Why Selfish People are better for society
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Felt like u narrated my life story😢 now i have become full selfish for my CA final exams coz i had to sacrifice my career for my family in d past. but nw somewhere I can feel tht de aren't happy wid me at present coz i couldn't clear CA. Nw i jus think abt my studies n nothing else. I learned dis lesson very hard way so better u teenagers learn it from dis video❤️😌
Same here ...😂 I m the person who always cares for others ..easily don't say no to things ..helps other etc ..but it made be frustrated after multiple attempts..becoz u will find people everywhere who needs ur time ..and they don't cares about ur studies .we need to change our attitude..and become self responsibile for our time ...
Same mere sath bhi same yhi ho rha hai , seriously feeling like u narrate me story in few minutes ... I am regretting now kash me 2 sal pehle khudk bare me sochti aur selfish ban jati to aj me khush hoti ... Today everybody is happy excluding me ...
@@mundaambarsariya5698 exactly... My relatives toh gives example of others who have cleared that de don't use phone n don't talk to anyone n all. But wen i started doing it de couldn't digest tht n now de made me Vamp among all relatives tht she never picks d call n all😂 how these people don't remember their own words I don't understand 🤣
@@mamtasoni1906 don't worry dear... It's not too late. U can also be happy... Jus keep urself as first priority 😌 everything will be fine... Ek hi toh life hain... Death bed pe regret nai hona chahiye k kaash woh karna tha n all... So go gal... More power to u ❤️
@@PariS-uw9we thanks dear today I really need this msg ...
"Being selfish is the first step towards being selfless later."
This line 🙌💯
Bina aukaat k aaj k time me hamare parents bhi hamari respect nahi karte........bitter truth 😮
💯 agree
Han bhai... 😢🥺 💯sahi kaha
Sahi kaha bhai. Main toh chutiya Bana mere mummy ko respect dekar dekar
100%
Ha Bhai apne ghr mein hi beijati hoti h 😢
Sabki nazro mai acha bannane se behatar hai khud ki nazro mai banjate hai 😊
Thank you didi
"Become selfish now to serve selflessly later." - Pragmatic and relatable message. Kudos 🙌
You need to be selfish if you want to succeed irrespective of your field... But that does not mean being rude everyone. Your nature should be down to earth. But bit selfish when it comes to achieving goals.📈🗿 That's it!
Absolutely!!
"Being selfish is the first step towards being selfless later."
This summarizes it all 💯
When you choose to become productive to achieve something in life....people will call you selfish, rude, arrogant....
But eventually when you achieve that goals they will start recognizing you.....
So this concept of being selfish is just short term
Trueee
Tab tak duniya k liye selfish ban jao......jab tak aap financially free nahi ho jaate.......ek baar financially free ho jaane par aap selfless ban sakte hai.......dusro k life me value add kar sakte hai 🥰
It may sound rude, but at end selfish ones win.. It's more of priorities than being selfish.. it's better to be selfish with what you want to do and invest your time and energy... Because once time is gone and as she said in the example as well then later you regret not taking that chance..selfish is better than regretting later.. Wese bhi nobody cares at the end you have to live the consequences of your choices , so better you choose what's best for you.. Also we need to stop glorifying being selfless, just go with what you really want in your life because you have got only one life to live, so live it the way you want and do what your heart wants... And we don't need to feel bad about choosing best for us, because what parents wanted to do they did that, what others wanted they did that, now in this era nobody thinks about you other than your parents and parents also care up to an extent.. And even if you sacrifice your opportunity for someone and crib later they will have the answer ready -humne kaha roka tha tumhe..
So better prioritise what you truly want.. Because there is no point in living the life where you didn't live the way you wanted..
Just ask yourself will I regret this later in my life..
And remember you have only one life and you can not get the time back again.. So choose wisely ❤
Your perspective may vary, consider this only if it feels right to you...
I agree with you. And that line hit me "humane kaha roka tha"
Very well articulated 😊
humne kaha roka tha tumhe.. ------ Bahut chubhti hai this line when they said
Wonderful comment..well articulated..have heard it from friends, family & parents..jinko marne tak se bachaaya hai, khayal rakha hai, seva kari hai - humne kb roka tha? Krti apna kaam..hm log manage kr lete..jb logon ko need hoti hai to tmse saari umeedein laga ke aise dekhte hain jaise tm nhi karoge unke liye kuch to tmko hi guilt ho jaaye..aur jb kaam ho jaata hai to phir wahi - hmne kb kaha tha ye karo wo karo........wo kehte hain na - uparwaala meherban to gadha pehelwan..ye sab friends & family apna achha samay aane pe tmhe aise hi dikhaayenge jaise ye self sufficient hain..so it is always better to be a little selfish because time & tide wait for none..
