Twin Sister Wants Her Dress To Be 100% Different Than Her Bridesmaid's |Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta
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- Her twin sister is about to get married and the only thing that this maid of honour is thinking about is having a dress completely different from the bridesmaids'.
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Am I the only one who thinks it's weird for a bridesmaids dress to have a train?
I personally don’t like it
There's literally no point in a bridesmaid having a train! No one is going to be there fluffing out their train perfectly and a bunched up mess isn't cute. Like you want to deal with a bustle when the reception comes around too? Hell no.
I'm a hard no on a train for anyone but the bride
YoungOasis that dress sounds beautiful
Yes I think it's to much
nope. sorry. no matter how close you are, it is N.O.T your day at all. get over it
I'm with you 100%. It's the bride's day. NO one else.
@@suewiseley2724 the groom?
I totally agree!!
It’s for her sister to decide
Sue Wiseley then why don’t you instruct everyone else to dress in rags
BRIDEMAIDS SHOULD NOT HAVE A TRAIN ON THEIR DRESS THATS FOR THE BRIDE thank you
That's exactly what I was thinking
Hey what are trains?
@@yonder07 well except for the formal definition of the train, the train dress is the long material which is dragged on the floor, the part that make a normal dress a long dress of 118 inch
That's what I was thinking too it annoyed me so much.
@@angelakorodi5795 thanks, i was also wondering what it meant :D
The sister’s whole attitude is gross. I get that they’re close and I’m sure the marriage is going to be an adjustment for her, but that “let me have my moment”? Girl, it’s not your wedding. This is a celebration of your sister and her new husband. It’s HER day, THEIR day. Ugh, I hate how everyone catered to her in the end.
Hopefully that same behavior won’t carry into her sister’s actual marriage.
Do you have a twin?
When my twin got into a serious relationship, I struggled hard for quite a long time - because it was like a breakup between us after 28 years. We were a "pair" for all of our life, I was her number 1 and suddenly I wasn't anymore.
I can understand the sister. It feels like she wants to rescue a little bit of their bond into the wedding because its a very happy day for a twin but can also be a sad day (when it becomes official that the two of you are not one any more) and it will never be like before any more.
Not all twins are like that, but a lot are.
right! why you wanna have a moment in somebody else's moment? If it's such a struggle for you then go to therapyyyyy
Jhalmuriম্যাটার I’m going to assume you don’t have a twin but it is both of their moments but mainly the brides, it is a celebration of 2 things, one getting married, and them leaving each other, like them not being half and half anymore which is a big deal. I have a twin and if you had one you would understand, twins to everything together, like I mean EVERYTHING. Therefore it is just common behavior from the other twin because she will never be the other half of her ever again.
I don't think she's being gross exactly, just wants to feel more part of her sisters big day after all they are two halves of one whole genetically and have lived their entire lives side by side.
But as an outside spectator in my opinion, and I'm obviously not them but I can imagine how it would be for a twin, (I had close friends growing up who were twins, but a boy and girl, so only fraternal but they were still close)
I would say the sister getting married picks the best possible dress for her sister, something that she could see herself in as a maid of honour to her sister, and they agree that when the roles are reversed, the other will do the same for her... & she should stand out a little bit, it's not unusual for a maid of honour anyway, so I hear
And... It's not like she is asking for a replica of the wedding dress !! Now that would be going nuts - imagine that and then compare... mind boggles, right??
Still don't like that dress she chose though
I think the bridesmaids and maid of honour should still have similar dresses, something tieing them together, maybe the same fabric (a black like the bride's pick for bridesmaids) and her style is different to the rest;
like a one shoulder with a tiny extra bit of skirt at the back, not quite a train...
Or, say same colour but different dress...
Or is that the same thing... ?
Well I'm thinking say, purple, for example, and a totally different dress (to the rest) ((with chiffon, or tulle?? Tulip?? I dunno...)) while they, the others have on a simpler form fitting style, different fabrics altogether, just the colour matched...
