INFORMING for the Human Design Manifestor // 5 Manifestors Share About How to Inform
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Informing is the Human Design Strategy for the Manifestor Aura Type. But what does that really mean?
In this video 5 Manifestor women share about their personal experiences with learning to inform and how that has helped them reduce resistance.
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It has been a year since I've learnt that I'm a manifestor and it is still so difficult to inform people. It feels like when people know about my plans they can influence them somehow and it feels so uncomfortable, like they are breaking my borders and protection. I hope I will learn how to do it correctly one day.
Hmmm... I have some ideas on how you can do that. If you ever want to, I would be so happy to help you strengthen this in a 1-1 session. You can book on my website. I'm sure that if we both focus on this for even 20 minutes, you'll receive a breakthrough around how to shift this. www.karenmcmullen.ca
Yea it took me 12 years. But it was definitely worth it. HD was belief system for me but now I can feel it in my body.
Yes same!! I would love to understand why some people think when I am “informing” that I am asking for permission lmao and some actively try to change my mind. It makes informing very difficult.
I don’t like to inform people until the thing is seriously, actually going to occur. And while I have been planning this for 12 years (in my mind), it seems new and spontaneous to them.
I get lots of ideas, and they won’t all come to fruition, (the way I had envisioned because the universe always gives me something better.)
So I inform when the thing is for sure going to happen. And even when I give months or years of notice, it’s still not early enough to keep people’s fear of the unknown receptors from being triggered. :p
Interesting!
I feel this deeply!
Totally with you on this.. it is my experience as well
I am a MG and I learned to not inform, because when I talk to others about an idea that I have, they most of the time just react in a negative way. I do inform sometimes, when I feel a 100% sure that the plan I have is what I will do and no one can keep me from it.
I wonder if some refinement is in order. First...I barely tell people about my ideas. I would only do so if it was somehow related to them and they needed to be involved. It's more important for manifestors to inform. For MGs it's not a part of our strategy because we don't have a dense repelling aura that makes an impact. I know some HD teachers say that MGs need to inform, but I think of it as something nice to do but it's not the same as being a manifestor.
This is resonating so much for me right now. Having a conflict in my personal life due to my creative lifeforce not tolerating others wasting my time and stepping over boundaries. My manifestor energy feels very activated. Informing is so hard when you ALSO have some subconscious programming around people pleasing or feeling like my needs can only be met alone. So grateful to learn more.
Oh David, what a powerful insight!!! I appreciate so much the path of awareness you are on. Have you discovered the UA-cam channel: crappy childhood fairy?
@@karenmcmullen No I'm not familiar with it. I'll check it out though.
I’m a manifesta 😅 I knew Informing is most important because I am always having trouble with it, this new found awareness is what I needed thank you 🙏 I love learning about myself.
Awesome 😎! I love that , manifesta!
Oooh I’m so excited for this series. It’s wonderful to hear the experiences of other Manifestor women. And a good reminder for me to Inform as much as possible
Cool! I didn’t realize (or forgot) that you are a manifestor. More motivation for me! Thanks 😊
I like that! Thank you💙
You’re welcome ☺️
There are so many videos of manifestor abstractly telling how important informing is. But I would really like to hear real-life examples. I think it would be very helpful for other manifestors!
Hi Na! I hope you find your examples. I find as I experiment and talk with people who are manifestor types that many examples come out and the discovery is organic. Thanks for commenting.
Please make a video about how to use law of atraction as a manifestor! thank you!
I hear you!
Incredible! I really had no idea how frustrating I have been to my family. The more annoyed they got with me, the less I informed .. I created a destructive cycle!!! Will try and inform as see if things become calmer. 🙏
Glad you found this video!
I really liked this video as well! I spent all night and this morning thinking about it and I’m already experimenting with it in my household. I think it will be so helpful to be better at informing my husband and daughter what I’m doing while letting them know, I need you to inform me of what you are doing and what you need from me.
Something that I would love to learn more about are tips for manifestor mothers. Manifestor don’t like being told what to do and that wave of frustration can rise up for me when I want to accomplish a specific thing and I can’t because my toddler is demanding my attention. Don’t get me wrong, I love being a mama, but sometimes it’s hard when that wave just happens and I would love techniques to better work through that. Does that make sense?
