We were dirt poor growing up. My uncles never liked us. My dad died when my wife and I just got married. Things got worse from there with them. My wife and I decided to move away from the toxicity. We're doing fine now. They've been asking us to move back. No thanks. Tbh, how I see it, your uncle loves you bc you're successful only. I say this bc if he truly loves you, he would have taken you in as a baby when he had the convo with your stepdad, knowing you were his bro's son. Funny, how people pretend they are related to you or love you when you become successful.
Your step dad brainwashed your half siblings behind your back. Regardless you still have the same mom, they should still love you. Sorry they're so heartless. Wishing you & your family the best in life.
That is a great story and sad.Peb uas neej nyob tos tej laus yeej ib txwm hais tias taws tsau tsis pom tom ntej no ces yog li no tiag kwv tij hmoob. tus me kwv, koj zaj neej neeg no yeej tu siab kawg, tiam sis tam sis no koj twb paub qhov tseeb lawm ces rau siab uas neej kom zoo es hluag tej thiaj li saib taus yus nawb mog
It's unfortunate that your txiv mov manipulated your other siblings from hating to harming you and that your mom didn't do enough to stop him from manipulating her other children or she didn't disciplined her other children to love/respect you enough. Also, regardless of whether you all are blooded siblings or not, no one by law has any right to damage your business/property. I'm glad you served your step-brother right, and you removed yourself from that clan. Don't be sad about your mom. She is wronged for not telling you your story sooner, but she had a good reason out of fear that you'll leave her, as you mentioned in here. I'm glad your blood uncle took you in. I wish you & your family nothing but the best, uncle. Ua zoo yeej tau zoo.
Good morning rau koj os sister Jenny. Kuv mas nyiam mloog koj hais dab neeg tshaj plaws li os thiab koj hais tau zoo mloog heev li os. Zag no mloog mas tu siab heev li vim kuv cov brother peb los zoo li zag no thiab. Zoo siab rau tus brother hauv zag no ua nws paub thiab tau kev hlub kev kam siab lawm os. God bless us all nawb mog
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Some ppl are just plain evil and can't accept who you are or from. You are blessed with a wonderful wife and kids. Best of luck !!
Sister Jenny, I understand you are reloading some of your earlier stories, but when you re-upload an old story, it would be nice if you put (Re-Upload) in the title so that those of us that listened to you every day knows it’s an old story. Because the stories are so similar, sometimes I listen to a story almost halfway already before realizing it’s a re-upload. It’s a little frustrating.
Lets get this one out of the way, "Blood is thicker than water". Yes, it is, about 20% more because our body knows that water is the best way to distribute needed nutrients. So, it mixes what it needs and replenishes our systems - what we call blood. By the way, we are about 80% water, and more importantly, we only exist because of water. So again, what do you think is really more important: blood or water? 🙂 (Of course, the analogy is really not of science but of faith, and it aligns so nicely with Hmong faith, 😉) The story is a very sad story, but so much to learn from. Of all the complications, one that stands out is honesty. There is no use holding truth back. It will only make things harder and darker that festers the soul. When children are at a stage of understanding, tell them - let them know what things really are and peace will follow. But, of course, Honesty is a very "special" for the Hmong. There seems to be a tendency that truth is weakness when it happens to interject or just tangent on personal pride. So, clarity is often left out and some story or analogy is placed. This is a tragedy!, because what is better than understanding the truth; everything else is a just lie or worst a shame. Work on honesty, you'll find that most of us are not artists and repainting things just gets worst, and worst... 😉
Your late mother was WEAK and that's why you suffered! She should have told you the truth as soon as you turned 18 (legal age to make your own decisions), and considering that your "father" (step-father) never liked or was fair to you, it would have been the best course of action in order to protect you against hateful "relatives"! You may love your late mother, but she did very little to protect you due to her own selfishness!
