Chosen ones must AVOID easily triggered disturbed individuals at all Cost

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  • @finnomuiri7051
    @finnomuiri7051 11 місяців тому +80

    Fear of reality , fear of truth , fear of the world makes people on edge , bitchy , compliant to evil etc . And when they see your happy fearless attitude and energy they hate it .

    • @Malacha-q6n
      @Malacha-q6n 11 місяців тому +6

      Omg this is so facts. I was going to make a video on fear very soon. Everything you said in the freaking comment is what my video was going to be about. But yes so true

    • @Designer_TopG
      @Designer_TopG 11 місяців тому +3

      ​@@Malacha-q6n
      Yes , make that video ... and I think they want control. Control through fear and domination. Make the video describing this.

    • @dominusbalial835
      @dominusbalial835 11 місяців тому +2

      Yeah the most horrific realization I came too is that society fundamentally hated my most positive and healthy qualities. I thought they'd hate me for things that deserved hatred, not hating me for things that deserve appraisal and nurturing.
      Worlds literally crazy.

    • @Malacha-q6n
      @Malacha-q6n 11 місяців тому

      @@dominusbalial835 It's backwards that's what it is. This is hell. Everything is flipped.

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 10 місяців тому +1

      They dont got Yashua god in there life never go into prayer to thank him at all

  • @chelseachelseafcsuperfan7220
    @chelseachelseafcsuperfan7220 11 місяців тому +53

    Commendable how seriously this man takes his life

    • @michaelsatoshi705
      @michaelsatoshi705 11 місяців тому +2

      You too are a CHOSEN ONE. God Bless.

    • @Designer_TopG
      @Designer_TopG 11 місяців тому +4

      ​at least terry knows how to stay away from gang stalkers. Ain't nobody gonna scam terry out there.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 11 місяців тому

      He's not going to try to convince the gang stalkers maybe they are "wrong"?@@Designer_TopG

    • @dominusbalial835
      @dominusbalial835 11 місяців тому +3

      Yeah It's commendable that he's trying to help out other people who are as serious as himself.

  • @Malacha-q6n
    @Malacha-q6n 11 місяців тому +10

    They hate me at my job. They dont understand me. They said im too quiet and they call me slasher. I would never slash anyone! One of them even lied on me. Unbelievable. But yes they are mood killers, very negative. They can find something negative to say about anything.. Ive gotten to the point in my life where im starting to see the seriousness of all of this. Its a spiritual battle out here.. I actually used to always wonder why, at any job i went to, my coworkers would only see the bad things that their fellow coworkers did. I would compliment someone's work or whatever and they would be like "oh but watch out cause he does this" " or "he forgot to do that" its just always negative with them.. It definitely reminds me of the things my mom said to me coming up. I was just never good enough. I was good for nothing. Nothing is ever good enough for these entities.....And they really are afraid of us

    • @christopherkim260
      @christopherkim260 11 місяців тому +1

      Never understood this, but you can be good at your job and attract hate. You can be bad at your job and STILL attract hate. It's ashame that people rather see you suffer then be successful. Your right, it's a spiritual battle everyday, keep going. I'd say just stay true to yourself and stay positive. Either way people who are negative will always be like that no matter what you do. The hate out here is real. God bless you

    • @Malacha-q6n
      @Malacha-q6n 11 місяців тому

      @@christopherkim260 i know right💯

  • @djvintagevincenetpricks1269
    @djvintagevincenetpricks1269 11 місяців тому +20

    I concur. It's never too late to change, no matter how tough change becomes as you get older and more decrepit.

    • @beastery1233
      @beastery1233 11 місяців тому

      Been trying to say this these videos got ppl bugging

    • @karamlevi
      @karamlevi 11 місяців тому

      Work only in your range of motion… the range will “on its own”… grow and expand spontaneously.
      As your energy builds… it will just over flow into a new areas of growth.
      As we age… frequency and gentle care is more important. In that calm frame of effort… your grow stronger again.
      Like a plant 🌱.

