmed..he knew and loved Diana, fair enough, but time to move on...people who still can't let go of.Diana and yet never knew het is something else entirely...
Being a psychologist is not a profession, it is a GRACE, a ghift from GOD! Are a lot of them playing this role, 95℅ are completely useless but there is good money, isn t it ?! I don't like her, something is not in the right place!
Agree
The first thing I notice about her is definitely not her eyebrows, but okay.
Therapist really irritating, loads of guess work no proper analysis, can only watch a few minutes of this
If Diana left him she left him with her words in the panorama interview "there were three of us in this marriage"
Many more than just three - count all her married boyfriends back at Kensington Palace....
Great, you remove my comments??? Bravo👺
I want to speak on Paul he loved that woman more than our bodies love vitamin d from the Sun he loved Diana I want to go as far as to say then he loved his mother no some people in those psychiatry community so quote unquote psychiatrists and help people you don't help much speaking for myself anyway that's not the wrong with that I don't see nothing wrong with him I've seen nothing off about him there were tapes with Diana that a dude which is an acting coach and speak coach speech excuse me I'm using talk to text and all that typing all this out that did some tapes with her to look at so she can work on her public speaking first take they did was her opening up about her life very intimately and deeply I can understand why he loved her and it's not just her physical beauty it's her inner beauty that really captivates people does not a coincidence in sight why people after she was murdered by the Royal family cried like babies it's snow coincidence man and I don't see anything wrong with him loving her like that she loves you she loved I read if she loved you she loved you and that's that that's that love love good down home Old fashioned Love you know so that's just my opinion on it
You want to be read? Punctuation and paragraphs are friends. Use them well. 😊
This women is patronising and condescending and viewing this extremely intelligent individual from her own limited experience.
Wow first..
Congratulations!!
Omg, he’s back again???? Ugh.
And to tell the world she got colonic irrigations?!!
Oh brother.
It's already known.
@@davidlogan4329 I didn't know that and I don't need to know that. I shuddered when he said that. Way too personal. He could have said she was going for naturopathic sessions if he needed to say why he was dropping her off at that building without being quite so graphic.
Fingers crossed he keeps this therapists number in his book. You can't drop a love like that in one session and sometimes in a lifetime. I'm still trying to swallow that bowling ball of a statement when the queen told him to get married. Apparently thinking that would normalize things. Harsh.
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I know what you are expecting Paul , lots of ££££££££s 😅😅😅
The word Dogging is misplaced here
Paul Burrell fears is failure. He is guilty because he feels lonely.
Lonely? That is total nonsense. Paul Burrell is quite happily married to a wonderful husband. Paul Burrell has a great relationship with his two adult sons and his grandchildren. He has lots of friends, owns a gorgeous home and has a great social life. What planet are you on?
Colonic irrigation. I have no words.