Grasping at expectations is certainly one of the biggest obstacles to genuine love. Learning to break free from expectations is the arising of true love.
This man changed my life ,,My relationship with my mother is becoming better by focusing in the moment ,,But with my dad i still do not talk to him but i am peacfull towards him ..
He is a wonderful teacher. Always brings a calm presence over me. Root's me in my pure, real being. Enlightenment is the only way to sanity.. but just remember, trying to "attain" enlightenment does not work, BE it!
It is a challenge to meet people in the present moment & not fall into playing the "roles" we think they expect of us etc. It's something that can be done though I believe & something that has the potential to bring people closer together. Meeting people & being present with them without any baggage or expectation would be bliss I feel. SO many relationship problems & tensions come from expectations of how people should behave & react to us. If we just let go & stop the "patterns" it no longer matters how others behave around us.
dude with this knowledge you can do ANYTHING you want! All (social) fears almost disappear.. If you happen to have a girlfriend or boyfriend, make sure you occationally show her/him some eckhart videos ;)
Thank you Eckhart, with your advices, your life philosophy I am becoming happy and happier with the simplicity of truth life. I call you “Peace Revolutionary Being”. I live spontaneously & communicate spontaneously with people who enjoy my presence. What my essence is can not be spoken or written with words. Thanks to my son Markus who introduced me to you. Namaste Eckhart.
Yes Michael, I know this, Ramana Maharshi, Maharishi, Krisnamurty........and others was my teachers too, but Eckhart keep me easyer to my peace inside.....Namaste.
You always crack me up with your humor. And how on the money you are, like always. Thank you so much. By the way: It is true. I have tested what you said and it works.
Eckhart Tolle speaks like a nowadays Patanjali. Truly, the words are slightly different but the idea is very very old... But so helpful in this "modern" world!
I've have experienced these falling of old cycles in moments of presence with my mom and brother and it was sooooooo amazing and freaky and liberating haha. I just watch them do their thing and wait till it has run out.
Interesting knowing history with someone close yet seeing them now for who they are now and watching how we interact. Like meeting them for the first time...every time.
Sometimes,i feel so much pain when i am not able to be present in relationships...my ego takes me over..i am in the beginning of the journey..it hurts me so much😣😔
He seems to be constantly in the deepest chasms of his counter conscience. Animal instinct stacked with high intelligence is only currently among the rarest types of great minds, I'd reckon. The words come out slowly but he seems to be writing each segment he does, backwards and forwards simultaneously. I miss being able to simply just "talk", like it was just a reaction akin to sneezing. There's a comfort just in the way he communicates it.
I believe this is a matter that most of us are confronted with but it's not something that usually happens with ease. It may take alot of encounters before it becomes possible to let go...
Relationship births from being present and grows with taking breaks periodically and becomes a reality in the real sense of a real relationship when being is absent and one isn't even aware of it and possibly notices by keen rationale. MEISTTER ECKHART
I don't agree. Rather, I think we simply have not been thought that way of being when it was so crucial, ie: from 0 to 6 or 7 years old. We simply had ignorants parents just like us. The great news is It's never too late to change for the better.
How can I be present and not enable my partners unconsciousness when they are reactive towards me? Is there an amount of time one can invest with being present until you realize the person you are with just may not ever get it or never change? I have not talked with her about being in the present moment, as I do not know how to without it affecting her unconscious mind, please share any suggestions. Some background: I know she is reactive due to her inability to cope and her reaction is about her and her inability. I'm trying to not enable her not to be negative, being present is a new idea to me; so I am trying to be present myself and as I do, I realize she consistently is looking for validation and reassurance for how she feels and I don't believe this is healthy for either of us. I feel like the only way this relationship will work is if I don't say anything, she takes it very personal if I point out an error or something that causes her to react, or if I tell her I can not enable her and try to discuss with her why I could be enabling. Obviously this could cause someone to take this personal, but I really try discussing kindly and tell her I can't answer some questions cause I care about her. If I stay present and try to allow her to just be, I find it very difficult to be ok with her whining, complaining, and need for validation/reassurance. I want this relationship to work, but I do not know if or when she will be less reactive and more present.