Cov ntxhais hmoob thaum ub ntawd mas thiaj tseem yog town holes ov yom. Nrhab rau txhua tus. Txiv neej dua kev ib vuag xwb los yeej poob lawv cov qhov tag nrho. Tos cov txiv neej ntawd tau tseb mi nyuam puv txhua qab ke qaum ke los vim cov poj ntawd yeej tsis xyeej hlo li es. 😂
I’m too confused. So your mom date or slept with her uncle ‘s younger brother?. Koj niam tham nws tus yawg laus tus kwv? It took me to re- liste 3 times to get the story to understand 🤷♀️
Koj zaj niag neejneeg no koj twb hais tag xyoo dhau los lawm es ua cas ho rov muab los hais dua na Jenny aw kuv mloog tag tsaib no los xyhov thaum twg lawm os nawb
ME TUB CIA RAU LUB NTUJ MAM LOS TXIA TXIV RAU KOJ THIAB COV TIB NTAIS NTUJ NAWB YEEJ YUAV TSI DIM KIAG LI MOG VAJTSWV YEEJ HLUB COV TIB NEEG NCAJ NCEES XWB YEEJ TSIS TUAV POV FWM LAWV LI OS.
All these ppl who did you wrong will receive their karma, except it will be 10X's worse than what they inflicted on you. Hmoob mas, khib yus tshaj!! Thaum yus muaj tshaj lawv mas, lawv nim khib khib khib khib khib khib khib khib ciaj khib tuag!!! Hmoob tug cwj pwm no mas ntxim ntxub tiag tiag li os lawv awww!! This is one of the reasons why I refuse to hang around with the hmong community. Lawv xav kom lawv yog tus muaj xwb. Yog yus muaj tshaj lawv mas, lawv ua ib pua tsav yam kom yus poob kom yus pluag xwb! These kinds of ppl, stay far, far away from them. Cut off ALL contact if possible.
Koj niam los siab phem koj tus yawg laus los siab phem. Koj tus yawg laus twb tsis kam lees koj puag thaum ntxov vim nws twb ntshai tsam tau tsa koj yim twb tos koj muaj cuab yig tag mam li tuaj lees qhia txhua yam rau koj. Hmoob mas yeej siab phem li no. Xav tos npua tshom tau ces dev mam li huas xwb. Yog kuv ces kuv yeej xum caum neej tsa mam mus vaj tswv xwb. Nrog koj tu siab os tus txiv tsev.
Kuv xav li koj hais thiab nws twb yug g muaj tub es nyuam qhuav muab 1000$tsa tub xeeb yim xwb twb tsim nyog nws paid whole lot of his wedding cosy yog nws yug muaj ces zoo g txawv
We were dirt poor growing up. My uncles never liked us. My dad died when my wife and I just got married. Things got worse from there with them. My wife and I decided to move away from the toxicity.
We're doing fine now. They've been asking us to move back. No thanks.
Tbh, how I see it, your uncle loves you bc you're successful only. I say this bc if he truly loves you, he would have taken you in as a baby when he had the convo with your stepdad, knowing you were his bro's son. Funny, how people pretend they are related to you or love you when you become successful.
Good story thiab hais tau zoo thiab tu siab kawg.
Your step dad brainwashed your half siblings behind your back. Regardless you still have the same mom, they should still love you. Sorry they're so heartless. Wishing you & your family the best in life.
