Teal, here I am now 67 years old and never have seen a counselor and you are helping in so many ways you would never dream! Thank you. Although learning alot, wish I knew it much longer ago, and would not have made so many mistakes. At least I am learning it now and can do better by not seeing my self inadequate and thinking I must right all wrongs for the family and the world. When people are not happy " it is my fault" NOW I KNOW.
Carol Weaver you are more than adequate and happy you are learning now. It's never too late to learn and love yourself, but yoursrlf first, and know if something doesnt go right it's not YOUR problem. Hugs and blessings to you.
I am your age Carol. There are no accidents including in timing. All my life I had a deep & strong knowing that I would come to my place, my time, as an older person. Younger people usually see their lives in terms of their youth. This is very understandable. But know that when you become an older person you will want almost exactly what you want now. You will be the same person, believe it or not, right Carol? Make it happen now. I went to grad school in my 60s so I could help animals via the law. If I can have a full, fun & great life anyone else can, too. ♥️
Every sentence that you saying I take me a year to fully understand and to actually live it('master it'). I just wanted to say Thank you for you wisdom.
It all starts at home with the parents. My dad told me when I was a kid that I would never amount to anything. I believe that for so long. That's was the worse thing anyone could say to a child. Think before you speak to your children. I let what my dad said to me destroy my life for the longest time. Not no more. Thank you for all your informative video's, Teal Swan! Love them all and you. I Shared this on my Family Facebook page. :-)
So it's basically Stoic philosophy. Stoician philosopher Epictetus says: "Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him." - "“People are not disturbed by things, but by the views they take of them.” - "There are things which are within our power, and there are things which are beyond our power (...care not about things that are beyond your power) " - "If evil be said of thee, and if it be true, correct thyself; if it be a lie, laugh at it."
tchek1980 This is also one of the Toltec Four Agreements: Don’t take anything personally. I find stoicism and Toltec wisdom both play a part in my spiritual work.
Stoicism... capitol letters, very important,,, or else its simply referring to "no emotions visible" He reacted to the commotion with stoicism He turned his life around by taking up Stoicism
My mom told me to being 'abnormal' and be more 'normal'. 🤣🤣🤣 I asked her to define normality. She told act according to society. I wondered what is society. Even though I know what's the truth. It still hit me somewhere.
I don't know if you will see this, Teal, but I cannot even begin to put into words how grateful I am for everything you do. Thank you so much for sharing your story and your wisdom - my entire outlook on life/myself is (slowly) changing as I continue to watch your videos/do the healing work. I frequently have to pause between sentences because everything you say blows my mind and I start understanding feelings/experiences from my past (and present) that have been "forgotten" in my mind for years.
this video was made for me. I have a legacy of apologizing for things that aren't my fault and immediately shaming myself for what others do. incessant self blame
i really needed to hear this. i’ve never been appreciated for my creative talents growing up. and i can see how it manifested into me being insecure of my art. often questioning if what i’m doing is even good or not. this had limited my beliefs to always suppress myself in group settings and even when i want to see myself seeing art as a career. thanks for opening my eye teal, i’m already working on this and i know that I DECIDE my capability and my potential.
Thanks Teal, you are amazing! I've been listening to you over the past two months and there's so much resistance which have been let go. Resistance, shame, fear and just negativity which have been me for almost a decade. Thanks Teal, you truly are amazing!
Confronting the mirror is usually frowned upon and it seen as questioning the objective reality. People usually rather change themselves than that(increasing number of plastic surgeries ).
Being able to discern our part, our ability to be accountable, and what is actually part of another's co-creative experience, is priceless. Great questions to ask.
