Hayini guys hayini!🤣🤣The way eniSerious ngayo while explaining umntu ongayaziyo would believe you😭😭😂😂 Arrawise let me try to help here😅 1. Intaka yakha ngoboya benye - Inkcazelo elula yeliqhalo ithi, “Kuyanceda-ncedwana”, you need help from another person to achieve your goals (this does not necessarily refer to the goals you set for yourself for whatever year, it can be anything odinga uncedo kuyo okanye odinga uncedo ngayo). Direct translation - ‘a bird uses another bird’s feathers to build its nest’. 2. Inkomo isengwa ngoyaziyo - simply means that ukuze into eyenziwayo ikhawuleze ilunge kufuneka yenziwe ngumntu oyaziyo okanye onolwazi olupheleleyo ngayo (one must not do things without the necessary skills or knowledge) Direct translation - a cow is milked by the person who knows it. I hope this helps😅Love each other🫂❤️
Aaaw man your trip down memory lane invoked so many of my own with abazali. Some Saturdays they would just suddenly say, hlambani siyelwandle! Yho sibe excited sana. Kugcwaliswe icooler box with iizspices and other items neskaftina eskhulu. Siphathe iitowel necostume zethu. It was such a time. uTata wayethanda ukoja pha ebhlathi eMonti then kuthengwe i2l sihambe nayo siye eNahoon which was our fave beach. Singabantwana sikhululele emotweni sibaleke ukuya emanzini. As we got older and a bit too cool to be swimming in the beach, we’d people watch pha ngase Esplanade and listen to music and have light chats with the rents. I hold those memories so dear to me, especially now that uTata is no longer alive. ❤ Basizama nyani shame
Family ritual: My dad used to knock off early on Fridays and he'd come home and pick us up. We'd go window shop at Game, which was so fun because we'd play on the gym equipment, look at chainsaws and camping stuff. Once the window shopping was done, we'd buy a snack for the ride home.
I so wish I could like the video more than once. Ndinibukela ndincumile oko guys. Wanga uThixo anganenzela izinto ezinkulu, ezintle kulonyaka ka2025. ❤❤❤
me: "Tata, what's your favourite colour?" Tata: "Nguwe". sizoyazi kanjani ke 🤣 We laid my dad to rest this past Saturday, we couldn't pick his favourite colours for decor so we just went with his favourite soccer team colours which is black and yellow... that was close enough.
Sana Thalitha and I same whatsApp groups in so many things😂😂 I don't remember most things from my childhood, thats why into zo "forgive your childhood self" zindenza buzz cause what am I forgiving ndingakhumbuli nex. you cannot ask me beyond who was my Grade 2 teacher, that's it. My God I HATE eating, chewing is such a sport😂😂
Ah when we were young, my dad took us out as a family a lot, to movies, to the zoo, to the beach, I will always have fond memories of these. Senze amagwinya sihlohle and snacks, meat 😋 the picnic way...oh man those will always be so special to me.
First time commenting been catching up since last year December. Umyeni wami (Zuko) has been hinting bandla that he wants to be close to Talitha nangoku he wanted to accompany you to your Dr's appointment. Here is suggestion how about you guys go on formal date every quarter.
Every Sunday after church we would take a walk with our late dad from elalini sometimes sasifila etown and then coming back was a mission ngokuba we were tired and we would hitchhike back we would carry food water snacks for the road super fun memory
35:42 Jonga ndiyayi bona le yotya once a week neh qha kuthetha ipoverty not mna 😂 ndiyaou thanda mna ukutya - love to eat so much, love to cook, loooove to bake, okay with the dishes lol kodwa ingaske silambe 1/7 days and the prices in the supermarket stay exactly where they are 🤣
Hello hellooo The word you were looking for is idioms. I think "Intaka yokha ngoboya benye" could mean the same as "one man's trash is another man's treasure"
The thing of using music as a filler is something I usually do when I'm writing. Ndiyisebenzisa as background noise to avoid being distracted and overthinking my writing😭
“Intaka yakha ngoboya benye”=kuyancedwana (izandla ziyahlambana)
Mzubhela's explanation was wild😂
Hayini guys hayini!🤣🤣The way eniSerious ngayo while explaining umntu ongayaziyo would believe you😭😭😂😂
Arrawise let me try to help here😅
1. Intaka yakha ngoboya benye - Inkcazelo elula yeliqhalo ithi, “Kuyanceda-ncedwana”, you need help from another person to achieve your goals (this does not necessarily refer to the goals you set for yourself for whatever year, it can be anything odinga uncedo kuyo okanye odinga uncedo ngayo). Direct translation - ‘a bird uses another bird’s feathers to build its nest’.