Hi Ashley! Absolutely. the next videos in the series will talk about motherhood but that's a great example that I can address.
I agree with Sarah K. It's really hard for me to inform. Especially since I have had previous experience having my decisions questioned, critizied and shut down. It's because of that, that I do not want to inform other sofa what I'm doing.
That's understandable, think of it more as just letting them know what you're doing so they're aware, but not asking permission. Once you start holding those boundaries some hopefully those in your life will understand you're doing what you know to be right, not asking for their input.
Thank you for the information, lots of patterns are starting to connect for me now ❤❤❤❤
Yay!!!!!! You’re welcome!
Thank you so much for making this video. As a manifestor this really helped me understand the act of informing. Blessings!
Hi Mitch! You are most welcome 🙏 thank you for taking the time to comment and let me know you enjoyed! I hope you’ll check out some of the other videos in the empowered manifestor series.
What a beautiful art do you have on your wall! Love your video’s! ❤️🙏
Hi there!! I am not sure what you were seeing but chances are, the art is done by my Mom.
Is this video only for Women Manifestors? It’s not clear
Hi there, I only interviewed women because that is my target audience but the same principles apply to all Manifestors.
Thank u all! Such helpful advice, probably would’ve been better before I ruined the only thing that’s ever made me genuinely feel love, but seems to be what I do, being a manifestor has not been easy for me
So much love to you!!! 💗💗💗💗 there’s more love for you!! We are all learning and evolving. You’re not the only one!
I discovered human design few days ago, and just learned that I'm a manifestor it make so much sense now, why always I've been so independent and feel angry when people are telling me what to do or how I should do it, since my teenage years, I thought it was something wrong and learn to please people, but inside didn't feel right!
Listening to yourself and trusting your instinct/design is such a life changer!
Sooo informative lol ❤ Thank you for sharing ladies!!
Woot woot!! 🎉 you’re welcome.
I want to Manifest Free Palestine ❤️
What a beautiful desire. me too.
Thank you! I’m excited to hear the rest of the series… I wrote years ago a ‘manifesto’ for my relationships that included ‘I ask first, I dint just let you know..’ it’s so crucial to BE informed… thanks for the word, its THE key to complication and peace of heart and mind… it’s great to hear all these perspectives 🙏🏼❤️🤗
Very cool. You’ve been true to you all along.
Thank you! I’m excited to hear the rest of the series… I wrote years ago a ‘manifesto’ for my relationships that included ‘I ask first, I don’t just let you know… informing is the key to clear communication 🙏🏼❤️
How fun!
How fun!
This is the best inform video I have seen to date!
Why thank you!
So helpful 😊 thank you
You're so welcome!
WOW, my daughter is 14 and a manifestor. I have literally been telling her all her life to USE HER WORDS! I have always had this hunch she was using her lack of communication as a weapon against the world and now I know why she is this way. I'm a generator, still very new to human design but I am so excited to keep diving deeper to better understand myself and my family.
She does not need to use her words. Informing is not a strategy needed for the Manifestor. It is to avoid blowback, but often, we would rather eat with pathetic generator blowback than waste our energy.
WOW, this is true for me. I am a prolific verbal communicator. Lots of words, with lots of impact, and I have left people wondering what just happened. Most have been repelled. Over the years I have found that this was a way to protect me and how I really felt. Only recently have I started to learn to connect to my energy center and let my voice carry that in powerful softness. Being told what to do...don't even try. Now I realize that is how some people show up, I bite my tongue and hold back from an all-out verbal barrage, killing those who may dare. It isn't surprising that I haven't had a job since I was a teenager. One of the statements that I love and want to imprint on my mind is (my words) Communicating Intention, from my heart and energy center, and possible Impact builds trust. This is my heart's desire and I believe this is a key, I need to give others this key and let them open the vault as much as they need. I look forward to continued learning to help me walk in who I am, for the greater good.
What an awareness. Yes indeed that « being told what to do -don’t even try… and holding back from an all out verbal barrage, killing those… » that does sound angry! How beautiful that you’ve discovered the true impact of speaking from the heart. Sounds much more peaceful
Very helpful! I’m excited to know myself a bit more. Knew this from an early age, but conditioning was so in my way!
