Eminem - Headlights ft. Nate Ruess EMOTIONAL REACTION

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  • @samstacey5348
    @samstacey5348 7 місяців тому +62

    I didn't talk to my mom for 12 years. I heard this song and immediately reconnected with her. She passed 6 months later. RIP to my mother and yours

    • @hankson8
      @hankson8 4 місяці тому +4

      Glad u touched base with her

  • @Blinkptx
    @Blinkptx 8 місяців тому +165

    Going Through Changes by Eminem has got me through a lot. Hands down my favorite song by him.

    • @badcompany403
      @badcompany403 8 місяців тому +5

      Agree

    • @Andrew-vx2rw
      @Andrew-vx2rw 8 місяців тому +4

      I hope to see this one very soon

    • @jayhop
      @jayhop 8 місяців тому +7

      It's weird, not many stans like that song but i agree it's essential to the Eminem catalogue, not the lyrical acrobats we've been accustomed to but it just hits hard

    • @thunder4772
      @thunder4772 7 місяців тому +3

      The sampled song is one of my favourites.

    • @ras523sar
      @ras523sar 7 місяців тому +3

      It's probably top 3 em songs going through changes

  • @MrScrewdup
    @MrScrewdup 8 місяців тому +127

    Even before you said anything I can tell every line was hitting you hard. It's amazing that you broke that cycle even with everything you had to overcome. RIP to your parents.

  • @gabrielkain1
    @gabrielkain1 8 місяців тому +66

    I have a similar story with my father. I appreciate you sharing your story. I know how painful it is, but talking about it can make you feel better. The pain will never go away, but you have become stronger due to your pain. Your Brave.

    • @lillyjanereacts
      @lillyjanereacts  8 місяців тому +25

      Thank you, I was so nervous to post this video so the encouragement means a lot 😊

    • @giovannigio3764
      @giovannigio3764 8 місяців тому +4

      @@lillyjanereactsBetter one honest reaction than a million fake reactions. Sorry to hear your sad story, i hope you can stay strong and i hope you get support from your family and friends to get through the hard times. I don't know you but i think i can say from the reaction videos that you are a good, kind and smart person so you are doing great. If your mother could see you i know she would be very proud of you. The pain can't go away but try to focus on the good things that still are in your life, i really hope your family and friends are there for you.

  • @brandonayong5823
    @brandonayong5823 8 місяців тому +54

    Many artists get personal in their songs but NO ONE puts emotions in a realer way than Eminem. And you're right I absolutely love his skillful songs where he just raps in an impressive way and I like his comedy songs but his story songs and songs where he just pours his heart out are by far his best
    Thank you for this reaction ❤ you're amazing

  • @DigitalApex
    @DigitalApex 8 місяців тому +9

    I grew to never hate my folks for existing, but to appreciate them for trying.

  • @LOL-di8gu
    @LOL-di8gu 8 місяців тому +36

    This song got to me for various reasons and then you broke down why you related to it and it was such a comfort. The human experience can be terrifying and awful but it can also be amazing when you get to share it with kindred spirits. Thank you for your honesty and reaction to this song. The world is a large place but we are all in this together, making it feel very small after all.

    • @lillyjanereacts
      @lillyjanereacts  8 місяців тому +4

      Your comment really made me smile. Thank you.

  • @bkboy2384
    @bkboy2384 8 місяців тому +21

    I'm sure your mother knows you forgive her....and this is why em is so loved....he doesn't sugar coat his real life...he puts it out there for all of us since day 1.....that's what makes him one of the best not rappers....but artists ever....love ur channel and your amazing!!

  • @carl49494
    @carl49494 8 місяців тому +18

    I 100% appreciate you and your honesty to tell us your story. ❤

  • @mikeaston5201
    @mikeaston5201 8 місяців тому +7

    Em just has a way of reaching people x

  • @EKS90
    @EKS90 8 місяців тому +7

    Not afraid by eminem literally made me crawl out of my anxiety and stress hole and pull myself up more times than I can count, other than that, going trough changes is also one.
    Saw you already reacted to not afraid but Figured I'd give my story anyway.