2. Inkomo isengwa ngoyaziyo - simply means that ukuze into eyenziwayo ikhawuleze ilunge kufuneka yenziwe ngumntu oyaziyo okanye onolwazi olupheleleyo ngayo (one must not do things without the necessary skills or knowledge)
Direct translation - a cow is milked by the person who knows it.
I hope this helps😅Love each other🫂❤️
Oh it definitely helps… so clear and concise- thank you for this - as clear as day 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Usincede sonke enkosi😇
I love you 😭 futhi usibhala kakuhle isiXhosa. The IsiXhosa Home Language student in me is happy. ❤
Aaaw man your trip down memory lane invoked so many of my own with abazali. Some Saturdays they would just suddenly say, hlambani siyelwandle! Yho sibe excited sana. Kugcwaliswe icooler box with iizspices and other items neskaftina eskhulu. Siphathe iitowel necostume zethu. It was such a time. uTata wayethanda ukoja pha ebhlathi eMonti then kuthengwe i2l sihambe nayo siye eNahoon which was our fave beach. Singabantwana sikhululele emotweni sibaleke ukuya emanzini. As we got older and a bit too cool to be swimming in the beach, we’d people watch pha ngase Esplanade and listen to music and have light chats with the rents. I hold those memories so dear to me, especially now that uTata is no longer alive. ❤ Basizama nyani shame
Oh man! What a beautiful gift to be able to keep as a memory! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you for sharing this with us, it leaves such a warm fuzzy feeling 🥰
UBhuti Zuko uyamkhathalela uSisi wakhe vah, uthi "want me to come with you..?" Jonga uSisi Thalitha wablasha kancinci kulapoint .... ❤❤❤
#loveeachother should be a verb! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Family ritual: My dad used to knock off early on Fridays and he'd come home and pick us up. We'd go window shop at Game, which was so fun because we'd play on the gym equipment, look at chainsaws and camping stuff. Once the window shopping was done, we'd buy a snack for the ride home.
Ncoooh man! This sounds so sweet 🥲 our parents really tried guys ❤️
I so wish I could like the video more than once. Ndinibukela ndincumile oko guys. Wanga uThixo anganenzela izinto ezinkulu, ezintle kulonyaka ka2025. ❤❤❤
me: "Tata, what's your favourite colour?" Tata: "Nguwe". sizoyazi kanjani ke 🤣 We laid my dad to rest this past Saturday, we couldn't pick his favourite colours for decor so we just went with his favourite soccer team colours which is black and yellow... that was close enough.
Oh man… our heartfelt condolences to you and your family and loved ones ❤️ 🤗
What a quirky response to the question - what a man we are sure he was 💐
Also Zuko ate by saving the live video from you guys’s Powerfm interview y’all did great🥳🥳🥳I was like I like you guys Mara 5am 😂😂😂
Hahahahah - yeeeyi we also had a time getting there but it worked out in the end. Thanks for the love 🫶🏾
😢 iphi guys? IG? Tiktok?