Glad I came across this comment.
Since 2 years I had been forgotten living the life.
Was escaping from myself with the scare to accept the fact of my life.
Just before I was looking at my books at I studied and bookmarked this in 2021. Kisko pata tha ki Mai khud ko hi kho dungi dusro ko aur khud se crib , complain krte ,.
Bas thodi since himmat dikha letii bas thodi si sahi apne andr ke dar ko bhagane aur khud ko samjana me toh Mai khudse Jeet jati.
Par ye Sab shyad mere destiny mein face krna likha hua tha.
Allah Miya hi ab meko himmat denge aur safal krenge Meri life mein.
Thank u🤧
Her words " Dhyan rkho apna "
is all someone would need❤
Jb 23-24 saal cross krte h na or financially independent ni ho te tb duniya ki haqeeqat pta lg jaty hai or complaint kya krna yahi process hai ek waqt pr zindagi ki ladai akele hi ladni padty hai
I am in that situation right now.. Have bottled up so much emotions and have started hating everyone around me.. Sometimes I feel depressed and I feel like I need some therapy and all that.. But every time I watch your video it gives me a different kind of motivation I feel like something within me is healing.. Thank you so much Neha for doing what you do.. Sending so much love and virtual hugs 🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤
Many times being selfish is equivalent to " saying NO "
But it doesn't mean that being helpless at all 👍😇
कई दिनों बाद मेरा दिल यह सोच कर रो दिया।ऐसा क्या पाना था जो खुद को खो दिया 😢
Trust me guys at end u will regret on yourself by this line
Leave every body Your career will remain with u at the last breath of ur life।।
I already lost everybody because of caring now am scared of caring or loving someone,.. I realized it very late that I don't fit in there friend ship list bcoz I couldn't achieve anything better in my lyf, I am struggling..
Shi kha
ऐसा क्या पाना था जो खुद को खो दिया❤❤❤❤
Ryt.... I'm also facing this situation.....ab koi achha nhi lgta na ghr wale, na friends, na boyfriend koi nhi......sbka krte krte khud ko pta nhi kha kho diya h.....ab na kisi se baat krne ko na pdhne ko kuchh bhi mn nhi krta.....itni bheed me akele se ho gye h...sb jse khtm ho gya h......ek tym ke baad maa baap bhi respect nhi krte.....bitter truth ryt😢😢
Selfless later ka toh pata nahin, par selfish ho toh hi aage badhte ho. Today. tomorrow and always : Being Self centered is 🔥
Exactly ...I can totally relate with you...
Ek time bad log kevl humari aukat dekhte hai tumare career se.
You are absolutely right. I did not realize it before but due to my selfless behavior and not standing for my degree completion I am in such a low phase of my life that for the husband whom I paused my degree called me a loser and now I am at verge of divorce. And the same family for them I sacrificed a lot they are not admitting that I did anything for them
One of The best thing I ever did this year.. Was subscribing to your channel... You're so real... Give so realistic advice.... I can wholely relate to each and every video of yours, like it's for me..
This video is so important for me that I've saved it to watch it further again and again and again until I understand this thing 100%
"Aaj selfish ho lete hain kal selfless hone ke liye"
Self love isn't selfish 🙃🥲❤️
Self love means high self esteem 🔥🔥😀
Yes dii it's true.... being selfish for your career is best thing ....my brother has sacrificed all and got seat in MBBS ...BUT me to impress my friends so that they can't call me selfish...for a boy to give him time...for helping relatives...and when i failed they even not think of single second to call me failure...and this time i decided to disappoint Everyone and focus on myself and my career
Thank you 😊❤👌💐Being Selfish is Good mostly...Kaash main bhi ho paati....😊❤
i will try my best to be selfish to others for achieving my goals but at the same time i will try my best to stay down to earth ✌
Sachme di aap bht ache se describe krte ho choti choti cheeje..i really like all your video 🤍🤗..finally i commented😅❤
Didi pura relate kar paya logo ke saamne bohot sasta banke dekh liye abhi bhao badhane ka time hai khud ko dene ke liye.💯🙏
Soft heart❤️ people got hurt by selfish people ...
