mate, stand how you want I've seen male people stand like a female with his hands on his hips, proud AF, and smiling. don't be scared of how you look, stand, feel, or talk!
Me in public: *relaxinggg* :D My dysphoria: AM I STANDING LIKE A MAN? DO I LOOK LIKE A MAN?!?! WHAT IF I HAVE TO USE THE BATHROOM??!!? DOES MY FACE LOOK FEMININE? AM I TOO KIND UNLIKE A MAN?!??!?!! AM I DOING ANYTHING RIGHTTTT!?????? Me after: *P A N I K K K*
I’m trans- but everyone calls me a girl because my family doesn’t believe it exists, and is grossed out, but and I don’t really correct people because I’m a introvert, so when people call me a she I’m just chill and never get mad about it. It took my mom and dad 1year for coming out as pan. Edit: I Didn’t expect to get this much support! Stay strong guys, EVERYONE IS VALID! OwO Another edit cus WHY NOT!: help I just had a breakdown and I dunno anything about my sexuality anymore-
I hope everything gets better! I’m sure it can get very dysphoric to get called something that you’re not on a daily basis. Remember that you’re you’re valid, loved, appreciated and most importantly; real! 💕
Me a few months ago: i'm trans Me 4 months ago: i'm gender fluid Me now: oh look- i'm non-binary *also i'm legally changing my name to Sam in the future*
Attention to anybody who feels like they need to hide their emotions, Your emotions are like a flower,they need to see the light to feel fully,𝗕𝗲𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗳𝘂𝗹🌸
But- I'm just a, stupid faker, and until I'm not sure at 100% of my emotions on won't ever tell them I don't want to worry everyone for no reason again Nobody need to know my emotions, I'll just keep them for myself, and btw this comment is one of the only times I actually say my feelings
@@FeuFeuFeuFeu yeah, I feel you, the internet is like the only place I share my feelings but if you want to talk to me you can. If you don't then that's fine!
Funny story: I was going to lidls but on the way there, I dressed like a boy and his my hair under a hat and my hood to make me look like a boy, in the store at the tills,the cashier said "hi buddy" he deserves a raise, also when I was walking back, a elderly man said "hello son" to me
I'm not trans, questioning my gender, but I've always struggled with how to act as my 'gender' because sometimes I act like all my guy friends but then I act like a girl around my female friends-
yo I'm asexual to :D also, in this song its a female going to male, and where most people use the audio as bullies they refer to the character as "he" which is kind of weird if they're trying to bully them for being trans because that kind of shows that they understand that they are a guy now. (this has nothing to do with the video I just thought about it when watching)
''am i standing like a guy ?'' i've never related to a comment this much- but yeah, just because i'm trans doesn't mean i'm broken. I'm a HE and i don't need anyones approval to accept who i am.
Lin: am I standing like a guy? This is me ever time I stand or walk- Edit: I went to a sushi place yesterday and when we left the waiter said “bye buddy” and I think he deserves a raise 😂😂
To anyone out there who is transgender, non-binary, gender-fluid or whatever we all support you! I'm glad you are happy in your body now. We love all of you guys, gals, and non-binary pals!
@@bonjwour7822asexual means u don't feel any sexual attraction towards to someone but u can only feel romantic and emotional attraction to them aromantic means u don't feel any romantic attraction only sexual attraction
I think might be that but not sure because I have no interest in being with people Has in ( a couple) and IDK if cuz was not ready or that I might be an asexual.
I feel like a boy in a girls body. I hate being “girly”, I like stuff that mostly boys like (maybe), and I only feel like hanging out with all of my guy friends, which I have quite a bit of. Don’t take the last thing the wrong way. I just have more things in common with them then all of my female friends. I’m not comfortable with my body, the way I look, and the fact I’m going through puberty right now. ;-;
I actually used to feel the same way and is still feeling the same way Feeling uncomfortable with your body is what every gender goes through because of social acceptance And it's ok that you like "boy stuff" I love doing things that most common boys do And I prefer not to do what the world thinks is "girly" I sometimes too feel like I'm a girl in a guys body but I just found myself by embracing myself as a female that has masculinity If your more masculine that feminine that's nothing to be ashamed of Remember we don't need to change, the world does But if you truly feel like you aren't yourself than you can do arrangements to help find yourself Anyways sorry about the long comment 🖤
my uncle is a trans man, i love him, he's the best! I remember when i was little and suddenly my mom told me that he identified as a he and i should call him by a different name, when i was younger i didnt know what it was but they explained to me that he felt like a boy and that was enough of an explaination to me. I don't see him very often but i love him, he's the sweetest... i'm happy for him
Someone who’s like 5 years older than me use to go to my school he was a boy... everyday he looked different into a girl- now she’s in high school and I saw her walking down the streets every day! :D
As a trans guy, I keep my Identity a secret for a reason, my old friends bullied me and say why are you changing your gender??. And my mom says you can't change your gender and it's just a phase but I feel hella uncomfortable in this body. "I can't really think in this place" That hit me hard, I feel like I don't belong in this place. So i appreciate you making this thanks for reading. Even though I won't come out and tell everyone that I'm trans it still makes me happy that I have some friends that care for me and support me. Even though my mom say "get rid of all that stuff and if I see you talking to people online I'm taking your phone away" even though I'm 18 she is controlling me and I can't tell her to stop. I have bad mental health problems, and my mom says no to a therapist and say "no one will get in my business" and she doesn't respect me. I told her I have signs of BPD but she says don't self-diagnose yourself even though she acts like a narcissist. - And I can't get up and leave, I have to deal with more toxic abusive family, some of them does drugs, and some drinks way too much and half of them are rapists. So I have nowhere to call home so I can't come out I feel like everyone will judge me for it. And when I was 6 my own dad touched me and all my life I got bullied, I was homeless, got abused, and etc. Even later in life I got toxic myself and very manipulate/abusive because I couldn't get help and everyone I ask for help just left me or rejected me. - I'm kinda getting better but school is making my mental health worst again, They expect me to all of this bs and it's hella help so someone is at least trying to help me to get special education classes I have a learning disability and I can't it. I would say I'm smart but not smart enough. Now.. I'm starting to love myself even though some people hate me because how toxic I was idc hate all you want I didn't mean to hurt anyone I guess in the time I was trying to get attention but I did it in a wrong way?. - But, I've learned to recover from my past and learned from my mistakes, and look to the future it may take me a while but Me (Alex) will stop at nothing to become a writer/game designer/game developer. - Again thanks for reading you don't have to believe me but idc it's my story we all have our own opinion. Edit: I came out as agender and I'm much more happy and my mom is well.. Still paranoid as ever
Oh damn, Nobody should have to deal with that, I send my regards and I hope you make It though this, I truly wish I could do something more, But for now I hope you're ok!
believe. even if it seems impossible. just look forward and things WILL get better. you are not like them. i believe in u ''Shoot for the moon, and if you miss, reach for the stars.'' i support u all ^w^
My parents took my phone and read through everything. I was in the closet and a few friends had locks but ig my parents learned to lock pick and pried me out of my comfort some when I was ready to come out. They now know I’m transgender and instead of getting me help they cut off all communication between my friends .. who at this point... are the only things keeping me alive. I tried to explain to my parents and they say “being suicidal isn’t a way to get your phone back” I tried and tried to tell them It’s not my friends fault it was me the whole time and they’re everything to me and I told them my problems with my eating disorder, gender dysphoria, depression, anxiety, my self-harming addiction and you know what... they sent me to a support group for all girls. That really freaking hurts being sent to one after you come out as trans and say you use he/they pronouns. My self harm spiked up and I was really suicidal and my parents just say friends won’t solve it they’re just temporary but atleast I’m happier temporarily... atleast I’m alive temporarily right..? They’re freaking liars. Saying theyll love and support me no matter what saying they want what best for we and it’ll be best in the long run.. but what if there isn’t a long run? ... They made a deal with me. If I’m “true” to myself and use my dead name and the wrong pronouns and stop taking about lgbtq they’ll let me speak to my friends. But it’s not really helping because nobody is using my name and nobody is using my pronouns now.
Im so sorry I know how that feels. My parents did the exact same thing to me too except they found out I was lesbian and I was very close to suicide if it wast for my younger siblings. Im so glad you survived and you're okay. Never forget there are still people out there who will accept you for who you are and not everyone is like your parents :)
Someone once said to me, “I dont know you and you do not know me, but we are both human, and we should help eachother, so if you need anyone to talk to you can go to my videos” or something, and in any vids, if u have problems you can talk to me, ok? I got you. Your an amazing guy and I understand you. Even if it not my vids, someone will help you ok? Everyone.. there is always atleast someone. I hope your parents understand soon..anyway, we are complete strangers, but remember, you can always ask for help :) i love you.
