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  • This is what they don’t like about you!
    (Please don’t take any messages too personally, since a lot of these judgments could come from their perception of you and not based on truth)
    Time Stamps:
    Pile 1: 01:33
    Pile 2: 13:07
    Pile 3: 27:25
    Pile 4: 40:04
    Thank you for watching! 💛✨
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    - a b o u t m e -
    My name’s Lucas and I’m 26
    Life Path: 1
    Sun: Cancer ♋︎
    Moon: Cancer ♋︎
    Mercury: Cancer ♋︎
    Rising: Libra ♎︎
    Venus: Leo ♌︎

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  • @tanamo4632
    @tanamo4632 22 дні тому +17

    #2. People only notice your success, when you are successful, they don’t know about all the sacrifices and hard work that’s gone on behind the scenes, to get there.

  • @nightseertarot3337
    @nightseertarot3337 22 дні тому +8

    Evile eye does work. Not in a dramatic way but in a slow degrading way. When ever my mom, grandma and aunt get together I end up feeling shit because they gossip about me. I always find out later that they were together and that explains it. That said we do become energetically stronger over time. It way worse for the person sending it, especially if its due to something petty.

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  22 дні тому +1

      I’m sorry.. we’ll have to agree to disagree. “Evil eye” is one of those spiritual concepts that I believe people hear about, and readily take on as a truth without really seriously analyzing if it makes sense or not. It’s oddly convenient that it would only do “subtle” things; what’s to say we aren’t just making things up in our head because someone said it was “Evil eye.” For me, it can’t do anything. The feelings I feel are mine. Not anyone else’s and as soon as you give them that kind of power, they are the ones in control and not you. You give that power away by saying “THEY did this to me” and it wasn’t you with any sort of responsibility to begin with. I still respect your opinion either way, I know many people would not agree with me. But nonetheless thank you for taking the time to comment on my video. It always means a lot and it’s appreciated

    • @nightseertarot3337
      @nightseertarot3337 22 дні тому

      @@chestnuttarot I've analyzed it.

    • @TheWhiteLily44
      @TheWhiteLily44 22 дні тому +1

      Yes, yes and yes

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  21 день тому +1

      @@nightseertarot3337 Hey, I just wanted to come on here and apologize for making the decision to kind of argue and be defensive over choosing peace. I want my comments to be a safe place for people to express themselves so I’m sorry for the way I acted. I’m not really sure if you’ll see this but I just felt the need to say something and apologize

    • @nightseertarot3337
      @nightseertarot3337 21 день тому

      @chestnuttarot Thanks. That's sweet of you. Comment sections can be a treacherous environment. 😅

  • @user-rr8ts6uv5u
    @user-rr8ts6uv5u 22 дні тому +3

    Pile 2: Success is never easy, life is not easy. It's been really hard for me to reach where I am today... Lots of struggles and continuous hardships. And because of these struggles I am still lagging behind financially compared to my batch mates. But people are like, they will be jealous when something good happens in your life and will ridicule you when you fail. I have experienced a lot of ridicule when I was down and struggling. But for someone who is jealous won't consider these aspects of your life.

  • @venusarcana
    @venusarcana 21 день тому +2

    We: exist and thrive, usually getting over a sad past
    People: dislike us
    ???? Why are ppl like this 😂😂

  • @randomgrl33
    @randomgrl33 22 дні тому +2

    I am listening- I understand what you're saying- but people assuming anything based on superficial aspects i.e. pretty privilege isn't taking into account the vast number of ways life can be difficult. One of the reasons I am empathetic is because I fully can appreciate that 2 truths can coexist. You can be pretty & still have had to deal with insane levels of bs. It's frustrating that people take everything at face value. Thank you for sharing your gift~☆ your rocks are very cool especially since you found them in your own.