I have a twin and I would never put up with that! He’s wearing the same bridesmaid dress as everyone else!! 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
As he should!!!🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Of course 😂
Being a twin myself, I would put my sister right in her place if she tried to do this. We also do everything together and she is my best friend, but this is just selfish. Twins are always grouped together so let the one getting married stand out and away from you just this once. I would never do this to my twin if she got married before me.
@@BillysFamily same here, twin bro
I mean she is not taking over her sisters spotlight, she just wants to feel special too, it’s going to be their last time together, before separating from each other. I don’t have a twin but I totally understand their emotions.
Girl i am twin and i can tell you i wanna standout on my wedding and she can stand out of braidmaids but not the train
As a twin too, i tend to wear different color /style when going out with twin ..she does the same too ...on a wedding day!!? If i could not attend her wedding , i would do it ..bcuz it is her day and i want her to have it all for once
Totally agree
“I want people to understand the relationship.”
You’re twins?? People will understand the relationship when they see that you have the same face???
Hey I wish I had a twin sisters I do have a sister yes yes we are really close
I think it's that it'snot like a normal brother and sister relationship. There are twins that can speak in unison or finish each other's sentences. For the twin it's basically if your lifelong spouse dumped you for someone else
I don't know man...I have twins and they attempt to fight to the death...same face, but maniacal little brains 😲
@@amorrissey9264 😂😂😂
@@MsJubjubbird as a twin, I definitely agree.
3:49 - "I look like a disco"
"Honey, you look like the ball"
THAT GIRL'S EXPRESSION WAS DEVASTATED. She was feeling so self conscious and I guess she thought the woman meant that she's shaped like a ball. Poor girl
I was thinking the same thing!
I was thinking the same thing too
And the fact that the CONSULTANT said that. I don’t like her
I actually (as a heavy person) took that comment like that, too. I thought, "how rude"
I went to the comment section after hearing that 😬
When she picks up the mannequin the bridal shop employee in me started screaming, “DONT TOUCH IT! WHAT ARE YOU DOING OH NO!”
Mackenzie D I did this 😳
Me too. I was like "wtf is you doing?"
"Dont rip it, ohhh nooo! :((((("
The any retail employee
Unclassy and cheap move from her... Those mannequins should be nailed to the base so this situation won't happen again
If she's the maid of honor, why doesn't she just get the same dress, but with a broach or something to make her stand out 😅
she is a twin, she deserves her own dress ,
@@annam6191 everyone has a twin these days. Special to me is quintuplets and more.
Lol a broach
A broach? What age are you 90?
Damn you really missed the point of the whole of that video, it’s her day to and celebrating separating from her sister a bit
The sister didnt even care. She was obsessed with her moment than her sister getting married and separated from her. The bride was a sweetie though!!Kind and thoughtful.
Too sweet and thoughtful, she should have taken more control over HER wedding. She just cared about “having her moment” she said nothing about celebrating separating until her sister said it then she took it and ran with it.
i feel like maybe the twin sister is just scared of like giving her best friend up like they have done everything together and when her sister gets married she’s leaving her twin to go with her husband idk
AMEN & until her sister finally puts her foot down and stands up for herself , it will Never change
The Bride is truly the kind & compassionate one - It was so devastating to see her dominated like this, but it’s was probably always tolerated
Crazy thing is they're not even getting "separated" one's just getting married and the other isn't 💀 the drama is real with these 2
I lost it when she grabbed the whole mannequin 💀
"Give me my moment"...then get married yourself.
This is what i am searching xD
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Right... like you'll get your moment later. Now is not the time
@Cherlock McFly 😂😂😂
@Cherlock McFly 😳
I wonder if the twin sister bridesmaid would say the same thing when it's her wedding and not her sister's.
Lmao
Yes! Lol they are sisters and siblings. Almost all siblings are like this 😂
Lol
I bet she don't!
Julia Who said that?
I have an identical twin myself but my sister wouldn't need a "moment" on my day. You literally share everything since being in the womb. Your wedding day isn't something you share with your twin sister, its something you share with your husband!
And that's the point. You will no longer share everything. So it will be a spacial day for the not bride twin too.