I’m a pansexual and possibly a transgender male. And the part that said “doesn’t know who he is yet” hits home because I honestly have no idea if I’m actually a boy or girl. My friends accept me but I’m scared about telling my family. I’m also non-binary and even tho I’ve told my family “Use my pronouns, They/them” they always use she/her and it just makes me feel bad.
Napper I’m sorry that that’s happening to you, people really needs to be more respectful. A few months ago I think I figured out my sexuality, my best friend helped, I’m biromantic but I’m still not entirely sure about my sexuality
Honestly it they shouldn't care about that stuff because you are you and that's all that matters ❤️ I wish you the best of luck with finding the true you no matter who that may be wether it's he/him, she/her, they/them, or anything else.♥️♥️♥️♥️ Btw I'm bi😊 so never feel like you're alone in the lgbtq+ community because there will always be people out there who accept you for you! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day/night byeeeee😙✌️
we all support you (girl or dude idk what u wanna be called) I am bisexual get all the support from this message: you are human not perfect we respect you and support you and don't care who or what you want to be we love you unconditionaly cheers to your friends and cheers to you. It gets better stick with it :)
grace mccorquodale Just for future reference, from what I can tell, non-binary people like the lovely individual who made this comment, usually prefer “they, them” pronouns, aka gender neutral ones. And instead of using a moniker like “girl, or dude”, try the person’s name, of course, the one they WANT to be called, and not their dead name, if they have one. Idk, this is just what I would do, lol
I like that u acknowledged the fact that the song says that the person is asexual, a lot of these just ignore that part and I always get annoyed at that part cause meh homies need representation, too. In asexual and aromantic and I feel we need to acknowledge every part of the LGBTQIA+ Community and not just parts :)
Yup! As an asexual person myself, there’s a lack of representation for us, so I wanted to make sure I added that in the video, and so I give respects to ‘cavetown’ who’s asexual and aromantic ^^
I'm demisexual, demiromantic and trans. Even though I can fall in love, it's difficult and it frustrates me so much. I kinda wish I was "normal" sometimes-
As a FtM transgender asexual lesbian, I can definitely relate to this. I agree, the aces and aros get so little representation and we need to spread awareness
_vanilla, so you’re just gonna shame aces and aros for being themselves and who they truely are because they don’t “fit” your “opinion” on what a person in the LGBTQIAP+ should be like. For one, the LGBTQIAP+ doesn’t just include sexual preference it also includes gender identity like Trans, GenderFluid, Bigender, Non-Binary etc. For two, they do belong in LGBTQIAP+ for your information, anyone who isn’t straight or cis is apart of the LGBTQIAP+ community, because in your “opinion” were they don’t “belong in the LGBTQIAP+” then where do they belong, huh? Where do they belong? Why don’t you do more research before you start babbling on about someone “fitting” your expectations next time?
I never had to worry if I sat or standed like a guy because I haven’t been comfy in my body since I was 8 so I would always how i saw boys sit and my mom had only boys and I was her first daughter so I didn’t want to tell her that I’d didn’t feel comfortable because she would always tell me how much she wanted a girl and how she was so happy to have a daughter but when my little sister was born I felt like I could tell her because she has another daughter and my sister is 6 now and is in love with makeup and pink and before I told my mom I left little hints like I started dressing like a guy and asking if I could stop in the mens section and then I finally told her and she supported me!
Aw Thats Awesome!! My Mother isnt like That.. I really Feel Like i Want to Be a Boy since i was 10/11 But Im scared To tell her. (Idk If its Illegal In my Religion But Ik That she wont Agree With me)
Ayy! I love hearing stories like this! If ur thinking to transition physically, there’s subliminals to make people look more like a boy in certain ways, whichid recommend bc they’re free. Just a tip lol u don’t have to if u don’t want to do anything physically. I hope you are accepted everywhere!
Bro I am transgender myself and you represented it so well! A lot of the other Gacha ones are unrepresentative because they automatically make the character gay all the time. It annoys me a lot but you represented this so well and I relate to Lin so so much. Thank you for representing the trans community!
I think it was meant to be a binder and since he didn’t have a binder it probably made him feel more comfortable but I didn’t know it could affect your back
I’m bisexual and ive gone on a date with another girl and she’s really pretty and nice but y’know how there’s a spectrum for autistic people, well if there was one fir homophobic people my mum would be right at the top- she would almost smash the spectrum- and the rest of my family would be a bit above the bottom, so I don’t know how to tell my parents- or anyone other then my friends really for that matter. All my friends are part of the LGBT 🏳️🌈 community, most are bi like me but one is lesbian and another is pan, and another is deciding on being polysexual. There’s on tho who on of my bi friends had a crush on and we found out that she was our only friend that was straight. We thought she would still support us but it turned out she too was homophobic, but back to what I was saying before about a homophobe “spectrum”, she would be around the bottom. But my friend that had a crush on her is kinda depressed now. This is a really good video, thankyou so very much for making it. 2 of my friends (including one that ive gone on the date with that I’m planning on asking to be my girlfriend) have anxiety, and the one that I have fantasies of being my GF has an older sister whom is very depressed and suicidal. I was not to long ago suicidal, I even attempted it. I discovered how homophobic my parents were when I joked about dating my dog (whom is a girl) and it upsets me to see that they are. I know this is quite a bit of stuff for me to take in when I’m only a teenager, but a promise that I would give my life to keep is that I will *forever* be supporting the LGBTQ+ community. Love this video UwU
hey girl, I'm heteroflexible. You are an amazing person, if your parents aren't there for you I am. But most of all I SHIP YOU AND YOUR CRUSH/FRIEND SO MUCH!! HOPE IT WORKS OUT!! 🤩❤
I'm a Polysexual lesbian but I'm trying to get my family to accept I wanna be a guy! My mom's the worst, but she's okay with the liking girls part (She's Bi-sexual)
Aw, I hope they come to the realization that you can be whoever you want to be, and this is just who you are. Just know, that it’ll eventually get better 💗
This is awesome! The song fits perfectly, and I know it’s about trans people. Thanks for spreading awareness. It feels good people actually care about trans people. I once saw a trans person on tik tok who’s mom kicked them out.. pretty sure they’re doing fine now.
No worries, I’m always up for spreading awareness about the LGBTQ+ community 💞 Yup, I’ve heard about the “His Name Is Alex” situation, it’s very saddening, but it’s good to see he’s doing good now ^^
I hope MY mom doesn't kick me out when I'm old enough, she seems pretty fed up with my "Transgender sh*t" she keeps saying "You're a girl *Insert Name* act like it!" I know she means well but my mental health is already tipping to major depression so... I feel really accepted!
@Vodka & Bagelz Just remember that me and millions of other people love and support you fully. You were born this way and you cannot change that, and you shouldn’t change for the sake of some petty people who reject your identity. You’re perfectly valid, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise! 😄💖
@@kreideprinz1728 It's like - NO OFFENSE TO THE TRANS COMMUNITY! - trans people feel broken and go that extra mile to fix themselves so they feel comfortable with who they are... I wanna do that!
@@kreideprinz1728 i wish I could live with my friends instead and cut my hair... oh and you shouldn't have put bandages on him cuz it is very dangerous. It is similar to taping that area...
This was very sweet :3 Most GLMVs/GCMVs about pride are layered very thick with tragedy and depression, but in this one Lin had his friends to support and protect him through all his hard times, and he got his happy ending.
I have a question. How do you know you are trans? I’m a supporter don’t worry I’m not hating I want to know for myself. I’m a girl, possible non bianary person! I feel girly, but I feel like I’m not exactly girl or boy but I have a gender.... please help me!
@@someone857 theres no specific time, it just depends what gender feels right to you and what pronouns you're comfortable with! don't try and rush yourself
Wølfï Churrø Maybe give them hints first. Small hints. I think first when you feel ready, tell you friends first. If they don’t accept you they are toxic. Then after that, ask your mom or dad if they are homophobic or transphobic. If they reply no, you should talk about it with good real friends. I know some friends will make you feel happy, and safe. I hope you come out and have a good life. Stay strong! ❤️
@@koi.the.fish. I’m glad you’re learning :) it might take a while to settle in but he’s probably happier now (The way I phrased it makes it sound like he’s dead, lol. I hope he’s not)
It's sad that people can be so disrespectful I mean we should all be treated as equals I don't see why people can't understand that. Gay, lesbian, bi, trans, black or white we are still all humans and deserve much more respect than what we are given. Btw I really enjoyed watching this! It was sad yet cute, keep up the good work! 🤭🙃
@Amber xox I agree massively! Respect and human decency is unfortunately not common sense, but I’m glad there’s people like you who spread these messages. I appreciate it ^^ 💕💕
Yeah. Why do people make such a big deal over something that doesn't effect them? The most change it will cause is their brother no being their sister, or the other way around. It doesn't effect you.