  • @zinknot
    @zinknot 11 місяців тому +17

    I just spent so much energy trying to help an old friend who was struggling. But I realized he just wasn't able to be happy even if everything was going better than should be expected. He was just going to be a drain. Some of my family is like this, I can't be around them too much or the constant suffering gets to me.

    • @karamlevi
      @karamlevi 11 місяців тому

      Do 3 or 4 things for you. Do them in a row. Then do 1 thing for them…
      Or make it 10/1. What ever works… let’s you be self focused yet still helpful.
      It’s kinda off a fun trick. No need to cut other off. You ratio them… it’s like their cut off but you can still ask them for help or stay social with them occasionally.
      Stops self isolating. Keeps you connected with low taxation.

    • @dominusbalial835
      @dominusbalial835 11 місяців тому

      You can only help people who are ready to help themselves, but not all people who need help are prepared to help themselves. it's like saving a drowning person you have to be careful that they don't drag you underwater with them. Not that you shouldn't try to help those who are struggling but it's something that you should be aware of.

  • @cassondras1435
    @cassondras1435 11 місяців тому +13

    A lot of people are negative, moody, and annoying to talk to and hang around. Especially when you’re higher vibration and a chosen one you hardly complain about anything and get moody (only during spiritual warfare but we are protected and go back to our higher vibration). Sometimes being alone and not overly socializing is best. People can’t match the higher vibrations as much anymore

  • @julienarpin5745
    @julienarpin5745 11 місяців тому +12

    Been watching these videos to stay disciplined in my studies. Test is tomorrow. If I pass I become a Microsoft certified AI Engineer

  • @Wendy-LeeRattenbury
    @Wendy-LeeRattenbury 11 місяців тому +20

    Thank you again for your wisdom , very hard work avoiding the triggers - not people, but memories , regret , loss , songs. I go into the garden and rip weeds out like they are my enemies. I only go out in public when I feel strong enough. Battling the narcissist ex has been a 3 year nightmare - and looks like nothing will get resolved for a few more months. Please, whoever is here , pray for me - I struggle on a daily basis.
    I feel like I'm invisible - I have lost everything.

    • @williearchibald2884
      @williearchibald2884 11 місяців тому +1

      🙏

    • @rustyshackleford4299
      @rustyshackleford4299 11 місяців тому +4

      When you ain't got nothing, you got nothing to lose
      You're invisible now, you got no secrets to conceal.
      I once was lost, but now I'm found
      Was blind but now I see

    • @michaelsatoshi705
      @michaelsatoshi705 11 місяців тому

      You are not invisible my brother. I see you.

    • @Wendy-LeeRattenbury
      @Wendy-LeeRattenbury 11 місяців тому

      @@michaelsatoshi705 Thank you - Sister Wendy :)

    • @Wendy-LeeRattenbury
      @Wendy-LeeRattenbury 11 місяців тому

      @@rustyshackleford4299 So true

  • @bernadettefeeley7031
    @bernadettefeeley7031 11 місяців тому +7

    I found out i have catholic gang bangers trying to smear campaign me too. Too bad NONE of them talked to me personally. They accused me of "judging" yes Im GUILTY of JUDGING RIGHTEOUSLY AGAINST LIARS and I will NEVER SHUT UP esp when young people died bc of this generational sin. Its gonna be nice being alone and not around low frequency people. Thanks for the ENCOURAGING SESSIONS BRO💝💝💝

    • @isaiahyounggod2723
      @isaiahyounggod2723 11 місяців тому +1

      Are they cholos or bloods or crips who are catholic? Sorry I'm just curious what you mean

    • @bernadettefeeley7031
      @bernadettefeeley7031 11 місяців тому +1

      @@isaiahyounggod2723 misled Christians by the vatican

  • @lisajoy8156
    @lisajoy8156 11 місяців тому +4

    I ❤taking mental notes then i pull away . When ppl show you themselves by letting their mask slip & you see their ugly spirit, BELIEVE what you see🫣

  • @lolachlih3136
    @lolachlih3136 11 місяців тому +9

    Wow i was just thinking this to myself just an hour ago about this person I know who spies on me and when i question her about things she quickly goes into denial mode i can see how easily she's triggered by me it's just ludicrous great video Terry thanks!