I get the twin thing, they SHOULD have a 'moment' at the reception, symbolic to the separation of twin, to establish end of the childhood and beginning of wifehood. Or is she going on the honeymoon too?
@@kathimorrical9912 she apart of the honeymoon too. 🤣🤣🤣
@@behappy9591 She'll be in the next room!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@geraldwarren6438 shoot more like same room and bed. 🤣🤣🤣 He might as well marry them both. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm a twin but I can confirm there's always that twin who has to be the dominant/opinionated one lol and it ain't me...
Lol
It's not that uncommon for the maid of honour or chief bridesmaid to be in a different dress as long as it fits with the rest of the bridal party.
Wilma Knickersfit My cousin had all the bridesmaids wear the same thing, but they all had bouquets with wedding colors for the ribbons. The maid of honor had a separate color ribbon to set her apart, but she still looked amazing and it all blended together well. This bride could have done something like that
Right my Maid of honor wore a different dress same material.
My twin sister let me wear a knee length dress of the same dress as the other bridesmaids.
I was MOH for a friend in college and to be clear, if I was a generic BM I would have suffered in silence, but since I was going to be beside her in EVERY photo... We all got those Infiniti dresses where you wrap them differently? Super easy and affordable on etsy. Wedding colors were silver and navy, BM dresses were silver. When my dress came in I of course tried it on, and well... I'm really fair skinned. I legitimately looked like I had jaundice, it was horrible. My mother and I tried for about an hour to see if we could wrap it in a way that made my skin look LESS yellow, but there was nothing for it... I looked like a seasick lemon wrapped in tin foil. I sent my bride friend a picture of me in the dress, asking how she felt about me returning it for a navy, since it wouldn't be odd for the MOH to wear the complementary wedding color. She was an art major. Within about 30 seconds of receiving the photo she sent an urgent text to exchange it asap. HUGE relief! Everyone looked great, the other BMs looked like Greek goddesses in the silver, friend looked divine, and the photos focus on her and her husband, not a MOH who looked like she had good poisoning!
True, but she's pushing for it, when the bride wasn't going for it and that's completely out of line.
Lori looks so much younger with that hairstyle. She rocks it.
Also since this is filmed more recent, the dresses are much better lol
I honestly think Lori looks older with her hair longer, and I think the shorter hair suits her the best. Of course she'll still fabulous either way.
I agree
I said the same thing about the dresses
She does give a more vibrant appearance with this look.
I actually checked the release date to see if this was an old video, because she looks so much younger!
"We're twins so this is my day as well"
No it's not!
Exactly I don’t get that
Fr like it is the definition of not your day
I like how most of the people who complain ain't a twin and dont who. This And emotional bond
Year later: My twin is pregnant but we twins so im also pregnant 😂
Unless u marrying the same guy love it anit ur day
This show should be called “The Narcissistic Friend You Didn’t Know You Had”
“I hate bridesmaids”
LMAO
Edit: Tysm for all the likes! I hope everyone stays safe from COVID-19!
I actually paused the video so I could laugh out loud when she said that
I've literally, not once in nearly 5 years of working in bridal salons, heard any stylist say "I love working with bridesmaids".
There was one older episode where she said the same thing 🤣 i love her
The attitude though 😂
•Møødy lil kee-wee• IKR
there is always that one twin that STARVES for attention.
No. This isn't about attention. It's about becoming the number two for someone when you have been number one for your whole life. Since before birth. For some twins it is no problem, but for others, it's hard. And the wedding is the moment when it gets official.
Nria Mond that made me get a pain in my chest and I’m not even a twin
@@nriamond8010 My identical twin sister just got married and you're completely right. It's a bond most people can't understand.
I'm assuming you're a twin, right? If not, step off and take that ugly judgmental personality with you.
@@dawniebug784 lmao youre salty becausr you feel attacked
I get it. I am a twin and while I didn’t think it was my wedding too, the moment my sister walked out the door into wedded bliss I fell apart. Hardest day of my life. She is happy, I am happy but that is a hard shift for twins to make. This maid of honor is showing up rude but it is about so much more. Inside she is falling apart, thinking she is losing her sister.