Me: *a girl* Also me: *not wanting a gender* Again, me: *wanting to be a boy* Me now: *being all genders even if I’m too young to declare my gender or sexuality.*
I feel like the reason the “bullies” or whatever you guys call them use “he” though making fun of the character / trans person for being trans is so it’s not confusing, because it would sound like it’s switching onto a different character, like, “get a load of this monster, he doesn’t know how to communicate” they use masculine pronouns so you know they’re talking about the trans man, if they were to say; “get a load of this monster, *she* doesn’t know how to communicate” it might confuse listeners, or sound like they’re talking about someone else, or bullying a girl. excuse my bad english.
This is true people needs to not bully transgender people becouse everyone of us has a gender sometimes we like girls or boys you maybe gay, Lesbian ,Asexual ,straight :) Be nice to everyone who has a diffrent gender even tho him/her is your bully or your sibling,friends Always support Pride :D✨💞💜❤
No matter how many times I would tell my mom that I'm trans she just says "It's a phase, you'll get over it" and it makes me so upset that she can't accept it.. 1:26 this is so relatable. BTW the video was amazing! :)
Some people love their own gender, others are born in the wrong gender, ofcourse some dont have a gender, some people cant decide their gender, others love not only one gender and thats all right! No matter who you are, you deverse love, be who you are. Nobody is a Freak or a Mistake! Whe are just humans! And thazs how the world works! So dont listen to the others and be who you are!
you are valid and always remember that! i have gone through my fair shares of homophobia through my stepsister. it was hard, but know that you matter, and that you are loved and supported by a lot of people
This video means a lot to me cuz I'm also asexual, my brother is trans ftm, one of my close friends are non-binary and I may or may mot be a leabian! Most people dont even know what asexuality is, let alone respect us! I can't believe our own community hates on us -,- By the way if you're bullying or disrespecting and discriminated against for being who you are just tell me I'll beat somebody :) Sorry i know this comment is long but I love this fbjdbxjdh
Im sorry for the rude question but I'm confused. Is is possible to be asexual and lesbian because asexual is not attracted to anyone but lesbian is attracted to females.
@@eijiroukirishima4138 I dont find it offensive do not worry! Asexuality is not having secual attraction. People can be asexual and lesbian because they are only romantically attracted to women
I didn't think I'd every relate to a glmv XD. I wish I could cut my hair ;; Also, just wanted to take this moment to say that binding with bandages is really hurtful for your lungs, and in some cases you might end up not being able to bind at all, or get top surgery because of the damage! It is really tempting tho, but you can find a lot of videos on how to bind safely without bandages or a binder, or how to make a good binder! Also, even if you have a binder, please, don't bind for more that 6-8 hours/day! That can also damage your lungs!
My friend came out to me as pangender(i think thats what its called) where you go by all pronouns she was pressured to do so because she had shaved her hair causing people to think she is a boy and its hit her hard one time i confessed that i liked her (we both les)and she said she liked me back or that we used to like each other, anyway i just wanted to say like dont pressure yourself to feel like you have to be a certain gender or sexuality!
I really dont want to be THAT person, but... When you're asexual you can still have romantic fellings for someone, you just don't feel sexual attraction and you would rather not do "it". If you don't feel romantic attraction it means you're aromantic Again I really didn't wanna say someone was wrong, but who knows maybe I helped someone to understand their own sexuallity
yeah, I was gonna comment it but then i realized that the creator put that "asexual people can still have romantic attraction" so maybe Lin is Aromantic and asexual, they just used the asexual flag.
Heyya! Lin is only asexual so therefore I only put the asexual flag [I wanted him to have a love interest (=^・^=)] but I am making an Aromantic awareness video ^^*
Me at the beginning: don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry me at the end:😭 this is the first video i've ever seen about how hard being transgender is
After reading many comments in this video telling their stories, I want to tell mine. I’m straight (and Christian) and I used to be homophobic I always kept my opinion to myself because literally it’s rude to just tell someone their disgusting for having a sexually. I was only against it because of my beliefs, I started watching anime at the age of 9 or 8 and I never like people shipping a boy and a boy or a girl and a girl. But then I read a manga that was about a gay couple and omg I shipped them. After that I was addicted to reading books about boy love. Now I just want to have a world that can accept others. I want people to not be homophobic because the lgbtq community deserves to be treated likes human because they are. (I don’t know if my story makes since but hopefully some of you understand it and if I offended anyone I would like to apologize)
it's weird how people say *"god made you to live straight"* but he clearly made us to love who we want, and which gender identity we want to go under, so i don't get why people are being so picky-
@@newjaens. you spoke of what you said as if it is a fact, but it probably isn't, Google about lgbtq+ Islam or Judaism or Christianity. I'm a Muslim but I don't know your religion.
@@ilovepalestine1791 oh i didnt mean it as a fact (i dont even know what i meant anymore though). Im a catholic, and i was taught that god loved us, even if what we chose was wrong or right. It may not be true, but im pretty sure being gay wasnt included as a "sin". Yes, it may have said marriage was meant for a man and woman, but if so, why would he make us to love the opposite gender? *i dont wanna fight about religous stuff, but im just speaking my mind*
Okay here's a small story line of what happend: Their was a girl named Alice. She didn't really like herself. She was overwhelmed and sad because she wanted to be a boy, but she was scared of what her friends would think. Then she got to her house and turned herself into a boy by cutting her hair. Then she texted her friend that she transgendered herself into a boy, and her friend was good with it. (mini time skip) the Once she turned into a boy, she became scared and sad about people will judge her/him then a couple came in and made fun of Alice/Lin because kin was transgender. Sorry I am bad at pargaphs and explaining and grammar 😐😑😕🤔
he's trans, so him- and not Alice/Lin, just Lin- and uh yes this is a trans story, but if a girl cuts her hair short that looks like a boy's cut doesn't mean that she is a boy, demiboy, demigirl, nonbinary, etc. Same goes with a boy with long hair.
For everyone who doesnt know/confused what transgender is: Transgender is like when a boy or a girl gets surgery to be transformed into a girl ( boy to girl ) and a boy. ( girl to boy ). How to become trans: Either Have Surgery or cut your hair or smthing like that ( idk how to become trans without surgery ). And heres a note for everyone: Please respect everyones pronouns and names.
Hi there! Just wanted to clarify a few things... You don't need surgery to be trans! Transgender is when your mind is trapped in another gender's body. For example, a male's mind could be in a female's body, (like Lin) and they could change their pronouns to fit their mind. However, you can also get surgery to make your outsides match your insides. :)
The "Am I standing like a guy?!" Was like my every day in a nutshell xD By the way, to all my fellow trans people: You are valid no matter what. Other people should not have a say in what you can or can't be. :)
My friends say that i'm to young to be trans. And some of my classmates are thinks i'm really weird. But they only saying it because they don't know the feeling about being trans. I'm a girl right now but i always wanted to be a boy. And one day i will be...
You go! I too wanna be trans but with what my parents are i don't think i can... But you can do you i may not know who you are irl but i will support you through online!.
Mayne there are other reasons why you don't like your body, not just the gender thing. You can feel bad if you're not really skinny, you're physically weak or easy to get sick, or you just don't find yourself beatiful. Before you think about changing genders, you should go through these questions: If I put aside my gender, am I satisfied with my face and body? If my body was male, would it solve my problem or is something else bothering me? Am I sure that I will never regret this decision? Am I ready to face the consequences (hate, bullying, dissapointment, discriminating)? Am I sure that this is the best solution for all my problems or is the problem in my soul, not my body? If you're not ready to face what comes after becoming transgender, you should ask your friends if they're okay with the whole thing (don't say that it's about you, just in general) and talk to your family about it. If they are okay with it, then bring up that you want to be like that. If they are not okay with it, you should try to kindly convince them, but don't go too far. Everybody has an opinion, you can't change that. If you don't know if you're gomna ever regret it, try dressing up tomboy-ish, act like a boy and see how it feels. It's important that you make the actual decision after you're at least 21, because the part of your brain that is capable of making smart decision only becomes fully grown after that age.
I have a best friend that is trans, and some other friends I had would make fun of me for hanging out with them. Now I used to hang out with them(trans friend) all the time during lunch, but one day they were absent so I went to go sit with the people that made fun of our friendship. They made me feel bad about myself and my friend, so i left. It so happened that our next teacher was absent so I had to go tell the sub that my friend was absent and to please not call out their name. I guess they must’ve forgotten and the sub called their birth name. I sat there in shock as the class laughed and made jokes. I feel bad because I never told my friend, something in told me not to tell them. But I feel eventually my conscience will get the best of me and it’ll ruin everything😞
I think its fine and we fully support you!! :3 (By the way! Since you are Ace, I think the correct term would be Panromantic/Polyromantic! SInce ace means you dont feel sexual attraction (WIth some expections) dwb
Bro my cousin is growing up he wants to become a guy but he is still 9 years old and doesn't want the surgery and he keeps finding those "Ms.Potato head" where the surgery makes their face melt, but now thank you for making this 😌💗 Also he is still a "girl" but we are using him/he to make him feel better
As a transgender Demi boy this helps me a lot, it reminds me that I have a place in this world. My parents grew up in a strict household and so did I, when I came out to them, they were not supportive but this opened my eyes making me realize I have a family who loves me for me. Thank you for this! I love you everyone and remember you are valid!