I just brought this topic up to someone else yesterday as to what I get to work on and heal. Your timing is impeccable with this and the information is what I needed to hear. Thank You, Teal Swan! And it feels like a universal theme at the moment
Thankyou 🙏 Teal. Insightful. Progressive. Solution based. I was seeing this link many a times before also, but wasn't watching it. Thinking that I'm already healed from this phenomenon. But this year 2022 , it again came to surface. Also to regain my self-esteem this was needed. And yes It is needed point on time. Just took a decision, out of taking responsibility of my situation; and not what they projected on me (intentionally or unintentionally). Others also might be going through some emotional ups and downs in their own experiences apart from us. It's better not to take everything thing personally. It gifts you with a decent & humbling self-esteem. 🙏 What I learnt from Teal Swan's video & my experiences!
Came here after this pattern affected me on the job. Definitely using steps 1-3 this weekend and then move on to later steps to ensure I don’t fall back into old patterns. Thank you for so much free transformational content!
When the student is ready a teacher will appear and so it is. I wasn't expecting this or even looking for it, but came across one of Teal's you tube talks, which led to another and another. Incredibly at a time when I'm confronting my own shadow, wanting change, kicking bad habits and it's as if this woman had heard the questions I've asked myself and provided simple and effective answers. It's remarkalbe, helping to clarify my thoughts and direction, many thanks
Thanks again Teal. This will take me some digesting to do, the info you put on this video. It's probably my biggest shortcoming atm, or has been at least, to be apologetic and try save the world and all, to cover my shame and blame. I've made mistakes in life, and as you've said in the video I've had suicidal tendencies and failing relationships. So as a person with this problem of blame, I think you're very much right in it being important to clearly differentiate between what originated from you and what from the other person or people or stuff, and then own your part. My biggest mistake was, I couldn't muster myself to say "no" in the face of pressure, time and again. So much would be better if I had learned that earlier on. And people even said that to me, my dear friend did. But I was just hanging around like usual... back then we didn't have Teal's youtube videos lol so had to learn things some other way. Saying "no" is a very important skill. Big part of it is knowing when to say it, and another big part is to be able to say it in a fashion that delivers appropriately.
You don't need to stop taking things personally, you need to cut out toxic people and behaviour. Being personally involved means you take into account a sense of vulnerability which in a sense is intimacy. Certain peoples personality favour this while others don't but this is not a personal problem is a societal expectation on introversion and extroversion since they are filtering mechanisms of verbal and non-verbal communication. For example, you will notice how patience the Taurus bull is until you have upset them where you will need the same amount of patience for their anger to subside.
I understand your point. However, there are toxic people that one can easily cut off, and others that one can't easily let go of... for instance , you can cut off an acquaintance or a co-worker, ever a friend or a partner, but you can't cut off one of your parents , singlings or uncle/aunt, because one would rather find a middle ground with family than simply cut them off all together...
I have only one child, Toxic as hell and drug abuser and violent She is psychotic at times, looses grip on reality Yep, I have tried to cut her off many times, and every time she ends up in psyche ward after overdose I guess it's just me who is not clever enough in my way of getting rid of toxic people,,, not to mention the knowledge that I was toxic to her first.., going throught education when she was a little girl,,, always stressed out, completely absorbed in my own reality instead of hers... There are always 2 sides to the toxic coin,,,, toxic people are drawn to other toxic people,,, they drink Mojitos together and gossip til the relationship turns sour and you start fresh with new toxic people,,, or become either an introvert or a Christian/New Age freak
@@ThesleeplesswandererBlogspot6 Cutting off family ties is an option too, why not? You are not their item, are you? You are first and foremost yours, that's the reality there and thus you have the most responsibility of yourself and of what relationships you keep and you cut. You own it, you do it. It can be a good wakeup call to them, and give you much-needed respite and energy to live the kind of life you want.
❤️ thank you thank you thank you teal. I wish I could just give you a hug! You’ve helped me so much with your videos, feeling tearful over this right now!