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  21 день тому +1

      You misunderstood my point. Pretty privilege is about whether you are pretty and how that affects you differently than someone who is considered unattractive. It has nothing to do with whatever struggles you have in life regardless of your looks. Everyone deals with struggles in life but being attractive gets you a different sort of treatment than people who aren’t. People always bring up struggling in other ways as a point of pretty privilege doesn’t exist. Ugly kids get bullied, attractive kids are accepted. People with deformities have it harder and it bothers me that people won’t admit to this. Regardless of whether we agree or not, I’ve noticed you’ve left a few comments and I’m grateful for that. Thank you

    • @randomgrl33
      @randomgrl33 21 день тому

      @@chestnuttarot also add Super Thanks!! I looked for yours & couldn't find one

  • @nijahkidd1512
    @nijahkidd1512 День тому

    Pile 4 , thank you so much for that I was scared to listen but like you said I do INDEED LOVE HONESTY 😂❤️ so I said I’m going to listen anyways because I need to hear the truth about myself , thank you really for that message just made me more reassured to be who i am even more and more authentically , often i am met with a group of ppl who isolate me because i am the odd ball out the bunch thats always expressing either THE TRUTH or MY TRUTH and often ppl dont live in theirs so they treat me like an outcast and it hurts but i know he'll send me my tribe ❤

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  19 годин тому

      Aw, don’t be scared 😅 Thank you for leaving me a comment!

  • @nightseertarot3337
    @nightseertarot3337 22 дні тому

    Very healing messages.

  • @channelname5820
    @channelname5820 22 дні тому

    Pile 3. Thanks. Very accurate reading. 😊

  • @TheVioletMagic29
    @TheVioletMagic29 22 дні тому +1

    pile 3 thank you.

  • @nanan797
    @nanan797 21 день тому

    Pile 4 definetely resonated, thanks !

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  21 день тому

      You’re welcome! Thanks for dropping me a comment :)

  • @reneeshort3491
    @reneeshort3491 23 дні тому +1

    On point pile 4

  • @jodiburnett6211
    @jodiburnett6211 21 день тому

    Pile 1 great rock, great reading.

  • @seraphariel1364
    @seraphariel1364 22 дні тому +1

    Pile 2: As soon as you laid the cards down I said exactly what you said next: Jealousy, which I already knew this person was very jealous of me and that’s why they gave me the hardest time.
    But yeah! The reading is Right on! About the “pretty” privilege, I’d have to say as a person who was both pretty AND not knowing it (bcuz of lack of self-esteem), trust me that “pretty” privilege was more often than not a curse actually. Bcuz of ppl trying to take advantage of my physical attributes. So, never envy anyone cuz you don’t know what they’re actually experiencing unless you actually walk in their own shoes. Which is basically never, unless you actively try to empathetically feel what they feel.
    Thanks for the reading🙏💖

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  21 день тому

      I don’t know.. I hope you won’t take this personally but being taken advantage of is something that happens to just about everyone.. less often with people who are not influenced easily by others. When I say “pretty privilege” I mean that having an attractive face or personality will get you things that ugly face and ugly personality can’t get. That’s not to say pretty people don’t ever struggle or even struggle more than someone who isn’t. But as far as looks go, they have an upper hand and people are likely to be nicer. People who are “unattractive” still get taken advantage of but for different reasons, and on top of it don’t get nice treatment from people for seemingly no reason the way that attractive people do. If you’ve never been considered unattractive, you would just think everyone is treated that way and not notice how it’s different for someone else. I have not experience being taken advantage of any more often after making changes to my appearance, the only thing that changed was people were nicer to me even if I didn’t deserve it. Regardless of if we agree on that or not, thank you for watching my reading and taking the time to comment. I appreciate it

    • @MeghanBean
      @MeghanBean 21 день тому +1

      @@chestnuttarot i think it comes down to… we all have the option to be uglier

  • @dianearrington6666
    @dianearrington6666 22 дні тому

    I ‘ve been working since the age of 14, and raised both of my children the same way.

  • @user-oh8wy8fr5d
    @user-oh8wy8fr5d 21 день тому

    Thank you for the warm hearted sharing 🎉this topic is a good one

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  21 день тому

      Thank you! I’m glad you liked it! 😄

  • @love111y
    @love111y 22 дні тому

    pile 4 tysm!! this gives me a chance to reflect on myself and i feel like i am truthful about what I say and ofc I want the truth given back to me.💛

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  21 день тому

      You’re welcome! Thank you for leaving me a comment :)

  • @warrenshavers9441
    @warrenshavers9441 23 дні тому

    I'm crying now,thank I knew I was right about what I been feeling

  • @dianearrington6666
    @dianearrington6666 22 дні тому +1

    Critiquing is good.