  • @MessengeroftheMostHigh
    @MessengeroftheMostHigh 11 місяців тому +9

    all ya can do for those who want to remain in defeat mode is to pray for them, and love them from a distance, if you live with them, just try to away from the house as much as you can. Try to stay busy working on yourself, hobbies, go on walks, or something that calms you, so when you go home you can be in a good state of mind when they try and bring ya down because they will try. Hang in there!

  • @troyvine3987
    @troyvine3987 11 місяців тому +17

    This man took the words right outa my mouth.
    Well said Sir.
    Watching and learning from the other side of the world here in Australia.

  • @PopularLoner144
    @PopularLoner144 11 місяців тому +4

    💯 🔥 Laziness...it requires no effort to allow the ebbs and flows of life to keep you in a miserable state. Maintaining a positive high vibrational mindset requires daily deliberate action! 💯 Sadly, most people aren't about this life for real. It's up to those of us who are to raise the frequency and set the standard for those who simply need an example. 💯 ✌️ ❤

  • @nomadronin707
    @nomadronin707 11 місяців тому +3

    I have definitely been one of those ultra-negative people, sometimes you just can't help it, sometimes no matter how much you try to be positive everything seems hopeless. I found help and can balance my emotions much better now.

  • @lorraine4755
    @lorraine4755 11 місяців тому +2

    Yep, I found out yesterday this man in the neighborhood is now being given trouble by the same ones that gave me trouble, he said he will protect himself. Terry knows how bad energy and no good these people are.

  • @wiandewaal
    @wiandewaal 11 місяців тому +2

    It's okay for someone to be miserable. Yet, the best thing you can do for them is... leave them alone. They have a massive backlog of emotional baggage to work through by themselves. You do that work in isolation; solitude. You can NOT pretend happy joy. You cant! You gotta figure your shit out to find your own spark within yourself first. I took a solid decade doing that. The other side of misery is bliss!. You wake up in the morning with a song in your heart, enthusiasm for the day. The project of making "myself" great should feel highly inspirational for yourself. In all areas of balanced responsible living. ☺💥💛

  • @michaelsatoshi705
    @michaelsatoshi705 11 місяців тому +2

    If you have work-ethic with wisdom with a good heart then you are a CHOSEN ONE. All races and religions can be a CHOSEN ONE. The power of God is within all of you.

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome 11 місяців тому +4

    Being safe that's my recommendation from experience, make sure that's your number 1 priority

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 11 місяців тому +1

    Also by what these stalkers do,
    They trying to make you / and us
    Into triggered people .
    They cause stress
    Onto good people.
    Making stress , fear, anxiety , into good people.
    So , we do need to avoid these idiots. Cause the damage it causes us.

  • @TheDoomWizard
    @TheDoomWizard 11 місяців тому +1

    You're on fire pumping out this content. I'm here but UA-cam ignores me.

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome 11 місяців тому +3

    Right something strange I don't know what it is but it's like they need a job or be busier. Shouldn't have time for all that so crazy. Causes so much bullshit

  • @Iciclesoulforever88
    @Iciclesoulforever88 11 місяців тому +3

    Health is wealth is a true fact!!!
    Well said and this is a super powerful video too great job Terry.
    Health physically and mentally and spiritually.
    I got rid of those negative narcissist back in 2022 and never regret it.
    As I see my life improving day by day since then.
    One day at a time and one day success will come.
    Great video!!!

  • @AP-fv2in
    @AP-fv2in 11 місяців тому +10

    Sending ❤ your way! Big hugs Terry! 🌬️ You have made me be a better person even if it is just a tiny bit better. Hopefully one day I can be a great person. I've been really bad in the past and I can't change what has happened but in the past 10 years I have become someone I now love. I used to not love myself. I'm sure through your videos Terry you have helped people who need pep talks. Thank You!