"The Dance of Anger" i read and read over again! until the book was in three or four pieces! author Harriet Goldhor Learner authored it along with two other books on family roles in trianngles, & dysfunctional patterns (1deception, 2Intimacy) which really helps to recognize, and possibly, step out of the dance. hehehehehehe!!
My biggest problem in life is that I live in the past. I bring old problems with me. Sometimes I bring problems that's even unrelated to the current problem. Even though in the presence the past is irrelevant. My new reactions can pick up in the angry state I was in the last problem. someone asking a "stupid" question again is a perfect example. It does not even have to be the same person. It does not even have to be the same question. My reactions still starts in full frustration because of the earlier stupid question that could even have been a long time ago by then. I wish I could control my thoughts. But I cant. And therefor I cant be present really. Thoughts just happen. its all about accepting the stupid questions to happen really. The question happened and its ok. It does not really matter. I always envy the people I see master this practice. And they are not even aware that they have accepted bad things to come in life. It just comes to show you cant really practice this. If you want to realize it, it just have to happen. Its not under your control.
Landbergaren Videos IMHO you first have to believe it (that you are in control of everything inside of you at the conscious level). ET explains in the Power of Now that we sometimes resist what 'is' and that's where we lose our presence and also start to become less conscious (I'm not quoting the book, more paraphrasing). I reckon that at first, you should accept your current state of being; get to know it; get to know exactly what triggers your emotions, what your emotions feel like inside, the patterns you go through when they feel negative, but do exactly the same for your positive feelings too. You have all the theory in place which is a good start for you but it's practice that is required. I'm by no means perfect and believe me I do struggle with baggage sometimes too, but the past [truly] only serves to uphold the ego and sense of self and identity. Maybe stupid questions are the ego's way of believing it's smarter than the other? Maybe the anger is the ego's means of protection against a bad experience in the past? Get to the root of these types of questions and you will be on the way to the beautiful 'you' that's under what you believe are your problems. Good luck x
pheeel17 good to read would be nice to meet one. Also think a lot of people especially women idolise Eckhart Tolle. I think Eckhart is a good teacher and a wise man but I dont idolise him would rather stay with what he is pointing to. :)
I admire Eckhart Tolle’s teaching skills, and agree with 99% of what I have heard him say on the two videos I watched. However, I think people make a big mistake when they use the word “spiritual” in any way other than to criticize the myth of spirituality. There are no “souls” and no spirits. Google the words *calder meditation and the brain* - UA-cam video and *calder do you have a soul?* - essay that reveals the impossibility of reincarnation and soul
You as you know and experience yourself in this paradigm are never present, never being. Time is a constant flow. The moment you thinking you're being it's already gone. Humans are living a continuity of the past. He's using the past, memory, in order to discuss the present. Not a bad way to make a living though.
But who we are is made of experiences, you can't deny souls differ from each other by their "egos" otherwise life has no sense, being all the same is boring.
God father protect me from my strongest enemys they are more than my hair. Lord you protected David from his strongest enemys because of the cleanness of his hands !!@ protect me God because of your rightuoness over my life and the hold nation!!! God bring distruction and confusion to my enemys cancel their secret plans and undress them in front of the world let their evil plans directed to me be destroy in the name of your loving son jesus christ of Nazareth. As from today god let their evil plans end even now .Thank you god for hearing and anwering this prayer !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you Brother !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! May god bless you abondently !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What if youre in a relationship & the person youre with has a different religious background? What if the couple get married & have babies? How are they going to raise their baby if they have separate religious backgrounds?
How can you not refer to history of relationship as you got most love or hatred in the past. Those guys are still trying to make your life heaven or hell?
Grasping at expectations is certainly one of the biggest obstacles to genuine love. Learning to break free from expectations is the arising of true love.