This is sick! Im asexual myself, This is really cool and also we all see you support Lgbtq+/the sexualites Im swedish sorry if i spell a little wrong :
I go to a Christian School and almost all the people there are homophobic....I just want everyone to feel happy about there sexuality/gender identity and whoever is reading this, you are loved no matter what 🏳️🌈💖😊
I like how the people who were being awfully mean to him at least used his prefered pronouns. :)
owo
Wish my school were like that
there’s a lot of reasons why you should be yourself :)
R e s p e c t : D
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The 'am I standing like a guy' was so relatable i-
Edit: guys I didn't even say anything funny why does this have 1.2k likes
ikr same
@@denkikamanari6574 we kaminaris gotta stick together
@@mediacat20 yep
XD
Edit: omg thanks for the likessss
It really is though
“am i standing like a guy”
- me trying to be trans without my parents noticing 2020
me trying to stand like a guy but my parents are homophobic so... but i am just tomboy though
@@malaka5653 go off queen/king remember I’ll always support
@@yourmywoodengirl Thank you so much! im gonna cry. Sending virtual hug.
@@malaka5653 same for u
-me trying to be enby without them noticing
The fact that they bully him, but still respect his pronouns.
They’re not MONSTERS
They may be bitches but the aren't transphobic bitches.
I-
r e s p e c t f u l b u l l i e s ?
@@nicoquinns558 Probably
FR IM LIKE SO THEY NOT GONNA DISRESPECT HIM FULLY RESPECTABLE
Lin: “am I standing like a guy!?”
Me, a trans man: lol felt that
Dude how come you only got 164 likes yet the other guy got 2.2k likes?🤔🧐
mate, stand how you want I've seen male people stand like a female with his hands on his hips, proud AF, and smiling. don't be scared of how you look, stand, feel, or talk!
BRO SAAAAME!!
Mooood
same
Me: literally just standing
My dysphoria: *_yes but would a cisgender man do it like that?_*
HONESTLY, SAME-
I frocking exist and my dysphoria is like, your breathing is too feminine
same bro
Me litteraly having female friends: ...
My dysphoria: ABORT ABORT MOST CISGENDER HETEROSEXUAL MEN HAVE ONLY MALE FRIENDS
Me in public: *relaxinggg* :D
My dysphoria: AM I STANDING LIKE A MAN? DO I LOOK LIKE A MAN?!?! WHAT IF I HAVE TO USE THE BATHROOM??!!? DOES MY FACE LOOK FEMININE? AM I TOO KIND UNLIKE A MAN?!??!?!! AM I DOING ANYTHING RIGHTTTT!??????
Me after: *P A N I K K K*
I’m trans- but everyone calls me a girl because my family doesn’t believe it exists, and is grossed out, but and I don’t really correct people because I’m a introvert, so when people call me a she I’m just chill and never get mad about it. It took my mom and dad 1year for coming out as pan.
Edit: I Didn’t expect to get this much support! Stay strong guys, EVERYONE IS VALID! OwO
Another edit cus WHY NOT!: help I just had a breakdown and I dunno anything about my sexuality anymore-
I hope everything gets better! I’m sure it can get very dysphoric to get called something that you’re not on a daily basis. Remember that you’re you’re valid, loved, appreciated and most importantly; real! 💕
Thank you ^w^ 💕
Well I hope that your family will soon enough love you the the way you are❤, and lets hope that being trans doesn't take longer than a year this time😅
Ask her what would she feel if she was born a boy but still felt the same way she does, it helps just to talk abt it
@@shoyohinata5375 what are your pronouns strawberry? So then I won't use the wrong pronouns ^^
Me years ago: “I’m a tomboy”
Me months ago: “I’m trans”
Me now:”oh shit- I’m Genderfluid”
Yeah thats totally me
that's pretty much me but I think I'm bigender-
Me a few months ago: i'm trans
Me 4 months ago: i'm gender fluid
Me now: oh look- i'm non-binary
*also i'm legally changing my name to Sam in the future*
Me though- yet I found that I’m non-binary instead
I felt that so much. Almost same story, except skip the ‘trans’ part and go straight to Genderfluid
Attention to anybody who feels like they need to hide their emotions,
Your emotions are like a flower,they need to see the light to feel fully,𝗕𝗲𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗳𝘂𝗹🌸
I like your pfp^^
But- I'm just a, stupid faker, and until I'm not sure at 100% of my emotions on won't ever tell them
I don't want to worry everyone for no reason again
Nobody need to know my emotions, I'll just keep them for myself, and btw this comment is one of the only times I actually say my feelings
@@FeuFeuFeuFeu yeah, I feel you, the internet is like the only place I share my feelings but if you want to talk to me you can. If you don't then that's fine!
Thanks!I really needed to hear/see that today!💕
Funny story:
I was going to lidls but on the way there, I dressed like a boy and his my hair under a hat and my hood to make me look like a boy, in the store at the tills,the cashier said "hi buddy" he deserves a raise, also when I was walking back, a elderly man said "hello son" to me
KOKICHI WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE
@@loqwean um uhh umn uhhh, looking for kaito?
Michalina Dzięgiel that dude needs a veteran discount
@@emsub1199 i agree😗✋
@@mika7686 jestes z polski muahahaha
Me being a trans woman-
"Am I standing like a man"
Me: "Am I posing like a woman?"
lmao its sitting for me
I swear at school I thought ‘Am I sitting like a boy? I’m not sitting like a boy. Oh shit.’
I'm not trans, questioning my gender, but I've always struggled with how to act as my 'gender' because sometimes I act like all my guy friends but then I act like a girl around my female friends-
@@smllwlfo4420 gender is fluid don't worry about it
@@smllwlfo4420 I mean, if you act a certain way it doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re trans. Tons of people act feminine and masculine.
"am i standing like a guy"
being a trans guy i feel this
yo I'm asexual to :D
also, in this song its a female going to male, and where most people use the audio as bullies they refer to the character as "he" which is kind of weird if they're trying to bully them for being trans because that kind of shows that they understand that they are a guy now.
(this has nothing to do with the video I just thought about it when watching)
Hello my asexual sisterrr 🥰💞💞💞
Heyyyyy 😋❤️❤️❤️
I think that they’re kinda just bullying him but even bully’s should respect pronouns
That’s really cool :D
I’m gender fluid.
''am i standing like a guy ?''
i've never related to a comment this much-
but yeah, just because i'm trans doesn't mean i'm broken. I'm a HE and i don't need anyones approval to accept who i am.
Another Pansexual pancake like me? Great :D!
why do I love your username lol
@@divinebeast599 why thank you (●'◡'●)
i love how you stand up for yourself. i support 100%! 🏳️🌈🥺❤️
@@theshaun2654 OMG I NEVER KNEW PEOPLE THAT ARE PANSEXUAL ARE CALLED PANCAKES THATS SO FRIKEN CUTEEEEE
Lin: am I standing like a guy?
This is me ever time I stand or walk-
Edit: I went to a sushi place yesterday and when we left the waiter said “bye buddy” and I think he deserves a raise 😂😂
same here
same -v-
Me:Am I standing like a girl?
Friend;No. Your standing like a boy. Stop that.
smae-
Omg same xD
To anyone out there who is transgender, non-binary, gender-fluid or whatever we all support you! I'm glad you are happy in your body now. We love all of you guys, gals, and non-binary pals!
Ok this made me cry- you are amazing, I'm non-binary and this comment is beautiful
and asexual people, anything, the whole lgbtq community, we all love,
(I think I might be Pansexual Asexual.)
But what if I’m confused
I’m non binary & my parents refuse to get me a binder or let me get a job for money for a binder. SMH.
Thank you 🥺💖💜💙
My cousin is trans but my auntie supports her she believes that LGBTQ + people should have rights
I’m gay but no one knew that
@@oddguy8479 you should open up about it to your parents!
they would kick me out oof ;-;
oh btw i’m think i am a little bit yandare .,.
@@oovi1531 kinda?
I’m glad finally a creator doesn’t thing asexual means no romantic interest. That’s aromantic.
yes!!
Yuh
What does asexual mean? I didn't get a really good understanding from this video and google.
@@bonjwour7822 asexual means they don’t experience sexual attraction, a romantic means they don’t experience romantic interest
@@bonjwour7822asexual means u don't feel any sexual attraction towards to someone but u can only feel romantic and emotional attraction to them aromantic means u don't feel any romantic attraction only sexual attraction
"Am I standing *like a guy* "
You don't have "stand like a guy" you're a guy, who stands *normally*
*Do I breathe like a guy-*
@@Site420-J idk do you
@@emiliemerricks4005 Do I?
@@Site420-J do you?
