They live with their built in best friends, plus their chosen best friends, and two children. They seem so happy and peaceful. This interview was so wholesome.
My husband is an identical twin. Although he shares so many things with his brother, he is still an individual. Visually the couples look identical but I’m sure they have behaviours, beliefs, personality traits that are slightly different from each other. Those differences is why I love my husband and really like my brother-in-law.
So cool! Having a happy relationship and family together! Some commentors think independence is the most important thing, but humans are social creatures. Living with your family has been natural for most of human history, not getting your own apartment and trying to do it all on your own. They seem very happy. And having spouses that understand the strong bond you have with your twin, seems like it's working great for them.
That’s a great point! Independent living is over-emphasized in our Western culture too much! The concern here is that these couples are presenting another extreme! Too much enmeshing! Lack of individuality, lack of personal space! I’m more curious why they try to present themselves as ‚perfect‘ and ideal! Their answers about a marriage relationship is very immature! I would expect such answers from children, not adults! They come across as robotic and contrived! I think that’s what people are picking up on! They seem to lack the down-to-Earth mentality!
Yes, u are right! The interviewer is caring and likeable! Yet, it all felt very superficial and contrived! The questions, the setting, the clothes, the answers, everything!! There was no depth, no emotion, no reality! These couples seem to need to be seen as perfect and ideal! No one is this perfect! They seem to lack passion!
@@lenitaa7938 I understand what you mean. But I know a lot of people this way in the American South. Very upper middle class "wasp." The interviewer tried to ask about Soul Mates. One of the women mentioned that their relationship is like a Spiritual Experience. I wish the interviewer had asked her more about that instead of talking about shrooming lol. They were discussing the Meyers Briggs types, and instead of asking them to go into that more deeply, the interviewer changed gears and talked about Horiscopes. There were opportunities for it to go to a deeper place, but they just weren't on the same page. These 4 speak the same language, and are probably deep with one another, but to tap into it takes someone who can get them talking more about the same subject until they reveal something new. Active listening skills would be a good training exercise for him.
I can imagine that having the extra help, support; emotionally and financially ,companionship would help tremendously within a marriage but especially in the early years of having children. Having someone who loves you more than anyone in the world x 2 , would be extremely beneficial imo. Every little girls dream come true. Knowing someone has your best interest in mind makes a world of difference. Lucky kids!
While some people dont understand twins meeting twins falling in love and just having a family which their children are brothers and cousins its amazing to me to hear this as a mom to twins and a grandma yo rwins and triplets i love watching them.
One of the ladies said it: People have to toss the queen/king of the castle mentality to get along and live with others. Today, we need each other and shared resources more than ever.
My husband's grandma was a twin and they married twins. All 4 were really short. And they didn't meet at a festival for twins. They just met organically from what I understand. Sometimes looking at pictures, I accidentally refer to them as his 2 little grandmas, since the 2 were photographed together all the time.
Children bring another dynamic to a marriage. My husband and I just celebrated our 57th anniversary. We liked each other since we were 12. So, 8 yrs. before we wed.That is 65 years liking and loving each other and definitely getting to know each other. We tried 11 years to have our son and then situations changed significantly. My husband has had some touch and go health problems, but with each other and God we have gotten through it. All and all, I wouldn't change anything. By the way, my love is a twin,fraternal.
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Love this! Husband & I are both singletons. I felt like I had always known him even though his accent was too thick to understand on our blind date. It has been over 26 yrs. He IS my match. We grew up very different. He is 10 yrs older, raised by grandparents, from another country & neurotypical. Gemini/Libra.
Re: the two male twins, I think for the one on the left we’re mostly seeing the right side of his face. While the one on the right, we are normally seeing mostly his left side of his face. For most of us, our face looks different from a right angle than it does from the left. So that’s what I think we are perceiving as a difference in their appearance.
How cool and blessed they all are! It was fun watching the personalities and how well matched each couple is! The more spontaneous twin matched with the twin who is more the thinker is a great match as well as the twin who is more patient and steadfast with the twin who is more emotional is also a great match. I wish them all the best!!
I wish all of you writing comments could just look at the positive in all things and not be so drawn toward negative thoughts and criticizing everything. Believe me you would live a much richer life. I love this!!!
Especially people like this. They are extremely careful with what they post, how they dress, etc. They care a lot about what others think. I don’t see them being honest.
Mom of mirror image twins here (one right handed, one left handed and right side of one matches right side of other twin)...i noticed the ladies wear their hair on opposite sides but exact style, same with the guys...hair parted on opposite sides but identical style, length. Are these sets of twins mirror image?
Or helps them quickly identify their partner? Parents may have raised them that way. I knew twins like that. The hair part is how parents identified them. (Unless they switched which they did)
That's really my only question. Who fell first for whom? Was there a decision where one would pursue a certain sibling? I don't think twins marrying twins is that odd. But twins who meet twins at the same time..?
Yes to me they seem more like "brothers" in looks similar but not identical so i think are fraternal... the video seems to be trying to emphasise the same looks clothes etc
My lord, some of the comments. Everyone saying they can't be identical because they dont look alike don't know squat. Identical twins don't always look exactly alike.
Why dress the same. Why dress your children the same. What about your own identity. Your own self or is this it. I guess me not being a twin I don’t understand not having your own identity or home. I feel your all Beautiful and quite unique. I guess what I’m trying to say is I don’t understand but I respect and feel your Love for each other.