  • @travisstreeter5092
    @travisstreeter5092 11 місяців тому +2

    If you just a unconnected human in this world...prepare for them to come out of the woodwork to help their fellow brothern

  • @cfcantagallo
    @cfcantagallo 11 місяців тому +2

    Everyone has a bad day, including me, but when someone has a bad day every day, they have a serious problem. Life is way too short not to laugh and find humor, especially in things that may be tough to deal with. I've used humor on many occasion to get me through a difficult situation. I really love to make people laugh. I love the sound of their laughter. And I adore people who make me laugh. But there are some individuals who actually get ticked off if you even dare make a joke about anything, especially if it's pertaining to them. Yes, we have to take ourselves seriously but not to the degree that we can't see we're all flawed human beings. My saying is I'm perfect at being imperfect. There is no such thing as absolute perfection. Some people, however, want to portray themselves that way and even the slightest hint that you think differently will make them go absolutely bananas. So I've learned it's best to avoid these kind of individuals and let them go on their miserable way while I go on my merry way.

  • @datdapgotskip
    @datdapgotskip 11 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou. Folks seem to be under the same spell. Rage an hate an jealousy. Group hating. Definitely a dark energy that enters the body.

  • @russellruby1293
    @russellruby1293 11 місяців тому +6

    Thank you I was struggling with this today with a family member

  • @johnjennings9693
    @johnjennings9693 11 місяців тому +2

    Your right Terry been there and witnessed that energy, terrible stuff,

  • @srsizzle
    @srsizzle 11 місяців тому

    Don’t think this brother has ever missed Alhamdulillah 🤙🤙

  • @rochellet1333
    @rochellet1333 11 місяців тому +6

    My narcissist daughter mad because I took grand kids to church on Easter Sunday. To a church she approved before hand. She had a rage fit the next day. Grand kids were so happy at church. A disaster the next day. God help me.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 10 місяців тому

    Properly rised up adults and only ! Properly rised up ! 🧔👆👧👩‍🎓💯

  • @IntenseEmotionz
    @IntenseEmotionz 11 місяців тому +1

    I mean just avoid at all cost. Thank God for this video

  • @licmarthadiaz
    @licmarthadiaz 11 місяців тому +3

    Yeah..move killers, its also the opposite you can have a bitter husband that is never happy with anything...it just drains you..

  • @jasonjones4492
    @jasonjones4492 11 місяців тому +5

    We have to deal with enuff of this kinda crap out in the real world and then at least we can just avoid easly triggered people but unfortunatly allot of us have deal with this nonsense in our own homes which is the worst Ive delt with it in the past and refuse to deal with it anymore which is why Ive for the most part tried to be as independent as humanly possible for whell over a decade now.

  • @MorsOktober
    @MorsOktober 11 місяців тому

    When it comes to people being negative for no reason or having negative energy around you just know that that person is evil and what they do or say has nothing to do with you they were like that before you met them and it'll be like that after you meet them people love their hell they love their own misery they want people to be miserable with so they will try to bring you down don't take it personally it has nothing to do with you.

  • @GLRYB2GD
    @GLRYB2GD 11 місяців тому +4

    They choose to lose. #DontLetThisBeYou

  • @johnjennings9693
    @johnjennings9693 11 місяців тому

    Itake orders but I still stand appart, as Bob Dylan said you gotta serve somebody thanks Terry,

  • @invertedlxxk5650
    @invertedlxxk5650 11 місяців тому +2

    Appreciate you bud!

  • @SurroundedByNonsense
    @SurroundedByNonsense 11 місяців тому +4

    When you've constantly been stripped from more or less everything thus including finance wouldn't you be WRATHFUL and FRUSTRATED with this world while i'm thankful I have little left in order to keep rebuilding it still doesn't excuse the fact that i'm more or less on my arse when involving finance with many bills to pay credit to maintain along with an overdraft payment and added fees its a cut throat world out there and I think its perfectly acceptable to be angry with the world there's plenty to go around yet people always want more for themselves and little if not next to nothing for us called/chosen that doesn't sound fair to me champ!