How freeing!!!!!
I mean...where are the men ?
It’s a series I created for manifestor women.
Thank you very much, all of you, for sharing your experiences living as a Manifestor. It is deeply supportive for me to see how other Manifestors are living their lives, their designs. What a gift. Thank you :D
Hi Sean, you are welcome. I'm so glad you found the series. And thank you for commenting to let us know you enjoyed!
Wow, that was SO insightful! I learned so much about informing and being informed and I had a couple of revelations of things that were going wrong in my life because either I haven't informed correctly or I wasn't informed. Thank you so much for this video!
You're so welcome!
WHAT IS THIS DARK MAGIC??? :) But seriously. I don't put any stock in Zodiac stuff, but everything these women said described me SO well! My mind is blown!!!
Dear Karen,
I am infinitely grateful to you for dedicating so much work to us female manifestors! It is much appreciated and of great guidance 🙏🙌🏼💜
Woot Woot!! I'm so happy that you are enjoying this! And I look forward to meeting you!
Spot on for me. Thank you!
Awesome.
Happy to have found you! I recently discovered Iam a manifestor. Thanks for sharing.
Wow! Haven’t had an HD reading yet but this explained so much of my childhood & adult experiences! 😳
Lol! I love that emoji so much! Human Design has this effect!
I hate being told what to do!!!🤗
Lol! Me too!!
Words simply cannot describe the value you have brought to my life with your videos and the excerpts you share from your clients. I have felt so much rejection and envy in my life and it was very difficult to see the bigger pattern. I feel totally vindicated and seen, and I can't thank you enough. Now I can move on with my life having been properly informed :)
I am thrilled to hear this! This is the best comment ever. It'll go on my instagram. You go!
@@karenmcmullen Wonderful! I'm now following along
I just learned I’m a manifestor and it resonates deeply. I too have experienced a lot of envy from other women for some reason. Never understood why
Same especially with woman it was always hard for me to make female friends
Your content is helping me so much....steppinginto the manifestor thriving, not manifestor constantly jumping, creating, burning out, depression, repeat LOL. Interestingly enough, I've always been an informer, but now know I actually really appreciate it when people inform me! Especially in intimate relationships, friendships, work, or otherwise.
Oooh!! I am so happy to hear this!!! Wonderful!!
Btw, any non manifestor being who is manifesting needs inform as well, it’s the rules of manifesting.
Heey Karen! I enjoy watching your videos or at least I try to as your knowledge seems really great. I notice that the sound is always quite disturbing to me, which usually leads me to stop playing your video's even though I'd love to hear more. You might have had more people comment on this, I haven't checked but I wanted to share this piece of information just in case you haven't. I feel that your knowledge and the way you share could be quite valuable to a lot of people and I for one am truly interested
Hi Monique, thank you for your feedback. What is it about the sound that is disturbing for you?
@@karenmcmullen Hey Karen! I hear a certain uhm echo I might call it on the right side, it gives a a high pitched itching and it comes like two seconds after your actual words in the video. Like it vibrates constantly when you speak. I hear this sound in this particular video and also in the earlier ones where you share about manifestors (those are the ones I check out) When this particular video gets to the other women, this vibration is gone and the sound is 'still'. When you speak, it sounds like when someone speaks into a microphone and is really close to it (don't know if you know that sound) It sounds like it's a microphone issue and you were recording with a phone where the microphone had some dirt on it, reflecting the sound back. Hope this explanation helps :) PS: I checked out newer videos and noticed they don't have these vibrations anymore so yeaayy 😀❤️
Oh good. I am glad. Thanks for sharing.
You're welcome 🤗 and thank you very much for sharing all of your knowledge and channeled wisdom. Love it💖
Ps: what do you mean when you say 'The energy moves the maya'?