  • @2011bapc
    @2011bapc 6 місяців тому +4

    This is basically my mom and mine relationship til this day. I will always love her but there is no way to get the time back from my childhood that was lost to me. This one brings tears to my eyes and hits home for sure.

  • @frankie007
    @frankie007 8 місяців тому +10

    👍🏽👍🏽 please check castle and rose by Eminem .. but you have do it together..

  • @InsubstantVibrator
    @InsubstantVibrator 6 місяців тому +2

    shit im crying with you, my mom was an alcoholic and died 5 years ago and I didnt get to explain anything to her, and I found her dead in her apartment shit, the whole of the recovery album helped me carry through the toughest times of my life.

  • @alexandersson1869
    @alexandersson1869 8 місяців тому +14

    Thank you Lilly, I know this was painful, but to me its cathartic. I lost my brother due to drugs and then my dad..my mom had to ”wrangle a teenage dirtbag” you Did amazing as always, and now I have someone to cry with when I need it.

  • @Ericstone40
    @Ericstone40 8 місяців тому +7

    Eminem talking to myself got me through a lot

    • @gonzalocortez49
      @gonzalocortez49 8 місяців тому

      Going Through Changes helped me

    • @Ericstone40
      @Ericstone40 8 місяців тому

      I forgot that one same here@@gonzalocortez49

    • @Ericstone40
      @Ericstone40 8 місяців тому

      We need more Eminem

  • @gonzalocortez49
    @gonzalocortez49 8 місяців тому +11

    Going Through Changes really helped me after losing my daughter at just ten months old. I went through a rough patch. Gym and music was my therapy but I did hit a low like in that song and decided to quit drinking. Went 6 years without it.

  • @michaeltrujillo1881
    @michaeltrujillo1881 8 місяців тому +3

    It's ok to cry 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 i did once you did sweetie 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @eullopez523
    @eullopez523 8 місяців тому +4

    I miss you doing Eminem reaction because you are one of those reactors who are smart enough to catch hus bars.

  • @justininnes6260
    @justininnes6260 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for opening up, I couldn't imagine doing it myself. I also had a ROUGH childhood so idk, I just feel your pain and wish you the best and know you aren't alone in those occasional dark times that randomly pop up due to the past!

  • @alt-magicianvincewilliams1331
    @alt-magicianvincewilliams1331 7 місяців тому +3

    Thabk you for being real with your emotions.
    I cried with you and thank you for sharing your story.
    It helps others without you even knowing.

  • @joeolson2357
    @joeolson2357 5 місяців тому +2

    There are not a lot of songs that hit me in the feels to the point of tears, but this song for some reason just resonates so much.

  • @chrisalbrecht4217
    @chrisalbrecht4217 3 місяці тому +2

    This is one of my favorite reactions.
    You get it

  • @remuspierre7573
    @remuspierre7573 Місяць тому +1

    I Agree with You Lily

  • @dylanbarnes5491
    @dylanbarnes5491 6 місяців тому +1

    Out of all the songs in the world, this I can relate too the most

  • @PoetBrad
    @PoetBrad 8 місяців тому +5

    Never feel bad for showing your emotions.You're human. We all have stories and hell we go through. Thank you for sharing yours Lily 💜

  • @mikecouch7242
    @mikecouch7242 25 днів тому

    I'm sending you a late virtual massive hug ❤️❤️😭😭👍😎

  • @donniechristian8467
    @donniechristian8467 8 місяців тому +7

    Always remember those past struggles are what made you the person you are today

  • @thebandit188
    @thebandit188 7 місяців тому +1

    You video was great! There will never be another artist like Eminem

  • @thee_undertaker
    @thee_undertaker 4 місяці тому +1

    We're all just trying our best.