  • @francesstewart9758
    @francesstewart9758 11 місяців тому +2

    Thanks Terry this is such a powerful message Much needed❤ You are a inspiration ❤️May God Continue to Bless you 🙏

  • @rainbowrisingfreedom369
    @rainbowrisingfreedom369 11 місяців тому

    Yes, everybody has a gift 💝

  • @successizthebestrevenge
    @successizthebestrevenge 11 місяців тому

    Wadup brother reporting live from philly it’s a mess 😅

  • @michaelgiglio1571
    @michaelgiglio1571 11 місяців тому +1

    Tnx mate. So true. Did ask me to contact direct. I lost that link. Mike

  • @garybentlage7225
    @garybentlage7225 11 місяців тому +3

    I try and stay away from negative, controlling people? Those people that u describe are energy vampires?!

  • @Bruno99520
    @Bruno99520 11 місяців тому

    you have a great inside of life as a young man. I agree you cant let anybody get you down with there negativity and cut them out your life! in order to be positive, uplifting. 🎉😂

  • @Bxl19
    @Bxl19 11 місяців тому +3

    I do this all of the time they are pissed cause of it I don’t care

  • @gofgan
    @gofgan 11 місяців тому

    Very true... But it becomes a challenge at work place cos... U don gt to choose who u work wt... Highly toxic pipo

  • @nellycontentent2_
    @nellycontentent2_ 11 місяців тому +1

    This video is a great one thank you bro 🙏🏻

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 11 місяців тому

    Well we don't know what kinda person, we're dealing with , when we see a gang stalker. and so the new deal is we don't speak or use words with any gang stalker.
    We can go to a store or a club, or talk to a known friend , to speak. He's right don't talk to gang stalkers. That would be seen as engaging with them.

  • @allthingshigh
    @allthingshigh 11 місяців тому +2

    So on point man.

  • @swordlion294
    @swordlion294 11 місяців тому

    Great videos. Recently discovered. Keep it up.

  • @flashgordo9485
    @flashgordo9485 11 місяців тому

    I know the people you are talking about. One tried to take my life two weeks ago because I disliked the deal he was presenting and I wanted to back out. Crazy fool tried to run his car- myself as a passenger off of a freeway overpass. We never smashed through the guard railings, but the car was totaled. He got arrested- drunk with a suspended license. I protested against his release, he got out of jail in only 5 stinking days. Now we are back at work, working next to each other knowing full well he tried to grease us both. "Good morning Ralph. Good morning Sam." 🤡🌎

  • @carlportland
    @carlportland 11 місяців тому +2

    They live next door - Both sides

  • @SilentFigure1
    @SilentFigure1 11 місяців тому +2

    I live in Ontario Cannada in Ottawa U would end up in prison here. Most people here entitled either work for government or collecting hand over fist from government contracts or plain just getting a check.
    U R right they are looking for reasons to hate anyone not like them.
    Most people are takers here I know good people here but in 30 years West end Ottawa many many takers.

    • @SilentFigure1
      @SilentFigure1 11 місяців тому

      Just made connection all housing ( low income) is in the west of Ottawa. Man a lot of real pieces of work.

  • @Bawkr
    @Bawkr 11 місяців тому

    Feel like this video was made exactly for me. Took a few steps back to analyze several aspects of my life and act on those

  • @dominusbalial835
    @dominusbalial835 11 місяців тому +1

    A lot of the evil shit people do to each other, isn't really evil at all. it's just traumatized individuals, replicating the abuse they've suffered in their own lives onto other people because they haven't made any attempt to heal themselves mentally at all. that's where a lot of addiction comes from as well, people trying to dissociate from their traumatic experiences instead of acknowledging them and consciously integrating them into their memory and accepting that whatever happened to them happened. Instead, they project their issues onto other people and tear their bodies apart with degenerate behaviours and drugs as a poor quality coping mechanism.

    • @rain73ful
      @rain73ful 11 місяців тому

      Good insight!

  • @luvnation66
    @luvnation66 11 місяців тому +1

    Respect.

  • @Gnuts78
    @Gnuts78 11 місяців тому +1

    ❤OMG BEST EVER ❤

  • @travisstreeter5092
    @travisstreeter5092 11 місяців тому

    Please do a bit on TI and workplace mobbing...then they blacklist you from employment!