This confuses me, too. They're like cartoon characters. Imagine going shopping and getting upset when the store doesn't have 2 of the same thing in stock because you can't match your twin even though you're 30 years old.
My husband and i and our kids share a home with my parents. Not always easy but if you can make it work its so nice. The multiple incomes sharing the expenses and also knowing you can trust them.
What I see is that each twin married the other twin with similar facial structures. The couple on the right have wider and longer faces not to mention right now they look heavier. The couple on the left have shorter more compact heads.
They can’t speak for non twin couples as their dynamic is very different and these four even more so. They chose to be a family of four so immediate support. Most couples would say, yes you have to work at it but that doesn’t me drudgery. It means men and woman think differently are emotionally different but if there is genuine respect it means you want to look to the needs of the other and come together with the same temperament fir them good of both then it’s not that hard. It is a mindset.
I'm identical twin...one time went on date with another set of twins and we all happen to wear purple and everyone thought we were quadruplets. We did know twins that were all at the festival and won prizes for least looking the same. One of the twins went to our college but they were on Maury Povich show. I do think being a twin is a privilege
Funny how you said you have 3 types of zodiac signs. When someone told you about this 3 signs (Cancer, libra and scorpio) it means you have the Sun in cancer, ascendant in libra and moon in scorpio. It's not that one is the first, second or third. They are different things. I just thought I would mention If you might be interested. The sun is how your mind works, your ascendant is what you attract and how others see you, and the moon is how you feel life. It's your emotional world. xx
There’s identical twins in our family, they must have their relationship. It’s healthy for them. I say, tell everyone else to go jump in the lake. To label it co-dependent is their own twisted mind in search of stamping something they could never understand. It’s wonderful, special and so unique. When you think of God knitting each of us together in our mothers womb, and He knit 2 of you! Wow!
The jealousy of singles on twins they talked about is interesting because that same jealousy can stop really close siblings from staying connected as well. Brothers or sisters having trouble from their spouses simply because they want to hang out with the sibling that they always been allowed to hang out with but now because their spouse gets jealous they have to be unhappy not being able to hang out with out an excuse, it's sad the restrictions some spouses put on their partners human interactions
It totally does NOT seem @ ALL like co-dependency in the least to me. It seems very intentional & goal driven wat they do & plan for their lives. They all seem very healthy & I think it is great that each sibling pair has been able to make their dreams come true w/ such an unusual life set up
Wen we were growing up, people wud constantly say to us wen they 1st met us or just saw us in a store or something: U guys r identical, right? We wud always say no & people wud look @ us like we were crazy & we didn't know wat we were saying or talking about. Our mom was told we were fraternal wen we were born b/c we each had our own amniotic sack. Wen DNA testing came around I sent ours in convinced it wud come back identical & my sister was convinced it wud come back fraternal. I was right: we were identical. And how i knew was cause wen we were 13, the orthodontist told us he had never seen 2 people's teeth the exact same.
I lied, one more question. If each has a child (Im not far enough in, so sorry if its been answered), those children would be generically not just siblings, but twins?
Their kids will all genetically siblings (same mom-dad genetic combo regardless of which mom-dad pair). These two pairs call their two kids "twins" because they're the same age. They share approximately the same amount of DNA as regular siblings or fraternal(not identical) twins.
What they were saying about the list you have for your future partner is so true. My mum had 3 things on her list at least 2 years older (my dad is 2 years and 1 day older), not anyone from abroad cause then he'd take her away from her family (my Dad is from New Zealand the furthest from England you can get and he did take her away to New Zealand) and can't have epilepsy (her best friend had it when she was young and she didn't want to go through that with her future husband) my Dad has epilepsy, is blind and has a head injury that effects him in a lot of ways. She told me not to have a list cause fate will do what it wants. But of course I had one and yes fate just laughed at me
I'm a Taurus who does not mix well with Gemini! Fun fact...I married a Gemini...my best friend is Gemini and My spouse and I have 2 Gemini children. Go figure!
I'm sorry but these creep me out. I'm happy they have a lovely family but it's just odd at least they're not identical and the guys are identical which makes their kids biologically siblings because they share the same DNA
@jenniwilliams3295: There’s nothing creepy or odd about these couples. They are happy and they are living life the way they want to live! This is what they have chosen, because they have basically always lived in community by sharing their life so closely with Twin. And FYI, yes both sets of twins are identical twins.