I suffer from an unclear sense of identity as an adult and as a result I am constantly keeping an eye out for what other people reactions to me are, and then i swallow that mirror so as to have a clear sense of self. This works really well for me if that person is giving me positive attention for something that they perceive to be true about me and core to my character, but it doesn't work so well when they give me feedback about a small social moment that makes me feel shame. When this happens, because of my unclear sense of identity in the world I take that feedback to be about something core to me that I can't change and it triggers my deep deep sense of shame and of never being good enough to spend time with, to like, to be friends with, to be interacted with, and of being valuable for other people to voluntarily want to spend time with and accept. This is really problematic because I get sent through these crazy emotional ringers with all my relationships unless I'm able to stay conscious of these dynamics in the moment and see that I am making a small moment mean something really big about my character, and I'm swallowing the mirror even when I am actually so much more than that moment.
I like that you talked about the meaning we give to things that happen.It's often time that we completely misinterpret what was actually true truth.We see reality based on our past experiences not as it truly is.I love to ask Angels how they percieve this event or a person.
WOW THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!! I REALLY NEEDED IT 🙏 Seems like you may have to do a whole video on co-dependence, as i had to pause your video and google it.
Thank you again Teal 🙏🙏 self blame to use because I felt so powerless after abuse from father and neglect from mother. Taking it all on me. Learning now what's mine and what's from te other. Giving back responsability to where it belongs 🙏
I LOVE how passionate and fascinated you are about what you are teaching us in your recent videos Teal! You rock. That was a fun sentence without commas
I am someone who has gone through a lot of the same things as you, Teal.. and I am still growing everyday. Thank you for sharing your most authentic self. I am glad to see someone like you at this point in my life. I am grateful for your presence in this life. Thank you! Thank you! Thank You!
Holding onto the blame is holding onto some sense of control. Keepinb oneself from complete victimization. That is honestly one of the most profound concepts I've heard.
I relate to this topic. I have a tendebcy to personalise things. This has been confirmed by my therapist. I recently started making major changes in my life. I am more open and accepting of others now. This change was driven by my sexual energy drives. I think sexusl energy drives everything in our life. I can now start a conversation and flirt with the ladies. It was very unlike me previously. It came naturally. I just know what to say in social situations and how to behave with my body. Although i think we should also be aware of emotional vampires. It can be too easy for them to have access to us if we are always open to everybody. Thank you for putting things into perspective. I look forward to watching your related videos too.
You are amazing teal I’ve been watching your videos for about 3 years now and I absolutely love you you are so beautiful and you always have the answers to my problems 💖😇🌟🙏🙏🙏🙏
A lot of times, when i find myself the cause of a bad result, it is because i realized that i did not question my assumptions or reflected on my actions prior to doing them. How could i ask, if i wasnt looking for a different possible answer? That is usually my situation, and i fall into cycles of hating myself because i dont understand or forsee the pitfalls enough. This inherent "optimistic" attitude and lack of attention to details from the getgo is why i do not get that much respect and appear faulty or inconsiderate to others involved. Self-blame is a bad habit i admit i do a lot, because as Teal says, its because i find control in it when i otherwise believe there was none.. lol im a happy person or try to be, on the outside, but i do recognize that i have to take responsibility more and not just "give up" too much. I have shame and i know that. But then again there is a split. Someone else told me im inconsiderate or give up too much. How do i know whats truly mine or just a distorted conclusion made or put upon me by others?
I just want to say that I have been accused of taking things personally and now at 32 yrs old I think I know when to take things personally. For example, my Nan expressing anger at not being able to find her keys in her handbag, or not being able to find the milk money at hand, is task orientated. My mom, however would take umbridge at this. Or some one who isn't very well, or sick you can understand that it is not something that you should take personally but someone who is shouting at you saying that you are selfish, bratty and whatever else comes out of their mouth then yes that is the time to take offence because you shouldn't let people even family members think it's OK to treat you that way
You're right, you can't be a doormat. But I think Teal's point wasn't that, but to be able to see more clearly what's your problem and what's their problem, instead of misinterpreting their problems as something caused by you, and then being all apologetic. It's a more internal process I think, but one you should respect in practice too and with words like "no, that's a you-problem" or something.