@@Site420-J do you? that’s the real wuestion
“Am I standing like a guy?”
My trans brother who is sitting next to me “damn I felt that”
thank you everyone for watching
You are so nice!!. I thought nobody cared about LGBTQ people. Since I'm a part of it.
dollvity im crying thank you ♡
I think might be that but not sure because I have no interest in being with people Has in ( a couple) and IDK if cuz was not ready or that I might be an asexual.
@@animefreaktheythem8344 how old are you and how long ago did you go through puberty?
@@adigenix I'm 16 ;-;
I feel like a boy in a girls body.
I hate being “girly”, I like stuff that mostly boys like (maybe), and I only feel like hanging out with all of my guy friends, which I have quite a bit of. Don’t take the last thing the wrong way. I just have more things in common with them then all of my female friends. I’m not comfortable with my body, the way I look, and the fact I’m going through puberty right now. ;-;
Good luck on your journey!! No madder who you are or what you are you are still a human that should get treated equally.
same i feel you!
Puberty sucks I feel you!
Floofyjake paul song Marshmallow
I actually used to feel the same way and is still feeling the same way
Feeling uncomfortable with your body is what every gender goes through because of social acceptance
And it's ok that you like "boy stuff"
I love doing things that most common boys do
And I prefer not to do what the world thinks is "girly"
I sometimes too feel like I'm a girl in a guys body but I just found myself by embracing myself as a female that has masculinity
If your more masculine that feminine that's nothing to be ashamed of
Remember we don't need to change,
the world does
But if you truly feel like you aren't yourself than you can do arrangements to help find yourself
Anyways sorry about the long comment 🖤
I’m also asexual but some people don’t take me seriously since “I’m not old enough”
I will take you seriously beacause your are a person a great one (and you are (G U N D H A M ' S servant 💖)
@@Shylahg I will serve him until the end of my days
same. but im also aro and my parents and elder friends and family say i cant decide, im to young, stuff like that
@@chloewatkiins well as my backpack I accept you :,)
Well that's just doesn't make sense age doesn't matter in this situation I'm Still trying to figure myself out you know:>
if you're trans ,non-binary, gay, les, bi, ace, aro, or any part of the lgbt community, i am very proud of you and ily :>
thank you i really needed to hear this 😭
I think I'm trans bc I count myself as a boy but I'm lesbi bc ik I'm not a boy I wish tho
@@0F.E.L.I.X.0 I'm nonbinary and asexual but I think I like girls. I used to think I was trans and bisexual.
thank you
Does pansexual count? If it does, thank you. I very much needed to hear that ☺
X Person: Pansexuals doesn't exist
Me: like your IQ
Yes lol
Does this person require ice for that burn?
I'm pansexual 💁🏼♀️
Yas ✌️
Yes.
my uncle is a trans man, i love him, he's the best! I remember when i was little and suddenly my mom told me that he identified as a he and i should call him by a different name, when i was younger i didnt know what it was but they explained to me that he felt like a boy and that was enough of an explaination to me. I don't see him very often but i love him, he's the sweetest... i'm happy for him
Someone who’s like 5 years older than me use to go to my school he was a boy... everyday he looked different into a girl- now she’s in high school and I saw her walking down the streets every day! :D
my google search history:
woman standing
man standing
am i gender fluid?
pictures of baby ducks
my google search history:
percy jackson memes
harry potter memes
do fish blink
do plants fart
what would happen if i didnt do my online school
Uhh.. how about my one of my google search history is
"Are 13 years old girl that have height 129 cm is normal"
@@user-rd8gv9in2i sorry to break it to you bud, thats a very short height for a teen-
My search history:
*How to breath*
Mine
How to cut your own hair
Kiribaku
Am i lesbian?
Girl in red songs
Am i non binary?
Lmao
As a trans guy, I keep my Identity a secret for a reason, my old friends bullied me and say why are you changing your gender??. And my mom says you can't change your gender and it's just a phase but I feel hella uncomfortable in this body.
"I can't really think in this place" That hit me hard, I feel like I don't belong in this place.
So i appreciate you making this thanks for reading.
Even though I won't come out and tell everyone that I'm trans it still makes me happy that I have some friends that care for me and support me. Even though my mom say "get rid of all that stuff and if I see you talking to people online I'm taking your phone away" even though I'm 18 she is controlling me and I can't tell her to stop.
I have bad mental health problems, and my mom says no to a therapist and say "no one will get in my business" and she doesn't respect me. I told her I have signs of BPD but she says don't self-diagnose yourself even though she acts like a narcissist.
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And I can't get up and leave, I have to deal with more toxic abusive family, some of them does drugs, and some drinks way too much and half of them are rapists. So I have nowhere to call home so I can't come out I feel like everyone will judge me for it. And when I was 6 my own dad touched me and all my life I got bullied, I was homeless, got abused, and etc.
Even later in life I got toxic myself and very manipulate/abusive because I couldn't get help and everyone I ask for help just left me or rejected me.
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I'm kinda getting better but school is making my mental health worst again, They expect me to all of this bs and it's hella help so someone is at least trying to help me to get special education classes I have a learning disability and I can't it. I would say I'm smart but not smart enough.
Now.. I'm starting to love myself even though some people hate me because how toxic I was idc hate all you want I didn't mean to hurt anyone I guess in the time I was trying to get attention but I did it in a wrong way?.
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But, I've learned to recover from my past and learned from my mistakes, and look to the future it may take me a while but Me (Alex) will stop at nothing to become a writer/game designer/game developer.
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Again thanks for reading you don't have to believe me but idc it's my story we all have our own opinion.
Edit:
I came out as agender and I'm much more happy and my mom is well.. Still paranoid as ever
That’s really bad... is there a way I can help or since you’re 18 you can run away or I don’t even know!
dang you have more perseverance in your pinky than I have in my whole body I hope you get through this.
Oh **** I'm so sorry you had to go threw that..I hope your okay now
Oh damn, Nobody should have to deal with that, I send my regards and I hope you make It though this, I truly wish I could do something more, But for now I hope you're ok!
believe. even if it seems impossible. just look forward and things WILL get better. you are not like them. i believe in u
''Shoot for the moon, and if you miss, reach for the stars.''
i support u all ^w^
The “Am i standing like a guy” part has me...
Because it’s Relatable..
😄😄😄😄😄😄☺☺☺😁😁😁😁
My parents took my phone and read through everything. I was in the closet and a few friends had locks but ig my parents learned to lock pick and pried me out of my comfort some when I was ready to come out. They now know I’m transgender and instead of getting me help they cut off all communication between my friends .. who at this point... are the only things keeping me alive. I tried to explain to my parents and they say “being suicidal isn’t a way to get your phone back” I tried and tried to tell them It’s not my friends fault it was me the whole time and they’re everything to me and I told them my problems with my eating disorder, gender dysphoria, depression, anxiety, my self-harming addiction and you know what... they sent me to a support group for all girls. That really freaking hurts being sent to one after you come out as trans and say you use he/they pronouns. My self harm spiked up and I was really suicidal and my parents just say friends won’t solve it they’re just temporary but atleast I’m happier temporarily... atleast I’m alive temporarily right..? They’re freaking liars. Saying theyll love and support me no matter what saying they want what best for we and it’ll be best in the long run.. but what if there isn’t a long run? ... They made a deal with me. If I’m “true” to myself and use my dead name and the wrong pronouns and stop taking about lgbtq they’ll let me speak to my friends. But it’s not really helping because nobody is using my name and nobody is using my pronouns now.
Im so sorry I know how that feels. My parents did the exact same thing to me too except they found out I was lesbian and I was very close to suicide if it wast for my younger siblings. Im so glad you survived and you're okay. Never forget there are still people out there who will accept you for who you are and not everyone is like your parents :)
Awh :( it is ok you can always talk to someone in comments like you are now please do not harm yourself anymore :(
Someone once said to me,
“I dont know you and you do not know me, but we are both human, and we should help eachother, so if you need anyone to talk to you can go to my videos” or something, and in any vids, if u have problems you can talk to me, ok? I got you. Your an amazing guy and I understand you. Even if it not my vids, someone will help you ok? Everyone.. there is always atleast someone. I hope your parents understand soon..anyway, we are complete strangers, but remember, you can always ask for help :) i love you.
That's so cute and awesome!!
People should be all respectful.
Thank you 🥺👉👈💕
Ok fam.
@@696ty9 no fam
@@696ty9 do fams
@@696ty9 pkqipnq fa
I’m a pansexual and possibly a transgender male. And the part that said “doesn’t know who he is yet” hits home because I honestly have no idea if I’m actually a boy or girl. My friends accept me but I’m scared about telling my family. I’m also non-binary and even tho I’ve told my family “Use my pronouns, They/them” they always use she/her and it just makes me feel bad.