They seem to have the ‚magical thinking‘ about their relationship and marriage! I was very surprised! They are mature adults, not teenagers! Marriages are not fairytales, yet, they made it seem so, purposely so, about own marriages! It all felt too scientific, too impersonal, too measured! They didn’t feel real! As if they were putting on a show! I understand that the Interviews can be nerve-racking and everyone wants to be on his or her best behaviour! Yet, it all felt unnatural and too ‚perfect‘! They seem to have a need to come across as ideal and perfect! They are human, not robots! Do they feel anything? Anything they feel passionate about? Any individual interests? Do they have careers? The questions were superficial! Maybe, there needed to be more personal, deeper questions? Different type of questions.. And, definitely, a different setting! The setting, the clothes were all too formal! It’s like they were on a movie set! There needs to be a Part 2! At the end, did we really learn much at all about them, except that they all live together!? I know almost as much about them after the interview as I did before the interview! We don’t even know, how did they even choose each other! Drew the straws? It would feel weird to be married to an identical twin, who dressed, acted and looked alike! How do the husbands tell them apart? How do they deal with conflict, living in the same house!? Just how much are their lives intertwined? Do they eat all their meals together? Do they do everything together? To what extent? Any holidays, weekends, evenings apart as couples, individuals? Does each couple have any autonomy and privacy? Does anyone get any privacy? They seem to be very intermeshed! Very little autonomy, individuality! It may work for them, but is it healthy for them as married couples and is it healthy for their Children!?? Community living is one thing, but the intermeshing and lack of autonomy is quite another! It feels pathological! Their answer about the possible future children was strange, also! Unemotional to extreme! Are they able to love? Even their relationship to own existing Children felt impersonal, formal, disassociated! I’ve never heard any parents to be this lukewarm! Some Movie Director ought to hire them to act in some futuristic robot movie! They would be perfect for the roles! It would be great to have a Psychologist listen to this interview! I would pay to know the analysis! I think if they ever got separated or divorced, or, God forbid, something happened to any of them, it would be catastrophic and their very carefully-constructed world turn to dust! I hope I’m wrong, but that’s my fear for them! A domino effect!
YES, thank you. even when they were asked about individual personality traits, they were struggling to remember test results quotes like it was script that determined who was who. what do you mean you can't say one thing about their personality that makes them them? that's something you instinctively know about yourself, your significant other, your family, specially if you spend that much time together. the "she was the first to say she wanted kids and she has felt that a family member was close to passing, so she deals with the life and death stuff", that's not a personality, ma'am, that's something that happened one time. "i have a even temperament" NO SHIT, but you're all monotone and contrived. so off-putting. everything seems fake and like it's about crumble if life puts them in a high pressure situation. ...also the 2 guys don't even look that much alike
@lenitaa7938 I agree that I would’ve liked more in-depth questions. But I have known people in real life who prefer to dress the same, even as adult twins. I have known people who are not twins that have a very minimalistic or spartan house w/o much “stuff.” For some people it’s a reaction to growing up in an environment with too much stuff. Evidently these four twins never felt much need to individuate from their other twin, as they were always best friends. I’m glad these two sets of identical twins found each other! @lenitaa, I think most likely you are not a native English speaker. One thing that would help your writing to not turn people off as much, would be if you could change to not using so many exclamation marks (!s) at the end of nearly every sentence. When you do it so often, it comes across as if you are shouting at people, practically the same as using all capital letters. IT CAN MAKE YOUR WORDS HARD TO READ & ABSORB, IF THEY FEEL YOU ARE SHOUTING AT THEM ALL THE TIME! 💙🌻 Re: the two male twins, I think for the one on the left we’re mostly seeing the right side of his face. While the one on the right, we are normally seeing mostly his left side of his face. For most of us, our face looks different from a right angle than it does from the left. So that’s what I think we are perceiving as a difference in their appearance. Also the individual twins can make choices that lead to differences in appearance. For example hairstyling could be slightly different, they could use different hair products, one Twin could be more physically active and fit, while the other Twin could eat extra fried foods or ice cream and end up a little heavier. Things like that can also change our appearance. My best friend is an identical twin. When I first met her and her sister, I could not tell them apart. By the time I had known them 2 or 3 months, there was not any challenge at all telling the two sisters apart! They had such different preferences in so many areas! One twin was just more joyful, mentally flexible, positive and laughed a lot more. She & I had much more in common & just really clicked! The other twin tended to be more depressed and often engaged in risky, dangerous behavior. She also got stuck in alcohol and substance abuse as a young teen, and it has had a destructive effect on her life. As long as I’ve known her, she has not really wanted to try new things or visit interesting new places. She would rather stay home than go to the beach or a concert for example. There were small differences in appearance, such as scars and different ear piercings; one parted her hair differently, had a cowlick at the front of her hair etc. Eventually the sad twin cut her hair short, while my friend left her hair long. My friend enjoyed going camping and spending a lot of time out in nature, she learned to garden, can food and bake bread, was always asking questions & wanting to learn more crafts and skills. She loves to read books and play more complicated games like chess. Her sister was not at all interested in these things- she mainly wanted to watch tv & play video games. One sister exercised a lot more, studied very hard, began working at age 15 to save up $, and had different interests. My friend studied so hard she got a full ride scholarship and finished her bachelor’s degree in far less time than usual. She now has 3 degrees and a very diverse and fulfilling life. These 2 identical twins had different reactions to major life experiences, Such as divorce of parents, moving to the opposite side of the continent when one parent remarried, having to start from scratch with friends, from the time they were 13 or 14, and in the end, 40 years later they are drastically different people. I have another set of identical twin friends who I grew up near and attended school with K - 12. They grew up on a dairy farm and they both enjoyed similar activities. Yet one had slightly different interests from the other, and they decided to study for different degrees at University. One became a veterinarian while the other became a specialist in Biology and Dairy Science, how to best run & manage a dairy herd for optimal health and production. As adults, these guys decided to live right beside each other. So it’s similar to the twins in this story, except they didn’t marry twins. The extended family is a large supportive community which is excellent for their children. If one adult is ill, there are always others who can step in and pick up the slack. They do at least have their own houses, But their backyards run together and they share some tasks such as they share a large garden and work on some projects and chores together. They take turns with jobs such as mowing both yards at the same time, taking their children on field trips, outings, canoeing and camping trips together, etc. It’s working out really well for them!