  • @donnaharris8097
    @donnaharris8097 21 день тому

    #3 , Bang on ! No idea who this reader is - it just showed up and i had a look ...100 💯, thank you ✨✨✨

  • @AndreiJones-po4or
    @AndreiJones-po4or 22 дні тому +2

    No distinction between piles or stones.

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  22 дні тому

      It’s in order from left to right, so 1 2 3 4 as shown in my thumbnail. Generally most tarot readings will be in order from left to right. The stones don’t even look the same? I’m not sure how you can’t tell the difference but hopefully this helps you :)

  • @s_37_888
    @s_37_888 22 дні тому

    Pile 4 was trueee☀️☀️☀️

  • @edytadelfel7282
    @edytadelfel7282 22 дні тому

    Love the topic. It felt very personal reading. P4. I am very truthful and honest and it’s very important to me to stay in my integrity. I do have lots of experiences just because I just stay curious and love exploring! Have many perspectives. Love Authenticity ❤❤❤ Thank you do much for this reading and energy!

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  22 дні тому

      You’re so welcome!! Thank you for leaving me a comment :) Keep being authentically you- it’s a beautiful thing

  • @louisecheri
    @louisecheri 8 днів тому

    Hi Lucas, WOW you're so young, and already so gifted, this reading resonated so much! I am happy to be your new subscriber 🕶🌞🙏 Keep up the good work. Lots of love from Louise, from Denmark 🇩🇰

  • @spaceymonkey7777
    @spaceymonkey7777 22 дні тому

    @41:53 i am mean and i do insult people when i get pushed around too much but i don’t like to be that way i’m working on it lol 😂

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  21 день тому

      I can be the same way honestly. We all can do work on ourselves but the fact that you’re aware of it and can admit it to yourself will get you far 😅 Thank you for commenting

  • @warrenshavers9441
    @warrenshavers9441 23 дні тому

    Never have I done cards before ,SPOT ON WITH. A,LL THAT YOU SAID

  • @QUEENTLCOG777
    @QUEENTLCOG777 22 дні тому

    *3&4 so accurate I did go through the spiritual battle with these people I am so thankful for God and my angels for standing with me and fighting and protecting me now I'm watching them go through karma

  • @warrenshavers9441
    @warrenshavers9441 23 дні тому

    Tear of joy

  • @antoinettelopes
    @antoinettelopes 22 дні тому

    I chose 3

  • @BEYBEYkiD
    @BEYBEYkiD 22 дні тому

    I don't do rocks n crystals.. however.. when I lived in Arizona...my nephews got me two amethyst crystal rocks... N I'll cherish them forever cuz they were so young like 10,11,&12 n amethyst is one of the gems that supports my birth month JANUARY...❤❤❤ I LOVE THEM...

  • @venusarcana
    @venusarcana 21 день тому

    I picked pile 2 for a specific person and 3 for people on social media. Pile 2 resonated; this person doesn't really make an effort to get to know me so I can see why she thinks I have it easy. I liked your points talking about how you feel jealous of a kind of person, It's nice to see ppl talking about jealousy as a human trait that we feel sometimes.
    Pile 3 resonated too. I have adhd ( so naturally 'distant' and involved in several interests) and am a single mother. I quit being a people pleaser after quite some time in therapy, so I'm happy to hear that. I also call people out in social media about social issues, so I get the correction might be that? I don't direct to anyone, just teach whoever wants to hear. Buuuuut I'm also a teacher, so correcting IS indeed part of mu job 😂

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  21 день тому

      Yes! I really want to put it out there that we shouldn’t shame ourselves for feeling jealousy, but to know it’s just a signal of something we want or wish for, and that we don’t always need to act out negatively due to those feelings. Thank you for understanding my point on that!! It’s natural to feel jealousy as well as all the other emotions 😅 Thank you for your comment 💛 It felt like a lot of people glossed over points I made during Pile 2, so again, thank you for understanding my point of view

  • @melisasun8540
    @melisasun8540 22 дні тому

    3. It is pathetic to witness ppl u know doing things incorrectly, and walk away without giving them an option to be better

  • @DeidraTorrez
    @DeidraTorrez 22 дні тому

    Pile 3

  • @thegardenofserendipity
    @thegardenofserendipity 22 дні тому

    I picked the crystal I didn’t like the most lol.