But i just first watched a video of The Completion Process in action: about emotional neglect and a neglected baby in a crib and how to suth it with angels and your adult self. So far so good. But some years later at kindergarden age 4 or 5 there really has been an intervention: my mother had her sister stay over several weeks and she told her and probably showed her how to cuddle her kids and be more attuned. However I had checked out and imploded by that time and refused this kind of contact that I craved for for years. Now my mother wanted to use me as practise material to learn how to cuddle and attune etc but I still had the story in my head of stop staring at people that is inproper. I have a memory of me denying my own mother at the age of 5 or 6 or 7. Like really narcisistic like: ok you werent there then why should i be here for you now Im over it now. And that haunts me still. That I didnt give her a second chance and rejected my own mother.
ADDHOC / Look up attachment injury. You were only behaving the way you were taught to behave. It’s ok. You’re human. You can heal and move forward in your life. Stay strong and listen to Teal’s message again because you’re blaming yourself and you can be free of that burden!
Hello sweet heart I have seen your videos for a while now your so beautiful inside and out. you have helped me become the great spiritual teacher that I am now and have the most loving, deepest, positive connections that help my customers feel their the true grace of God I send u love, tenderness, compassion, wisdom, and joy god bless u sweet ❤️
0:20 YOU COME TO KNOW YOURSELF THROUGH REFLECTION (MIRRORS)- this is why the people around you MATTERS 1:24 UNQUESTIONED MIRRORS (INTENTION OF IT BEING HELD UP)- Is it for you about you or for them about you? 2:15 ❤ 2:48 literally me today 22/11/23, 3:18 you internalized their mirror of unprocessed (projected) shame and enter self blame (victimhood) 3:50 responsibility is not self blame, but gaining your power back 4:475:23 self blame chit 6:21 responsibility shadow 6:37 taking things personally MOA, reinforces the mirror 7:09 Steps
Teal, here I am now 67 years old and never have seen a counselor and you are helping in so many ways you would never dream! Thank you. Although learning alot, wish I knew it much longer ago, and would not have made so many mistakes. At least I am learning it now and can do better by not seeing my self inadequate and thinking I must right all wrongs for the family and the world. When people are not happy " it is my fault" NOW I KNOW.
Carol Weaver you are more than adequate and happy you are learning now. It's never too late to learn and love yourself, but yoursrlf first, and know if something doesnt go right it's not YOUR problem. Hugs and blessings to you.
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Carol Weaver
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I am your age Carol. There are no accidents including in timing. All my life I had a deep & strong knowing that I would come to my place, my time, as an older person. Younger people usually see their lives in terms of their youth. This is very understandable. But know that when you become an older person you will want almost exactly what you want now. You will be the same person, believe it or not, right Carol? Make it happen now. I went to grad school in my 60s so I could help animals via the law. If I can have a full, fun & great life anyone else can, too. ♥️
I always feel understood and cozy while watching her videos.
I like your profile pic
@@godofdogs6198 Thank you for letting me know😊
Me too ✨
Right!
Me too
Every sentence that you saying I take me a year to fully understand and to actually live it('master it').
I just wanted to say Thank you for you wisdom.
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It all starts at home with the parents. My dad told me when I was a kid that I would never amount to anything. I believe that for so long. That's was the worse thing anyone could say to a child. Think before you speak to your children. I let what my dad said to me destroy my life for the longest time. Not no more. Thank you for all your informative video's, Teal Swan! Love them all and you. I Shared this on my Family Facebook page. :-)
So it's basically Stoic philosophy. Stoician philosopher Epictetus says: "Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him." - "“People are not disturbed by things, but by the views they take of them.” - "There are things which are within our power, and there are things which are beyond our power (...care not about things that are beyond your power) " - "If evil be said of thee, and if it be true, correct thyself; if it be a lie, laugh at it."
tchek1980 This is also one of the Toltec Four Agreements: Don’t take anything personally. I find stoicism and Toltec wisdom both play a part in my spiritual work.