You all have your bonds and twin connections but wouldnt it be nice for each couple to live seperate & still be each others twin, & best friends and see each other as much as you can, when you can as best friends and double date, hang out, but go home to your own homes when the day is done and have that bit of individual time with having your own families?..i guess im trying to understand the whole inseperable thing literally. When the interview started & you were saying some people say its 'co dependency' but by the end of the interview now i can see why thats been said. Not that im trying to be negative by any means, but I think there is definitly that element looking at your dynamics. Anyways thats just my thoughts. Your living arrangements seems go be working for you all & all the best to you guys.
I’m think this is super cool. But I think their house feels like a doctors office. My dentist has a cozier space !!! But to be a twin and married to one would be totally cool !! You’d never ever be alone and I just like it. ❤❤❤❤
@@onedayonelifeuncut but not all brothers are twins??? wouldn’t they have the genetic DNA of just brothers but not twin brothers? You specifically said and had twins, but they didn’t have a set of twins each so sorry your title is not accurate.
You need to do your research. The kids are quaternary twins. The title is correct. The kids DNA is the same as siblings and thats what they are called from twins who marry twins and have babies.
I think it was explained in the video. It’s to do with genetics (making them genetically brothers) plus the fact that they were born within 9 months of each other (making them quaternary twins).
Thier children are double first cousins ,and if the fathers are identical twins and so are the mothers thier children share 50 %dna which makes them the same as full siblings .
No, not "how was this gonna work? Yor boyfriend looks like my boyfriend." How did they even pair up? It was prbly just coincidence on who ended up next to who wen they 1st met & that is which couple that ended up dating. That just seems too bad to me. They didn't even get to know each other to see who liked who?
So you actually fell in love with your person? Or did you settle because you all checked the boxes?? I’m not being mean by asking but hard to imagine you actually fell in love .
Re: the two male twins, I think for the one on the left we’re mostly seeing the right side of his face. While the one on the right, we are normally seeing mostly his left side of his face. For most of us, our face looks different from a right angle than it does from the left. So that’s what I think we are perceiving as a difference in their appearance.
They live with their built in best friends, plus their chosen best friends, and two children. They seem so happy and peaceful. This interview was so wholesome.
My husband is an identical twin. Although he shares so many things with his brother, he is still an individual. Visually the couples look identical but I’m sure they have behaviours, beliefs, personality traits that are slightly different from each other. Those differences is why I love my husband and really like my brother-in-law.
I am also a twin and what you state Is very true.
So cool! Having a happy relationship and family together! Some commentors think independence is the most important thing, but humans are social creatures. Living with your family has been natural for most of human history, not getting your own apartment and trying to do it all on your own. They seem very happy. And having spouses that understand the strong bond you have with your twin, seems like it's working great for them.
That’s a great point! Independent living is over-emphasized in our Western culture too much!
The concern here is that these couples are presenting another extreme! Too much enmeshing! Lack of individuality, lack of personal space!
I’m more curious why they try to present themselves as ‚perfect‘ and ideal! Their answers about a marriage relationship is very immature! I would expect such answers from children, not adults!
They come across as robotic and contrived! I think that’s what people are picking up on! They seem to lack the down-to-Earth mentality!
Everyone acts so kind to everyone even the interview is respectful. Love it good to see
Yes, u are right! The interviewer is caring and likeable!
Yet, it all felt very superficial and contrived! The questions, the setting, the clothes, the answers, everything!!
There was no depth, no emotion, no reality! These couples seem to need to be seen as perfect and ideal! No one is this perfect!
They seem to lack passion!
@@lenitaa7938 I understand what you mean. But I know a lot of people this way in the American South. Very upper middle class "wasp."
The interviewer tried to ask about Soul Mates. One of the women mentioned that their relationship is like a Spiritual Experience. I wish the interviewer had asked her more about that instead of talking about shrooming lol.
They were discussing the Meyers Briggs types, and instead of asking them to go into that more deeply, the interviewer changed gears and talked about Horiscopes.
There were opportunities for it to go to a deeper place, but they just weren't on the same page.
These 4 speak the same language, and are probably deep with one another, but to tap into it takes someone who can get them talking more about the same subject until they reveal something new.
Active listening skills would be a good training exercise for him.
I can imagine that having the extra help, support; emotionally and financially ,companionship would help tremendously within a marriage but especially in the early years of having children. Having someone who loves you more than anyone in the world x 2 , would be extremely beneficial imo. Every little girls dream come true. Knowing someone has your best interest in mind makes a world of difference. Lucky kids!
While some people dont understand twins meeting twins falling in love and just having a family which their children are brothers and cousins its amazing to me to hear this as a mom to twins and a grandma yo rwins and triplets i love watching them.
Does anyone else think the one on the right looks a bit like Austin Kutcher? 😅
Yes he does ,but the other one doesn’t 😂 how weird
This is exactly why I cannot believe these two are identical twins!
Ashton has a Twin Brother too!
I definitely do!
@@debrarow1933YES! I think that is so strange, but I agree 100%
One of the ladies said it: People have to toss the queen/king of the castle mentality to get along and live with others. Today, we need each other and shared resources more than ever.