That's what happens when multiples are not encouraged to be individuals.
@@eileenmcdonald1599 that wasn’t my experience. Our parents encouraged us to pursue our very different giftings . Even today, she is rocking it as a stay at home mom in America and I am working with refugees in Africa. We are very far apart, but there is no denying the twin bond. It is real and fierce.
I like how the bride was mature in acknowledging the emotional aspect of her sister’s wishes. Shows how much love there is between them, loved it ❤️
The bride showed her love for her sister, but the sister just showed how selfish she is because if she loved her she would have understood it was her day.
Why not just give the maid of honor a silver beaded belt or something to make her stand out but keep the dress the same???
Or maybe some sort of pearl necklace
Because that’s not what the bride had in mind...it’s her wedding not her sisters
The third girl's dress with the black crossed back was gorgeous and the white dress one shoulder was amazing.
Dainna Sinclair agreed everything that the 3rd girl wore were good
The white one was beautiful, but what bride would want her bridemaids wearing white?
@@ana-maria8350 I'm pretty sure they have different colors, so it should be fine.
Yah the twin should have taken that as her dress. Not this one.
@@ana-maria8350 my cousin had her bridesmaids wear white and remember Pippa Middleton? May be ivory but still.
Dude just because you're close twins doesn't mean everything in her life is yours
I don’t care if you’re twins or not! If you’re not the one getting married, 👏🏻it’s 👏🏻 not👏🏻 your👏🏻 day!👏🏻
Lori's hair is on point !!!!!
She look beautiful 😍
Right? Definitely much better! The other haircut ages her quite a bit.
@@Angie-zk4ei exactly
Yup! She just had the classic Karen haircut before. She looks much better now!
That was the only reason why i watched this
“This is my wedding too” bish yu gonna sleep with your sister’s man too? Lol😶
lololo oof
Who says she hasn't yet?
LMAO OOOOOF
Lol bet not😂
They do "literally everything together" so...
“I just wanted something that says I’m special”
But are you...?
I was angry at that point this is your sisters wedding! …but you want to stand out and look special
@@lamonicagoldwire7664FACTS
moa?
@@justatroll5314 yessssss
@@jypsimp1915 hiii goorrrll meee toooo
i keep on getting so confused, “let me have my moment”, this isn’t your wedding, it’s your sisters moment not yours.
"let me live, give me my moment"
Honey this day isn't about any of your moments. You will have your moment, but this is NOT IT
Actually it is, too. It's a really beautiful, exciting, magical day for the bride and groom, but a incomprehensibly bittersweet day for this twin who is essentially losing her other half. I say the bride's reaction to her says how close they really are. If the bride sneered at her and rolled her eyes at the thought of her twin trying to feel special then I would agree with you but she didn't. She saw what was really going on underneath and saw what was really important and ultimately showed an extreme amount of love for her. That is why I disagree with you and most of the negative reactions towards the bridesmaid on this thread.
@@dawniebug784 I felt it too, made me teary eye. Her sister is starting a new chapter and they will also start a new chapter together except one will be married and possibly start a family , dynamics will def change.
@@dawniebug784 this is true I’m a twin but with a boy and I now have a son but I still feel like I’m not closer to anyone else but him literally the other half and my son is half of our hearts 😂😂😂
Her sister has such a cheap, kitschy taste. The classic off the shoulder dress looked the best on her, the one with the embellishments looked so ugly, did not make her any justice.
the whole point of the dress with diamonds is to show everyone how special she is to the bride and vise versa and also represents how they are always going to reconnected through anything and everything so as long as they are both happy id doesn't matter if she looks trashy or not in my opinion take no offense in what i say please
It goes with her basic attitude
Well she is cheap and she wanna look cheap so there you go
@@nurikokazama8877 Why would you say a rude thing like that, just because you don't have the same taste doesn't mean you have to be rude about it.
She looked good. Stop hating
this is a sweet group of friends. they apologized and hold each other accountable- I hope the wedding goes amazingly
That is the sweetest relationship I've seen sisters have. I can see now why she wanted to stand out and feel special because it's essentially making the occasion that they are growing apart. Truly bittersweet but very heartwarming at the same time.