Didi aapko pata nhi aapki kya importance hai meri life me....pehli baar maine aapki video 10th me dikhi thi aapne bahut help ki thi meri...didi maybe aapko yaad nhi hoga...abhi 12th me hu aur aap meri help abhi bhi kar rahi ho ....really main aapki pehle ki videos ko pata nhi kitni baar rewatch kiya hai ...bas itna kehna hai ki jab aap se milugi toh tight hug 🫂 karugi kyuki aap meri life me angel ,badi behan ki tarha ho ...lots of loveee❤❤❤❤❤
i wish i had seen this type of video 5 years before as I have experienced all this just because i didn't want to hurt anybody.
Well said Neha. One should give priority to him/herself whether then the surroundings give him/her the selfish tag. If you didn't make yourself happy then you can never make others happy. ❤
True bat kahi nehaji jb humne khudko time diya life ka itna bda time family ko diya jb khud k liye humne kuch kaha tb koi sath nhi deta khud hi pisre h , aap sahi bolre ho selfish hona hi chahiyeh career ko lekr .
Kuch toh log,kahenge logo ka kaam hai kahanaa!!!
Thank you neha ma'am for the video.... And hum toh har roz face karte hai yese situation.....
Aap sach main, straight up to the point and straight humare dil baat humare samne leke aate ho😇✨
According to me khudke liye kuch karna is not selfishness
Selfish means jaha aapki wajah se kisko harm ho rha ho
Logo ka kya hai
Kahi jaao toh bolenge ...exams hai or gum rhi hai
Nhi gye toh ....1 2 hrs bhi nhi h friends family k liye
Just do what u love ❤that will only give you happiness
To become rich..may be rich is the wrong word.. but to become successful and satisfied you have to become selfish..! What's more.. subscribed to your channel 👍
If prioritizing your mental peace, goals are selfishness then be. Without hurting anyone (people who really cares for you) we can be selfish, rather than being selfless for wrong people's in our life. You deserve it and those person who never valued you as well.
I absolutely agree with this. But some times we are conditioned in a way from childhood. So ... Big anyone is going thru this .. I hope they break the barrier and become selfish for your own self and betterment. All the best.
Cannot agree more with you Neha on this. Even self-help content will not work in the true sense without being selfish.
The first thing i saw today morning was your great channel IMPRESSIVE AND GREAT PRACTICAL TEACHING YOUR PRESENTATION AND YOUR DICTION IS SUPER IN THIS WORLD AS OF TODAY YOUR TEACHINGS WILL GO A GREAT WAY TO MAKE US SUCCESSFUL CONTINUE SMART GIRL
'' dhyan rakho apna'' always touches my heart.
I agree this thing I personally feel If want to successfull in your life you should be selfish.
Bitter truth well explained ... I am 45 and still think today should have gone for higher studies instead of joining father business ... emotional decision but acceptance is the only best way to live happily in present. Definitely going to forward your video to my both teenagers kids ... all the best for the future beta .. god bless you .
What a correct timing of the video Ma'am ❤
Was thinking about this only since past 2/3 days 😂😂
Seems like universe is just showing the sign....
This line really touched - Being selfish is the first step towards being selfless later ✨
Thank You ❤️❤️❤️
Bohot bura lagta hai jam koi mujhe selfish bolta hai...maybe they don't say it but they make me feel it
I needed this video now , I have exams now and I was thinking to help a friend by giving study materials , ur advice saved me.I will help them later
Dear mam
When you tell us " dhain rakho apna" it's hit our heart ❤️
Aaaap kya baat Bolti ho Yaar dil ❤ko Tauch 🎉😊kr jati h ..😊😊.