My husband's grandma was a twin and they married twins. All 4 were really short. And they didn't meet at a festival for twins. They just met organically from what I understand. Sometimes looking at pictures, I accidentally refer to them as his 2 little grandmas, since the 2 were photographed together all the time.
Children bring another dynamic to a marriage. My husband and I just celebrated our 57th anniversary. We liked each other since we were 12. So, 8 yrs. before we wed.That is 65 years liking and loving each other and definitely getting to know each other. We tried 11 years to have our son and then situations changed significantly. My husband has had some touch and go health problems, but with each other and God we have gotten through it. All and all, I wouldn't change anything. By the way, my love is a twin,fraternal.
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How did you know which boy wanted to date which girl back when you met?
Trial and error 😂
That’s my question
My question too 😂
Same lol
i saw another interview with them on tamra hall. they were hanging out and they magical divide up into couples .
The twin dynamic is very real and fascinating!
How fortunate to have such a full life.
Love this! Husband & I are both singletons. I felt like I had always known him even though his accent was too thick to understand on our blind date. It has been over 26 yrs. He IS my match. We grew up very different. He is 10 yrs older, raised by grandparents, from another country & neurotypical. Gemini/Libra.
I love how both pairs are mirror twins!
I don’t think the men look identical
@@archaprice3372I don't either!
I noticed that, too.
Re: the two male twins, I think for the one on the left we’re mostly seeing the right side of his face. While the one on the right, we are normally seeing mostly his left side of his face.
For most of us, our face looks different from a right angle than it does from the left. So that’s what I think we are perceiving as a difference in their appearance.
How cool and blessed they all are! It was fun watching the personalities and how well matched each couple is! The more spontaneous twin matched with the twin who is more the thinker is a great match as well as the twin who is more patient and steadfast with the twin who is more emotional is also a great match. I wish them all the best!!
I think it’s beautiful and you appreciate and respect and love each other
I wish all of you writing comments could just look at the positive in all things and not be so drawn toward negative thoughts and criticizing everything. Believe me you would live a much richer life. I love this!!!
We`re just saying that being so dependant on each other, is very very unhealthy. Everyone need to grow up, and be their own unique person.
How do you know they are happy? People say they are happy all the time and then we find out they weren’t.
Especially people like this. They are extremely careful with what they post, how they dress, etc. They care a lot about what others think. I don’t see them being honest.
People are allowed to have their opinions. Not everyone will agree on everything and not everything can be "positive" in this world.
I’m curious as to how each one knew which one they wanted to date. Did they ever want to flip & date the other twin?
That's awesome their families are close,it's hard to see now days
Mom of mirror image twins here (one right handed, one left handed and right side of one matches right side of other twin)...i noticed the ladies wear their hair on opposite sides but exact style, same with the guys...hair parted on opposite sides but identical style, length. Are these sets of twins mirror image?
Or helps them quickly identify their partner? Parents may have raised them that way. I knew twins like that. The hair part is how parents identified them. (Unless they switched which they did)
As a singleton dating a twin, this was very interesting to listen to about how they feel about their twins. Thank you for the insight.
I’d like to know how they chose their respective partners
Same...first question that came to my mind. Also did it come to a point where one couple didn't get along or along fast enough over the next.
That's really my only question. Who fell first for whom? Was there a decision where one would pursue a certain sibling?
I don't think twins marrying twins is that odd. But twins who meet twins at the same time..?
They are amazing and I envy that type of close knit community!!!
The men don’t look alike, but the females look pretty similar.
Are the men fraternal twins?
No they are identical.
You must mean the men don’t look identical you can’t say they don’t look alike. They definitely look alike, but they don’t quite look identical.
They're fraternal twins They don't have to look alike I have a friend who had fraternal twins once tall and blonde and one short with brown hair
Yes to me they seem more like "brothers" in looks similar but not identical so i think are fraternal... the video seems to be trying to emphasise the same looks clothes etc
My lord, some of the comments.
Everyone saying they can't be identical because they dont look alike don't know squat.
Identical twins don't always look exactly alike.
Lovely, unique family. I wonder if they want more children.
Why dress the same. Why dress your children the same. What about your own identity. Your own self or is this it. I guess me not being a twin I don’t understand not having your own identity or home. I feel your all Beautiful and quite unique. I guess what I’m trying to say is I don’t understand but I respect and feel your Love for each other.
This confuses me, too. They're like cartoon characters. Imagine going shopping and getting upset when the store doesn't have 2 of the same thing in stock because you can't match your twin even though you're 30 years old.
Thanks for that. All four seem thoroughly nice people. Greetings from the UK.
My husband and i and our kids share a home with my parents. Not always easy but if you can make it work its so nice. The multiple incomes sharing the expenses and also knowing you can trust them.
The Myers Briggs test is amazing and hits the nail on the head!
A very unique video I liked it a lot never have seen this page before but I must say the Creator interviewing them is very easy on the eyes❤
Thank you for that! Glad to have you here! More to come!
Love this for them!!
They’re such handsome couples. I do think that they could use a hairstylist and barber.😊
I like how they all sat together and finished sentences... awesome they shared their lives together..
I immediately recognized that they were showing them in Smith Mtn Lake, VA, at the Marina there. I used to live in that area! 😀
Love what they had to say about living in community. Perfectly put really!
What an interesting story! You're a great interviewer. New subscriber here.
Thank you so much! I am glad to have you here!
