Not the sublime 😂😂😂😂😂 I mean the hair looks stunning. I’m just laughing at the “sublime”- OGs who watch the podcast would understand the story behind the word sublime 😂😂😂
The level of the friendship shouldn't matter. Because she decided to not share with her close friend that she previously dated the guy she needs to leave that man alone. He's off limits.
Yall always show up and show out 🥰 Beatrice givin Boss Babe, Tammy is serving Blonde Bombshell, and Sharon is so Comfy Cozy..the relaxed fit is my fave
I’m with Sharon on the 1st dilemma. She said “good friend” I don’t think anyone would say that loosely. The fact that she didn’t let her friend know that she’s slept with a guy she’s in a relationship with is already weirdo behavior.
This! Sharon is being realistic. The girl only saw "husband material" in him after loosing him. Not because of his attitude or something. She clearly said she wasn't into him in the beginning. Some people just like something when they can't have it. Its normal.
I was actually like that. I'll have this huge crush on a man but the second he's mine, I'm no longer interested 😂. Then he leaves and suddenly he's attractive again. Thank God I grew out of it.
Omg guys I can’t tell you how monumental and healing this episode was for me! I’ve never spoken to anyone else who went through the 11+ prep and trauma at that young age! I was taken out of school to home school with one of these camps and it was gruelling! I felt like I had a side job when in primary school fr 😂 and when it didn’t work out for me I felt like a pure failure and like I had let my entire family down! This has followed me to this day in my career wow! Thanks so much for discussing this and opening that conversation! Definitely something from my childhood I need to revisit and unpack 🙏🏾
To even add, my sister had gone through it before me and flew into Chelmsford even becoming head girl so the pressure was WORSER 😂😂 ! This episode was so relatable and I had no clue we were from the same area! Love the pod as always! From a loyal listener 🤍🤍🤍
100% get Tammy and Sharon on the hot topic on quitting and agree with both! Something can just be done and sometimes you have given something your all and then decide to try something else. 👏🏾👏🏾
Would be great to see you seated closer together on the screen ( in this new studio of course but closer together similar to the old set up) because the unified adlibs and seeing the simultaneous reactions on your faces at the exact same time was part of the viewer experience not gonna lie 😂😂😂😂
I understand Tammys point about the 11+ There was a wild amount of pressure on us at such a young age. Grammar school was very beneficial in terms of some of the opportunities we had but alot of us had a poor experience, especially in essex. There's so many pros and cons
Childddd! You all look so amazingly groomed and polished!! Congrats again on the new studio!! You ladies take me through my Monday mornings!! Keep it up!!🙌🏾
Some parents genuinely believe that publicly shaming their children will keep them in check and get them to do what they want. But they fail to see that one moment in time causes them to: 1. lose trust in their parents 2. in some cases not want to do the work because they know they'll be shamed again. 3. hate the parents. Her parents could've easily spoken to her privately and punished her by taking away what distracted her. The ironic thing is that in situations like this when the children get older and want nothing to do with their parents, they never understand why.
Why choose to publicly shame your child on social media over low grades? Consider the long-term trauma this can caus, the emotional scars, mental harm, and deep resentment. Once online, nothing truly disappears, and sadly, these actions can leave a lasting impact. In African and Caribbean cultures, I understand that strict discipline is often deeply ingrained, but we must recognise the potential damage this approach can have on a child’s mental and emotional well-being.
The studio just amplifies you ladies!!! You all look stunning. Love it. The first dilemma is mad, how can the dilemma lady not mention to her friend “good friend” or not that the guy they are currently dating, was someone she hooked up with and was super keen on her before they dated. Then for the dilemma lady to turn around and want him after that???? Nooooo she didn’t care for her friend or the guy to begin with 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️
I always side eye parents who are sooo comfortable shaming their children online. We were privileged to grow up at a time where all our embarrassing moments and mess ups won't haunt us online forever but for a parent to actively do this on purpose to their child knowing things on the internet live forever ... it's giving you are a bully to your own child.
I recently came across you ladies by accident looking through WhatsApp channels. I now subscribe to your podcast casts and have you added on WhatsApp channels. You're all absolutely fabulous and not forgetting hilarious 🤣😂 I love you all! Brutally honest and I love it. Keep doing what you do, I'm definitely loving the shows, trying to work my way through all past episodes is gonna take a while but I'm here for it lol 😆
I’ve quit my job and not had a new one lined up multiple times before, but as a nurse you always find something. So I just done agency shifts here and there. I was also living with my parents at the time, but now I have a mortgage I wouldn’t dare take that risk. Although, I know there’s always something out there in my field of work.