@@filtill its not. They could happy
That was nice of Dominique to let Monique have that dress but am I the only one who thought the dress was still kinda ugly??
It was a little matron of honor but I think once they order it in her size it will look more tasteful.
I'm okay with it looking a little different from the bridesmaids', but I didn't like this particular one - at all. Also, unlike the bride's gown, the train on this one doesn't appear to have any way to bustle, so it will be a problem for dancing, etc.
I do too i mean that embellishment on the front is a no go😑😑😑😑😑
Get rid of the cheesy vegas inset & it would be a beautiful dress.
I'm glad it was ugly so people would just look at her and think her dress was ugly instead of thinking its good
those “it’s my wedding too” people, where is your own husband 🤦🏽♀️
They can't get one😂 That's why they are this way
Plz this is always my question
@@jadenonnel8528 Right!
Finally a bride that actually has taste I mean these brides get like lime geek dresses with lace or something
“She’s made it clear that this is her wedding too.”
Uh no
I'm fixing to be my best friends maid of honor and honesty if she wants me to be in a burlap sack I'll do it🤷♀️ it's her day.
People like you make the best maids of honor, you genuinely care for your friend and want her day to be special.
If your best friend puts you in a sack for her wedding day you need a new friend. Best friends want you to look good on the wedding day, since you'll be representing them. If she puts you in something that makes you purposely look bad means she's insecure.
@@laylanazzal8639 um no it's called it's her day. She should be able to choose what she wants her bridesmaids in. If she finds a dress she wants for her bridesmaids dress ima wear it whether I think it's pretty or not🤷♀️
@@laylanazzal8639
you added *purposefully* and sinister-ish motivation to make your argument
projecting something 🤔
you might not like it, or think it's making you look good
but if anything this show can teach us (whoever didn't know already) it's that we can have very different ideas what _looks good_ on a person means.
Brides choosing anything related to her wedding to look bad /and you do realize it's representing them! / just doesn't make sense.
Of course, a sack is likely a hyperbole, OP used to make a point. But if you had a person who'd do some funny theme wedding where sack wearing would fit for a best friend - well, you knew who you were friend with, lol.
That said, I don't think nobody should voice any complains, ever - for example I have sensory issues and sometimes wear clothes close to skin inside out, itchy turns to unbearably painful very fast.
If that wasn't taken into consideration - then you'd be right about reevaluating friendship.
So materials ichy, not breathable, or something like that...
Bride might not realize such things as she's not trying those dresses,
just being respectful and not forgetting who's day it is, is way to go.
@@clxud3dm1nd71 then everyone at the wedding are going to see you and see that it is ugly and laugh at you
BRUH SHE TOOK THE WHOLE MANNEQUIN
I know the sister was completely out of line with how she was acting; but when she said, "Calvin will be your other half now," I honestly cried. She wasn't trying to make the wedding about herself, she was trying to cling onto her relationship with her sister and wanted to feel like she was still just as loved and special. She's broken hearted, and my heart hurts for her.
Exactly 💯
I LOVED the twin story! My mom had an identical twin who died young and from everything I know, identical twins do share a very unique bond. Was I the only one that saw the pain on the twin's face when the bride explained how close they'd always been and that her marriage - as much as she wanted it and was thrilled about it - would be bittersweet for both of them because both the shared their lives like they were one person up until then? Her sister was hurting and she knew it and she wanted her to feel included, more-so than the other women in the party. Was that really such a hard ask, or give? I thought it was lovely and I cried. And yes, the twin did exhibit selfishness and immaturity but there were probably more self-aware, supportive and loving moments too that were edited out to make the story more dramatic. Just how I saw it.
I was only looking for Lori's hair🤓
I love it!
is no one gonna talk about how gorgeous the twins areee🤩🥺
Not the one who keep thinking it’s her day instead of the bride day
@@mewmew1026 they look the same.. her attitude was not cute but she really is pretty
They're so adorable 😍😊
It’s so nice to see a bride who’s thinking of others and not just herself. I think it’s sweet that she wants her twin sister to feel special on a day that will change both their lives forever, after being so close their entire lives. Excellent! Inspiring!