  • @jjellybelmo4
    @jjellybelmo4 3 місяці тому

    I can listen to this song over and over. This was my life growing up. I haven't seen my mother in years, and that's my choice. I did reach out and send her this song months ago.. her reaction? "Your mom sent me a lovely song. I think she's finally growing up and wants to see me." (She sent to my daughter) 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @stephennisbet9365
    @stephennisbet9365 8 місяців тому +5

    Sorry for everything you have been through, my wife was brought up in care & heard mad stories about her mum, my kids have never met her mum & she’s still alive! My kids come before someone with an addiction tho & for there safety, great reaction vid 👏🏻 never wanted to hug somebody so bad 🥺🙈 respect to you & keep up the great work you’re doing 🙌🏻✌🏼

  • @MrTristandwayne
    @MrTristandwayne 6 місяців тому +1

    2 songs always gives the same effect on me. . I also see that I am either staring into nothing and before the last chorus on both songs, a tear run down slowly eventually becoming Tears" and before it ends, I kmow Im holding myself not to go to a fit of sobbing...Both songs, same effect... "Headlights" and "kIM"...
    keep it up anf more power to this channel....!

  • @Matthew_KNGP1N
    @Matthew_KNGP1N 4 місяці тому

    First time here 😭🥺 & I'm bawling my eyes out cuz this song hits me so hard cuz i grew up with a mom who struggled then i went to Foster care also and when i saw her when i was 18 i said some hateful things but i took care of her 2rys ago when she had cancer & i forgave her after so long i miss her everyday 😭 but i enjoyed ur reaction and im glad u shared ur story

  • @marshalt0201
    @marshalt0201 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm sure most people from single mother homes can relate to this to some extent, my mom wasn't an addict as far as I'm aware but she was always emotionally manipulative and even abusive at times but I know she also loves me and I still love her

  • @MacBobby1408
    @MacBobby1408 7 місяців тому +3

    Woah it is crazy seeing you get so vulnerable. I had no idea you went through all of that, but hey you obviously turned out to be a beautiful person with a good head on your shoulders. Respect for pushing through that adversity & coming out the other side to be the person you are today ❤

  • @mrj9585
    @mrj9585 8 місяців тому +3

    you picked a killer track as it is so relatable on many levels...keep your chin up and smile even in sadness as this is what makes us stronger when chips are down and things hurt as it means you are Human and not a sheep following what is told to you....god bless you all and may tomorrow be even better that yesterday

  • @alastairbell7084
    @alastairbell7084 8 місяців тому +3

    Yeah this song hits really hard to those who can really relate! Eminems experiences are similar to so many of us that’s why we hold him so high

  • @sojumedic
    @sojumedic 3 місяці тому

    This is so accurate. I don’t have a great relationship with my mom. Just recently we started communicating but barely.
    As far as you said you never get the opportunity to forgive your mom because she passed away. Have you thought about writing a note explaining your pain and everything she put you through and end it with forgiveness. Bury the note at her site or anywhere that’s a reminder.
    Just a suggestion to try and help you 🙂.
    Hope you’re feeling a lot better.

  • @ChanceWilkinsTwin
    @ChanceWilkinsTwin 4 місяці тому

    Im sure your mom is extremely proud of you lilly. I lnow that wws rough going through but you made it through and im sure shes looking down on you from heaven smiling and proud of her daughter. I dont make comments like this qlot but this reaction touched me. Keep slaying qmd grinding lilly. Mich love from st louis

  • @michaelsiddle1854
    @michaelsiddle1854 8 місяців тому +3

    His music is so relatable. I been going through some stuff with my mom and the way he tells this story, can't help but tear up. 🔥🔥🔥 reaction. Don't ever be ashamed to let your feelings show, it's only human

  • @Arcturus_Blx
    @Arcturus_Blx 7 місяців тому +1

    Im so sorry for everything you went through growing up. Im here for you to support you because you are such a genuine beautiful soul. I wish i could give you a hug just for comforting but thank you for opening up. You are amazing!! ❤️

  • @steven-9481
    @steven-9481 7 місяців тому +1

    You're amazing! Thank you. This video impacted me in ways I wasn't expecting.