Stoicism... capitol letters, very important,,, or else its simply referring to "no emotions visible"
He reacted to the commotion with stoicism
He turned his life around by taking up Stoicism
My mom told me to being 'abnormal' and be more 'normal'. 🤣🤣🤣 I asked her to define normality. She told act according to society. I wondered what is society. Even though I know what's the truth. It still hit me somewhere.
My mom says that too!
I don’t want to fit into society. Society makes war consistently.
I don't know if you will see this, Teal, but I cannot even begin to put into words how grateful I am for everything you do. Thank you so much for sharing your story and your wisdom - my entire outlook on life/myself is (slowly) changing as I continue to watch your videos/do the healing work. I frequently have to pause between sentences because everything you say blows my mind and I start understanding feelings/experiences from my past (and present) that have been "forgotten" in my mind for years.
this video was made for me. I have a legacy of apologizing for things that aren't my fault and immediately shaming myself for what others do. incessant self blame
As I'm growing up. I am realizing the things weren't as they were told. Thank u teal u help me with so much of clarity
i really needed to hear this. i’ve never been appreciated for my creative talents growing up. and i can see how it manifested into me being insecure of my art. often questioning if what i’m doing is even good or not. this had limited my beliefs to always suppress myself in group settings and even when i want to see myself seeing art as a career. thanks for opening my eye teal, i’m already working on this and i know that I DECIDE my capability and my potential.
In a world where the power of word can destroy discourage and defeat your powerful words comfort encourage and inspire!! You go girl!! 🙏🏼
Thanks Teal, you are amazing!
I've been listening to you over the past two months and there's so much resistance which have been let go.
Resistance, shame, fear and just negativity which have been me for almost a decade.
Thanks Teal, you truly are amazing!
She is litteraly the only 1 that unfolds my spirals so closely. Touched 🦋🦋
Confronting the mirror is usually frowned upon and it seen as questioning the objective reality. People usually rather change themselves than that(increasing number of plastic surgeries ).
Being able to discern our part, our ability to be accountable, and what is actually part of another's co-creative experience, is priceless.
Great questions to ask.
I just brought this topic up to someone else yesterday as to what I get to work on and heal. Your timing is impeccable with this and the information is what I needed to hear. Thank You, Teal Swan! And it feels like a universal theme at the moment
Thankyou 🙏 Teal. Insightful. Progressive. Solution based.
I was seeing this link many a times before also, but wasn't watching it. Thinking that I'm already healed from this phenomenon. But this year 2022 , it again came to surface. Also to regain my self-esteem this was needed. And yes It is needed point on time. Just took a decision, out of taking responsibility of my situation; and not what they projected on me (intentionally or unintentionally).
Others also might be going through some emotional ups and downs in their own experiences apart from us. It's better not to take everything thing personally. It gifts you with a decent & humbling self-esteem. 🙏
What I learnt from Teal Swan's video & my experiences!
Came here after this pattern affected me on the job. Definitely using steps 1-3 this weekend and then move on to later steps to ensure I don’t fall back into old patterns. Thank you for so much free transformational content!
When the student is ready a teacher will appear and so it is. I wasn't expecting this or even looking for it, but came across one of Teal's you tube talks, which led to another and another. Incredibly at a time when I'm confronting my own shadow, wanting change, kicking bad habits and it's as if this woman had heard the questions I've asked myself and provided simple and effective answers. It's remarkalbe, helping to clarify my thoughts and direction, many thanks
Holy Creative Source...whole core started vibrating and shaking.....WOW. TEAL....My soul resonates with yours... Thank you
Thanks again Teal. This will take me some digesting to do, the info you put on this video. It's probably my biggest shortcoming atm, or has been at least, to be apologetic and try save the world and all, to cover my shame and blame. I've made mistakes in life, and as you've said in the video I've had suicidal tendencies and failing relationships. So as a person with this problem of blame, I think you're very much right in it being important to clearly differentiate between what originated from you and what from the other person or people or stuff, and then own your part. My biggest mistake was, I couldn't muster myself to say "no" in the face of pressure, time and again. So much would be better if I had learned that earlier on. And people even said that to me, my dear friend did. But I was just hanging around like usual... back then we didn't have Teal's youtube videos lol so had to learn things some other way.