When someone is truely special she dosen't even have to try to stand out and cry out she's special.
am i the only one who really doesn’t like satin?? it’s so unflattering and clings to the body awkwardly, the shine only accentuates those parts
edit: spelling lmao
I'm okay with it looking a little different from the bridesmaids', but I didn't like this particular one - at all. Also, unlike the bride's gown, the train on this one doesn't appear to have any way to bustle, so it will be a problem for dancing, etc.
I'm still a while away from getting married, but I've already decided I don't like satin lmao. I find it too shiny (which looks a bit cheap imo), and the material kind of looks stiff and heavy on dresses like this that have a fairly straight cut skirt.
Brides dress as satin looks good
I like it.
Its a less expensive fabric so it is a more affordable dress for some
Welp they finally listened to all the comments wondering why everything in the bridesmaids salon looks like at belongs at a hideous 8th grade formal. This is slightly better!
Because other episodes were older this episode was from the newest season
omg, she just picked up the mannequin and carried it around the store, lol. The bride was sweet in letting her sister have her way a bit. She also understands her behavior and feels she should be included as much as possible even in decision making. The black dress with the shiny v design looked good on her. The other black dress on the bridesmaids is perfect.
I love how Lori is always over it with the bridesmaids. I don't blame her.
"I want people to understand the relationship here" the 'relationship here' is the marriage that you are not a part of..
This long hairstyle looks so good on Lori
300
We ain gone talk about how stunning miche looked in every dress like yess gurl
“I’m the boss today”
no your not, your sister is the boss today. let her have a day with her future husband. your day will come, but it’s not your day today. so let the bride have a day to herself.
Ow.. I think it's the first time i have seen lori's hairs this much long.. Suits her so much
"We're more than sisters, we're twins"
twin... sisters? 😂
Exactly! I'm a twin and I never understood why people said that.
The last few minutes when the bride let her twin know, "Yes, I get it. I want you to have the dress." Then she said off camera that she hoped her twin would be okay. It was very honoring. Her twin seemed okay then. She just needed to be acknowledged and honored. Its the same with the Father of the bride, and the Mother of the bride. She may be was so broken inside that she needed to not be humiliated in front of everyone. She needed her twin to publically acknowledge her.
Is this true with every twin relationship? No, not at all. Here, the bride said repeatedly that they had the same life. She realized her twin needed something from her to let her know she was special. I felt the bride genuinely understood. And when she spoke up and said yes. It settled something and was very healing. I think the wedding photos will be beautiful.
Beautiful sentiment.
Well said!!! We are all human after all x
@@anima6035 Praise God.
@@keepinupwitAbby Hallelujah.
They're all so pretty, but that "it's my day too" attitude would drive me up the wall if I was there
"Honey, you look like the ball."
Damn, shots fired!
I laughed so hard
I like the bride...but the problem is with her twin sister....she should be happy for her sis but I think that she wants to be the sensation of the day ( WEDDING DAY)..........
BUT AFTER I SAW LORI WITH THAT BEAUTIFUL HAIR , MY ATTENTION TURNED TOWARDS HER......WHO ELSE AGREE WITH ME?
yes I totally agree, this hairstyle looks so different yet so good on her!
@@saramlinaric1578
😊😊💯✌️
I agree with u👍👍
@@jayakumarsanthanakrishnan9540
😊
Ugg it looks fabulous on her!!!
“So let me live, give me my moment”
Are you kidding me?!?! Your moment would be when you find someone to walk down the aisle to who can put up with your starve for attention. Not your sister’s wedding. Like give her, her big special moment with her family and loved ones watching her get married to her loved one.
When she’s says she wants people to understand their relationship, it makes no sense Bc they have THE SAME FACE
That sister is so bloody selfish one day she’s going to look back on this and realize how stupid she was
The twin sister basically wants to be the bride too. Selfish af. She wants to shine just as much as the bride.