Kal meyi exam h .. aur me aapka Videos dekh kr happy feel hui .....🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 beautiful 😍 😍 di .😇😇😇☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️
Dii m ek ca student nhi hu I am a cgl student but apki bat sunke aur apke videos dekh k na dii alg motivation mila.h mtlb motivation nhi lgta ho jese ki apne mere ander ki sb bate bta di ho m bhot socha krti thi pehle aur hr bat p rona n khud ko blame Krna etc but apki bato se really bhot achha feel ho rha h di thanks a lot ❤️
Awesome video Dil pe lage apke bateen ❤
Thankyouuu di for everything.... this video makes me more powerful to stick to my selfish decisions.... As being selfish person makes me later the selfless person... ❤
I was good Athlete medal at state level in just 2 year hardwork i was proggressing in my field but my father always make me down to choose sports ,he always tell me this is not good for you ,you should take a job instead this fhaltu cheeje after some months for him i leaved my sports ,and in few months i go through depression anxiety and even i started keeping my self in dark room silentely do what house works i get 3 years was hell for me then my college started and i med s pstherpist he listened me and treated me for few months then i started fitness not sports bec economical situations are not well now but i m still happy that i m prsticing fitness sometime play diffrent sports
i have a sea size ( very very very much big) regreat why why i quit my sports just bec my parents dont want
Duality is this of my parents they denied me to play but always encouraged my brother to play
It's very true u have to selfish bcoz I have went through this all and went out of box and ruien my career and it's very painful bcoz people use us and move forward
She is absolutely Right. Experienced it 🫶
I am regretting a lot. I was forced to waste my crucial time. Be careful choose career over everything.
Excellent diiii.....My current situation....I can relate each and every word 💖🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I too relate to this a lot...I did this mistake in past but during my csir prep I ignored my family also they might have felt bad but after I got AIR 7 in CSIR UGC NET exam they were the most proud person n happiest person .But before when I used to sacrifice my study for family or friends n when I did badcin my exams neither I was happy nor they .
Your talks are such a great inspiration for me... Every time your talk motivated me to do my daily life things in the right way... Thank you ❤️
Trust me, I have socially distanced myself from the moment I seriously started preparing for Judicial. And, I have often heard my family members telling me not to be socially distanced so much and attend occasions sometimes. I politely refused everytime, not because its a necessity but because my ultimate priority is to see myself as a Judge. The happiness I will have when I will achieve that goal cannot be compared to those temporary happiness I will have by attending those family gatherings or occasions. But that doesn't mean that I didn't take any break or refreshments because taking a break is only for boosting myself more with energy. So, even if someone calls me selfish or socially awkward during my struggle period, I don't mind at all....Because they will be the first ones to call me up for congratulating me.
Thank you so much didi ❤❤❤😊
Thank you my universe😘💖
U just narrated my whole life
First is a discussion about two reasons why the very self-absorbed mostly get what they want; clarity of goals, and lack of any encumbrance of concern for others
I am out of this race now and leaving peacefully, thanks to be there Neha
Your last words in the video r heart touching ..dhayan rakho apna ..u told such a beautiful journey of life and ❤
I completely agree with you.
Selfish is good for your mental health also
Some things in society describe as negative trait but they're very positive trait
mere toh lag gaye family aur doston ke baare mein soch ke .. ab apne pe focus kar raha hoon
It feels like finally I found a true friend..😊
muje bhi CA karne k liye bahar jana tha but family k vajase me aaj online kar rhi jo ki achha hai itna bura bhi nhi hai lekin, dill k ek corner me aaj bhi lagta hai ki kas yarr... kas me chali gyi hoti, kas me apni family ko or batter way me samja liya hota........... vo regret aaj bhi hai ki kyu tab mene apne bare me nhi socha..... to me sabse kehna chahti hu ki please thoda sa ladna pade na apne liye to lad lo 🥺🥺
didi you are awsome.
merko aapki videos bahut bahut achi lagti h.
i was wasted my time in social media arround 4 hours every day and i regert in night then again waste time .
two days before i listen your video .
and i love this vidios
i watch your 3 videos everyday. ab mujhe lagta kahi aap ki video jaldi khatam naa jo jaye
😄😄😄
Ultimate mam. U r great girl of this century
Job wala to mere sath v hua ta😅 ab mere hi gharwale mujhe nalayak bulate h...actual me chale jana chahie selfish bnna chahie kuch time baad you will realise you were ryt! Khud ko priority do tab hi aas pass k log priority denge
Dii seriously saying I always listen to u bcz u make my opinion n motivation stronger 💪 thank you so much .. though I m neet aspirants.. u r doing a great job ❤❤... we really need person like u 🩶
It's individualistic not selfish whole western society is individualistic
Beautiful video diii ❤❤❤
Di how everytime you know what we want.
No words you are just amazing❤
Thanks a lot ma'am, this kind of video was expected from your end, finally it's here in front of us..