As the mom of twin identical girls, al is fine to dress the same etc when they were small, but as grown ups, is a bit creepy.
Maybe they did it just for the show? I find it creepy too.
Are your girls living independent lives? Twins fascinate me.
I wish they would have their own show.
1) They're not that exciting to watch.
2) It would destroy their lives.
Right?!? They have been on TV. They are boring. Four boring, codependent twins that live mundane lives.
New sub Asheville, NC. Great interview. They seem like a lovely family. My mom was a twin. Sudie and Ludie😂.
What I see is that each twin married the other twin with similar facial structures. The couple on the right have wider and longer faces not to mention right now they look heavier. The couple on the left have shorter more compact heads.
Yes, the 2 on right definitely appear to be more assertive as well. Or, maybe most outspoken.
Did anyone else notice their hair styles, the couple on the left have their hair to the left, their parts and their braids match each partner
They can’t speak for non twin couples as their dynamic is very different and these four even more so. They chose to be a family of four so immediate support.
Most couples would say, yes you have to work at it but that doesn’t me drudgery.
It means men and woman think differently are emotionally different but if there is genuine respect it means you want to look to the needs of the other and come together with the same temperament fir them good of both then it’s not that hard. It is a mindset.
I'm identical twin...one time went on date with another set of twins and we all happen to wear purple and everyone thought we were quadruplets. We did know twins that were all at the festival and won prizes for least looking the same. One of the twins went to our college but they were on Maury Povich show.
I do think being a twin is a privilege
Wonderful ❤❤❤❤
Glad for yall and the kids he wll always be best friends brothers and cousins
Each couple should have their own home. I really don’t understand how this lifestyle works.
You don’t understand because you’ve never been a twin! Twins have a different mindset than a singleton.
You girls r so sweet! & So r the boys. U guys really r a match made in heaven i believe
Funny how you said you have 3 types of zodiac signs. When someone told you about this 3 signs (Cancer, libra and scorpio) it means you have the Sun in cancer, ascendant in libra and moon in scorpio. It's not that one is the first, second or third. They are different things. I just thought I would mention If you might be interested. The sun is how your mind works, your ascendant is what you attract and how others see you, and the moon is how you feel life. It's your emotional world. xx
There’s identical twins in our family, they must have their relationship. It’s healthy for them. I say, tell everyone else to go jump in the lake. To label it co-dependent is their own twisted mind in search of stamping something they could never understand. It’s wonderful, special and so unique. When you think of God knitting each of us together in our mothers womb, and He knit 2 of you! Wow!
What a wonderful family!! 🤗❤
Appreciate the video.
Thanks for watching!
The jealousy of singles on twins they talked about is interesting because that same jealousy can stop really close siblings from staying connected as well. Brothers or sisters having trouble from their spouses simply because they want to hang out with the sibling that they always been allowed to hang out with but now because their spouse gets jealous they have to be unhappy not being able to hang out with out an excuse, it's sad the restrictions some spouses put on their partners human interactions
Interesting that they are mirror images: hair parted and braided in left vs right
I love this for them ❤
What's hard is jobs, housework, kids, inlaws, and the hard parts such as medical issues and deaths and differences in values.
I don't think that would be any harder than other couples or roommates?
How didy you decide which one you liked?
It totally does NOT seem @ ALL like co-dependency in the least to me. It seems very intentional & goal driven wat they do & plan for their lives. They all seem very healthy & I think it is great that each sibling pair has been able to make their dreams come true w/ such an unusual life set up
Wen we were growing up, people wud constantly say to us wen they 1st met us or just saw us in a store or something: U guys r identical, right?
We wud always say no & people wud look @ us like we were crazy & we didn't know wat we were saying or talking about.
Our mom was told we were fraternal wen we were born b/c we each had our own amniotic sack.
Wen DNA testing came around I sent ours in convinced it wud come back identical & my sister was convinced it wud come back fraternal.
I was right: we were identical. And how i knew was cause wen we were 13, the orthodontist told us he had never seen 2 people's teeth the exact same.
Why are you choosing to spell certain words wrong?
I noticed that all four of them have the same nose.. 🥰
So cool how it works so great for everyone ❤
This is sweet ❤❤
It appears the couple on the left are more introverts and the other couple extroverts.
Do they always dress the same? I think that would be kinda creepy!
Oh myself also I have a twins children ❤❤🎉🎉
It's your sun sign, moon sign & where all the other plants were positioned @ the moment u were born
They seem happy. I am happy for them.
I lied, one more question. If each has a child (Im not far enough in, so sorry if its been answered), those children would be generically not just siblings, but twins?
Their kids will all genetically siblings (same mom-dad genetic combo regardless of which mom-dad pair). These two pairs call their two kids "twins" because they're the same age. They share approximately the same amount of DNA as regular siblings or fraternal(not identical) twins.
How do you deal with conflict
It’s weird how they all have opposite parts as their twin 😅
This was an interesting video. ❤❤❤❤
Congratulations!!!