  • @jamiemacdonald436
    @jamiemacdonald436 8 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for sharing your story Lilly. ❤

  • @austinholmes7545
    @austinholmes7545 4 місяці тому

    This song is was my life it was so hard not to cry i love what ur doing

  • @deathbreach3448
    @deathbreach3448 3 місяці тому

    I’ve never had an issue with my parents, but this song from Eminem gets me teary eyed every single time as if he actually captured his pain and forced it into a song
    Hits different when you realize literally everyone is thinking about family in some way

  • @fastmuny5767
    @fastmuny5767 8 місяців тому +2

    Going through changes by eminem is a must listen

  • @jaredr9863
    @jaredr9863 2 місяці тому

    maaaan, this song hits so hard, just lost mine a year ago

  • @BottleBrassMonkey
    @BottleBrassMonkey 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m happy that you’re happy.. we’re all humans and we all make mistakes, forgiveness is actually more of a healing for yourself than it is validation for the other person. Letting go of that resentment inside of you is such a big thing… this video is too btw, it made me cry in a good way so thank you for helping me, more than you will ever know. ❤❤

  • @steven-9481
    @steven-9481 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing that, and being so vulnerable! ❤❤❤

  • @DjFreezy89
    @DjFreezy89 5 місяців тому

    your story touchs me... the is touching me to. love from Switzerland

  • @alexbalderas6682
    @alexbalderas6682 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks so much for this reacction alot of us needed this god bless you 🙏🏽😍 i also went to similar situation

  • @jusdally
    @jusdally Місяць тому

    I'm so glad I found your channel. Thank you for sharing that story. You are a beautiful soul! *hugs*❤

  • @fsociety7494
    @fsociety7494 8 місяців тому +1

    Damn, have watched a good amount of your videos and enjoyed your knowledge of hip hop music, but to hear your story, that shit damn near sounds like a movie, Crazy. Much respect sis!

  • @jacobweaver6048
    @jacobweaver6048 8 місяців тому

    I always love your reactions, but this is my favorite. Thanks for sharing

  • @MineBlackliteYT
    @MineBlackliteYT 8 місяців тому

    I would love it so much he has made so much songs since you last reacted to him and they are all bangers. They are all really good.

  • @martinhemmingsen8813
    @martinhemmingsen8813 6 місяців тому +1

    Damn. I just have to say, that I really appreciate you. I know that I've said this in one of your other videos, but I truly thank you for sharing your story with us. And don't worry one bit about crying on camera or not. I've seen a whole lot of full grown men crying to music videos. Another great reaction!

  • @callumslater3040
    @callumslater3040 6 місяців тому

    Love your reaction and your story ❤️

  • @ukrobboxing
    @ukrobboxing 7 місяців тому +1

    So many song songs have triggers for me, I think it’s a good thing that someone’s art moves us in these type of ways… we trick ourselves sometimes that we are ok and things are under control and then one lyric or verse or chord just hits and reminds us that the truth inside us can’t be suppressed and needs to come out and breathe. A credit to you for putting yourself out there and show vulnerability to your audience. X

  • @maatoapolamalu9089
    @maatoapolamalu9089 8 місяців тому +1

    Songs like these get to me too! I love your reactions they genuine and pure! I can relate to them so much as I don’t have my parents, 3/4 grandparents, and a brother and sister who passed, but I know that I am lucky to have my other brother and sister, grandmother, aunts, uncles, and cousins. The rest of my aiga (family in Sāmoan)! Lost Mom, Dad, and Sis to cancer. Grandparents to old age except one had dementia, and a brother to s*i*ide. All very hard. I their love still exists in my heart so that helps me through everyday! And hopefully it helps you as well! You are amazing and don’t forget that! Positivity outshines our demons! I almost always have a genuine smile on my face because I am at a good place in life with a loving and amazing wife and beautiful kids! They have made me feel whole again and I am thankful for that! Same with my 2 dogs!