😭😭 Wow! Kuv quaj2 heev, tiamsis zoo siab koj los nrhiav tau koj roj koj ntsav lawm....zoo siab nrog koj mog
That is a great story and sad.Peb uas neej nyob tos tej laus yeej ib txwm hais tias taws tsau tsis pom tom ntej no ces yog li no tiag kwv tij hmoob. tus me kwv, koj zaj neej neeg no yeej tu siab kawg, tiam sis tam sis no koj twb paub qhov tseeb lawm ces rau siab uas neej kom zoo es hluag tej thiaj li saib taus yus nawb mog
I've heard this story before but man, still brings tears to my eyes 😢
It's your mom's fault too not telling you about it. And not stop pour half siblings
Hais duas tshuab tseem zoo mloog tshaj os ua tsaug
It's unfortunate that your txiv mov manipulated your other siblings from hating to harming you and that your mom didn't do enough to stop him from manipulating her other children or she didn't disciplined her other children to love/respect you enough. Also, regardless of whether you all are blooded siblings or not, no one by law has any right to damage your business/property. I'm glad you served your step-brother right, and you removed yourself from that clan. Don't be sad about your mom. She is wronged for not telling you your story sooner, but she had a good reason out of fear that you'll leave her, as you mentioned in here. I'm glad your blood uncle took you in. I wish you & your family nothing but the best, uncle. Ua zoo yeej tau zoo.
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i heard this story somewhere else forgot who’s the other teller
Txhob tu siab!
Good morning rau koj os sister Jenny. Kuv mas nyiam mloog koj hais dab neeg tshaj plaws li os thiab koj hais tau zoo mloog heev li os. Zag no mloog mas tu siab heev li vim kuv cov brother peb los zoo li zag no thiab. Zoo siab rau tus brother hauv zag no ua nws paub thiab tau kev hlub kev kam siab lawm os. God bless us all nawb mog
Ok koj nawb❤❤❤❤❤❤
So sad, I’m glad your true uncle loves you! I hope that you find peace and always remember that your dad is always with you!
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Some ppl are just plain evil and can't accept who you are or from.
You are blessed with a wonderful wife and kids. Best of luck !!
Sister Jenny, I understand you are reloading some of your earlier stories, but when you re-upload an old story, it would be nice if you put (Re-Upload) in the title so that those of us that listened to you every day knows it’s an old story. Because the stories are so similar, sometimes I listen to a story almost halfway already before realizing it’s a re-upload. It’s a little frustrating.
Lets get this one out of the way, "Blood is thicker than water". Yes, it is, about 20% more because our body knows that water is the best way to distribute needed nutrients. So, it mixes what it needs and replenishes our systems - what we call blood. By the way, we are about 80% water, and more importantly, we only exist because of water. So again, what do you think is really more important: blood or water? 🙂 (Of course, the analogy is really not of science but of faith, and it aligns so nicely with Hmong faith, 😉)
The story is a very sad story, but so much to learn from. Of all the complications, one that stands out is honesty. There is no use holding truth back. It will only make things harder and darker that festers the soul. When children are at a stage of understanding, tell them - let them know what things really are and peace will follow. But, of course, Honesty is a very "special" for the Hmong. There seems to be a tendency that truth is weakness when it happens to interject or just tangent on personal pride. So, clarity is often left out and some story or analogy is placed. This is a tragedy!, because what is better than understanding the truth; everything else is a just lie or worst a shame. Work on honesty, you'll find that most of us are not artists and repainting things just gets worst, and worst... 😉
Koj cov kwv ces yoog kiag koj txiv ntag thiaj li siab phem li nws. Zoo qhov koj tsis yog nws yug koj lub siab thiaj zoo txawv lawv.
Yog kawg me brother blood yeej thicker..laugh cov koom ib plab ces txawm txhawm los luag yeej muab ua yeej xwb mas.
This story has been told before.
zaj no kuv hno dau lawm
Your late mother was WEAK and that's why you suffered! She should have told you the truth as soon as you turned 18 (legal age to make your own decisions), and considering that your "father" (step-father) never liked or was fair to you, it would have been the best course of action in order to protect you against hateful "relatives"! You may love your late mother, but she did very little to protect you due to her own selfishness!
“MA-LA-QA-PE” yog dabtsi na 😂😂
Cov ntxhais hmoob thaum ub ntawd mas thiaj tseem yog town holes ov yom. Nrhab rau txhua tus. Txiv neej dua kev ib vuag xwb los yeej poob lawv cov qhov tag nrho.