TOTALLY AGREE! I JUST, verbatim, informed my partner that I can manifest easily without him, but I am trying to be a partner and take him/his desired manifestations into consideration. However, nothing will change if we're not informing one another of our positions. He and his process and big picture and me and my needs and current action steps. I said, "You need to let me know what you know and I can make it happen, but will want do so with you." I need you to share actions steps. I need to know your boundaries and limitations to manifest within that range. Otherwise, our and especially my, manifestation energies are scattered not focused. He said that, in the past, he didn't trust informing me because I would just run with it without him. He's right! I have learned to inform him SO much too! Thanks for posting! xo
I'm so glad to hear about your evolution of informing and informing both ways in your partnership...perhaps suggest to him that he watch this video so that he better understands you and how you function. Thank you for commenting Amy! HUGS
That was awesome
haha! Great comment to receive. Thank you!
It’s amazing how difficult this is for us…. Really strange and feels pathetic to say out loud but it’s true!
It seems like it gets better with time and practice...like anything, I guess. If you didn't see it, I recommend checking out the video I just made a month ago about the manifestor!
Thanks for creating this video! Very Informed! - Manifestor ;)
Lol! You are welcome!
I love the way you brought on other manifestor women to tell in their own words!
Yeah! Me too! Genius move! 😀
So informative. I didn't really understand the part about informing the Manifestor before seeing this video. I had only paid attention to the idea that Manifestors would benefit from learning to inform others. Mind blown. Great video.
Thank you Ma. It makes sense, though, doesn't it? I had fun during this video trying to not ask or tell the contributors what to do, but just give them information about the process and let them do what they do. It made the timing of everything interesting.
@@karenmcmullen As my favourite 6 year old Manifestor says "I do what I do."
That was so great... Thank you so much. It totally explains my son. He's 29 years old. And he is really focused on figuring out who he is and we were just talking about this the other day How some people Just annoy and frustrate him when they talk to him. He said that he would talk to his therapist. But now I'm thinking maybe human design can help him and of course me being his mother (I am a projector) I want to help him. But I must say it wasn't easy dealing with his attitude growing up. I thought his attitude was due to his controlling NPD father but this makes more sense. My son is highly intelligent and always been so driven and naturally successful. I wonder if high IQ people are Manifestors? Thank you for the video. So very helpful and I enjoy watching you.
I’m so happy for you and your son that you found this information!
Very awesome video and channel. I'm definitely subscribing because I'm loving to learn more about my Manifestor design! Thank you!
Hi Ryan! Thank you so much for your words of acknowledgment and encouragement. I hope you found the empowered manifestor playlist...and another video is coming out tomorrow about the manifestor. YAY
@@karenmcmullen i did find it! I have some of your videos on watch later. Your video quality is really great and you do a fantastic job speaking by the way! Keep the great content coming!
This is so amazing 🤩; love it I’m new to all of this and just learned I’m an emotional manifestor.
Thank you for creating this platform Beautiful. Much appreciated. One Love.
I inform others so they will not be shocked or effected by my moves.
That's a great way of helping other understand!
I’m so rare hahha
Can u change ur aura?
Hi! According to Human Design you cannot change your aura Type.
what a great video! am relating a lot! thank u 4 sharing
Awesome! Glad you enjoyed! There are some amazing videos in the manifestor playlist! It's called the Empowered Manifestor. Did you see it?
@@karenmcmullen actually no. I came across this one through your recommandation in one of the MG videos :) now I am in the profile section of your videos
This was very helpful to me as someone who just found out sge was a manifestor. I think the most surprising thing to me was how differently I approach the world than the women who are living their path. Lots of food for thought.
Interesting. What is the main difference? How do you approach the world?
@@karenmcmullen I have always been a Helper, in my personal relationships, in my career choices and in the way I go about my day. The idea that I could just inform people that I'm going to be over here doing my thing ....not available for you now. (and know that the person will be just fine 😉) is something to explore. Writing here makes it sound worse than it is. 😄
It sounds liberating and empowering to me!!!!
Hi Karen, I am enjoying your series. I am a Projector. It seems like an awful lot of work to reprogram my ways of ease in communicating to accommodate a Manifestors needs. The aura is difficult and the communication needs are a lot to pay attention to. I have considered simply not relating to Manifestors at all as a personal policy. There aren't many of them anyway....