Losing a good friend over a “bouncing baby boy”? Nahh, he’s not worth it. Set a standard of respect for yourself and your friends. I agree with Sharon on that dilemma
I totally get what Sharon was saying. There's this pressure from society to not Quit things and that quoting makes you lazy or someone who hasnt tried and some people just don't know how to let go… sometimes its just ok…youve done your best…its ok to realize something is not meant
I definitely agree with Sharon and Tammy on the Hot Take. Sometimes, we need to be OK with LETTING IT GO and knowing its not going to work or it wasn't for us. Also too many people stay in situations they should've walked away from when the course is over.
What Tammy was trying to say is “quit while you’re ahead”. When you’ve done all you think you can do and you’re at the peak, better to leave in a high rather than do too much! Love the new set up btw ❤
17:16 I completely agree with Sharon here. We all have different/various talents and we can try and not always feel we have to try again, if at first we don't succeed. It's okay. ❤
About the GCSE results, that’s humiliating and embarrassing. I would not like my parents to do that to me, and I would DELETE my account and start over on that platform 😮🙊🙈
Love the new set up girls! Would love it even better if you maybe did two people sitting together on the screen and then one person by themselves and then flick between the two like you used to do in the other location. Apart from that well done and greater heights for you all in Jesus name!
I that girl should follow your advice. Because she’s not a good friend PERIOD! I hope she ends up heartbroken AND friendless! And then when your other friends see this nobody will be her friend because you have bad character. This one done pissed me right off! The way I would LAY HANDS!!
With blessings failing her GCSEs, it speaks more volumes on her parent’s involvement in her academics than anything. You can’t publicly humiliate her, when you’re not doing your job as a parent to ensure your child is progressing in her studies. Like if she didn’t do well in her mocks, why didn’t you take away her social media beforehand?
Also, sometimes it's not about the talent to swim but how choppy the waters are. What's the weather like as you make this journey? But keep it up. Good stuff on the podcast ❤
Naaaaaaah you had a change of mind WHY?!? The only thing that has changed about that man is that he’s now dated your friend! You’re not her friend to begin with because you should have told her from jump. And even if it WAS an ego boost it’s no reason to be proud! People go back to easy women all the time! There’s no honor in being a get back girl AT ALL!
Damn, put some respect on Dadju's name. when you said Tayc concert, I thought it was just him. But it was a concert for their COLLABED album (héritage). And just to say it's pronounced as Tayk not Tayky.
Can we talk about the growth!!! Look at the lights and quality!!! Very demure!! 😂😩Love the growth!! Only upwards from here ❤️❤️
Boho braids in this updo looks so good on Sharon! Was made for her ✨
Agree 1000% GORGEOUS 😍 I think because it showcase her beautiful facial structure and cheekbones. It's giving top model bone structure
@@phaniePaqyasss this is literally it!🔥
Tammy this blonde hair is looking SUBLIME 😍
Not the sublime 😂😂😂😂😂 I mean the hair looks stunning. I’m just laughing at the “sublime”- OGs who watch the podcast would understand the story behind the word sublime 😂😂😂
I agree with Sharon on the dilema. It's not worth losing a friend over
The level of the friendship shouldn't matter. Because she decided to not share with her close friend that she previously dated the guy she needs to leave that man alone. He's off limits.
Yall always show up and show out 🥰
Beatrice givin Boss Babe, Tammy is serving Blonde Bombshell, and Sharon is so Comfy Cozy..the relaxed fit is my fave
I’m with Sharon on the 1st dilemma. She said “good friend” I don’t think anyone would say that loosely. The fact that she didn’t let her friend know that she’s slept with a guy she’s in a relationship with is already weirdo behavior.
This! Sharon is being realistic. The girl only saw "husband material" in him after loosing him. Not because of his attitude or something. She clearly said she wasn't into him in the beginning. Some people just like something when they can't have it. Its normal.
I was actually like that. I'll have this huge crush on a man but the second he's mine, I'm no longer interested 😂. Then he leaves and suddenly he's attractive again. Thank God I grew out of it.
I agree with Sharon, the writer didn’t have any valid reason to say she thinks this guy may be her future husband.
I freaked out for a min couldn’t see Tammy at the beginning 😭🤣
I'm loving thier outfits especially Beatrice.