This man changed my life ,,My relationship with my mother is becoming better by focusing in the moment ,,But with my dad i still do not talk to him but i am peacfull towards him ..
ريم المكاحيل why no-talking with your dad, if it's not "too-personal"?
Eckhart tolle is a gift to humanity, a true diamond in the rough! Thank you master Tolle!!
This man is adorable! I love you, Eckhart!
I find this to be right on, you live now, not yesterday, by living in the past you miss the joy of the present moment
He is a wonderful teacher. Always brings a calm presence over me. Root's me in my pure, real being. Enlightenment is the only way to sanity.. but just remember, trying to "attain" enlightenment does not work, BE it!
your soul is your soul mate
It is a challenge to meet people in the present moment & not fall into playing the "roles" we think they expect of us etc. It's something that can be done though I believe & something that has the potential to bring people closer together. Meeting people & being present with them without any baggage or expectation would be bliss I feel. SO many relationship problems & tensions come from expectations of how people should behave & react to us. If we just let go & stop the "patterns" it no longer matters how others behave around us.
Watching this video was for me a meditation.
Me too, he makes me more conscious, even reading his book, there's a consciousness there too.... beautiful!
dude with this knowledge you can do ANYTHING you want! All (social) fears almost disappear.. If you happen to have a girlfriend or boyfriend, make sure you occationally show her/him some eckhart videos ;)
Cano : Y'a, sure. I can already hear her answer "don't try any trick on me". Nice try though.
Thank you Eckhart, with your advices, your
life philosophy I am becoming happy and happier with the simplicity of truth life. I call you “Peace Revolutionary Being”.
I live spontaneously & communicate spontaneously with people who enjoy my presence. What my essence is can not be spoken or written with words.
Thanks to my son Markus who introduced me to you. Namaste Eckhart.
Jiddu Krishnamurti
+E.T. yes, he said himself he is in the "stream" of j.krishnamurti and ramana maharshi and that "i love them deeply"
michael rothschild ~ Where did he say that? You have a link?
Yes Michael, I know this, Ramana Maharshi, Maharishi, Krisnamurty........and others was my teachers too, but Eckhart keep me easyer to my peace inside.....Namaste.
You always crack me up with your humor. And how on the money you are, like always. Thank you so much. By the way: It is true. I have tested what you said and it works.
Eckhart Tolle speaks like a nowadays Patanjali. Truly, the words are slightly different but the idea is very very old... But so helpful in this "modern" world!
I've have experienced these falling of old cycles in moments of presence with my mom and brother and it was sooooooo amazing and freaky and liberating haha. I just watch them do their thing and wait till it has run out.
Interesting knowing history with someone close yet seeing them now for who they are now and watching how we interact. Like meeting them for the first time...every time.
I love you, Eckhart Tolle! I love you. I love you. I love you.
I love you, ECKHART ! Thank you...
Formless Consciousness, Peace.
He is so adorable
When I count his subscribers I come to the conclusion that 1 of 2000 human beings on the planet listen to eckhart alone.
Love thrives inside so does also Happiness
nothing more than Compassionate Acceptance Peace Love and Understanding
Love this guy. Has changed my life
So hilarious, while being so useful at the same time.
Sometimes,i feel so much pain when i am not able to be present in relationships...my ego takes me over..i am in the beginning of the journey..it hurts me so much😣😔
It's so hard to be in the present! My ego always get the best of me
Thank you. Always teaching us exactly what we need. 🌸😌
i need to practise presence! i find it hard if someone has a strong pain body but im gonna carry on practising.
He seems to be constantly in the deepest chasms of his counter conscience. Animal instinct stacked with high intelligence is only currently among the rarest types of great minds, I'd reckon. The words come out slowly but he seems to be writing each segment he does, backwards and forwards simultaneously. I miss being able to simply just "talk", like it was just a reaction akin to sneezing. There's a comfort just in the way he communicates it.