  • @BEYBEYkiD
    @BEYBEYkiD 22 дні тому

    This is my advice for u sir...I promise ..my life is not easy at all... however..I want u to begin to instead of thinking about the hard or bad part of life start counting ur blessings..n I know it sounds crazy cuz we live in this body n it seems like bad shit is always happening...but look around sometimes n ull see even at ur worst someone else is facing something u couldn't imagine...so like JCOLE says its always gon b a bigger house a person with more but b grateful for urs...ill b vulnerable with u for a sec ...the worst thing that happened to me was losing my nephew..i thought i was going to die.. however i had to change my mindset n thank god for the time i had with him..i was able to see him grow from 19in to 6'3..from slobbing down my cheek to dominating the basketball courts.. I was able to witness kindergarten fifth n eighth grade graduation.. from him crawling to walking to liking girls to actually asking for my opinion on life..he n his brothers r the best thing that has ever happened to me... N the fact that I could witness them get to adulthood is something I'm so grateful for... Another example... I see ppl that have NO HOME AT ALL.. HOWEVER.. EVEN THOUGH MINE IS NOT IN THE BEST SHAPE ..IM NOT ON THE STREETS... N IVE HAD MY COUCH SURF DAYS WHERE A TOTAL STRANGER LET ME STAY IN THEIR HOME.. UNTIL I FOUND A PLACE TO LIVE.. IT WAS A COUPLE WEEKS HOWEVER I WAS 3000 MILES AWAY FROM HOME SO IT SEEMED LONGER..YET BEING GRATEFUL FOR THE FACT THAT I DIDN'T GET MURDERED IS A BLESSING 😂😂❤ SO WHEN COMPARISON COMES UP WHERE U THINK SOMEBODY ELSE IS DOIN BETTER TAKE INTO CONSIDERATION THAT U JUST DNT KNO THE DETAILS N GO BACK N FOCUS ON WHAT GOD BLESSED U WITH..LIFE HEALTH N FAMILY...( THE ONE U COME FROM OR THE ONE U CREATE.. N OPERATE IN LOVE ..FOR LIFE ITSELF N THE GOD THAT GAVE IT TO U..N EVERYDAY U WAKE UP SAY THANK U CUZ U COULD B OUTTA HERE TOMORROW N NOT HAVE A CHANCE TO REACH UR BIGGEST DREAMS SO SAY THANK U ..N TAKE STEPS TO CREATING UR DREAM LIFE.N SAY FUQ WHAT EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING ...THAT AINT UR BUSINESS...FOCUS ON UR STAR PLAYER...MVP❤❤ #YOU

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  22 дні тому +1

      Trust me, I do count my blessings and I’m deeply grateful for what I have. I should have driven my point home that all of us could wish for better, or wish we were in a better place as much as someone could be wishing they were in our place. I don’t think jealousy is something to fear or shame ourselves for. It’s simply a signal of “that’s what I want too!!” we don’t always have to act negatively because of those feelings within us. I agree with what you say, ultimately it’s important to be grateful for the things we have and not focus so much on other people. But without those other people, there is no competition or anything to strive for. Essentially, we need other people in order to tell how well or bad we are doing in comparison. There’s no shame in that- or at least I don’t think there should be. It’s damn near impossible in this world not to make comparisons- and that doesn’t have to be a bad thing. This is just my perspective and opinion. But thank you for taking the time to write the comment for me. I appreciate your advice and your time 💚💚

  • @courtneygillespie1187
    @courtneygillespie1187 23 дні тому +2

    I'm not offended.......I don't need relationships...... whatever my spirit animal is....... it's one that doesn't need other animals tiger eagle whatever...... all I need is something to take up excessive thoughts that's really it.

    • @pattye555
      @pattye555 23 дні тому

      I have gotten to the point that I dont have excessive thoughts. Just to let you know, it is Real. Based on mindset, how to change it when needed, being alert to my thoughts. Best for you, too.