Girl bye
You obviously didn’t watch the episode.
She's not
Love Button i did and still found her selfish and jealous on her sister.
Sabina Mihutoiu and I think you’re insensitive to their connection and maybe she wish she had someone to marry so that would fill the void of not being her sisters other half anymore. They’ve been each other’s favorite person their whole life. It’s an adjustment. Jealousy is normal feeling and it has levels. If she said I should be the one getting married then that’s envy. There is a difference.
Ok but they acting like the other twin gonna gonna die when she get married.
Honestly can we talk about how beautiful their relationship is and stop bashing her twin sister as long as there both happy plus I just love their relationship
Honestly, in my culture the maid of honor never dresses like the bridesmaids on the first place. I never even understood why people do that. She is not a bridesmaid, she is the maid of honor, that's a totally different role to play on a wedding. I don't agree with how she comes across, but I do agree with her point.
i find it pointless to have a maid of honour if they're just going to be treated the same as the rest of the bridal party.
She could be in a different dress but match the bridal party like different dress same color and with a broach or something like that doesn’t have to out show the bride and make a fuss about it
They do it for pictures mostly, so that all the focus is on the bride and groom. My maid of honor got special jewelry and a bigger boquet than my bridesmaids, but she actually wanted her dress to be the same. I offered to let her choose a fancier one, but she said no, because she didn't want to take any attention away from me. We also got our hair and make-up done by the same person, in a similar style, my bridesmaids decided to do theirs themselves. It made her stand out just enough from the other girls, but the pictures still look very nice. And all the focus was on me and my new hubby.
@@fallinangels congrats to you and your husband 🥳
At my mums wedding her sister, the maid of honor, wore the same dress but the colors were inverted
My maid of honor was my sister, who is my best friend, and I put her in a different dress! I think that’s ok, but it just depends on the bride, and the bride did just that! Good for her!
She could of had the dress just without a train because it's your sister's moment no matter how close you are...
I can understand where her twin is coming from because ima twin myself. She just wants people to see the bond they have and the closeness that no one else can take from them through her dress. She doesn’t wanna overshine her sister but still stand out in a way that’s showing others where they stand togethher
What a load of garbage
I think that this episode ended with a good compromise. Ppl can say the twin was just trying to be the center of attention but I highly disagree. Seeing how close twins are she just wanted to stand out from the others brides maids and have something special with her sister. I know twins who’ve never left each other even after they married. I saw in the news Identical twins who married identical twins and moved into the same house. Twins giving birth the same day... That TWIN CONNECTION IS DEEP! I can’t relate to the feeling because I don’t have a twin but I’m not going to be insensitive and knock it.
I agree.
From where I am, there is no way the sister of the bride would wear what the bridesmaids or any other person in the wedding is wearing. So I do get it. And I do not think she would outshine the bride as she didn't ask for a ballgown/ white dress ... she just wanted something fancier than the rest.
It's definitely not unusual in the UK. It just has to be in keeping with the rest of the bridal party. I don't like her choice though, but that doesn't matter.
I’ve seen the made of honor wear I slightly different dress, as well; however, to demand the bride allow it is wrong, twin sister or not.
The Maid of Honor dress is usually slightly different from the bridesmaids.
4:41 "Are they about to fight" SENTTTT ME. she said that with the straightest face !! sis was OVER IT
5:17 I just wanna compliment the two girls and there hair
You gotta understand her twin's sentiment, she did not want to outdo the bride, she just wanted to be recognised as the sister and not only as the maid of honour. It is a bittersweet moment for her, it is both joyous and painful to see someone whose whole life is thoroughly entangled with yours to get married. She did not want to steal the attention, she just wanted to be recognised.
Finally someone who thinks this
Whatever
I totally agree!
But not that dress
If this twin sister/maid of honor behaves like that in her daily life, no wonder hasn't found her other half! Gurl grow up!
Aww when she was describing their relationship 🥺
When it cut to the friend and she said “oh my god are they gonna fight”🤭😂😂 I was shook
This is so sweet. I can’t imagine being a twin who goes through this. These bridesmaids were so gracious to apologize for not understanding what the maid of honor was feeling 🥰
I almost cried when she said her sisters man was gonna be her other half.