Napper I’m sorry that that’s happening to you, people really needs to be more respectful. A few months ago I think I figured out my sexuality, my best friend helped, I’m biromantic but I’m still not entirely sure about my sexuality
I'm non-binary tho! Welcome :p
Honestly it they shouldn't care about that stuff because you are you and that's all that matters ❤️ I wish you the best of luck with finding the true you no matter who that may be wether it's he/him, she/her, they/them, or anything else.♥️♥️♥️♥️ Btw I'm bi😊 so never feel like you're alone in the lgbtq+ community because there will always be people out there who accept you for you! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day/night byeeeee😙✌️
we all support you (girl or dude idk what u wanna be called) I am bisexual get all the support from this message:
you are human not perfect we respect you and support you and don't care who or what you want to be we love you unconditionaly cheers to your friends and cheers to you. It gets better stick with it :)
grace mccorquodale Just for future reference, from what I can tell, non-binary people like the lovely individual who made this comment, usually prefer “they, them” pronouns, aka gender neutral ones. And instead of using a moniker like “girl, or dude”, try the person’s name, of course, the one they WANT to be called, and not their dead name, if they have one. Idk, this is just what I would do, lol
I like that u acknowledged the fact that the song says that the person is asexual, a lot of these just ignore that part and I always get annoyed at that part cause meh homies need representation, too. In asexual and aromantic and I feel we need to acknowledge every part of the LGBTQIA+ Community and not just parts :)
Yup! As an asexual person myself, there’s a lack of representation for us, so I wanted to make sure I added that in the video, and so I give respects to ‘cavetown’ who’s asexual and aromantic ^^
I'm demisexual, demiromantic and trans. Even though I can fall in love, it's difficult and it frustrates me so much. I kinda wish I was "normal" sometimes-
As a FtM transgender asexual lesbian, I can definitely relate to this. I agree, the aces and aros get so little representation and we need to spread awareness
@@hannahbanana78
Your opinion is excluding a group of people from an accepting community because of something they don't do?
_vanilla, so you’re just gonna shame aces and aros for being themselves and who they truely are because they don’t “fit” your “opinion” on what a person in the LGBTQIAP+ should be like.
For one, the LGBTQIAP+ doesn’t just include sexual preference it also includes gender identity like Trans, GenderFluid, Bigender, Non-Binary etc.
For two, they do belong in LGBTQIAP+ for your information, anyone who isn’t straight or cis is apart of the LGBTQIAP+ community, because in your “opinion” were they don’t “belong in the LGBTQIAP+” then where do they belong, huh? Where do they belong?
Why don’t you do more research before you start babbling on about someone “fitting” your expectations next time?
"am I standing like a guy?"
that hit a little too close to home man.
I never had to worry if I sat or standed like a guy because I haven’t been comfy in my body since I was 8 so I would always how i saw boys sit and my mom had only boys and I was her first daughter so I didn’t want to tell her that I’d didn’t feel comfortable because she would always tell me how much she wanted a girl and how she was so happy to have a daughter but when my little sister was born I felt like I could tell her because she has another daughter and my sister is 6 now and is in love with makeup and pink and before I told my mom I left little hints like I started dressing like a guy and asking if I could stop in the mens section and then I finally told her and she supported me!
Thats good! I support you to!❤️
Aw Thats Awesome!!
My Mother isnt like That..
I really Feel Like i Want to Be a Boy since i was 10/11
But Im scared To tell her.
(Idk If its Illegal In my Religion But Ik That she wont Agree With me)
Nadja Kostek thats true..😊
Ayy! I love hearing stories like this! If ur thinking to transition physically, there’s subliminals to make people look more like a boy in certain ways, whichid recommend bc they’re free. Just a tip lol u don’t have to if u don’t want to do anything physically. I hope you are accepted everywhere!
@• OliveMuffinPop • im Scared to Talk To her :/
I'm the only one who doesn't expect the “He's name is alex”
Now, it's a good day to remember.
(Amazing videoo! ✨💕)
“Am I standing like a guy?” Ha, meee-
Hi, I believe we've met. Second time I've seen you if you don't count Wattpad.
If I have the wrong person ima be super embarassed ;-;
SparklePlayzUA-cam1 oh hey, yeah this is the second time-
I feel the same way but I'm a female! I'm so feminine and yet I stand like a *guy*
Same tbh I also really hate my voice and my really feminine legs
"Often I am upset"
*#relatable** / crying duck noises*
Bro I am transgender myself and you represented it so well! A lot of the other Gacha ones are unrepresentative because they automatically make the character gay all the time. It annoys me a lot but you represented this so well and I relate to Lin so so much. Thank you for representing the trans community!
Song: “That I can not fall in love”
Video: *puts an ace flag*
Me: Thats illegal-
LSKJDJW I wanted to make Lin have a love interest so I only made him asexual, I will try to make an aromantic tribute tho 🥰
·>·
Hi 4th my fwend
《•Secret People•》
._.
TF R U DOING HERE-
0:36 NOOOO DON’T WEAR BANDAGES. THEY’RE REALLY BAD FOR YOUR SPINE.
(I’m not trans myself but I wanna give some advice to people who are)
I think it was meant to be a binder and since he didn’t have a binder it probably made him feel more comfortable but I didn’t know it could affect your back
Thank you for alerting us.
I'll share this to my friend
bind safely, trans folks
I’m bisexual and ive gone on a date with another girl and she’s really pretty and nice but y’know how there’s a spectrum for autistic people, well if there was one fir homophobic people my mum would be right at the top- she would almost smash the spectrum- and the rest of my family would be a bit above the bottom, so I don’t know how to tell my parents- or anyone other then my friends really for that matter. All my friends are part of the LGBT 🏳️🌈 community, most are bi like me but one is lesbian and another is pan, and another is deciding on being polysexual. There’s on tho who on of my bi friends had a crush on and we found out that she was our only friend that was straight. We thought she would still support us but it turned out she too was homophobic, but back to what I was saying before about a homophobe “spectrum”, she would be around the bottom. But my friend that had a crush on her is kinda depressed now. This is a really good video, thankyou so very much for making it. 2 of my friends (including one that ive gone on the date with that I’m planning on asking to be my girlfriend) have anxiety, and the one that I have fantasies of being my GF has an older sister whom is very depressed and suicidal. I was not to long ago suicidal, I even attempted it. I discovered how homophobic my parents were when I joked about dating my dog (whom is a girl) and it upsets me to see that they are. I know this is quite a bit of stuff for me to take in when I’m only a teenager, but a promise that I would give my life to keep is that I will *forever* be supporting the LGBTQ+ community.
Love this video UwU
oof same. except for one of my friends, the rest i believe are in lgbtq+
hey girl, I'm heteroflexible. You are an amazing person, if your parents aren't there for you I am. But most of all I SHIP YOU AND YOUR CRUSH/FRIEND SO MUCH!! HOPE IT WORKS OUT!! 🤩❤
Serena C. Aww tysm, it means the world for someone to say that 😊
@@seungminsabc np ❤ a community should support all it's members
I really hope your life turns out good, and even if your parents aren't there for you I will be 👍
I'm a Polysexual lesbian but I'm trying to get my family to accept I wanna be a guy! My mom's the worst, but she's okay with the liking girls part (She's Bi-sexual)
Aw, I hope they come to the realization that you can be whoever you want to be, and this is just who you are. Just know, that it’ll eventually get better 💗
I my self am a Polysexual Pansexual trans guy and i have no one in my house who is okay with me only my cousin, friends and my girlfriend.
If I was your mom you would all ready be a boy:)
Well I hope she'll expect you! (:
Well she’s not the worst if she accepts you. Be fucking grateful.
This is awesome! The song fits perfectly, and I know it’s about trans people.
Thanks for spreading awareness. It feels good people actually care about trans people.
I once saw a trans person on tik tok who’s mom kicked them out.. pretty sure they’re doing fine now.
No worries, I’m always up for spreading awareness about the LGBTQ+ community 💞 Yup, I’ve heard about the “His Name Is Alex” situation, it’s very saddening, but it’s good to see he’s doing good now ^^
I hope MY mom doesn't kick me out when I'm old enough, she seems pretty fed up with my "Transgender sh*t" she keeps saying "You're a girl *Insert Name* act like it!" I know she means well but my mental health is already tipping to major depression so...
I feel really accepted!
@Vodka & Bagelz Just remember that me and millions of other people love and support you fully. You were born this way and you cannot change that, and you shouldn’t change for the sake of some petty people who reject your identity. You’re perfectly valid, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise! 😄💖
@@kreideprinz1728 It's like - NO OFFENSE TO THE TRANS COMMUNITY! - trans people feel broken and go that extra mile to fix themselves so they feel comfortable with who they are...
I wanna do that!
@@kreideprinz1728 i wish I could live with my friends instead and cut my hair... oh and you shouldn't have put bandages on him cuz it is very dangerous. It is similar to taping that area...
This was very sweet :3 Most GLMVs/GCMVs about pride are layered very thick with tragedy and depression, but in this one Lin had his friends to support and protect him through all his hard times, and he got his happy ending.