Ok yall!!! “DIS IS NOIIIIICE!” (Tif Haddish voice)
Omg guys I can’t tell you how monumental and healing this episode was for me! I’ve never spoken to anyone else who went through the 11+ prep and trauma at that young age! I was taken out of school to home school with one of these camps and it was gruelling! I felt like I had a side job when in primary school fr 😂 and when it didn’t work out for me I felt like a pure failure and like I had let my entire family down! This has followed me to this day in my career wow! Thanks so much for discussing this and opening that conversation! Definitely something from my childhood I need to revisit and unpack 🙏🏾
To even add, my sister had gone through it before me and flew into Chelmsford even becoming head girl so the pressure was WORSER 😂😂 ! This episode was so relatable and I had no clue we were from the same area! Love the pod as always! From a loyal listener 🤍🤍🤍
100% get Tammy and Sharon on the hot topic on quitting and agree with both! Something can just be done and sometimes you have given something your all and then decide to try something else. 👏🏾👏🏾
I like the new setting
Sharon? What a gorgeous girl 😍😍
Would be great to see you seated closer together on the screen ( in this new studio of course but closer together similar to the old set up) because the unified adlibs and seeing the simultaneous reactions on your faces at the exact same time was part of the viewer experience not gonna lie 😂😂😂😂
This!!! The last one felt a bit more connected and this feels just a bit separate to me
I understand Tammys point about the 11+ There was a wild amount of pressure on us at such a young age. Grammar school was very beneficial in terms of some of the opportunities we had but alot of us had a poor experience, especially in essex. There's so many pros and cons
Childddd! You all look so amazingly groomed and polished!! Congrats again on the new studio!! You ladies take me through my Monday mornings!! Keep it up!!🙌🏾
One thing about me, im a runner im a track STAR 🏃🏿♀️ i will always quit what doesn't serve me.
Some parents genuinely believe that publicly shaming their children will keep them in check and get them to do what they want. But they fail to see that one moment in time causes them to:
1. lose trust in their parents
2. in some cases not want to do the work because they know they'll be shamed again.
3. hate the parents.
Her parents could've easily spoken to her privately and punished her by taking away what distracted her. The ironic thing is that in situations like this when the children get older and want nothing to do with their parents, they never understand why.
Tammy, the hair😍🔥
😍Sharon looks GOOD!!!!!
❤Whhhoooooooooo❤😂😂😂😂
Happy Monday 🎉
Took a while to show Ms TamTam😅😅😅...Got worried for hot minute😅
Why choose to publicly shame your child on social media over low grades? Consider the long-term trauma this can caus, the emotional scars, mental harm, and deep resentment.
Once online, nothing truly disappears, and sadly, these actions can leave a lasting impact. In African and Caribbean cultures, I understand that strict discipline is often deeply ingrained, but we must recognise the potential damage this approach can have on a child’s mental and emotional well-being.
This!
Please o girl’s code still stands. At least I’ll speak for my friends and I
Everyone looks stunning. The blonde, the braids , and the blazer are bangin’!
The studio just amplifies you ladies!!! You all look stunning. Love it. The first dilemma is mad, how can the dilemma lady not mention to her friend “good friend” or not that the guy they are currently dating, was someone she hooked up with and was super keen on her before they dated. Then for the dilemma lady to turn around and want him after that???? Nooooo she didn’t care for her friend or the guy to begin with 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️
Love the upgrade on the studio, and you all look so so stunning!😍
I always side eye parents who are sooo comfortable shaming their children online. We were privileged to grow up at a time where all our embarrassing moments and mess ups won't haunt us online forever but for a parent to actively do this on purpose to their child knowing things on the internet live forever ... it's giving you are a bully to your own child.
I recently came across you ladies by accident looking through WhatsApp channels. I now subscribe to your podcast casts and have you added on WhatsApp channels. You're all absolutely fabulous and not forgetting hilarious 🤣😂 I love you all! Brutally honest and I love it. Keep doing what you do, I'm definitely loving the shows, trying to work my way through all past episodes is gonna take a while but I'm here for it lol 😆
Welcome to the family! ❤
Tammy hope you’re good, you were really quiet this ep
“I’m still trying to understand why he swam” 😂😅
Loving the new space!!😍🫶🏿❤️
I’ve quit my job and not had a new one lined up multiple times before, but as a nurse you always find something. So I just done agency shifts here and there. I was also living with my parents at the time, but now I have a mortgage I wouldn’t dare take that risk. Although, I know there’s always something out there in my field of work.
Losing a good friend over a “bouncing baby boy”? Nahh, he’s not worth it. Set a standard of respect for yourself and your friends. I agree with Sharon on that dilemma
I totally get what Sharon was saying. There's this pressure from society to not Quit things and that quoting makes you lazy or someone who hasnt tried and some people just don't know how to let go… sometimes its just ok…youve done your best…its ok to realize something is not meant
You girls look so good and this new setup is giving really classy, girly and cute! well done !😍
I definitely agree with Sharon and Tammy on the Hot Take. Sometimes, we need to be OK with LETTING IT GO and knowing its not going to work or it wasn't for us. Also too many people stay in situations they should've walked away from when the course is over.