Exceptionally funny. Even for Eckhart.
just watchded a couple videos of him and already loved him ❤
Damn I cried with joy.... With this information
Humans...at times, we complicate things for apparently no reason at all. Great analysis, ET. Thank you❤
His facial expressions are underrated 😂
So funny when he "recreates" inside, other people's states
I believe this is a matter that most of us are confronted with but it's not something that usually happens with ease. It may take alot of encounters before it becomes possible to let go...
Thank you so much Eckhart Tolle 🙏❤🙏💞👏👌👍🙏👏🙏
Relationship births from being present and grows with taking breaks periodically and becomes a reality in the real sense of a real relationship when being is absent and one isn't even aware of it and possibly notices by keen rationale.
MEISTTER ECKHART
Very inspiring spiritual teaching and with clear and simple words.
What a great speaker of truth!
Thank you - great vid. Bless you Eckhart.
man, Ive been so stupid
Don’t worry mate, we all have... (
I don't agree. Rather, I think we simply have not been thought that way of being when it was so crucial, ie: from 0 to 6 or 7 years old. We simply had ignorants parents just like us. The great news is It's never too late to change for the better.
Illuminating!! Thank you for sharing!!!
So funny, love Ekhart xxx
How can I be present and not enable my partners unconsciousness when they are reactive towards me? Is there an amount of time one can invest with being present until you realize the person you are with just may not ever get it or never change? I have not talked with her about being in the present moment, as I do not know how to without it affecting her unconscious mind, please share any suggestions.
Some background:
I know she is reactive due to her inability to cope and her reaction is about her and her inability. I'm trying to not enable her not to be negative, being present is a new idea to me; so I am trying to be present myself and as I do, I realize she consistently is looking for validation and reassurance for how she feels and I don't believe this is healthy for either of us. I feel like the only way this relationship will work is if I don't say anything, she takes it very personal if I point out an error or something that causes her to react, or if I tell her I can not enable her and try to discuss with her why I could be enabling. Obviously this could cause someone to take this personal, but I really try discussing kindly and tell her I can't answer some questions cause I care about her. If I stay present and try to allow her to just be, I find it very difficult to be ok with her whining, complaining, and need for validation/reassurance. I want this relationship to work, but I do not know if or when she will be less reactive and more present.
So wise and true. Thank you❤
Charmed and amused
spiritual airy fairy.. ahah its true, the best thing to do to all the judgement is allow it to be! its all ego anyways :)
because hes making light of otherwise difficult situations
this universe is vast, my friend
"The Dance of Anger" i read and read over again! until the book was in three or four pieces! author Harriet Goldhor Learner authored it along with two other books on family roles in trianngles, & dysfunctional patterns (1deception, 2Intimacy) which really helps to recognize, and possibly, step out of the dance. hehehehehehe!!
The best clip by Tolle :)
Love him! So helpful.
My biggest problem in life is that I live in the past. I bring old problems with me. Sometimes I bring problems that's even unrelated to the current problem. Even though in the presence the past is irrelevant. My new reactions can pick up in the angry state I was in the last problem. someone asking a "stupid" question again is a perfect example. It does not even have to be the same person. It does not even have to be the same question. My reactions still starts in full frustration because of the earlier stupid question that could even have been a long time ago by then.
I wish I could control my thoughts. But I cant. And therefor I cant be present really. Thoughts just happen.
its all about accepting the stupid questions to happen really. The question happened and its ok. It does not really matter. I always envy the people I see master this practice. And they are not even aware that they have accepted bad things to come in life. It just comes to show you cant really practice this. If you want to realize it, it just have to happen. Its not under your control.