Girl me too!
I love her! So understanding of her sister’s need for her to wear an upscale dress!
These girls are literally the only ones to come to SYTTD with actually GOOD makeup lmao
I’m sorry but I hate when twins act like this 🙄🙄 so annoying. you aren’t the same person, you just look exactly alike!
Exactly! Me and my twin understand that we sometimes feel like the same person and will always be close, but we NEVER TRY TO BE THE OTHER PERSON OR OUTSHINE EACH OTHER. Just because we’re twins doesn’t mean everything is shared equally.
For a lot of twins it's not like we're the same person, it just happens that we have a lot of the same interests and aspirations. My twin and I are completely different hobbies wise but we are both going into nursing and we like the same clothing brands. If we end up marrying people she'll have a completely different dress than my bridal party and I will too because she's not on their level and the relationship is so much more than a sister or friend. I completely understand this sister and I highly doubt she was actually acting this way - I feel like they edited the interaction to make her seem way more pushy than she actually was.
I married a twin thank God they never were this dysfunctional. They're guys though, so there's that...
@@mayawu9507 Just because you're a twin doesn't mean you can fully comprehend the type of bond other twins have.
Dawn Bloss I NEVER said that I could, but I understand how being a twin can sometimes be a little irritating to have to share or be expected to share things. Having a twin often comes with the problem of being compared to the other and can sometimes feel like a competition. I simply feel that if the bride wanted HER WEDDING to be a certain way, then the sister had no right to act as if she was the one getting married. Yes every one is allowed to speak their opinion, and feel they way they feel. However there is a certain time, a certain place, and a certain way a person should act. The bridesmaid should’ve spoke with her sister in private if she felt that strongly about it. doing it publicly, especially on the day of picking the dresses on TV with guests, is humiliating. I personally think that the bride was feeling like her sister was trying to outshine, or take part of more than what she was supposed to. There is only one bride, and a bridesmaid, no matter how close the bond whether it be a friend or family member should stay in their place.
Wait.. .can we talk about Lori's hair? I love it! See this is what happens when you cancel cable, you miss the important shit :) Edit... and Lori seems uncharastically subdued....
they have all the seasons of SYTTD on TLCgo! i don’t have cable either lmao but need some dresses to see during this quarantine
Yea she doesn't really seem her spunky sparky self I hope she's ok
“I want ppl to understand the relationship here” GIRL‼️Ya share a face‼️Relationship is definitely understood‼️
Dang this made me cry, such beautiful twins. That black dress her twin sister had was divine 🖤
I love this moment. Only twins can understand that kind of love and compromise
But this isn’t fair it’s the bride and groom day not the bride and the twin day
Imagine having a close sister and friend all your life and never feeling lonely. 🙃
I love Laurie’s new hair style. It looks soft and is very flattering.
Binge watching this and the amount of times Lori says "I hate bridesmaids" Is killing me!
so great
I'm just glad to see that the bridesmaids' dresses they stock improved over the years 😂
I am only a minute into this episode and a twin sister myself, I hate the idea of sharing my big day with a sister like this.
This video is just going to ring loud in my memory if I ever have twins in the future... I will make sure both kids are treated equal, but in their own individuality! Matching outfits are cute, but if it's done too many times, it can cause the twins (especially identical twins) to see themselves as one unit instead of two individuals. I also think about those identical twins that are obsessed, and I mean OBSESSED, with being the exact same...they eat the same, they dress the same, they get the same plastic surgery, they even DATE the same man! Whew, talk about unhealthy...
“she needs me to handle MY dress” oh hell no.. its not your wedding hun.
Out of all the dresses the black Hayley Paige is amazing on all three of the girls 🖤
This is the most respectful bridal party I’ve seen on this show!
The bride is literally the sweetest. She’s so great for not fighting her sister for wanting to wear an overly dramatic dress.
I understand the twin! I teared up towards the end. Their relationship is changing and she's having a hard time accepting that.