I'm just loving the new aesthetics...💜💜
I’m absolutely loving the purple pink lighting in this room💜
I really enjoyed this episode!
What Tammy was trying to say is “quit while you’re ahead”. When you’ve done all you think you can do and you’re at the peak, better to leave in a high rather than do too much! Love the new set up btw ❤
17:16
I completely agree with Sharon here.
We all have different/various talents and we can try and not always feel we have to try again, if at first we don't succeed.
It's okay.
❤
The studio look amazing just as you beautiful woman 😍😍😍😍😍😍
I love you ladies! Looking gorgeous as usual! ❤
Sharon looks so gooddddd in the braids 🥰🥰
Beatrice Tammy Sharon ♥️ ❤️ 💓 love you guys
Loving Sharon with these braids! Last episode & this one 😍
The new studio is giving 😊😊😊❤
I agree with Tammy on the pressure for young ppl and I'm American and didn't have all the context.
About the GCSE results, that’s humiliating and embarrassing. I would not like my parents to do that to me, and I would DELETE my account and start over on that platform
😮🙊🙈
Another great episode, I love the open debates Queens, the elevation is real
Sharons haiiiiir OmG looks so good on her with the updoooo
Gorgeous gorgeous girl 😮💨
About the dilemma, she should just leave the guy, same happened to me and when another came i just left him like that...
Love the new set up girls! Would love it even better if you maybe did two people sitting together on the screen and then one person by themselves and then flick between the two like you used to do in the other location. Apart from that well done and greater heights for you all in Jesus name!
Y’all all look so good ! Come through makeup and hairrrrrrr 😍🔥💜💜💜
I agree with Sharon, I don’t think it matters if it’s a good friend or not.
I wouldn’t lose a friend over no man hahah
I that girl should follow your advice. Because she’s not a good friend PERIOD! I hope she ends up heartbroken AND friendless! And then when your other friends see this nobody will be her friend because you have bad character. This one done pissed me right off! The way I would LAY HANDS!!
The girlies look so goodddd🥺♥️
I love With The Perry's!
With blessings failing her GCSEs, it speaks more volumes on her parent’s involvement in her academics than anything. You can’t publicly humiliate her, when you’re not doing your job as a parent to ensure your child is progressing in her studies. Like if she didn’t do well in her mocks, why didn’t you take away her social media beforehand?
Loving hot takes - it’s ok to quit👏🏽👏🏽
They always look good, I love it!!
I’m with Sharon on the dilemma
Not me watching this as I’m getting ready for Tayc lol
Afro-Spaniards are Spanish people of African descent namely Black or Black of mixed ancestry
Yesss their back! 💙
I get what Sharon is saying though sometimes course correction is the best thing we can do for ourselves
Sorry I’m late 😢…but loving the upgrade as I said … that sista in the dilemma needs serious therapy 😮…love ya ❤
Nah this hair on Sharon should be her permanent style. Gorge!
🥹❤️
Also, sometimes it's not about the talent to swim but how choppy the waters are. What's the weather like as you make this journey? But keep it up. Good stuff on the podcast ❤
Obed did go to Loughborough!! Listen to his Cloud 9 EP tooo good!
Not Beatrice having to be censored half way 💀💀💀
Love this 🤍
A song suggestion is Come Jesus Come by Cece Winans
My Gaaalllssssss, legit now oh aaayyyyy!
Wowwwwwwwww🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 fire fire fireeeeee
Ahh Sharon, my wife, come home the kids miss you ❤
A gospel song that I would recommend would be Keneya by Flavour
Naaaaaaah you had a change of mind WHY?!? The only thing that has changed about that man is that he’s now dated your friend! You’re not her friend to begin with because you should have told her from jump. And even if it WAS an ego boost it’s no reason to be proud! People go back to easy women all the time! There’s no honor in being a get back girl AT ALL!
Tammy looking my wife to be 😍
You have to feel shame in life or else you will end up in McDonalds!!!!!
where is 201??
Patreon x
Damn, put some respect on Dadju's name. when you said Tayc concert, I thought it was just him. But it was a concert for their COLLABED album (héritage). And just to say it's pronounced as Tayk not Tayky.
So instead of doing your work you busy with TickTock? It's good!!!
Gentle parenting
❤❤❤❤
Hmmmmmmmm….hmmmm… 👁️👁️
Why wasn’t Tammy shown at the beginning of the episode…
😅 I thought this too .. for a second I thought they were gonna say she’s not available for this episode 🤣
First to comment
This is persistence, growth and success 🫶🏽
The invite link for the whatsapp group isn't working 😢
Just updated! But here it is: whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vao6ZsWId7nFFpo3A83X
Please the WhatsApp link isn't going through (invite link not valid)
whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vao6ZsWId7nFFpo3A83X