What wonderful couples w lovely traits. You all have
alot to bring to the table. Your family dynamic is a dream for most people ❤❤❤❤❤❤Happiness Always
What they were saying about the list you have for your future partner is so true. My mum had 3 things on her list at least 2 years older (my dad is 2 years and 1 day older), not anyone from abroad cause then he'd take her away from her family (my Dad is from New Zealand the furthest from England you can get and he did take her away to New Zealand) and can't have epilepsy (her best friend had it when she was young and she didn't want to go through that with her future husband) my Dad has epilepsy, is blind and has a head injury that effects him in a lot of ways. She told me not to have a list cause fate will do what it wants. But of course I had one and yes fate just laughed at me
Learn something everyday, singletons 😂 never heard that before
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I'm a Taurus who does not mix well with Gemini! Fun fact...I married a Gemini...my best friend is Gemini and My spouse and I have 2 Gemini children. Go figure!
How do u feel about your twin s couple???
I'm sorry but these creep me out. I'm happy they have a lovely family but it's just odd at least they're not identical and the guys are identical which makes their kids biologically siblings because they share the same DNA
I thought they said in the beginning they ARE both identicals. Actually, they just said it again as I was typing. They actually are both identical.
@jenniwilliams3295: There’s nothing creepy or odd about these couples. They are happy and they are living life the way they want to live! This is what they have chosen, because they have basically always lived in community by sharing their life so closely with Twin. And FYI, yes both sets of twins are identical twins.
Have you ever thought about how God made you and brought you together?
How do you divy out the not so desired chores or duties?
This is not a healthy relationship. Dressing alike .. it’s cute when are you up to about 10. And also living together?! 🤯
They seem to have the ‚magical thinking‘ about their relationship and marriage! I was very surprised! They are mature adults, not teenagers! Marriages are not fairytales, yet, they made it seem so, purposely so, about own marriages! It all felt too scientific, too impersonal, too measured! They didn’t feel real! As if they were putting on a show!
I understand that the Interviews can be nerve-racking and everyone wants to be on his or her best behaviour! Yet, it all felt unnatural and too ‚perfect‘! They seem to have a need to come across as ideal and perfect!
They are human, not robots! Do they feel anything? Anything they feel passionate about? Any individual interests?
Do they have careers?
The questions were superficial! Maybe, there needed to be more personal, deeper questions? Different type of questions.. And, definitely, a different setting! The setting, the clothes were all too formal! It’s like they were on a movie set!
There needs to be a Part 2!
At the end, did we really learn much at all about them, except that they all live together!? I know almost as much about them after the interview as I did before the interview!
We don’t even know, how did they even choose each other! Drew the straws?
It would feel weird to be married to an identical twin, who dressed, acted and looked alike! How do the husbands tell them apart?
How do they deal with conflict, living in the same house!? Just how much are their lives intertwined? Do they eat all their meals together? Do they do everything together? To what extent? Any holidays, weekends, evenings apart as couples, individuals?
Does each couple have any autonomy and privacy? Does anyone get any privacy?
They seem to be very intermeshed! Very little autonomy, individuality! It may work for them, but is it healthy for them as married couples and is it healthy for their Children!?? Community living is one thing, but the intermeshing and lack of autonomy is quite another! It feels pathological!
Their answer about the possible future children was strange, also! Unemotional to extreme!
Are they able to love? Even their relationship to own existing Children felt impersonal, formal, disassociated! I’ve never heard any parents to be this lukewarm!
Some Movie Director ought to hire them to act in some futuristic robot movie! They would be perfect for the roles!
It would be great to have a Psychologist listen to this interview! I would pay to know the analysis!
I think if they ever got separated or divorced, or, God forbid, something happened to any of them, it would be catastrophic and their very carefully-constructed world turn to dust! I hope I’m wrong, but that’s my fear for them! A domino effect!
YES, thank you. even when they were asked about individual personality traits, they were struggling to remember test results quotes like it was script that determined who was who. what do you mean you can't say one thing about their personality that makes them them? that's something you instinctively know about yourself, your significant other, your family, specially if you spend that much time together. the "she was the first to say she wanted kids and she has felt that a family member was close to passing, so she deals with the life and death stuff", that's not a personality, ma'am, that's something that happened one time. "i have a even temperament" NO SHIT, but you're all monotone and contrived. so off-putting. everything seems fake and like it's about crumble if life puts them in a high pressure situation.
...also the 2 guys don't even look that much alike
@lenitaa7938 I agree that I would’ve liked more in-depth questions. But I have known people in real life who prefer to dress the same, even as adult twins. I have known people who are not twins that have a very minimalistic or spartan house w/o much “stuff.” For some people it’s a reaction to growing up in an environment with too much stuff. Evidently these four twins never felt much need to individuate from their other twin, as they were always best friends. I’m glad these two sets of identical twins found each other!
@lenitaa, I think most likely you are not a native English speaker. One thing that would help your writing to not turn people off as much, would be if you could change to not using so many exclamation marks (!s) at the end of nearly every sentence. When you do it so often, it comes across as if you are shouting at people, practically the same as using all capital letters. IT CAN MAKE YOUR WORDS HARD TO READ & ABSORB, IF THEY FEEL YOU ARE SHOUTING AT THEM ALL THE TIME! 💙🌻
Re: the two male twins, I think for the one on the left we’re mostly seeing the right side of his face. While the one on the right, we are normally seeing mostly his left side of his face.
For most of us, our face looks different from a right angle than it does from the left. So that’s what I think we are perceiving as a difference in their appearance.
Also the individual twins can make choices that lead to differences in appearance. For example hairstyling could be slightly different, they could use different hair products, one Twin could be more physically active and fit, while the other Twin could eat extra fried foods or ice cream and end up a little heavier. Things like that can also change our appearance.