Crossing fingers and praying for Tali's auditions to get her a role 🙏 ❤️
Thanks ntombi❤
From your lips to Gods ears! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
11:20..Sasinoncwadi kwa tanci: we' ve always had literature....uncwadi=literature ..kwa tanci= kwakudala= back in the dat/A long time ago
Yes please! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Sana Thalitha and I same whatsApp groups in so many things😂😂 I don't remember most things from my childhood, thats why into zo "forgive your childhood self" zindenza buzz cause what am I forgiving ndingakhumbuli nex. you cannot ask me beyond who was my Grade 2 teacher, that's it. My God I HATE eating, chewing is such a sport😂😂
It’s a lot guys yho… and it’s all so interesting. So who was your grade 2 teacher? 🫣
Ah when we were young, my dad took us out as a family a lot, to movies, to the zoo, to the beach, I will always have fond memories of these. Senze amagwinya sihlohle and snacks, meat 😋 the picnic way...oh man those will always be so special to me.
Those sound like beautiful memories! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you for sharing - do you think you would replicate?
Inkomo isengwa ngoyazi- Yenza into onolwazi ngayo/Stick to the things you know.
Qalu liva eliqhalo. Enkosi
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First time commenting been catching up since last year December. Umyeni wami (Zuko) has been hinting bandla that he wants to be close to Talitha nangoku he wanted to accompany you to your Dr's appointment. Here is suggestion how about you guys go on formal date every quarter.
Zuko nomjolo😭😭😭😭
Intaka yakha ngoboya benye is the same as izandla ziyagezana. In essence, kuyancediswana. #Ubuntu
Ahhh beautifully put! Thank you so much 😊 🫶🏾
Every Sunday after church we would take a walk with our late dad from elalini sometimes sasifila etown and then coming back was a mission ngokuba we were tired and we would hitchhike back we would carry food water snacks for the road super fun memory
Bling Friday! 🎉🎉🎉
Tsi, I hope nimenzile nyani loPart 2 kanjani🤭 I really enjoyed the first date questions man, thank you guys!
We are proud to announce that Part Two has been shot! New year new us 🫣 this year we deliver 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@@siblingthrivalry ah I love this for all of us! Iyabulela ilali❤
Zuko's explanation of intaka yakha ngoboya benye was wiiiiild😂😂 😂
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Lmao "akho mntana ungazobana tata" killed me😂😂
😂😂😂😂 are we adding amaqhalo to the modern Xhosa though?
I laughed so hard!
@ ndingowase Bhayi I already get so much flack for speaking what is not considered Xhosa - I vote yes 🤣🤣🤣
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Dead 😂😂😂😂
As a medical student, I feel very offended on behalf of doctors 😂. Yhini kaloku funeka benze ii tests to diagnose some things 😭
Oh uxolweni guys , Inoba kukungazi on our side … maybe we should get someone to come and explain to us yabo 🫣🫶🏾
@ I’ll gladly come 😂❤️
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅into endibulalayo kungqinelana ngento engekhoyo @ intaka yakha ngoboya benye👏 ndinincamile
Iqhalo -> Idiom... Intaka yakha ngoboya benye ( kuyancedwana, same meaning as isandla sihlamba esinye)
😂😂😂😂 "akhomntana ongazuba notata apha" and uSisi Thalitha waphikisa engakagqibi 😂😂 ndinelove ezizantyalantyala for nina❤❤
😂😂😂 kunqandwa amahayi hayi oko apha. Thank you for the love Ondz 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 yidraw ke uze uyazi!
As the only girl of the family i will definitely take my younger brother to a date ngezantsuku zevalaza and see😂😂😂😂 uzogoloza😌
Also remember roas trips from EL to boarding school in Durbs. Ndigoqoza ndodwa kwi back seat..sleeping back and also trips to KFC xa kuyiwe e town😂
What does "icebo lotya umvubo, kuzozelisa" mean.
I heard it this past holiday and it has been on my mind since.
Necebo lozozelisa kutya umvubo! We have heard it too.. will make a note to ask on an episode 🫶🏾
UZuko uyawatya amaQhalo. “Nizame, isala kutyelwa sibonwa ngolophu”.
Yho yho yho Mondes! Is this even Xhosa - asazi Noba singayiqala ngaphi 🥺
@@siblingthrivalryIsala kutyelwa sibonwa ngolophu. Khanizame!