  • @Videogaming98
    @Videogaming98 8 місяців тому +2

    the reaction to the song head lights is very emotional I grew up a only child I was picked on thru middle school and high school but i was listening to the advice i got from my friends and family i stuck to it it waz not easy i waz the first in my dad's family to graduate which is a great piece of history thank you stay strong

  • @richardthacker7272
    @richardthacker7272 4 місяці тому +1

    Sorry for your losses my friend I loved your reactions cause I can see you care like I do there is a lot of Eminem song that brings tears to my eyes when I hear them big hugs

  • @jewmaxin1984
    @jewmaxin1984 3 місяці тому

    He had to go through his own personal hell to understand and emphasize the brokenness, distance, find clarity to bring healing to his immediate self and later apply that to everyone else in his life that always mattered on some level. I feel that, I'm working on myself to this day to forgive myself and my family for everything that was so we can someday look foward to what still can be. I love your reaction, I feel it really struck an authentic chord with you as well and you didn't hesitate to acknowledge the power music can hold.

  • @jamescurrie7678
    @jamescurrie7678 8 місяців тому

    Hey Lilly Jane, don’t normally comment but just wanted to say thank you for being open and sending love 💕

  • @BuckarooBanzai333
    @BuckarooBanzai333 4 місяці тому

    Much love! You're great :)

  • @dandieabbott5409
    @dandieabbott5409 8 місяців тому +1

    I’m Sorry that You had a terrible up bringing that’s heart braking to hear. I lost My Mum to Cancer nearly 11 years ago. The song of Eminem that has got me throu a lot and helped me deal with the loss of Both of My parents at a young age is Not Afraid and there is a few others as well. Once again I’m So Sorry for the pain You went throu as a child and still to this day. Ems music has helped me throu so much. ❤❤

  • @kylec1411
    @kylec1411 8 місяців тому

    much love lilly. youre a beautiful person inside and out. hate to see you cry. love from canada

  • @TheMissCareless
    @TheMissCareless 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤

  • @kevinrichardson3572
    @kevinrichardson3572 8 місяців тому +1

    This song is amazing

  • @brookstocklin1974
    @brookstocklin1974 8 місяців тому +1

    We're all here for you your a human it's ok to cry your not along ❤❤❤ your a strong person love be you keep being you.

  • @Colin-qo6mz
    @Colin-qo6mz 7 місяців тому

    I told my mum this reminds me of us last time i saw her a decade ago.

  • @remuspierre7573
    @remuspierre7573 Місяць тому +1

    Super Dope

  • @hedwinsenjaya7310
    @hedwinsenjaya7310 Місяць тому

    EMINEM IS LEGEND.. thank you four your reaction.. 🙏👍

  • @charliecargile1791
    @charliecargile1791 6 місяців тому

    I wish I could hug you through the screen. Thank you for being vulnerable and telling us a bit of your story. It just makes me love your videos even more.

  • @TobiasKrasinger
    @TobiasKrasinger 4 місяці тому

    The album version of this is longer with extra lyrics and I can't stand how they cut this for the video version.
    Eminem is one of the artists that made it through almost every technical evolution.
    Had him in my discman, on my mp3 player, on my phone and now on streaming ...

  • @penguar321
    @penguar321 6 місяців тому +1

    There's so many Eminem songs I can relate to and vibe to. Specifically though, and I don't think this track gets enough credit for just how good it is, but his song Legacy is time and time again my reason to push forward in life. It's such a good "Being the outcast to growing into owning the outcast role in life and just being you" track. Easily my favorite track from MMLP2

  • @jeffgarber7190
    @jeffgarber7190 7 місяців тому +2

    So sorry for your losses. Eminem's Recovery album has gotten me through a lot. I would recommend listening to Difficult and You're Never Over. Both songs are a tribute to Eminem's best friend Proof who was killed in 2006.

  • @nourpetite
    @nourpetite 2 місяці тому

    watching this just made me want to jump through the screen and give you a 5 min hug. not in a pity way at all. just felt everything you said so deeply!