Landbergaren Videos IMHO you first have to believe it (that you are in control of everything inside of you at the conscious level). ET explains in the Power of Now that we sometimes resist what 'is' and that's where we lose our presence and also start to become less conscious (I'm not quoting the book, more paraphrasing). I reckon that at first, you should accept your current state of being; get to know it; get to know exactly what triggers your emotions, what your emotions feel like inside, the patterns you go through when they feel negative, but do exactly the same for your positive feelings too. You have all the theory in place which is a good start for you but it's practice that is required. I'm by no means perfect and believe me I do struggle with baggage sometimes too, but the past [truly] only serves to uphold the ego and sense of self and identity. Maybe stupid questions are the ego's way of believing it's smarter than the other? Maybe the anger is the ego's means of protection against a bad experience in the past? Get to the root of these types of questions and you will be on the way to the beautiful 'you' that's under what you believe are your problems. Good luck x
Landgergaren: Totally agree. You see clearly and this is no small thing. Best of luck.
he's amazing!!
You are so funny thanks for making Me laugh
2023: note "there's something missing here"
thank you my star brother!
to really live , is the point.
you will be living more freely outside the ego
It all makes sense so much more
If there is nothing I need psychologically and nothing to aim for, what is the point of my life?
Compasion es aceptar lo que es el ser humano que esta frente a ti
as usual loooooooooooooooove you much!!
Wish I had learned of this years ago...my my....blessed be airy fairy.
Nails it so simply!
lovely eckhart!!!!
Thank you.
You gotta love him
Do anyone of you know where to find a very old video of eckhart, when he was very young.?
Past lifetimes too. Yes?
Awesome !
Sir, when you stress almost in every video not to think then how you can make so lengthy videos even without thinking?
wow that was so beautiful :)
good video, nice to see some women listen to Eckhart. My girlfriend does not like him.
calsitup I LOVE Eckhart! and I'm a woman!
calsitup Strange, in my experience I find that more women resonate with his teaching than men.
pheeel17 good to read would be nice to meet one. Also think a lot of people especially women idolise Eckhart Tolle. I think Eckhart is a good teacher and a wise man but I dont idolise him would rather stay with what he is pointing to. :)
He laughes like Sheldon Cooper. Blessings! =)
I admire Eckhart Tolle’s teaching skills, and agree with 99% of what I have heard him say on the two videos I watched. However, I think people make a big mistake when they use the word “spiritual” in any way other than to criticize the myth of spirituality. There are no “souls” and no spirits.
Google the words *calder meditation and the brain* - UA-cam video
and
*calder do you have a soul?* - essay that reveals the impossibility of reincarnation and soul
because he is making them laugh, they find him funny
God bless you!
I have felt this too.
You as you know and experience yourself in this paradigm are never present, never being. Time is a constant flow. The moment you thinking you're being it's already gone. Humans are living a continuity of the past. He's using the past, memory, in order to discuss the present. Not a bad way to make a living though.
Thank you
God bless you
He is the ideal
But who we are is made of experiences, you can't deny souls differ from each other by their "egos" otherwise life has no sense, being all the same is boring.
Yelena Kapilian interesting thought!🤔but don't most people go round trying to make people think just like them-especially in relationships?
God father protect me from my strongest enemys they are more than my hair. Lord you protected David from his strongest enemys because of the cleanness of his hands !!@ protect me God because of your rightuoness over my life and the hold nation!!! God bring distruction and confusion to my enemys cancel their secret plans and undress them in front of the world let their evil plans directed to me be destroy in the name of your loving son jesus christ of Nazareth. As from today god let their evil plans end even now .Thank you god for hearing and anwering this prayer !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you Brother !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! May god bless you abondently !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
how is the hard part
What if youre in a relationship & the person youre with has a different religious background? What if the couple get married & have babies? How are they going to raise their baby if they have separate religious backgrounds?
LOL LOL wonderful x
why are people laughing?
Can words fix a broken pipe or paint an unpainted wall?
Would be very careful with the world impossible - especially with regards to metaphysics...
thankyou very much
He's Hilarious! haha!
Thankyou
Thank youuuuuu
I came from the future
How can you not refer to history of relationship as you got most love or hatred in the past. Those guys are still trying to make your life heaven or hell?
🎯♥️
He looks like yoda
💖
really bad audio
Thank you! Peace_()_
Stay away from people.