बिलकुल सही विचार
You are absolutely right Neha san.
Bottom line is only we are responsible for our future.
Bilkul sahi hundred percent sahi thank u so much u r really very logical and ethical very valuable advice
I like that intro.. haaaanjiii😅
Di 💯 true, my mom preached me the same, because she n my dad had committed this mistake in their 20s
Was it only me who noticed a charm on her face ?
Keep glowing 😊❤
Once a great personallity said "apne sapne ke liye apne pyar/dost/maa baap/ bhai bahen" ko chorna is not worth it:)......Meri gf bhi apne sapne ke liye mujhe choor ki gayi...mai samjhata raha usse lekin usse laga ki mere sath rah ke wo neet nahi crack par gaye..maine bola ki we will short this...time bana lenge baat krne ke liye...bahoot kaam baat krenge lekin wo nahi maani...is it worth it? jindagi bass apne bare me hi sochna success ka pahla kadam hota hai? mera kya jo maine khud ko usse attach kr liya?? jo future socha tha? mai to dono ke bare me sovh raha tha...wo sirf apne bare me:) kya jo sath rahte hai wo succesfull nahi hote?? life ka pahla heart break tha...lekin kyu hua ye...wo to itnni achhi ladki hai tap par bhi usne aissa kiya....i am not a selfish person and i will succed one day... i am 18 and preapring for my jee exam and next year is my exam...i am doing what can i do for this...and hope so the ending will be good:) and hope so my ex will also get what she want.
yaar ye kitni straight forward baate krti hai
It's not about being Selfish, it's about taking the Right Decisions. You are just using the Wrong word to explain the right thing, which is dangerous because People who don't think enough will start being Selfish for real.
Exactly
Yes apki bat sahi Hai aj selfish ho Jai to aacha Hai kyuki us time bura to lgta Hai pr koi nhi..... Apke bato se mujhe LOGO KO NO BOLNA SIKH GYA THANK YOU NEHA MAM 🌹😍👍👍
Yes you are correct ma'am. I agree totaly with u. Your guidence is always fruitfull❤❤❤
you are my inspiration di ❤
1:30 touched really aaisa hota hai
"We need to take care of ourselves to care of others!"
Thanku so much di mene apko kuch din phle se follow krna shuru kiya h aj phli baar apk vdo pe cmnt krri kyuki meko apse ek favour chahiye pls kr dena aisa cmnt me phli baar likh ri vo bhi apki vdo ap bhut special ho mere liye.... pls make a vdo on introverts people bcz har jgh dar lgta h khud ko represent krne se dar lgta h no ni kr pate na frends ko na family ko pls di make a vdo mujhe khud bhut bura lgta h jb log criticise krte h badlna bhi chahti hu khud ko par kese pta ni🙏🏻🙏🏻
MAAM THANK YOU SO MUCH ..... this was very helpful.... I needed this..... please continue to be our guiding light....❤❤☺☺
Now i become selfish for my carrer agr ab class mai dost log khi ghumne bhi jaayege toh m mana kr dungi thde time k liye chahe m unhe achi na lgu but ye meri peace k liye shi hoga ghumne ka asli matlb hota h ki thda releax ho jao but mai agr khi ja bhi rhi hu dosto k sath toh mai aakr regrate krugi isse acha toh h ki jb bhi ghumne jao tb itna enjoy kro ki vapis aakr regrate na ho chahe hi unhe bura lge mere bare mai bura bole but kuch time tk hi kyu ki unki life mai khud problems h kl ko ni soche ge wo 2 saal baad ki mai kyu nhi gyi thi woh khud bsy h apni life m now everyday l,ll become the best version of my self
Yr apko dekh ke kitna acha lgta h na bta nhi skti me, abhi bhi mood upset tha ntbks band lights off sone jana tha khrb mood k sath, par ab mood tkh hai aur subh tk aur tkh ho jayega❤
Thanks di... Happy Dussehra 🌟
Thank you so much for this video! I've realized one thing in my life. People will remember only your financial support and they most often forget the time when you have supported them physically.
Ap bohat payari hain or ap ki batin bhe power ful
Thank you didi itni acchi video banane ke liye 😊
You are Right !!
mam ...aapke videos se mujhe baht kuch sikhne ko mila hh ..thank uh so much mam...aap pls ek video banaiye ki how to stop overthinking....