  • @joellenzieba1152
    @joellenzieba1152 11 місяців тому

    This is Really True!! I’ve been watched cut off in my car time after time men Don’t like me the most I get Dirty looks from them red faced mean I can just see it! I can’t stand especially in Church people touch me a lot I Can’t stand it! The spell crap is really bad a Cough Drop left in the seat in front of us it was left there so I get Sick I know because I used to Spin at my gym and they left one on my speed Meter then I got a bad cold they are a bunch of crap if you see this you will know Thanks for all you Do and say it Helps.

    • @joellenzieba1152
      @joellenzieba1152 11 місяців тому

      And by the way I’m already Sick Lol .with a cold

    • @joellenzieba1152
      @joellenzieba1152 11 місяців тому

      Everything you say is soo True I didn’t even want to go to College I didn’t know what I wanted my parents where very worried they got over it I wasn’t worried at all I went to hair school I’m not cutting hair I couldn’t stand it I worked at a Funeral home loved it now I’m retired I’m glad thx

  • @3stherhsicard791
    @3stherhsicard791 11 місяців тому

    Mental health is important to

  • @whitelightsheddinweedsmokin
    @whitelightsheddinweedsmokin 11 місяців тому +2

    Yes coach

  • @retroerawrestling2990
    @retroerawrestling2990 11 місяців тому

    Hi Terry Joel Junior

  • @blade3178
    @blade3178 11 місяців тому

    I had need this Video earlier but know i can totally relate to that

  • @gofgan
    @gofgan 11 місяців тому

    I went to ths person who is a family member... I felt so gr8 tht finally i managed to erect a security wall at my property... Not jes erect it but also had electric fence on it. The sad reality is.. I hv supported ths person whn they got married and evn whn they got their kids... I thought they will b happy for me.. Guess wot she simply said.... ' pipo r buying bigger houses and properties out there, i knw a frand who jes bought a big houz wt shiny tiles' and simply brushed me off woteva i said... I got so sad cos all i was hoping for was gr8 news, congrats!!!

  • @shpineda7109
    @shpineda7109 11 місяців тому

    If TJJ has his ears pierced I'm headed to Expressions tomorrow

  • @AChildofGOD1
    @AChildofGOD1 11 місяців тому +5

    You have become the person you educate us not to be !

    • @Rubycella
      @Rubycella 11 місяців тому

      He is that. Obviously.

  • @jamiechippett1566
    @jamiechippett1566 11 місяців тому

    It's all about knowing who you are in CHRIST JESUS! If you have a true relationship with him and know the scriptures then you can show yourself approved of yahweh. Because of this criticism just fall off me like water on a ducks back. Live life and if confronted show yourself approved! If in yahwehs will then he'll provide the right path for you to travel. Negative people are everywhere! I'm not getting inflected by their negativity. I've got awesome friends from high school days and I'm 54. I'd fight in the trenches with them. Been through alot together. Hope this can help anyone.👍🤠🇦🇺 P.s lion and the lamb 😂😂 snap head off! 😂😂😂👍 like your quote 👍 like judah 🦁👑

  • @hugmc
    @hugmc 11 місяців тому

    It’s not your responsibility too make them laugh 😹 be still and know that I am God biblical quote ❤ people forget that the god off this world is here walking too and fro

  • @michaelgiglio1571
    @michaelgiglio1571 11 місяців тому

    Would be good to have a chat.

  • @wsp995
    @wsp995 11 місяців тому

    i finally got away from such person a narcissist that thinks hes all that and a bag of chips

  • @sozl
    @sozl 11 місяців тому +2

    Facts

  • @Rubycella
    @Rubycella 11 місяців тому

    Truth 🎉

  • @rickynorris1694
    @rickynorris1694 11 місяців тому

    Just avoid the negative Ned's and Nancy's.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 11 місяців тому +1

    Backups I still have my art at own house ! Could you give me back my art portfolio ! Please give me back my art portfolio ! Thank you !

  • @thegeminiclub
    @thegeminiclub 11 місяців тому +1

    Is there a rumour going around I’m on krank?
    I just scrolled past something that said krank

  • @connerhenderson7993
    @connerhenderson7993 11 місяців тому

    How’d you know I was a welder

  • @infjmale91
    @infjmale91 11 місяців тому

    "It's very lonely at the top" - No one (because, technically, the smartest person wouldn't make a quote as they wouldn't care on ANY opinion it garners) ((Even me, making this quote; as a joke proves I'm not)) (((Hey, you reading this; I like your shirt; have a nice day))).