Saying "no" is a very important skill. Big part of it is knowing when to say it, and another big part is to be able to say it in a fashion that delivers appropriately.
You don't need to stop taking things personally, you need to cut out toxic people and behaviour. Being personally involved means you take into account a sense of vulnerability which in a sense is intimacy. Certain peoples personality favour this while others don't but this is not a personal problem is a societal expectation on introversion and extroversion since they are filtering mechanisms of verbal and non-verbal communication.
For example, you will notice how patience the Taurus bull is until you have upset them where you will need the same amount of patience for their anger to subside.
I understand your point. However, there are toxic people that one can easily cut off, and others that one can't easily let go of... for instance , you can cut off an acquaintance or a co-worker, ever a friend or a partner, but you can't cut off one of your parents , singlings or uncle/aunt, because one would rather find a middle ground with family than simply cut them off all together...
I have only one child, Toxic as hell and drug abuser and violent
She is psychotic at times, looses grip on reality
Yep, I have tried to cut her off many times, and every time she ends up in psyche ward after overdose
I guess it's just me who is not clever enough in my way of getting rid of toxic people,,, not to mention the knowledge that I was toxic to her first.., going throught education when she was a little girl,,, always stressed out, completely absorbed in my own reality instead of hers...
There are always 2 sides to the toxic coin,,,, toxic people are drawn to other toxic people,,, they drink Mojitos together and gossip til the relationship turns sour and you start fresh with new toxic people,,, or become either an introvert or a Christian/New Age freak
@@itsmeGeorgina maybe if you would take responsibility for all the times you did not love her, she could benefit from your approach.
@@faybronsveld8663 there is only so much a human being take either way. It doesn't mater. What's done is done.
@@ThesleeplesswandererBlogspot6 Cutting off family ties is an option too, why not? You are not their item, are you? You are first and foremost yours, that's the reality there and thus you have the most responsibility of yourself and of what relationships you keep and you cut. You own it, you do it. It can be a good wakeup call to them, and give you much-needed respite and energy to live the kind of life you want.
Oh how much I love this woman for doing all the research n forming this customised pill n helping us have new perspectives of most things.
I love your videos Teal, they are helping me a lot. Thanks a lot for sharing your knowledges with us! Be happy!
❤️ thank you thank you thank you teal. I wish I could just give you a hug! You’ve helped me so much with your videos, feeling tearful over this right now!
I suffer from an unclear sense of identity as an adult and as a result I am constantly keeping an eye out for what other people reactions to me are, and then i swallow that mirror so as to have a clear sense of self. This works really well for me if that person is giving me positive attention for something that they perceive to be true about me and core to my character, but it doesn't work so well when they give me feedback about a small social moment that makes me feel shame. When this happens, because of my unclear sense of identity in the world I take that feedback to be about something core to me that I can't change and it triggers my deep deep sense of shame and of never being good enough to spend time with, to like, to be friends with, to be interacted with, and of being valuable for other people to voluntarily want to spend time with and accept. This is really problematic because I get sent through these crazy emotional ringers with all my relationships unless I'm able to stay conscious of these dynamics in the moment and see that I am making a small moment mean something really big about my character, and I'm swallowing the mirror even when I am actually so much more than that moment.
I like that you talked about the meaning we give to things that happen.It's often time that we completely misinterpret what was actually true truth.We see reality based on our past experiences not as it truly is.I love to ask Angels how they percieve this event or a person.
WOW THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!! I REALLY NEEDED IT 🙏
Seems like you may have to do a whole video on co-dependence, as i had to pause your video and google it.