Tos cov txiv neej ntawd tau tseb mi nyuam puv txhua qab ke qaum ke los vim cov poj ntawd yeej tsis xyeej hlo li es. 😂
Me 1st
Thank you for listening
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I’m too confused. So your mom date or slept with her uncle ‘s younger brother?. Koj niam tham nws tus yawg laus tus kwv? It took me to re- liste 3 times to get the story to understand 🤷♀️
It's not her uncle, it's her brother in law, ( muam thiab yawm yim.)
No not her uncle. They are the same generation but cousins/different last names.
Billy xiong cov nkauj yuav ploj zuj zus mus lawm tiag lau...
I think I hear this story twice already, but no that details xwb it's sad story brother
Yes, I think I heard it before too but I forgot who's channel. Maybe it was this channel since Jenny has to re-do her old stories because of Utube.
I blame your mom.
Koj zaj niag neejneeg no koj twb hais tag xyoo dhau los lawm es ua cas ho rov muab los hais dua na Jenny aw kuv mloog tag tsaib no los xyhov thaum twg lawm os nawb
Cov neeg zoo li no zoo coj mus xam mas nas li nyab laj hais xwb.
Zaj no kuv twb hnov lawm thiab os
ME TUB CIA RAU LUB NTUJ MAM LOS TXIA TXIV RAU KOJ THIAB COV TIB NTAIS NTUJ NAWB YEEJ YUAV TSI DIM KIAG LI MOG VAJTSWV YEEJ HLUB COV TIB NEEG NCAJ NCEES XWB YEEJ TSIS TUAV POV FWM LAWV LI OS.
All these ppl who did you wrong will receive their karma, except it will be 10X's worse than what they inflicted on you. Hmoob mas, khib yus tshaj!! Thaum yus muaj tshaj lawv mas, lawv nim khib khib khib khib khib khib khib khib ciaj khib tuag!!! Hmoob tug cwj pwm no mas ntxim ntxub tiag tiag li os lawv awww!! This is one of the reasons why I refuse to hang around with the hmong community. Lawv xav kom lawv yog tus muaj xwb. Yog yus muaj tshaj lawv mas, lawv ua ib pua tsav yam kom yus poob kom yus pluag xwb! These kinds of ppl, stay far, far away from them. Cut off ALL contact if possible.
KOJ COV STEP BROTHERS SIAB PHEM TIAG2, CAS LAWV TSIS XAV TIAS NEJ YOG HALF BROTHERS NO OS YOM? PHEM2 TIAG2 YEEJ YUAV TSIS VAMMEEJ KIAG LI
Koj niam los siab phem koj tus yawg laus los siab phem. Koj tus yawg laus twb tsis kam lees koj puag thaum ntxov vim nws twb ntshai tsam tau tsa koj yim twb tos koj muaj cuab yig tag mam li tuaj lees qhia txhua yam rau koj. Hmoob mas yeej siab phem li no. Xav tos npua tshom tau ces dev mam li huas xwb. Yog kuv ces kuv yeej xum caum neej tsa mam mus vaj tswv xwb. Nrog koj tu siab os tus txiv tsev.
Kuv xav li koj hais thiab nws twb yug g muaj tub es nyuam qhuav muab 1000$tsa tub xeeb yim xwb twb tsim nyog nws paid whole lot of his wedding cosy yog nws yug muaj ces zoo g txawv
COV NEEG PHEM NTUJ YEEJ TSIS TSOMKWM, CIA TSWV NTUJ MAM MAM FOOM PUB RAU COV SIAB PHEM.....SIAB PHEM TIAG2
Koj niam phem tshaj nplaws li zais siab tshaj nplaws kuv ntseeg tsis tau tsis hlub los tsis npam
Neeg siab phem mas khiav kom neb.
Your mom is very selfish.