    • @courtneygillespie1187
      @courtneygillespie1187 23 дні тому

      @@pattye555 if I'm not dedicated to something......I go off the rails...... I've been handicapped from birth....I have it easy 🙄 they don't want to trade......I wouldn't wish my life on anyone.

  • @razzledazzle8180
    @razzledazzle8180 22 дні тому

    Pile 4: they want me so bad it makes them look stupid

  • @rosesdisdainLimited
    @rosesdisdainLimited 22 дні тому

    #2 The man was born with a silver spoon in his mouth. You have no idea how much wealth he has. I'm trying to get a business off the ground and come from ACTUAL poverty but I'm very creative always full of ideas, tech savy, good at faking it and yes, quite pretty. All of this works in my favour or creates a projected image for that matter. I did it on my own. I was brave and confident. We went on a date, he made me feel guilty for things that I'm associated with. It worked and I let him take from me freely while I had nothing because all I wanted to do was make him feel comfortable, liked, and appreciated. I knew he didn't like me. I got that hint a long time ago. Fixating on my looks because he didn't expect me to look a certain way (I met a trait that's considered "conventionally attractive" and often admired although wrongly so but it would be unlikely for me to have it), throwing back-handed comments on my business. I tried so hard to make him feel comfortable. He thinks girls like me (girls that come from poverty and being poc like him shouldn't have it so easy). He thinks girls like me shouldn't dream so big and if we do, they think we use our looks to get ahead. He thinks if I "stayed in my lane," he could've controlled me and I'd given him more attention. Envying me is so fucked up! It's extremely sick.

    • @chestnuttarot
      @chestnuttarot  21 день тому +1

      No! You should dream big and understand your worth in this world and that you are just as important here as anyone else. You should be proud of the things you’ve accomplished in your life. No one should be able to take that away from you or say you don’t deserve it. Pile 2 was very misunderstood. Thank you for sharing your experience and I hope you stay strong and things only get better for you 💛💛

    • @rosesdisdainLimited
      @rosesdisdainLimited 20 днів тому

      @@chestnuttarot Thank you. It's been quite tough. Guys like that are usually the ones that have it easy especially in my culture but they complain. I represent what he was supposed to have but never got to. I think he also projects the envy he has towards his sister towards me. We were both cute girls, dotted on by our moms, the golden child, 'the sweet heart' while he was sent to boarding school. He now works for someone else but still comes from old money. I believe he also is insecure about the way he looks because of a trait that I have but he doesn't. Probably also thinks that's the only reason I might even be considered pretty. (He might just be right about that, that and my assets) He's very handsome though in my eyes anyway. (He thinks "I'm cute" but implied I wasn't pretty but sure as hell wanted to use my body and raised his voice when I said no, kept on fixating on my skin tone and how it makes me pass as other ethnicities so believes I am lucky given my background) Also conflictual family that buds heads with my own in some way. I simply act like I have it easy and my easy going personality fools some, and makes others envy me. I act non-chalant and detached but it's dissociation and numbness. It's all a coping mechanism to get by something men like that will never understand because they're actually the ones that had it easy. He was so aggressive towards me for things I have no control over. He's a negative person in general and its amplified with me because he hates everything I stand for or represent. He almost even got abusive while taking from me. Would've treated me like discardible trash if I let him. Got so brave during the first few dates as if he owned me. He doesn't realize is the hard work, the pain, or that the life I depict is an exaggeration and comes from a desperation to want something better. I'm still miserable.. He made so many assumptions towards me, he took for the sake of fucking me over. Guilted me when I didn't give him what he want. Until I ghosted him.

  • @Lauren_Fields
    @Lauren_Fields 22 дні тому

    #2 MA

  • @warrenshavers9441
    @warrenshavers9441 23 дні тому +1

    Iam cancer july12

  • @TheNiceyB
    @TheNiceyB 6 днів тому

    #3

  • @christinabrentunknown9598
    @christinabrentunknown9598 22 дні тому

    3 ✅

  • @TheWhiteLily44
    @TheWhiteLily44 22 дні тому

    Pile 3