Hi there, I’m not sure what your experience has been. I have two manifestor friends that are effortless for me to relate to. Most of the time we are doing our own things. Maybe it would be difficult if I expected more from them. I can’t relate to your comment from my personal experience. But I wouldn’t make a decision based on a rule of what someone has in their chart but rather through strategy and authority. Thanks for sharing 💗
@@karenmcmullen I have two Manifestor friends as well. We are all emotionally defined. When they are in a good mood they are a delight, but in a bad mood it is absolutely hell to be anywhere near them. Their aura feels like a toxic overload in me.
It’s a great video. But I’m still a little confused as to what exactly we are supposed to inform people about.
Anything that you do or don't do which could effect someone else could be a general rule of thumb.
Hi Karen! i have a question - manifestors will feel ‘better’ when informing and being informed, but for me being informed sound like a selfish thing bc otherwise the manifestor wont know when people need them. Is that selfish ? I hope my question makes sense hahah. Also as a manifestor I find ur videos really helpful
Hi there!! I’m sorry, I don’t understand your question 😬! Asking others to inform you when what they do will impact you is really just consideration. I don’t think it’s selfish. I’m glad you are finding these helpful!!!
@@karenmcmullen I understand thank you for answering, Karen!Also, do you have any videos about manifestors being too afraid to iniciate/afraid of rejection ? I find myself too afraid to use my manifestor’s power bc im constantly trying to please people and I dont know how to stop doing that
Yes!!! We talk about that in the empowered manifestor playlist. I believe it’s in the video about manifestor impact.
@@karenmcmullen thank u so much ☺️
God I love these women!
That is so awesome!!!!! Most of them are on social media, so I'm sure that they would love to connect with you! (their links are in the description box). Thanks for commenting!
dope video karen
lol! Thank you!
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Love love love this. I resonate so much. This video was so helpful in coming closer to understanding how I operate and how I should interact with others around me
Awesome!!!!
Thank you so much Karen for this video! I'm manifestor, I found out two days ago and it helped me to understand many things about myself and my behaviour. Probably, I will start to study human design, it's so helpful and fascinating! 🙂
Wonderful!!! Congratulations 🎉
You want to see me get angry fast? Try to tell me what to do or worse tell me what I’m feeling! Not pretty
lol!!! I am making a note!
Okay, this is the craziest thing. I was just recently introduced to human design - like in the last week and I am a manifestor. I come to UA-cam today and see this video! Amazing!
Amazing! I love hearing that. I hope you'll stick around for the upcoming series. Thanks for visiting.
Karen McMullen Heck yes I will!
wow 9:53 really stuck with me
I'm glad it resonates!!
Do you believe that there is a difference in human design when one has awakened to their soul and who they are? Does it matter?
If you aren't aware you may not be living your design so yes, it can impact how you live your life.
@@karenmcmullen thank you for the reply.
i used to tell people i want to be a free loader then i would say like that’s what i want in life and i met so much negativity but look at me now 😂😂😂
There's always perspective, being supported and financially free can trigger some conditioning for most of us because our societies put so much emphasis on hard work.
btw - i'm stuck at home because my partner left with both keys to the truck. i wanted to build a wall. now I am knitting and watching all the manifestor videos :)
lol. Sounds like something that might happen. And you are making the most of it. I'm thrilled that you finally had time to watch the videos. I look forward to talking with you about them.
@@karenmcmullen it wasn't just finding the time. it was waiting for the right time. i wanted to be inspired and have a comfy project and i loved being stuck at home for the afternoon.
can you share informing language that a manifestor would be able to hear with acceptance? example: i want you to...because... is not really informing a manifestor that one needs something from them.
I don't know...but I imagine this has to do with giving information in advance of what you need or what to happen. So, if you can give them information in advance, then they have time to react and take initiative accordingly.
You could try living out loud, such as speaking to him/the room: "I'm making dinner. I'm stirring the pot. I'm getting things from the refridgerator. I still need the dinner table set, and the mess in the dining room cleaned up." Give some time to see if those prompts lead to any action and then you could ask. Or maybe having some pre-determined responsibliities/roles could help...that you can rely on.
Giving neutral information statements is the best. But I think in the case of parenting this must play out differently.