My best friend is an identical twin. When I first met her and her sister, I could not tell them apart. By the time I had known them 2 or 3 months, there was not any challenge at all telling the two sisters apart! They had such different preferences in so many areas! One twin was just more joyful, mentally flexible, positive and laughed a lot more. She & I had much more in common & just really clicked! The other twin tended to be more depressed and often engaged in risky, dangerous behavior. She also got stuck in alcohol and substance abuse as a young teen, and it has had a destructive effect on her life. As long as I’ve known her, she has not really wanted to try new things or visit interesting new places. She would rather stay home than go to the beach or a concert for example. There were small differences in appearance, such as scars and different ear piercings; one parted her hair differently, had a cowlick at the front of her hair etc. Eventually the sad twin cut her hair short, while my friend left her hair long. My friend enjoyed going camping and spending a lot of time out in nature, she learned to garden, can food and bake bread, was always asking questions & wanting to learn more crafts and skills. She loves to read books and play more complicated games like chess. Her sister was not at all interested in these things- she mainly wanted to watch tv & play video games. One sister exercised a lot more, studied very hard, began working at age 15 to save up $, and had different interests. My friend studied so hard she got a full ride scholarship and finished her bachelor’s degree in far less time than usual. She now has 3 degrees and a very diverse and fulfilling life. These 2 identical twins had different reactions to major life experiences, Such as divorce of parents, moving to the opposite side of the continent when one parent remarried, having to start from scratch with friends, from the time they were 13 or 14, and in the end, 40 years later they are drastically different people.
I have another set of identical twin friends who I grew up near and attended school with K - 12. They grew up on a dairy farm and they both enjoyed similar activities. Yet one had slightly different interests from the other, and they decided to study for different degrees at University. One became a veterinarian while the other became a specialist in Biology and Dairy Science, how to best run & manage a dairy herd for optimal health and production. As adults, these guys decided to live right beside each other. So it’s similar to the twins in this story, except they didn’t marry twins. The extended family is a large supportive community which is excellent for their children. If one adult is ill, there are always others who can step in and pick up the slack. They do at least have their own houses, But their backyards run together and they share some tasks such as they share a large garden and work on some projects and chores together. They take turns with jobs such as mowing both yards at the same time, taking their children on field trips, outings, canoeing and camping trips together, etc. It’s working out really well for them!
You all have your bonds and twin connections but wouldnt it be nice for each couple to live seperate & still be each others twin, & best friends and see each other as much as you can, when you can as best friends and double date, hang out, but go home to your own homes when the day is done and have that bit of individual time with having your own families?..i guess im trying to understand the whole inseperable thing literally.
When the interview started & you were saying some people say its 'co dependency' but by the end of the interview now i can see why thats been said. Not that im trying to be negative by any means, but I think there is definitly that element looking at your dynamics. Anyways thats just my thoughts. Your living arrangements seems go be working for you all & all the best to you guys.
Their kids are siblings biologically
I’m think this is super cool. But I think their house feels like a doctors office. My dentist has a cozier space !!! But to be a twin and married to one would be totally cool !! You’d never ever be alone and I just like it. ❤❤❤❤
Did you ever get attracted to one another's spouses or comply with the role in the wrong soul mate??
How did they pick eachother for there spouses when each of them is very similar?
The title is kind of misleading they are twins married to twins but they do not have twin the boys are cousins
They are actually genetically brothers not cousins. They are genetically titled as brothers.
@@onedayonelifeuncut but not all brothers are twins??? wouldn’t they have the genetic DNA of just brothers but not twin brothers? You specifically said and had twins, but they didn’t have a set of twins each so sorry your title is not accurate.
You need to do your research. The kids are quaternary twins. The title is correct. The kids DNA is the same as siblings and thats what they are called from twins who marry twins and have babies.
I think it was explained in the video. It’s to do with genetics (making them genetically brothers) plus the fact that they were born within 9 months of each other (making them quaternary twins).
Thier children are double first cousins ,and if the fathers are identical twins and so are the mothers thier children share 50 %dna which makes them the same as full siblings .
Dressing the same still gets me though
No, not "how was this gonna work? Yor boyfriend looks like my boyfriend."
How did they even pair up? It was prbly just coincidence on who ended up next to who wen they 1st met & that is which couple that ended up dating. That just seems too bad to me. They didn't even get to know each other to see who liked who?
Do you want more children?
The male twins have different voices and hair color
The guys seem to be aging a bit differently. I wonder if there are scientific studies following the 2 sets.
Twin is married to their twin and then to their wife. So no jealousy
So you actually fell in love with your person? Or did you settle because you all checked the boxes?? I’m not being mean by asking but hard to imagine you actually fell in love .
Jeremy and Briana fell in love. Brittany and Josh are followers.
@@GiaIgnacio-x5f??
@@GiaIgnacio-x5fWhy do you think that?
I think the boys look.different
Re: the two male twins, I think for the one on the left we’re mostly seeing the right side of his face. While the one on the right, we are normally seeing mostly his left side of his face.
For most of us, our face looks different from a right angle than it does from the left. So that’s what I think we are perceiving as a difference in their appearance.
I know a set of twin sisters, and they look alike, but they're total opposites. They dont even get along.
Who is going to ask the question that I want to ask ....
What would be the point?!🤷🏻♀️😁
Wiw❤