Thank you. This is so spot on for me & my childhood. Time to throw up that mirror.
Thank you...you add many perspectives.
Oh my gosh. I needed this for the past two weeks. This is amazing.
Thank you again Teal 🙏🙏 self blame to use because I felt so powerless after abuse from father and neglect from mother. Taking it all on me. Learning now what's mine and what's from te other. Giving back responsability to where it belongs 🙏
Great perspective. I really like how you explain these behavior's. It makes perfect sense!
Brilliant & Healing, bless your heart 💗
I LOVE how passionate and fascinated you are about what you are teaching us in your recent videos Teal! You rock. That was a fun sentence without commas
This is such an awesome vid. I totally needed to hear this today and will meditate on my mirror.
This statement made me understand so much. Thank you!
Thank you for this. People like you are truly valuable
Thank you for this video, Teal. I really needed it.
Thank you so much for your wisdom💝
You just described the relationship I have with my new co-workers. This message is very empowering. Great job, thank you Teal!
Another powerful and Beautiful video Teal, spot on video :)
Wow this was so eye opening.
This video came to me in the right moment, thank you so much Teal
Everyday you teaching me, thank you 🙏🏾
Teal Swan thank you for your contribution to the collective.. 1💜 much gratitude
wow, thank you so much teal!
Thank you so much Teal 🙏🏼
thank you for existing!!
Awsome video thank you so much !
Bless you and thanks from my heart for the lessons
I am someone who has gone through a lot of the same things as you, Teal.. and I am still growing everyday. Thank you for sharing your most authentic self. I am glad to see someone like you at this point in my life. I am grateful for your presence in this life. Thank you! Thank you! Thank You!
Thank you so much I needed this
Wisest of many of the spiritual guru...💛💛💛💛
Thank You Teal. Much love.
Enjoying your videos. Thanks. Good job.
Thank you Teal.
Wow. Awesome video!
my father never made me feel i have some value..only he has a value
You have value hun everybody does.
Had a hard time today, this helped a lot!
Love your videos ! Thank you for this video, very helpful topic and technique.
Also side note: you look like Jadzia Dax from Star Trek: Deep Space 9.
Thank you for this, Teal :)
Thank you teal swan for creating these amazing meditations
Thank you for your wisdom.
Great message, as always. I am so excited that your documentary is finally out! Just ten more hours--been waiting for years!
I must say I find this person very attractive and appealing to me & this means I will have to listen to this again! Thank you.
Thank You!
Holding onto the blame is holding onto some sense of control. Keepinb oneself from complete victimization. That is honestly one of the most profound concepts I've heard.
Thank You 💕
I relate to this topic. I have a tendebcy to personalise things. This has been confirmed by my therapist. I recently started making major changes in my life. I am more open and accepting of others now. This change was driven by my sexual energy drives. I think sexusl energy drives everything in our life. I can now start a conversation and flirt with the ladies. It was very unlike me previously. It came naturally. I just know what to say in social situations and how to behave with my body. Although i think we should also be aware of emotional vampires. It can be too easy for them to have access to us if we are always open to everybody. Thank you for putting things into perspective. I look forward to watching your related videos too.
Thank you 😊 Teal
I feel like I'm always doing the things she makes a video about subconsciously....
Like the solutions
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im thinking maybe she just pickes up on the direction and choices the collective consciousness is making and elaborates on it...
Maybe but those are burning subjects of society that are always there and that desperately need to be addressed.
Thank you Teal
Amazing insight!
I love you so much. Thank you for being you ❤️
THANK YOU
Thank you.
This is an excellent video!
You are amazing teal I’ve been watching your videos for about 3 years now and I absolutely love you you are so beautiful and you always have the answers to my problems 💖😇🌟🙏🙏🙏🙏
Finally Someone that makes sense!