    • @1594simonsays
      @1594simonsays 11 місяців тому +1

      You literally have to care about certain opinions in life or your mind would be a blank canvas, you're saying you have never been influenced by someone else in your entire life?

    • @infjmale91
      @infjmale91 11 місяців тому

      @@1594simonsays It depends. I have been burnt more times than I can remember (& having been privy to the fact I was extremely intelligent until I got my ADHD treated).
      As a result, my mind was only on about 75%. I would be like a faulty tap, sometimes being very average, very stupid or crazy good at things.
      School, I found boring, as it's designed for 100 IQ students. As a result, I didn't do exceptionally well (as I found it too long & not stimulating enough).
      I, sadly, fell into a narcissistic friends group who continued to push my skills into the dirt. As far as I was concerned, with my best friend, I was an idiot. It was all a narcissistic trap to get his supply.
      I did have friends (who are all now doctors and professors) but ALWAYS thought they didn't like me for no reason. I was always very sarcastic & witty and think they were jealous (because I wasn't a Dr/Prof).
      As most INFJs and why I didn't do a heavy skilled degree, I fell into creative hobbies. I am left handed so naturally gifted at drawing (look at my latest upload).
      Again, my narcissistic parents, brothers, even romantic partners wouldn't give me TOO much compliments (likely in fear I would abandon them).
      I went into the Merchant Navy, as I needed some direction & ended up passing that without an issue. My biggest successes from that was being able to work on my art & experience very poor countries (which opened my eyes).
      Then, once I finished, I moved into the capital city (with my ex). After 10 years of dating (INFJs stay till the bitter end); we grew apart (as she was average IQ'd) & had started to treat my anxiety/depression which gave me more confidence.
      When I met my ex-wife, she narcissistic-ly used me too. She would love bomb me (as I broke in capital city) and forced me to marry her very quick (as she wanted her Nan there).
      We moved away from the city & I started to notice her narcissistic tendencies. She was very compulsive (common trait) using money, food & sex to fuel her needs.
      She racked up massive debt and was a glutton of a woman (physically). We got a house (from her inheritance) which she made me sign a prenup for (another red flag).
      Once married, it turned out she had hidden the fact she was 7 months pregnant. Suddenly, I had no choice about being a parent or not & had to adapt quick. All the more still not sure if this was a healthy environment to bring them up in.
      Once born, COVID happened and due to complications of the birth; she was unable to do anything. Due to her not planning the pregnancy she didn't even work enough to get maternity pay (like £30k).
      As a result, I was being a dad, working a full time job (at home), maintaining the house & being her maid. She then, lied about being on birth control & got pregnant again.
      In the middle of COVID, we had another son. Again, she had a bad reaction to the birth so I was the main care taker again. While I was doing this, she was secretly having an affair with someone at her work.
      The final nail in the coffin was when she begged me to pay for a gastric bypass surgery. She said "If she was skinny, she would be happier & be nicer". I, stupidly, agreed and signed (MY NAME) on the £16k loan (as she blew her credit).
      To make it worse, without my consent, she then claimed for an IVF which is basically bankruptcy (which has further killed my credit).
      I walked out & she let me see the boys EVERY weekend. She then, changed it to bi-weekly to monthly. One time, I invited my parents to the shared home and her (and her mum) made up a story about how we were trying to abduct them.
      She then stopped me seeing them, put me on a non-molestation order so I couldn't see my boys for a year. I had to move back in with my narcissistic parents (who cannot empathise with me).
      While this was happening, my work also wanted a piece of the action. I had been doing so well at my job & about to renovate the customer's business. My boss (I had 3), was actually taking credit for my successes.
      Once they knew I was weak (I told them about the divorce, my mental health & situation) they triangulated & tried to put me on a disciplinary.
      Them not realising, their mind games didn't work with me (plus I was married to the biggest narcissist). They tried to fatigue me by setting up 2 hour calls EVERY day (at Christmas time) to go through the lies they were spinning.
      I wasn't having any of it so fought on. I was able to hold my ground because I was telling the truth so didn't exhaust me too much. I was mirroring their behaviour back which the bosses, likely, had never seen.
      As the calls were recorded, I knew they were hanging their own nooses so kept cool & calm. One of the bosses get raising her voice to get a reaction out me but I would just put my hands in front of me & go silent. The witnesses to it were seeing her mask peel off.
      I kept saying it was Kangaroo court because my boss was the judge, jury & executioner and it was clear they just wanted me gone. I managed to bring in a witness who was this emphatic senior colleague who I knew they didn't want to see this.
      No surprise, after she was horrified but bound to confidentiality. I knew the seed had been planted (if I did go).
      They couldn't fire me with the disciplinary (as I had made a good case) so gave me a written warning. Literally, an hour after that finalised I got another meeting about going on a PIP (Performance Improvement Programme).
      The new game was they said EVERYTHING I was doing was at the bottom category (which I laughed at & challenged). Again, they make the rules so I couldn't do anything. Essentially, they were giving me 6 months and were talking in a language (Which I called out) that I was going to be gone in the 6 months (before I had a chance to try).
      They kept forcing me to go into the office, in capital city, to see them in person (Even though I was medically exempt due to my anxiety). My male boss invited me up (pretending to be nice) but when I arrive put me in a room (just me & him) and berated me. He was even smiling & getting off on it.
      All so there was no evidence. I complained to HR about the bullying but it was clear she was on their side.
      I managed to wrangle an NDA (as I knew they broke the Equality Act 2010) and couldn't afford to take them to court.
      After that, I got treated for my ADHD & was tested (to identify my IQ and memory). I found out my personality type & noticed common traits. I felt at home & the penny dropped that it was more than likely most people in my life were envious of me.
      Now, I am jobless; not able to see my kids & in heavy debt. Finding a job has been so difficult & I'm just trying to make ends meet.
      I have learnt to appreciate the simpler things in life & love to educate or observe.
      So, do I trust some people; yes. Am I influenced by some people; no. I have been the subject of abuse by my closest people. My dad looked me in the eye and said "I don't trust ANYTHING you say" when I called him out.
      I learnt to become my own person & only thrive off my own merits because not many people (even you) will do so for you.