Me: freaking crying
Mom: why r u crying
Me: shows her this vid
Mom: I support you
Yeah I'm trans
CONGRATULATIONS 🎈🎊 i support you to!!!
That’s a FLIPPIN AWESOME Mom right there! 🥺
I support you too!!
I have a question. How do you know you are trans? I’m a supporter don’t worry I’m not hating I want to know for myself. I’m a girl, possible non bianary person! I feel girly, but I feel like I’m not exactly girl or boy but I have a gender.... please help me!
@@someone857 theres no specific time, it just depends what gender feels right to you and what pronouns you're comfortable with! don't try and rush yourself
My mom doesn’t care if I’m trans- she’s homophobic but not transphobic-
Tbh I wanna become trans bc I feel more like a boy then a female but my parents and friends probably won't accept me and Idk what to do.. TwT
Wølfï Churrø Maybe give them hints first. Small hints. I think first when you feel ready, tell you friends first. If they don’t accept you they are toxic. Then after that, ask your mom or dad if they are homophobic or transphobic. If they reply no, you should talk about it with good real friends. I know some friends will make you feel happy, and safe. I hope you come out and have a good life. Stay strong! ❤️
@@brif6232 Aww tysvm! Thanks for the help! You do the same hon! 💙^^
Then she wouldn't like me😂
@@wlfichurr9815 you can't just become trans, if you're thinking like that then that would most possibly be envy.
I’m eating Doritos while eating this thinking: “am I a trans boy?”
Relatable-
SAMEEE
Exactly what I thought last year when I was noticing I was trans.
Me: wait am I trans-
I’ll support you :)
Out of all of the “this is home”s this one is easily my favourite.
My boyfriend who wants to be a boy: Yes relatable.
You mean your transgender boyfriend
So... They’re a boy, then. If they want to be a boy and they feel like a boy then they’re your boyfriend. Not your girlfriend.
Yea sorry I'm used to calling him a girl because I have known him as a girl most my life.
@@koi.the.fish. I’m glad you’re learning :) it might take a while to settle in but he’s probably happier now (The way I phrased it makes it sound like he’s dead, lol. I hope he’s not)
@@quincyfulton793 Yea and thankfully he isnt dead XD
It's sad that people can be so disrespectful
I mean we should all be treated as equals I don't see why people can't understand that. Gay, lesbian, bi, trans, black or white we are still all humans and deserve much more respect than what we are given.
Btw I really enjoyed watching this! It was sad yet cute, keep up the good work! 🤭🙃
@Amber xox I agree massively! Respect and human decency is unfortunately not common sense, but I’m glad there’s people like you who spread these messages. I appreciate it ^^ 💕💕
@@kreideprinz1728 💕🙂
Yeah. Why do people make such a big deal over something that doesn't effect them? The most change it will cause is their brother no being their sister, or the other way around. It doesn't effect you.
@@rosairedaigle7816 ikr it's just sad that ppl are so cruel
You should only be disrespectful to people who disrespect you and are rude
This feels like a safe spot for the trans, and LGBTQ+ community it's amazing 😊😊😊ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ I give hugs now ;w;
*le hug*
I want a hug please *puppy eyes*
@@sans_puns_4594 *hug*
Me: *a girl*
Also me: *not wanting a gender*
Again, me: *wanting to be a boy*
Me now: *being all genders even if I’m too young to declare my gender or sexuality.*
“I support you!” Is the the most beautiful thing a LGBT+ person could hear, too bad I haven’t heard it..
Welp here you go...
I support you!
Hopefully that helped :D
It is honestly a blessing to hear those words
Jose Guerrero awww :)
@@heavensloser4790 Just want everyone to know that we are all unique and I support the LGBT community :D
Jose Guerrero your a really sweet person and I thank you for you for being so kind and excepting
I feel like the reason the “bullies” or whatever you guys call them use “he” though making fun of the character / trans person for being trans is so it’s not confusing, because it would sound like it’s switching onto a different character, like,
“get a load of this monster, he doesn’t know how to communicate” they use masculine pronouns so you know they’re talking about the trans man, if they were to say;
“get a load of this monster, *she* doesn’t know how to communicate” it might confuse listeners, or sound like they’re talking about someone else, or bullying a girl.
excuse my bad english.
This is true people needs to not bully transgender people becouse everyone of us has a gender sometimes we
like girls or
boys you maybe
gay,
Lesbian
,Asexual
,straight
:) Be nice to everyone who has a diffrent gender even tho him/her is your bully or your sibling,friends
Always support Pride :D✨💞💜❤
mhm even they them we welcome anyone 💕💕💕💕 :DD
That’s not gender that’s sexuality but I agree with the message 100%
Also they/them
Thi makes me wanna come out as trans so bad!😭😭💖💖💖
@@ez_the_cactus3737 do it girl!!!! :-P
No matter how many times I would tell my mom that I'm trans she just says
"It's a phase, you'll get over it" and it makes me so upset that she can't accept it..
1:26 this is so relatable.
BTW the video was amazing! :)
i love that you put his name is alex, his "mother" should be proud to have a son like him.
HIS NAME IS ALEX!
Some people love their own gender, others are born in the wrong gender, ofcourse some dont have a gender, some people cant decide their gender, others love not only one gender and thats all right! No matter who you are, you deverse love, be who you are. Nobody is a Freak or a Mistake! Whe are just humans! And thazs how the world works! So dont listen to the others and be who you are!
So sweet❤️ ÓwÒ
Someone doesn’t care about their gender.. like me
Thanks I needed this... :)
I'm Bisexual, so the 'love not only one gender' part is relatable :) 💖
This made me cry ;w;
Fun fact! The person who wrote this song is aromatic!
you are valid and always remember that! i have gone through my fair shares of homophobia through my stepsister. it was hard, but know that you matter, and that you are loved and supported by a lot of people
He: **behind the mirror**
The mirror: **look at him**
Also me: **screaming cause scared**
Lmao
This video means a lot to me cuz I'm also asexual, my brother is trans ftm, one of my close friends are non-binary and I may or may mot be a leabian!
Most people dont even know what asexuality is, let alone respect us! I can't believe our own community hates on us -,-
By the way if you're bullying or disrespecting and discriminated against for being who you are just tell me I'll beat somebody :)
Sorry i know this comment is long but I love this fbjdbxjdh
Also Cavetown is just ✨ Y E S ✨
Im sorry for the rude question but I'm confused. Is is possible to be asexual and lesbian because asexual is not attracted to anyone but lesbian is attracted to females.
@B N9476 Ok thanks! Based on that definition i may be asexual myself to be honest (yet the only romantic attraction is to an anime character-)
@@eijiroukirishima4138 I dont find it offensive do not worry! Asexuality is not having secual attraction. People can be asexual and lesbian because they are only romantically attracted to women
@B N9476 Yea most likely. Anyway its bakugou, mainly because i relate in everyway possible tbh im only nice online but irl im kinda an ass.
i would normally hate this but its true and beautiful
i am bisexual
Eyy same 🏳️🌈
@@quivercat6911 :3
As someone who’s trans and ace, this just felt like my whole life story up to now-
I may be straight but I do support LGBTQ+, and that was so cute and wholesome. That was so amazing.
Same :)
Ty darling, I’m glad you support the community! 💕😊
I didn't think I'd every relate to a glmv XD. I wish I could cut my hair ;; Also, just wanted to take this moment to say that binding with bandages is really hurtful for your lungs, and in some cases you might end up not being able to bind at all, or get top surgery because of the damage!
It is really tempting tho, but you can find a lot of videos on how to bind safely without bandages or a binder, or how to make a good binder! Also, even if you have a binder, please, don't bind for more that 6-8 hours/day! That can also damage your lungs!
This right here!! ^ Binding safely is very important so you don’t damage yourself 💕
i wish i could cut my hair too... the shortest i'm allowed is a bob
am i speaking like a boy? or am i too girl? T^T
My friend came out to me as pangender(i think thats what its called) where you go by all pronouns she was pressured to do so because she had shaved her hair causing people to think she is a boy and its hit her hard one time i confessed that i liked her (we both les)and she said she liked me back or that we used to like each other, anyway i just wanted to say like dont pressure yourself to feel like you have to be a certain gender or sexuality!
@@Jun_o.2 both
@@kreideprinz1728 my friend binds
I really dont want to be THAT person, but...
When you're asexual you can still have romantic fellings for someone, you just don't feel sexual attraction and you would rather not do "it".
If you don't feel romantic attraction it means you're aromantic
Again I really didn't wanna say someone was wrong, but who knows maybe I helped someone to understand their own sexuallity
ty for pointing that out I was gonna say it to
yeah, I was gonna comment it but then i realized that the creator put that "asexual people can still have romantic attraction" so maybe Lin is Aromantic and asexual, they just used the asexual flag.