I agree . FINALLY
Geez wow............I needed this
A lot of times, when i find myself the cause of a bad result, it is because i realized that i did not question my assumptions or reflected on my actions prior to doing them. How could i ask, if i wasnt looking for a different possible answer? That is usually my situation, and i fall into cycles of hating myself because i dont understand or forsee the pitfalls enough. This inherent "optimistic" attitude and lack of attention to details from the getgo is why i do not get that much respect and appear faulty or inconsiderate to others involved. Self-blame is a bad habit i admit i do a lot, because as Teal says, its because i find control in it when i otherwise believe there was none.. lol im a happy person or try to be, on the outside, but i do recognize that i have to take responsibility more and not just "give up" too much. I have shame and i know that. But then again there is a split. Someone else told me im inconsiderate or give up too much. How do i know whats truly mine or just a distorted conclusion made or put upon me by others?
Wow, I just figured out what the awful feeling is that I feel much of the time; I think it's shame. Or shame mixed up with other negative emotions.
She's the greatest spiritual female beautiful teacher on UA-cam
Merci beaucoup!!!
I just want to say that I have been accused of taking things personally and now at 32 yrs old I think I know when to take things personally. For example, my Nan expressing anger at not being able to find her keys in her handbag, or not being able to find the milk money at hand, is task orientated. My mom, however would take umbridge at this. Or some one who isn't very well, or sick you can understand that it is not something that you should take personally but someone who is shouting at you saying that you are selfish, bratty and whatever else comes out of their mouth then yes that is the time to take offence because you shouldn't let people even family members think it's OK to treat you that way
You're right, you can't be a doormat. But I think Teal's point wasn't that, but to be able to see more clearly what's your problem and what's their problem, instead of misinterpreting their problems as something caused by you, and then being all apologetic. It's a more internal process I think, but one you should respect in practice too and with words like "no, that's a you-problem" or something.
Thank you Teal, appreciate this so much
That list was 🔥
wow this really helped
Thank You Teal
wow I love that background 😍😍
Bless this woman :)
I liked the last one!
Thanks. You described my life.
But i just first watched a video of The Completion Process in action: about emotional neglect and a neglected baby in a crib and how to suth it with angels and your adult self. So far so good. But some years later at kindergarden age 4 or 5 there really has been an intervention: my mother had her sister stay over several weeks and she told her and probably showed her how to cuddle her kids and be more attuned. However I had checked out and imploded by that time and refused this kind of contact that I craved for for years. Now my mother wanted to use me as practise material to learn how to cuddle and attune etc but I still had the story in my head of stop staring at people that is inproper. I have a memory of me denying my own mother at the age of 5 or 6 or 7. Like really narcisistic like: ok you werent there then why should i be here for you now Im over it now. And that haunts me still. That I didnt give her a second chance and rejected my own mother.
ADDHOC / Look up attachment injury. You were only behaving the way you were taught to behave. It’s ok. You’re human. You can heal and move forward in your life. Stay strong and listen to Teal’s message again because you’re blaming yourself and you can be free of that burden!
Hello sweet heart I have seen your videos for a while now your so beautiful inside and out. you have helped me become the great spiritual teacher that I am now and have the most loving, deepest, positive connections that help my customers feel their the true grace of God I send u love, tenderness, compassion, wisdom, and joy god bless u sweet ❤️
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What's my resp and not my resp
0:20 YOU COME TO KNOW YOURSELF THROUGH REFLECTION (MIRRORS)- this is why the people around you MATTERS 1:24 UNQUESTIONED MIRRORS (INTENTION OF IT BEING HELD UP)- Is it for you about you or for them about you? 2:15 ❤ 2:48 literally me today 22/11/23, 3:18 you internalized their mirror of unprocessed (projected) shame and enter self blame (victimhood) 3:50 responsibility is not self blame, but gaining your power back 4:47 5:23 self blame chit 6:21 responsibility shadow 6:37 taking things personally MOA, reinforces the mirror 7:09 Steps
I say this absent any sarcasm. You just did an amazing job describing a damaged fun-house mirror. : )
Worded so immaculately 👏👏👏👏💖