  • @Happyfeet23
    @Happyfeet23 10 місяців тому

    I feel for death waves my whole life on my happy life based on my mothers hate trade of too me. My dreams where i been i was vilgelent anger built up. This trap I fell into was satantic and went wide spread im not religuous or witch but that was the mock. How do I turn my life around in a world that dont want me

  • @vsboy2577
    @vsboy2577 11 місяців тому

    I reported this video as it makes me feel anxiety .

  • @axiomobliviontruthhurts4767
    @axiomobliviontruthhurts4767 11 місяців тому

    💯

  • @stephfoundos4958
    @stephfoundos4958 11 місяців тому +1

    Right off the bat, before you get into it, you say, "cost you your life"--- except, "My believers won't die"-- Jesus...."Don't fear the wicked"-- Jesus. "Don't camp with the wicked"-- David. But "Don't fear those who can kill you in the flesh"-- Jesus. "Even if we die, we live"-- Paul.❤...so, continue

    • @spaceted3977
      @spaceted3977 11 місяців тому

      It's very unwise to think you are immune to Evil when you associate with bad people. My advice is keep as far away from then as you can get, or they will ensnare you. They are more Cunning than you could ever imagine. It's like trying to make friends with a Crocodile !!!!

  • @BellaD-
    @BellaD- 11 місяців тому

    🤞🏽🤍

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 11 місяців тому

    Welding
    - discussion about welding ,
    at 9. Minutes .50 seconds.

  • @coolguycoolguy7267
    @coolguycoolguy7267 11 місяців тому +2

    Yo terry

  • @Vvrroommm
    @Vvrroommm 11 місяців тому +1

    7 Weird Things That Happen When A Sigma Male Gets MAD
    Wise Sigma
    ua-cam.com/video/tYqQB3Iix78/v-deo.html