You guys grew up as Seventh-day Adventist, shout out 💃❤😌
The first time I saw Thalitha I said she looks like an adventist
We were born in the vestry 🥹🥹🥹
I thought about umntu ngumntu ngabantu coming to the idiom of intaka yakha ngoboya benye
Yhoo Talitha's feelings about food shook me as a foodie😮😮😮
It must be hard to take that someone can feel the total opposite of what you feel about something… we are all created so wonderfully 🫶🏾
35:42 Jonga ndiyayi bona le yotya once a week neh qha kuthetha ipoverty not mna 😂 ndiyaou thanda mna ukutya - love to eat so much, love to cook, loooove to bake, okay with the dishes lol kodwa ingaske silambe 1/7 days and the prices in the supermarket stay exactly where they are 🤣
Fair!!!! Love that for you - it’s so funny that people who generally love to cook hate dishes like bonke… zinelishwa izitya 😂😂😂
I love these questions! I'm gonna try this with my family.
Thalita and I might as well be the same person. I could 100% relate with all her answers.
That is so amazing to hear - we're so glad these questions are sparking fun conversations ❤️🙏🏾
Just like that my Friday is perfect ❤💃🥰😍❤️
Ncoooh - and so is ours🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you for the love
I get Zuko, I also didn’t know how to tell my parents I was pregnant so I sent my older sister 😂😂😂 Thalita, you are up sisi!
I cannot wait😅
Hello hellooo
The word you were looking for is idioms.
I think "Intaka yokha ngoboya benye" could mean the same as "one man's trash is another man's treasure"
Thank you for this - the most accurate we could find was “kuyanceda ncedwana” 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
I enjoy playing your podcasts for Sabbath prepping…you guys are so calming🥹
We're so glad to hear that - this is such a beautiful thing to know 🫶🏾 happy Sabbath
And uya practiziswa!
Yhooo I thought I was the only one 😩 when it comes to desserts 🍮
Ndingomnye waba bathanda uEat.a bangaphekanga and I take it as far as suggesting what can be cooked especially if ndiyonqena nyan😅
Hahaha yes please atleast ke nhyani if you ain’t going to cook then suggesta 😅😅😅
20k 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
Amaqhalo are idioms😊
Spot on! Much appreciated 🫶🏾
Imagine! Yhuuu ha a uyandistresa uThalitha ngoloshlanu😢
Oh Thalita is me 😢😢😢😢 me & food sana.....BORED!!!!
Right!!!! Yho ha.a sana 😅
"umntu uthathwa emntwini" I'm dead 🤣🤣
20k 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
The thing of using music as a filler is something I usually do when I'm writing. Ndiyisebenzisa as background noise to avoid being distracted and overthinking my writing😭
Ooh sounds nice - and more than anything else really practical - thanks for sharing
@siblingthrivalry 🩵🩵
Itaka yakha ngoboya benye means kuyancedwana
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Iqhalo is an idiom
Amaqhalo are Idioms in English...
Big facts! Thank you for this 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
First one here ❤😂
Heya 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
U brother uthi ucela ukhapha Talita😅😅
All love all the time 🫶🏾
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 akhomntana ungazobano tata apha!!!
Tuuuuu futhi! 😅
Umntu uthathwa emntwin😂😂😂hayi
16:45 This saying killed me 😭😭😂
Amaqhalo ka 2050 😂😂😂
You need other people’s help to build your career/achieve something, that’s what intaka yakhe ngoboya benye means😂
Fair! Thank you for this 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Iqhalo is an idiom nge English I think.
We think so too.. thank you for this 🫶🏾
Ohhh yesss!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Are you guys Adventists? Ndiva nisithi after church on Saturday😄
Ndikhaleze ndambuza lombuzo. I think ndiyifumene mpendulo towards the end of the video when Bhut'Zuko mentions Seventh-Day Adventist music (Acapella)
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Love love love🫂❤️
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