Our TTC journey | Recurrent miscarriage | Lauren and Josh

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • Sorry for the long video, there was a lot to tell you from our journey so far! Also sorry about the bad filming/editing, I'm still getting to grips with it all. Half way through the video, the sound changes and that's because I forgot to plug the mic in at the beginning (not that the mic makes much difference!). Hope you like it!
    Instagram : @laurenandjoshh

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  • @milsc5505
    @milsc5505 3 роки тому +2

    Seeing you cry made me cry. 😔 Sending you a big hug.

  • @tijay8507
    @tijay8507 2 роки тому +2

    How much testing have they done as the two main issues are genetic/chromosomal and womb scructural issues? Testing early causes SO many emotional issues, most woman that don't test think it is a heavy period not a chemical pregnancy or early miscarriage when they do bleed..
    Was it Enoxaparin that you used?
    Please get genetic testing done to see if you and your partner have abnormalities.
    Also you need an internal scan and an MRI done to see if you have any uterine issues.
    My mum had countless losses, 7 were very late including twins at 8 months gestation so they were actually stillborn and they were ALL GIRLS and she was told she couldn't have a girl yet here i am and i am a mother of two sons.
    I had numerous chemical and early pregnancy losses, I had a later horrible one on my 21st birthday, mine were no later than 4 months so i am extremely grateful for that. We didn't test early a few years back so again i am happy for that as i know i had at least 8 very early ones like yours. I didn't have investigations as i fell pregnant and had one son at 25 and another at 29 and i had a hystectomy at 32. Please update us x

    • @laurenandjoshh
      @laurenandjoshh  2 роки тому

      Sorry for the slow reply, I never come in this channel anymore. Yes it was Enoxaparin that I used. Unfortunately I have since been diagnosed with high NK cells and my husband has a balanced translocation. A very unlucky diagnosis! As for the early testing, I basically knew by 9dpo if I was pregnant or not, so to me it made no difference testing or not. We are starting our first round of IVF next month but there is a high chance it won't be successful.

    • @tijay8507
      @tijay8507 2 роки тому

      @@laurenandjoshh Try to think positively!
      I mean it is better not to test very early and to wait until your period day as the sperm's job is to make the way to the egg and fertilise it , so called chemical pregnancies happen on a regular basis and they are not miscarriages so to avoid a positive test when the embyro is not viable it is far better for mental health not to test so close to ovululation..

    • @laurenandjoshh
      @laurenandjoshh  2 роки тому +1

      @@tijay8507 yeah I know exactly what you mean, I had a chemical pregnancy which was my 5th loss, I got a posting test and then my period came like normal. All my other losses we a little later, my body carried them until I was supposed to be 8 weeks. Hopefully IVF works for us.

    • @tijay8507
      @tijay8507 2 роки тому

      @@laurenandjoshh The endocrine system is all connected so when you are happy and positive you release hormones that are good for your entire well being including TTC but the opposite applies when you are negative and stressed so try to do things that lift your spirits and focus on entering IVF in the best possible way .... wishing you all the luck in the world xxx

  • @YS-ob2bj
    @YS-ob2bj 2 роки тому

    Am going through my 4 miscarriage now as well, and I had ectopic as well. I will remove it surgically this time as I we must find out what is not working . Have you had a successful pregnancy since?

    • @lauren6505
      @lauren6505 2 роки тому

      I'm sorry to hear that, sending you love. Unfortunately I still haven't had a successful pregnancy and have now has 6 losses. My husband has been diagnosed with a balanced translocation and I have high NK cells. We are currently on a 2 year IVF waiting list.