Heyya! Lin is only asexual so therefore I only put the asexual flag [I wanted him to have a love interest (=^・^=)] but I am making an Aromantic awareness video ^^*
Me at the beginning: don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry me at the end:😭 this is the first video i've ever seen about how hard being transgender is
"Am I standing like a guy?" Literally me
WAIT THERES AN ALERT THE ALART IS CALLED
THIS VIDEO IS UNDERRATED
Kanxnckssk 🥺💕
After reading many comments in this video telling their stories, I want to tell mine. I’m straight (and Christian) and I used to be homophobic I always kept my opinion to myself because literally it’s rude to just tell someone their disgusting for having a sexually. I was only against it because of my beliefs, I started watching anime at the age of 9 or 8 and I never like people shipping a boy and a boy or a girl and a girl. But then I read a manga that was about a gay couple and omg I shipped them. After that I was addicted to reading books about boy love. Now I just want to have a world that can accept others. I want people to not be homophobic because the lgbtq community deserves to be treated likes human because they are. (I don’t know if my story makes since but hopefully some of you understand it and if I offended anyone I would like to apologize)
I have a transgender buddy and now know how he feels. I will make sure no one hurts him next year when school starts
You: Fun fact: I am a asexual Me: Finally another person like me who actually understands what aSEXUAL means! :)
it's weird how people say *"god made you to live straight"*
but he clearly made us to love who we want, and which gender identity we want to go under, so i don't get why people are being so picky-
You need to study religion before stating a fact, you should sit with a religious person and talk with him about everything there is to talk about
I was scared.. I was thinking that.
@@ilovepalestine1791 i dont really understand what you said-
(sorry im just rlly tired rn)
@@newjaens. you spoke of what you said as if it is a fact, but it probably isn't, Google about lgbtq+ Islam or Judaism or Christianity.
I'm a Muslim but I don't know your religion.
@@ilovepalestine1791 oh i didnt mean it as a fact (i dont even know what i meant anymore though). Im a catholic, and i was taught that god loved us, even if what we chose was wrong or right. It may not be true, but im pretty sure being gay wasnt included as a "sin". Yes, it may have said marriage was meant for a man and woman, but if so, why would he make us to love the opposite gender?
*i dont wanna fight about religous stuff, but im just speaking my mind*
some transegenders of the are just not satisfied and uncomfortable about there body it's OK you'll still have a place in society
I still come back to watch this video 2 years after ❤️ I love this so much
This is literally the cutest thing I have ever seen.
Okay here's a small story line of what happend: Their was a girl named Alice. She didn't really like herself. She was overwhelmed and sad because she wanted to be a boy, but she was scared of what her friends would think. Then she got to her house and turned herself into a boy by cutting her hair. Then she texted her friend that she transgendered herself into a boy, and her friend was good with it. (mini time skip) the Once she turned into a boy, she became scared and sad about people will judge her/him then a couple came in and made fun of Alice/Lin because kin was transgender.
Sorry I am bad at pargaphs and explaining and grammar 😐😑😕🤔
he's trans, so him- and not Alice/Lin, just Lin-
and uh yes this is a trans story, but if a girl cuts her hair short that looks like a boy's cut doesn't mean that she is a boy, demiboy, demigirl, nonbinary, etc. Same goes with a boy with long hair.
@@playskoolgloworm Yes because lin/alice dozen't feel comfortable being a girl
@@tarubin6412 But he's not Lin/Alice, just Lin.
*he
It would be more respectful if you referred to them as "he"
For everyone who doesnt know/confused what transgender is:
Transgender is like when a boy or a girl gets surgery to be transformed into a girl ( boy to girl ) and a boy. ( girl to boy ).
How to become trans:
Either Have Surgery or cut your hair or smthing like that ( idk how to become trans without surgery ).
And heres a note for everyone:
Please respect everyones pronouns and names.
Hi there! Just wanted to clarify a few things... You don't need surgery to be trans! Transgender is when your mind is trapped in another gender's body. For example, a male's mind could be in a female's body, (like Lin) and they could change their pronouns to fit their mind. However, you can also get surgery to make your outsides match your insides. :)
@@julesmodels oh, Thank you for telling me !
@@sainsglitch1335 No problem! Thank you for being so open-minded! 😁
;w; So- I’m not transgender- ?
I think its also considered as an umbrella term for non binary
As a closeted trans person, I really love this! I felt the "Am I standing like a guy?" lmao-
The "Am I standing like a guy?!" Was like my every day in a nutshell xD
By the way, to all my fellow trans people: You are valid no matter what. Other people should not have a say in what you can or can't be. :)
Am I trans if I became non-binary? Just asking, its ok if you don't know the answer, Im confused about it
@@meganbowden8651 yes ❤️
My friends say that i'm to young to be trans.
And some of my classmates are thinks i'm really weird.
But they only saying it because they don't know the feeling about being trans.
I'm a girl right now but i always wanted to be a boy.
And one day i will be...
You go! I too wanna be trans but with what my parents are i don't think i can... But you can do you i may not know who you are irl but i will support you through online!.
Hope you get to be a boy! You technically are already a boy if you wanna be. You just aren’t in the right physical body.
🏳🌈-Human ✊🏽-Human ✊🏾-Human ✊🏿-Human ✊🏼-Human
“Am i standing like a guy?” Most relatable line ever
This sorta sounds like me I’m not comfortable being a girl but I feel if I try to become trans no one will except me.
Mayne there are other reasons why you don't like your body, not just the gender thing. You can feel bad if you're not really skinny, you're physically weak or easy to get sick, or you just don't find yourself beatiful.
Before you think about changing genders, you should go through these questions:
If I put aside my gender, am I satisfied with my face and body?
If my body was male, would it solve my problem or is something else bothering me?
Am I sure that I will never regret this decision?
Am I ready to face the consequences (hate, bullying, dissapointment, discriminating)?
Am I sure that this is the best solution for all my problems or is the problem in my soul, not my body?
If you're not ready to face what comes after becoming transgender, you should ask your friends if they're okay with the whole thing (don't say that it's about you, just in general) and talk to your family about it. If they are okay with it, then bring up that you want to be like that.
If they are not okay with it, you should try to kindly convince them, but don't go too far. Everybody has an opinion, you can't change that.
If you don't know if you're gomna ever regret it, try dressing up tomboy-ish, act like a boy and see how it feels.
It's important that you make the actual decision after you're at least 21, because the part of your brain that is capable of making smart decision only becomes fully grown after that age.
Kiara Time Thanks a lot! you gave me more to think about and some advice. Thanks again.
I have a best friend that is trans, and some other friends I had would make fun of me for hanging out with them. Now I used to hang out with them(trans friend) all the time during lunch, but one day they were absent so I went to go sit with the people that made fun of our friendship. They made me feel bad about myself and my friend, so i left. It so happened that our next teacher was absent so I had to go tell the sub that my friend was absent and to please not call out their name. I guess they must’ve forgotten and the sub called their birth name. I sat there in shock as the class laughed and made jokes. I feel bad because I never told my friend, something in told me not to tell them. But I feel eventually my conscience will get the best of me and it’ll ruin everything😞
This is so good! Thank you for bringing light to the actual meaning of the song 🥺
the power of liking yourself is the greatest power ever
I’m pansexual and poly, asesexual. I hate hiding it I’m so young so they think it’s a dumb thing but I’m gonna be me!
I think its fine and we fully support you!! :3 (By the way! Since you are Ace, I think the correct term would be Panromantic/Polyromantic! SInce ace means you dont feel sexual attraction (WIth some expections) dwb
be what you want do not care what others thinksk!
@@RestInReeses actually, for the second one, it would be "polyamourous" in either case. polysexual and polyamorous are *two different things!*
I feel the same way, but my family would think I'm crazy
I don’t think you’re crazy at all, your feelings and identity are very important please remember that :) 💕
Bro my cousin is growing up he wants to become a guy but he is still 9 years old and doesn't want the surgery and he keeps finding those "Ms.Potato head" where the surgery makes their face melt, but now thank you for making this 😌💗
Also he is still a "girl" but we are using him/he to make him feel better
To any trans people out there, you’re amazing and wonderful, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise
Me: **sees beginning**
Me: I'm asexual too!
I'm not trans but I get this cause I'm kinda confused on my pro nouns myself :)
I love this! And am also trans!
As a transgender Demi boy this helps me a lot, it reminds me that I have a place in this world. My parents grew up in a strict household and so did I, when I came out to them, they were not supportive but this opened my eyes making me realize I have a family who loves me for me. Thank you for this! I love you everyone and remember you are valid!
This is sick! Im asexual myself, This is really cool and also we all see you support Lgbtq+/the sexualites
Im swedish sorry if i spell a little wrong :
I go to a Christian School and almost all the people there are homophobic....I just want everyone to feel happy about there sexuality/gender identity and whoever is reading this, you are loved no matter what 🏳️🌈💖😊
I'm bi/pan but my mom doesn't support it, and I'm scared of telling her