  • @craftistic82
    @craftistic82 6 місяців тому

    I wish I could give you the biggest hug.

  • @hoopwizardws
    @hoopwizardws 8 місяців тому +2

    Absolutely love this track, personal highlight for me off MMLP2, great reaction as usual Lilly! This one gets to me as well.
    Edit: The Eminem song that got me through tough times, well, I have a couple. Bad Husband off Revival cause of the rough times my parents went through and how my father used to treat my mother. Then I'd say Going Through Changes off Recovery for my addiction problems of the past (and one present). There's prolly a few others like Sing for the Moment and Mosh used to get me amped before basketball games in high school.

  • @tavoymoore7981
    @tavoymoore7981 7 місяців тому

    Great reaction I love you girl!

  • @angelagarutti6118
    @angelagarutti6118 8 місяців тому

    And this why why we hold Eminem in a VERY SPECIAL PLACE cuz he showed are abuse and are fears and sadness when we could NOT SO cuz of that we will never allow him to be put down!!! Cuz he spoke for all of us when we were to scared to speak. Luv u always Eminem we both been there done that got the EFFEN T SHIRT

  • @RichardLee-sy4kg
    @RichardLee-sy4kg 6 місяців тому

    The eminem song that helps me is "Not Afraid"

  • @BeanBurrito658
    @BeanBurrito658 8 місяців тому +1

    I wanna say, this was by far one of his most emotional & to heart songs he had did at the time, which caught everyone by surprise. It hit home to so many people I think as well as it hit home for me & obviously you as well, glad you were able to talk about it.
    I don't know if it'll hit hard for you, but it hit hard for me when he released Castle/Arose which I think you should react/listen to next. They are very hard hitting songs & they are played back-to-back & it shows how even if you're at your lowest, you can still overcome & be the best person you can be. At least how I interpret those two songs.
    Castle/Arose

  • @Wreath83
    @Wreath83 7 місяців тому

    Very good song!
    Thanks for share about yourself!

  • @christopherking4932
    @christopherking4932 8 місяців тому

    Awesome reaction.

  • @elizabethguerra2379
    @elizabethguerra2379 5 місяців тому

    Me and my mom grew up in a toxic environment and i feel this song in my soul! 😢 I love this song!

  • @justineseman3741
    @justineseman3741 8 місяців тому

    Nostalgia - Rittz. Paints a better picture than any rapper.

  • @yooyoo8637
    @yooyoo8637 8 місяців тому

    Life is one crazy journey 😢, wish more happiness for you and your family in the future

  • @chriswilliams9272
    @chriswilliams9272 8 місяців тому

    Hey Lilly keep your head up and stay strong xxoo From Down Under

  • @rohanhrangkhawl2614
    @rohanhrangkhawl2614 Місяць тому

    The only rapper to diss her own mom ,and apologize to her real quick 😢💗

  • @shino190
    @shino190 8 місяців тому

    nah you even made me cry

  • @ruelortiz214
    @ruelortiz214 8 місяців тому

    I miss ur eminem reactions Lilly

  • @dyoutubechannel8218
    @dyoutubechannel8218 8 місяців тому

    Sending you a box of tissues and a box of hugs through the computer screen Lilly Jane ;).☺

  • @matthewramirez6300
    @matthewramirez6300 8 місяців тому

    Respect Miss. ❤

  • @12marjetka
    @12marjetka 8 місяців тому

    all the best to you

  • @owar2013
    @owar2013 14 днів тому

    We all cry I swear

  • @GS-zi2iu
    @GS-zi2iu 6 місяців тому

    You should listen to the 5 minute version Nate Ruess sings more at the end but in the music video they cut off his part but left “I want a new life”

  • @MrThankman360
    @MrThankman360 8 місяців тому

    So sorry about your parents and your losses. Prayers.

  • @gamersociety1369
    @gamersociety1369 8 місяців тому

    the way he make us all emotional.....that is why we are all one big family